Plate: „It‘d be nice to know when you start getting serious with another girl. I don‘t want us to cut contact out of nowhere and rather know before it happens because I care about you and our relationship.“ I gave her an honest answer: „I understand your concern. You‘ll know when it happens.“ Was that a good answer?

Also she said the following: „I feel like you‘re seeing our relationship in a light-minded way.“ I didn‘t know what to tell her. I kept my cool and gave her comfort (= justified myself): „If I‘d really see it that way then I wouldn‘t even bother watching a movie with you or having a meal together.“ „Yeah but even my friends say that guys do those things to get sex.“ How the fuck do you handle this?

The thing is tho, sometimes we really just have plain sex dates. Also she broke off contact with me after her friends told her to do so and 1 week later I was inside her again.

I feel like the more I hangout with her the more my frame breaks. How do I handle these situations?