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I mean, you can treat this as just being human. We need new stimuli to stay engaged and feel like we're going somewhere. Now... life can be great and you can feel simply bored and tired of the same shit, even though it brings you great life on paper. If shit is mundane, you probably have means to save time and dedicate it to something beyond that. You mention you're lonely. What exactly do you mean by that? Do you mean you have no people in your life at all? Probably not... You mention you have …
/r/askTRP28/12/20 11:37 PM
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Sounds like a bulging disk. You might wanna search for good physio. Also, avoid any weighted back exercise. In the meantime hang off a bar as if you wanted to do pull-ups but completely relax your spine. It'll stretch it out and allow disks to realign a bit. Try to move around your pelvis as you hang of that bar but do it slowly and gently. Theres no joke with back injuries. You leave it untreated and you'll regret it in a few years. Take care and Godspeed brother!
/r/askTRP18/09/20 11:26 PM
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Not my first rodeo with this kind of shit. In all cases it turned out to be either a scare or their tactics. There is no such thing as no-coparenting anywhere. Nobody (including the state) has the ability to force you into marriage. Not even your parents (they can pressure you) but ultimately its your decision. Worst comes yo worst you leave the town. Co-parenting is simply living separately and taking care of the kiddo on some agreed terms, which is how it works in most countries. You're reacti…
/r/askTRP17/09/20 12:05 AM
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First of all, don't be a bitch and don't panic. Your life is not ruined. Find some balls and start thinking clearly. My first question is: when was the time she took her first morning after pill? In general, you're 99% likely to not have gotten her pregnant - that's the condom's statistical guarantee. Second thing is, even if you're in the unlucky 1%, it is highly probable the 3 morning after pills have done their job. Congratulations, your chance of getting her pregnant dropped to like 0.1%, st…
/r/askTRP16/09/20 11:53 PM
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Dating a 22 year old who was a good girl and waited for (in her mind) her one and only (me). Don't ya worry about my n-count and stop making assumptions
/r/askTRP04/12/19 04:03 PM
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Don't have to, that's the advantage of LTRing a virgin.
/r/askTRP04/12/19 03:54 PM
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It does matter. N-count of >10 for example would automatically disqualify her from LTR prospects for me
/r/askTRP04/12/19 11:11 AM
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Making herself the prize. She wants you to work for her attention. She also might have a slight rape fetish. If you're not very bothered about keeping her as a plate, just reduce non-face-to-face contact to a minimum and make yourself the prize. You've shown her your intentions. She's making it hard for you. Reduce the attention and her hamster will start spinning.
/r/askTRP03/12/19 08:58 AM
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There is no way to salvage this. Bang whenever you can, ignore the rest and work on yourself. Go and see a therapist (male, old-school, not some new-age feminist). Be prepared that she is still fucking other guys and that you can't do anything about it. Start gaming other women, preferably bringing them back to the house whilst she's there. You have no reason to explain anything to her. Assume the two of you are no longer together and at best, she is a hole you occasionally fuck. How low can a h…
/r/askTRP02/12/19 09:06 AM
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Don't do it next time. Meet your needs first instead of being captain-save-a-bro
/r/askTRP01/12/19 10:26 PM
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But she did. Look at what they do not what they say. Stay silent and text to confirm right before, this is what creates mystery.
/r/askTRP27/11/19 11:36 PM
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Why do you care? Drink less next time
/r/askTRP25/11/19 10:12 PM
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Stop giving up at every resistance point. Treat it as a challenge
/r/askTRP20/11/19 07:35 PM
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How about stop being incel?
/r/askTRP17/11/19 12:12 PM
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You don't make anybody cheat. She is a grown up and understands consequences of her decisions. If she agrees, thats on her
/r/askTRP16/11/19 12:15 PM
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For some reason, you two are no longer together. Think clearly about what that reason is. The next step is to imagine yourself in the time the breakup happened: what was your thought process at that time? were you aware of RP at that time? taking her behaviour from that time, run it through the red flag checklist, anything interesting pops up? You're having trouble with letting go because you are stuck at the memories of her from that time. Your brain almost relieves that moment, including all o…
/r/askTRP15/11/19 03:18 AM
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Start paying less and less attention to her and see what happens.
/r/askTRP12/11/19 05:13 PM
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So you basically are describing shitty women and blue pilled men. Which doesn't change the fact women are naturally prone to being sad about rejections as their entire self-worth is based on other people's opinions.
/r/askTRP31/10/19 10:21 PM
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Okay so a few things... You LTRd her straight away - wrong! She has daddy issues - no LTR material. She dropped you because she is branch swinging to another dick. Just because you were dominant in bed, doesn't mean you weren't beta with all your cute dates etc. Basically, you gave her commitment straight away, she got bored and had to find an excuse to ditch you so she picked up on your sporadic contact. She is not a unicorn, she is not special. STFU, lift and get back with your plates for a go…
/r/askTRP31/10/19 04:55 PM
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Stop focusing on it. Improve your life, work hard, start socialising without alcohol and you'll get there.
/r/askTRP30/10/19 07:45 PM
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Ignore
/r/askTRP30/10/19 07:39 AM
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Aspect 1: Women need men for grander direction in life. Think of hiker girls, biker girl, girls who like climbing. In most cases they adopted these hobbies by following what alpha partners were doing. They are followers. Aspect 2: when you interact with women, the shit test you. This is to see how much space they can fill in - a.k.a. how far they can push you until your frame breaks. Her behaviour in many cases has nothing to do with real problems or issues. She's causing drama to see whether yo…
/r/askTRP30/10/19 06:53 AM
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No you're not. That's how you rationalise the fact that you want to dig through trash yet another time. There is a reason why she was/is/will be your ex (or whatever else you want to call your current situation with her). There are 2 possible reasons why she is behaving shit: your fault and her fault. Your fault would be poor boundary management and hers... Well being a woman and behaving like a shitty teenager which is what she is deep down. You cannot fix her. You can't change a woman, which i…
/r/askTRP29/10/19 11:06 PM
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What for?
/r/askTRP29/10/19 10:47 PM
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Why not find yourself a nice set of plates? The thing you're describing is toxic af
/r/askTRP29/10/19 10:42 PM
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You're busy
/r/askTRP28/10/19 10:11 AM
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You haven't lost anything valuable. If anything you've gained a new outlook on life which is clearer and more focused. If your brain is guiding you towards new challenges and releases all these feel-good hormones when you overcome them, why change that? You are your own captain and if the captain says: "All sails on East", then do that. At some point the captain might say: "Hey lads, correct course 4 degrees towards pussy", then follow your captain too! Its only bad if your captain is obviously …
/r/askTRP25/10/19 11:30 PM
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Yes. Just have fun. Don't be pushy. Take the next couple of years as the tutorial to a video game with a possibility of making a baby if you don't wrap your fella up (so do that). She won't be your wife (99%) so it doesnt really matter how many mistakes you'll make. It never really does as there's always a next lady you can game. Just learn from them. You're 17... All I cared about at that age was to go out with my mates, play games and not give a fuck. Do the same. If you have a gf, be yourself…
/r/askTRP21/10/19 09:12 PM
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So you want to base your self-worth and confidence on admiration of a side hoe? You've got it the wrong way around bro.
/r/askTRP21/10/19 07:22 PM
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Alcohol + him psyching himself up + long time no fuck = temporary ED. Don't need to drink to relax. She already agreed to meet him, come to his house, "snuggle"... She's screaming: "I want you to fuck me but won't tell you that directly". He has absolutely nothing to worry about. Treat it as an easy lay
/r/askTRP21/10/19 07:17 PM
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He's 17. He'll have to update his knowledge as he goes along as 17yos are fuvking dumb and live in a fairy tale world. Wait till she get to around 21-23, she'll have to be gamed drastically different than now.
/r/askTRP21/10/19 07:14 PM
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Cause she wanted a comparison or to see how you react and judge whether you care.
/r/askTRP20/10/19 10:29 PM
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Since when appreciation is a bad thing? Not everybody had a best friend, not everybody knows how it is to have a best friend or why they should strive to have one. Try it sometime, you might like it ;)
/r/TheRedPill19/10/19 01:37 AM
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Need to rewatch the trilogy
/r/TheRedPill19/10/19 12:06 AM
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Maybe you relax more when you've been drinking and that lets you not overthink your interaction with the girl? If a girl agrees to come out for a date she thinks you're attractive. The lack of progress afterwards is your fuckup, most likely lack of game and strong frame.
/r/askTRP16/10/19 10:01 AM
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Channel the energy towards career. Tell yourself: "I will fuck this deadline so hard it will scream - yes, give me more daddy!"
/r/askTRP12/10/19 11:32 AM
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She wanted to finish the explanation because you didn't want to listen. You took the rejection like a man and it became clear to her that if it won't be her, it will be another girl that you'll be banging. She wanted to keep you as an orbiter. I assume you stopped giving her attention after the rejection. She saw she is losing the orbiter so she became "upset". More like she got trashed drunk because she wanted you to see it, come to her and give her the attention she wants. Now she is acting je…
/r/askTRP09/10/19 04:07 PM
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First of all, she is not a LTR material is she disrespects you in front of others. Secondly, you're most likely lacking dread game. She feels comfortable you don't have other options. Yes, focusing on yourself is the best way to go about this, and I mean fully. Hit the gym, start thinking of compiling a nice wardrobe, haircut etc. Find a hobby which will fill up your free time. The last thing on your priority list should be your LTR. She must subconsciously realise that she isn't the princess on…
/r/askTRP08/10/19 11:14 PM
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If Europe, try Prague, Budapest, Krakow. Sightseeing is cool, also parties
/r/askTRP06/10/19 11:50 AM
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Its because you jerk off. You taught yourself that your hand feels good and now everything else is shit. Stop porn, stop jerking off. About blowjobs, tell her how you like it or tell her what you don't like so she doesn't do it.
/r/askTRP05/10/19 10:32 PM
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Oh they know it very well. They love the orbiter attention but will never admit it so you keep thinking of her as of a unicorn and not an attention whore.
/r/askTRP03/10/19 04:20 PM
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First of all, stop overthinking. Repeat the date and you'll probably get the pussay easily. LMR is not always a bad thing, it shows she wants to be seen in a good light in front of you (she cares). Also, the fact she followed the ideas instilled in her by her father is a green flag.
/r/askTRP01/10/19 08:27 PM
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Also, you might wanna discretely suggest an open relationship to her. Just say that it has been on your mind and that you want to explore some things.
/r/askTRP01/10/19 08:18 PM
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She brought it up with you (good thing). She wants to go because other girls do (bad thing). She'll suck dick on that holiday if they tell her to. Not a LTR material! I'd soft next right now and see what happens. If she'll catch the message that this is crossing your boundaries and decide not to go regardless of what her girlfriends say, that's good. If she goes, its a done deal. By going she spits in your face saying: "I don't respect you, your boundaries mean nothing to me, I want to ride some…
/r/askTRP01/10/19 08:15 PM
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They're Hollywood stars. Hollywood is one of the methods blue pilled ideas get ingrained in young men's minds. Now... these guys work there. If you went to work for the military, don't you think you'd adopt some of their mentality/behaviour?
/r/askTRP27/09/19 09:41 PM
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Women approach the wall near their 30s. Men approach their best years near their 30s. 20yo's don't go for you because you probably look your age. 30yo's go for you because you probably give off the provider vibe. Work on your image to look and behave more alpha at the same time not too intimidating to not scare off the 20yo's
/r/askTRP27/09/19 09:38 PM
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I mean, the guidelines are there for a reason but also a representation of an average male, with some safe deviations from the mean. I wouldn't try to jump onto HRT therapy but maybe consult your doctor first and see if there are other options (preferably related to lifestyle changes)
/r/askTRP27/09/19 08:14 PM
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Exactly why... Jesus... Ideologs hold their worldviews no matter what and try to change everyone else's ones, just like you do
/r/askTRP27/09/19 05:23 PM
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Like 80% of the society given the data doesn't support their world view. Learn to shut the fuck up
/r/askTRP27/09/19 01:16 PM
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After 2nd date, stop setting up dates at places and start setting them up at your place. Just say you want to cook something with her and tell her (don't ask) to pack an overnight bag as "the cooking might take us a while 😉" Don't overthink shit
/r/askTRP27/09/19 12:57 PM
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Why do you argue with an equivalent of a hormone-raging teenager? Other than that, women are followers and will follow an ideology.
/r/askTRP27/09/19 12:52 PM
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Speaking from the point of view of human mind. If you have to do something that is not immediately resulting in a dopamine response, your brain will try to discourage you. Basically, you need to force yourself to do the activity for 15-30min until your brain kicks in and gets into the zone, then you just do it.
/r/askTRP27/09/19 06:36 AM
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It all depends. If your next step is something that will get you closer to your ultimate career destinau, then by all means do it. If you're swapping a 100k banker salary for a job in KFC, you might want to rethink some things
/r/askTRP26/09/19 09:26 PM
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Not putting in 100% in your career, bad investments, wrong relatioships with men and women. The list can go on. Focus on building a life that can sustain you. Then think about the women.
/r/askTRP26/09/19 09:19 PM
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Because every fuckup you do in your 20s is more likely to be taken as: "Oh, he's still in his 20s, let him pass". As you approach 30s and 40s, everyone expects you to have your shit figured out.
/r/askTRP26/09/19 09:12 PM
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Daddy issues comment has a point, although I would target the upper-20s lower-30 range, simply because they've most likely ridden the cock carousel already and are approaching the wall - desperate. About spinning plates... You mention you want to focus on one rather than multiple. That's completely fine if you're doing this from a time-saving perspective and not the lack of abundance one. You want her to know that you have options but choosing to pursue her because of time (not overtly of course…
/r/TheRedPill18/09/19 02:41 PM
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I feel like your response to them was good. It shows you have boundaries. You might feel that way because they pay you and you're not sure whether your boundaries will affect their decision to maintain your employment. Personally, no job is worth changing your lifestyle unless: A - the job is part of a longer plan for your career and not just a moneymaker B - your lifestyle consists of cheetos and porn
/r/askTRP18/09/19 11:31 AM
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Shit test: a way for a woman to check your frame and SMV. If you're attractive and radiate an alpha vibe, she doesn't need to test shit.
/r/askTRP18/09/19 09:27 AM
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Usually works well after sex for me. They go all mushy
/r/askTRP16/09/19 06:56 AM
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The traditional TRP way would probably be the rock. Personally, I'd go for a rock who is not an autistic, sociopathic empty shell and can be romantic if he so desires. Of course it all has to stem from a strong frame. It should be your decision to be romantic with a girl, not coming from the idea that she'll break up with you or withhold sex if you aren't romantic. You do you, she does herself.
/r/askTRP14/09/19 06:53 PM
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Who cares, give it one more go if she's down but not more. Some are weird about these things. Also, they will usually give you shit before they put out. Typically not worth the wait as they tend to have a hyped up image of themselves and have a princess syndrome. Might be good but be cautious with your time and effort.
/r/askTRP14/09/19 06:25 PM
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Happens, my last plate was a kissless virgin who turned out to be really into BDSM and submissive once she got through to 3rd base. Personally, make it seem as if you don't want to kiss her. Get close but then put on a grin and change the subject somehow. It makes their hamsters go: "Did he just try to kiss me? Why didn't he? Does he not like me? Blah blah blah". Few of these and she'll go for it herself.
/r/askTRP14/09/19 06:19 PM
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The easiest way to get out of a dry spell is to frame everything in life around self-improvement. Work, go to the gym, read, improve your appearance and interpersonal skills etc. If you focus on those in 100%, you will slowly learn to appreciate the little successes you make. They will give you validation that you're doing something good. Once you've improved, women and sex will come naturally as they're drawn to strong, successful men. But at that point they won't really need to validate you. T…
/r/askTRP14/09/19 12:32 PM
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Its a one big shit test. Agree and amplify. But for real, they have to advertise it like that so the libtards won't be offended. Once you start the course, you're likely gonna focus on studying, or at least you should. At the end of the day, AWALT, regardless of the Uni's inclination towards idiocracy, so you shouldn't have trouble banging some students. In terms of arguing, don't. The society is turning towards this bullshit anyway. You'll find it everywhere, not just uni. Learn to shut up, do …
/r/askTRP14/09/19 08:08 AM
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Yeah, LDRs don't last. Sooner or later, she'll get drunk and kiss/fuck some other guy. You'll either get to know about it or not. Assume the LTR is over and fuck local bitches. Best of luck
/r/askTRP12/09/19 02:15 PM
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Autism is strong with this one
/r/askTRP11/09/19 08:40 AM
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Touching upon your interview example, sure if your potential job is a desk job as a data cog. If you're aiming to be a field salesman or a banker or a lawyer, being alpha is desired.
/r/askTRP10/09/19 03:51 PM
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You're not her cry-out-to-me friend. You're her man. Stop helping out with her "crisis". She has no crisis... Her pussy has some cravings for an alpha cock. She is losing attraction to you and wants to ride the cc. Although you might look good and be a successful guy, your frame is probably weak af. You supplicate to her by explaining shit to her. She wants your attention, she gets it, she gets bored. Sorry to break it to you but either she fucked somebody on that holiday or she is about to fuck…
/r/TheRedPill10/09/19 08:28 AM
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There is a reason she is your ex. Don't dig through trash, you'll get dirty.
/r/askTRP08/09/19 07:26 AM
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Respond with: "Who are you?"
/r/askTRP08/09/19 07:23 AM
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Don't overcomplicate things with this. Yes, remind yourself once. But don't ask her what she wants to do again. She is most likely a clueless virgin. Lead her. When you get into kissing again, just grab her hand and get her to your house, the slowly progress to fucking her. Virgins have absolutely no clue about what to do in terms of sex. They want it like crazy but are scared to act on it. Your job is to make it as hassle free for her as possible. Take initiative and be a man.
/r/askTRP06/09/19 04:48 PM
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Read your edit. If she is a virgin, she might be scared of fucking you. You might sound creepy if your flirt sexually in texting, even though she responds with flirting.
/r/askTRP06/09/19 04:19 PM
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You're too available. Text for logistics only
/r/askTRP06/09/19 03:38 PM
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Yes
/r/askTRP06/09/19 07:08 AM
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You've been emotionally manipulated. Whether she knew she was manipulating you or not, that's a different story. Women do this shit subconsciously, as its part of their mating strategy - keep hitting your frame until it cracks. Soften you up with keywords like: "I love you", then hit it with something like an argument, shit tests or comfort tests to see whether you maintain your boundaries. What probably happened was that when you argued, you lost your frame (engaging in an argument is a lost ga…
/r/askTRP02/09/19 10:34 PM
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No bio, good quality photos showing my body whilst I do some fun activity. No selfies
/r/TheRedPill02/09/19 02:34 PM
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Good to have you back from the abyss brother!
/r/TheRedPill01/09/19 07:35 AM
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Many things. Talking about yourself too much. Not escalating from the get go. Not passing shit tests.
/r/askTRP29/08/19 03:44 PM
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Your post makes sense, although written slightly from a blue pill perspective. The narrative goes: "give women what they want from you" which is basically changing yourself to satisfy expectations of women, whatever they would be. The pointers about being superior are all correct, although should stem from you naturally being a strong, focused guy, not because women expect that from you subconsciously. This is what you'd call a strong frame. You are you, regardless of her expectations, the socie…
/r/TheRedPill26/08/19 09:16 PM
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If that's what you've taken out of the community then maybe its time to leave it
/r/TheRedPill26/08/19 07:05 PM
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Have you read the post or just skimmed it? The whole point of it was that even if you can't lift, for whatever reason, you should still have the journey oriented mindset. You don't have to lift. I had the same problem with my back. Few months of newbie squatting and deadlifts with no form did it for me. Pins and needles in my leg, shooting nerve pain, tightness in the lumbar spine. Turned out to be a bulging disk. Got some physio for it, then moved onto really intense stretching, and I mean 1-2h…
/r/TheRedPill25/08/19 10:12 PM
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Great to hear you have the right mindset. At some point, you will really stall, everyone does. Don't get depressed or frustrated, simply find another thing that you can obsess about ;)
/r/TheRedPill25/08/19 01:29 PM
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What's wrong with that? Women, believe it or not, also have preferences as to men's body type. Whilst you might not fit within the "buff" type, you will within the "althetic, tough guy" type. Don't try to tick all boxes of every woman ever. Do what makes your purpose sense tick
/r/TheRedPill25/08/19 11:20 AM
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If anything it will improve it. Think about it, at a typical split workout you use the typical muscle groups: quads, deltoids, bicep, tricep etc. Sum them all up and you'll have 50-60 muscles that are used. In martial arts, a lot of training works on your balance, utilising smaller stabilising muscles. Rotators, hip flexors... What would probably happens is that your posture and figure would massively improve, alongside agility, explosive strength and reaction times.
/r/TheRedPill25/08/19 11:15 AM
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Which is why the whole post is about how not to settle on lifting and to constantly seek new goals.
/r/TheRedPill25/08/19 10:51 AM
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Sure, and that's fine too. What's your current obsession?
/r/TheRedPill25/08/19 07:19 AM
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The whole point of the post is that lifting is only one way of getting yourself into the correct mindset. If you train something else and you see progress, keep going. As long as you set yourself goals and achieve them, you're golden!
/r/TheRedPill25/08/19 07:17 AM
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Try corellating it with the times you fap. Mood swings and changes in confidence are very typically associated with: A - poor diet B - too frequent masturbation (to porn)
/r/askTRP24/08/19 10:41 PM
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Ahh, nice! I'm gonna look into it
/r/TheRedPill24/08/19 08:54 PM
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Interesting take on the whole "mission" thing. It doesn't have to be all a one big grind after all
/r/TheRedPill23/08/19 11:01 PM
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Have you read most things on this sub? The general gist is that if a woman does not give you shit, is submissive and cares for you, sooner or later she progresses from main plate to an LTR. Men will give you commitment but be the woman who deserves that commitment, not a demanding thot with no life prospects. The problem with women nowadays is that they think that behaving like a spoiled princess will get them anywhere. Sure it will, by the means of thirsty betas, which is ultimately the last th…
/r/askTRP21/08/19 09:39 AM
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If you eat right, don't drink and learn to not watch youtube to sleep, 6h is plenty
/r/askTRP21/08/19 09:35 AM
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Did you notice that the "right" things are either of the following things? A - something unpleasant B - something uncertain C - something requiring effort Our minds are literally driven by dopamine responses. If it feels good, keep it that way, if it doesn't, run away. Motivation is transient. You start doing something, do it for a few days, then either forget or lazy-it-out, because it either is A, B or C. Our minds don't like unpleasant things (that's why you call them unpleasant). Our minds d…
/r/askTRP20/08/19 05:02 PM
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All of them sound needy and beta. You have no idea what you're doing
/r/askTRP20/08/19 06:46 AM
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Or too comfortable. Having a source of cash, food and Netflix turns you into a lazy piece of shit. She'll be knocking on your door as soon as the savings she took evaporate.
/r/TheRedPill19/08/19 07:21 PM
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Generally if you think drugs or alcohol will get you a friendship circle, you're targeting the wrong problem with even worse solution. Job is a good start, once you have that, go for a hobby or two, this will get you some contacts with like-minded people. Don't try to change things with substances if you don't have to. You can see for yourself what medical drugs did to you. The more you meet people, the more social you become and your mood will lift. Solve your problems, don't mask them. You can…
/r/askTRP19/08/19 03:01 PM
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What for? She is blatantly ignoring you whenever she wants. She expects you to be a good little boy and report what you're doing whenever she desires. How is this a healthy LTR? A good LTR does not go out with her friends, dancing, clubbing etc. Stop being a whimp and start working on yourself so you can find yourself a lady that will respect you.
/r/askTRP19/08/19 11:33 AM
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Not wrong, she is wrapping you around her finger. She has most likely already fucked multiple guys since you started your "LTR". Ditch this shit. Best way to do it is to go silent and never contact her again.
/r/askTRP19/08/19 11:27 AM
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Try doing what he's doing - A.K.A not giving a fuck about things that don't matter
/r/askTRP18/08/19 04:55 PM
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She just finished university and came back to her home city. Boyfriend still at uni
/r/TheRedPill18/08/19 12:27 PM
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I tend to start with innuendos, which get the interaction in the sexual vibe. You judge based on her response on how much further you can go. If she's laughing, that's usually a good sign. From what I've observed, being absolutely nonjudgmental about any form of sexual activity is something that relaxes them a lot. For example: As we were having food, I "accidentally" touched her ass as I was sitting down. She ignored it but I pointed it out by saying: "oops, touched your bum". She just laughed …
/r/TheRedPill18/08/19 12:18 PM
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Yeah, that's not true. Women do not love. They entertain the idea of adoration of an alpha male. On the outside it does look like the bluepill love you're looking for, but as soon as you cave in, it all goes away. Bit like a charm.
/r/TheRedPill18/08/19 11:42 AM
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Logically doesn't make sense. You got to the N-th base right? No... If you pull out of the activity, with the correct smirk on your face and just do what you want, it will create a void in their mind that can only be filled by your dick. Avoids you all the bullshit with ASD, LMR etc. At that point she is the one chasing your dick, not the other way around
/r/TheRedPill18/08/19 11:37 AM
10

