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If everything you said is true, there is literally no reason that you should get married, much less to a slut. Sluts can’t effectively pair bond so expecting one to be loyal to you is foolish.
/r/TheRedPill04/06/22 04:38 PM
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As far as this story goes, I've always erred on the side of not assuming too much about men or women based on their displayed demeanor/persona. Unless you know this dude really well, you're assuming quite a bit about this whole situation. For all you know, this beta could be some closeted freak who's into all that crazy shit just like her. The real question here is how much copium do you need to ingest in order to be fine with OP's current situation. Knowingly having a slut as a fiance and embra…
/r/TheRedPill03/06/22 11:16 PM
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Props to GLO for providing inclusive solutions to such a divisive issue like abortion. On another note, it seems like women’s mouths would also qualify as a solution with the added benefit of providing nutritional sustenance to women.
/r/TheRedPill16/05/22 05:18 PM
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Not surprising at all. This platform caters itself to liberals and its format is designed to literally create hive mind mentality with the upvote/downvote system. Also that exchange in the OP was straight out of the millennial playbook. Cry about offensive content, appeal to higher authority to rectify the situation, all culminating with self pitying about the unfairness of life...so predictable.
/r/TheRedPill06/04/21 05:26 PM
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There is a difference between a man who can’t get laid and a man who can and decides to opt out. One of them has options the other doesn’t. Last I checked this was a sub about sexual strategy for men. Being asexual isn’t a strategy, it’s the complete lack of one.
/r/TheRedPill31/12/20 07:31 PM
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I'd agree that lot of the PUA gurus like Roosh went off the deep end because they made getting women a huge priority and made the mistake of defining themselves by their notch count. Sex as a physical act is probably a bit overrated, but having the ability to get it whenever you want is the sign of a valuable male regardless of whatever the MGTOW crowd wants to believe. What this really boils down to is where does one's value come from. The idea that the your value comes from within is one of th…
/r/TheRedPill30/12/20 02:33 AM
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You have to just do enough approaches that it becomes a normal thing, something that’s just part of your day, no big deal. Motivational sayings that helped me: He who hesitates, masturbates. You miss every shot you don’t take.
/r/askTRP27/03/19 05:11 PM
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Screening works up to a point, you can't always be 100% objective about the situation, especially when you've invested enough in a LTR to where marriage is being considered. The real problem is that the legal system is so skewed towards the female side that its almost incentivizing divorce. I mean, why should she stay with you (prenup or not) when she can get assets from you AND find someone else to leech on?
/r/TheRedPill27/03/19 01:01 AM
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We're social creatures and somewhere being in a relationship with women fulfills that need for bonding at some level. The desire for regular sex is also a huge factor of course! On a deeper its a bit ludicrous to expect bitches to behave any differently just because they are with YOU in particular. Crazies are going to do crazy, just a matter of where/when it blows up.
/r/askTRP26/03/19 11:31 PM
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Rinse and repeat bro, keep approaching. It gets easier over time. After a while it doesn’t even really feel like an approach mentally, just being social with women.
/r/askTRP26/03/19 05:43 PM
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There's a bunch of info on the bar scene out there already. It really depends on the type of bars you're going to as far as gaming women goes. Some places will work for you and others won't, lot of variables so I'll just say its up to you to find out what works best. Just don't fall into the trap of needing alcohol to approach or using it as a confidence crutch in general.
/r/askTRP22/03/19 12:40 AM
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If you can change your living situation reasonably, work on doing that. Nothing worse than have an roommate who is a pussy-repellent (been there done that). Read the Sidebar and most importantly apply it. Use the gym at your school and lift.
/r/askTRP21/03/19 11:02 PM
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Lot of the "shy" types have nothing other than school to talk about, its their entire world. What I've found helps is to get them out of the school environment and doing something fun that requires some level of physical activity (i.e. mini-golf, playing frisbee in the park, ice skating etc), basically anything where they can shut off their academic brain and engage the "fun" side of their personality. If she's already into you, it shouldn't be that hard to get her to come along with you for som…
/r/askTRP21/03/19 10:31 PM
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The obsession thing is kinda typical of people who have addictive type personalities. As I mentioned previously it's also in part because of your age as well, I was there myself and getting pussy was quite the motivating/overwhelming force at times. As far as how to proceed, work on channeling your obsessiveness into more productive stuff and get a sense of balance. In other words if your going to be obsessing about things, move that focus around to different areas in your life. Your SMV can and…
/r/askTRP21/03/19 10:09 PM
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Your still putting girls on the pedestal or at least focusing on them in a vacuum, its the only reason why its consuming your thought processes (pretty normal for a 19 yo guy tbh). Nothing is stopping you from going after your mission and going after pussy at the same time. Ideally, approaching chicks is just another part of your life that blends in with everything else.
/r/askTRP21/03/19 08:41 PM
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Can't negotiate or otherwise "develop" sexual desire for someone, its there or its not. If anything being brutally honest about your lack of desire is going to the best thing for him, regardless of how tough it will be for him. Lot of guys here including myself only got into TRP after hitting rock bottom with women or just life in general. Whether he decides to fix his life is solely on him.
/r/askTRP23/02/19 02:02 AM
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I'd recommend keeping a low profile if the degree and eventual career you're pursuing is really worth it to you. The reality is that for all of their SJW/feminist posturing etc, academics are just as close-minded as everyone else (if not more) regarding any of these social issues. Just focus on your goals and killing it in your program and get a social circle that is 100% completely outside of your academic sphere. Basically, treat it like a job (it pretty much is one) and don't shit where you e…
/r/askTRP21/02/19 03:31 AM
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You aren’t going to weird her out unless you act awkward about your living situation. She’s coming to your place, she’s automatically entering your frame (literally) so act like it’s no big deal.
/r/askTRP20/02/19 06:40 PM
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Get your own place and move out of your parents house if you can afford to. If you can’t afford it figure out how you can make more money.
