How do I implement trp in high school from scratch (too far gone at this point)

Forgot_Pword · 2017-11-16T02:20:15+00:00

High school is a complicated environment. Focus on self improvement and success in your goals following 3 steps (Train smart, train with effort, and train consistently )

I don't know you well enough to know what you should do, but from my experience in high school you probably have the urge to nut in anything with a vagina and a pulse. Don't fantasize too much. Take an inventory of what you have and where you're starting from and work towards where you want to be.

unexpected_calves · 2017-11-16T03:05:05+00:00

It's pretty obvious you haven't read the complete sidebar yet. Read it IN ITS ENTIRETY. I guarantee most of your problems will be fixed after you read and internalize it.

I am also in high school and have improved myself a fuckton after I was introduced to TRP, so I'm going to give you a guide that'll fix you right up. You have to put in the fucking work though, and it's going to be tough, so don't be a bitch and quit right away.

(Quick Note: You said you have a nice guy reputation, never had a girlfriend, and are surrounded by betas. You also said you were a long time lurker, so you know that in order to improve, you had to get shit done. You didn't though. If you want to fix your shit, act on it.)

I assume you don't play any sports. Read "How to Win Friends and Influence People", "No More Mr. Nice Guy", and "The 48 Laws of Power". If you read, actually study, and take notes on these books, you will be able to dominate any social situation you encounter with other people.
If you don't know what your reputation is, you need to strive to be someone. Be the kid that absolutely aces all of his tests because you put in the work studying and did all of your homework and extra credit. Talk to everyone. Join clubs. This will put you in a good social standing with other people. Also, focus on getting above a 30 on your ACT or whatever the equivalent on your SAT.
Being surrounded by betas is your own fault. Fix it by finding new groups of friends to hang out with. It'll be hard leaving your current group of friends. You don't have to completely ditch them, go ahead and talk to them every once in a while after you start improving. You will soon see that after you have started improving yourself for about a year, you cut out all the toxic and non-beneficial people in your life. You'll make new friends from clubs and sports.
Girlfriends don't matter right now. Only you matter to yourself. (Spoiler alert: no one gives a shit about you except your parents right now. Everyone is focused on themselves.) Once you actually become someone, the girls will start coming. Also for a tip on school dances such as homecoming: go by yourself. I went by myself and got danced on because I just approached a girl and asked to dance. You can have fun with women though. Take some chances, just make sure you wrap it and pull out.
You need to join a sport. Seriously. Most of your social status in high school will come from joining a sport. You will meet alphas in almost every sport in high school. The sport I recommend most is wrestling. It'll toughen you up so much by the end of high school you will have a six-foot beard and muscles on your muscles. (Most likely though you'll just be super toned, and clean shaven, as you can't have a beard during the season.) If you don't join wrestling it is a fucking mistake. It is pretty much the HARDEST sport in high school, so don't quit as soon as you join. Toughen the fuck up and bear the pain. The first two weeks are hell, but it gets easier. Promise. If you are unable to join a sport because of whatever excuse, try and become a team manager.
I cannot stress the importance of this tip, you read it everywhere on TRP. You need to start lifting and bulking. Lift every morning before school, or if you have the option to take a lifting class during school, take it. You most likely are skinny fat or skinny, so to gain muscle you need to lift and bulk up. This will massively increase your SMV. Head to /r/gainit and read up on bulking. If you are fat, they also have answers about cutting in the FAQ.
Keep yourself clean. Hygiene is super important to learn, as no one likes being near that kid with greasy hair, bad breath, and a shit ton of acne. If you need help with acne, check out /r/skincareaddiction
You mentioned you need to up your dressing game. Absolutely you need to, this isn't a fucking question if you should or should not. You need a nice wardrobe of chinos, nice shoes, button up shirts, flannels, and make sure they are fucking fitted, as shirts that aren't fitted to your body look like shit. Head over to /r/malefashionadvice for more information on clothes.
READ. There is a reason smart people read, and that is to become more knowledgeable. Reading will make you smarter and its a good form of entertainment. Replace video games and tv shows for reading. Read biographies such as "Steve Jobs".
It's not only the grind, but also the fun stuff. Your hobbies make you interesting as well as reading books as previously mentioned. Take up hobbies like mountain biking, bouldering, hiking, urban exploration, programming (learn anyway), fishing (all men should do this), hunting, obstacle course running, disc golf, photography, or whatever else you are interested in. You need a hobby, or else you will become bored with focusing on academics and sports.

That is all the information I have to offer you. Now you need to apply it.

I can't do this stuff for you, you need to become disciplined and do it for yourself. Create a schedule and a journal. Write in your journal every day about what you have done to improve. Follow the schedule so you can prevent procrastination.

I'll always have access to this account, so message me or post a field report when you have improved to where you don't need advice anymore.

Title	How do I implement trp in high school from scratch (too far gone at this point)
Author	Exhibente
Upvotes	3
Comments	4
Date	November 16, 2017 12:20 AM UTC (8 years ago)
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