Its a win if you're not the boyfriend
/r/TheRedPill18/08/19 07:43 AM
54

Her boyfriend sounds like a cuck
/r/TheRedPill18/08/19 01:24 AM
7

Oh there's no way I'm LTR-ing her. A plate at best so I don't really care who she fucks as long as she's clean.
/r/TheRedPill18/08/19 01:23 AM
103

You're certainly right on that one my friend. Thick-wet pussy, craving dick, her body was screaming: "let's make a baby". Probably the easiest lay I've had in a while. Absolutely no resistance, no ASD, shit tests were gone as soon as she started sucking me off. I was genuinely surprised as I'm by no means a chad and it all went very very smoothly. It wasn't even my appearance, I'm 5'8, dad bod although muscular since I do a lot of powerlifting, fairly defined facial features but no Dan Bilzerian…
/r/TheRedPill18/08/19 01:14 AM
6

I'd say they are more needy for just alpha vibes. Sex is just a cherry on top of the cake they're craving. I mean, I was most likely the only guy who wouldn't supplicate to her, wouldn't be thirsty for sex even whilst fingering her and basically being open about liking to dominate women in the past 6 months. She might let her beta boyfriend starfish her few times a month but that's about it. Like I literally told her at the beginning, you better be submissive in bed, which made her comfortable b…
/r/TheRedPill18/08/19 01:03 AM
10

Stop being a little mummy's and daddy's boy at the age of 27... Do you ask their permission to get out of the house for more than 10 minutes too?
/r/askTRP17/08/19 02:25 PM
3

Its all in the sidebar. IDGAF attitude, amused mastery and strong frame. You wouldn't be asking this question if you've actually understood what you've read (or not) in the sidebar. Go back to that.
/r/askTRP13/08/19 09:08 PM
1