/r/askTRP17/02/19 12:56 AM
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Great post. The general malaise you're referring to is the result of a fucked up school system and the overall increased influence of women on men (single moms raising sons etc.). The emphasis is on the "finished product" (final grade/GPA) and not the process of learning or understanding. It really shouldn't be all that surprising though given the influence/dominance of women in the education system at all levels. Women are ultimately going to focus on the final product, and could care less abou…
/r/TheRedPill24/01/19 09:17 AM
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If your aspiring to be a politician in a high ranking position here in the US being married is a plus in terms of marketing yourself to the plugged in voters.
/r/askTRP23/01/19 06:24 PM
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Excellent post bro. As always, abundance of options solves so many problems when dealing with women (i.e. great majority of questions on askTRP). Any problems you might be having just kind of get the volume turned down when you've cultivated some abundance. The only thing I'll add is that going from a three-date to one-date guy isn't necessarily correlated with improvement all things being equal. Attraction works in strange ways and a lot of it isn't in your control besides the obvious stuff (li…
/r/TheRedPill16/01/19 07:14 PM
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Thanks for clarifying your argument. I agree that the main pillar of everything here should be in some way related to sexual strategy whether it be on the personal or societal level. It really comes down to the seemingly age old argument about what TRP should be about, sexual strategy, self-improvement or something political. Speaking for myself, the fact that this sub presents these options content-wise makes it more interesting and valuable. Judging from your other comments on this post I can …
/r/TheRedPill11/01/19 04:39 AM
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I'd argue that lifting or some sort of strenuous physical activity is general self care.
/r/askTRP11/01/19 01:12 AM
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By your argument, a lot of the posts on TRP sub should be removed because they don't help anyone get laid, including your recommended RP reading list post.
/r/TheRedPill11/01/19 12:31 AM
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The problem is that you're trying to convince her to do something. The solution is to take her out to the beach or some other activity that would accomplish the goal of getting her pale ass tanned.
/r/askTRP11/01/19 12:18 AM
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You got oneitis and you broke the don't shit where you eat rule. You need to read the sidebar.
/r/askTRP11/01/19 12:10 AM
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Any thoughts on Don Quixote and how it affected you? I'm thinking about reading it myself.
/r/TheRedPill11/01/19 12:00 AM
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The key part of reading is actively engaging with what you're reading, i.e. taking notes while your reading. While there is value in reading for the sake of entertainment, i.e. fiction, if you're reading anything of intellectual value you'll retain and assimilate the material by actively taking notes in some way whether it be in hand-written or electronic form.
/r/TheRedPill10/01/19 09:15 PM
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Abundance, it pretty much solves every problem you might run into with women.
/r/askTRP10/01/19 08:52 PM
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Lookism type subs are going to be biased towards harsher critiques, the people frequenting there are obsessed with facial ratios, bone structure etc. It's interesting to check out and learn about the concepts of facial structure but beyond that they reek of incel/blackpill shit.
/r/askTRP08/01/19 07:31 PM
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Unchecked impulsive behaviors and any manifestations of them are usually good indicators. Things like excessive drinking/partying and drug use whether it be current or past are typical signs. Its also informative to look at her female social circle, sluts tend to flock together. All that being said, lot of it for me is just gut feeling and enough experience dealing with women.
/r/askTRP08/01/19 06:47 PM
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You'll probably never really ever know the actual number and in my experience worrying about the actual number is a waste of time. If her n-count is in the red-flag area there are usually a lot of signs indicative of that behavior anyways.
/r/askTRP08/01/19 06:31 PM
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Not a specific number per se, more like wanting to fuck with lots of different guys, usually as part of the "finding themselves" process.
/r/askTRP08/01/19 06:19 PM
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Women by Bukowski, fun quick read, lot of obvious RP concepts. Dostoevsky’s novels has some very candid characterizations of the female psyche. Pretty much anything by Hemingway involving women is gonna be pretty truthful regarding female nature. The Godfather by Puzo, the blueprint for the mafioso genre, lot of RP stuff throughout the story.
/r/askTRP08/01/19 02:50 AM
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Sounds like you need to start talking to strangers (girls/guys, young/old literally anyone) and get comfortable with initiating conversations with people you don't know. Simple way is to notice something about them, what they're wearing, what are they doing and relate it back to something about yourself in some way. As far as being a better speaker in terms of presentations and the like, if you're still in school take a public speaking class or a debating class or even an acting class and get co…
/r/askTRP21/12/18 02:59 AM
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She is a plate so I'd just go with either of those responses or just ignore it altogether. If she wants to text her ex, she'll do it regardless of what you respond with. I'd put the texting her ex in the red flag category if you're considering her as anything more than a plate.
/r/askTRP20/12/18 10:20 PM
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Very good point. From what I've seen its how dudes who aren't "conventionally" attractive or lack status end up with more attractive women. They approached, ran their game and gave no fucks while everyone else was hamstering excuses.
/r/TheRedPill19/12/18 12:55 AM
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I totally get the raising kids aspect and how that conflicts with my idea of term limit marriage. Although with the amount of already broken families and screwed up marriages I don't see how it would change much in the negative. More than likely it probably would force people to really consider whether having kids is a smart choice. Knowing you have a time limit before hitting the "open market" should motivate men and women to maintain their SMV during the marriage especially if the thing goes b…
/r/TheRedPill18/12/18 08:45 AM
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The only way I can see marriage working in the current world is if its a time limited contract i.e. you get married for a "x" years and have the option to renew or opt out at the end of the term. Marriage is just another contract when you boil it down to the facts, and its one of the only ones which doesn't have a time limit associated with it despite its prevalence in society i.e. mortgages, loans etc. It would be interesting if something that would ever be implemented, seems like it would be f…
/r/TheRedPill17/12/18 11:35 PM
