My understanding of red pill is its best to do it covertly. Thats females Language, and it gets the hamster spinning more.

I’ve done this before covertly. Never told them it was a boundary, but, they come to know it. Once a chick told me openly “sorry i know u dont like me talking about other guys i dont want to do it in front of u” and she cuddled ho me apologetically. The thing is i had never topd her this overtly. Just through my behaviour. She still knew.

Lately i’ve been unsure if there is a time i should outright be saying “dont do this” or “you cant do x if...”. To me that is close to an ultimatum which communicate lack of power. Also, when you do that in my mind it gives her ammo. She now knows this bothers you and its going to be ammo for eventual manipulation or such.

Maybe im being too extreme? What is the best way? For example: talking to other guys, going out to meet them etc. To me, i would simply AM, withdraw attention a little, and show no jealousy. Each time she does it more than last. Most inportantly not emotionally react or overtly say as it is an acknowledgement of the power it can have over you.