How about read the material before critiquing it? TRP does not say that women are whores. It exposes their sexual strategy, which as mentioned before is based on biology, social hierarchies and sets of values. Pretty much every post on TRP can be boiled down to: AWALT, but also AMALT. Like it or not, nature's first priority for humans and any other form of life is to survive, then reproduce and finally improve the adaptation to the environment or extinct the genetic subtree. It so happens that t…
/r/askTRP13/08/19 09:04 PM
5

I mean, what is it that you want us to tell you? You've been a beta, now you start to realise how things are which is good. Continue working towards your goals. You don't need protein powder to grow big, just eat meat and vegetables high in proteins and lift heavy. You've pretty much described yourself the beta things you have done. So you know where the problems are. Also, AWALT so don't bullshit me that women or sexual things in India are different. Been to India many many times for business t…
/r/askTRP13/08/19 08:32 PM
15

Do you hate yourself for things that you can change? If yes change them, if not accept them.
/r/askTRP08/08/19 10:31 AM
1

Then why not take the smart approach which I have suggested to you? Finding a GOOD therapist? You think that losing your virginity will help or make you happier? Fuck no it won't. You'll get a momentary surge of feel-good hormones but then you won't be able to sustain the relationship with that woman to keep getting sex easily. On top of that, you'll crave the feeling even more and nobody can guarantee you'll get another pussy anytime soon. There's no winning at this if you don't fix your mental…
/r/askTRP08/08/19 08:54 AM
1

How the fuck people on reddit are meant to know what you tried and what you didn't try? The sole fact you're insulting me as I'm giving you advice shows you're not the person you're describing yourself to be. Negative emotions are oozing out of you... Not so emotionless after all huh?
/r/askTRP08/08/19 08:06 AM
0

Lol, get yourself a therapist first.
/r/askTRP08/08/19 08:01 AM
2

Stop blaming your parents and the entire world for lacking social skills, that's a good start. What sane woman would want interact with a man who hates himself? Start working on yourself, learn to like yourself, get a hobby or two. You'll meet PEOPLE (not just women) that way. Build social circles then use that to meet women. Women are a nice sprinkle on top of a successful life on your own. You don't build a cake with sprinkles as the base, it will fall apart.
/r/askTRP08/08/19 07:54 AM
3

There you go. Nothing wrong with that approach, as long as your expectations are reasonable. If you enter it knowing that regardless of the woman, she can cheat, act hypergamous etc. and you're ok investing your time and effort then sure, it can work. Just don't think you'll have a disney-like life out of the box, simply because the woman is "right". It doesn't happen. Low expectations, low pain in case it fucks up.
/r/askTRP07/08/19 04:18 PM
12

That's not a bluepill goal, apart from the happily ever after thing. Sure, you can have a life like this but as in anything else, you must be the driving force of it, the capitain. Vet your plates for ones who want children and would be good housewives, then LTR one of them and work on the relationship with the same RP principles.
/r/askTRP07/08/19 04:02 PM
2

Keep up the ignoring, one of you will break sooner or later. Better be her
/r/askTRP07/08/19 10:12 AM
46

Limit your attention. Also do not LTR her! She is already using sex to get her way now, imagine 6 months in. Fuck until it breaks, spin other plates in the meantime
/r/askTRP06/08/19 04:55 PM
11

Don't ram your dick up her ass straight away. Jesus... Learn how to relax her properly, start with fingers, maybe make her wear a butt plug etc. Read!
/r/askTRP06/08/19 09:17 AM
6

Break up with her
/r/askTRP05/08/19 02:43 PM
7

Emancipation of women and feminism. That's what went wrong. Eastern-european women know that being skinny and attractive will get them quality men (with frame). They're much more beautiful on average than western women. They're not as influenced by feminism and western pop culture. Also, religion plays a large role, promoting the typical husband-wife model and demonising promiscuity. With the men cheating... If by our standards, the women in eastern-europe are 8-9s, for men in places like Ukrain…
/r/askTRP05/08/19 09:51 AM
5

You do no speak to her ever again. There should be no breakup, no explanation etc. You go cold turkey on her, delete contacts, block, forget and start journey on self-improvement. And here is why: You are her orbiter, she needs you for attention and validation, occasionally giving you pussy. You are so far under her foot right now, the moment you break up with her, she will cry and you will go back to her like a puppy. The problem is, that cry is not even 5% honest. She is losing an asset and sh…
/r/askTRP03/08/19 08:17 AM
10

Jesus... I read only the first part of the problem and its all oozing cuckoldery. Good news for you, she will fuck guys on that festival. Even moreso now she knows how much of a beta you are. You've decided to be with her even though she regularly speaks to orbiters. She should be out of your life the second the phrase "festival with that guy" left her mouth. Get some self respect man, its painful to read how much of a pussy you are
/r/askTRP03/08/19 08:05 AM
4

Small steps brother. Don't try to do all possible RP techniques at once because it will look like something is changing drastically. Pick something, experiment, see if it works for a week or so, then move onto the next thing. Internalising RP is like adopting new habits. You start small, make sure you stick to it, then add new things. That way she won't notice the changes immediately but she will sure as hell feel it across time, without being able to pinpoint what it is. I bet after few months …
/r/askTRP31/07/19 05:51 PM
1

Well then you know what the problem is. It goes back to my point about emotional rollercoaster. You're only neutral in your expression of thoughts. Very good for plating women as it avoids emotional attachment from either party but not so good for LTRs.
/r/askTRP29/07/19 10:00 AM
3

The problem is in how you handle the aftermath of saying things they don't like. By agreeing to enter an argument you automatically lose frame. There is a misconception that losing frame happens when you take the blame... No! You lose frame every time she manages to get an emotional reaction out of you that you didn't fully control. You method of shutting the fuck up works to an extent because you manage to avoid the touchy subjects. But really what happens is that the relationships you make lac…
/r/askTRP28/07/19 11:29 PM
3

Oneitis in its purest form. Had hundreds of plates and ONSs, couldn't move on from one woman.
/r/askTRP26/07/19 11:05 PM
2

And you didn't understand my point... Whether you're gifted or not, your looks, dick size, character and money didn't sum up to a SMV higher than hers. That's why she dropped you. There's nobody to blame. Besides, you'd be surprised how little dick size means to women (gifted too). Until I've read about immersion in sex, there were countless times I just hurt the poor girl and had an overall shit interaction. You could have a 5 inch dick and make her flood down there with the right mindset. You …
/r/askTRP26/07/19 11:02 PM
4

Wouldn't go as far as that. Don't lie to yourself. Your SMV was lower than hers because of your lack of money. Even your height and jacked body wouldn't compensate for that. Simple rules of the sexual marketplace. She isn't exactly missing out here. This thing should motivate you to really get your shit together and start making good money. She is now non-existent to you, however, you should not be angry at her or yourself. You've had a mismatch in SMV and timeframes, that's it.
/r/askTRP26/07/19 10:37 PM
5

Dignity, more self worth, balls? That's the immediate 3
/r/askTRP25/07/19 10:39 AM
4

No
/r/askTRP25/07/19 10:33 AM
10

Sounds like you'd enjoy it. The stance is don't lose your frame, whether in bed or not. If she starts pegging you you might have gone too far.
/r/askTRP25/07/19 09:59 AM
2

They don't have to, a majority of them chooses to. You brought the equality in your OP which you now have deleted. What is your goal man?
/r/MarriedRedPill23/07/19 06:52 PM
2

You can't apply red pill tools to blue pill life. Keep believing in equality and "non-mysogyny" and see how your life will look like in a few years. One thing worth pointing out is that your past, I assume liberal approaches gave you the result of your life and marriage being in shambles. Take away what you want from this observation
/r/MarriedRedPill23/07/19 06:32 PM
1

I mean, how much lower can you get? In my opinion its not all lost. You are consciously recognising that the cuck mindset is not the natural state of being. This means your psyche is not totally fucked up. If it was, you wouldn't be asking these questions here as that state would feel natural to you in all its shape and form. You can try rewiring your brain with the male-dom porn. As I've said, its a loose ended idea and has no backing in psychology etc. so do it at your own risk. If anything, c…
/r/askTRP20/07/19 11:57 PM
2

AWALT - all women are like that. All women are hypergamous, there is no doubt about that. In fact, scientific psychological studies confirmed that. There are however women who have morals and choose not to act on their hypergamy. Of course, if the guy is a limp beta, they should by all means monkey branch. Hope you see the difference between: A - good women choose not to act on their hypergamy immediately when they're with their moderately alpha boyfriends. B - bad women monkey branch or cheat a…
/r/askTRP20/07/19 11:42 PM
3

Bullshit, that's incel thinking not TRP. The redpill stance on this is that women should not be pedestalised and that trust must be earned not deserved, like any logical philosophy would suggest.
/r/askTRP20/07/19 11:03 PM
9

I mean, its a pretty loose eneded idea but maybe try forcing yourself to watch rough men-dom porn. I mean videos where sluts are demolished and degraded to the end. Start with light shit and progress onwarss. Since the opposite type of porn can get you into the cuck mindset, maybe this will get you back to where you need to be a bit. Also, don't do no-fap... Its a physiological need. The ideal situation is where you fap 2-3 times a week, imagining you with a harem of 9s sucking your dick, no por…
/r/askTRP20/07/19 10:57 PM
1

Don't use the belt unless you're approaching your max weight. Otherwise you're not letting your core get stronger. Learn how to brace your core properly. Most importantly learn the valsalva maneuver. My bet is that your abs let go when you're at the very bottom of your squat, releasing the pressure and your form gets fucked, putting more strain on the lumbar section of your back. Before squatting activate your core and stabilising muscles i.e. plank 3x30 seconds squats with no weight and a rubbe…
/r/askTRP20/07/19 06:18 PM
3

Then don't put up with it. Invite her for sex only, then tell her to leave. If after a while she doesn't work out that she's only there for sex, you've got yourself an easy plate, if she does, she'll push for attention. If she won't get it, she'll find someone else to get it from and your problem is gone. Sometimes you just need a different perspective
/r/askTRP17/07/19 05:27 PM
3

Fuck other women.
/r/askTRP16/07/19 08:00 AM
3

In a traditional sense, men provided the safety and efficiency. Now its the state. In neither case they needed to worry about them.
/r/askTRP14/07/19 01:29 PM
9

Good chance you'll get it next time, although as always, if a girl makes you wait, its usually not worth it. Best solution to LMR is to go through the kino ladder. Certain body areas are highly erogenous but not necessarily perceived sexual per se. Act on those and she'll jump on your dick herself.
/r/askTRP13/07/19 09:47 AM
2

That's why LTRs and marriage are regarded as TRP on hard mode. It is more difficult to hold frame and have an IDGAF attitude, precisely because of that feeling. Spinning plates is easier. Another thing is that current society, especially western, is losing, if not already lost the values, which allowed men to experience these feelings without being afraid of adultery, within reason. Think about it, back in the 40's or 50's, women knew that they need men to survive and that single-motherhood is s…
/r/askTRP11/07/19 09:10 PM
2

First: have a generic think about what you want to do in life. You're at a university, studying a subject you like, that's better than 60% of people. What are the possible career paths you can take with your degree? Does any of them interest you? Can it ultimately lead to a better life for you and your community? Choose it and then make it your life purpose. Second: look around the university. Usually there are a ton of classes / societies / fraternities etc. which you can take up and meet new p…
/r/askTRP11/07/19 08:24 PM
5

Of course she could. You slammed her head into a wall and she can paint it however she wants.
/r/askTRP11/07/19 06:54 PM
0

Well then maybe learn to control yourself. Improve yourself from the desperate 3 into a less desperate 7 or 8 and then think about fucking 10s. You gotta be realistic, not autistic man
/r/askTRP11/07/19 06:43 PM
1

If you know that you're a 3(taking into consideration that SMV is invluding your frame, game etc.) and a 10 is offering sex in exchange for something like that... I mean, it was more than obvious. Like how desperate do you have to be?
/r/askTRP11/07/19 06:32 PM
22

There's time to act aloof and theres time to be responsible. Don't do rough fucking if you have no idea what you're doing. Dominant sex is meant to be safe, then fun, in that specific order. If a woman trusts you enough to have that kind of sex with you, respect that, whatever she might be for you. Now meet up with her and offer to pay for fixing her tooth. That's what a responsible alpha would do. Laughing at her and pointing out its not a biggie, even though you actually caused her a visible b…
/r/askTRP11/07/19 06:28 PM
5

Lack of goals
/r/askTRP11/07/19 09:23 AM
1

Yes
/r/askTRP09/07/19 07:29 AM
4

Isn't this just a series of shit tests? I mean, she is quite overtly testing your frame. Ever tried pressure flipping this?
/r/askTRP08/07/19 02:29 PM
3

Being social involves talking to people. Sure, you can have female friends, its actually beneficial when in larger groups in which you can pull. Women are much more socially apt than even the most redpilled men. They "feel" the things you normally have to think about, especially if you're just about started to build your frame. Be around them, analyse their behaviour but also have fun. They're people too, with their own personalities, humour etc. They just have a completely different mating stra…
/r/askTRP07/07/19 09:39 PM
4

Plates break, find a new one
/r/askTRP03/07/19 05:52 AM
20

Women do not act logically. That's why TRP recommends: "watch what she does not what she says". Their decisions are much more driven by emotions rather than logic. That's why she will say "awwh you're so sweet" to you and then proceed to ride a dick of a chad who calls her his bitch. Also, one of the best signs a woman is attracted to you is her playfully calling you a jerk. They can't help it.
/r/askTRP01/07/19 09:59 AM
10

Can you be more beta?
/r/askTRP23/06/19 07:17 PM
1

The thing TRP is that we all shame blue pilled males for being blue pilled, even though 90% of us here started as blue pilled betas, something happened, we started searching for relationship advice online and we ended up here. You don't get angry at a child who knows no better, you teach them.
/r/askTRP18/06/19 10:02 AM
1