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Maybe if you're considering a career in pro bodybuilding you need to be that perfect, but for everyone else just being disciplined enough to lift regularly is going to net you gains.
/r/askTRP11/12/18 11:22 PM
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If you don’t have haters, you need to try harder.
/r/askTRP02/12/18 11:35 AM
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If the chicks at school are suboptimal look elsewhere outside of your school and look for social opportunities where you can meet new people.
/r/askTRP02/12/18 03:33 AM
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Your at the prime age for being “Daddy” to younger chicks with said issues. Have fun and enjoy it, the only people who’ll give you shit are saltypost wall bitches lol.
/r/askTRP02/12/18 03:29 AM
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I go with the clean shave, I've got weak facial hair and growing it out isn't an option that looks good. Experiment with it yourself and see what works for your face/look. Generally speaking as long as the hair is dense it'll look good, patchy/thin stuff doesn't usually work to well.
/r/askTRP02/12/18 01:08 AM
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It really comes down to whether being on IM or any social media platform brings you value for the time you put into it. If you're making money or getting something of real world value out of it then keep it. If not, and your using it to gossip and watch other people lives then get rid of it.
/r/askTRP02/12/18 01:01 AM
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Almost done with grad school myself so I’ll offer my wisdom. While it’s still school, I’ve never been one to get involved with women in my program or department, especially if you’re planning to run through a lot of women. Undergrads are fair game, and if anything are going to be a better pool to select from for a whole variety of reasons. As far as the cheap part, drinks at a bar or any other low investment date idea would be appropriate, if you have your own place make sure the logistics work …
/r/askTRP28/11/18 02:55 AM
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To some degree the monetization of TRP was inevitable. The fact that its taken this long (~6yrs) is surprising to me. If anything the delay was probably just a function of this community being an "underground" non-mainstream movement. Like any other movement or even private club for that matter, once a certain critical mass of people is reached, the vultures move in and commercialize everything and it loses its original value and the message gets watered down. To some extent I also wonder if thi…
/r/TheRedPill27/11/18 06:09 AM
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Last I checked he doesn't lift or encourage lifting. He basically took a lot of PUA theory and "re-wrote" it claiming he invented these concepts when in reality that stuff was out there years before. At the end of the day he claims to be RP but in reality he's just another stock PUA guy.
/r/askTRP15/11/18 10:46 PM
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Its a good starting point, especially if your completely inept in terms of dealing with women. Like a lot PUA stuff it still suffers from being a rehash of a lot of other older stuff i.e. Mystery method etc.
/r/askTRP15/11/18 07:04 PM
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For that I’d say you need to keep approaching and most importantly learning from your experience. Keep a record of it, I know it sounds lame but journal your approaches. Basically, why did you approach, what did you say, and how far did you get. Add in stuff like your mental state, setting etc. If you do this a lot you’ll have a lot of feedback data points and if you reflect back on these records you’ll notice a lot of trends and can pinpoint your weaknesses better. I’ve always been a believer i…
/r/askTRP15/11/18 09:58 AM
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My point was to use the book as a starting point and not get too bogged down with method and theory stuff. Also, don’t think of screwups as a failure, you went for it and it didn’t work out, most don’t even push far enough to get rejected.
/r/askTRP15/11/18 06:42 AM
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I’ve gone through Bang, it’s a good starting point for someone who is really lost on the mechanics of gaming women. Just be aware that you’ll learn exponentially more about what works for you by putting in the time in the field.
/r/askTRP15/11/18 03:58 AM
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Sucks to be that age and dealing with it but you're going to have to deal with it one way or the other. You can try to fix it; plugs, rugs and/or drugs or just accept it and style it accordingly as it progresses. Either way you choose (fighting or accepting it), own your shit and deal with it, it'll screw you up in so many ways if you let it affect you. If you accept it and go bald, SMW-wise you'll probably take a negative hit especially with younger age women (18-22). Not to say you can't find …
/r/askTRP15/11/18 02:21 AM
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MGTOW is a cop out for a variety of different reasons. Some guys are forever stuck in the anger phase of the RP and swear off women forever. Instead of accepting the true nature of women and exploiting the situation for their own gains they hamster on about how women aren't worth the effort. The irony is that if they put any effort towards self improvement (i.e. what is advocated around here), they could be the beneficiary of the rampant promiscuous culture we live in currently.
/r/askTRP15/11/18 12:29 AM
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Get in the gym and lift, take out the anger on the iron.
/r/askTRP09/11/18 03:42 AM
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This is a false dichotomy. In other words, you can be polite/respectful and display RP behaviors, they aren't mutually exclusive.
/r/askTRP09/11/18 01:59 AM
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Once their looks start going downhill is were it starts and it gets worse from that point on.
/r/askTRP30/10/18 05:18 PM
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Lot of the women who are particularly attracted to dealers/users are users themselves. If you've got that reputation, you'll find a lot women coming your way looking for free handouts or trading pussy for drugs.
/r/askTRP26/10/18 04:16 PM
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She’s not interested, man. For someone with options you seem pretty heavily invested in this chick.
/r/askTRP21/10/18 12:58 AM
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Is your sanity and well being worth $500-700 a month? I’d move out, then figure out how to make more money.
/r/askTRP16/10/18 12:41 AM
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Nightclubs don’t work if you’re unattractive and/or lack status within the club world. If you have one or both, it’s a buffet. All that being said women are everywhere, and there aren’t limitations for where you’ll find the next plate or ONS.
/r/askTRP14/10/18 06:03 AM
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More fun in the hunt than the actual kill
/r/askTRP14/10/18 05:57 AM
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Avoid drama at all costs, from her or from her friends or coworkers. Just be a cool guy who knows how to have fun and don’t get hammered.
/r/askTRP14/10/18 03:42 AM
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Sounds like you're just about to be or already are an orbiter, escalate with her, your obviously attracted to her so why play games. Just being in the company of a hot woman you haven't fucked isn't going to help you, she isn't going to wing for you.
/r/askTRP05/10/18 06:33 PM
