Right now I am fairly good with talking to other men. I had to spend a good month or two overcoming my shyness towards girls but I finally did it. Now i’m wondering how can I get better at being “normal” around girls. Even tho I’m not afraid to talk to them the things I say are weird and awkward but i’m pretty well liked amongst my circle of guy friends. I want to be able to talk normally with guys and girls before I even start with Game and books like How To Win Friends