Read The Sex God Method. Emotions are a big part of sexual interaction. Don't tell her how much you love her every 5 mins but showing her that she turns you on is good.
/r/askTRP17/06/19 02:11 PM
1

Wrong approach. You're unnecessarily shocking your body by taking every current source of dopamine away. One thing at a time brother.
/r/askTRP17/06/19 02:07 PM
1

Quick update. Literally took me 5 minutes to do it. The fella broke up with her on the spot. Going for a beer on Saturday.
/r/askTRP17/06/19 12:59 PM
1

Oh its well known in TRP, its called Black Knighting. Again, not looking for morality advice.
/r/askTRP17/06/19 10:38 AM
2

We all get to a point where you're lacking motivation, its normal. You've had some achievements, now a few minor setbacks. As mentioned in another comment, the discipline always wins with motivation, so keep grinding. Take it from a purely logical point of view: You're unhappy now because your skin is playing up and because its the summer and you're in monk mode. Do you think you'd be happier if you stopped working on yourself? Picture a few months on Accutane, fast food, no gym and no grooming,…
/r/askTRP16/06/19 08:43 PM
2

Have you noticed this lack of motivation around the time you started taking Accutane again? Taken from one of the first google links: "Then there is the issue of Accutane's neuropsychiatric side effects. High doses of vitamin A can cause headache, depression, fatigue, irritability, aggression, even personality change and psychosis — a syndrome called hypervitaminosis A. So it's no surprise that there are concerns about Accutane side effects." It might be that you haven't noticed it the first tim…
/r/askTRP16/06/19 08:24 PM
8

The breakup should have been handled peacefully and with truth. You should have told her that you'd like to explore and see what's out there instead of lashing out and telling her to fuck off. Lack of control here
/r/askTRP15/06/19 07:31 AM
1

Currently doing a massive cut as I got fat over the past year. Also trying to maintain muscle mass. I'm counting calories though, roughly 500 under my TDEE, doing an FBW 3 times a week plus cardio 3 times a week alternating. So far so good after about 3 weeks. Haven't noticed massive gains in muscle mass but the strength definitely went up. Can't really go too drastic with the deficit as your body will just say: "Fuck it" and eat your muscles anyway, no matter how hard you lift.
/r/askTRP12/06/19 08:55 PM
66

Ahh, the age old oneitis. If there only was a cure for it. I firmly believe it stems from too much time on your hands. Basically, the more you have to do, the less time you have for petty shit like thinking about your one and only. Rightly suggested lifting + a good set of goals should cure it. Let me demonstrate by the means of a simple mathematical formula: OBB = (FT * (1 - G)) / P Where: OBB = Oneitis Beta Bucks FT = free time G = goals P = number of plates I'd graph it but reddit doesn't hav…
/r/askTRP08/06/19 07:45 PM
2

I myself finished a relationship last November and am not planning another LTR until at least the end of the year, depending on how the main plate behaves until then. I mean, you gave more details but I'd argue the same answers hold. The key here is abundance which you currently don't have, hence you're asking us questions about the one girl you currently have access to for an easy bang. You're by no means in a catch 22 man. I know its hard to remember all the things we teach here, especially if…
/r/askTRP08/06/19 07:29 PM
5

Depends what your agenda is. Are you looking for an LTR (not necessarily with this girl) or just plating for now? In both cases I'd soft next for a few days. Focus on your mission. She is clearly testing your frame (which is a good thing), also looks for attention and is compliance testing you. The things you mentioned are not red flags per se, more shit tests and generally pushing on your frame to see if it breaks under hers. If you are looking for an LTR down the lane, same rules apply: 6 mont…
/r/askTRP08/06/19 06:32 PM
10

Your username says it all...
/r/askTRP03/06/19 06:24 PM
19

If you're doing it for the potential women you can get then its not alpha at all. Ask yourself if you actually want to have a tattoo, then make a decision... The lengths people go to get some pussy, jesus...
/r/askTRP03/06/19 06:05 PM
1

Well I guess this is where the "mission" comes into play. Women are almost entirely driven by their emotions, empty vessels filled by the portions of the environment in which they live in. Us, men, we have an advantage of setting our own path and an ability to emotionally detach ourselves from the things we deal with. What's problematic is that men also have feelings, need compassion, love, affection, contrary to the belief of all the fake alphas. It's fucking hard to keep yourself on the path t…
/r/askTRP30/05/19 09:02 PM
1

In that case, what is it to be a man? Women have been freed from the responsibilities via the current social norms and feminist agenda. Men have no such thing globally. Small number of guys are Red pilled but what about the rest? Truly fucked up situation for men nowadays
/r/askTRP30/05/19 08:44 PM
9

Generally places where you need/want to be regularly and there are no easy substitutes for it and the girl you're gaming is permanently there.
/r/askTRP30/05/19 08:06 PM
1

What you lack are experiences. Red Pill knowledgebase is created from people's experiences. Let's take for example shit tests, although shit tests were known before TRP in the general manosphere... But anyways, once upon a time, some grandfather of manosphere figured out that certain things women do or say are subconscious tests, aimed to figure out man's value. Now how did he figure this out you may ask... Things usually come in patterns. He probably saw that certain types of responses to these…
/r/askTRP28/05/19 09:05 PM
2

You don't "have to" or "must" anything. Just because its a blue pilled expectation of the society, doesn't mean you need to do or say anything. Sure, if I want a LTR and have properly vetted a plate for green flags, and she is behaving well then I might show her my kingdom, but that's because I want to, not because someone tells me to.
/r/askTRP25/05/19 11:00 PM
7

Bad strategy... When you're plating multiple women, they're meant to know you're dating other women, however, you shouldn't rub it in their faces. When you start seeing a plate, you mention that you're seeing other women, that's it. She'll remember it. If you have plans with plate Y and plate X demands to see you, you simply say that you're busy. No need to tell her what you're doing. If she asks: "Will you be with Y at that time? Is that why you don't want to see me?", you simply reply "yes" an…
/r/askTRP24/05/19 01:18 AM
2

I call my plates bro. They get jokingly upset and then we fuck. Taking it too seriously man.
/r/askTRP23/05/19 11:38 AM
1

Its a well posed question which I think should be discussed further on the main sub. As mentioned in other comments, the unfair things women have to deal with, drive their behaviour. I think many things we teach in TRP about women's behaviour and how to deal with it stem from those differences. I.e. selection of partners: women have multiple options but also are stared at, wolf-whistled at etc. Hence they have to be selective. Or the fact they are physically weaker and generally more emotional: …
/r/askTRP23/05/19 10:22 AM
14

You're absolutely right for walking away. Never risk what you've built for some moron trying to fight you. Remember, you only lose frame if you show that it bothers you. If you're confident that you've done the right thing, your lady should think the same. If she's disappointed then I'm pretty sure she thrives off drama which is a sign she might not be an LTR material. Maybe its time to re-vet her?
/r/askTRP23/05/19 08:41 AM
1

Read your updates man. At this point you should cut all contact with her, your ex, any men that were involved and work on getting back up to speed with plates, FWBs. Basically get back to game and wipe out any leftovers of those people from your mind. It sounds like she fucked half the office. Run far away brother. The only thing you can gain from this is a couple more grey hairs. The sooner you disappear the better. Don't give them chances to spin up some shit about rape accusations, nonconsens…
/r/askTRP23/05/19 08:35 AM
2

...
/r/askTRP22/05/19 03:47 PM
19

A couple of pointers: - you jumped in with her, clearly as a rebound and way too quickly to vet properly for an LTR, gave up commitment too easily. - you shouldn't have given her an opportunity to have some drama by explaining why you're dismissing her, she knew anyways but she got a nice emotional rollercoaster out of it. Overall well handled and you can't really be blamed for being pissed off. A little bit of room for improvement here and there. Of course, as usual, AWALT and she blameshifts i…
/r/askTRP22/05/19 07:13 AM
4

Forgive her for what? Being playful? Ignore the whole butthurt thing and take her out for a drink. You can relate slightly to the situation by simply messaging her: "Hey terrorist! Let's go for a coffee tomorrow. I'm buying it because I don't like foam on mine and I know you'll have a can in your pocket ;)" Turn it all into a joke, be playful. Its probably salvageable but also don't be surprised if she declines.
/r/askTRP21/05/19 09:27 PM
3

Amused mastery and slight dominance would work so much better here than being butthurt. Assuming she is not a 300lbs whale, you're stronger than her. What stopped you from taking it as a joke/prank/a bit of fun, taking the spray from her and spraying her with foam even more whilst laughing and not giving a shit that you're on the street? That way you would have achieved a few things: - you're showing her you're a strong male capable of overpowering her = wet knickers having fun and being strong …
/r/askTRP21/05/19 09:15 PM
4

For starters, learn how to do your job effectively so you actually get some satisfaction from it.
/r/askTRP21/05/19 09:03 AM
6

Clearly isn't if she's seeing you
/r/askTRP21/05/19 05:28 AM
2

You went uber primal on that bitch
/r/askTRP18/05/19 10:34 PM
2

Unless you can get a substantial subscriber base on youtube, you'll see very very little reward from it. Businesses are stressful, whether you put an hour into it or not. If anything, if you put in that hour into business, you might find that it becomes less stressful as you have more time to sort stuff out.
/r/askTRP14/05/19 09:43 AM
6

I would definitely put it into that business. There more you put in, the more you will get out of it. I mean, YT videos are cool, but will that get you anywhere closer to whatever goal you have?
/r/askTRP14/05/19 09:34 AM
7

Wtf. You're a man, you behave how you want, not how some bitch tells you to behave or feel. She's manipulative and any further interaction should proceed with caution. I'd soft next at the very least since that behaviour is unacceptable. Let her hamster spin and she'll figure out what she does wrong. Have some balls for fucks sake. Also, don't cry in front of her!
/r/askTRP12/05/19 10:26 AM
3

Yeah, there's therapy.
/r/askTRP10/05/19 09:45 PM
7

You don't need to take a 2 week break. What you need is: - Sleep schedule reset (stay up all night and the following day, then sleep for 12-14h) - Getting up your calorie intake to slightly avove your BMR - Reduce workouts to 4 a week and don't train to exhaustion. - understand that you're a human being not a robot
/r/askTRP10/05/19 04:09 PM
2

Keep doing it if it works.
/r/askTRP10/05/19 07:59 AM
5

He probably is out of plates
/r/askTRP02/05/19 05:31 PM
1

Change your job. Literally no other way of dealing with this. He is covered because A: he is in a senior position, B: he's mentally challenged. Whatever you say against him will paint you as an asshole.
/r/askTRP02/05/19 02:28 PM
15

Ideally ditch the idea. If you're really keen, start gaming women around those girls. If they see you being successful with picking up other women, you become a prize and they'll most likely approach you themselves.
/r/askTRP01/05/19 06:57 PM
1

Because a lot of men don't know how to fuck. They go on with vanilla humping for 5 minutes, cum and that's about it. No immersion, no emotions etc. The sex god method is what you should always strive for.
/r/askTRP01/05/19 01:54 PM
6

Where is your problem here? Has she started behaving differently since then? Might have been a shit test yes, but if she's fucking you the same as before then it hasn't affected anything. Stop overthinking!
/r/askTRP01/05/19 01:52 PM
3

And how would you check she is a virgin? Anyhow, why are you in a long distance relationship with somebody you haven't even fucked? Read sidebar for Christ sakes...
/r/askTRP01/05/19 10:19 AM
1

Why the fuck would you change your life for a pussy? Sounds to me your activities are spot on and should not be changed. She said you're boring cause she is a BP psycho and anything she says has about 50/50 chance of being true, you'll never know. Chill out, keep hustlin' and go fuck some better behaved women.
/r/askTRP01/05/19 10:14 AM
3

TRP is a toolbox, you pick and choose your tools and then do what you want with them. Anything else is somebody's opinion
/r/askTRP01/05/19 10:11 AM
2

She is already fucking somebody else I'm afraid. Never do long distance relationships, they don't work.
/r/askTRP01/05/19 10:10 AM
0

What he's gonna do with this info is his own problem. There are a lot of people here and some of them might find this useful, even if he won't. 1600 is not enough. According to a few TDEE calculators for someone his size and completely sedentary lifestyle, to maintain body mass he will need at least 2083kcal a day. Also, none of the things I suggested tweak his metabolism. If anything, they try to slowly and naturally bring it back to somewhat normal state. Sleep is probably gonna change the mos…
/r/askTRP30/04/19 11:10 PM
1

Its in their nature, the hotter she is the stronger that instinct is usually
/r/askTRP30/04/19 10:47 PM
0

Might be that you're in a bit of a mess with your hormones and metabolism. High levels of stress increase cortisol which is what increases the likelihood of food turning into fat instead of increased energy levels. Also, 1600kcal for a man your age/weight/height and 3x a week of exercise is definitely not enough. Make sure you're getting 7-8h of sleep a night no matter what as that will get your body in rythm. This is probably most important to do first. In the gym focus on composite exercises: …
/r/askTRP30/04/19 10:33 PM
2

Jesus Christ isn't your hamster spinning... Do whatever the fuck you want. You're the man right? You've set up the date, she knows the place and time. If she's interested she will be there, if she isn't, your confirmation of details won't make her more interested. Probably gonna be a flake looking at the frame you've presented to her. No biggie, improve and adapt, learn the lesson of having an IDGAF attitude.
/r/askTRP30/04/19 10:14 PM
1

Very well said.
/r/askTRP30/04/19 08:21 PM
4

Don't put yourself in a provider role. Expect things of her. Make it such that she works for your attention. This is the only way to make it last, making her work for you will keep her excited. If she's given things on a platter, she'll never appreciate it and turn you into a beta.
/r/askTRP30/04/19 08:19 PM
1