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I agree with you on it being a waste of time/money if you're just focused on getting pussy. That being said, if you're a well-connected guy within the club scene i.e. personal friends with owners/promoters or high profile DJs, and have good game you can certainly get laid. If you're just a random nobody waiting in line to get in and paying the cover charge etc, you're fighting an uphill battle more often than not. Club owners and promoters are creating value, maybe not to you, but value to other…
/r/TheRedPill05/10/18 12:32 AM
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Listen to your gut instinct. If you sense a point where she’s open to escalation do it. The great thing about escalation is that there are different levels where you can gauge her interest and calibrate accordingly.
/r/askTRP27/09/18 05:57 PM
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TRP is just a toolbox for improving yourself so you can get sex, no one is preaching for you to go out and live to get women. Sex is definitively a physiological need, so don't fool yourself into the idea of being able to rationalize it away. As far as dealing with games/drama from women, I've learned over the years that its part of the female condition to varying extents. The only difference is whether you get drawn into her drama/game or not.
/r/askTRP27/09/18 06:41 AM
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You jealous or something, OP? I’ll give the guy credit, he made the best out of a situation he had no control over. Even if he’s beta bucks for a ugly chick, at least he’s out there living life not feeling sorry for himself.
/r/askTRP22/09/18 10:42 PM
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You are right if you never make an effort to socialize with other people/women who have the same hobby. Even the “nerdy” hobbies like chess have opportunities to socialize, and not everyone involved in them is a stereotypical nerd.
/r/askTRP22/09/18 09:27 PM
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Don’t pick a hobby based on whether it gets you girls. Choose something you like. People, especially women can sense if your interests in something are superficial. All that being said photography is a cool hobby, and yes it can lend itself to meeting women, it gets real expensive though when you really get into it btw.
/r/askTRP22/09/18 05:21 PM
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Nothing you can do about that shit except laugh and move on. Don’t let your past mistakes cloud your present action, we all make mistakes so just learn from them and move forward.
/r/askTRP20/09/18 07:19 PM
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Why do you want to buy unnecessary stuff? Pocket the money you'd spend on crap you don't want/won't use and save it for something you actually want. If your determined to spend money though, focus and expand on the kind of stuff you already have, i.e. better/bigger aquariums, more guitars/amps equipment etc.
/r/askTRP19/09/18 09:36 PM
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You're giving her validation by being interested in her. Girls love validation/attention. Don't be bitter about it bro, just move on and game other girls that are interested in you. To be fair, you also need to stop being so desperate, that stuff dries women up fast. Next girl you meet, just invite her out to something you would be doing with or without her.
/r/askTRP19/09/18 09:25 PM
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Observe her actions not her words. If she was really interested in you she'd move her schedule around to see you no matter what.
/r/askTRP19/09/18 08:51 PM
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Yeah its mostly a self-inflicted mental prison. Most of them would probably do well just by hitting the gym, socializing, and stop feeling sorry for themselves. All that being said, I will say a few of them are so fucked up mentally that the above advice isn't going to work, even if they apply it religiously.
/r/TheRedPill19/09/18 08:22 PM
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Figure out what you are passionate about, do social things that are related to it or involve people with similar interests. It’s easier to meet people and develop rapport when you have similar interests.
/r/askTRP19/09/18 06:24 PM
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Since you have other prospects I'd say you're on a good track. Just don't go after more escorts, it can be addictive FYI. Another good lesson to take from this experience is that fucking a girl you aren't attracted to sucks, probably why you couldn't stay hard. Since you have prospects I'd just say hit them up and start going after them, if they're on Tinder chances are they are DTF so throw in a reason to go to her or your place and escalate.
/r/askTRP18/09/18 11:09 PM
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I could go on about the mistakes you made but I would just suggest to start reading the sidebar on this sub. From what you wrote you seem like a cool guy, you just need to dramatically shift your approach with women.
/r/askTRP13/09/18 05:40 AM
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You've already set yourself in a submissive friend zone frame with her. To be blunt, you basically did the exact opposite of what you're supposed to do in this situation. I wouldn't waste the time on her, even for a coffee.
/r/askTRP12/09/18 11:02 PM
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It’s only been two weeks, chill out and realize that you’re not going to go from zero to hero in that time span. It’s good you’re putting yourself out there socially, that’s a big plus for the future. I’ll also say you can’t expect much if you aren’t at least flirting with some of the new girls you’re meeting. It’s great to be a cool guy, but if you see a girl you like flirt with her a bit, ask her out if she seems receptive. The other major aspect of college is to work on yourself i.e. getting …
/r/askTRP12/09/18 01:19 AM
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Not like its bad advice. OP literally asked for "classically masculine" style advice.
/r/askTRP11/09/18 12:12 AM
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Look up classic outfit combinations from past generations of dudes who knew how to dress and get ideas from them. Try Steve McQueen or Paul Newman for starters, those guys always were dressed well regardless of occasion. See what you like from those guys and find equivalent pieces that fit your sense of style.
/r/askTRP10/09/18 11:22 PM
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Get take out food from somewhere near your place and have the food at your place.
/r/askTRP10/09/18 06:12 PM
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Best advice I’ve received for fashion is stick to basic/classic combinations i.e. look up how old school guys like Steve McQueen, Paul Newman dressed, always on point regardless of setting. The other part is lifting, a good physique should frame the clothing you wear not the other way around. The dudes on MFA look like non-lifting bitches, so their clothing is going to look like crap no matter what.
/r/askTRP01/09/18 09:20 PM
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I would think so, unless you want to live life with headphones on.
/r/askTRP01/09/18 12:52 AM
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Don't rely on other things to get you psyched up to approach. Learn to enjoy the process of approaching. Approach in different environments/situations and try all types of openers. If you do this long enough approaching becomes less of a big deal.
/r/askTRP01/09/18 12:08 AM
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The story of what happens when two spergs hang out with each other.
/r/askTRP31/08/18 11:45 PM
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They want plausible deniability for their slutty actions and behavior. In some cases when the Wall hit hard they need the alcohol to cope.
/r/askTRP31/08/18 11:12 PM
1

