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I’m 33 and I’ve been there at your age. The most success I’ve had was when I lowered my standards and built up from there. It’s like deloading at the gym. Drop the weights and build up from there. If all the actions are correct you will get stronger my man. That’s my takeaway from TRP
/r/askTRP13/02/21 01:33 AM
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And stop going for those high level chicks. Love all women that spark your libido. Are you only pining for the “9s and 10s”? That’s on you. Have sex with all the girls. STOP having oneitis for only those higher level girls. Fuck then all, but to an extent. NOW that’s a dude with high testosterone spreading his seed. Edit yet again: See the music video Dancing in the Dark by Bruce Springsteen. At the end the dude bring up an average looking girl up on the stage. Become that and bring these girls …
/r/askTRP13/02/21 01:24 AM
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Ok, realize that no one is truest beta or alpha. Change your fucking perspective
/r/askTRP13/02/21 01:19 AM
1

Don’t be excited. If you want to meet your basic needs of sex... go for all the girls that past your libido test. Most of these people post about living lavish... but most of the time they are at home with their parents.
/r/askTRP13/02/21 12:50 AM
2

Social media Extremism
/r/askTRP12/02/21 03:17 PM
1

I worked at a nonprofit that supports people with disabilities. The upper management was strictly conservative and at a company party the husband told me about his gun collection and stated that black people shouldn’t own guns. Best take away is to realize that work is work and don’t shit where you eat. Doesn’t matter what your political ideology is. Just do your damn job and go home.
/r/askTRP11/02/21 08:03 PM
1

Take waist measurements and shoulder measurements.
/r/askTRP09/02/21 01:24 AM
1

Eat a little bit above your tdee and make strength gains. You will not gain 20 pounds of muscle as a natural. Even with steroids, dirty bulking leads to unnecessary fat gain. Find the right amount of calories to make consistent gains in reps and total pounds on the barbell or dumbbell. Focus on your bodyweight compare to your strength. When the time comes to lean out a little... just drop the volume and keep the strength to preserve muscle.
/r/askTRP09/02/21 01:22 AM
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Hair flips
/r/askTRP07/02/21 09:33 PM
1

Your body seeks homeostasis. Any fluctuation, both sides of the extreme, can result in sodium retention or the flushing of water. Google it. Oh, and chances are that you are not at the point of drying out. Just reduce calories and give some time to burn body fat. Nothing drastic https://exrx.net/Bodybuilding/PreparationOutline Edit: A final word... Even if you get to the desired level of body fat you will never be satisfied. Looksmaxx, mewing, and fawning over a well defined jawline of a male po…
/r/askTRP07/02/21 03:09 PM
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The grass always seem greener on the other side. Just understand that once you have more women in your life you will just want something else. When you get something else you will just want another thing. Be comfortable with that
/r/askTRP07/02/21 12:33 PM
1

You could. Either way, be friendly and banter. Get them talking. Just another person talking with you, no big deal. You can use that as preselection when when other gym bunnies see them talking to you.
/r/askTRP07/02/21 12:31 PM
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Was it in person? It’s hard to interpret the paraverbal and nonverbal language with a comment on social media.
/r/askTRP06/02/21 05:58 PM
1

Nice.
/r/askTRP06/02/21 05:54 PM
5

When ever I hear mewing or looksmaxx... alarm bells go off.
/r/askTRP06/02/21 05:53 PM
1

More water, steady sodium in your diet. Any sudden increases or decreases of those variables can influence your subcutaneous water.
/r/askTRP06/02/21 05:52 PM
1

If you choose to. Edit: If you submit to the idea of falling in love. Go for it. At least the behaviors are shaped where the girl provides based on the command. On the other hand, most guys fall in love jumping through hoops of requests from a woman. The end result is that she would get bored and will look for outlets such as “Girls Night” or the gram. It is preferable for men to get bored but, hey, go ahead and fall in love.
/r/askTRP01/02/21 11:36 PM
7

Try this... get to a point where you have the girl do things for you. I think the term for this is compliance loops; girls do this all the time as a way to tame men. Ideally you should be doing this with a lady right off the bat. Otherwise you have to retrain over old behaviors. “Come over, bring beer” “Be ready by 9, wear sexy underwear” Edit: The psychological benefit is that you are up on the high chair instead of her... you won’t fall in love.
/r/askTRP01/02/21 06:39 PM
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Nothing. Go with it. Shape their behavior so they call you daddy in the sack. “Yes daddy” “I’m your dirty little slut, daddy” Now don’t go falling in love, but certainly have some fun.
/r/askTRP01/02/21 02:26 PM
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Whatever you do, don’t get sucked into their social media world.
/r/askTRP30/01/21 06:14 PM
1

He could blow up the girls phone and show up at work with flowers instead
/r/askTRP30/01/21 06:12 PM
1

Yes, just another comic book nerd
/r/askTRP30/01/21 06:10 PM
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Fuck that. Buy some X-men cyclops sun glasses. Tell them it controls the lasers and showers of sparks.
/r/askTRP30/01/21 02:39 PM
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Try the bottom part next time. With women, your mental point of view aka frame should be inviting them to be part of your life. In this case they are joining you. Women flake. People flake. Always carry on. You could have went out and still met other people.
/r/askTRP30/01/21 02:38 PM
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Weight training then throw in some cardio Learn about TDEE and how many calories you burn a day. Eat below that to lose weight but use your strength training to preserve muscle
/r/askTRP18/01/21 10:49 PM
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Tell her your multiorgasmic.
/r/askTRP17/01/21 09:16 PM
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Alarm bells go off when I maxxx on the end of a word. Tindermaxxx Facial hairMaxx Looksmaxxx Teethmaxxx
/r/askTRP17/01/21 07:39 PM
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If that’s what you want then go for it. After that, lower you standards to get sex and work your way up. Best of lick
/r/askTRP17/01/21 07:36 PM
3

The heck is a whoremaxx
/r/askTRP17/01/21 07:00 PM
2

Lower your standards
/r/askTRP17/01/21 03:41 PM
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Don’t call the girl then.
/r/askTRP17/01/21 01:57 PM
5

Sounds like a bot
/r/askTRP17/01/21 12:35 AM
1

And the benefit is that this mindset creates abundance along with the experience. Too many guys start off wanting to chase/attract the hot ones while ignoring the opportunities with other women; that is a form of oneitist.
/r/askTRP15/01/21 06:50 PM
3

Yes, use the peepee test. Every man has a limit.
/r/askTRP15/01/21 10:21 AM
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Brother, have sex with them. Play the game and get experience points. If you want to play the social circle game on one or both then set up social situations and see who they pull through. If you are asking this question then play the game.
/r/askTRP15/01/21 12:25 AM
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I bet you guys pose in gymshark for the gram too.
/r/askTRP10/01/21 12:06 AM
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Hell yeah
/r/askTRP09/01/21 11:45 PM
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...yes
/r/askTRP09/01/21 11:30 PM
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Alright I’m in on this post. If I was you I’d research some party college located in a small town area. Take a holiday and head to some type of college homecoming or other type of festive. The bars in town will only be 6 and they will be located closed to each other. Gas stations will sell beer. Go, interact, and remain a mystery. Women will love it. You will meet all types of girls according to that list.
/r/askTRP09/01/21 11:20 PM
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That phrase seems to be a used often with newbies. Keep lifting. Get stronger in other lifts as well and no one will say that phrase or try to give gym advice. Keep going
/r/askTRP09/01/21 11:11 PM
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Read the sidebar. Start with that. And so what if the OP lives at home. Edit: If living at home, then the mentality needs be with other girls besides this... one. Say the phrase I posted and go out. It’s as easy as that. When you choose a place to go to afterwards it’ll be fine. Take her to your home or if you want to get into her place, then say “Can I use your restroom” if taking her back to her place. I dont know the exact situation but OP will need to think on the spot. Either way, OP can in…
/r/askTRP09/01/21 09:30 PM
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Enter the scene with a “have fun mindset” visit people and girls (especially a college parts). Have fun. If you find yourself in a situation where the girl likes you, make out and take it from there.
/r/askTRP09/01/21 08:59 PM
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“Hey I’m heading to.... come with”
/r/askTRP09/01/21 08:52 PM
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Hang in there. Just lost a grandfather last week and the burial was on Christmas Eve. It sucks but I have to maintain my routines.
/r/askTRP28/12/20 11:10 AM
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Pick a day to cum bomb a lady. If you aren’t producing sperm, shoot your load into the gal 4 or 5 different times in the day. Make her wear a thong or panties to show it. Get to this mindset and point and you don’t have to worry about lovebimboing.
/r/askTRP27/12/20 08:38 PM
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Haha awesome and thoughtful response
/r/askTRP13/12/20 10:39 PM
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Better throw in some pull movements such as chin ups and rows. More pulling movements overall.
/r/askTRP26/11/20 01:32 AM
1

Time to bust out the butt plugs
/r/askTRP26/11/20 12:54 AM
1

Let them go. And for fucks sake don’t kill anyone.
/r/askTRP22/11/20 02:52 AM
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If you are serious, it is not a big deal. Unless you gain some type of value then fuck everybody. Question yourself, what do your friends have to offer you.
/r/askTRP22/11/20 02:42 AM
0

Blow your load
/r/askTRP22/11/20 02:34 AM
3

Perception, society and social media.
/r/askTRP22/11/20 02:33 AM
2

Lol
/r/askTRP22/11/20 02:32 AM
1

Go sky diving. That will teach you about anxiety.
/r/askTRP22/11/20 02:32 AM
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Do your own shit
/r/askTRP22/11/20 02:31 AM
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Does such a group have value to you? When you identify what you get out of it, find the replacement(s)
/r/askTRP21/11/20 09:13 PM
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You should be out chasing dragons and shooting arrows.
/r/askTRP21/11/20 09:12 PM
1

Become process orientated. Enjoy the process. Make changes and assess
/r/askTRP10/11/20 10:39 PM
3

Master bodyweight pull-ups. Get to 40!
/r/askTRP09/11/20 11:34 PM
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Move to a college town in the Midwest. Lift at the gym there
/r/askTRP03/11/20 11:28 PM
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It will build up. Do pull-ups 3 times a week with your typical push pull legs routine
/r/askTRP31/10/20 10:27 PM
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Buy a pull-up bar and some cheap dumbbells. Hit the push muscles but really focus on all of the back muscles. Get to 30 to 40 pull-ups in one go.
/r/askTRP30/10/20 02:24 PM
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Keep pushing forward. When you’re in the beginning stages of building a habit other people disapprove. You are doing this for yourself and no one else. Because you enjoy it. 3 to 10 years from now... random people will compliment you and ask for all sorts of advice.
/r/askTRP16/09/20 09:22 AM
4

Go for a walk and say hi to everyone
/r/askTRP13/09/20 12:57 AM
4

Move on.
/r/askTRP09/09/20 11:56 PM
2

Be a rock to those comments. However be sure that you have some light dread going around. Be the guy other women check out when you are strolling with you ltr.
/r/askTRP09/09/20 11:54 PM
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Same way as if a 1st grader tries to mock you.
/r/askTRP09/09/20 11:52 PM
1

To others, yes.
/r/askTRP30/08/20 08:52 PM
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Stay clear of the looksmaxx crew. Put in the work, eat right, and reach your genetic potential. Learn about different haircuts and styles of clothes. With clothes the focus should be on a proper fit. Now for social abilities make sure you talk to everyone. Do your best as we are still in the midst of the pandemic. Practice
/r/askTRP27/08/20 12:16 PM
1

Sounds like in your eyes she is not a plate. social media is a big red flag in itself. Let her go
/r/askTRP26/08/20 11:35 PM
1

Just say. “FAKE NEWS”. Honestly do nothing. Save the text in case of legal issues but don’t feed that troll.
/r/askTRP25/08/20 10:01 PM
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That’s the problem with me and TRT. I can’t fucking finish if I crash my estrogen. Hard as rocks but nothing. What do I do? Give her a bored look, disengage, and go do something else. What does she think? Who cares
/r/askTRP25/08/20 09:59 PM
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Don’t respond. If she is interested she will hit you up
/r/askTRP25/08/20 09:56 PM
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COVID Cruise
/r/askTRP24/08/20 10:21 PM
1

Put this shit on hold. Don’t call her out in this just move on. Move on with other girls. If she reaches out in the future then do whatever you feel best
/r/askTRP24/08/20 03:32 PM
1

How do you know that you are in a 500 calorie deficit? What tools are you using to monitor?
/r/askTRP24/08/20 03:05 PM
2

Chill a bit. It was your third date and only made out. Hit her up in a week or two. Don’t have her spill out her emotional concerns until you guys fuck. Why? Because that is a one way ticket to the friend zone.
/r/askTRP24/08/20 03:04 PM
1

Banter back. Agree and amplify. Do not get upset.
/r/askTRP24/08/20 03:02 PM
0

Up your calories
/r/askTRP24/08/20 03:00 PM
2

Master chin-ups and do you best with the barbell stuff. Gym was closed for 5 months and just opened August 5th. I’m back up to overhead pressing my bodyweight by 5 times. Took 3 weeks
/r/askTRP24/08/20 03:00 PM
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I don’t think there’s anything right or wrong here. Maybe avoid adding to social media after she ghosted. Definitely avoid reaching out to this lady. She might hit you up in the future though. What would you do with the next girl?
/r/askTRP24/08/20 02:57 PM
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This will only validate the woman. Ghosting causes a mystery where person hamsters about what went wrong.
/r/askTRP22/08/20 11:47 PM
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Guys will inflate their n count... by lying. Either way, why do you want to be around guys with experience? Just to learn from then? I’d keep that brief as woe be the guy who gets the scraps. Practice and make your own path. Better yet, join a swingers club to get your fill.
/r/askTRP22/08/20 01:21 AM
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Heavens no. You will end up wanting to fuck them!
/r/askTRP22/08/20 01:16 AM
2

Take a break from the internet. The moment you pursuit self help the moment the mind tricks you that you are not good enough. Develop a growth mindset. Just like a video game you level up from practice. This include fucking fat chicks.
/r/askTRP22/08/20 01:12 AM
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Hit the strength first then add in the other shit. We will call that auxiliaries.
/r/askTRP22/08/20 01:09 AM
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Proceed forward. One more time with the reschedule though.
/r/askTRP22/08/20 01:08 AM
2

Huh? Most guys will brag about all the sex they didn’t have.
/r/askTRP22/08/20 01:07 AM
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Most will put in the effort to stay in their prime. They will utilize their skills to benefit them. Look at social media. Look at OnlyFans. Flaunt that shit. I don’t blame them as their time is limited.
/r/askTRP22/08/20 01:07 AM
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Because it ends up with them using you.
/r/askTRP22/08/20 01:03 AM
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Ride it through. Your mind is hamstering. Take some time to do things you like while taking care of your kid.
/r/askTRP20/08/20 11:58 PM
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Don’t be friends with girls.
/r/askTRP20/08/20 11:51 PM
2

Don’t let it bother you. Judge her actions and not this dramatic bombardment of words. She might be portraying that she is still desired by other men or she might be fucking him still. Everyone here recommends spinning plates . Continue with this. Other options other opportunities my brother. Do not fall into the mindset that you have to win her over (like some men would do) You do you and next time you see her you cum inside her pussy then send her off to her ex (don’t)
/r/askTRP19/08/20 11:31 PM
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Honestly man.. I started TRT at 29 and for the most part I find almost all women attractive. As long as they pass the pp test then game on. I think by the time men hit their late 20s then they should consider hormone replacement. For the gym and sports, it is far from cheating as you still have to put in the work. Modern society wants you to think it’s cheating and that you can instantly become a superhuman batting homeruns and sprinting full speed all the time. For relation wise. What did I lea…
/r/askTRP19/08/20 11:20 PM
1

AHHHHHHHHH
/r/askTRP19/08/20 07:05 PM
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That's awesome. Kudos for putting in the work.
/r/askTRP19/08/20 06:05 PM
1

Get strong and track data in the big lifts. Take waist to shoulder measurements. Get lean. Sure an ideal physique is like a good resume but your still have to perform and be on point.
/r/askTRP19/08/20 06:02 PM
2

Nothing
/r/askTRP19/08/20 06:00 PM
2

frenulum Oh shit...
/r/askTRP19/08/20 05:47 PM
2

A powerful article. And it works.
/r/askTRP19/08/20 05:45 PM
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It means no contact... 48 to 72 hours give or take. NO CONTACT. Ignore the flood of texts and do your own thing. Resume contact whenever you feel like it. Don't mention anything about ignore and certainly DONT give an ultimatum "If you do this I will"
/r/askTRP19/08/20 05:44 PM
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Ignore and continue. MLB dude is probably a BOT. Will end up sending her a "Colab?" message like the rest.
/r/askTRP19/08/20 05:42 PM
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Don't think anything about this. Wait a day or two then invite. You already has one strike but offered a reschedule. If she accepts and flakes again... move on. In the mean time you talk to other people.
/r/askTRP19/08/20 05:41 PM
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Don't know the context of your life situation but consider this... If she hits you, what will she do in the future?
/r/askTRP19/08/20 05:38 PM
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I wasn't aggressive as a kid. Just didn't have a clue and over reacted to typical teasing. Another huge mistake in my younger years was chasing after girls that just weren't interested. Glad I discovered TRP in my mid 20s as seeing the term onietist and reflecting on my past actions makes a lot of sense. Wasted time. I'm definitely more laid back now. Spent my 20s lifting and in the 30s now.
/r/askTRP19/08/20 05:36 PM
1

Does the king of the jungle bother that a monkey is playing a guitar?! That would be an awesome drawing on a t shirt.
/r/askTRP19/08/20 04:45 PM
1

I like it. That shit jammed her radar. Thus allowing you to remain a mystery.
/r/askTRP19/08/20 04:37 PM
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"2 days ago she randomly texted me to message a mutual friend of ours who she was with to go on a specific place with them."
/r/askTRP19/08/20 04:31 PM
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Do not seek a reason for a ghost. This will drive you mad. This is why when men ghost a girl it drives her nuts. Look you did nothing wrong. You jumped straight to telling her to give you a number. She wasn't attracted enough. Move on.
/r/askTRP19/08/20 04:28 PM
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You did nothing wrong. This is the game. Put this one on hold. Keep pushing forward. Hit her back up in a week or two after you met a couple new girls.
/r/askTRP19/08/20 04:23 PM
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It's a beta bait shit test. "busy."
/r/askTRP19/08/20 04:22 PM
1

Replace the "LoL" with "k."
/r/askTRP19/08/20 04:20 PM
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In my 30s now. I have more interactions with women now then ever. Most of the women I chased in my 20s are now old hags. Keep grinding, lift, eat right, and avoid excessive drugs. Remember that sleep is important too as that adds up as you age.
/r/askTRP19/08/20 04:15 PM
2

This
/r/askTRP19/08/20 04:07 PM
2

Don't go. She's bringing a friend for a reason. A lot of energy and effort for just a hug and a slight kiss.
/r/askTRP19/08/20 04:06 PM
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This could work BUT you got to have the right frame for it. I'd say the moment she puts it on you jump her bones. Satisfaction the rest of the day.
/r/askTRP19/08/20 04:04 PM
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I had to reread this a couple of times. Things started getting intense once in middle school. You know... when children start forming social circles. When I was younger I was a hot head when getting teased. Little did I know that a big reaction like that is what people look for.
/r/askTRP19/08/20 04:02 PM
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Talk to your doctor. If natural, stay away from aromatase inhibitors. Crashed estrogen is just as bad as low T.
/r/askTRP19/08/20 03:59 PM
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Could be hormone issues. Prolactin has this effect. Low t can have this effect. High estrogen has this effect. Crashed estrogen has this effect. Stress and cortisol has this effect. Low calories has this effect. Solution? Get a hormone panel.
/r/askTRP19/08/20 08:16 AM
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Yup. This is it. Dude lost the place in your inner circle. Wouldn’t trust the dude with any tasks.
/r/askTRP19/08/20 08:14 AM
2

Then dont let it bother you. Relish in the fact that dudes are checking her out as your dna seeps out of her holes. That’s the mindset.
/r/askTRP19/08/20 12:25 AM
1

She is your ex. Move on.
/r/askTRP18/08/20 11:38 PM
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This. Dudes will drink fucking bath water for a shitty ass woman.
/r/askTRP18/08/20 11:38 PM
1

It depends on the person. Most of these girls are kind. There are some awful people though. Expand your horizons as this group of women portrays scarcity.
/r/askTRP18/08/20 11:36 PM
1

So? Are you built to the point that girls are checking you out?
/r/askTRP18/08/20 11:33 PM
1

Two strikes Edit: Continue scheduling other girls in the mean time.
/r/askTRP18/08/20 07:08 PM
1

So?
/r/askTRP18/08/20 07:07 PM
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No. That's an ultimatum. A sign of weakness. The woman is already downgraded by these actions.
/r/askTRP18/08/20 07:06 PM
1

No. If they are joking and she's playing along then it's time to cut off all ties. Done. Over. She is his problem now.
/r/askTRP18/08/20 07:05 PM
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"She implied and heard it on the phone" is nothing more than a shit test. You moved on to better pastures and all the men at that company can relish in the fact that your DNA is dripping out of her. THAT's the mentality. Don't explain yourself to her. Just agree and amplify what ever she throws at you.
/r/askTRP18/08/20 07:00 PM
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Oh shit. Just stop talking. Get busy with something else. She's 45...
/r/askTRP18/08/20 06:41 PM
1

Honestly, if the girl placed you on the backburner. Move on. Yes she will squeal when she sees you with another woman. That's called preselectio aka the fear of missing out. Sure she might come around but who cares what she sees you as. Most of the time, when a girl comes around after she had her fun, they just want security. Don't become that beta dude.
/r/askTRP18/08/20 06:36 PM
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Hell yeah... get some experience. I’d go to the bunny ranch and plan a first time experience
/r/askTRP07/08/20 12:31 AM
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I think you know the answer and came here to brag, little man.
/r/askTRP07/08/20 12:30 AM
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Bullshit. Most likely muscle glycogen if he keeps his strength level up.
/r/askTRP30/07/20 12:33 AM
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Brother, you will die... fade away and become dust. Keep eating and never diet down. Eat 8000k a day and do little cardio. Walking? That’s cardio and will kill your gains. Honestly, you will be fine if you underestimate a day or two. You will NOT fade away. If anything, because you posted this, you are on the verge of becoming a fatass by posting something silly like this. Do not fall into the category of a permabulker and do not be afraid of carb fairies. Do some research.
/r/askTRP30/07/20 12:33 AM
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This. It’s all about the mindset. Women come and go. Friends come and go. There is nothing different.
/r/askTRP30/07/20 12:28 AM
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Honesty it’s ones attempt of scripting an observable behavior. This happens all the time with organizations. Nothing wrong with it but take your own spin and adapt.
/r/askTRP30/07/20 12:27 AM
0

... and this isn’t the first time being insulted by a women.
/r/askTRP30/07/20 12:26 AM
5

This post hurts my brain. Why do you even care? Shrug it off bitch.
/r/askTRP30/07/20 12:14 AM
1

They are busy. Only answer is for you to be busy
/r/askTRP25/07/20 10:03 PM
1

Explain with words? It would be by actions. She talks to other dudes... that’s cool because I know the other girls I interact with throughout my day are interested.
/r/askTRP24/07/20 12:22 PM
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This is the way.
/r/askTRP23/07/20 08:30 PM
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You’re not a man unless over 200! Whatever floats your boat brother. Explaining yourself like that to women isn’t going to score you points though.
/r/askTRP23/07/20 05:48 PM
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Grab your tummy and roar. It’s a shit test. Women don’t give a shit about blatant 6 packs BUT it’s not an excuse to be a perma bulkerveither.
/r/askTRP23/07/20 04:37 PM
2

Yes
/r/askTRP22/07/20 12:40 AM
2

Make it a goal to threesome.
/r/askTRP22/07/20 12:40 AM
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That’s a myth... same as taking shit that grows out your jaw line.
/r/askTRP22/07/20 12:38 AM
1

No. Move on
/r/askTRP22/07/20 12:37 AM
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Just nod and keep doing what you are doing. You can check out the house rules to make sure there aren’t any silly policies.
/r/askTRP22/07/20 12:36 AM
1