Listen and nod. Heard about the guy who pretended he is deaf so he didn't have to listen to his wife for 60 years?
/r/askTRP30/04/19 10:29 AM
2

You've got this the wrong way around. We as humans are a greedy bunch of fuckers. The nature provides and the intelligent ones of us will take advantage of that. Every woman has the same purpose, to give birth to a child. They're born with it. How little ambitious is it? Every man is born empty, with no purpose. As you grow from a toddler to a boy and then from a boy to a man, you start to develop your own purpose. You have control over it. We as men have been designed to continuously grow. Foll…
/r/askTRP27/04/19 08:31 PM
7

It doesn't. Unless she offers an orgy with her friends then no. If you want new friends then go for it, you won't get sex out of this otherwise.
/r/askTRP27/04/19 05:29 PM
3

Your biggest problem is finding too many problems where there aren't any. When I was starting in my field, I wish I had 600 a month I could save up... You expect to be earning awesome salary straight out of college with no experience. Sorry bro, life is a bitch and that's what you can expect after college. Here is a good plan for you: Start with that job and get uber-efficient at it without showing that to the management (important). Move out to a cheap but comfortable place, preferably as far a…
/r/askTRP25/04/19 10:12 PM
1

Bratislava, Prague, Amsterdam, Budapest, Krakow.
/r/askTRP25/04/19 09:37 PM
8

There is no magic answer to this. Your reputation is fucked so you shouldn't really try to rebuild it in terms of the people around you. With your father, show him that you're changing, continuously prove to him that you're no longer the person you were before. Start working towards a plan for getting the hell out of there into a new place where you can have a fresh start. That's it, hard work and consistency is what will change your father's mind, which is what really matters here.
/r/askTRP25/04/19 09:43 AM
11

Learn to separate your career from private life. Just because you work with harpies doesn't mean you cannot be RP. Take the situation to your advantage. Whilst they are all concerned about gender neutral or sexually equal names for conference rooms, you could do useful work. Be bold with your work, especially that you're doing masters degree. Find something cool in your work, then master it. Given 5 years, you'll be at the top of your game in the field whilst they will still be trying to decide …
/r/askTRP25/04/19 08:37 AM
1

Depends how you look at it and to what extent you want to follow the TRP teachings. TRP is a toolbox so you can pick your tools when you need them and use them how you want. Exposing vulnerability in front of a woman is not strictly bad per se, although must be done with strict moderation. Part of being vulnerable is showing some emotions when passing comfort tests. You are showing her that you care for her more than you do for other women which from a nature's point of view is a vulnerability. …
/r/askTRP09/04/19 03:51 PM
44

Yup. We call this being a dick
/r/askTRP24/03/19 09:57 AM
9

No. Monarchy treated peasants kind occasionally. Aka - HB10 speaking kindly to a beta male (they dont consider them to be human) When they have to or it is beneficial to them: extracting resources (beta providers) These are not based on attraction
/r/askTRP13/03/19 07:16 PM
15

It's very easy to mistake a temporary dopamine hit for happiness (drugs, porn, games). Sometimes we do things just for the sake of doing them (hobbies) but they also give you only a temporary sense of happiness. If one of your hobbies takes up most of your time then it becomes your mission. Otherwise to get true happiness you have to find another mission. Happiness comes from achieving the objectives that ultimately lead to your goal. A mission would be a lifelong set of goals revolving around a…
/r/TheRedPill12/03/19 11:28 PM
3

See a therapist. Also, we all make mistakes and have fuckups. Think about all those men who got married and then were divorce raped by their cunt ex wives. I'd say thats worse than kissing trannies. Somehow, many of those men are RP and living a happy life now. Stop whining and get your shit together.
/r/askTRP12/03/19 11:11 AM
3

I wouldnt say daily. 2x a week tops. Do it with a loose grip and lots of lube.
/r/askTRP02/03/19 08:29 PM
12

Typical positive feedback loop, nothing to be worried about, I got you covered! First, read the sex god method as it mentions shit ton about immersion in sex - its really important (aka a good foreplay) you have to be relaxed around her and that's hard when you fuck for the first time. Second, masturbate with zero porn. Its not the masturbation that causes it, its porn and how much of a dopamine hit it is. It fucks with your brain big time. Third, don't go down the Viagra route. You can get your…
/r/askTRP02/03/19 07:05 PM
3

Try reading up on the imposter syndrome. I'm not sure its exactly that but rings a bell. One thing I can definitely recommend is 12 rules for life by J.Peterson I have a feeling your perfectionism stems from the need to control things in your life. Every little mistake and you feel like you're fucking up, that you're not worthy. Read Peterson as he talks deeply about chaos in life and how you cannot control things in 100%. Don't look for happiness as that's simply an outcome of meaningful life. …
/r/askTRP02/03/19 06:55 PM
1

No. Not sure what gave you this idea. You're meant to be fun to be around so people actually want to engage with you. Then do the same with women. Jesus...
/r/askTRP02/03/19 03:21 PM
9

First and foremost: Chad - high SMV guy, most likely not RP aware but raised in a highly masculine environment with some naturally high social skills and a large social group. When you are liked and respected by a lot of people and are a naturally high in SMV due to looks and behaviour, you will never have trouble getting with women. Natural - not necessarily a chad but most chads are naturals. Could be a guy low in looks but high in social skills and generally dominant demeanor. Again, being na…
/r/askTRP02/03/19 01:54 PM
2

No problem :) The sacrificing friends thing depends on the situation. If you refuse to help your bro when he just had a car accident because you need to watch a movie, that's not putting yourself first, that's just being a dick. On the other hand, you do not want to drop everything you're doing to run and help him do something trivial etc. These are just examples but the general idea is that you should find some balance. Be true to yourself but also learn to sacrifice a little bit to build a fri…
/r/askTRP28/02/19 06:38 PM
3

Don't drink or smoke, neither is good for you so those are out of the way automatically. Being left winged is also bullshit, especially nowadays with the age of SJWs and roaring feminists. Its a good job they usually paint their hair, are all pierced and their image literally screamd: "I'm an amoeba with enough brain cells to keep me up straight" so you can spot and avoid them easily. Consider yourself lucky to be brought up by a very very sensible parent who saw through the bullshit and protect…
/r/askTRP28/02/19 06:19 PM
3

Same as any other girl. I'd argue its easier because the sole fact you're approaching her is alpha.
/r/askTRP28/02/19 06:12 PM
11

Pull a HB9 and show her off to them. Nothing gets you more respect from a group of men and more envy from a group of women than your ability to score with other women. IDGAF attitude is good in the meantime.
/r/askTRP28/02/19 06:10 PM
1

As much as this sounds crazy, college or university is a one big "don't shit where you eat" place. Of course this depends on the size of the uni and how many people know you. Few rules of thumb: - never disclose info about yourself to a ONS and if you do, always send a text in the morning to thank her for a great night, keep it saved - for plates, remain a secret and disclose as little info about yourself as possible - test and learn about a prospective plate for at least 6 months to then promot…
/r/askTRP26/02/19 10:59 PM
2

It might not be ED per se. One thing I found helpful was to stop watching porn completely. I still masturbate every so often but only using my own imagination. Also, use a really loose grip and lots of lube to mimic the sensation of a pussy. Often, your member goes down during or before sex because the stimulation (both physical and psychological) is too weak compared to when you masturbate to some freaky shit online. Try thinking about some of the things that turn you on during sex, not necessa…
/r/askTRP26/02/19 11:11 AM
4

It will increase your hunger because your body moves out of the fast mode into regular metabolic mode. Also, processes responsible for fat metabolism will be kicked out of rythm.
/r/askTRP05/02/19 04:29 PM
1

It does however activate liver enzymes which means your food metabolism starts up and then stops again once you processed those 3-5 calories
/r/askTRP05/02/19 03:32 PM
2

Then wayyyy too early. Yup, too mean
/r/askTRP05/02/19 03:04 PM
1

Depends on timing. If you just met her, sure, if you've been fucking her for 3 months, id call this light teasing
/r/askTRP05/02/19 03:02 PM
2

I've heard something different. You can disprove my statement if you have some evidence, I'll gladly reconsider my approach if you manage to do that
/r/askTRP05/02/19 02:09 PM
7

Oh easily. Try lifting when you've eaten a very large meal. You become lethargic and tired.
/r/askTRP05/02/19 01:10 PM
13

I've been on a 22/2 fasting for the past year and 3 months. I do take a break from it every 3-4 weeks for a day just to let the body rest a bit. In general, I've experienced the following: - increased focus, especially in the morning - decreased ups and downs throughout the day - weight loss (maybe because i count calories and its super easy to track them when you eat a single massive meal a day) - improved sexual performance If you aim to try it, include your first meal right after gym. Althoug…
/r/askTRP05/02/19 10:23 AM
2

Did exactly that last night. Watched a movie, had one drink, let her do most of the undressing. At some point she just went on top of me, grinded for a bit and then fucked. Thanks for the tips bro! Letting her do her thing seems to be working pretty well :D
/r/askTRP25/01/19 10:59 AM
1

Gotta try this, I had a virgin once but totally forgot about this kinda back and forth thing. Also, as soon as I get frustrated, my dick goes down and its a bit of a loop, especially in a condom.
/r/askTRP23/01/19 06:12 PM
1

I don't do drugs and neither does she
/r/askTRP23/01/19 04:39 PM
1

She is a virgin, felt the hymen when I fingered her. Also extremely new to any female-male interactions.
/r/askTRP23/01/19 01:20 PM
1

She is still nervous giving me a blowjob. In the sense that she doesn't want to do a bad job. I just don't respond and she does it after a minute of making up her own mind. I think this will be the best strategy - let her pussy tingle enough for her to initiate.
/r/askTRP23/01/19 11:26 AM
1

Was thinking this as well. Will try tomorrow as she's staying over at mine
/r/askTRP23/01/19 10:15 AM
-4

How are you even endorsed?
/r/askTRP23/01/19 10:09 AM
2

Why?
/r/askTRP23/01/19 10:08 AM
1

This makes a lot of sense. If I agree to wait, it won't progress anywhere, if I throw an ultimatum, she'll be scared off. Funny thing you mentioned the dick sucking. I wanted to eat her out last time to get her into the mood more and she heavily resisted. She said she is grossed out by oral sex and she doesn't know why, interestingly, only one way round. She said she'd be ok with giving me a blowjob. Odd
/r/askTRP17/01/19 10:59 PM
11

Lol that's some drunken messaging lvl 9000. Her hamster is currently near Mars and on its way to Saturn. I'd be inclined to say: "come over and say it all to my face, then we'll see what I think". Proceed to bang. Under NO circumstances LTR her. I'd be cautious with plating even. I'd put her somewhere between FWB and plate without the friend part. Be prepared for maaaassive guilt from her part. She'd be running around trying to please you in every way possible. Nice ego boost and a plate you can…
/r/askTRP17/01/19 10:27 PM
1

Confirmed virginity as described in the OP. Of course I'll escalate yeah. My question is more about any tricks to ease her into it. Escalation ladder etc. is good for regular bangs. Here she is completely and utterly unaware of what is going on and panics on every new thing I try out with her. Honestly if feels like "achievement unlocked" every time I get further. I'm expecting maaaassive LMR tomorrow and hence I want to prepare, firstly to succeed, secondly to avoid false rape charges if I go t…
/r/askTRP17/01/19 10:20 PM
4

Game other women or go monk mode for a month. For sure remove any signs of her from your life, block social media, throw out anything that reminds you of her.
/r/askTRP17/01/19 10:00 PM
1

What seems to be the issue? Stop smoking it and get back to your routine.
/r/askTRP16/01/19 09:34 PM
1

Then do that. Start gaming other women too. Quite openly
/r/askTRP16/01/19 12:50 PM
2

Hence my suggestion to save up money.
/r/askTRP16/01/19 12:16 PM
2

You lost your frame. She now knows it bothers you that she is going - the jealousy comment. You're absolutely right that LTRs should not be going out to clubs without you. Plate is a different story. Not an easy situation. You've lost frame and now she knows that.
/r/askTRP16/01/19 10:47 AM
7

You don't need a 5 page TRP post. You need some balls man. Take a few weeks to plan a way out. Save money up, then move out. Take whats yours and leave. There is no need to tell her why, when or how. Keep using her for sex up until then as if nothing is going to happen. The end.
/r/askTRP16/01/19 10:36 AM
2

6-8 months
/r/askTRP16/01/19 07:01 AM
1

Chuckled
/r/askTRP15/01/19 09:53 PM
2

Internalise more RP teachings, especially the: "She is not yours, its only your turn". Otherwise you get attached.
/r/askTRP15/01/19 09:53 PM
3

Escalate. Touch her. Look up the Escalation Ladder on google. Get her to a kiss, then fuck
/r/askTRP15/01/19 09:50 PM
3

Probably the reason. Social skills deteriorate if you stop using them.
/r/askTRP15/01/19 06:45 PM
2

Are you still gaming women at this point?
/r/askTRP15/01/19 06:17 PM
6

Very good questions: Women do not have ulterior motives. They (commonly) do not consciously plan to fuck you up. It is their nature to look for the best mate they can get whilst also remaining safe and secure (hypergamy). This is precisely what is happening here. You are currently / was her best option. She is pretty much facing her wall at this point (39). She keeps you around out of fear for not getting anything better. Trust me, there will be times further down the line where she will get a b…
/r/askTRP15/01/19 06:14 PM
6