If your new to college why not sit down at a table with people you don't know, introduce yourself and be cool. Never know what kind of people you'll meet in random situations. Streamline as much of your schedule as possible. Find out how you study most effectively. Some people do well in study groups others not so much. Chart out what you spend time doing every day, be honest with yourself. Often you find a lot of time spent on BS that is worthless. Aim for activities that are somehow related to…
/r/askTRP30/08/18 11:47 PM
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She's an attractive chick in college, getting hit on should be a normal thing to her. Isolate and escalate with her see what happens. You keep your frame by not giving a fuck if she rejects you period. The only problem I see is that you didn't do it sooner and as a result you've unwittingly found yourself in orbit...
/r/askTRP30/08/18 11:17 PM
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Great post, about time that someone laid this concept out. I can see why guys still hang onto the fantasy though, when you're in a relationship with what you think is a "unicorn" the emotional connection thing is like a dopamine overdose. Its only natural to want to preserve or prolong that high as long as you can. Once you let go of the "unicorn" myth it makes things a lot easier in my opinion. Liberates you from worrying about making mistakes in a LTR. Even if your spinning plates, once you re…
/r/TheRedPill30/08/18 07:22 PM
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You lost frame when she called you out on your other options. Your behaviors after that reflect that completely, you became her friend not the guy who she can’t quite have exclusivity with. Women are attracted to guys in demand, not guys without options, basic RP 101.
/r/askTRP28/08/18 02:53 AM
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Read the sidebar.
/r/askTRP28/08/18 01:06 AM
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You're mostly right, the only exceptions being certifiable crazy chicks who are REALLY into you. Personally, got involved with a few of these types in my early 20s and to date they've been the best in bed. Wild on oral, submissive as hell, whatever I wanted they would do, no question. Not endorsing active pursuits of known crazies though. You're pretty much playing with fire, can be a fun time, but if you screw up your shit may end up getting burnt to the ground.
/r/askTRP25/08/18 07:23 AM
1

