How is being alpha a choice?

Mr_Badass · 2018-05-02T03:59:22+00:00

I went from 5'9 145 lbs skinny loser in high school to 5'10 199 lbs 17% BF alpha in about two years WITH small wrists. Yes, you can train your voice to be deeper and with more resonance. If you are still too skinny then you have to eat more and follow a hardgainer program. I think you just want instant gratification.

TalionTheWorstRanger · 2018-05-02T04:43:08+00:00

So I'm 5'9" 170 pounds. My coworker is 6'2" 220-230. He acts like what everyone on here would call a beta when it comes to relationships. I have some real issue with yourallz idea if what a alpha is. In chimpanzee, it's not the strongest who's the alpha. It's the smartest. The strongest can only get by for so long, he has to rule by taryanical power. Do you know what happens to him? The smarter more socially adapt chimpanzee, get a small group of two or three together and kills the Chad. Chad is not a alpha. Chad is like the whore everyone has had a go with. Now back to me and my coworker. We get into wrestling matches when we got nothing better today. He beats me by pure strength alone, so how can I ever beat him? By being smarter. Our fights end in two ways, me being helpless because I made a wrong move. Or him hurt on the ground because I used his strength against him. The real alpha isn't the strongest, he isn't the toughest. The alpha is the smartest. It's so easy to get women. 1. they want sex just as bad as you. 2. There people just like you, they all want and are attracted to different things. 3. You all have such a limited view of the world. So this scrawny 5"9 170 pound guy, gets 30/30. Smart, beautiful. Why? Have you ever thought of what the words trying to game women means? Your trying to control them. Going back to the tyrannical chimp. Why don't you be smarter then them? Your frame is important. That's what makes you a man. Be mindful, trust your instincts. Think about this. Every single one of your direct ancestors had babys. How many different alphas, betas, and omegas where mixed in? To many to count. And guess what? Your the end of the line right now, your the highest one on the tree. Your the alpha of the family.

THESkipp · 2018-05-02T06:49:21+00:00

Whilst I can completely understand your points, I think your putting to much credit in the points.
Yes, the 6’6 monster will out chad you in appearance but he can be the biggest pussy walking on two legs. So he will get the attention easily but will have trouble keeping it. I have met and known plenty of Chad looking pussies. Even tattooed ‘monsters’ can be beta. To be clear, I’m not saying they all are, most are not in my experience.

By having the mental game internally sorted you’ll be a head of 70% of our generation (assuming your a westerner sub 25 years old)
If you can grow a beard (not patchy shit) I would recommend it. Adds man points to you plus it’s still popular. Even if just short. I have a baby face, beard helps it a lot. It’s only short due to my work but it’s full.

At the end of the day your given what you have, make the most of it. Don’t cry poor me and hamstring rubbish, be a man and deal with it.

replicaplater · 2018-05-02T04:59:01+00:00

Speaking to looks, if girls say you’re cute, that usually means you have some features that they find attractive. That’s not going to mean shit though if you keep your current mental state. Choose to be in a better mental state, you may not think it, but your mental frame has a profound impact on how you are perceived by others, especially women.

Title	How is being alpha a choice?
Author	whatwasthatcat
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Comments	7
Date	May 2, 2018 3:49 AM UTC (8 years ago)
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