She can claim whatever she wants. She is broken. At any point in time she can go back to her cock carousel ways. Don't forget she will always use this as an excuse to justify her actions and if you don't agree with her, you'll be painted as an inconsiderate dick. There is no winning here and you're sort of standing on a very crumbly thing she has built to maintain sanity. One thing to suggest: DO NOT GET MORE EMOTIONALLY ATTACHED! In fact, try to get yourself unattached as much as you can. The w…
/r/askTRP15/01/19 05:59 PM
9

You're in the anger phase. This means you have now realised that the world is not how Disney describes it. Often, it is the breakups that cause us to question things. You start thinking what went wrong, you then realise that you're not alone and that many other men experienced the same thing. At this stage, you have 2 options: - blame yourself by hamstering away in blue pill manner, followed by a set of new LTRs down the road, which all end up the same, ultimately crushing you down as a person o…
/r/askTRP15/01/19 05:49 PM
3

Mostly meat and fats. I usually go for either a steak, chicken, pork. Fried or oven baked. Lots of nuts, olive oil, some cheese. I'll eat some carbs such as roasted potatoes, rice, grits. Top up with various forms of salad and mayo. Generally lots of fats is my way to go. You sort of turn into a fat burning machine on Intermittent Fasting anyways. I usually follow up the main meal with a dessert too (oatmeal with fruit and honey, protein powder pancakes etc. Etc.) I don't pay much attention to m…
/r/askTRP14/01/19 10:14 PM
23

Typical weekday: - 7AM wake-up, drink 500ml of water, get myself a coffee and start getting ready. 8AM arrive at the gym, lift heavy shit for an hour, keep drinking water. 9AM take a shower, get another coffee, go to work 9.30AM to 12:00PM work, get up every now and then, attend meetings, talk to people about work stuff. Depending on the person, either be formal or be work-friendly (never shit where I eat so theres that) 12:00PM to 1:00PM take a break, listen to a podcast or continue listening t…
/r/askTRP14/01/19 09:50 PM
4

Yup
/r/askTRP14/01/19 09:20 PM
2

Good initial idea. Although the fact he has connections in upper management makes it a little bit more difficult. He is the type of a person who would hold a grudge and potentially try to undermine me further on. Sometimes full alpha doesn't work.
/r/askTRP10/01/19 10:39 PM
6

Keep plating and start saving up for child support... On a serious note, ask her to do a preggo test and cover your member next time
/r/askTRP06/01/19 05:32 PM
2

Personal experience: living abroad for the past 8 years. Moved from central Europe to the UK. No prior English language experience. You want to be speaking to everybody, everywhere about anything. This achieves two things, you learn the language by osmosis really quickly and your social skills improve. No need to overcomplicate this. You do have to watch out in the first few months for depression. You might find yourself a bit lonely and distant but you have to fight it. Speak to people and it w…
/r/askTRP06/01/19 01:57 PM
3

So? She doesn't know what to expect anyway. Don't expect her to cum either.
/r/askTRP05/01/19 02:24 PM
7

Don't argue with her. I would soft next her and apply dread. Appear to have many females around you. Flirt with them, have fun. You can dismiss every argument with walking out and giving her longer and longer soft nexts. She will either conform like a female should or will undoubtedly cause your prolonged withdrawal or attention to break the relationship. Even the best sex is not worth wasting your time on arguments. Another idea is to simply go and fuck another girl in secrecy. You say the sex …
/r/askTRP05/01/19 01:52 PM
7

Alpha vibe is a manifestation of the alpha traits. You either remain being alpha, move in and out of it for various reasons or are beta. There is no singular definition of an Alpha male. You have different societies, traditions, societal expectations and also choices of women. Alpha could be defined as the most socially successful male in a given societal group. If you had 3 men in a room, one was a blue pilled white knight, the second one was a regular guy and the third was confident, attractiv…
/r/TheRedPill05/01/19 01:44 PM
2

You fucked up. Get a better password for your phone. Also keep your frame and stop with the oneitis bullshit. She hasn't broken up with you so she is now playing the victim card. If you won't let her play you about, she will either break up with you or the whole thing will act as massive dread for her and she'll start craving your attention.
/r/askTRP05/01/19 01:32 PM
3

Probably is. Act with your brain not your dick!
/r/askTRP05/01/19 01:25 PM
3

No. Stop acting like a little bitch! Find yourself something productive to do.
/r/askTRP05/01/19 01:07 PM
4

Do it missionary, slow but confident thrust so the hymen breaks. Might see a bit of blood on your member. She will naturally push you away due to pain but just stay at it. Its better to break it in one go than reattempt. Then just give her a bit of attention, cuddling. Play the romantic card. As much as she might not be a LTR material, there is no need to fuck her first time up.
/r/askTRP05/01/19 01:06 PM
2

Who cares? She didn't say anything in the form: "hey, im a bit upset and i dont want to ruin our meeting, lets meet sometime next week, i'll get you a coffee". This would have been a response that would have avoided me from nexting her if I were you. Anything else is a waste of time and attention seek.
/r/askTRP05/01/19 01:02 PM
9

And why did you have to bring this up? You attempted to ridicule him in front of others. He basically alpha-fucked your ass with the jealousy comment. Good for him! Get a grip and stop being a jealous prick!
/r/askTRP05/01/19 01:00 PM
3

It is not. If she has a genuine reason for not turning up, she will attempt to reschedule herself. Don't shower her with attention!
/r/askTRP05/01/19 12:57 PM
5

Send a text an hour before the date, saying: "just confirming the time and place, blah blah". If she flakes or comes up with an excuse without a reschedule on her part, next.
/r/askTRP05/01/19 12:55 PM
1

Currently doing a PhD. Aiming to follow with my own company once I'll be able to monetize my findings. Working as a teaching associate on the side.
/r/askTRP04/01/19 10:02 PM
3

First and foremost, good approach to TRP, slow, steady, almost monk-mode like. This is exactly what I would suggest after a breakup. Mass media suggests the same stuff: "put yourself first, blah blah...", Just in a much more beta way. First insecurity is something that you're already addressing. Lifting is the defacto cure for many problems of a modern man. It makes you look better, feel better and boosts your confidence due to increased testosterone - no negatives if you do it correctly! Anothe…
/r/askTRP04/01/19 07:24 PM
1

Another one bites the dust
/r/askTRP03/01/19 07:43 PM
1

Go MGTOW then. Noone keeps you here
/r/askTRP03/01/19 07:29 PM
5

4 - 6 months usually depending whether you've developed oneitis for her, potentially more. Oneitis is a disease of modern men. Cures include: - lifting - self improvement - lifting - taking up a hobby - lifting - reading quality stuff - watching quality stuff - lifting - going to the gym to lift - going monk mode for a bit - writing out all bad qualities of the ex and re-reading them few times a day - lifting heavy shit! In all honesty, there is no magic cure. You have to realise and understand …
/r/askTRP03/01/19 07:02 PM
1

Sounds like massive troll looking at his posts. Waste of time
/r/askTRP03/01/19 06:55 PM
3

Its the biological nature of female human beings to be attracted to strong, large males. They can tell you otherwise but subconsciously, they are attracted to a muscular male. Call it shallow if you want. Would you consider liking well rounded breasts and ass, as shallow for males? I would not by any means. Surely, partner has to have certain degree of mental capacity but the initial attraction must come from somewhere, usually looks.
/r/askTRP03/01/19 06:44 PM
3

You're doing something wrong. The main culprit is usually the diet. Calculate your daily energy expenditure using a TDEE calculator online. Then add 300 - 400kcal on top of that, best in the form of proteins. Recalculate every few months to update weight and body composition. In terms of recovery: sleep 7 to 9 hours a day, having quality sleep stretch your muscles and take cold/hot showers to relax them do proper warmups before your main training sessions, prepare your body for the beating it is…
/r/askTRP03/01/19 06:41 PM
1

It has a bit of an influence on your limits when it comes to muscle building. You'll have a very hard time getting to the point of Brian Shaw for example. He has a massive skeletal frame plus amazing genetic predispositions to build muscle but also gain fat - typical endomorph. This however does not mean that the muscles just appear out of nowhere on him. The man lifts some heavy ass shit and eats like a bear. Unless you have some massive genetic defects, ultra-low testosterone and a skeletal fr…
/r/askTRP03/01/19 06:25 PM
6

Yes
/r/askTRP03/01/19 06:19 PM
4

I read Wikipedia articles about fucking everything. History, biology, genetics, technology, ideologies. Make a habit of going down the Wikipedia rabbit hole for an hour a day (pick a subject, then click on links that point to topics and go like that recursively). The fact that everything is linked makes it a lot easier to make connections between topics, understand them and recall later. You won't notice when you're past the hour if you focus so set yourself an alarm. I had to do it when I reali…
/r/askTRP03/01/19 05:03 PM
1

First of all, you won't change your height. Try stretching by hanging from a bar. It should straighten you up a bit, potentially ad another inch on if you do it long enough and keep at it. Secondly, test your testosterone levels and make sure they are in the correct range. Chances are they aren't and you're adopting feminine body traits. If they are below average, read TRP to learn about natural ways of boosting your T. If that doesn't help, consult an endocrinologist and push for Testosterone R…
/r/askTRP03/01/19 04:56 PM
4

Fucking hell...
/r/askTRP02/01/19 01:39 PM
9

No. There are two reasons: - the guy is alpha and knows how to game women - the guy is rich and she uses him as beta bucks One of those will apply.
/r/askTRP02/01/19 01:30 PM
6

Ironic for the love of God. Drop drugs you lowlife!
/r/askTRP01/01/19 07:12 PM
3

You cheated, own it! You left the door open so now don't contact her and see if she contacts you. The more you'll pressure her and play the beta apologetic mambo, the less of a chance that you'll get her back. Ease out, evaluate your life and move on. If she re-initiates contact, meet with her and start again like with sny other girl.
/r/askTRP01/01/19 06:56 PM
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Don't unblock her. If she cares, she'll contact you via other forms if communication etc.
/r/askTRP01/01/19 02:38 PM
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Nothing changes. You still game them and vet them same way. I would say it will be even easier once they reach the wall
/r/askTRP31/12/18 07:26 PM
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I'm afraid you will not find a meaningful relationship with your attitude... Sorry :( The problem, yet again is not with women hitting the wall, it is with you, same as when you were 15 bro. You talk about not having any meaning in life, a possibility of suicide because you can't find a meaningful relationship with a WOMAN... WOMAN, WOMAN, WOMAN... See where I'm getting at? The hard reality is that you will turn into beta bucks if the center of your attention and the source of meaning and happin…
/r/askTRP31/12/18 09:49 AM
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There is a third factor, their ability to reproduce. The possibility of a woman to conceive a baby drops down once she is around 35. Many women want to be mothers
/r/askTRP31/12/18 09:40 AM
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You're mistaking what TRP is... It is a set of tools that are meant to open your eyes to the true nature of women and how the sexual marketplace works. You can't nutshell this shit because there are number of aspects to it. Present a life situation and there will be a RP version of it that could describe to you the power dynamics of it plus non-verbal communication and frames. TRP is a way of life, not a textbook that you can summarise.
/r/askTRP31/12/18 12:16 AM
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It doesn't matter where and when really. First of all, expect yourself to massively underperform and probably be really stressed. Its normal and everyone goes through it. Now, don't go crazy with techniques and positions. You need to be relaxed for this to work. Best strategy here: Get into foreplay with her. It will relax both of you. Touching, playing with her nipples, fingering, rubbing her clit. Make yourself comfortable by letting her give you a blowjob or a handjob first. Then go missionar…
/r/askTRP30/12/18 11:34 PM
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Joe Rogan
/r/askTRP30/12/18 11:18 PM
1

It is important to define what we understand as vulnerability and what we understand as a weakness. Vulnerability (or being vulnerable): a state in which you expose yourself to the world in a way that leaves you open towards a potential attack, period. Weakness: a physical or mental attribute that when taken advantage of by a third party when you are in a vulnerable state, causes you harm or causes your frame to give. These two concepts are not the same but neither mutually exclusive. One is a f…
/r/askTRP30/12/18 11:08 PM
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What i don't understand in your statements is the problem. It seems like there isn't one and you're looking at your situation from the point of view of a frustrated and hurting person who just finished a LTR (yeah, 5 months is not long). Neither your height nor your ethnicity has anything to do with the potential you have to date beautiful women. You said yourself that you had no problems dating 5-7s with occasional 8s. Now have in mind that many men struggle to get 5s on a consistent basis, eve…
/r/askTRP30/12/18 10:58 PM
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There is nothing to handle here. Enjoy the IOIs and even more raised SMV. Make sure to not cross any barriers that you've set for yourself and you're golden. If she goes further with her advances, anonymously try to inform her boyfriend and dont give in.
/r/askTRP30/12/18 02:15 PM
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"Community info" section of the main TheRedPill subreddit which contains links to starting point threads, blogs, books which are necessary to internalise in order to unplug from the matrix and swallow the red pill! Mic down
/r/askTRP29/12/18 11:23 PM
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Bit of an overstatement. Men, similarly to women experience the wall. Our prime years begin around 30 - 35 and continue for around 10 - 20 years give or take. Once you're past 50 - 60 you end up in a similar position to women who approach their 30s - the wall. However... The wall for men is a bit different than for women. Unlike women, men close to the end of their prime period have most likely attributed a substantial portion of resources such as wealth or power. These resources act as a buffer…
/r/askTRP29/12/18 11:10 PM
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I believe you have a major problem with happiness. TRP suggests (correctly), same as many many classical philosophers, that happiness comes from within. You propose 2 options, MGTOW and virgin marriage. Both of your examples are built upon women right in the center of them. Your question is not wrong. It is however asked in a wrong community. TRP advocates for de-pedestalisation of women and true happiness as a man where you're the only person who controls your life. Stop watching bullshit TV sh…
/r/askTRP29/12/18 11:04 PM
2