Ask for her number and text her logistics to meet on campus or wherever you want.
/r/askTRP22/08/18 12:29 AM
29

Great post. Pretty much sums up the benefit of real-life experience and how that relates to having solid game. Better calibration is usually the result of more time spent in the trenches.
/r/TheRedPill22/08/18 12:16 AM
1

Next her. You fell completely into her frame after you hooked up with her and she's been texting you for validation/time-wasting purposes.
/r/askTRP22/08/18 12:04 AM
3

Nothing wrong with it as long as its not your primary source of validation.
/r/askTRP21/08/18 07:20 PM
2

I think the anger and depression comes from realizing what it takes to actually succeed in the current SMV market. The gap between where they are versus where they need to be can be huge in many cases.
/r/askTRP21/08/18 06:40 PM
3

Ask yourself what value have they brought to your life? People innately bring value in various forms to others they feel have value.
/r/askTRP17/08/18 06:05 PM
8

Keep ignoring or next her, game other chicks in the meantime. Finding another chick for head shouldn’t be too hard.
/r/askTRP17/08/18 05:47 PM
2

I kinda put up with some bitchy mentalities when I first started plating chicks. As time goes on though I’ve gotten more stringent with screening though. The main thing is to always be dealing from a position of abundance.
/r/askTRP17/08/18 06:15 AM
1

