Hi!

So long story short, I moved back to Europe after spending my teens/twenties as I white guy in Asia, perfectly aware that my SMV got +3 boost just for being white and making decent cash, I was spinning plates like any man should do.

Now I am somewhat an average Joe, I don't get laid and I don't really know why. I do lift. I have cool hobbies. How do I know what I should work on to get back to a decent SMV?