"If you can't handle me at my worst, buy me a beer"
/r/askTRP29/12/18 06:47 PM
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Don't be a bitch
/r/askTRP29/12/18 06:43 PM
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Great advice here OP. I'd just add that your dad is currently going through the possibility of his father's death. He is fighting and doesn't want to accept it. Make him aware that you are there for him but really... try to distance yourself from this unless he directly approaches you for a talk. To him the loss is much greater than to you in this case. Contrary to common sense, him fighting and clinging to save your grandpa might be his way of doing a last few good things for his father. He wan…
/r/askTRP29/12/18 04:30 AM
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Wouldn't be surprised...
/r/askTRP29/12/18 04:19 AM
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Hell yes! He's already up there knowing what she actually did and dealt with it. Many men are oblivious cucks who pretend the feeling in their stomachs (yes the one that feels like smth is wrong) is just them overreacting. Where do you think the information we have on marriages comes from? Healthy ones? Fuck no! You gotta have 50 failed men who share their experiences so the next 5000 can learn from it. Respect to them for taking one for the team.
/r/askTRP29/12/18 04:18 AM
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Gotcha incel ;)
/r/askTRP29/12/18 04:03 AM
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Where is the question? To throw in my £0.02... Have a look at the western civilisation since 1950 onwards and tell me that there are absolutely 0 successful marriages and I'll buy you a crate of beer. Do you know what the difference is between women these days and back then? None! We now have a bunch of cucked bluepilled men who cannot build healthy, long-lasting relationships with women because of all the conditioning. This is the route cause of the problems TRP is trying to solve. Including MR…
/r/askTRP29/12/18 03:58 AM
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Finding a place for yourself as soon as you can then being honest with the girl you live with. She is clearly into you a lot since she "hopes you won't find" a place to live. This is purely my perspective here as TRP is amoral. I personally would not string her along for longer than necessary for me to get out of there, and even during that period, cooling down the relationship I had with her as much as I could. Your question is about the moral standpoint. TRP won't answer this for you since its…
/r/askTRP29/12/18 03:40 AM
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Second post with the same question today, just worded differently, still arguing the same bullshit about being disgusted by sluts. Just from a different random account... Pathetic... Get a life. Seems like all you want to hear is for someone to say: "yes, we all agree, who needs women!?". Too bad snowflake, self-loathe as much as you want whilst we have fun with women.
/r/askTRP29/12/18 03:30 AM
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I have a weird feeling about you. You're either an incel who is slowly transitioning into something normal and having second thoughts and fighting your anger or you're a feminist (woman or man) trying to elicit as much heat here so you have something to grab onto whilst saying that redpill is bad. Answering to your statement though: The facts are, we're well aware that looks pass, women do too, the wall happens to both sexes. You're saying: "how are you not disgusted by sluts?". Its simple, its …
/r/askTRP29/12/18 01:03 AM
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Well aware of that ;)
/r/askTRP29/12/18 12:36 AM
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You could say I'm as slutty as them if not more. It works both ways
/r/askTRP29/12/18 12:32 AM
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It would be good if you could post it on the main subreddit and share your experiences. BPDs are hard to notice at first, they make you attached and feeling guilty and then torment you for years. Men should be aware of the signs and exit as soon as they can, just like you did. TRP is still alive! It is under quarantine but you can make an explicit request to subscribe to it. When you're using the mobile app, it will not let you do this. You will have to find it on the reddit website using a PC, …
/r/askTRP28/12/18 09:08 PM
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Replied. Set up that cooking session at her place in a week or so.
/r/askTRP28/12/18 07:44 PM
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A nice soft wet pussy and a good mouth to suck on your member. No need to have respect for them to fuck them
/r/askTRP28/12/18 07:38 PM
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Very good news, I'd actually reward her for all that. Take her for a nice date but don't tell her the reason. Her hamster will figure it out.
/r/askTRP28/12/18 07:37 PM
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You actually have many many options in terms of countries you can move to. I would avoid westernised countries like US, UK, AU, NZ, Canada for obvious reasons (SJWs, feminists everywhere, problematic legal issues, shitty mindsets of women). Nowadays, many European countries such as Poland, Czech Republic, even Germany teach courses in English and have populations of people who have English as their main second language (usually on a high level). The bigger advantage are the more patriarchal and …
/r/askTRP28/12/18 07:33 PM
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Because the ratio of redpilled men to bluepilled betas is like 1:5m or less. Look at all the bluepill conditioning we have in media, schools, homes, social media and literature. We have several generations of soft men raised by mostly women. Always told to respect women, to pedestalise them, to avoid confrontation etc. A lot of the tribe behaviour is now supressed in educational establishments. Boys lack role models, any boy-ish behaviour is immediately stepped on by teachers and carers from ver…
/r/askTRP28/12/18 07:25 PM
1

He is asking a question - askTRP?
/r/askTRP28/12/18 07:17 PM
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The state is against you in this one and so is she. If I was in your position, the first thing I'd do would be to check if the offspring is actually yours - you never know with bitches nowadays, you might get lucky. Other than that, start saving up for child support and start planning an escape path. Often, child support is much much cheaper than living with the child and her, especially that she WILL become a super entitled bitch, more and more with time. Another option you have, which also inv…
/r/askTRP28/12/18 07:15 PM
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First of all, massive bow to you bro. It's not easy to go forward with a move like that. Good job you've planned things out and kept your blood cold. BPDs tend to emotionally restrain you so sometimes you can feel trapped. Good job! In terms of finances, I usually tend to go with an Excel spreadsheet for inflows and outflows plus any savings and shares / investments. I dedicate an hour or so a week to update it and plan ahead. In terms of meeting new ladies, I would highly recommend a semi-monk …
/r/askTRP28/12/18 07:06 PM
1

Yeah, clearly you have an idea about virgins...
/r/askTRP28/12/18 06:46 PM
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Take a break from work and evaluate the choices you've made in the relationship. Then learn from them. Also, gym, meeting your friends and family. Generally enjoying life as a free man. Plan to take up a hobby, learn a new language. I personally find breakups quite reflective and overall positive in the long run. They distance you from the infatuation of a relationship and expose the mistakes in your game, behaviour etc. As much as there is a notion on the red pill that we should be slaying puss…
/r/askTRP28/12/18 03:17 PM
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No logistics to do that that night unfortunately. She lives with her mother so going to her place was not very possible unfortunately.
/r/askTRP28/12/18 12:53 PM
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There is a specific thread on the main subreddit which you can find by looking at TRP.RED. It was written by a less popular redpiller specifically tailored to men with some forms of issues with their member. It has a lot of valuable information, from herbs and nutrients which you can use to obtain longer lasting erections to things like jelq, pumps and modifying the taste of your cum for the pleasure of the ladies. Probably one of the best, compounded starting points on taking care of your soldi…
/r/askTRP28/12/18 12:32 PM
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This made me think about the Japan situation and how women basically mock MGTOW men who avoid women at all (because of their shitty attitude). There is a post on the main subreddit mentioning just that. Very hard to say what will happen. The marriage era is definitely gone. There is not even a small incentive now to get married for a man. I suspect that LTRs will be the same soon and we'll see a flood of betas being basically drained of their resources for some alpha babies - aka. full on hyperg…
/r/askTRP28/12/18 08:40 AM
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I do agree that there is a degree of "wtf" in the whole situation. Although, she did mention that the past few years she was very dedicated to her education (top 3 UK university) and didn't have time to date (smells a bit like bullshit). I agree it is unnecessarily hard, it feels like a long term shit test and is tiring me out. At this point I've pretty much lost interest and am only curious as to wtf is this (and you're probably right about the A&B mix). Cheers!
/r/askTRP28/12/18 08:32 AM
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Victors don't make everyone aware that they've won. Be silent and humble about what you do. You'll never win with him if your only goal is to win win with him. He has something you don't have - IDGAF mentality so his frame will always win. Once your life is 100x better than his, you win. Keep building your life for yourself, improve, continue hitting the gym and have fun with people who care about you. The rest should be ignored and prefferrably gotten rid of out of your life. You're approaching…
/r/askTRP28/12/18 01:27 AM
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Don't really understand the analogy here (if there is one)
/r/askTRP28/12/18 12:53 AM
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The issue is not lack of abundance mentality or her frame. I've said I don't mind nexting her. There were a few confusing things in her behaviour which I would like to learn upon. I do hit the gym and have plenty of life outside of women.
/r/askTRP28/12/18 12:53 AM
1

30k population city with a university.
/r/askTRP28/12/18 12:23 AM
1

Social media is not a tricky business if you consider using it with the TRP in mind. Your SMV can be amplified if you use things like Instagram correctly. I'd agree with your statement that women are on SM mostly for validation. However if you think about it, the validation has to come from somewhere, usually beta males. If you build a good social media image for yourself and will use it for logistics and vetting only, it won't be much different from having a Whatsapp on steroids. The same rules…
/r/askTRP27/12/18 10:49 PM
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Red flag for sure in terms of a prospect for LTR. She is ashamed of course, mainly because she knows pussy is the only value she has. Keep smashing as a plate but don't you dare promoting this to LTR. Promiscuous behaviour will come out at some point. She is clearly tilted towards hypergamy.
/r/askTRP27/12/18 07:46 PM
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Watch out for: "so you're saying X?" questions.
/r/askTRP27/12/18 06:23 PM
1

Watch Jordan Peterson debating with feminists. Pretty much the highest level!
/r/askTRP27/12/18 06:21 PM
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There is no such thing. Don't go below 18 and you're good.
/r/askTRP27/12/18 01:23 PM
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I live in a 30k town and been fucking 6 - 8s pretty much on a bi-weekly basis since July. 90% of them were Tinder hookups. I'm 5'9, slightly overweight and by no means have a pretty face. You don't need to specify your height in a Tinder bio. Get some good photos of you doing cool activities, smiling, being around people and portraying confidence and you're good to go.
/r/askTRP27/12/18 01:03 PM
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Well this is still based on TRP and more precisely on the idea of SMV. Perceived SMV is a lot of things: appearance, bodily attraction perceived social status within a group (non direct) body language which is confident and portrays alpha traits pheromones and/or good cologne There are many other things that are involved in overall SMV. You of course have the intellectual and game traits which are part of it too. Overall, high SMV is a perceivable outcome of alpha traits which are naturally (bio…
/r/askTRP27/12/18 12:45 PM
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No, not in case of a hack, purely as a precaution in case your phone fucks up, the app goes south etc. Screenshots of everything are usually a good idea. You can backup anywhere really, places like dropbox are quite good.
/r/askTRP27/12/18 11:33 AM
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Did you make it clear in the conversation that you acknowledge that she is a minor and apologise? Also, do not dare to delete the conversation traces! Keep whatever you can saved and backed up. Under no circumstances you should contact this person again, period, even if she seems nice and wants to meet up! What kinda saves you is that you have the logs of conversations. Unless you said something really "offensive" and pushed further, you should be ok even if she falsely accuses you. If she's on …
/r/askTRP27/12/18 11:26 AM
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Where do you live? What was the joke and under what circumstances? Most likely nothing to be worried about unless the minor is a bitch and comes up with fake allegations.
/r/askTRP27/12/18 11:18 AM
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Yeah, don't see a reason why you shouldn't give a short and succinct reply like that. Use pressure flip after that aka. ".. tournament. How about you?". From that you can let her baffle all she wants about her weekend.
/r/askTRP27/12/18 02:48 AM
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Don't reveal things about yourself, don't try to impress women with stories from your life. Make the guess things about you and if they can't guess correctly, don't reveal it. Use things such as: "I bet you didn't think you'd meet a guy like me today" - makes their hamster spin and immediately makes them want to get to know why you're so special. That's how you build mystery.
/r/askTRP27/12/18 02:28 AM
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Stop talking to him
/r/askTRP27/12/18 02:24 AM
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No porn is a must. Nofap is useful for erectile dysfunction and death grip aka. lack of sensation. Fap less, using your imagination rather than porn and you're golden!
/r/askTRP27/12/18 02:23 AM
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Either a burnout or just a mental low as I like to call it. Sometimes we need a week of dumb YT videos and eating shitty food to get back on track. Think of it like a cheat day / week for your mind. Everyone has these and then you get back to normal once you get some rest. Now is a perfect time for this since its Christmas and everyone is in lethargy anyway :D
/r/askTRP27/12/18 01:08 AM
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You have this impression of the manosphere because you read detailed field reports and theory. This is not a result of a 100% rational thinking 100% of the time... We try different things, have successful and unsuccessful encounters with women and see what's working and what is not. Same goes for other parts of life. Immersion is your friend. Read about theory of flow (precisely why video games lure you in for hours). Dedicate yourself to the task you want to accomplish, remove distractions and …
/r/askTRP27/12/18 01:00 AM
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Get yourself a proper diet and lift religiously. You mentioned they smoke weed and drink. What they achieved in a few years might come to you in a year purely because you lack bad habits.
/r/askTRP27/12/18 12:52 AM
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One option would be to relocate again, a bit closer to a larger city, although not necessary at all. Here are my £0.02: You can meet people everywhere you go, the movies idea was good for a start but inherently not a place to converse with people. Gym is the first thing that comes to mind, not so much for meeting people but rather keeping testosterone up and improving SMV (important after you turn 25), otherwise you turn into a soft, wet turd. This would reflect in your interactions with people,…
/r/askTRP27/12/18 12:46 AM
1