Lot of good advice here, I’ll just add try taking classes really outside of your major/field and get to know people in the class. I was a STEM major and I always made a point of taking a couple of courses in subjects that were really far from my major focus, ie music history, film, acting etc. It always gave me an easy way to meet people who weren’t nerds all the time.
/r/askTRP17/08/18 12:33 AM
24

Honestly you just need to stop with the victim narrative. Yeah you’re in a bad spot right now, the only one who can get you out of it is yourself. The quicker you realize that no one else is going to save your ass the sooner you’ll start actually digging yourself out of the shit you’re in.
/r/askTRP17/08/18 12:18 AM
4

Sounds like you didn't make any mistakes imo. Sometimes you can throw your best game at a chick and still get rejected, even if she seems receptive at first. Its a good reminder to be outcome independent, always.
/r/askTRP15/08/18 07:14 PM
1

Why not work on both? The SMV you gain is related to how hard you work on it.
/r/askTRP15/08/18 05:54 PM
6

Try gaming the hotter ones?
/r/askTRP15/08/18 06:31 AM
3

Reinvent yourself in college, nobody except you knows that you’re shy or introverted. Take advantage of a clean slate and be whoever you want to be. Being social as an introvert isn’t easy but force yourself to meet new people, especially in the first few months of school. Typically nobody knows anyone else freshman year so go on the offensive and introduce yourself around.
/r/askTRP15/08/18 06:26 AM
3

It’s the same as if you changed and weren’t in school. Your real friends should be supportive and if people give you crap about improving, well you know who to cut out of your life. Don’t make a huge deal out of transforming yourself to other people, just get it done and put your old self behind you.
/r/askTRP15/08/18 06:05 AM
1

Its pretty naive to deny AWALT just for the sheer fact that you ultimately have more to lose by thinking unicorns exist. I mean are you willing to go raw with some "nice girl" only to find out later you contracted some STD from her? Are you willing to get married to a "unicorn" and bet that she won't divorce rape you at some future juncture? You might get lucky and these things will never be a problem for you, but why assume the risk yourself when there is a body of knowledge here that can help …
/r/askTRP15/08/18 01:29 AM
1

Almost 30 here. Got a lot of RP knowledge from my Dad from my younger days. Didn't really put all the concepts/pieces together until learning about RP from other sites in my mid-20s. Once I started reading and learning names for stuff, a lot of things my Dad taught me "clicked" in my mind.
/r/askTRP14/08/18 09:04 PM
8

Sounds like classic time-wasting behavior. Ignore her until you meet in person.
/r/askTRP13/08/18 11:09 PM
1

The only problem with this logic is that guys in that age usually have pussy as their first and only priority for obvious reasons. If anything, learn some self-discipline at that age so that you can balance the overwhelming need for pussy with making sure your shit is together.
/r/TheRedPill13/08/18 10:58 PM
2

If you fear getting into a fight then do some sort of training that involves fighting like boxing, MMA, BJJ etc.
/r/askTRP13/08/18 07:56 PM
2

Most of this is pretty much sidebar re-hashing. If you want to date rich bitches be attractive and hang in their social circles. The first part is relatively easy, the second part not so much. When it comes to trust-fund type social circles, it all boils down to money. If you can't spend with them you're just not going to be fully accepted into their social circles, period. Not saying you can't smash these types of women on the side (rules of Game still apply), just don't expect any sort of rela…
/r/TheRedPill13/08/18 07:43 PM
3

If you're dead set on electronic, use a device not hooked up to the net if your worried about security. I use a old-fashioned paper journal, takes more time/effort but I think its more valuable to actually write things down.
/r/askTRP13/08/18 06:48 PM
2

Women by Bukowski, supposedly based on the author's life experiences. He basically becomes a famous author and smashes fan women all while being a drunken degenerate.
/r/askTRP13/08/18 06:31 PM
1

Sounds like you’re on the right track. Just got to find a balance between getting your physical needs met and them taking over your life.
/r/askTRP11/08/18 08:22 PM
5

Game is just a means of creating attraction, if the girl is open to it. If they aren’t attracted to you or worse to your friend who’s right there, that’s a losing situation. Your friend played it smart, while a bunch of dudes were clamoring after her, he just did nothing because he knew she was gonna end up with him.
/r/askTRP11/08/18 05:31 PM
8

Again attraction is nonnegotiable. Women follow their feels, always. She had the hots for him and no amount of game from other dudes is going to override that.
/r/askTRP11/08/18 05:19 PM
9