Go for it. Use a two strike rule (maximum) with people.
/r/askTRP22/07/20 12:34 AM
1

Not eating enough and lack of training principles
/r/askTRP22/07/20 12:28 AM
1

Just don’t buy them on those silly blue pill holidays. Do it when you want.. not when she wants. Don’t do it all the time because she will get used to it. This is called... intermittent reinforcement.
/r/askTRP19/07/20 04:20 PM
3

Next time give them verbal commands to initiate. “Sit on my lap” “Now Unbutton” “Good girl”
/r/askTRP19/07/20 04:17 PM
3

Text the next three
/r/askTRP19/07/20 04:15 PM
3

If you want. Too much energy to put in that shit though.
/r/askTRP18/07/20 11:22 PM
7

“ come over here little girl and sit on my lap... let me tell you a story”
/r/askTRP18/07/20 11:20 PM
1

Dontt out stock in that remark. Talk to others in the mean time and if this one wants to meet... bonus
/r/askTRP18/07/20 11:18 PM
3

It’s the romantic version of the blue pill. Weak wimpy dude finally wins her over when most girls are past their prime. Fuck that. Work hard and pull the younger ones. Become the younger mans nightmare... or role model
/r/askTRP18/07/20 11:16 PM
1

Go on TRT. Dominate people but don’t kill them for Christ’s sake
/r/askTRP18/07/20 11:15 PM
3

It’s only day 2 man. Over time you get used to it.
/r/askTRP18/07/20 11:08 PM
1

Social media. Simple behaviorism phenomenon. When you reward something too much it gets used to it. Now look at social media with all the thirsty guys and the compliments...
/r/askTRP18/07/20 11:07 PM
1

Women can prevent it with filters.
/r/askTRP18/07/20 11:06 PM
1

Treat em in a non romantic way. It’s all about the frame brother.
/r/askTRP18/07/20 11:05 PM
1

Abundance. Fuck all the women. Stop allowing your mind place certain ones up high when they all take large shits in the morning with their stinky ass breath. Mmmm
/r/askTRP18/07/20 11:04 PM
1

Bang 23 year olds when your 30.
/r/askTRP18/07/20 11:02 PM
2

People want things they have a hard time obtaining. Oh and... Always end shit in a mystery.
/r/askTRP18/07/20 11:02 PM
2

Easy. Talk and don’t drink. Act it out
/r/askTRP18/07/20 11:01 PM
2

Women reject guys all the time who throws themselves at em.?
/r/askTRP18/07/20 02:05 PM
1

Have a good time man. Dominate that girl in bed and all will be well. Nothing like a tall girl when you pounding her out while standing.
/r/askTRP12/07/20 06:25 PM
20

Hahaha I like it. Wonder what a lady’s response would be. Do you have any other responses to “I barely know you blah blah blah”
/r/askTRP12/07/20 06:20 PM
1

I spent my later 20s improving myself. At 30 I jumped on TRT and started approaching and pulling mid 20s girls in grad school. Some were Midwest thots but a decent amount were small town rural girls with some values I respect. Honestly I think the pivotal event was low testosterone and anxiety at 29. Had a test reading of 450 and said fuck it and got a prescription for testosterone from an online clicic.
/r/askTRP12/07/20 11:24 AM
2

Best to get to the point within 7 or so messages...If she is attracted she will meet. If she is not, you will know right away. Shame be to the man who spends days, weeks, months, and years having a relationship with a girl through their phone.
/r/askTRP12/07/20 01:11 AM
2

With all things in life, it is best to experiment. You tried with that one girl. Try something else with the next 10. Practice it on multiple women. Hell if you get to the point where a girl you practiced on agrees to meet... flake.
/r/askTRP12/07/20 01:08 AM
4

Nah wait a few days then try if you wish. It’s all practice in the long run. You still asked by saying “wanna join”. On your next girl trying telling “heading to the bar...join me”
/r/askTRP12/07/20 12:26 AM
6

This. Op asked “when” instead of inviting “heading to ..... stop by”
/r/askTRP12/07/20 12:24 AM
8

“I’ll tell you later” When’s later? “Not now”
/r/askTRP11/07/20 07:17 PM
2

Eating healthier foods your grandparents would identify on a.food label. Honesty there are no pills that will help you. If you are concerned... get a test done. Oh and even if you go the route of steroids... it’s still not a magic bullet. Still have to work hard and you will be dealing with other issues such as estrogen raising.
/r/askTRP05/07/20 12:22 PM
3

Sounds like some of that reverse psychology they are applying on you. No worries. The best interview event was when I was in a rural school district and the principal and super intendant were pulling the good cop bad cop routine. Guy actually said “ listen, I don’t like you... I’m a kid with a behavioral disorder... blah blah blah” It was a good learning experience but why the hell would someone want to work with an employer that pulls that shit.
/r/askTRP03/07/20 12:19 AM
1

You’re in a good position as you are the one getting bored. See if she will do a threesome with one of her best friends.
/r/askTRP02/07/20 09:57 PM
1

Yes. Always assuming makes it easier if/when things fade. Best situation is you get bored because there are other people out there.
/r/askTRP02/07/20 09:41 PM
1

Expose yourself to other situations and adventures with women then it won’t bother you. It’s great when you bump into past ones that let themselves go or are now hitched to some fatass numale.
/r/askTRP02/07/20 09:40 PM
6

Time to hang low. Agreed with the top comment... don’t give away your location. Hmm... hoodie rats.
/r/askTRP02/07/20 09:38 PM
3

A lot of shootings are due to sexually frustrated men.
/r/askTRP27/06/20 07:44 PM
3

It is what it is. People spend most of their times living through their phones. Girls get compliments all the freaking time online to the point they are desensitized. This pandemic increased that too... a great majority of people do not know how to talk to each other in person anymore. I always find it interesting when I’m trolling that women respond to my negative comment yet don’t even consider the other 200 compliment comments from men online. Silly shit.
/r/askTRP06/06/20 01:18 PM
3

Get used to it. It’s a numbers game but the learning experience is priceless. Girl wasn’t attracted and felt violated by your comment. She didn’t open up.
/r/askTRP05/06/20 09:42 AM
0

That guy went after some fucked up women. Most were fucked up to begin with... some were solid but became tainted.
/r/askTRP03/06/20 11:07 PM
-1

It’s such a broad category. Some even claim being looked at by an unwanted man is assault. Just saw some clips from the Epstein Files in Netflix. Although what they went trough was some serious shit especially for the underaged...Funny how most of the survivors in their 30s are overweight, tattooed, and with dyed hair.
/r/askTRP03/06/20 06:31 PM
2

Hey, at least you got to the point of meeting in person. I’ve been hearing about first dates being on Zoom. Suckers.
/r/askTRP31/05/20 06:08 PM
1

Yes, the pandemic is definitely a variable.
/r/askTRP31/05/20 06:07 PM
1

If the girl was attracted enough she would have hugged. Next. An epic next would have been an “okay” while leaving at the moment she said that.
/r/askTRP31/05/20 06:05 PM
0

“Moist”
/r/askTRP31/05/20 06:03 PM
2

ALWAY approach. However girls in the service industry tend to be friendly and talkative as it boosts sales at the business. Still, approach and rack in experience points.
/r/askTRP31/05/20 06:02 PM
1

This is how POWs survive... maintaining a routine. Edit: Although it pisses me off comparing this situation to conditions people had to face during WW2 or Vietnam or anything else. People are literally staying home with video games, Netflix, take out, and etc
/r/askTRP31/05/20 05:52 PM
2

One thing 15 years fitness has taught me is to always adapt. Figure out a minimal baseline to maintain your look. This situation calls for cardio for increasing total calories burnt and 1 all out set per compound lift using dumbbells for maintaining the muscle.
/r/askTRP31/05/20 05:51 PM
1

Dude. There are prisoners of war who survived horrible conditions that make your situation look like Club Med. They had a routine. Get over it and rebuild your routine.
/r/askTRP26/05/20 08:37 PM
1

Shit test. Attempt a soft next. Just get up and go. No contact for 72 hours. Be prepared to lose her. Enough of that shit
/r/askTRP26/05/20 08:32 PM
5

I wouldn’t worry about it. Dude in the park sounds thirsty due to the quarantine and spending his stimulus check on pictures of internet women. Part of this post seems like a humble brag. If you have to say it then you don’t have it. It’s understandable that you are giving context to the situation on this thread but refrain from saying it out loud in person. “Any declaration of having power is no real power at all”
/r/askTRP20/05/20 09:16 AM
2

“I bet her breath smells like orange crackers”
/r/askTRP19/05/20 06:09 PM
1

Reset. Reflect. Learn. On to the next one. Tune those skills brother. It’s just like progressive overload in lifting; you get better over time.
/r/askTRP19/05/20 09:31 AM
2

Back in high school my father told me that weed is just like beer. Moderation. “Excessive use turns you into a stoner... and stoners are like piss in the wind.”
/r/askTRP19/05/20 09:28 AM
1

Dye your hair funky colors.
/r/askTRP19/05/20 09:25 AM
10

“ I bet you say that to all the guys”
/r/askTRP19/05/20 09:24 AM
17

That pretty decent girl in her 20s might transform into something else in her 30s... both physically and character wise. The choice is yours man. One thing I noticed that a lot of the “happy married couples” get divorced in their 30s.
/r/askTRP19/05/20 09:23 AM
1

Absolutely, especially when you come from that frame of mind. Abundance. Also, it depends on the situation. In the past I found that when a girl enters a group of my friends... guys change trying to impress her. Ended up leaving my high school friends because of that shit. Fuck em. Fucking happened to the Beatles!
/r/askTRP10/05/20 01:58 PM
11

Probably not the answer you are looking for but.... I tend to avoid girls that say “I get along with guys more than girls.”
/r/askTRP10/05/20 12:52 AM
6

In the future throw some compliance tests at her. Tell her to bring beer, food, etc. Don’t sweat it.
/r/askTRP10/05/20 12:49 AM
2

Unless she is physically with you... quality sleep is more important
/r/askTRP08/05/20 10:28 AM
1

Some reason why people suddenly want to go outside their home when they are told to stay home and quarantine.
/r/askTRP07/05/20 09:17 AM
1

Both. Flip through multiple girls. If girls do t respond move on to the next one. Don’t offer commitment unless one prove can prove themself.
/r/askTRP07/05/20 09:15 AM
1

Fuck him
/r/askTRP07/05/20 09:11 AM
2

It’s a lot easier to start off brand new with a woman but here are some suggestions... Set an example. Have her workout with you. Teach her a simple program combined with walking then fade out if you want. Have her get Fitbit and link that shit to myfitness app.
/r/askTRP04/05/20 09:29 PM
3

Those are decent numbers. I had 450 at 29 and was out on TRT. How is your cardio level, blood pressure, and lipids?
/r/askTRP27/04/20 11:43 AM
3

What were the numbers? Normal is a.... broad medical term.
/r/askTRP27/04/20 09:06 AM
1

As long as they pass your pp test.
/r/askTRP26/04/20 02:51 PM
1

You will be fine.
/r/askTRP26/04/20 02:48 PM
1

What?
/r/askTRP26/04/20 02:48 PM
2

Are your liver values fine when taking TRT? Normally it’s the oral steroids that wreck havoc on the liver.
/r/askTRP26/04/20 02:46 PM
4

Anyone who declares their title and that they have power.
/r/askTRP23/04/20 12:43 PM
0

Good reflection and keep that growth mindset. It’s all practice. That’s why it’s best to go for many women... even the ones who are somewhat pretty but not the best.
/r/askTRP23/04/20 12:01 PM
2

I believe there’s research about increase semen with new partners as well. When seeing someone for a long time there is a decrease. When seeing someone new there is an increase.
/r/askTRP23/04/20 11:59 AM
-1

Hey man, women do this all the time. Sometimes for a true reason but most if the time it’s because something better came along. I wouldn’t have called and texted her as that’s overboard. You want to keep that mystery. A simple “can’t make it tonight, something came up” while offering a reschedule to another point in time. (Typically when a woman does it to a man this is a can be a valid reason to try again) Future flaking means it’s time to move on.
/r/askTRP23/04/20 11:57 AM
2

I’d frame your mindset in this situation. A good opportunity for a mentor / mentee relationship. See the guy as someone to learn from. Use some positive reinforcement on the guy. Given what you said I know it’s going to be hard, but you can only control yourself in these work situations. If the guy has a lot of power he was potential to be quite the connection. Oh and do not outshine the master. I’ll give you an example of using positive reinforcement to shape his behavior: Since you get work at…
/r/askTRP23/04/20 10:06 AM
1

Just wait till you are jacked man. Last November in Hawaii some random Asian dude walked up and “whoa jacked!!” When I went skydiving the instructor told me not to bust out of the rig by flexing. Seriously though, my man, enjoy the compliments. Even if a person says something negative... you are on their mind. You affected their day. This is why being unaffected and not responding negatively to women is so effective. Those dudes commenting on your style are bitches by the way.
/r/askTRP22/04/20 11:25 PM
2

Imaginary jump rope my man.
/r/askTRP22/04/20 10:02 PM
2

Intermittent fasting works well for a lot of people. Nothing special about this. Eat high volume foods like potatoes, vegetables, meats, etc. For training remember that you are preserving muscle not building. Focus on strength preservation. Walking for cardio as this can burn a lot over a longer period of time without draining the stamina needed for the strength workouts.
/r/askTRP22/04/20 05:32 PM
1

I agree with most but some of my greatest success came with focus on maintaining strength with reduced volume. 2 sets per compound lift.
/r/askTRP22/04/20 05:30 PM
1

I tell you what about revenge. I focused on myself after high school and started lifting in college. I’m 32 now still with those habits. Recently I found out that some of the assholes in my past killed themselves. Drug overdoses. A motherfucker got kicked out of his parents at 28 and ODed while sleeping in his car outside. I did not wish this on them but they dug their own graves. Focus on yourself and become better.
/r/askTRP22/04/20 05:26 PM
1

Dude you can only control yourself in this game. Get better with your physical appearance and build up the quality of your work. For the kid, he’s trying to outshine the master. It was kind that you took him under but be careful in the future with who you let into your life. Most people are ungrateful and forget the kindness brought to them (yet someone should not do something kind and expect something in return) Now that he is directly working with you, there are still opportunities to shape hi…
/r/askTRP22/04/20 12:03 PM
1

http://leangains.blogspot.com/2011/09/fuckarounditis.html
/r/askTRP22/04/20 11:49 AM
1

Don’t be afraid of carbs or sodium. Nothing wrong with them. It’s eating above and below TDEE that matters.
/r/askTRP22/04/20 11:47 AM
1

Not sure as muscle mass affects body fat percentage. You have a v cut. Focus on waist to shoulder measurement for an impressive physique while getting stronger. Keep that waist tight. You could also shave that body hair to bring in a little extra definition but that’s your choice.
/r/askTRP22/04/20 11:43 AM
3

This. THIS. As crazy as it sounds the soft next is a fucking powerful tool. You have to be willing to lose her. Honestly, if she’s not fucking, you have better use of your time. Don’t become a time slut.
/r/askTRP20/04/20 09:50 PM
-4

This is going to be quite the feat. Kino vs physical distancing. Obviously the girl threw caution to the wind as well as you. Enjoy the walk, get some good conversations going, and take her temperature before conducting kino.
/r/askTRP20/04/20 09:47 PM
1

I’m not sure the exact context to your situation but women will sometimes pull the “I don’t want sex... with you” shit test. This has been done to me and the best solution is to say nothing and soft next for a period of time. Read the sidebar about a soft next. Again no context but chances are you already blew this opportunity because you reacted and seemed needy for sex. A soft next is a powerful tool but you have to be willing to walk away if she never responds back.
/r/askTRP20/04/20 07:43 AM
7

Fuck other women just for the sake of fucking women and gaining experience. All notches add up as long as they pass the pp test.
/r/askTRP20/04/20 12:08 AM
1

Sorry man she found some other covid cocks.
/r/askTRP20/04/20 12:05 AM
1

Now THAT video needs to be posted.
/r/askTRP20/04/20 12:05 AM
5

Read some of these posts. Mostly from newbies with a slight stench of trolls
/r/askTRP20/04/20 12:02 AM
13

Seeing for for 2 months, officially a covid gf, nutting inside, and you are upset about her saying you have small feet... THAT should be the least of your concerns.
/r/askTRP19/04/20 11:58 PM
1

Looks like she is prepping for the inevitable. Be a man and her go. You could do this by breaking things off which essentially gives her permission to slut once she returns home. Likewise you could reduce all forms of attention and let that flame burn out. Probably making her reach out to you multiple times looking for closure; don’t give it to her.
/r/askTRP19/04/20 03:30 PM
0

This
/r/askTRP19/04/20 12:21 PM
7

Sure. Don’t answer messages right away. If they were to ask why just say you were busy. Keep it a mystery.
/r/askTRP19/04/20 12:16 PM
1

Are you eating in a calorie deficit? It may be too low. How much are you burning per day? How do you know?
/r/askTRP19/04/20 12:13 PM
1

It’s all about taking data and monitoring. It’s easier to see the strength gains as you are recording g your workouts. Muscle gain takes a long time and it’s about having the passion for the process that makes a man.
/r/askTRP19/04/20 11:58 AM
1

What did I just read
/r/askTRP18/04/20 07:55 PM
33

The best part of the story is when you all get the rona.
/r/askTRP18/04/20 07:54 PM
2

It really is a perception. Some guys get all deranged thinking it’s the end of their life blah blah blah and try to win her back. Smart guys realize that they were lucky she revealed her true colors and shrug it off while pushing forward.
/r/askTRP18/04/20 01:14 PM
1

Ask her to hang out or to be your gf? Let a woman bring up the exclusive talk. The ball is in your court when she does that.
/r/askTRP18/04/20 01:12 PM
1

White pasta. 2 whole boxes lol
/r/askTRP18/04/20 12:01 PM
2

Get in the habit of talking to everybody when out and about. (once this covid shit passes)
/r/askTRP15/04/20 02:49 PM
1

I like to consider it a shit test on the girl. A good way to vet her future behaviors. How will she respond if I bought my own coffee and she paid for hers...
/r/askTRP15/04/20 02:47 PM
3

Went to a local country fair with a girl I met a few years ago. Wasn't my SO but a girl I've been banging. A band she knew played and we were drinking and having a fun time. One of the guitarist walked by and she knew him... got up and started talking with him. She was subtly flirting with him put her hand on his shoulder all that kino. What crossed the line is when she grabbed a beer from my bucket and gave it to him. I continued talking to the group we were with but within 20 minutes I went to…
/r/askTRP15/04/20 02:14 PM
42

So a girl didn't respond to you and this fucking destroyed your day. Shrug and move on.
/r/askTRP15/04/20 02:05 PM
1

I think you set the boundary right there. See if she respects that. After all, you don’t contact your ex as well and expect the same. Quarantine mode is going to make this part impossible with this one but perhaps other commenters can share other ways. A little dread game will keep her attractive and enforce that boundary. Passive dread game.
/r/askTRP15/04/20 12:14 PM
1

Red pill teaches human behavior along with tools in how to optimize your behavior. Behavior defined as observable actions. It’s up to people to apply the sidebar, reflect, and learn. Some of the people are just starting out and will hopefully learn from bad and good experiences.
/r/askTRP15/04/20 12:08 PM
1

You did the right move with a soft next. It’s a time for you to reflect and recollect yourself. Did she kiss the guy while dating you? Or was it before you guys were official. It is good that she shot the guy down saying that you were her boyfriend (if this was before the relationship). Girls do weird shit highlighting preselection as well and this tends to backfire. No man cares about who is hitting her up and girls ruin themselves when that talk about their n count. She was probably trying to …
/r/askTRP15/04/20 12:04 PM
16

Easy there tiger. Mew away if it makes you feel good.
/r/askTRP14/04/20 11:35 PM
2

Don't even ask for an example. The guy can go fuck himself. A great deal of people who act like social police is doing it because they perceive their status to be higher then you. Ignore the weasels.
/r/askTRP14/04/20 10:11 PM
340

She did you a favor man. One less problem for you. You will make it through.
/r/askTRP14/04/20 10:09 PM
18

Young guys are obsessed with enhancing their jawlines. Seems like the entry point to wanting plastic surgery.
/r/askTRP14/04/20 10:08 PM
2

Coming from a special education background... humans are creatures of habits. You are doing a great job writing down your day of tasks. Know that you can't get everything doe and if you find yourself distracted by social media platforms... eliminate them or use them as a reward. Block off an area of time for that. If this stuff is still blocking your day... disrupt that behavioral chain by doing something else. Brush your teeth then go for a walk (if you can).
/r/askTRP14/04/20 10:04 PM
14

You posted this yesterday. Enough with the quarantine rage and do something about it. There were prisoners in shitty camps throughout the times and they made it through because they have a strength based attitude and a structured routine. Enough with your shit now.
/r/askTRP14/04/20 10:00 PM
1

Enjoy sex for yourself. She will follow your lead if where you're coming from is for your enjoyment. Have her say nasty shit to you.
/r/askTRP14/04/20 09:59 PM
1

Find a career you enjoy. For me I supervise preschools and lead assessments while thinking any concerns to special education services.
/r/askTRP14/04/20 09:57 PM
23

32 but I've been lurking since 27. A lot of the documentation on the sidebar are worth review and apply in your life. I take it that recent posts are coming from the younger bucks but the whole concept of mewing and looksmaxxing is ridiculous.
/r/askTRP14/04/20 09:56 PM
-1

Start flipping the script on other people. Don't answer
/r/askTRP14/04/20 07:35 PM
5

Watch what women do, not what they say.
/r/askTRP14/04/20 07:34 PM
1

Say something that stills provide a mystery. Let her think and wonder.
/r/askTRP13/04/20 10:35 PM
2

This. It’s all about the message you give to her.
/r/askTRP13/04/20 10:34 PM
1

What is your calorie intake? What is your TDEE? Goals?
/r/askTRP13/04/20 10:32 PM
6

What the fuck is mewing. If it worked... more people would know about it. Nothing more than looksmaxxx shenanigans. Yes, your jawline will become more defined at a lower body fat. Veins will be popping in your arms and maybe ab muscles too. However, accept that you will never be satisfied with your looks. Even if people compliment you nonstop it is human nature to WANT MORE.
/r/askTRP13/04/20 10:31 PM
2

Dude. You’re gay for going out instead of staying home.
/r/askTRP13/04/20 10:26 PM
2

Stay the fuck home. Rushing out of your house to bed a 16 years older single mom. Holy shit.
/r/askTRP13/04/20 10:26 PM
1

Talk to everyone. Both guys and girls. Both old and young. (When quarantines over)
/r/askTRP13/04/20 06:51 PM
1

Talk to everyone instead of a select few. There will be a carry over.
/r/askTRP13/04/20 04:50 PM
7

Sounds like you have a plan. Keep getting better in other areas of your life. Remember this though... people don’t owe you anything in life and that includes sex. Find a male therapist to help you out too. I’ve learned that even after years of lifting you still have to practice holding conversations as women won’t throw themselves at you like most would believe. Here’s some advice. Don’t hold grudges for people in the past and understand that women are attracted to things other than what western…
/r/askTRP13/04/20 04:13 PM
1

Do what you want. Some exchange platforms have price gouging policies that will suspend you but what you’re doing is a shit stain compared to larger organizations.
/r/askTRP13/04/20 09:37 AM
1

Gotta add to this. When you hit these steps... you just want more. Accept that you will never be satisfied shooting for the future. Stay present and mindful while enjoying the journey.
/r/askTRP12/04/20 11:16 AM
1

You are getting 1 more chance from HER? Lol dude the power is in her court you thirsty boy
/r/askTRP11/04/20 12:03 PM
2

Stay the fuck home.
/r/askTRP10/04/20 10:06 PM
2

Sounds like a good old case of “there’s this one girl.”
/r/askTRP10/04/20 09:54 PM
3