Good lad! Do your thing! I thought your father is a couch potato but would like to bond and do things with his son - guess not. You're already better than that, keep doing what you're doing, work out however you can and spend as little time with toxic people as you can, it will pay off. Keep in mind, you're 18 and probably not long until you can move out. Start making some plans.
/r/askTRP27/12/18 12:32 AM
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Totally agree! Slavic countries, Balkans, east Asia. Avoid westernized land as much as you can: US, UK, Canada, NZ and AU, also Nordic countries afe a bunch of feminazis.
/r/askTRP27/12/18 12:27 AM
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TRP is amoral and only a toolbox. Use it however you please. If you want a personal morality lesson which is by no means a reflection of TRP, then here you go: Leave the girl alone unless you want to take care of her and teach her that sex can be pleasant if the person is right - aka you should invest into her or LTR her and work with her on this. If LTR is not something you're looking for, make it clear to her that you just want to bang and if she's not ok with that, leave in peace. To better p…
/r/askTRP27/12/18 12:24 AM
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Tinder for quick fucks, mutual hobbies. Dance classes and clubs (chicks love a guy who can dance), plus you'll be surprised how little men attend these classes (pretty much zero competition)
/r/askTRP27/12/18 12:07 AM
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Don't ask about morality on TRP. TRP is amoral! It is a toolbox that you utilise to live a life of your own to the highest degree possible. Concepts described on TRP work both for moral and immoral actions. That is why we advocate for books such as 48 Laws of Power (which are considered immoral by many) as well as a successful ways to lead a mutually fulfilling LTRs which can seem almost bluepill. You decide what you do with a rifle. You can go to a shooting range and have fun for a day or you c…
/r/askTRP27/12/18 12:04 AM
1

Imported? From what country?
/r/askTRP26/12/18 11:56 PM
1

You're 18, so you're an adult. Yes, you probably live with your parents and are dependant on them. Figure out a way to convince him: say you want to have a hobby and something cool to do with your life. Maybe even convince him to do it with you and maybe ask him to teach you (nice father-son bonding). I assume you told him about redpill and are now in a constant state of argument because he is blue pill conditioned? That is precisely the reason why we advocate for not talking about TRP and follo…
/r/askTRP26/12/18 11:54 PM
2

If you live 40km from the nearest gym, I assume it might be some form of a countryside - aka. Have a bit of space for yourself. Build your own gym! Get hold of a welding machine, some scrap iron and other junk and build your own bench, bar, simple machines. This achieves four things: - 1: you now have a personal gym that you can modify to your needs - 2: you now have a potential hobby (welding) - 3: you have just obtained a skill that can get you a job or open up doors to a small business. - 4: …
/r/askTRP26/12/18 11:44 PM
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You won't obtain IDGAF mentality about everything and everyone, period! Learn that there are things in life that you should by all means give a fuck about (career, your body, close family if they're good). Acknowledge your priorities as everyone has different ones, then proceed to give a fuck about them. The amount of fucks given should be directly proportional to the importance of a given priority. Example 1: your mother becomes sick and needs your help, the amount of fucks given should be high…
/r/askTRP26/12/18 11:37 PM
4

Male love: - pedestalisation of the female - admiration of her care, femininity, body - urge to take care of the female, to protect her - seeing her through pink-shaded sunglasses - IMPORTANT: male will love the woman when she remains the same for a long period of time, even if there are prospects of better candidate, the male will stick around. Female love: - driven by emotional response to your current frame - admiration of your frame, filling it like water fills a vessel, leading to submissiv…
/r/askTRP26/12/18 11:24 PM
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Where to start... First and foremost, do teenagers have a life outside social media these days? It seems as if both her and you are dependant on social media for validation. "She sent this, so I didnt open the message, then seen, didn't respond..." Wtf is this? Lift and use messaging / texting for logistics (2 months of constant texting will dry up a pussy that is drowning - if its not being fucked on a daily basis). Secondly, it sounds as if you gave her some good finger fucking for a bit and g…
/r/askTRP26/12/18 11:11 PM
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This depends on your goal with this plate. Ask yourself: "Do I want to promote her to LTR at some point?" If the answer is yes, ramp up validation a bit but hold frame and don't develop oneitis fir her. If the answer is no, make it clear to her that you're not looking for a relationship long term. If push and pull works and she still requests more validation, she is looking for commitment from you (aka. Walking into her frame).
/r/askTRP26/12/18 03:20 PM
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Red Pill is amoral. It's up to you what you'll do with the information you get from here and its not us or anyone really that should be judging the morality of your decisions. With all the attributes you explain you have, it seems as if you should not have trouble finding women that will do the first 2 out of 3 things. You can of course lie, pretend, obscure truth and lie by omission about the vasectomy and your approach to children. That will get you a larger range of women who have motherhood …
/r/askTRP25/12/18 03:43 PM
2

I agree, the area between your balls and ass has a lot of nerve endings. If done correctly, by pressing or massaging it, you can get a bit of a prostate orgasm. Not many women know about this. She might have specifically googled for new techniques but also she might have past experiences you're not aware of.
/r/askTRP24/12/18 11:26 AM
1

Oh and dread: making her aware in an inobvious way that you have other options than her, that women see you as an attractive male and would go for you if you wanted that. Slight dread is getting out of the house, partying a bit or just in general doing things you want. You know you're not doing anything wrong, she does not! It makes her hamster spin. She starts to wonder what you're doing etc. Reaction to dread is a good indicator of a prospective partner. If she goes ballistic, next immediately…
/r/askTRP22/12/18 05:27 PM
3

Next her. The fact you know she will go bezerk on you says that you know there is something wrong with you. You're a man for Christ sakes! If you're out of the house, no matter where and how long for and she goes nuts rather than try to get your attention in a positive way, she should not be in your life. Do you really want this to get worse? It will I can assure you. She is being disrespectful then lovey dovey, it's one of two things: Bipolar or she's manipulative and has you wrapped around her…
/r/askTRP22/12/18 05:23 PM
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I assume you live together. Go out with your mates or just generally out of the house for an unspecified amount of time. Don't make her aware of where you're going, don't respond to texts, calls etc. Basically apply light dread and see what happens. My bets are she'll get angry, even more nagging, potentially start some blame game. My ex called light dread and assertiveness, abusive but she was a nutjob... Once you know how she reacts, you'll know what to do. If she starts causing trouble, next …
/r/askTRP22/12/18 04:55 PM
2

Actually, just remembered something from few weeks ago. I had a HB7 who never had a kiss either. Bit of an odd one as she denied the kiss on me and went something along the lines of: "Not in public, no" and after a bit of prodding why, in a very shy way she replied: "I never kissed anybody". Turns out that making the whole thing into a game of its own works pretty damn well. Basically you say to her that it's rare and very cute that a girl has not kissed anybody and then say that you'll teach he…
/r/askTRP20/12/18 11:08 PM
1

Good luck bro, report back with progress ;)
/r/askTRP20/12/18 11:01 PM
2

Yup, don't spend too long on teasing though, you have to escalate in a slightly direct manner so she knows what's going on. You can tease her all you want but the longer you restrain from escalation, the higher the chance of her treating you as a friend. I'm not saying go for it and ram your tongue in her throat. Do it in a smart way, understand that escalation is a process and you start small. The more experienced the girl the faster you can progress. Start with nudges to the arm or touching he…
/r/askTRP20/12/18 10:58 PM
3

Innocent or not, it's a woman. Ask her out for a drink / coffee / tea, make her laugh, have a very slight IDGAF attitude (don't overdo this as she is not experienced and most likely scared of very direct approaches). Important part is to build rapport here. She will most likely be looking for a LTR since she's new to dating (all that fairy tale stuff if you know what i mean) so rapport is crucial. Try to escalate playfully, i.e. nudges in the arm, checking out her biceps in a playfully-competiti…
/r/askTRP20/12/18 10:42 PM
2

Out of interest, where do you study, what subjects and why until 10pm? From my own experience the best strategy is to study smart not hard, check yourself out on procrastinating which is usually the biggest culprit. Also look into the Pommodoro method. Many people over-study, meaning they go over the same material too many times. Learn to take really good notes, usually single word concepts as a mind map work extremely well for a lot of material. Actively think about the things you study, as you…
/r/askTRP20/12/18 10:29 PM
1

Look at Hank Moody from Californication. Maybe tweak jeans to be a little bit tighter than his and experiment with ankle-height boots in dark brown and black.
/r/askTRP19/12/18 09:21 PM
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I'd agree about women not being into younger guys, but that's primarily because younger guys have typically lower SMV in relation to such women. Why is that? Signs of immaturity, fuckboy outlook etc. You'd be surprised how much your demeanor can open up. She won't be bothered about you being 2 years younger than her after a good fuck. Dressing more maturily puts you apart from 1000s of guys your age which already should make things easier.
/r/askTRP19/12/18 09:18 PM
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Nothing wrong in your way of dressing if you're aiming at a certain range of "women". It might be okay for teenagers but will limit your choices. I'd slowly start implementing the wardrobe you want to have in 2 years. You don't have to walk around in shirts everyday if you don't want to but try to make it more moderate than now if you want a wider range of choices.
/r/askTRP19/12/18 08:59 PM
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If you know what you'll be talking about beforehand, try to make it into a story. Storytelling is one of the best ways of breaking the nervous pattern in public speaking. When you're out there on the stage / panel, find 2 - 3 people in the audience that you'll be focusing on 80% of the time, the 20% left should be glances around the audience in a general fashion. Now once you've spotted the 2 - 3 people in the audience, systematically switch your gaze between them as you say your story. Having s…
/r/askTRP19/12/18 12:43 AM
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Treat women as "the most responsible teenager in the room". Approach them as you would your younger sister, meaning with tease, laughter ultimately treating them as little girls. No incest ofc. With that mindset, outcome independence comes in (what's the worst thing that can happen, she'll moan to your parents). In terms of expectations, what would you expect from your younger sister? Probably to tease you back but ultimately lose the playful fight because you're her bigger bro. You wouldn't exp…
/r/askTRP18/12/18 11:39 PM
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Find a MMA instructor that is NOT a woman. Might be harder to achieve the same with college in terms of mentorship as academic institutions are currently under feminist siege. You can try taking different classes if possible. I'd be 100% happier to travel 20 miles for a different MMA class than to be trained by a woman. The problem here is that if a woman is above you in anything, she is no longer shit testing you. It's a mistake to take these little occurrences of neutral or negative attention …
/r/askTRP18/12/18 11:05 PM
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She was on the fattier side, didn't stop her from eating too much and then throwing tantrums
/r/askTRP17/12/18 05:05 PM
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First LTR, low SMV on my side, very Blue Pilled. Working on it.
/r/askTRP17/12/18 08:41 AM
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By all means. It happened abroad, on the same night she passed out of hysteria because I said I'm taking a plane back without her and we're done. Agreed to stay, lasted another 2 months and gave up. Thank the Lord I'm out of that mess. Never put your dick in crazy, learned the hard way.
/r/askTRP16/12/18 09:47 PM
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Aight, he's your mentor most likely. Appreciate the push and pull, show that you're learning from him. Also, if situations such as the one with the queue happen again, stand your ground but remain friendly and playful about it. Never get defensive. Good job for handling it by standing your ground though.
/r/askTRP16/12/18 09:44 PM
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Would you say that he helps you out if you're stuck? By that I mean both in terms of work and socially (introduces you to people, mentions you). Interns get a lot of the bitch work but that not necessarily means he is your mentor, you might simply be doing his bitch work. Does he ever introduces you to some more serious work? Like lets you do things he does so you learn?
/r/askTRP16/12/18 09:36 PM
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Lying down in the middle of the street in hysteria because she had an ice cream and thought she'll get fat...
/r/askTRP16/12/18 09:30 PM
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Are you certain the relationship between you two is truly a student - mentor kinda thing? If it is, it might be him pushing you a bit. I have a mentor like that and I understood that such behaviour is his way of checking if you learn. Alphas notice a lot more because they are generally very socially aware. A good alpha, assuming you'll show that you're picking up on his subtle teaching, will notice that and work with you to help you. A word of caution, the above checks out only if he is truly yo…
/r/askTRP16/12/18 09:28 PM
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There are of course no golden answers as there are many factors that come into play. She might have mental issues, she might be an amazing actor as you said, she might also be simply seeking validation and attention. I'll disagree with you and say that another option could be that she is in fact a decent person. Many women are good but the emotions and hormones take the lead when they deal with high SMV male. There are also of course bitches and psychos who will use power play to raise their ego…
/r/askTRP13/12/18 11:42 PM
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This is a problem I've found myself too. Almost always, during my unplugged days it ended up with me committing to her, which then of course ended up with bitchy behaviour. My best bet is to maintain frame no matter what. Eventually, her behaviour will change because the facade is hard to keep up. If her facade is: "I'm a good girl who respects herself", then follow it without changing or losing frame. You hold your frame, she drops facade eventually so the end result is that you maintain the po…
/r/askTRP13/12/18 03:03 PM
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Python is probably the easiest and most cashable programming / prototyping language at the minute. By cashable I mean you can find many job adverts that need Python. Start with a simple google search for Python tutorials. Learn about basic data structures (variables, arrays, matrices) as they apply to all languages. Don't just learn a language for the sake of it. Come up with a project and utilise whatever you can find to accomplish it. I.e. make a plan to create a simple website. For this you w…
/r/askTRP09/12/18 07:17 PM
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I've recently started following the carnivore diet myself. Mainly because of the health benefits. I'm currently on week 5. I highly recommend it for various reasons: - very balanced energy levels throughout the day - increased overall focus on the tasks i need to do throughout the day - minimal or no insulin spikes due to extreme low carb characteristics of this diet (no mood swings, no sleepiness during the day) - acts as an elimination diet (removes all possible food based allergens) so the wh…
/r/askTRP21/11/18 09:53 PM
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