When I try to be logical I tend to over analyze things and become anxious and just freeze up

Then I hear somebody giving me advice like Bruce Lee "dont think, feel" but what do you do when your feelings aren't aren't tuned?if I follow my feelings I'll end up being friendzoned and submissive.

I'm just so fucking lost I dont know what to do I can't even make an opinion for myself. People call me smart but all the things I know are things I've memorised from others. Smart people are people that created the red pill when I tell red pill advice to someone they're like "wow you're so smart" and I just get sad because that's not really my advice its YOUR advice, I would never be able to come up with it on my own.

I can't make my own opinion about something and I can't be original.