Loose lips sink ships.
/r/askTRP10/04/20 09:52 PM
1

Convert my negative energy into lifting.
/r/askTRP10/04/20 09:50 PM
38

Keep your ass inside hombre.
/r/askTRP10/04/20 09:50 PM
26

They are not on this.
/r/askTRP10/04/20 12:30 PM
4

Go skydiving. Lift weights. Become better in other skills. It’s the practice, the reps that build you up over time. Stay the hell out of debt. You are 19 and have plenty of room to grow. It only gets better little by little.
/r/askTRP10/04/20 12:29 PM
-1

Fuuuuuck. My highest weighted chin-up before the gym shit down was 100lbs x 5. Fuck. Fuck. Shit
/r/askTRP10/04/20 09:43 AM
5

Research how to do forced negatives for chin ups. When I started at 20 I couldn’t do a single fucking chin-up. Now that I’m 32 my highest is 35
/r/askTRP10/04/20 09:41 AM
1

It’s usually the beginning for men as most develop way into their 30s if they put in the effort. Sadly for women...
/r/askTRP10/04/20 09:40 AM
1

Idiot
/r/askTRP09/04/20 11:59 PM
1

Why do you have time for that
/r/askTRP09/04/20 11:59 PM
1

Jesus Christ that was too long.
/r/askTRP09/04/20 11:57 PM
1

Overhead press
/r/askTRP09/04/20 11:53 PM
3

“Imma buy you a drank” “I’m in love with a stripper” “Baby make that booty clap and I’ll put a dollar in that crack” “After that imma marry you” “You can have whatever you want” “After I fuck yo bitch” “Okay ladies let’s get In formation” “Imma take my time, imma let her gets hers before mine” Anything that is has pop elements have blue pill tendencies. Some of the underground original rap songs are reddish and pro man.
/r/askTRP09/04/20 11:25 PM
0

Haha. Enjoy the turn. I got this one girl into wearing those buttplugs with tails.
/r/askTRP09/04/20 09:36 PM
3

Shrug, learn, remember, and move on.
/r/askTRP09/04/20 09:34 PM
17

Out she goes.
/r/askTRP09/04/20 09:34 PM
3

That guy is a sukka.
/r/askTRP09/04/20 09:33 PM
1

Glad you can do a jump rope where you are at. I have to use my imaginary one but it gets the job done.
/r/askTRP09/04/20 09:32 PM
6

Remember that guys will buy a girls bath water. Fuck a girl can put mayo or shit stains on Walmart purchased panties and guys will buy. Thirsty men can be quite the pathetic lot. If only guys would quarantine themselves from these type of women... or all women. Massive soft next for few months.
/r/askTRP09/04/20 09:29 PM
2

Sounds good brother! I’m looking into that right now. Figured those two movements will keep me satisfied for the time and can be an addition to a better home gym once if I get a house one day. Yes it would be on a second floor. It’s hardwood. Getting some plywood with the rubber mats sounds like a great idea to absorb the shock but I don’t foresee doing deadlifts but will substitute with RDLs. But fuck got to the point of an overhead press of my bodyweight... 180 x 8. Got to keep it up.
/r/askTRP09/04/20 12:09 PM
2

I got the same dumbbells and a door mount pull up bar. As of right now our gym is closed until May 15th. But I have a feeling it is going to be longer. Much longer Considering getting a barbell weight set along with a basic squat rack so I can continue with overhead presses / squats. I would set this up in my new apartment come June along with some rubber gym mats.
/r/askTRP09/04/20 11:55 AM
1

Dumbbells, imaginary jump rope, and walking. Time is your friend with this. Be patient and eat in a caloric deficit
/r/askTRP09/04/20 11:50 AM
1

It sucks to have a situation.m but change the perception to see what she will do. If she chooses... let her go. Do not mention anything to her. Do not let her know you are affected by this. If she respects the potential for a relationship and fears your loss with you she will let you know she turned down the opportunity.
/r/askTRP08/04/20 10:14 PM
2

Women can get away with pulling the “poor me” card when it comes to social dynamics. Society is set up to protect women and they often fall back to this. However women want equal rights and responsibility so this sympathy card should be redundant... but it is not. Men respect guys who face hardships yet are solutions focused. Men look down on guys who give up and blame the world. This even applies to the recent posts from guys saying that they don’t know how to survive sitting around at home. Fo…
/r/askTRP08/04/20 10:02 PM
1

Lift and eat healthy.. no crazy ass low calorie diets
/r/askTRP08/04/20 09:56 PM
3

Sure man when you tested your testosterone level what was it at?
/r/askTRP08/04/20 12:03 PM
2

Read books about prisoners of war.
/r/askTRP07/04/20 11:34 PM
0

Far better than “aw what a lucky girl” Given the context, sure. But why the hell even waste time on this specific girl when there are others. Juice is not worth the squeeze
/r/askTRP07/04/20 05:54 PM
1

Yeah buddy! Send her some flowers to show her how much you care and the better man. Release the blue.
/r/askTRP07/04/20 05:48 PM
4

COVID Cruise
/r/askTRP07/04/20 04:08 PM
2

Get prescribed legally through an online male clinic.
/r/askTRP07/04/20 03:58 PM
4

Trt changed my life when I was prescribed in at 28. Brought me from a test level of 400 to 1200 at 200mg a week. I'm 32 now. Had an insane increase of libido when I started the program but over time it levels out. Yes, I definitely have more sex with more women as a greater number of them are more attractive but the quality and looks department is questionable. However, the overall abundance of opportunities is unquestionable. Makes me think about my previous onetitis in the late teens and early…
/r/askTRP07/04/20 03:57 PM
0

Why? It certainly puts him in the provider spot light. It makes the bitch think about how much of a latched on puss the dude is. The best is when you're in person talking and ask the chick if this guy is her brother.
/r/askTRP07/04/20 03:50 PM
1

A guyfriend of yours? Dude, perhaps let him handle it on his own. Some females pull this shit excessively to the point of showing up on the doorsteps. That's the point when the guy should call the cops as you damn well know if the situation was flipped that would happen.
/r/askTRP07/04/20 01:27 PM
1

Oneitis and you already banged? Ball is in your court as most guys with oneitis haven't gotten to that point. The situation is to your benefit as you can reduce contact or go radio silent. Take some time to focus on yourself; read about financial security strategies, additional skills to develop, fitness at home programs etc. Stay busy. You're lucky to have various information on the side bar with tools to problem solve.
/r/askTRP07/04/20 01:07 PM
-8

Great answer especially with the nice guy statement. I'd also swap that out with a... "He's a lucky guy."
/r/askTRP07/04/20 01:02 PM
1

Get used to that feeling as you will never truly be satisfied with what ever physique you attain. It's human nature my man. To truly enjoy lifting you have to enjoy the process; there will never be an end result. Some people with impressive physiques still feel small; don't fall in the habit of body dysmorphia issues. Get in the habit of tracking data (lifting PRs, caloric counting, scale weight, and body measurements) so you are certain you are heading in the right direction for fat loss or mus…
/r/askTRP07/04/20 12:38 PM
1

Although I agree with you about calories being a decisive variable along with exercise and rest, simply telling someone to eat 4000 to 5000 calories may result in excessive waist gains if their activity level is low.
/r/askTRP07/04/20 12:33 PM
1

It's about calories. Get yourself a Fitbit as it is fairly accurate when it comes to measuring how much you burn a day (research did suggest that the calorie burn reported was lower than actually burnt for TDEE). Eat 500 to 700 above this. Listening to tangyorang or anyone who says to eat 5000 calories a day will definitely get the scale up but it's going to be fat. I've tried those dream bulks before even while on TRT and it leads to excessive fat gain. Then you have to diet for months to get t…
/r/askTRP07/04/20 12:31 PM
1

This
/r/askTRP06/04/20 11:40 PM
1

You don’t need that stuff as it is nothing more than a food. Eat chicken, cottage cheese, beef, and lean pork
/r/askTRP06/04/20 11:40 PM
1

New York is in crisis. He’s giving off the vibes that he’s passionate about his job and looking out for his citizens. When he speaks he gives off better vibes than trump.
/r/askTRP06/04/20 10:40 AM
5

Lose some weight dude.
/r/askTRP05/04/20 08:48 PM
11

Lol
/r/askTRP05/04/20 08:48 PM
1

This is up to you. My gym closed. Clerk at the grocery store was telling me “good, that place is a cesspool for that stuff” I responded “oh like church.” She got angry telling me no. Just my opinion but Honestly I haven’t heard of the virus spreading at a gym. Most of what I hear are about how it spread during a party, church, and spring break. This doesnt mean that it’s not safe but I assume as long as you stay the fuck away from people and wipe before and after that will minimize transmission.…
/r/askTRP05/04/20 08:43 PM
1

It’s an opportunity to do some dominance. Sometimes in the middle of the act I’ll have the girls answer me. “Tell me you’re a slut” “ I’m a sluuut” “What are you”. I’m a sluuuut” “ I can’t hear you..”. And so on.
/r/askTRP05/04/20 08:34 PM
1

Yes, lifting weights doesn’t burn a lot. It’s the walking and other forms of cardio that bring your TDEE up to 3000 to 4000 calories a day. Simply telling someone to eat 6000 calories a day will certainly cause the scale to go up... but if they are only burning 2500 a day from their exercise then that’s called a Dream Bulk. This applies to even people who take steroids.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/20 07:31 PM
1

Hit your calories goal. Looking for easy carbs eat pasta and bread
/r/askTRP05/04/20 06:47 PM
1

And here I am taking sunflower lecithin looking to release a big load
/r/askTRP05/04/20 06:39 PM
9

I’m seeing a catholic girl... they are only human and will pull the same shit.
/r/askTRP05/04/20 04:05 PM
1

This precedent needs to be set early in a relationship. If you pay right away... it’s harder to get someone else to pay. Not sure if that applies to you are I don’t know how you acted early on in the relationship. I like to set compliance tests that involves a woman investing. Sure, come over... bring beer, subway, etc. If a woman is flat out attracted I’m sure she will even take her boyfriends/husbands credit card and buy Chad something.
/r/askTRP05/04/20 04:04 PM
13

She would lose commitment points for pulling that type of compliance test. Just imagine what type of shit she is going to do to a husband... holy fuck.
/r/askTRP04/04/20 07:05 PM
1

I see it also a power dynamic that is always balancing with both beta and alpha behavior coming from you. Kind of like a seesaw. You want it on your side. You can certainly be a little beta but only as a reward for her behavior that you want seen. Also, if at anytime you realized that you are jumping through hoops just to please someone... then the balance is on the wrong side and most like you are about to fly off the seesaw.
/r/askTRP04/04/20 07:04 PM
2

If you’re only into lifting for a short period of time then you are doing something wrong. Wrong mindset that’s just as stupid as having a 6 pack will get you laid. Pursue strength. Get stronger as that won’t be capped out over 3 years.
/r/askTRP04/04/20 02:39 PM
1

I’ve always had cold sores since a kid. My dentist introduced me to a lazar therapy that has kept them from reoccurring. I haven’t had one in two years.
/r/askTRP04/04/20 09:24 AM
2

I understand that it’s intense and a change. Yet it’s about stopping a virus from a spreading. In the past various people were captured and sent to POW camps of different types. People were sent to death camps. People who survived did their best to set up routines.
/r/askTRP04/04/20 09:21 AM
1

Lift first then calisthenics
/r/askTRP03/04/20 01:15 PM
1

I certainly feel prepared for this as I built a daily routine starting with getting up at 4am and working out. Although most of the population are definitely in worst situations I’m grateful for what I have and currently doing. Be safe, humble, and kind (but that is up to you) but realize there are other males floundering around and other ones preparing themselves for what comes tomorrow.
/r/askTRP03/04/20 01:13 PM
1

Keep a routine. Successful POWs and people in camps survive better with a routine.
/r/askTRP03/04/20 10:40 AM
1

Hahah. I’ve optimized my hormones with TRT and still need to eat below tdee.
/r/askTRP02/04/20 11:34 PM
1

How long have you been dieting? Besides the scale, what was your waist measurement before you started.
/r/askTRP02/04/20 11:32 PM
3

Or eating too little and holding water. Still over time the weight still drops. I doubt all that activity leads to 2100 calories per day.
/r/askTRP02/04/20 11:31 PM
1

I'm 32 now and that is perfectly normal to have to thoughts. It only gets better if you've been improving yourself in your 20s. Picking up girls at the bar can still happen but expect "how old are you?" shit tests. Just tell em "sit on my lap and tell me what you want for christmas." Also, expand your approaches in day game. People comment that your seeing a girl in her 20s? Fuck em. I would never be with a girl my age as most are now fat or weathered. Realize this. Although it is normal, based …
/r/askTRP01/04/20 12:24 PM
11

Ah you're still killing it like me. Cheers to you. I've already accepted that I will lose strength now that I can only focus on high rep presses and chin ups. But this period of training is great for my joints and bringing down my resting heart rate. ALOT of people are going to be coming out of their homes 6 months from now fat and weak.
/r/askTRP01/04/20 12:07 PM
7

I've been getting up at 4am to go to the gym since I was 20... 32 now. When I heard my gym was closing (small college town Midwest) I purchased the following: Powerblocks up to 50lbs, pull ups bar, bands, etc. For cardio I do the imaginary jump rope in between sets and go for walks outside. Will start hill running once warmer weather arrives. You need to get back to your normal daily routine. Why are you going to sleep at 3 or 4am?
/r/askTRP01/04/20 12:04 PM
1

Sure you can plate girls with shitty personalities but after awhile you get sick of that shit. You have Fwb females and still a virgin? What
/r/askTRP31/03/20 09:50 PM
1

I think, like any pleasure in life, you should use moderation while playing any video game.
/r/askTRP31/03/20 07:21 PM
2

High testosterone males will fornicate with any women they find attractive. As long as it passes their PP test. I notice that ALOT of guys (usually with oneitis) will have high ridiculously high standards for some women while passing up the opportunities for others. The trick is to vet any girl for value they offer besides their vagina.
/r/askTRP31/03/20 07:19 PM
1

Just like with anything else...girls will sneak out during quarantine for their perceived chad if the attraction is high. They will even run to the store and grab some toilet paper for him. Hell, they will even grab a roll from their boyfriend/husband saying "it's for girlfriend."
/r/askTRP31/03/20 07:15 PM
1

Girls do this. She wasn't interested and came up with an excuse to flake. NOW the tables have turned and she is pinging out to you due to lack of attention variables in the current situation. She want's your attention through her phone until she can get out again.
/r/askTRP31/03/20 07:12 PM
1

No
/r/askTRP31/03/20 07:09 PM
2

Don’t say anything. She’ll hit you up in a little while
/r/askTRP30/03/20 11:52 AM
3

Reading most of the comments here... I either smell trolls or quarantined simps. I wouldn’t take a picture nor would I give a girl with these tendencies commitment status. I see guys taking photos of girls all the time. Guys laying on the ground so they can get the perfect angle then have to take the photo again. Fuck that noise.
/r/askTRP30/03/20 11:52 AM
0

Girl hands me the phone I’m taking a selfie of my abs then handing it back. Fuck her. Then again, I choose not to LTR women with that “hobby.”
/r/askTRP30/03/20 11:48 AM
3

Drink, buy bath water from girls, jerk off too much, eat junk food, not find a way to exercise. People are gaining the quarantine 15.
/r/askTRP30/03/20 09:52 AM
3

Start seeing girls with a perception of what skills they can actually contribute besides looks.
/r/askTRP30/03/20 09:49 AM
1

If you have to release a load do it. One time a day is fine without porn. Ritualistic rubbing it out multiple times a day is bad.
/r/askTRP30/03/20 08:31 AM
3

I've been using my fitbit device for 5 years to estimate my TDEE. From there I can eat more or less to hit my goal. Also, I intermittent fast for 15 to 18 hours a day. Recently I purchased an air fryer and can make all of my meals from there. Potatoes, veggies, chicken, pork loin, chuck tender steak, greek yogurt, whey protein, protein bars, peanut butter, white bread, corn meal, flour tortillas, etc. On Fridays I still get a take out meal from a local restaurant and this is usually when I break…
/r/askTRP29/03/20 07:58 PM
1

It won’t be good if the newspapers say that you beat up someone with a TBI or autism. Leave the fucker alone. Assault charges are not worth it.
/r/askTRP26/03/20 09:45 AM
2

Living out in the Midwest... in my opinion most of the girls chasing after black guys unfortunately do it for the attention they receive from others. Almost as a way of rebellion. This can be positive and negative attention. Lots of then post shit up on their Instagram. It’s their choice and that’s fine as there’s plenty of other people out there. Funny though... I knew of one girl from the past that did this and it didn’t work out. Now she’s a single mom.
/r/askTRP24/03/20 02:12 PM
0

“ I bet you say that to all the guys”
/r/askTRP24/03/20 12:27 PM
1

Dude I see calves. Do some jump roping and calf work to build em up. Get leaner so the veins pop out.
/r/askTRP24/03/20 10:16 AM
2

Did they ask for advice or is this a case of you giving unsolicited advice? For example, unsolicited advice is a crime conducted in gyms. This person given advice is often seen as an asshole.
/r/askTRP23/03/20 02:46 PM
2

I smell the troll.
/r/askTRP23/03/20 02:43 PM
1

Macro studies: https://exrx.net/FatLoss/MacronutrientRatio
/r/askTRP23/03/20 01:28 PM
3

Macros depend on your current energy levels and how you actually processed carbs. The leaner I become, the more my body soaks up carbs. Personally my best performances comes from 20% fat, 50% carbs, and 30% protein. Calories still rule as it will determine is you lose, maintain, or gain weight.
/r/askTRP23/03/20 01:28 PM
2

Not worth the investment. Risk is far greater than the reward as you can find yourself assaulted, false rape reports, worst case death or a cut off dick, lies and rumors that affect your status. Read the sidebar.
/r/askTRP23/03/20 01:25 PM
1

You are not alone. Hang in there. Go get help with your identity crisis. Obviously you have vices such as excessive weed and video games and what ever has put you into extreme debt. Now is the time to act and I guarantee that it gets better when your are older if you put in the work now
/r/askTRP23/03/20 12:01 PM
0

Workout, eat right, revamp your clothes, read a fucking book, call your folks and friends. Stay busy but I'd follow the minimal texting/ contact with ltr. Now is the time to upgrade yourself; no excuses. Honestly though, I don't have a nickel of compassion for your stanking ass. If people in prison can make it for many years then you can survive a few months under quarantine. Most guys your age are sitting around jerking off, eating junk food, and playing video games. What will you do?
/r/askTRP23/03/20 11:47 AM
1

In my home town there is a high incidence of people hanging out in the neighborhood in the early mornings and looking for things to steal. This happens. ​ Unfortunately, unless there is a city ordinance, legally you are able to look for directions or make a protein shake in an area. Person comes up to talk to you just wave. Don't even put your window down as that guy might have a gun. As long as you are not doing anything illegal or have illegal shit in your car then you should be okay. With tha…
/r/askTRP23/03/20 11:36 AM
5

It is what it is. These college girls have until 25 to 30 to live to the max and most squander their time hopping from one guy to the next. I GUARANTEE once these girls age into their 30s and 40s they start to experience what guys have to deal with in their early years. With that said... put that shit to the side. Take your anger and channel it into building yourself up: mind, body, skills, clothing style. When you are older you will be able to pull younger girls. You will be more experienced an…
/r/askTRP23/03/20 11:32 AM
5

Most likely you stressed ate it back because you dieted ridiculously hard back in high school. You can stil eat in a caloric deficit while eating junk; favor higher quality and higher volume foods like, and potatoes, meats, an veggies.
/r/askTRP22/03/20 11:36 PM
7

You can show sympathy and support as long as it is coming from you and expect nothing in return. If you are doing it for validation in the form of approval then people almost sense the lack of authenticity.
/r/askTRP22/03/20 11:35 PM
4

Pros: Warmth, comfort, and compliant, always there for you Cons: Usually higher body fat, plays video games, blah blah blah In all seriousness... A baby face usually has to do with body fat percentage. Lower it and you will get the proper angels. Lower it too much and you look like a fucking vampire / methhead A lean body / face is like a nice thing on a resume. It might get you into the interview and strike attention from others but it doesn't define your experiences and demeanor.
/r/askTRP22/03/20 11:28 PM
1

There are no fully Red Pill Alphas. Individuals have a range of alpha and beta characteristics; some more beta and some more alpha. Are you living your life based on your decisions or someone else? Read the sidebar.
/r/askTRP22/03/20 09:45 PM
1

Minimal or no texts for the length of the quarantine. Let her send texts to you if she is interested. Find other ones instead of "this girl." In my opinion you've been texting for a couple days. while giving her the attention. You already failed due to the current situation. Stay busy and next.
/r/askTRP22/03/20 09:40 PM
0

This is a crappy post. If you read the sidebar when all of your questions would be answered.
/r/askTRP22/03/20 09:36 PM
1

What the hell does height have to do with blue / purple / red pills?
/r/askTRP22/03/20 09:29 PM
2

What the fuck is a fully Red Pill Alpha?
/r/askTRP22/03/20 09:27 PM
1

How is this a soft next? You accidentally called her lol
/r/askTRP22/03/20 09:25 PM
1

Post reads as a humble brag. "So I'm dating this girl from Bumble..." Dude brings her back to his place and is uncomfortable with strangers falling asleep.
/r/askTRP22/03/20 09:17 PM
0

Why are you bringing her back to your place?
/r/askTRP22/03/20 09:13 PM
1

What the fuck is looksmaxx?
/r/askTRP21/03/20 10:11 PM
2

This is life brother. Sometimes Tim just gets better opportunities. Does Tim continue to keep you involved? As long as he still provides value to you otherwise drop that shit. Honestly this story gives me the perception that all you do is smoke week and stay at home. Now that we are all being told to stay at home there's nothing we can really do but take time to develop ourselves. Get of the fucking week and take a look at how you present yourselves to others. Read some books and exercise. Since…
/r/askTRP21/03/20 06:44 PM
1

You thirsty motherfucker lol. Craving female attention and body contact. These girls wont give a fuck about you. Think about those guys in prison... How will you spend your time? Will you be jerking off to porn, netflix, drinking alcohol, eating junk food? Will you be exercising / revamping your style with clothes / perfecting a skill? (You can do that shit with jerking off too but come on now) Now is the time to prepare by identifying ways to prepare yourself for when you have to stay inside fo…
/r/askTRP21/03/20 02:16 PM
3

Snapchat filters
/r/askTRP21/03/20 01:14 PM
1

As of right now my gym went from being closed for 1 week to being closed for 3 weeks. I’m out in the Midwest and the cases are still low. However my university gym is closed but the anytime fitness is still open with massive crowds (funny because my gym has wider spaces for social distancing) I purchased power blocks and resistance bands to prepare for higher rep training until this clears up. I’m thinking early summer as the peak has not even started yet due to limited testing kits in stages.
/r/askTRP21/03/20 01:13 PM
-1

Why would you go to a grocery store during this pandemic? With all of the fluids flying all over the place. I’m with you though but It depends on the region. Seriously though small gyms would be fine but overcrowded would be bad. The virus is not in sweat. Clean the machines before and after and wash your hands.
/r/askTRP21/03/20 01:09 PM
2

Yeah. If the girl had the audacity to say stupid shit like that in the first place... I’d go with “ meet me in a red thong and you’ll find out”
/r/askTRP21/03/20 01:06 PM
1

Same situation for people Who have bee. Out of the gym for 6 months. Slowly increase training your social skills over time and it will come back.
/r/askTRP21/03/20 01:05 PM
3

I tend to fade stubborn people out of my life. After that when I see them I treat them like very old friends from a long time ago. Be pleasant but don’t share your time or values.
/r/askTRP21/03/20 01:04 PM
4

What does testosterone panel say? Thinking you have low t doesn’t mean anything. Same with “thinking you have high estrogen.” Get bloodwork if that concerns you. That’s a big IF you can get into the doctors at this time. Also, don’t purchase any test boosters or GNC like store supplements as that shit doesn’t do anything.
/r/askTRP21/03/20 01:02 PM
1

