How does "using absence to create resspect and honor" work?

NitricTV · 2017-12-07T14:13:33+00:00

I can give you an example. Can’t wait to be called genghis khan for being able to apply something to my life.

My last year of high school I took college class. But I had to wait a quarter to start classes. So that quarter I was with a lot of friends and I’m a high energy person so it’s easy to tell when I’m not there.

After months of slaving at college I start coming back to my high school to chill with friends. Even people who swore they hated me were happy to see me again. All I did was stop showing up.

iqbal002 · 2017-12-07T16:43:19+00:00

First you need to build a strong reputation and authority Without that , too much absence and you are forgotten

Terdmuffin · 2017-12-07T20:56:39+00:00

The point is to not always be available. But don't be unavailable just to be unavailable... Have a life, have friends to see and things to do. You have to be the type of person people want around, otherwise no one really cares.

whizkidmill · 2017-12-07T12:56:55+00:00

Huh? If you're not at somewhere you're obliged to be, what's so honourable about that lol. What sort of situations are you referring to?

Title	How does "using absence to create resspect and honor" work?
Author	xReigan
Upvotes	9
Comments	8
Date	December 7, 2017 12:26 PM UTC (8 years ago)
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