All my life, since I was a little kid, I was serious as fuck. I'd take no shit from nobody. I've never been goofy around no one,especially women ( well maybe around the homies ). Think daniel craig, but without even a grin. I've been trying to make myself feel more "loose" and I've improved a bit but I still wanna be better, I wanna be "spontaneous".

I wanna learn how to laugh when in tough situations, how to laugh at a woman's shit test instead of feeling the need to flip it back on her in a serious manner, how to be able to make a joke out of anything, be able to tease a woman about anything ..etc

The only times that I'm funny is when I'm consciously doing it, like through text. A woman texts me something and if I can think hard enough I'll find something pretty funny, but that's texting, it ain't shit ..

Sure I'd crack hilarious jokes when I'm in a group of friends ( when I'm with my friends, they tell me I'm funny as fuck), but not when I'm 1 on 1 with a woman. When I'm alone with her, I turn all serious and shit, like she's talking to the terminator.

Now I don't even know if that's something I have to learn, but a lot of guys here say that it's a good trait to have. What made me make this post was something I've just seen on youtube, it was patrice o'neal talking about the importance of being able to make a woman laugh. Or maybe I understood him wrong, maybe he just meant like a rare joke here and there.