Dude you are 20 and still growing. Of course you are going to have a higher level of test... especially if most women appear attractive. Also with you being 20... the choices you make now will either help you or fuck your over when your 30. Keep lifting as when you are 30 and looking good you will be pulling 20 year old girls while your 30 year old (competition) has a beer belly and a fat nagging wife. Cheers
/r/askTRP21/03/20 12:50 PM
11

I know it's hard not to be involved with social media but it's best to refrain from that shit.
/r/askTRP19/03/20 07:26 PM
1

It's pretty much ding dong dash.
/r/askTRP19/03/20 07:02 PM
1

I have been working with school programs to deliver sack lunches to children of families with single (mom) parents. That's my good deed as most children in school need food. As for the ghost from the past reaching out to me... they get no response.
/r/askTRP19/03/20 05:44 PM
3

A lot of dudes will be sitting on excessive Netflix, video games, and booze. Now is the time to work on ourselves. Edit: junk food too
/r/askTRP19/03/20 05:40 PM
1

I'd go with this. Time is of the essence especially if they are going to force people to be home. Your own personal hell with a titty leaking demon.
/r/askTRP19/03/20 05:34 PM
4

Fuck that.
/r/askTRP19/03/20 05:32 PM
1

I'd go with minimal texting throughout the week; dial that shit back to keep her wondering. In the meantime you sound bored. Focus on reinventing yourself... go through your clothes and items. Throw shit away and upgrade
/r/askTRP19/03/20 05:32 PM
2

Embrace that shit. Due to the current situation your beach photos and festival thumping is out the window for this summer. You probably don't want to go this route but hell since you were good at it... revisiting your rapping now with a new image might be something the crowd needs.
/r/askTRP19/03/20 05:26 PM
1

First weights then cardio. Same day
/r/askTRP19/03/20 04:02 PM
1

A little here and there as positive reinforcement. This is called intermittent positive reinforcement kind of like when someone receives a random bonus. On the opposite you have fixed reinforcement such as a weekly paycheck... at first it feels good then you get used to it.
/r/askTRP18/03/20 11:51 AM
1

Pussy.
/r/askTRP18/03/20 11:48 AM
1

That's a good mindset to have and I use it to screen out "wanderlust" and "Girls Night Out" types.
/r/askTRP18/03/20 11:46 AM
1

I'm eating at TDEE right now. Started cutting in February expecting gym shut downs. Focus is to work on rotator cuffs and I want to maintain my Overhead Press as much as possible (186 x 7 was my recent PR) but strength loss occurs after 6 days. Plan is to master headstand pushups and do band work as my bodyweight is at 180 until the gym opens up in a few weeks. Good luck brother! Just my opinion but a dirty bulk without the proper stimulus might be a disaster. Remember a lot of bros are in the s…
/r/askTRP18/03/20 11:45 AM
1

Next. She's giving her number out to someone else.
/r/askTRP18/03/20 11:41 AM
3

Put it on hold. If she wanted to see you she would bring corona with her.
/r/askTRP18/03/20 12:23 AM
1

Only if you dream bulk.
/r/askTRP17/03/20 06:37 PM
2

Are you trying to gain quality muscle or fat? I'd recommend pasta / potatoes and meats. Monitor your waist level so you know to pull back on calories when it gets too large.
/r/askTRP17/03/20 05:49 PM
4

Don't mess with idiots. Guy wants to start something and take some stress out on you. He was probably pissed because his wife sent him out to get toilet paper.
/r/askTRP17/03/20 05:47 PM
1

It's the boss's problem now unless the lady fabricates a story that you and him raped her. Stop mingling with co-workers. And wash your goddamn hands you beautiful guy.
/r/askTRP17/03/20 05:45 PM
1

Basic compound barbell lifts (if you still have gym or at home gym capabilities) For losing weight and building muscle I can make progressive gains with a high intensity and low volume approach. Continue to get stronger with just two sets.
/r/askTRP17/03/20 01:18 PM
2

It’s easier to regain the strength then to achieve it due to muscle memory. I bought some resistance bands and plan to target the rotator cuffs a little more while hitting high reps with basic push and pull movements. Plan is to eat at tdee while going for walks / imaginary jump rope.
/r/askTRP17/03/20 10:10 AM
1

He doesn't have time for lifting "as it's a privilege."
/r/askTRP16/03/20 09:47 PM
0

I'm sure you are given your part time job and being the guy in mom's basement. After I _____ then I'll _____. Is nothing but a reassuring excuse. Find a way to better yourself in multiple areas. Exercise should be a reinforcing habit, a foundation towards productivity outside the workouts. Sounds like you are nothing more than a soon to be 30 year old, then a 40 year old man-child. Enjoy the comfort.
/r/askTRP16/03/20 06:03 PM
5

Time to start focusing on attracting other women. Given the current situation its best to focus on upgrading yourself.
/r/askTRP16/03/20 06:01 PM
5

Stop devoting so much fucking time to other people. Get your focus off that person; the more you devote your time the less she is attracted. The cat is already out of the bag with corona. Focus on bettering yourself even if under curfew / quarantine. Read up on investing. Read up on style. Develop a home exercise routine; or go for walks. Eat better and sleep better.
/r/askTRP16/03/20 06:00 PM
1

No time? That is a fucking excuse. You are already in your late 20s and it is nothing more than an investment you a missing out on with excuses.
/r/askTRP16/03/20 04:45 PM
1

There are many good men who are assholes.
/r/askTRP16/03/20 04:33 PM
2

Good foundation as you are debt free. Great starting point. Start lifting. When screening girls be aware of the potential debt they may carry as you might end up paying for it.
/r/askTRP16/03/20 04:32 PM
1

I'm sorry you got assaulted.
/r/askTRP16/03/20 04:29 PM
1

Still do.
/r/askTRP16/03/20 04:29 PM
1

Better to over react during this social isolation sitruation. Just don't go all crazy and post TP / hand sanitizer photos on Tinder
/r/askTRP16/03/20 04:27 PM
2

Haha this
/r/askTRP16/03/20 01:56 PM
5

Don't respond at all. I wouldn't sweat it as this is a world wide event. Mandatory soft next quarantine for 14 days. Let her reach out to you.
/r/askTRP16/03/20 01:21 PM
4

Change the logistics to somewhere outside. Hasn't stopped my outings but the weather is good. I'm not approaching anyone new at the moment as everyone is on edge.
/r/askTRP16/03/20 12:19 AM
1

True to that. They are labeled as gain goblins often dressed up in Gymshark while taking instagram photos doing squats with the barbell. Hell I've even seen one of them wearing a pink expensive ass powerlifting belt squatting ONLY the barbell. Often they cling together; hopefully they stay away once they receive corona. I do respect the few ladies who wear normal workout clothes and bust their ass off. They are often friendlier and hardworking.
/r/askTRP16/03/20 12:00 AM
3

Get coffee and go for a walk outside. Go hiking.
/r/askTRP15/03/20 11:56 PM
6

No it's not. Sweat can not transfer the disease but coughing/sneezing from an infected gymsharker can or onto a surface. Use common sense if it is open and avoid crowds. Keep your headphones on while wiping before and after using a barbell / machine. Switch to a low volume / high intensity; get in and get out. Wash your goddamn hands too.
/r/askTRP15/03/20 11:55 PM
1

I live in a college town and this week was spring break. They extended it by another week and the gym is using social distancing. Not a big crowd yet. I take it when some of the wanderlust Thots return we will have official cases in town.
/r/askTRP13/03/20 01:08 PM
1

Depends on your location. Thankfully the average person doesn't frequent quite often around here.
/r/askTRP12/03/20 06:38 PM
3

I'm in the Midwest. Population 7,000. The most packed place in town is church and all those sinners are getting SARS.
/r/askTRP12/03/20 06:37 PM
1

Nah, just a ghost or maybe the howling of the wind.
/r/askTRP12/03/20 06:30 PM
1

"What is the point of lifting if you have to go 100+ times just to hit 8 - 10 PRs and build muscle." ~ This is a fucking excuse by most guys. Building a skill takes time. Building muscle / leaning out takes time. Talking to people takes time. Becoming financially independet takes time. Put in the reps and gain some experience you pussy. Edit: Oh, and enjoy the process.
/r/askTRP12/03/20 06:28 PM
1

Build a routine / habit. Notice other people in a similar routine / habit. Talk to them.
/r/askTRP12/03/20 06:25 PM
2

Yes. Sometimes you just have to let go.
/r/askTRP12/03/20 06:24 PM
1

In times like these... I'd rather stay healthy and keep hitting up the gym. Yet, it's still good to talk to people just not in packed areas.
/r/askTRP12/03/20 06:23 PM
2

I take it you are in high school. Dude is asking for permission for an "easy girl." Flip that shit in his face next time. Fighting him is not even worth it. A higher value male should not be concerned about a worthless insect.
/r/askTRP12/03/20 06:19 PM
1

It's called networking. You never know what opportunities this guy could offer in the future.
/r/askTRP12/03/20 01:38 PM
2

I like this. It changes the perception from negative to positive / growth centered. The lady showed her true colors and left. Same goes with women who cheat; they did you a favor.
/r/askTRP12/03/20 01:36 PM
7

The hell did I just read.
/r/askTRP12/03/20 01:34 PM
1

Sounds like an excuse to reach out. Always remember that she dumped you and swung to another dude (or multiple dudes) branch. It's over. The bitch will be fine.
/r/askTRP12/03/20 01:32 PM
1

Focus on that. However if you can’t realize there are opportunities throughout your day to interact then I question your perception of abundance
/r/askTRP11/03/20 11:53 PM
1

You’re a time slut.
/r/askTRP11/03/20 10:07 PM
3

"I'd go to the gym if only I had time." "I could lose weight if I wanted." Dude... common excuses including being stuck indoors and too busy to talk to random people during the day.
/r/askTRP11/03/20 02:57 PM
1

Sounds like you gave an ultimatum "do this...we're done" tone. Then you almost left her place.
/r/askTRP11/03/20 02:53 PM
2

Time to ghost this girl. Too much energy to uphold the relationship. Too many fucks given.
/r/askTRP11/03/20 02:47 PM
1

Sounded like an opportunity to open up. Maybe the girl was attracted and used a shit / compliance test as an opener.
/r/askTRP11/03/20 02:45 PM
1

My area? Everytime I am at the gym there is some gymshark wearing "up and cummer" filming themselves doing the leg press with 1 plate on each side. Next they take all of the fucking dumbbells and place it right next to them on a mat while gluing their eyes to their phone. All while never using the dumbbells.
/r/askTRP11/03/20 02:39 PM
1

Although I don't go soft... I usually can't finish. When women mention it I just smile and say "oh?"
/r/askTRP11/03/20 02:37 PM
10

This. When I was 21 I realized most of the girls in my group were non-committal party girls. After being burned I decided to go to the gym every morning to better myself. 11 years later it pays out. All of those girls are in their thirties and look weathered. Yet, of course a sucker will try to put a ring on it. If only they knew...
/r/askTRP11/03/20 02:27 PM
3

I was hoping that someone could at least wipe my ass in the nursing home.
/r/askTRP10/03/20 08:52 PM
1

In summary, do your job and go home.
/r/askTRP06/03/20 09:31 PM
3

Depends. Enjoying the process when it comes to lifting gives that mental hardness. Lifting with the end result in mind such as a "ripped body" caused people to lose their minds.
/r/askTRP06/03/20 09:29 PM
3

This is the way. Been using 5/3/1 for years. Once you get some solid lifting numbers it's great for progressing. Hell I switch to the "Jack Shit" program when leaning out and still maintain strength.
/r/askTRP06/03/20 09:25 PM
21

"I don't believe in divorce."
/r/askTRP06/03/20 09:23 PM
10

Up the tren.
/r/askTRP04/03/20 09:21 PM
1

In the mean time get yourself a Tinder. Work on that texting game. Hey if they pass the pee pee test rack in some meetup / f- close points too.
/r/askTRP04/03/20 06:09 PM
1

'Hi'-me 'Hi how are you?'-her 'I'm good and yourself?'-me 'I'm good'-her ' What does your name mean?'-me 'It means...'-her 'That'pretty cool'-me *next day 'Hi'-me Hi how are you?'-her 'Let me know when i can call'-me On the next girl... replace the asking that you did right there to more of "Let's meet at #####" Honestly bind date... she just wasn't interested.
/r/askTRP04/03/20 05:40 PM
8

"k" "cool" Something short. No worries, she'll reach out to you in a couple of months.
/r/askTRP04/03/20 02:51 PM
1

I'd like to see a hall of shame wiki with all of the outlandish situations men put themselves through.
/r/askTRP04/03/20 02:45 PM
1

Practice DM sliding with all girls on your IG that pass the pee pee test. Rack in your experience points. "But there's this girl..." Tread carefully brother as this can easily blow into a Oneitis issue.
/r/askTRP04/03/20 02:34 PM
1

Hahaha. Knew the hulk will be here. Something is up with this sub lately with bizarre posts. Must be new crowd of young men coming in.
/r/askTRP04/03/20 02:31 PM
1

Too much texting. When it comes to texting this community stresses to only use it for setting up logistics. You are not having a relationship with your phone so cut to the chase and text her to meet up. She will either waste your time floundering, say yes, or say no. On to the next one.
/r/askTRP04/03/20 02:29 PM
1

It's great that music is your thing, but learn to write in paragraphs! On another note, I doubt she thinks you harm people. Now that you are free staff off of antidepressants that cause intense withdrawals. Go to the gym and start thinking about making money with your skills.
/r/askTRP04/03/20 02:26 PM
6

This is the way.
/r/askTRP04/03/20 02:21 PM
1

Honestly I follow a low volume, high intensity approach at the gym. 2 all out sets reverse pyramid. This allowed me to progress forward in all key lifts even while eating in slight caloric deficits to hit a smaller waist line. Outside of the gym is just as important though and I like to spend my recovery doing foam rolling and band work for the rotator cuffs as much as possible. If you're looking to lean out... don't underestimate the power of walking as this increases your TDEE.
/r/askTRP04/03/20 02:19 PM
1

Social media inflates all women's SMV. Thousand of guys out there throwing themselves to them while giving them compliments. Of course ugly girls are going to act like "princesses." Yet, of course they are going to be rude and hostile towards higher quality men. They know they barely have a chance at commitment and have probably been burned as well.
/r/askTRP04/03/20 02:15 PM
2

Even with family members it is their life and their choices. Nothing you can do about it. Even if a family member steers you wrong in a serious way... sometimes the best thing to do is cut them out. Cheers. ::puffs on pipe::
/r/askTRP03/03/20 09:17 PM
7

This is a great problem to have. The best thing to do is to go spend your time doing something you love. Her problem. Expect the girl to give you the exclusive talk. Hold that frame home boy. Cheers ::puffs on pipe::
/r/askTRP03/03/20 09:16 PM
1

I say fuck it. Let her get the job. Downgrade immediately (silently) and drop a few loads on those knockers.
/r/askTRP03/03/20 09:08 PM
2

She's an adult who feels plastic boobs will increase... attention from all around. She's doing it for herself. Before the big breakup... be the first to titty fuck and unleash your load. Slap em around a little bit. That way there will always be a glowing satisfaction that those plastic melons were the first to be pillaged by AbysswalkerGuts. Then move on!
/r/askTRP03/03/20 09:03 PM
1

Was she on a Girls Night Out?? Have to vet these girls about this crap before giving them gf status. Messaging her when she is out is interpreted as neediness. Having your conversation with her is interpreted as neediness. All of those things can cause her attraction to fade. The fact that she is going a Girls Night Out indicates something is up with the relationship. Best course of action is to fade your attention to something else because high value males appreciate their time.
/r/askTRP03/03/20 08:57 PM
1

For a week? Probably not. You better have a decent job to cover the costs.
/r/askTRP03/03/20 02:12 PM
1

Guy was 90 years old. Prime time for him was in the late 1960s 70s. Crazy thing is the clinic tried charging me for that useless visit in which I disputed and did not pay.
/r/askTRP03/03/20 10:44 AM
1

She's your girlfriend and you're still a virgin?
/r/askTRP02/03/20 09:32 PM
3

Dyes her hair a funky problem. Piercings such as gages or some type of Ooga Booga Bone Alt haircut such as a half shaved (bonus slut with piercing and dyed hair) Party girl Instagram followers over 500 Shaves wooden spoons in a hipster area Constant guy friends Still in contact with exes
/r/askTRP02/03/20 09:26 PM
2

Let her open up in person. Not through text.
/r/askTRP02/03/20 09:21 PM
12

Nothing. Guy is bantering. If you are doing surgery I'd just go with it. Replying with a witty "Yeah your wife told me all about you" right before going under might lead to... not waking up.
/r/askTRP02/03/20 09:19 PM
1

Get out of the lease. Find someone to sublease. If not, get a new lock for your room. Keep her out. This is a horror story that you created my man. Good experience though.
/r/askTRP02/03/20 09:12 PM
1

Hey you are getting them back at your place. The hell you doing having the first girl invite over a friend. Second time... kiss on the neck? Third time flakes for another guy. Blitzkrieg this shit. Make a move after establishing comfort in your pad. Girl doesn't put out; end it and have her leave.
/r/askTRP02/03/20 09:07 PM
2

Thanks brother! It truly made a difference and is safe when used with ongoing monitoring of blood pressure, lipids, etc. Not sure what is wrong with doctors. It seems like it is easier to prescribe anti depressants. However I can get this from online clinics from Florida.
/r/askTRP02/03/20 08:53 PM
1

Maybe he was having a bad day. You are not responsible for some random fattie's happiness.
/r/askTRP02/03/20 08:51 PM
10

Congrats my man ya leveled up. People you once knew will be jealous of your presences. Most of it is a projection of their insecurities. New guys will either approach and ask you about what you are doing; some guys will get jealous. Some might even mate guard in your presence! Girls in general will be coy. Watch their actions as any attention, whether negative or positive, can be a form of attraction.
/r/askTRP02/03/20 08:34 PM
5

At 29 out of nowhere I had severe anxiety, trouble sleeping, no libido, no social life, no sex life, and did not feel well. After that I was referred to a psych doctor where he put me on Remeron for sleep. This worked until I developed a tolerance a few months into the treatment. At one of my visits I mentioned my test level of 450 and suggested a testosterone patch and he yelled at me stating "I will not prescribe you performance enhancers!!" It was ridiculous... he asked GOOGLE what are low le…
/r/askTRP02/03/20 08:23 PM
2

If you have no attachment to the outcome, then reduce your attention with her for a while. Be unavailable. However, because you work with her, it's going to be tough. Same goes with cohabitation. At least with that a man can disappear to the gym and let her mind wander.
/r/askTRP02/03/20 07:26 PM
3

What type of work do you do? Does your girlfriend work there too? I take it yes. Why are you dating someone at work? It's great that she brought it up to you. Men are always going to approach and pull that shit; there is no getting bent out of shape. There's no mate guarding your woman as this is unattractive and she will leave eventually. Do not talk to her about this. If she decides to go (hahaha as friends) let her go. That's it. There's no putting your foot down as women resent that. There's…
/r/askTRP02/03/20 07:23 PM
1

What is your waist measurement? What is your shoulder measurement?
/r/askTRP02/03/20 05:38 PM
1

Depends on your muscle mass. Some people with low muscles appear skinny fat at 15% yet some people who are muscled appear ripped at 15%. Now that you are 15%...take a break, eat at maintenance, let your body settle on the weight, continue building your strength. When you are ready for your next form... slightly drop the maintenance calories while maintaining your strength in the gym. Focus on high intensity and low volume. Take waist and shoulder measurements and get as close to the golden ratio…
/r/askTRP02/03/20 03:49 PM
8

Yup, go work in your social skills. Continue asking girls permission for their Instagram. Continue asking permission to share your Instagram. Enjoy being nothing more than an orbiter.
/r/askTRP02/03/20 01:21 AM
3

Fuck Instagram... why. Simply say “nice talking with you... heading to blah blah blah later, let’s meet up give me you number”
/r/askTRP02/03/20 01:01 AM
1

Time to move on. Ideally you would have messaged multiple matches and worked on getting their numbers. With tinder work on transitioning to getting their number. Simply say “ cool give me ur #” Logistics texting only
/r/askTRP02/03/20 01:00 AM
1

Don’t respond. Block and move on. She will chase looking for closure.
/r/askTRP29/02/20 10:24 PM
4

Compliance test her... have her lick peanut butter from YOUR asshole.
/r/askTRP28/02/20 09:25 PM
2

Time to up the tren.
/r/askTRP28/02/20 09:24 PM
1

It depends on the region and what type of values they've acquired. Since I'm out in the Midwest there are some 20 year olds that have hobbies such as quilt making and sewing. These ones were part of 4-H and Future Farmers of America. With the increase of social media these hobbies are dwindling down to alcohol / partying but there are still some out there. Oh, and don't let those hobbies fool you. These "good girls" were into some kinky shit: butt plugs, being tied up, etc.
/r/askTRP28/02/20 09:19 PM
1

This post seems like a rant but I guess you need to let out instead of snapping on people which will get you arrested, hurt, or dead. Dude. Get a new routine where you encounter higher quality people. But you will always encounter people who don't like you. Channel your anger into other outlets such as the gym. Also learn amused mastery where you don't let people get to you.
/r/askTRP28/02/20 02:31 PM
2

Old women pull that shit in churches all the time. You did well kid. I even bet that sparked a bit of attraction from girls in the class. People talk. Keep being disagreeable in situations that don't benefit you. A simple "no" with a cheeky smile will do.
/r/askTRP28/02/20 02:25 PM
16

Most guys will buy a woman's bathwater.
/r/askTRP28/02/20 02:19 PM
1

Mr. Hulk... where is the post about being jacked and perceptions changing? Although you pretty much summarized it.
/r/askTRP27/02/20 09:02 PM
1

This. Why spend time dealing with an ex. You or that person left for a reason. Time-wise, why deal with a ghost.
/r/askTRP27/02/20 08:58 PM
2

But there is a website / database for false rape accusations.
/r/askTRP27/02/20 08:48 PM
8

This. Cold contact. No talking to police or anyone UNLESS A LAWYER is PRESENT.
/r/askTRP27/02/20 08:47 PM
1

It was a rhetorical question brother. Most people don't even overhead press...but it's certainly something to work towards. By the way, congrats on your progress. When I'm your age hopefully I'll be retaining the same strength but I'll be definitely hitting the higher reps to prevent injury.
/r/askTRP27/02/20 05:34 PM
1

You almost convinced me that I'm an elite lifter better than 90% of the world!
/r/askTRP27/02/20 02:16 PM
0

Yup, completely full of do do. The overhead press is standing. A lot better as it hits all of your muscles. Also, the data is pulled from that website from other users on that site. The bench press x 5 would come first. Keep pushing forward and you can achieve the overhead press at 5 years. Lifting is all about the process and not the end result. Gaining strength takes time. Go ahead and settle with your mediocrity.
/r/askTRP27/02/20 10:37 AM
0

Do both
/r/askTRP27/02/20 12:28 AM
1

You have a plan.
/r/askTRP26/02/20 09:23 PM
1

The more you put yourself in new experiences... the more abundance of opportunities you are exposed to. Over time this builds... character.
/r/askTRP26/02/20 09:19 PM
1

Volunteer for special olympics. Put yourself in new experiences. Go skydiving. That will center you.
/r/askTRP26/02/20 09:17 PM
1

Haha great text. Short and sweet. Reminds me of one of my texts stating "Busy now home 7 wear thong"
/r/askTRP26/02/20 09:14 PM
1

Cancel without an explanation. Keep the mystery as she is just a plate.
/r/askTRP26/02/20 09:10 PM
1

Pecking order my man
/r/askTRP26/02/20 09:09 PM
1

Oneitis
/r/askTRP26/02/20 09:09 PM
34

Get used to that feeling as you will never truly be satisfied with what ever physique you attain. It's human nature my man. To truly enjoy lifting you have to enjoy the process; there will never be an end result. Some people with impressive physiques still feel small; don't fall in the habit of body dysmorphia issues. Get in the habit of tracking data (lifting PRs, caloric counting, scale weight, and body measurements) if you are certain you are heading in the right direction for fat loss or mus…
/r/askTRP26/02/20 09:08 PM
1

