So its easier to escalate on a date, you are one on one, the whole premise is set and so on, in that sense escalation is expected and easier. However if you are at a party, you have tons of people and you see some women you would like to have sex with that evening, how do you proceed? Obviously escalation in that environment is harder and its very hard to isolate if people dont know you, so whats the move?

Escalation is one of my biggest struggles in general, i dont know when to do it and how to do it so it doesnt seem artificial. Do i just have to push through and do it whenever i want and just move on if its not reciprocated?