How do I know I am making progress despite the results?

3x8-12 · 2018-02-17T22:20:07+00:00

We can't help you make the right moves if you don't know where you're going wrong. We need more information.

360_no_scope_upvote · 2018-02-17T22:57:49+00:00

1 out of 10 women I meet will move on to become something more, and even then I might fuck up somewhere along the way.

yeah that's the game. Not every woman you fuck will end up being a plate, not every girl you kiss will fuck you or return your calls. It's learning to accept that it's a numbers game.

That's why approach is so highly pushed on redpill, because sometimes it's gonna take a lot of fucking approaches to line up a fuck. Some weeks I fuck every girl I take interest in, other times, I have no new fucks for weeks. That's why abundance mentality is key. Get some plates for casual sex. You also need to realize when a woman is wasting your time. The way I do this is by 2 flakes in a row = soft next, if she reaches out to you and setup another date which she flakes again = hard next. Simple 3 strikes rule.

moontripper1246 · 2018-02-18T06:25:56+00:00

So my goal is to get something more from each girl from what I got from the previous one

haha have fun with that. Walking around beating yourself up b/c you didn't do as well as you wanted to, and then demanding that you have to do even better on the next one, and even better after that. Game is hard bud, you gotta go easy on yourself and enjoy the process.

I don't recognize my mistake(s) how can I learn from them?

This is a very good question and the answer to it is WRITE FIELD REPORTS. If you write down what you did, but don't know where you went wrong, you can show it to other dudes and they can shine some light on the situation. Literally how game has been progressed since it's inception.

Most of the time I get flaked, or friend zoned

Very generally it sounds like you aren't making enough of an emotional impact or taking it sexual enough. look up chick crack, push pull, devaluation, statements of intent, and sexualizing the interaction. How much do you kino and EC atm?

So my goal is to get something more from each girl

Like thats a great goal and it sounds like it makes sense from the standpoint of someone who never games. But when you're in field your success can't be measured by the girls reaction. That's asking for a disaster. It has to be measure by your own personal input. Ex: I go out and expect myself to get a kiss close. I don't and I feel like shit b/c of it, this in turn causes my successive approached to be worse which lowers the probability of me getting good reactions (b/c game is a self fulfilling profecy). Instead, if I go out and my only criteria is to approach and try my best (whatever that means) then approaching and going for the kiss and getting rejected anyways is still a success and that boosts my emotional state, which in turn increases the probability of a girl kissing me when I go for it next time.

You'll figure that out if you go out for 4 months in a row. Not if you lift and cold approach occasionally.

Title	How do I know I am making progress despite the results?
Author	_justaNickname2
Upvotes	1
Comments	3
Date	February 17, 2018 10:15 PM UTC (8 years ago)
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