Give it time and get stronger in all the key areas including weighted chin ups. Some of my best gains in strength came with 2 sets, reverse pyramid, in the 4-8 and 6-12 range. After this you can do pump work for that juicy look. In my opinion, I've been following Wendler's 5/3/1 since it came out as it accomplishes building strength and hypertrophy.
/r/askTRP26/02/20 08:05 PM
0

Keep pushing forward. Some people are just stronger with better leverages or neuromuscular connections. Nothing you can do about it. "I have gained a lot of muscle" is a very open statement. No idea how you train. I like to follow strength standards Are you able to overhead press your body-weight 5 times?
/r/askTRP26/02/20 07:57 PM
2

If things are continuing as a whole it's a good sign. Save all recent messages from her. I'd slowly tap out of this situation though... that's a red flag and who knows what she will pull in the future. Hell, even consult with a lawyer just in case. If the situation does come when she goes for revenge (crazy woman shit) DON'T talk to the police. Talk to your lawyer.
/r/askTRP24/02/20 09:23 PM
1

Back when I was in my 20s in a college town there was one of the townies who frequented the bars who was a high school drop out, short, and he had some type of physical disability which resulted in a tiny fucked up arm (looked like a penis hand) Dude was quick to give people shit and at first he would approach and I thought it was fine with the bantering... over a period of time that shit got annoying. One time when I was with a lady out he was fricken there. Bantering ensued as he was trying to…
/r/askTRP21/02/20 03:03 PM
1

Definitely amused mastery. It's a short waiter dude who has mastered his craft... serving others.
/r/askTRP21/02/20 02:51 PM
5

Okay kid. Here is my advice: Building muscle takes time. A long fucking time. Once you accept this you can enjoy the journey. Anyone who boasts of gaining 20 - 30 pounds of muscle within a few months to a year are full of shit. Even with steroids less than half of that shit is muscle; most is water weight and fat. Get stronger in the core lifts with a basic beginner program: https://exrx.net/Testing/WeightLifting/StrengthStandards Eat in a surplus that allows you to continue making gains in the …
/r/askTRP19/02/20 08:02 PM
1

How big of a caloric surplus are you talking about? Kid bulks at a pound a week for 6 years = roughly 312 lbs on top of his current weight.
/r/askTRP19/02/20 07:32 PM
1

Couple of things to consider... How long have you been lifting? What are your core lifts? How do you know you are in deficit? What is your TDEE?
/r/askTRP19/02/20 07:26 PM
3

This. We want squash this type of behavior as soon as possible. Only feeding it attention, whether positive or negative, will keep it going.
/r/askTRP19/02/20 05:19 PM
2

I think what you did was fine. Taking her home after 45 minutes was great. I didn't observe you in action but here are some things to reflect about: Did you appear affected by her not putting out? Vocal tone / body language / etc Did she perceive you in anyway as needy? Have you spoke/text with her after she left on the train? My opinion: You shouldn't feel disrespected at all. It's a simple "okay" then proceed to spend your time doing something else that you enjoy. Contact her in a few days. Re…
/r/askTRP19/02/20 05:16 PM
3

Sounds like you were the counselor in that session. I hope you don t have to pay for that ish.
/r/askTRP18/02/20 09:57 PM
1

Exactly
/r/askTRP16/02/20 01:56 PM
1

Nah... text nothing or “k”
/r/askTRP15/02/20 08:52 PM
1

Your first encounter was awesome and overall this was a good read. Keep experimenting but dial back on the alcohol so you can control you’re asshole side. Makes me think of a few times I went out and did random approaches. Really didn’t have the end goal of getting laid but just hand fun. Too much booze though.. at one point I was experimenting with “the hand of god” with one girl only to have a dude poke me saying that was his wife. I laughed in his face saying I did him a favor.
/r/askTRP15/02/20 08:14 PM
2

Stop telling people too much. Also, friends come and go.
/r/askTRP15/02/20 07:57 PM
1

“Thanks my wife picked it out”
/r/askTRP15/02/20 07:29 PM
1

The older I get (32) the more I realize that my father was more of a badass but with some blue pill tendencies. Because we all do. What went wrong was when the family purchased our first computer and creates rts game ever... command and conquer. This shit shut me in and made me a fatass. In 8th grade my father pulled me aside and it was mandatory that I had to lift before. He kept on drilling me about windows of opportunities when it comes to lifting now so it prepares you for life. I also grew …
/r/askTRP15/02/20 07:14 PM
2

I put it to the test today. The lady loved it
/r/askTRP15/02/20 12:59 AM
2

Haha I like your style brother. Fuck people who like to social police.
/r/askTRP14/02/20 10:16 PM
1

I'm 32 and my girl is 25. At first I pondered if it would raise eyebrows... but the girl is from a small town of 600 people and I haven't had any problems from people. Not even the parents.
/r/askTRP14/02/20 10:12 PM
1

... yet I've seen 30 year olds with girls in their 20s. Come on now. Same rule for don't shit where you eat applies.
/r/askTRP14/02/20 10:10 PM
1

Since you are posting about this... it is best to stick to rules to ensure you move on to the next available opportunity from someone else. Texting for logistics only. Quality over quantity when it comes to words; on your 7th message it needs to be to meet up. If she cancels but doesn't reschedule; no biggie, ask one more time in a week or two. Nothing? move on. Give a woman two strikes. If she cancels but reschedules... no biggie, go for it. However if she flakes... move on.
/r/askTRP14/02/20 10:08 PM
1

It takes time. Life is too short to caught up in that shit; there is nothing you can do about it. Don't even bother getting in the habit of checking her phone; not worth the thoughts or efforts. And if she does leave for one of those orbiters...who fucking cares.
/r/askTRP14/02/20 10:04 PM
2

She is not that special. As mentioned in the comments; typical woman behavior. Perhaps she is too busy to respond to your texts with living her life and/or talking to other guys. Nothing you can do about it but increase your SMV living your life's mission. Also, if a woman is truly interested you would know. Girls will sneak away from boyfriends, climb down 2 story windows, drive across a state to see someone that gives them the tingles. Dating these days has changed. Social media has the sexual…
/r/askTRP14/02/20 09:55 PM
13

Give her a bag of skittles.
/r/askTRP14/02/20 09:49 PM
5

For me... I relish the fact that guys are hitting her up for affection as my cum is dripping out of her panties. Don't let it both you brother.
/r/askTRP14/02/20 09:46 PM
9

Similar to man being a "time slut." A man's time is valuable and the more you spend it on someone with little in return... the more your time loses it's value. Typically being a woman's emotional tampon involves emotional investment from a man to a women despite having little in return. Most of the time the guy is friend zoned and keeps this up hoping that one day the woman will realize he is the one that truly loves her. It never works out this way and bolsters the man's time slut status.
/r/askTRP14/02/20 09:43 PM
2

Today I gave my LTR of a little over a year a nice gift bag with a box of gummy bears. Her eyes got big and said thank you. She gave me a brand new gym bag.
/r/askTRP14/02/20 04:31 PM
18

It depends. I lift at the university gym and make sure to be friendly with staff. Other lifters I will acknowledge and work in between sets. The more I "get into" my workouts the better the results. I see plenty of people chatting around while taking Instagram photos of their shitty workouts in expensive-ass attire. Don't be that person.
/r/askTRP14/02/20 04:29 PM
9

This was a pretty damn positive response.
/r/askTRP14/02/20 04:22 PM
1

Sounds like a grade A shit test to me. Hopefully you didn't explain to her that it is cheating. Best response would have been a cheeky smile with "I'm down."
/r/askTRP14/02/20 04:20 PM
5

For me it made since when I first took up lifting. At first I wanted to become ripped and obsessing over it with the end goal in mind. A lot of skills are needed before you can actually reach the end goal... and when you reach the end goal you are never fucking satisfied.
/r/askTRP13/02/20 09:49 PM
21

Being swole is like a nice, defined resume. It's gets you in the front door and allows some room for errors. Women are more receptive, however it's purely a numbers game. Now the process of getting fit/swole creates discipline and confidence in other areas as well when truly let's you shine and stand out . Oh, and you can't help your friend. He's just throwing an excuse to quit just like most of the New Years Resolutioners.
/r/askTRP21/01/20 05:09 PM
4

Friends come and go. Very few high school and college friends are kept in touch but people grow apart and that is life. Now just like women, social interaction opportunities are abundant as well; this includes everyone. Focus on building a routine that involves small social interactions. Make conversations with the clerks at grocery stores, sit at a coffee bar while making conversations, make small talk with the regulars at the gym.
/r/askTRP26/12/19 12:56 PM
2

It’s a trap! Seems like a beta trap to me. Don’t offer commitment to this one as it’s a red flag. She probably had guys flooding her with all sorts of sweet nothings saying “it’s not true your not a horrible person” blah blah blah. I’d lessen the attention VIA text to this one. Hit her up in a few weeks to hangout and f close.
/r/askTRP26/12/19 09:13 AM
1

Dude. Give her a compliance test. Say “only if you order....”.
/r/askTRP25/12/19 02:15 AM
36

“I’m the most humble person whose 6’4....”
/r/askTRP24/12/19 09:09 PM
2

Can’t save him brother...
/r/askTRP24/12/19 08:30 PM
1

Look are you happy or not? You already know what you need to do. The fact that you went back to her 6 months later reveals a lot. Continue living your dream if you choose.
/r/askTRP24/12/19 08:29 PM
1

Depends. Did she offer a reschedule? If not... time to be moving along.
/r/askTRP24/12/19 07:54 PM
1

This.
/r/askTRP24/12/19 07:53 PM
2

Obviously sounds like she has the power. Are you willing to make changes? If so you need to take action on multiple fronts. Stay busy with the gym, socializing, and building up all areas in your life. I suggest you ghost her. Experience the effect no contact will have on this girl. She might chase after you. She might not. Erase her from your phone. Ignore all of her attempts to contact. Understand this is only practice for you and it will make you a better person.
/r/askTRP24/12/19 07:50 PM
1

“Your girl”
/r/askTRP24/12/19 07:47 PM
3

Send a hotdog
/r/askTRP24/12/19 07:35 PM
18

Sounds like she has a story or five to tell... Ignore that shit. Dating profiles are full of that high demand doggie do do. “Hey can I use your bathroom”
/r/askTRP24/12/19 06:28 PM
30

Keep pushing forward. Seems like you did the right amount of pulling back and advancing but she just wouldn’t give it up. You did the right thing stopping and taking her home. Enough of that shit. Your time is valuable spent elsewhere Was the promise ring glowing the entire time?
/r/askTRP24/12/19 03:21 PM
1

Foundation: Build the habit of going to the gym Pick a strength training program and use the bench press, deadlift, squat, overhead press, and chin-ups as your core lifts. Get stronger in this. Next figure out how much you should eat per day to maintain weight. This is called your TDEE. For construction you may be burning a shit load moving all day. I find that my Fitbit is pretty accurate and on most days I burn 3200. For researched based reference go here: https://exrx.net/Beginning
/r/askTRP24/12/19 02:08 PM
3

Have fun. Be aware of her actions. ( don’t monitor like a hawk) If she is truly attracted to you she will shoot down guys and introduce them to you. Don’t be clingy. Don’t mate guard. Overall use it as a test for her.
/r/askTRP24/12/19 01:52 AM
1

Early stages have a shit ton of tests as the woman scrutinizes. That’s why you don’t give commitment right away.
/r/askTRP24/12/19 01:50 AM
1

Depends on the situation. Is there evidence of you seeing other women? That night be preselection No? You’re in orbit land.
/r/askTRP24/12/19 01:48 AM
5

Ah the soyboy hipsters. With them round eyeglasses sitting in bars sanding wooden spoons.
/r/askTRP23/12/19 07:25 PM
1

Abundance starts realizing that women are everywhere you go. It’s not that specific one in that location you go to. Sometimes it takes lowering your standards but mostly it means talking to everybody. Seems like OP has put in the work and is ready to focus elsewhere.
/r/askTRP23/12/19 05:11 PM
1

This is spot on.
/r/askTRP23/12/19 04:47 PM
1

So was the husband watching you all nerdy? Was he like... “oh honey whyyyy” Were you like... “shut up white boy.”
/r/askTRP23/12/19 04:45 PM
1

I spent some time alone in my 20s. Fucking enjoyed it volunteering for special Olympics, going for my masters, and gym. Stay busy but social. You don’t want to lose your skills; maintain em. Focus on building areas in your life and rock that shit.
/r/askTRP23/12/19 03:01 PM
3

32 year old checking in. Unmarried but seeing a 25 year old. With anything in life. Once you have abundance you lose that interest fast and focus on other things. Pussy gets old fast. All women have them but else do they have to offer besides a vagina. What other qualities do you seek?
/r/askTRP23/12/19 02:49 PM
14

The die is cast. She already cheated in one form or another.
/r/askTRP23/12/19 02:45 PM
7

Chances are that she boned him. Once you found out about it the best course of action was an immediate downgrade to plate or ghost. Buuuuut you didn’t and that’s okay. It’s all practice and she’s not the one. Reevaluate the relationship as she has the power. Act accordingly by ghosting this trick ass beyotch.
/r/askTRP23/12/19 02:44 PM
2

Let there be a time lag once you get their number. You can text throughout that time to build some comfort. However you get 6 text messages to build comfort and meet up. 6 messages so use them wisely. Make those 6 brief with quality my man. In the mean time realize that most girls ghost or flake during the entire process. Even when you have a date and time... expect this. Give them 2 strikes to ensure you are not wasting your time. You can still get them to meet up on social media like Snapchat …
/r/askTRP23/12/19 02:40 PM
2

If she is a plate then hit her up in the future. Don’t pursue as this will push her away. Do the opposite and let her go. She may return or she may be gone; accept it and keep pushing forward. Hope that helps
/r/askTRP23/12/19 01:43 PM
1

Autopilot? Assume attraction
/r/askTRP23/12/19 10:38 AM
3

If there no exclusivity. Why expect it from the other party? On the opposite end... giving exclusivity in today’s age usually ends up with a loyal boyfriend while the woman shops for copious amounts of suitors. Expect all sorts of jealously tricks from women and don’t shed a bit of attention when that occurs... because she is just a plate.
/r/askTRP23/12/19 10:36 AM
1

We’re living in the times of marketing magic.
/r/askTRP23/12/19 08:57 AM
1

That. Especially at 31 he’s probably has low T.
/r/askTRP23/12/19 07:38 AM
1

I think it’s great. But if you are following through why give her the fucking validation by telling her you fucked 4 other women. This shit sounds toxic to me.
/r/askTRP23/12/19 01:34 AM
2

That’s cool. In the Midwest most black guys are chased by white women as a symbol of being a rebel. These girls will post all types of stupid shit on their Instagram. It’s completely dehumanizes the guy.
/r/askTRP23/12/19 01:32 AM
4

Congrats. Sounds like you leveled up. Keep racking in those experience points to become hard as nails.
/r/askTRP23/12/19 01:30 AM
1

Most of these tough girls come across as the immature “sassy” types. All words and no go. There are some tough girls in the fitness lifestyle but it’s hard weeding them out from the “Instagram” fitness ones. The only thing you can really do is make one.
/r/askTRP23/12/19 01:29 AM
2

Don’t bet on it. Keep meeting new people and rack in those experience points. However if you are ever in town, sure, hit her up. Don’t be surprised if she does t answer. Don’t be texting her long distance either; you are not there and there are plenty of other guys out there for her. Don’t be surprise if she does t answer if you go this route either.
/r/askTRP23/12/19 01:26 AM
48

Bitches be selling their BATHWATER.
/r/askTRP23/12/19 01:22 AM
7

Jesus. Sounds like statutory rape
/r/askTRP23/12/19 01:11 AM
1

Yes, there’s a bar there. Talk to whoever stops by.
/r/askTRP23/12/19 01:00 AM
2

Come on. Plastic surgery is not going to solve an unhealthy mindset. Too many young guys with the INCEL movement wanting jawlines and brow implants. Fucking ridiculous.
/r/askTRP23/12/19 12:10 AM
2

This. The soft next is a powerful tool to overcome that bullshit. Next time she refuses sex get up and leave. Go to the gym. Meet other women, etc. lady will be blowing up your phone. Do not answer and no contact for a few days.
/r/askTRP22/12/19 07:14 PM
5

It’s always going to be that way brother. People will like you and people will hate you. People will not even notice you. Not sure how old you are but in my 30s I started judging most interactions based on what values people bring to the table and what I bring as well. If people are not bringing anything to the table and are up front negative or passive aggressive, I cut them out. Either way, stay lean and keep building muscles; it only gets crazier with people’s reactions.
/r/askTRP22/12/19 07:04 PM
2

It’s not working out, I got to go. Or just ghost her. Either way... no radio contact
/r/askTRP22/12/19 06:56 PM
5

At least steal some spices.
/r/askTRP22/12/19 06:44 PM
3

Avoid women with colored hair, multiple piercings, tattoos, and shaved hair.
/r/askTRP22/12/19 06:43 PM
1

Gym. Preparing to be shredded for summer. Lots of like minded people to meet at the gym. I live out in the Midwest and find the coffee shops to have plenty of people to have conversations with. Of course the bars are full of people as there are limited options for outdoor stuff to do. Wine and canvas events are pretty fun to attend. You can also get into the hobby of snow mobility or skiing if you have the cash for that.
/r/askTRP22/12/19 06:41 PM
7

Sounds like you might have the feels if you are waiting for her to reply.
/r/askTRP22/12/19 06:38 PM
14

Despite their looks... I think it just depends on the woman and their prior experiences. I would take even hostile, dirty looks as a form of attraction. The opposite of love is not hate... it’s indifference.
/r/askTRP22/12/19 06:37 PM
1

You can always reinvent yourself. Be glad you are not in debt
/r/askTRP22/12/19 06:36 PM
3

Sounds like a plate she will always be to you. No point in being committed to someone who has a behavioral pattern like this.
/r/askTRP22/12/19 06:34 PM
6

Thanks for the description! OP needs to work on himself in multiple areas; posts sounds very INCEL like. Responses for plastic surgery... Jesus.
/r/askTRP22/12/19 06:33 PM
7

She did you a favor brother. No excuses and good for you for not taking her back. Have a great holiday!
/r/askTRP22/12/19 06:29 PM
13

Volunteer your time. Be a man and go out and inject yourself into the world. I was lonely too in my 20s. I ended up volunteering my time with Special Olympics and made a lot of good friends with the athletes. I would trust them over to a of other people. I have also made friends with the other volunteers too. This was not an instant. It was built over time.
/r/askTRP22/12/19 04:31 PM
1

What country you live in? Are we talking about a cleft pallet? I know the feelings are real and we have all been there. It’s all about your perception. I Also guarantee that whatever you wish to acquire ( if I had this then I will be happy) will end up with you being unhappy and wanting something else instead. This is human nature. “If only I had abs THEN I would get laid” Even when you get laid... you just get used to it and You want something MORE. As people are stating in the comments. Change…
/r/askTRP22/12/19 04:28 PM
2

I’m a little bit older but when I meet new people I want to know if they would be useful to me. More like networking. What do they bring to the table. What do I bring to the table. If that person is incompetent I drop them. For groups I honestly don’t care unless it serves a purpose. Groups tend to have crab buckets mentality. Also, friends come and go. I still have 3 really good friends that I can call up anytime.
/r/askTRP21/12/19 10:47 PM
2

I would refrain from spending Christmas with her. Go spend your valuable time elsewhere.
/r/askTRP21/12/19 10:40 PM
3

I don’t think it’s a bad thing at all. As long as it comes from your frame.
/r/askTRP21/12/19 10:37 PM
3

What was the minor operation? How old is she? Dude I would have said “okay” and left her at the hospital after she made those comments. Soft next for a week or two. In a way it was a great thing for you to experience her true self. I would reconsider giving her the title of LTR if she pulls this over a “minor operation.” What the hell is going to happen if there’s a serious emergency or if you go through a major change in you life (laid off, broken legs, etc). She is not your soulmate and not ev…
/r/askTRP21/12/19 10:34 PM
5

Brother, you gave her attention. She knows that you were thinking about her.
/r/askTRP21/12/19 10:14 PM
6

This. Any hate towards someone is just validation in the form of attention. A true taste of her own medicine would be to ghost. Women do this all the time.
/r/askTRP21/12/19 10:13 PM
2

Once had a work friend eat a bunch of White Castle burgers in a drunken stupor. At work he was still burping that shit up. One of the fat lady coworker goes “omg it smells so good in here. Someone’s eating burgers!”
/r/askTRP21/12/19 10:06 PM
6

“Fuck look at these ATM receipts”
/r/askTRP21/12/19 08:01 PM
35

I remember those. My biggest routine on the morning upon waking up was the checklist. Wallet? Check Keys? Check Phone? Check
/r/askTRP21/12/19 02:22 PM
1

This is also a great approach if in a caloric deficit and leaning out.
/r/askTRP21/12/19 02:12 PM
1

Low volume and high intensity workouts
/r/askTRP21/12/19 02:11 PM
5

We all have stories to tell. The big thing is that no one will truly give a shit a few months or years down the road. As long as it’s nothing too drastic like a sexual or simple assault charge.
/r/askTRP21/12/19 02:10 PM
2

Yes. Another important note is that sex always comes first before commitment. https://www.forums.red/p/TheRedPill/3755/the_bitch_management_hierarchy_study_guide
/r/askTRP21/12/19 12:55 AM
2

She a friend with benefit. Somewhere on this subreddit there is a hierarchy of terms and what women need to do to be promoted and demoted. Great post.
/r/askTRP20/12/19 11:00 PM
1

If the plate is truly a plate. I wouldn’t want her to get the idea of hanging out as a date. I especially would not want to meet her friends as this means something more than a plate status.
/r/askTRP20/12/19 10:51 PM
2

I learned in my younger years that when my friends entered into committed relationships... it’s usually the last time I see them. Most guys focus too much on the relationship and the other aspects of their lives decline.. including the body. Smart guys keep the other elements in their life in order and don’t make their lives revolve around a woman. She compliments their life is along for the ride. You can get a solid read on the relationship power status of the guy “has to ask for permission” to…
/r/askTRP20/12/19 10:46 PM
6

BUT... I question the combination of the terms “date” and “plate” in the original post. Homeboy might have some feels and time away sounds like the right prescription.
/r/askTRP20/12/19 10:34 PM
4

Hit up your other plates. In a week or two send a message to this plate and invite her somewhere
/r/askTRP20/12/19 07:15 PM
1

Hang in there. Get in the habit of talking to all people... both male and females. If you just couldn't do it and ask for a number start with a smaller goal. Or you can just hit the pedal to the metal and ask for numbers while laughing at rejection.
/r/askTRP16/12/19 03:17 PM
11

I take it you are in high school. Read up about oneitis as this seems like something you have. Some of your behaviors appear needy when I read through this. (month later trying to talk to her, staring at her in class, trying to talk to her in class, waiting for her when class ends, following her after class). If the girl was attracted, you will know. Bitches will do anything to make themselves available to you. Don't even bother hamstring ideas that she could be playing hard to get.
/r/askTRP26/11/19 04:32 PM
-4

You are addressing someone on the internet. Who cares
/r/askTRP26/11/19 04:00 PM
2

standing military / overhead press is a rarity in the gym. Get to the point where you have a tight waist and pressing your bodyweight for reps and you will definitely stand out.
/r/askTRP26/11/19 04:00 PM
6

Not sure what's your question young buck. If she's just looking for another guy to give her attention. Disregard. If this girl is in to you then it's a great opportunity for practice. Since she has all this money... practice compliance and milk that shit. Also, she's a bartender and this could provide access to other women in the bar through preselection.
/r/askTRP26/11/19 03:48 PM
5

Yup. No 26 year old man got time for this bullshit.
/r/askTRP26/11/19 03:38 PM
1

Yeah buddy! You did good getting up and leaving with the old "sex refusal" shit test. I liked how you didn't beg for sex or didn't just lay there validating her bullshit. Find some new pretty young things. No worries... this girl will hit you back up in the future once she gets bored. When she does... punish her with a butt plug while softly yanking on the necktie around her throat.
/r/askTRP26/11/19 03:37 PM
2

lol
/r/askTRP26/11/19 03:31 PM
3

Keep going with your training cycle. Don't feel that you need to stick to a certain style of training. You can always adjust the intensity, frequency, and volume to fit what is going on in your life. Remember this is a marathon and life style that a lot of people can't keep later on in their lives. For me... I want to be an 85 year old dude still deadlifting 315lbs.
/r/askTRP26/11/19 03:27 PM
1

