I met with this girl from uni past semester but besides some playful banter I never bothered to make a move. I found her hot but after adding her on fb I saw she was in a Long distance relationship so I hesitated at first.

She seemed really excited to talk to me when we would meet in campus and whenever she saw me about to roll a cigarette she always suggested to roll one for me.

I asked her to hang out past weekend and she overslept.

She texted me after saying so but I just saw the msg and didn't reply. So she textse the next morning asking to hang out that day, but I told her I was busy. She then suggested another day to hang out so I figured she was interested.

Now I don't know if she thought it was a friendly hangout but I assumed she knew I liked her.

So we meet at 9pm on Tuesday and we went for a walk around town, and at some point she even mentioned she was on her period while we were talking about swimming(which i found odd perhaps she was signaling that nothing was about to happen or am simply overthinking this) .

We walked around town for a bit and then I suggested to go to my place for a movie. We got some waffles and headed home.

So we went to my place and i put some music on and sat on the sofa for a while eating the waffles. All the while the vibe felt weird. She then stood up and sat on my office chair and started changing songs and showing me video clips on youtube.

After a while I said let's put on a movie to get her back to the sofa next to me. She said "it's already too late I have to wake up early for uni".

So we kept talking and I was sitting on the sofa while she was on the chair. I just couldn't figure out a way to kino, what was I supposed to do? pull her from the chair?

As the night progressed I felt the boring vibe and am sure she felt it too. We kept talking about songs etc and when I told her come here next to me she said no am fine here.

She kept showing me stuff on youtube and I couldn't take control of the situation.

After an hour or so she left to go sleep for uni. I don't know if she had me friendzoned before tonight, or if I just fucked up tonight, but this really sucks. I haven't had a girl to my place in a long time, and I felt like a boring fuck.

I don't know why she came to my place, but wouldn't she at least allow a small window for me to escalate? Come close to me or something? The conversation was great and we had lots of laughs, but no sexual tension.

it's not about this girl, it's about me sucking, am sure she wouldn't be excited to meet again. I wasn't like this with her usually, for some reason that day wasn't my day. If it were today I feel I would make a better move.

So we haven't talked since, and I kinda want some closure so I was thinking if I should ask her to meet again, and when I should contact her.

I was thinking of texting her either today or Saturday, or if she texts me tomorrow (my birthday) to ask her out then.