18 yo / 6’3 / 224lbs(I’m on a bulk, I’m not a fatty). I live in the north of Europe

I have had tinder for 3 weeks in total: ~100 matches(age 18-20), 50-60 openers(should probably text more of my matches), 25 conversations which actually led somewhere, 3 dates in total which all led to F-close.

I don’t know if I should just come to peace with that it’s a numbers game and that girls are addicted to attention and flaky, or that my game is fucking wack.

I’ve read numerous tinder guides;

  • my openers are good

  • I usually get girls off the app in 5-6 messages(mostly banter)

  • I’ve tried being straight forward and set up dates immediately after getting off tinder, hasn’t worked a single time.

  • I’ve tried building rapport for a day or two(sometimes more), in many cases they show great interest, reciprocate, double text when I don’t answer; then I try to set up a date, nah they are busy or say yes and then flake, no rescheduling.

My conclusion: 97% of girls on tinder are looking only for attention or my game is doodoo.

The people of my country are socially autistic compared to Americans(day game is tabu, so is asking a girl for her number) so maybe I should have a different approach compared to what works in the US, but women are women so probably not.

I know that when I get jacked as shit in a few years and grow into my frame I will have an easy time, but for now, is it supposed to be this difficult or is my game garbage?