This. I find you can still maintain and progress with high intensity, moderate frequency, and low volume ( 2 sets primary lifts)
/r/askTRP26/11/19 03:24 PM
-4

You are addressing someone on the internet. Who cares
/r/askTRP26/11/19 03:22 PM
1

Don't sweat it. Your sister would do the same exact thing.
/r/askTRP25/11/19 02:34 PM
2

"Follow me on KIK"
/r/askTRP25/11/19 02:32 PM
2

They built a university wellness center 8 years ago. Now that I’m a townie and university employee I get a discount for half price annual membership... total is 150 Lots of ladies even at 5am. You can definitely pick out the people who are dedicated or there to mess around. Now the biggest thing is form fitting yoga pants and sports bra. I love their “empowerment”
/r/askTRP24/11/19 07:27 PM
2

Exactly. These learned behaviors or skills can be generalized across different settings (women)
/r/askTRP24/11/19 07:22 PM
1

For the most part you can’t. Who cares if they are unless they are selling something claiming to be natural. Bigger freaky guys use hgh, igf, and insulin to grow.
/r/askTRP24/11/19 02:32 AM
2

Guys make more comments than girls. Insecure guys attempt to stare you down more.
/r/askTRP24/11/19 02:30 AM
2

Come back in 12 years
/r/askTRP24/11/19 02:24 AM
1

Damn man I live in a college town and lift at a uni gym. Lots of beautiful undergrads and grads. Been lifting there for 10 years. Main goal is to lift first at 5am then any socialization can occur after. Even started an intramural special Olympics college team ( mostly female volunteers play with my special Olympics athletes in dodgeball, floor hockey, and basketball) If you established any gym as your domain over a period of time there is no reason to not approach and talk to a woman if you fee…
/r/askTRP23/11/19 12:25 PM
1

Most men only pursued the “hot chickens” and end up sexually frustrated with a dry spell lasting a long time. You can also practice some freaky shit with those girls. Face fucking... anal.. plugs, choking. Set the plate frame early and she will be contacting you for pleasure. Do some compliance tests when you meet up: tell her to bring beer, food, wear a thong, travel long distances, leave a social gathering to come see you. Tell don’t ask If a girl is attractive she will do all sorts of things …
/r/askTRP23/11/19 12:16 PM
1

Nothing wrong with sending a ping out sometime in the future. Remember that the girl was nexted for a reason and for fucks sake... don't upgrade her from a ONS or plate status. Never LTR her again if she was given that luxury. Make her chase, fuck her, and let her hamster that one day she will be the queen in your kingdom. **Most guys will take her back which is why recontacting a NEXT is ill-advised**
/r/askTRP22/11/19 09:44 PM
3

...and this is called "lowering your standards." Most of the men here have big egos and will never do this. Swallow your pride. Rack in those experience points, get laid, and upgrade.
/r/askTRP22/11/19 09:42 PM
1

This is called push/pull. Find the proper balance between attention in the form of positive reinforcement for behaviors you like to see in the relationship. **Don't do it all the time.** Withdraw attention from negative things she does. Also, hold positive praise now and then. Remember that we get used to paychecks but are thrilled when we get a bonus out of nowhere.
/r/askTRP22/11/19 09:40 PM
2

This. If you really want to ruffle a social media girl's feathers just give backhanded compliment. Out of a sea of compliments from thirsty guys you will be the only one she responds too.
/r/askTRP22/11/19 09:35 PM
2

Too much effort. Find three other girls who will gladly give their numbers if they are attracted.
/r/askTRP22/11/19 09:33 PM
20

Men on social media are thirsty. Remember that men purchased bath water from some chick. Disgusting.
/r/askTRP22/11/19 09:31 PM
1

Lady is just looking to increase her "followers." If she was in to you... you would have gotten the number right away. Next time when a gal offers her snapchat the proper response would be "nah, I'm good" and walk away.
/r/askTRP22/11/19 09:31 PM
3

Block her phone. She doesn’t exist. Pursuit girls of equal or more value. That chapter is over. Question is... will you repeat the same mistakes?
/r/askTRP11/11/19 02:06 PM
1

So?
/r/askTRP11/11/19 01:34 PM
2

Start working at a local bar or restaurant.
/r/askTRP11/11/19 09:50 AM
2

A lot of this is coming from your mindset. Read up about growth mindsets and start putting in the reps.
/r/askTRP11/11/19 09:49 AM
22

Ya. Back when I was in my 20s I let it bother me. Nowadays them girls are 30 and... bullets dodged. The younger girls pull the same crap but there’s no attachment anymore.
/r/askTRP11/11/19 12:49 AM
2

Yes It’s Wendlers 531. Jack shit program if leaning out
/r/askTRP10/11/19 11:25 PM
9

I feel you. I was a Day Services Coordinator at a place like that. Very low pay but I enjoyed creating opportunities for people in their community. I actually loved the people but couldn’t handle how the administration restricted their lives and treated staff. At 29 I had no libido, no life, still life’s, and could not sleep. I thought I was going bipolar. I ended up going to psychiatrist and fmla leave because of it. Put on antidepressants... got addicted. Finally I was put in TRT through an an…
/r/askTRP10/11/19 11:18 PM
1

No I was typing on my cell. Leg day is on Tuesday and fridays
/r/askTRP10/11/19 11:13 PM
1

How old are you? What are you current test levels?
/r/askTRP10/11/19 10:16 PM
2

If you have em clean and coordinated. Rock em young man. Most of the common men wear them all the time. The next step above and you have people who don’t match belts with their shoes. Hitting these basics and you are ahead of most men.
/r/askTRP10/11/19 09:32 PM
3

Whaaaat. Creatine is what all the pros and Instagram models take
/r/askTRP10/11/19 09:29 PM
1

Sure, wear them at Walmart.
/r/askTRP10/11/19 09:26 PM
2

This. Proper mindset involves a growth attitude. More exposure, practice, and reflect yields better results. On a side note... fuck looksmaxxx
/r/askTRP10/11/19 07:05 PM
2

They’re only in it for the money.
/r/askTRP10/11/19 07:02 PM
7

Nutrition, training, recovery above all else. Creatine is one of the only supplements that work and the results are minor. Maybe squeeze out an extra rep due to more water stored in muscles. It is popular because of some bill created Utah that allows the selling of dietary supplements. See the movie Bigger Faster Stronger for reference. Market magic. Creative mono hydrate is the cheapest and you can buy bulk for cheap.
/r/askTRP10/11/19 07:01 PM
2

These are awesome posts.
/r/askTRP10/11/19 06:09 PM
1

When it happens.. I can finally get some fucking sleep.
/r/askTRP10/11/19 04:15 PM
1

When she sees you with another girl of higher quality. That would spark some attraction. Don’t go back to that girl though
/r/askTRP10/11/19 04:12 PM
19

This. Only comes from experience from putting in the work. Being physically bigger is a start but... I’ve seen plenty of big boys lacking eye contact. I’ve seen plenty of big boys who give you that limp fish handshake. I’ve seen plenty of big boys carrying a woman’s shopping bag in public. I’ve seen plenty of big boys asking their wives if they can go down to bars with their friends.
/r/askTRP10/11/19 03:51 PM
1

It’s all about that minds perception for opportunities.
/r/askTRP10/11/19 03:47 PM
1

Learning about fit and coordination.
/r/askTRP10/11/19 03:35 PM
1

That’s an extreme example of being a assertive in an emergency situation. I’m not sure what OP is looking for... Men in their families. Are we talking about incest?
/r/askTRP10/11/19 03:32 PM
1

I do a four day split: Push/pull Deadlifts Push pull Squats Pushing lifts are bench press and overhead press Pull lifts are chin ups. Weighted chin-ups and face pulls
/r/askTRP10/11/19 01:17 PM
2

Keep the intensity up. You may lose muscle glycogen but not the actual muscle. You already losing energy due to the deficit and probably insane volume. It’s only a matter of time. 2 all out sets will allow you to maintain or gain more strength depending on where you are at. You won’t lose muscle. https://exrx.net/WeightTraining/LowVolumeTraining
/r/askTRP10/11/19 12:08 PM
0

Attraction Captain of the ship relationship For example, yesterday we were leaving my apartment for the gym. Noticed the door to my 85 year old neighbor was open and socks all over the place... things knocked over. Heard him tapping on something. As I pulled out my phone I told my gf to look inside and see if he responds that he fell and couldn’t get up. At that point I handed her my phone and told her to call the police. I started talking to him to find out what’s going on. Told gf to hand me t…
/r/askTRP10/11/19 11:56 AM
1

If you are at 12 percent it’s time to eat a little below tdee for a while. Throw in some iodine salt as most dieters eat too clean For your exercise you can get away with lowering the volume of the exercise and keeping the intensity high. I’ve had great success doing 2 work sets for my core lifts in the 4 to 8 and 6 to 12 range. The auxiliary lifts are high rep but nothing extensive. Walking for cardio as it aids recovery
/r/askTRP10/11/19 11:49 AM
1

Most are single moms. Some are just wanting attention. Bumble puts the power in their hand so they message you. I’ve had some success keeping all texting interactions low and to the point. Some girls are like “ I don’t even know you” my response is. “K” and next
/r/askTRP10/11/19 11:47 AM
6

EVERYwhere Stores, walking around town, etc Build up a new daily routine and include interactions with all people.
/r/askTRP10/11/19 11:45 AM
3

Mastery and experience trumps all.
/r/askTRP10/11/19 11:44 AM
5

Go skydiving to conquer that experience.
/r/askTRP10/11/19 11:43 AM
5

“Hey your eyelashes look a little frumpy...” “Are you using Mary Kay?”
/r/askTRP10/11/19 11:42 AM
7

Whatever fits and is well coordinated. Avoid sneakers unless at gym.
/r/askTRP10/11/19 11:41 AM
9

Exposed yourself to any situations that make you uncomfortable
/r/askTRP10/11/19 12:37 AM
2

He looks good. Not dyel status.
/r/askTRP10/11/19 12:34 AM
1

Similar thing happened to me one snowy evening. I was at a bar In a college town and approached a girl. She invited me back to her apartment across the street to smoke. I don’t smoke but I was down to see where this went. Went back to the apartment and had some great foreplay. Pulled her hair and she moaned while saying oh shit. Made out. Went down to her pants she started taking them off than said no. Pulled back for a bit reinitiated same thing and she said no. Did this a third time... same th…
/r/askTRP10/11/19 12:31 AM
1

It allows me to realize how things really are in this world and how the media romanticizes how love should be. It shows me that all me are truly the minority in this world and that society is set up in a way that demonizes masculinity. The best part is that I’m okay with that.
/r/askTRP10/11/19 12:23 AM
7

Gotta love social media, filtered pictures, and empowerment for the ladies
/r/askTRP09/11/19 03:52 PM
1

What I learned from strength training: Anything in life that you want to master requires patience, action, reflection, and reps.
/r/askTRP09/11/19 01:29 PM
1

Golden. Same applies to some of these recent posts about back and fourth texting conversations over 2 weeks and wondering if they should ask her out now. Too much energy.
/r/askTRP09/11/19 01:27 PM
3

Reread your post. These are your fucking neighbors. Can you handle the fact that you could have a drunken chucked man trying to break in your house to fight or kill you? I noticed married women will always gossip about “their useless” husbands. Stay away
/r/askTRP09/11/19 01:24 PM
2

If you want to meet up. Do it. Keep texting to a minimum though.
/r/askTRP09/11/19 01:20 PM
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I’m 32 as well. One decision I am proud of is that I started lifting and getting involved in fitness 12 years ago. Younger girls definitely are attracted to older men. Some are not. One thing I would never do is date a girl my age. They are train wrecks and single moms. Their mistake.
/r/askTRP09/11/19 01:18 PM
11

I realized this back in high school with my friends. A female will come along and a friend would disappear and largely be influenced by her. Calling the guy out on that only resulted in him denying and ruining the friendship. Social media arrived and things only got harder. Noticed females were more prone to flake and bounce to the next best thing. Glad I learned this early as you are truly on your own in this life. Love your independence.
/r/askTRP09/11/19 01:16 PM
2

Just get on with it. Stop over analyzing this. Texting is for logistics and keep it short with 7 messages maximum. This, combined with the continuous pursuit of other numbers, allows you to get a move on. No one has time for this energy suck. If you do meet up with her... take mental note of how much time she spends on her phone vs with you. Next that shit if she's on her beloved social media.
/r/askTRP08/11/19 10:07 PM
1

Dude eat a snickers. You're not yourself if hungry.
/r/askTRP08/11/19 04:55 PM
1

You are being perceived as needy which is unattractive. Pull the plug and stop giving so much damn attention. You are going to flip your shit when she goes on a lady’s night in the near future.
/r/askTRP07/11/19 01:34 AM
1

"started getting upset about many things such as her not answering my calls when we agree to meet and I'm about to go out and go to where we supposed to meet, also when she is not being very responsive when I have an aching trouble in my life and I try to find solace in her and I want her to feel me." ​ Dude. You lost this relationship. ~ Walk away
/r/askTRP06/11/19 05:42 PM
9

"Leather and chains baaaaaby"
/r/askTRP06/11/19 05:38 PM
1

Nothing wrong with it but... In the Midwest I see a lot of single white moms with mixed raced babies. I also blame social media. Women post this shit
/r/askTRP06/11/19 01:39 AM
1

This is fine. Nothing alpha or beta about this. Ignore those comments. Lower your standards to rack in experience points speaking with women. The lack of attraction is what’s going to attract these level girls. The lack of not giving a shit is going to show outcome independence. Once you continue building your body and mission you simply ghost and upgrade... because you continue approaching other people and building yourself up. https://www.goodlookingloser.com/laid/picking-up-women/how-to-lower…
/r/askTRP06/11/19 01:07 AM
12

Nurses and teachers
/r/askTRP03/11/19 03:19 PM
2

After her first comment I would have said “ I bet you say that to all the guys” Girls pull this shit too during night gaming. But honestly they trashy and good for pumpin and dumping. Either way lesson learned. Abort
/r/askTRP02/11/19 08:22 PM
6

Irish exit with no contact. That bitch will be blowing up the phone all night. This is a crazy situation and shouldn't happen if you properly vetted the girl to see if she is a party goer. This would be epic if this happened at a wedding reception.
/r/askTRP01/11/19 09:16 PM
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If the girl is into you.. She would reject the other guy. If not, and you’re dating a party girl or drinker, best to reanalyze the relationship. Demote if you still enjoy the vag bag but wrap that shit.
/r/askTRP01/11/19 11:40 AM
5

Always assume attraction
/r/askTRP14/10/19 12:46 AM
7

This
/r/askTRP14/10/19 12:43 AM
1

Women are always going to have past orbiters and flings thanks to social media. Maybe it was a drunken 2am phone call for a blast from the past booty call. Maybe she was still seeing this guy. Good job following through but grow some thick skin. You can’t prevent a girl from being hit on all the time. Set your expectations early to prevent this crap from occurring.
/r/askTRP14/10/19 12:42 AM
1

You do you. Ghosting will cause HER to hamster instead of you seeking closure. Stop looking for a "what if." A women with a high level of attraction towards a man will do almost anything to be with that guy. This goes with anything in life.
/r/askTRP07/10/19 07:01 PM
1

It makes a difference and carriers over when you go out at night time.
/r/askTRP07/10/19 06:58 PM
4

You do you. All depends on your actions at that point. If someone does it because the woman said so... beta. If someone else does it to the point she is shaking and moaning while getting pinned down... alpha.
/r/askTRP06/10/19 09:39 PM
4

Talk to as many people as possible throughout the day for experience. This includes both males and females.
/r/askTRP06/10/19 09:34 PM
5

I supervise multiple preschool teachers. It’s always great visiting the sites and steering the conversations by asking questions. Nothing really changes when people grow up.
/r/askTRP06/10/19 09:33 PM
1

You only known her for 2 months. I wouldn’t reply to her If you do just say. “Sure” No further texting. She might hit you up in a few weeks, months, or years. Move on chances are that she found someone else.
/r/askTRP06/10/19 09:30 PM
1

Maybe. Did that happen to you? I have green eyes and never had that happened. Side effects include a boner and darker hair for me.
/r/askTRP28/09/19 10:22 PM
1

Sure, let me be blunt. No. Saying a statement like that is perfectly fine in a liberal arts college. If I was having a Hawaiian party... would that be a blunt racist theme? Someone came fourth and the college agreed but got turned down for being blunt. State stepped in and agreed for freedom of speech. College dead got fired.
/r/askTRP28/09/19 09:38 PM
4

Still. More fucking math.
/r/askTRP28/09/19 09:34 PM
1

Complete shit. Reduce you fap to mental thoughts about a girl.
/r/askTRP28/09/19 08:24 PM
2

Haha This turned my red beard black.
/r/askTRP28/09/19 08:24 PM
1

Melanotan 2
/r/askTRP28/09/19 08:23 PM
2

Sometimes it’s best to leave well alone.
/r/askTRP28/09/19 08:23 PM
1

“I’m your slut” Call her anything you want in the midst of the session or foreplay. Dominance
/r/askTRP28/09/19 08:22 PM
1

Humans in general are not monogamous. Women look for the next best thing. My mindset in a relationship is that even though I’m like the girl... I’m perfectly fine when she leaves. I love my time and gym routines and will have a bonus if that person left.
/r/askTRP28/09/19 08:21 PM
2

Wtf is this.
/r/askTRP28/09/19 08:18 PM
2

As long as they do anal
/r/askTRP28/09/19 08:17 PM
1

Oh come on. He only looked like a nazi scientist. Black guys mention “crackers” in class and get away with it.
/r/askTRP28/09/19 08:17 PM
2

Blunt or lacking social tact... Are you getting what you want in life?
/r/askTRP28/09/19 08:15 PM
1

Do it. Get an answer. Then move on.
/r/askTRP28/09/19 08:13 PM
1

Have fun. I did a solo trip to Toronto under the guise of being a vegan. Working Girls at the restaurant loved it and sat down next to Me.
/r/askTRP28/09/19 08:07 PM
4

Is this a fucking math problem? Open LTR. She’s ducking someone else.
/r/askTRP28/09/19 08:06 PM
3

Any mindset “there’s this one girl” is unproductive. Get the move on by inviting her to an event. Or waste your time trying to figure out... how.
/r/askTRP28/09/19 08:04 PM
1

Just the media spot light. Behind the scenes they have access to all sorts of women.
/r/askTRP28/09/19 08:02 PM
1

It’s sucks seeing people you like going with someone else. Divert your energy to chatting with the female staff or girls at the gym. Get to the point where you have other Options
/r/askTRP28/09/19 08:00 PM
4

There’s some website where people pose as kings in the UAE who offer thousands of dollars for insta girls to come out and engage in sexual acts. The conversations are included. Hilarious but don’t do this. These girls receive all sorts of validation from thirsty guys. If you do try, just get to the point within 7 messages to speed up the process. Edit for section be pass***. You don’t event know her and want an LTR. This is a bad frame of mind.
/r/askTRP28/09/19 07:57 PM
2

He may be young. He will learn as he had the balls to post here for insight.
/r/askTRP28/09/19 07:51 PM
1

It’s portrayed as an extreme. It isn’t Just tools
/r/askTRP28/09/19 07:49 PM
2

Go on TRT. That’s a life changer.
/r/askTRP28/09/19 06:44 PM
1

This. Behold the age of instant gratifications
/r/askTRP28/09/19 06:43 PM
1

After being in a LTR for a year. I have a incredible urge to fuck other women. I’m 32 seeing a 24 year old in a college town. Also I’ve been taking TRT with a test level of 1200. She knows through social proof with subtle interactions in the community that the relationship is forfeit at the drop of the dime if she does not meet my communicated expectations. This is called dread game. I don’t intensely flirt with these girls but it’s a clear sign that they are attracted as I always assume attract…
/r/askTRP28/09/19 06:37 PM
1

Go for it. I suggest a brothel in a legal area. This will give you exposure. After that, lower your standards and rack in exposure points until you upgrade.
/r/askTRP28/09/19 06:31 PM
2

There are lots of stimulation in the night club. Attention is the primary reinforcer from all sorts of thirsty males. Women bounce from one person to the next while using their bitch shield to screen for confidence.
/r/askTRP28/09/19 06:29 PM
4

This. Being a kind person and helping someone out is amiable if that’s what you choose to do. Expect nothing in return. This girl is a whirlwind of chaos and needs to be blocked. She will destroy herself and doesn’t want to be saved.
/r/askTRP28/09/19 04:20 PM
2

A good learning experience but here are some reality checks: She’s a walking disaster; an entity that brings chaos to your life. What the hell were you thinking complying and helping this girl. She left you. When she has a baby are you going to take care of it too?
/r/askTRP28/09/19 04:17 PM
1

Review the test results. Ask your doctor about TRT. He may be hesitant and suggest gel or other strategies.
/r/askTRP27/09/19 04:55 PM
1

Not the end of the world. It is a good time to build yourself up. Make the best out of what was given to you genetically. As mentioned in the comments be sure focus your energy on lifting, eating well, dressing with clothes that fit, and choosing a degree where you make decent money. Find a passion. I disagree with the motion to earn a shit ton of money and women will come to you... that's a recipe for disaster because the relationships would be transactional; no attraction. Also, these are just…
/r/askTRP27/09/19 01:33 PM
6

Properly next this person. She's reaching out only for validation/attention and giving nothing in return. She's trying to turn you into a time slut; your time is valuable. Radio silence. Let her reach out and continuously reach out to you. That hamster will spin like crazy and eventually it'll stop. If you bump into her in public just say that you've been busy. Hopefully you'll be seen with another girl in your arms and that will spark an emotion in this beyotch.
/r/askTRP26/09/19 07:01 PM
5

Treat her like someone you onceknew. Be polite and go about your business.
/r/askTRP26/09/19 06:58 PM
2

For the first few times.. invite her over to try out your new bottled water, brand new cat poster, and record collection. Once you set the tone of the relationship try saying "come over, wear a thong"
/r/askTRP26/09/19 06:54 PM
20

The goal is to be 70 and still deadlift 315
/r/askTRP26/09/19 06:52 PM
2

You froze because you made "Approach hot girls" a goal. This caused you to get nervous and over analyze with that mindset. Usually when I go out the mindset is "talk to as many people as possible and have a good time."
/r/askTRP26/09/19 02:25 PM
2

Then stop bitching to the internet young man.
/r/askTRP26/09/19 02:07 PM
1

Watch this video for insight: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ooGLzqDGd0w
/r/askTRP26/09/19 01:52 PM
6

You were on molly. People LOVE everyone on molly.
/r/askTRP26/09/19 01:51 PM
1

Spend this time building yourself in the multiple areas we talk about on the sidebar. Do not make women your primary mission. Build yourself now so you can celebrate the rewards in your 30s; it only gets better from here. Oh and low body weight? Talk to your doctor about testosterone replacement therapy.
/r/askTRP26/09/19 01:50 PM
2

No. I had a tendency to chase after girls that weren't interested in me. Honestly I believe this was due to low testosterone where I only went after the higher looking ones while ignoring any potential red flags. Thanks to TRT my levels are now in the 1000 to 1200 range (previously I was 450 with bad symptoms of low test) I'm injecting subcutaneously 200mg a week Blood work is done every year thanks to my employer. Here are recent results since Monday: Total Cholesterol: 147 HDL: 48 LDL: 87 Trig…
/r/askTRP26/09/19 01:44 PM
5

Relax. If the girl is attracted to you she will overlook a minor hiccup like that. Refrain from doing it again. Don't blow up her phone.
/r/askTRP25/09/19 08:42 PM
5

