How do professionals find time to mingle?

KeffirLime · 2018-05-25T16:56:11+00:00

I work 12 hours a day at the moment(including weekedends), lift in my lunch breaks, go out/see a plate 3 times a week. Usually a bar with friends. You make time for what your needs dictate. If you're raging for new pussy, make time, go out, get new pussy. If you're satisfied with banging LTR not going out, then stick to that.

Phoenixston · 2018-05-25T16:48:11+00:00

If all you’re doing is studying and working then you’re going to have a difficult time. I meet girls through participation in activities/sports of interest or hobbies. Also use dating apps like Tinder for backups when I do find time to properly go out.

As-You-Were · 2018-05-25T20:59:52+00:00

I was contracted to a 9-5; usually I was in at 8:30, and it wasn't rare that I'd still be working at 8.

We had to abide by a dress-code.. suit, tie, smart shoes, that kinda shtick.

I figured that 'student night' was Thursday night, so when I was in the mood for an 18-23 YO I'd hit the bars local to the office for 1-2 hours and meet girls that way. By micromanaging time spent into half hour segments I was able to utilize my time effectively, broken down as follows (assuming I finished at 8):

2000-2030 - Approaching, gaming, and getting numbers.

2030-2100 - Chatting, drinking, playing pool, waiting for all approached girls to leave.

2100-2130 - New crop of girls enter/leave, go to different bar continue to game and getting numbers.

2130-2200 - Closing available prospects and home time.

Working out if I got 3-4 numbers a night, I could pipeline AT LEAST one date for the following week, then kinda rinse and repeat so my pipeline was never empty.

The way you've wrote your post it's almost from a place of comfort and excuses. Maybe you just need to get out there, we believe in you!

pisspoordecisions · 2018-05-25T21:15:31+00:00

How big is your network in your city? Go out on the weekends, maybe one happy hour a week. Play a sport.

I play soccer 3 days a week, go to happy hour with friends on Thursday, usually go out once or twice on the weekends. I still have the time to do everything you’re doing, while working a full time job and a side gig. It’s easy to keep busy when you have a big network. With you being right out of school, it might take another year or so to really pick up. I’m 25 for reference.

Title	How do professionals find time to mingle?
Author	dahelpta
Upvotes	13
Comments	11
Date	May 25, 2018 4:44 PM UTC (8 years ago)
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