I am by no means 'pretty' but I'm fortunate enough to have a sort of masculine appearance that seems to make women look at me in a sexual way. However I can be quite anxious and awkward - not in a way that shows, but in a way that stops me from being able to capitalise on situations.

So far I've found myself banking on my appearance by just not saying too much - basically just being very blunt and forward, and disguising my inability to understand and go along with social cues as just having a very stoic personality.

Is this an alright way to go? Or do I simply need to learn how to be more socially flamboyant to start having repeated success?