I have a shredded, musclebound 6’5” 225 lb physique, so people beg me to compete in a bodybuilding show, but I would never do it. The only circumstances in which I take off my clothes and oil up are for groupsex (no guys, just me and multiple women). I also don’t have the time for shit like that. I own 12 car dealerships in multiple states, and have a partial stake in 3 Whataburger fast food restaurants (though I’ve never eaten there). I was an All-American basketball player at Stanford too, so …
/r/askTRP25/09/19 08:33 PM
2

Started going to the gym when I was 20. 24-28 was monk mode while chasing oneitisis. Learned TRP Went on TRT when I was 29. My 30s have been awesome so far. Lots of increase attention from women and a higher quality of life.
/r/askTRP25/09/19 07:51 PM
6

Back in high school I had to "play dead" once during a sleep over. Landwhale was trying to come on to me.
/r/askTRP25/09/19 07:49 PM
1

Hipsters are pretty good at sanding wooden spoons.
/r/askTRP25/09/19 07:45 PM
1

IF they are doing it correctly in the first place. I've seen lots of bros spend countless hours with bench press, bicep curls and abs with little to no results. Those that do end up with giant rolled over shoulders with no back muscles.
/r/askTRP25/09/19 07:16 PM
1

https://leangains.com/fuckarounditis/
/r/askTRP25/09/19 07:14 PM
4

Cancel without an excuse to remain a mystery. Offer a reschedule.
/r/askTRP25/09/19 01:19 PM
5

It's the journey that makes the man. Plus it's harder to kill someone stronger.
/r/askTRP25/09/19 01:13 PM
4

After being on TRT I believe that the problem with most guys is "low testosterone." A lot of insecurity and jealousy while putting others down.
/r/askTRP25/09/19 01:12 PM
2

Sometimes those lifting get stuck in limbo with little to no gains.
/r/askTRP25/09/19 01:11 PM
3

Don't. It weeds out and solidifies the top 20 percent of males. We give access to the sidebar with a host of information to learn. They will have to put in the time and effort.
/r/askTRP25/09/19 01:10 PM
1

Haven't come across this yet. Sounds like mystical internet BS though.
/r/askTRP25/09/19 01:08 PM
1

Data!
/r/askTRP25/09/19 01:07 PM
1

Try during the week too. Sounds like you got great things going on if you have a busy schedule.
/r/askTRP25/09/19 01:06 PM
1

Do it as soon as possible if you want to meet. Women have short attention span due to many options out there.
/r/askTRP24/09/19 08:33 PM
1

Aw he likes you. Laugh that shit off. I'm sure the guy is seen as creepy.
/r/askTRP24/09/19 08:18 PM
1

This
/r/askTRP24/09/19 08:13 PM
6

Making her leave was good. You enforced a set boundary. Now for confronting her... that gave her validation. You do you. Get better.
/r/askTRP24/09/19 08:10 PM
5

Never. That puts the ball in their court with outcome dependence.
/r/askTRP24/09/19 04:27 PM
4

Hates that you are taller? That sounds ridiculous.
/r/askTRP24/09/19 04:22 PM
1

I'm an adjunct at a small town university. Visit him for office time; chat with him about the subject matter. Most students don't give a damn and professors appreciate and recognize those who take the time to come forward. Build that relationship Edit: ***Acquire the perspective that professors are people too*** Not sure what class you are taking but continue replying but add to the discussion. Not a lot of students speak.
/r/askTRP24/09/19 04:20 PM
2

Full time mom. Life long patterns of mistakes. Instant family.
/r/askTRP24/09/19 04:16 PM
1

There is absolutely no better feeling than waking up in a big bed ALONE with no female having stained my Egyptian cotton sheets. That's right - it's Saturday morning and I'm out on my balcony enjoying the view of which no woman will EVER be able to share with me. A woman would be considered lucky to be even 20 meters of my gold coast mansion - let alone stand by my side. Life is just perfect without them, time for a cig.
/r/askTRP24/09/19 04:15 PM
2

Ah social media... Just ask for her number within 7 messages. If she does then text for logistics. If she stalls then move on.
/r/askTRP24/09/19 04:14 PM
3

Yes, instant gratification. I've scan through posts on Fitbit's community. It's suddenly like instagram where females will post pictures of their face saying "oh I don't feel like exercise." Hundreds of replies from men. Some girl even posted a picture of her ass and wanted people to rate it "from 1 to 10."
/r/askTRP23/09/19 08:28 PM
1

Too many options and abundance. Hard to choose. Even if you do have a decent SMV there will always be "the next best thing." That's okay: smoke em if ya got em
/r/askTRP23/09/19 08:26 PM
1

I'm 32 and had to look it up https://incels.wiki/w/Mentalcel. WTF is this shit lol I'd rather "incels" and young men have access to knowledge and a place to clarify then violent crimes such as mass shootings. Do I get the picture that TRP people hate women? Absolutely not. It seems that most of the sidebar is based on how men and women are both programmed biologically. Do I believe society is set up to persecute men? Yes, we are the biggest minority out there.
/r/askTRP23/09/19 08:25 PM
2

A leader wants others to succeed.
/r/askTRP23/09/19 08:18 PM
2

This
/r/askTRP23/09/19 12:13 PM
1

Shit test. Good decision on your part for not changing your plans with your bro
/r/askTRP23/09/19 12:12 PM
2

Time is the only thing you can’t replace. Committing to a girl with hopes for sex is inefficient. This is especially true if there is no relationship. These guys are fine whores. Giving out valuable time aaand money for nothing. Most of the women receiving are banging other dudes on the sideline. Don’t be a time whore
/r/askTRP23/09/19 12:10 PM
3

Fuck em
/r/askTRP23/09/19 12:03 PM
2

Get a lawyer Don’t speak to the college without one Sue Did the media post anything about you? I believe there is a website for women who conducted false rape accusations with similar situations
/r/askTRP23/09/19 12:01 PM
1

Gotta love club scenes. The drunkards are like zombies. they stumble around with lazy eyes. The eyes are key, look into their eyes. Drunk girls have a certain look in their eyes. The drunk guys scream and yell like douche bags, i keep dancing. I fear the result if some douche bags call me out. They would get a cane across the face.
/r/askTRP22/09/19 05:01 PM
1

Depends. Small towns? Rumors fly like autumn leaves in the winds.
/r/askTRP22/09/19 02:47 PM
1

I can't talk to anyone about this because i'm from a conservative religious family but i kissed a friend i've had since my childhood and grabbed her boobs, i also got a boner. This is something that i thought i wouldn't experience for a long time but i did it reddit. I finally not only kissed a girl on her cheek but i also grabbed her boobs. My socially awkward ass did it. I know this isn't anything special but i REALLY wanted to rub this in someone's face
/r/askTRP22/09/19 02:31 PM
1

Take it. Expose yourself to social situations. Fade it out over time. Not addicting
/r/askTRP22/09/19 02:29 PM
1

“Hey Mr. Grayson! Your wife’s got some tasty cookies”
/r/askTRP22/09/19 02:26 PM
2

Ah sassy girls.
/r/askTRP22/09/19 02:21 PM
1

This. If a woman is really attracted to you she will walk in coals with flaming lions scratching at her to see you
/r/askTRP22/09/19 02:20 PM
1

Did she offer a reschedule? If not... move on to other girls to practice logistics and setting up meetings. Message her back in a week or two. If it’s a no without a reschedule that’s strike 2. Move on
/r/askTRP22/09/19 02:17 PM
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I have a shredded, musclebound 6’5” 225 lb physique, so people beg me to compete in a bodybuilding show, but I would never do it. The only circumstances in which I take off my clothes and oil up are for groupsex (no guys, just me and multiple women). I also don’t have the time for shit like that. I own 12 car dealerships in multiple states, and have a partial stake in 3 Whataburger fast food restaurants (though I’ve never eaten there). I was an All-American basketball player at Stanford too, so …
/r/askTRP22/09/19 02:04 PM
3

There is absolutely no better feeling than waking up in a big bed ALONE with no female having stained my Egyptian cotton sheets. That's right - it's Saturday morning and I'm out on my balcony enjoying the view of which no woman will EVER be able to share with me. A woman would be considered lucky to be even 20 meters of my gold coast mansion - let alone stand by my side. Life is just perfect without them, time for a cig. -
/r/askTRP22/09/19 02:00 PM
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Awesome pics. Great size. Look thick. Solid. Tight. Keep us all posted on your continued progress with any new progress pics or vid clips. Show us what you got man. Wanna see how freakin' huge, solid, thick and tight you can get. Thanks for the motivation
/r/askTRP22/09/19 11:30 AM
6

They ignore and check their social media
/r/askTRP22/09/19 11:26 AM
66

She’ll contact you in 6 months
/r/askTRP22/09/19 11:26 AM
3

Did you pay for her food? Did you get any nookie from her? If you didn’t get anything from her she just wants your time, attention, and money with no sex in return
/r/askTRP22/09/19 11:18 AM
1

Simple. Add other girls on tinder and get numbers. They don’t have to be hot (must pass your PP Test) Just practice getting numbers and setting up meetings. Go. Hit this girl up again once you are message texting other girls on the phone for logistics and meeting them.
/r/askTRP22/09/19 11:16 AM
8

The nature of women. The beat is when the other guy is aware and mate guards by placing his arm around her
/r/askTRP22/09/19 11:10 AM
2

Holy shit yes. I remember my bro back in high school got with this druggie woman who said the same thing. The drama from this botch was unreal. Eventually everyone split apart because she told him to
/r/askTRP22/09/19 11:03 AM
1

Holy shit yes. I remember by bro back in high school got with this druggie woman who said the same thing. The drama from this botch was unreal. Eventually everyone split apart because she told him to
/r/askTRP22/09/19 11:02 AM
1

Holy shit yes. I remember by bro back in high school got with this druggie woman who said the same thing. The drama from this botch was unreal. Eventually everyone split apart because she told him to
/r/askTRP22/09/19 11:01 AM
2

Depends on the location. Girls from Jersey we’re more fun olive skin Italian party girls. The college town I live in mostly has small town girls moving into a bigger small town. Some adopt the partying lifestyle and others retain their family values. Gotta vet the shit out of them. A lot of these girls are attracted to older men. I’m 32 now but have been with girls in their early and mid 20s. Been lifting for 12 years and supervise preschool teachers while occasionally visiting college classes t…
/r/askTRP22/09/19 10:55 AM
2

She’s also on a committee and judges for a state beauty competition and I had her invite me to judge a couple of times too. Mostly high school senior girls 17 or 18 years of age. I was never alone with these people but I got the pleasure of asking shit test judge questions.
/r/askTRP22/09/19 10:39 AM
1

I see girls in the Midwest. Right now I live I. A town with a population of 14000. The girl I’m seeing in this town is from a place with a pop of 650. She grew up doing 4H which is an agricultural club where where have competitions at local and state fairs. Competitions involve best pie making and quilts plus other shit. I am originally from New Jersey
/r/askTRP22/09/19 10:33 AM
3

I have to add... isn’t a “sex and the city”type
/r/askTRP22/09/19 10:26 AM
3

Drugs
/r/askTRP22/09/19 10:25 AM
3

Grannie Hemingwinehouse makes a mighty fine Crown Royal quilt.
/r/askTRP22/09/19 10:23 AM
1

Holy shit. The judge gets to live with the fact that a 2 year old died because of her ruling. The man is lucky. Restitution should be paid to the guy for the loss of the child and time spent in jail. I doubt it will happen though. Good post. Crazy shit happens to men all the time. I remember in the sidebar a story about the guy hanging out in a toy section at a store and being accused of being a pediophile on Facebook.
/r/askTRP22/09/19 12:30 AM
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After several months of isolation from the outside world, I had finally reached 10% bf and I was ready to go out and celebrate my accomplishment through a nice cheat meal. Me and my brahs settled for some In n Out, and as I walked in the two cashiers suddenly went from the typical unhappy expression of a fast food employee, to that of a person that had just witnessed a miracle. Soon after, they snapped out of it and realized that one of them was going to have to take my order. The two girls viol…
/r/askTRP22/09/19 12:21 AM
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Has a hobby they are good at like quilt making Involved in committees Has a life besides you Healthy relationships with parents Has 1 or 2 drinks max Doesn’t need social media
/r/askTRP21/09/19 10:48 PM
6

Rating attractiveness is subjective. A 6 to your friend might be a 3 in your eyes. Oneitis can impair your ratings while ignoring the attractiveness of others. This results I. A whole lot of time for nothing. As long as a girl passes your “PP test,” game on.
/r/askTRP21/09/19 09:47 PM
5

Keep lifting. Build some hobbies. Challenge yourself to hold eye contact with people. Expose yourself. Practice socializing. Go to a coffee shop and make small talk with the baristas.. shift it to include Get your medications sorted out. If you experience social anxiety beta blockers can allieve the physical symptoms and lower your nervousness when interacting with people. I take one before giving lectures to groups of 50+ people. Orchestras take them before performing
/r/askTRP21/09/19 09:44 PM
5

Yes. There was a recent post about this Asian guy taking his gf to cities. Every time she invites guy friends and she gets upset when he attempts to say no. He pays for the trips too.
/r/askTRP21/09/19 08:58 PM
15

Let him go. He will learn
/r/askTRP21/09/19 08:54 PM
5

That’s cool. Send her some flowers and buy her a Tiffany bracelet. Do favors for her too. Enjoy
/r/askTRP21/09/19 08:52 PM
5

If a girl is attracted video games won’t mean shit to her. Unless it’s excessive. Sounds like girl 2 shit tested the hell out of you to see your frame. Eventually the girl lost interest. You didn’t move fast enough or get the number to meet up at a different time.(unless you did) Any kino? You are following a oneitist.. that one special girl. To speed up the process.. contact the girl with “it was great seeing you at the dinner, let’s meet up” If she’s into you, she will be will be willing to me…
/r/askTRP21/09/19 08:48 PM
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Congrats. A sexual relationship does not begin until you have sex. Commitment should not occur unless sex. Women are the gatekeepers if sea Men are the gatekeepers of commitment aka your time. Right now you are nothing but a time slut.
/r/askTRP21/09/19 08:29 PM
1

Your doing the same thing in doing. Got her intermittent fasting while lifting. Same size and weight.
/r/askTRP21/09/19 07:07 PM
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Eat at a deficit. Focus on high intensity (4 to 8 reps) with 2 to 3 sets. Basic compound movements. Walking for cardio. You can do some high rep auxiliaries but don’t major in the minors. Take waist measurements. Good luck
/r/askTRP21/09/19 05:07 PM
3

It’s fine and normal. Dreams are a way of your brain to process memories and get rid of unneeded memories. Sure your still thinking about her too. Expose yourself to many new girls. Memories about the gal will fade.
/r/askTRP21/09/19 05:05 PM
1

Tone, frame, and body language is everything. You don’t even have to answer her. Give her the “hand of god” Not responding place your hand out and let her grab it. Spin her around, bring her closer, and keep talking to her.
/r/askTRP21/09/19 04:55 PM
3

Clubs offer all the excitement of validation for women. Just like social media. Grinding and kissing are meaningless in these situations. Often they go from one excitement to another. It’s a friggan jungle at these scenes. As most comments say... your giving away validation for free. They get it... get supercharged then on to the next. Pull those girls to different locations while refraining from too much positive attention... pizza joint or restaurant next door.
/r/askTRP21/09/19 04:30 PM
1

In any field there will be people who ask continuous questions when they should have done the research with the information right in their face. Believe me I taught a college class and students would ask the same goddamn questions. “Read the syllabus”
/r/askTRP21/09/19 04:24 PM
1

This
/r/askTRP21/09/19 04:20 PM
1

Tone and frame is everything. What would you say
/r/askTRP21/09/19 04:18 PM
2

Yes and read the side bar about push and pull
/r/askTRP21/09/19 12:47 PM
1

Depends on how you say it. Most girls flirt or say sexual shit to see how it affects you. Sure there are wittier responses but the worst thing to do is show that you are a push over by her advances
/r/askTRP21/09/19 12:47 PM
2

It’s a perception most have. Even if you have it... you just want more
/r/askTRP21/09/19 12:58 AM
5

Avoid reinforcing this behavior. Don’t do any of this nice shit right away. Wait a little bit until after she talks to you again.
/r/askTRP20/09/19 09:09 PM
1

Here's what you do to change things around. Remember the key for this to work is that you can't be afraid to lose her. Next time she brings drama on your trip... Say "Ok." Drive her ass home and soft next for 72 hours. NO CONTACT. On the drive home she'll be crying, begging, angry, apologizing, and overall emotional. Be calm, cool, and collective during this drive. Minimal talking to her during the drive.
/r/askTRP20/09/19 08:53 PM
1

Your title says it all. You think she's special... she's not. Most 21 year olds with their instagram are knee deep in the party years. If she doesn't do that now she has plenty of time to consider it. Enjoy it though. I'm 32 lining out in the midwest seeing a 24 year old. Sure she's from a small town (pop 600) with good family values. Do I enjoy the relationship? Sure. Will I be all torn up when she leaves? No, I'll find more.
/r/askTRP20/09/19 08:39 PM
3

Did you blow up her phone that night? Soft next and reduce attention for a few days. Make her dread doing things without you in fear that you will leave and find someone new. Reset your frame while demoting her to something less. Emotionally detach. In the mean time find someone new while still getting sex from this girl.
/r/askTRP20/09/19 08:32 PM
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It depends. Are you usually aloof in your relationship? Sometimes you have to mix it up between alpha and beta to keep things going. Mostly hot primal fucking with an occasional love making session. At lunch time my gf came over. I told her she could eat then I took a nap. 20 minutes later she came in and I told her to get naked... one thing led to another. After the deed was done she went "do you feel better babe?" There are other times when I had her screaming "I'm your dirty little slut." A m…
/r/askTRP20/09/19 08:28 PM
0

One time I was at this art exhibition with three women. Sitting at a table I noticed another guy sitting alone. I figured fuck it I'll bring this guy over and give him a good socialization experience. During introductions I introduced one of the girls with a nickname "Sassy Cassie." The guy looked at me and stated "That's not nice. If someone called one of my friends a nickname I'd slap him in the face." All the girls were laughing at the seriousness of this chode. He seemed odd and started talk…
/r/askTRP20/09/19 08:13 PM
3

This. Start the kino early and establish the frame that you're not afraid to touch
/r/askTRP20/09/19 08:04 PM
1

After my initial f-close: Her: "Thanks for good time. Next time we should keep our clothes on" Me: "We definitely won't have a naked party next time" ​ Few days later... Her: "My back is so sore" Me: "Come over. Wear skimpy clothes"
/r/askTRP20/09/19 08:02 PM
1

Oh... old ladies bicker all the time at church gatherings.
/r/askTRP20/09/19 07:58 PM
2

Remember this saying: "The opposite of love is not hate; it's indifference." Your relationship with this woman is over. Your turn is done. Re-stoking this with anger and confronting this ex will only give her validation. It'll make her wet thinking she got into your mind; she won't be fucking you that night. Looks like you dodged a bullet. Get rid of your oneititis feelings and move the fuck on.
/r/askTRP20/09/19 07:53 PM
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"What do you want"
/r/askTRP20/09/19 07:39 PM
5

When having conversations be aware of the various conversation threads that could occur based on whatever they are saying. Add some push/pull. Women in society receive instant validation / praise everyday thanks to social media and thirsty betas. Challenge her shit.
/r/askTRP20/09/19 07:36 PM
2

Make plans when you visit a city and stick to it. Tell her no. If this crap continues perform an Irish Exit. Let her male friends handle the problem.
/r/askTRP20/09/19 07:33 PM
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7.89 out of 10 with an adjusted score due to age level. One of the other members could run a full statistical analysis including reliability ratings and validity.
/r/askTRP20/09/19 07:30 PM
7

"Wash windows at stop lights"
/r/askTRP20/09/19 06:11 PM
1

Agree with this, especially if her friends are party girls to an extent. I live in the midwest so my LTR and I plan trips to her small town (population 600) for social gatherings. Her brother-in-law is the mayer and cousin is the fire chief. Fucking small town, everyone knows each other. She loves to show me off to her former classmates and townfolk. For me, I'm just a guy from Jersey who has lifted for 12 years and has a decent paying job.
/r/askTRP20/09/19 04:35 PM
1

Get her lifting at the gym
/r/askTRP20/09/19 03:28 PM
5

Be a permabulker then. Having less bodyfat gives the appearance of looking bigger because of increased muscle definition. The V shape once you hit 10 - 12 % range is a bonus too. 96 days from your current target is a drop in bucket when it comes down to time. Hell even a year is short amount of time.
/r/askTRP20/09/19 03:12 PM
3

No. TRP is a tool and the world is a neutral place. Use what you need.
/r/askTRP20/09/19 03:09 PM
2

Remain a mystery.
/r/askTRP20/09/19 03:08 PM
7

Reschedule the date to later next week. In the mean time... Take Lysine supplements Get oral medications Find the source of the stress. The dentist have a special laser where they zap the shit out of the cold sores. This reduces the occurrences as well.
/r/askTRP20/09/19 03:05 PM
1

Having a girl put one in requires a bit of submissiveness. Same with light slapping and choking. That type of frame needs to be established early in the relationship. Before the LTR has begun. I'd recommend checking out the Sex God Method. There should be posts with links within the archives of ASKTRP. How did you initiate sex with the lady? Do you flip her around a couple times? Throw her up against the door to the house? Tie her down to the bed? Maybe the patio sliding door for the outside wor…
/r/askTRP20/09/19 03:01 PM
6

Monk mode for me. Lots of time spent in the gym and getting out of debt.
/r/askTRP20/09/19 11:52 AM
8

This. You meet her friends because you want to not the other way around
/r/askTRP20/09/19 11:51 AM
1

What was your total test?
/r/askTRP19/09/19 09:42 PM
1

nope
/r/askTRP19/09/19 09:41 PM
0

Butt plugs
/r/askTRP19/09/19 09:40 PM
3

Who knows. If the sex continues then emotionally detach. Reduce attention
/r/askTRP19/09/19 12:10 AM
9

Don’t text that to her. Just text “k”
/r/askTRP19/09/19 12:07 AM
1

Tell her your adventurous
/r/askTRP18/09/19 10:07 PM
2

Ya that old bag picked up 3 cats from the corner store.
/r/askTRP18/09/19 08:04 PM
2

Exrx is a great site.
/r/askTRP18/09/19 07:57 PM
2

Alcohol has a higher thermic effect similar to protein. It's the lack of control that leads to blackout drunkiness and empty pizza boxes that stops overall progess if looking for abs. Short term you will have dehydration. Best done if you have a light or no workout day the next morning.
/r/askTRP18/09/19 07:56 PM
1

https://leangains.com/the-truth-about-alcohol-fat-loss-and-muscle-growth/
/r/askTRP18/09/19 07:54 PM
1

Squats and shots. At the same time.
/r/askTRP18/09/19 07:54 PM
1

Are we walking about those gals with half shaved green hair sporting and oogabooga nose rings? You know the type of piercings made out of bone. Nah I don't associate with em.
/r/askTRP18/09/19 07:46 PM
3

Instagram quotes: "Positive vibes only" " Sick of arguing with you bitches " " When he finna tell his friends about you " " Said I want your man?? no the fuck I don’t sis " " Can’t wait to pop out in your city " " Stoplight selfies " " Life is a amazing, it is what it should be " " He with whatever I’m with " " Less than a year left w/ this boof ass background" "Found a sore in ma pussi now he call me lil'speedbumb"
/r/askTRP18/09/19 07:42 PM
1

Resist the temptation.
/r/askTRP18/09/19 07:28 PM
2

Time to find new associates.
/r/askTRP18/09/19 07:27 PM
4

Why you bragging?
/r/askTRP18/09/19 07:26 PM
4

Read the sidebar about divorse. Remember that your journey is a covert operation.
/r/askTRP18/09/19 06:50 PM
3

Patience. You're 17 and need to be humbled. The high school is a small environment and it's easy to get caught up in the social environment. What the hell are you going to do in the real world? Not a lot of high schoolers think about this. Develop some self-confidence and don't give a fuck about validation from others. A fucking passion to commit your energy towards. Only then will you find your validation.
/r/askTRP18/09/19 06:48 PM
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I'm 32 and refuse to see girls my own age. Here's a response: "I don't believe in divorce" Just got back from my lunch break and a 28 year old coworker started telling me about her divorce progress.
/r/askTRP18/09/19 06:43 PM
0

Abs are genetic, but it depends on your bodyfat level. Sure you can focus purely on ab development but the prevalence of fuckarounditis is common among newbie and intermediate gymgoers. A shit load of time and effort put into the gym. Just like a shit load of time and effort put into a girl under the influence of oneititis. It would be a noobie mistake telling OP to focus purely on ab exercises without a complete strength training routine. (However we have no idea what is current fitness level i…
/r/askTRP18/09/19 06:39 PM
1

Don't let your gf's obsession with media get to you. If a TV show made you upset what the hell are you going to do about comments she might receive on social media? Sounds like a case of oneitist with the gal as a stupid comment made you hamster. Since she disrespected you I'd withdraw some attention, get off your phone, and go out in the community to socialize. Your gf should have some slight dread.
/r/askTRP18/09/19 04:29 PM
3

Dreamkiller: Abs wont gent you laid. Constant ab routines wont let you see your abs if you have fat Spending hours at a time in the gym wont give you "the look." https://leangains.com/fuckarounditis/
/r/askTRP18/09/19 04:20 PM
1

Not worth it unless it is a life or death situation; but you never know. I live in a college town in the midwest where I noticed where all parties involved in a fight get arrested. Next your name is printed in the local paper with details of your arrest. Ridiculous. " Simple Assault Intentionally Cause Bodily Injury; Dismissed-Motion By Prosecutor. Intentional Causing Contact W/Bodily Fluids/Human Waste; Dismissed-Motion By Prosecutor."
/r/askTRP18/09/19 01:23 PM
1

Just get on with it. If the girl is in to you she will bend over backwards, climb through windows, leave her boyfriend, eat a Klondike bar.
/r/askTRP18/09/19 12:23 PM
1

Make plans today. Saturday might be a busy day for her but if she reschedules it’s a good sign. Be prepared for the chance of a flake too but if she rescheduled proceed forward; give her two chances
/r/askTRP18/09/19 12:21 PM
1

A coffee date would work if you go to multiple spots then an invite back to your place for “water” “using the bathroom” “drinking a protein shake” “ feeding my cat”
/r/askTRP18/09/19 12:18 PM
1

Been lifting for 12 years now. Having muscles gets you in the front door of a woman’s attraction. Still have to put in work in other areas. Also in the early stages of lifting I realized that I should lift because I enjoy it... not that having abs would get you laid
/r/askTRP18/09/19 12:02 PM
1

How long have you known her. Have you f closed already. I’ve done it before with a girl I’ve known for a few months but used more of a push / pull. She initiated the “getting snowed in and cuddle” I said “ sure that’d be nice, only if you don’t give me ringworm”
/r/askTRP18/09/19 09:54 AM
11

“Born again virgin”
/r/askTRP18/09/19 12:44 AM
1

Vitamin c pills and orange juice
/r/askTRP18/09/19 12:44 AM
1

Hold eye contact with everyone. Make it a game to see who looks away first. Clear your mind first.
/r/askTRP18/09/19 12:37 AM
2

She might be projecting something onto you. Cheaters guilt.
/r/askTRP18/09/19 12:34 AM
6

I had the same thing in my early 20s... easier to say move on but it takes time. However, being infuriated about someone hoping that one day they will come around is complete waste of valuable time and a life
/r/askTRP18/09/19 12:32 AM
2

Read the sidebar. Oneitis
/r/askTRP18/09/19 12:31 AM
4

But that career woman is sooooooo empowered
/r/askTRP17/09/19 09:50 PM
1

“Do thy research to findith thy answer”
/r/askTRP17/09/19 05:03 PM
1

Speed this shit up so you can get an answer. “Let’s meet up”
/r/askTRP17/09/19 05:02 PM
2

This
/r/askTRP17/09/19 05:01 PM
1

Check your prolactin and estrogen levels.
/r/askTRP17/09/19 04:58 PM
1

Chill out. All that stress will make you soft and flaccid.
/r/askTRP17/09/19 04:56 PM
1

“Make it grow”
/r/askTRP17/09/19 04:56 PM
1

When setting up plans its better to tell/invite instead of ask. However, it's fine to reschedule to a different date/time. Hell you're a busy guy and want to meet with her instead of her and friends. When she said this: "Well, Saturday is not the only day in the week, you know?” a simple response such as "what days work for you" would of been better. Caving in and changing your mind did appear weak. It's good that you are not texting paragraphs of information to the gal so keep the minimal texti…
/r/askTRP17/09/19 04:06 PM
0

This is why I hate social media. Plenty of thirsty guys giving women attention at the cost of NOTHING.
/r/askTRP17/09/19 03:57 PM
1

Get your hormones checked. As someone suggested you might be better with testosterone. Be very careful with using anastrozole as destroying your estrogen levels causes BAD sleep. Dial it in. Trazodone: this is pretty damn good for sleep
/r/askTRP17/09/19 03:53 PM
1

Good job choosing not to drop what you are doing to go see her. She could have flaked again. I agree with below that you could have rescheduled. Who knows what her deal was. Did she come across as a party girl? Perhaps she chose to not go home with you because she had someone else in mind. That fell through and she had second thoughts.
/r/askTRP17/09/19 03:48 PM
1

" Beautiful, smart and a handful who would make life a living hell. " Sounds like a grade A feminist. Women or any other human being in your life should bring something to the table. They should not bring chaos to your life. Tell you what... you dodged a bullet kid. Now she can make some out guy's life hell. Then after that she can take care of some kitties till a ripe old age.
/r/askTRP17/09/19 03:43 PM
1

No eye contact... Was she busy with the instagram or too shy to look at you.?
/r/askTRP17/09/19 03:38 PM
1

First, she isn’t different and nothing special. Don’t develop oneitis. Women that are attractive to you will do this. Especially if the new relationship energy is running strong. On the opposite end... of a relationship is stale and failing plus she started branch swinging. A sudden love bombing with some new sex moves might indicate that she is hiding something Men on the other hand must use love bombing sparring in a relation ship. Think about texting game and how it is best to be minimal. Doi…
/r/askTRP17/09/19 12:07 PM
4

Short term mating strategy - alpha fuks Long term mating strategy. - beta buks Women enjoy the emotional roller coaster ride aka the feels Women enjoy projects thinking they can fix someone into a long term mating strategy. They will hamster and ignore red flags hoping that one day he might be the one. End result: they end up on tinder posing with their fatherless child Sad result: Some clueless schmuck will pick her up thus full filling the long term mating strategy with and insta-family
/r/askTRP17/09/19 11:57 AM
1

She's not that special. Become the prize.
/r/askTRP16/09/19 09:10 PM
0

2 high intensity sets in the 4 to 8 rep range per compound movement. Walking as low intensity cardio Eat below your TDEE Measure your shoulder to waist ratio and hit the golden ratio.
/r/askTRP16/09/19 09:06 PM
4

Wrap that shit.
/r/askTRP16/09/19 09:04 PM
4

Looks like a woman being a woman. Sometime during the date she hamstered that she wasn't that attractive to you. Maybe another dude came along with higher SMV. On to the next one for you.
/r/askTRP16/09/19 09:04 PM
4

I've had far more success inviting/telling then asking. When I was on a Tinder binge I minimalized to the point of saying "lets met up" "#" fucking ridiculous
/r/askTRP16/09/19 08:58 PM
19

"wunt sum fuk"
/r/askTRP16/09/19 08:46 PM
0

Calculate how much you burn per day. This is called your TDEE If you have a lot of body fat I'd stick with -1000 If you are somewhat lean I'd stick with -500 From experience: I find that lifting two sets per compound exercise enable to to keep intensity high to preserve muscle. For cardio I go on long walks. For measuring fat loss take waist measurements once a week. Do this after you go to the bathroom. You can use the scale too if you want. To create a masculine look. Take shoulder measurement…
/r/askTRP16/09/19 08:02 PM
6

This could work too
/r/askTRP16/09/19 07:52 PM
9

Good job being speedy and to the point. I would have rephrased the text to.. (telling her instead of asking) "Heading hiking this Thursday let me get your number" Not sure if a comfort task; Was this the only message you had with her? I'd just respond with "bummer" as it is her loss.
/r/askTRP16/09/19 07:51 PM
1

What?
/r/askTRP16/09/19 07:39 PM
1

Develop abundance and meet women out in the community. Don't shit where you eat. Girl already wants your children? Don't stick your D in crazy. "But I'm starting to feel quite annoyed when she doesn't message me or when she sends me messages how she thinks I look amazing at work again... " Sounds like oneitist; Read the sidebar
/r/askTRP16/09/19 07:32 PM
0

As mentioned in the comments never give commitment without sex. -"I'm good" -"No" -"Gay" -"Bummer"
/r/askTRP16/09/19 07:25 PM
3

Women do that shit. Maybe she was busy and maybe not. Hopefully during that time you got some other phone numbers. Keep texting to minimum. Think quality over quantity messages. I'd say to message her 7 times over the next few days then invite her to an event. -If she says no, move on. -If she says no but reschedules, proceed. -If she says yes but flakes, move on -If she says yes and meets, D
/r/askTRP16/09/19 07:22 PM
17

Congrats. It's all about quality and remaining a mystery: -Keep texting to a maximum of 7 per day. -DO NOT text essays keep the messages short. 10 words or less. -When setting up logistics I've had more success telling instead of asking... Ex. "Let's go to X at Xpm" -Invite her to an event you already plan on attending -Get more phone numbers
/r/askTRP16/09/19 07:12 PM
1

Workplace AMOG?
/r/askTRP16/09/19 06:57 PM
1

Who was the guy? Is he one of the orbiters / emotional tampon boys?
/r/askTRP16/09/19 06:56 PM
2

Bravo that you had a boundary set and reinforced it. Hell you don't even use social media so keep it up. What was the true/false statement she made where everyone answered? However you mentioned that it was a secret and the guy answered this question. If that is the case.. who knows what the statement was about and it's not worth dwelling about it. Women are always going to have guys from the past and present message them. The key is not giving a damn because at the end of the day she's still se…
/r/askTRP16/09/19 06:51 PM
12

Remain a mystery
/r/askTRP15/09/19 03:20 PM
2

Don’t
/r/askTRP15/09/19 03:20 PM
2

Had a friend who worked the door at a college town bar. Women were often stupid and rude. You would have the ones who just turned 21 make a fit about getting carded. Then you had the ones who were post wall who made a fit about NOT getting carded.
/r/askTRP15/09/19 03:19 PM
1

Yes
/r/askTRP15/09/19 03:17 PM
1

And if no success after that... get up and leave
/r/askTRP15/09/19 03:11 PM
2

Doesn’t work
/r/askTRP15/09/19 03:09 PM
1

I also believe the higher your test.. the women in general appear attractive
/r/askTRP15/09/19 03:06 PM
1

This
/r/askTRP15/09/19 03:05 PM
2

A lot of men chase after higher smv women they develop oneitis for. They end up strung along as orbiters with the hope of one day winning her pussy over. They don’t have the skills to prevent that and spark attraction Lowering standards and gaming other girls will allow you rack in points. Spin em as plates. Don’t chase after landwhales or girls that you wouldn’t touch with a 10 foot pole but go after the next level up from that. It has to be something you want to do. Also get your hormones chec…
/r/askTRP15/09/19 02:29 PM
1

Women are human with a vagina that self cleans and leaves crud.
/r/askTRP14/09/19 07:19 PM
1

Why
/r/askTRP14/09/19 07:15 PM
3

Invite her to an event you are going to
/r/askTRP14/09/19 07:14 PM
3

Is this algebra?
/r/askTRP14/09/19 07:07 PM
5

Here’s a tip to get laid. Lower your fucking standards for the time being.
/r/askTRP14/09/19 07:06 PM
2

For fucks sales.. lift to preserve muscle. And walk. Eat lean meats such as hamburger meat, roast, and pork loins. Repost your progress a year later.
/r/askTRP14/09/19 07:05 PM
2

Do what you want. It'll just give you experience. This relationship is messed up and you have oneitis. Going back to her now may lower your value and empower her. It's not a good sign if you too impulsive to the point of getting emotional unstable and hitting her.
/r/askTRP13/09/19 01:19 PM
1

Have 10+ years of lifting experience
/r/askTRP12/09/19 09:15 PM
3

White males being cuckolded? Low testosterone and lack of abundance. If you had higher levels you’d leave the bitch for other women
/r/askTRP12/09/19 09:12 PM
2

You hit her. The relationship ended and brought her back in your life. Take some time to be comfortable without having a relationship. Talk to more girls and gain an abundance perception. Take some time to reset and get your shit together.
/r/askTRP12/09/19 09:07 PM
2

A soft next is no contact... not even saying to her that you won’t talk to her. That’s a silent treatment and doesn’t work. NO contact. You liked photos about her and placed the ball in her court. You also can’t be afraid to lose her. Apologizing is only going to empower her. Best to remain no contact until she reaches out to you. She may never reach out to you again and you have to be okay with that
/r/askTRP12/09/19 09:02 PM
1

Does she do butt plugs?
/r/askTRP11/09/19 11:43 PM
1

Fashion is for women. Style is for men.
/r/askTRP11/09/19 07:17 PM
2

Leave it. Most men on social media shower women with compliments and validation. If not, someone posted to treat it like a resume. As a man I left it a while ago. Got tired of crap that was posted and the SJW coming to rescue.
/r/askTRP11/09/19 07:15 PM
2

How did you soft next this lady? Did you tell her you went contacting her anymore?
/r/askTRP11/09/19 07:09 PM
2

You’re from Jersey.... in decent shape, athletic, trains CrossFit, over 6 feet, can pull but usually reverts back to BB ways, and falls head over heels way too easily. Also a solid 8/10 guy who is tall, strong, athletic, muscular, well-dressed, living in a desirable area of Miami Be comfortable alone and don’t cling to the next thing with a vagina.
/r/askTRP11/09/19 06:56 PM
3

The title of this thread threw me off. I thought she saw ur wang and laughed
/r/askTRP11/09/19 06:50 PM
3

She ghosted you and is out of your life. You gave her attention again and discussed marriage after only dating her for a couple of months. Try your best to stay away from her at work place. A simple "hi" in the hall ways then go about your day. Not sure about her personality but continuing to talk to her might lead to rumors and losing your job. She's a ghost now. -Continue lifting -Talk to people around town -Next time you are hanging out with a girl... in a sexual relationship with a girl... w…
/r/askTRP11/09/19 06:43 PM
1

Drama. If she craves a sweet boyfriend type then she would not have been all upset at you and ran dread. She's obviously testing you and has probably refused sex. Next time she gives you any drama... soft next her. Get up and leave her. Don't say anything. Do not contact for 48 hours. Read this: https://blackdragonblog.com/2016/07/18/16297/ Remember the key for this to work is not be afraid to lose her. During this time: -hit the gym -talk to more girls - turn off your friggin cellphone -rebuild…
/r/askTRP11/09/19 06:31 PM
1

How old is this chick? She sounds needy... especially needing texts all the time. The power dynamics of the relationship needs to be more in your hands; she's trying to have you comply to her demands which will only make her bored and unhappy. Be a busy 30 year old guy.
/r/askTRP11/09/19 06:19 PM
5

Oh yea, I had tons of missed opportunities in my 20s.
/r/askTRP11/09/19 02:16 PM
1

At the early stages of the internet my friend chatted with this girl who sent us pictures. Damn she looked great. We were invited to go meet her down in Southern New Jersey... pine barrens and trailer parks. Three of us were going to meet these girls. We get there and EVERYONE is a land whale. My friends wanted to "run to 7-Eleven" to get something and wanted to leave me there. I openly said oh hell no and we sped off.
/r/askTRP11/09/19 02:13 PM
2

I got a good one that I wittnessed while in monk/lift mode: When I was in graduate school I came back out to the midwest and lived with a 40 year old man who was just divorced. Rent was cheap but he also had this 30 year old single mom live too. She was good looking but definitely close to the wall and liked to party. Her child was 8 and did not live with her as she gave up her rights; he lived with her parents. This girl had a younger boyfriend who joined to military to support her. At the begi…
/r/askTRP11/09/19 02:08 PM
1

This happens. She's on the carousel ride and might have met another guy. No doubt she said the same exact pillow talk words to someone else. Time to move on.
/r/askTRP11/09/19 01:52 PM
1

Give it some time. She is probably busy. Resist any urge to bombard her with text messages. In the meantime, rack in the experience points getting more phone numbers in person or through online apps
/r/askTRP11/09/19 01:47 PM
1

Sure, but don't become a guy that is dressed by a women or any of the genders. Figure out your style by yourself. Study basic color theory to know how to coordinate.
/r/askTRP11/09/19 01:45 PM
1

Keep going it's a lifestyle. As for oneitis, I appreciate the sidebar information saying that there are no special people out there, especially women. That disease makes you focus on one person while ignoring all abundance and opportunities around you. It's such a common thing hearing people talk about this "one special person" who makes their life "complete." A month, year, or decade later that person leaves and they are an emotional wreck thinking their life a ruined. No saving them... it's th…
/r/askTRP11/09/19 01:39 PM
1

Very effective. Knocked out in a matter of minutes. The side effects such as lethargy and weight gain was unreal. The psychiatrist was 80 years old and it was the first thing he recommended. Promised no adverse side effects... just a little increase in appetite. When I stopped taking Remeron / Mirtazapine the insomnia was intensified with zaps and increased anxiety. I'm on Trazodone now for the past 8 months and it has been great. No tolerance or side effects.
/r/askTRP11/09/19 01:31 PM
2

Are you taking anti estrogens?
/r/askTRP11/09/19 12:27 PM
2

That’s smart. No need to go over that amount.
/r/askTRP11/09/19 12:26 PM
1

All you need for a cut is a lower dose of test. TRT levels are fine. Strength will be maintain with reduced volume. Still keep the intensity drop and no stupid high caloric deficits.
/r/askTRP11/09/19 12:25 PM
1

Yes. Have a good baseline for strength. Understand nutrition and sleep health. Test isn’t a miracle either as the media portrays.
/r/askTRP11/09/19 12:23 PM
1

Some dentist offices have a special laser where they zap the shit out of it. Reduces the frequency dramatically
/r/askTRP11/09/19 12:20 PM
6

Did the girl at least say thank you?
/r/askTRP11/09/19 12:02 AM
50

Wish I knew about the term oneitis when I was younger. In my early 20s I spent too much time chasing after women who were party girls and ones who did reciprocate any love. Started hitting the gym and 12 years later my life has improved dramatically. Im now on TRT and able to approach younger girls in their 20s without hesitation. Gym pays off. But fuck was my oneitist towards these type of women bad. Nowadays they are in their 30s and post wall fat and ugly.
/r/askTRP11/09/19 12:02 AM
5

All good. It's nothing more than practice and you will learn from it. You could give her a little compliance test by having her bring an ingredient.
/r/askTRP10/09/19 08:29 PM
8

Mine was a coffee shop on the second date. I steered the conversation about animals and in the middle I said "Hey come meet my cat."
/r/askTRP10/09/19 08:27 PM
1

Develop your own style that you are comfortable in. https://www.artofmanliness.com/category/dress-grooming/style/ Fit is important and rules over everything else. You got her number. Great. Text her in a day or two saying "Hey I'm going to #### on ####, come with" Keep the conversation to maximum 7 texts. From what you are saying... you're not going to "know where to go" if you don't rack in experience. Meet with this girl and learn from it.
/r/askTRP10/09/19 08:23 PM
1

cold sores or genitals
/r/askTRP10/09/19 08:18 PM
2

Nah that's melanotan 2
/r/askTRP10/09/19 06:07 PM
2

That's our current society. Men are not allowed to be better men. Women can become men. Men can become females.
/r/askTRP10/09/19 06:02 PM
1

Based on their list of demands... ​ little
/r/askTRP10/09/19 06:00 PM
1

It's your choice to do what you do. If she left she might come back. There are plenty of other girls worthy of having a baby and being a single mom on Tinder.
/r/askTRP10/09/19 05:50 PM
6

At 29 out of nowhere I had severe anxiety, trouble sleeping, no libido, no social life, no sex life, and did not feel well. After that I was referred to a psych doctor where he put me on Remeron for sleep. This worked until I developed a tolerance a few months into the treatment. At one of my visits I mentioned my test level of 450 and suggested a testosterone patch and he yelled at me stating "I will not prescribe you performance enhancers!!" It was ridiculous... he asked GOOGLE what are low le…
/r/askTRP10/09/19 05:47 PM
1

Are you driving there? Not sure what is out in the country but do your research at locations to meet up. "Only if you are ready to go by ####" "Only if you check out this place with me" Perhaps after you hit it off and she still pulls this crap for the next meetups : "only if you wear sexy underwear" ​ Be prepared as a 45 minute drive to a woman might end up in a flake where she doesn't respond. If you do choose have a backup plan where you enjoy yourself and meet other people. In the meantime p…
/r/askTRP10/09/19 05:42 PM
1

Who knows. You have a something that belongs to her and she could hamster it to come back into your life. In the mean time... pick yourself up and start talking to other ladies. Continue building up your SMV and kicking ass.
/r/askTRP10/09/19 05:36 PM
6

https://therationalmale.com/2012/08/27/girls-night-out/ Let her go. Minimal contact
/r/askTRP10/09/19 05:30 PM
8

I started TRT at 29 with a total of 450. 32 now and I don’t regret it at all.
/r/askTRP10/09/19 05:27 PM
2

Respond to her with “ok”. She might have branch swung to the next guy and left her jewelry to come get at a later time.
/r/askTRP10/09/19 05:25 PM
28

Date 3 will give you the answer to if she is in to you. Girls will drive countless miles and crawl through barbwire fences to be with a guy that is more value. Don’t become an orbiter.
/r/askTRP10/09/19 05:24 PM
5

You are competing against yourself in getting stronger. Sleep, nutrition, and stimulus are the variables. Put some music on and rage
/r/askTRP10/09/19 05:21 PM
2

Trying to make himself look cooler. Cut him off
/r/askTRP10/09/19 05:20 PM
23

Reply.. “sure, bring beer”
/r/askTRP10/09/19 05:19 PM
2

Only go down if you want to. Tell her to lick that shit up on you to reverse that test
/r/askTRP10/09/19 05:18 PM
7

She dyed her hair.
/r/askTRP10/09/19 12:06 AM
0

Fuuuuuck
/r/askTRP09/09/19 10:04 PM
1

Going with her and female friends? Maybe she is trying to hook you up. We’ll find out in the next episode of Dragon Ball Z
/r/askTRP09/09/19 10:02 PM
1

A little compliance shit test... when girls do this I reply with “only if...”. You can fill in with an agree and amplify remark.
/r/askTRP09/09/19 10:01 PM
1

I’m pretty sure most of the shootings are done by sexually repressed nice guys. Most of the male haters are from extreme feminist.. you know the ones that are super fat and ones that have shaved haircut and the oogabooga nose ring.
/r/askTRP09/09/19 09:55 PM
5

In the early stages of being with my lady she tried the whole “I don’t want sex tonight” Shit test. I just got up said okay and left to the gym. My phone was blown the fuck up by her and we hung out a few days later when I responded. Soft next worked really well but you have to prepared to lose her.
/r/askTRP09/09/19 09:50 PM
1

It’s called thinking out loud
/r/askTRP09/09/19 09:47 PM
3

Hit her up. Keep text messages short and minimal.. maybe 7 before telling her logistics to meet. If she is still hesitant move on to the next girl then hit this girl up in the future
/r/askTRP09/09/19 09:45 PM
1

Let’s go to the park... then come back and meet my cat”
/r/askTRP09/09/19 09:43 PM
2

Most friends come and go with time. I stopped contact with most of my pot head friends from high school and college. Still have one good friend from the past where we pick up in conversation. Good friend
/r/askTRP09/09/19 09:42 PM
1

Sentence her to a butt plug
/r/askTRP09/09/19 09:40 PM
1

Verbal thrashings.. good positive outlets
/r/askTRP09/09/19 09:40 PM
2

https://youtu.be/ts4sEBb2K3s Eddieeee I want half
/r/askTRP09/09/19 09:25 PM
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