She was attracted to your friend more
/r/askTRP11/08/18 05:12 PM
9

Can’t argue with attraction.
/r/askTRP11/08/18 05:06 PM
3

Good stuff man, consider making this into a post office the main sub...
/r/askTRP11/08/18 05:43 AM
1

Sounds like you need to find your mission in life. Find something you are passionate about and go after it fully. It won’t directly solve your issues but it will keep you engaged in something beyond just getting your dick wet.
/r/askTRP11/08/18 01:36 AM
1

If she's at college chances are the urge to "explore" is going to win out eventually. The only thing that their upbringing will do in these situations is set the stage for how long before they decide to branch swing. There is no "perfect" guy just someone better and available to her at the moment.
/r/askTRP11/08/18 12:24 AM
1

At least for me, the abundance mentality regarding women really sunk in once I started spinning plates. Once you realize that having multiple plates is an option, because you've put in the work SMV-wise and approaching etc, the rest just falls into place. Just remember to stay focused on the goals in front of you, there will always be cute women out there.
/r/askTRP10/08/18 12:47 AM
2

In high school being a school athlete(football, basketball etc) is going to get you the most social-proof by far. If that's not an option I'd suggest you work on yourself (gym etc) and reinvent yourself when you go to college.
/r/askTRP10/08/18 12:27 AM
0

Nothing inherently bad with being skilled/adept at something. You just need to be humble about it and be cool with helping other people get better at what your doing. It becomes a problem when you act aloof/arrogant about your skill(s). Be the guy who people can ask for advice on a sport/game and be cool with helping them. As far as attraction goes; if its a game, like billiards/darts/fooseball/mini-golf etc. its an absurdly easy way to kino.
/r/askTRP10/08/18 12:22 AM
5

Most of my hookups with plates have been at their place exclusively. Just go to her place and if she asks why be straight up about it or say you have a roommate who is weird.
/r/askTRP09/08/18 05:02 PM
1

Your ego is too attached to your need for women. You should be working on yourself for YOU first and not for validation. Validation seeking from women is classic beta mindset/behavior and something you need to stop. One of the hardest truths to accept is that the world doesn't give a fuck about you or how hard you are working, so don't expect any medals for effort in life.
/r/askTRP30/07/18 11:41 PM
1

Jeez, how much bud did you burn through to think the closet was the front door lol? I wouldn't worry about it at all, if nothing else its a good anecdote to bring up for laughs later.
/r/askTRP30/07/18 10:51 PM
1

Start by not giving a fuck about their intentions and worry about what you want from them and how you're going to get it.
/r/askTRP25/07/18 10:24 PM
3

Read the sidebar, plenty of material on dealing with shit-tests. You weren't worth the screening when you were skinny.
/r/askTRP25/07/18 10:19 PM
2

For me the average plate lasts about 3 months. The longer spinning ones have generally been "career" women types (late 20s early 30s), they just want no strings fun and a guy who is okay with filling that role. Honestly never really dealt with serious commitment pressure, but thats really more about going after women in the 18-24 bracket and the above mentioned "career" types, both groups are usually having fun on the CC, or too busy for a serious relationship.
/r/askTRP25/07/18 12:09 AM
1

If you can't grow good facial hair I'd suggest working on your speaking and mannerisms. How people perceive visually and after they meet you(i.e. converse with you) can be totally different depending on how you act and speak. Speak with authority and expand your vocabulary a bit (i.e. stop saying "like" every other word). If anything, looking younger for longer is a gift, it expands the range of girls that'll be attracted to you especially as you get older, 30s and beyond.
/r/askTRP24/07/18 10:45 PM
1

I used to have a similar issue, try clearing your mind of everything(literally everything) before you approach, it’ll force you to stay on your toes verbally/mentally. It sounds like you can do that already so just start from an advantageous position. The less you actively think about what to say the better off you’ll be most likely.
/r/askTRP24/07/18 05:26 AM
3

At that age any halfway attractive chick is going to have a boyfriend. But fuck it, ask them out anyways. If they’re going to swing branches might as well be to yours right? Don’t hamster about long game etc, take your shot at both see what happens, you have nothing to lose and everything to gain imo.
/r/askTRP24/07/18 05:14 AM
1

Bang other chicks, lots more. Seriously, if your a guy with options oneitis shouldn’t be a problem for this long. If you lack options, get to work
/r/askTRP24/07/18 05:07 AM
13

If you view money as tool to buy more material goods and enslave yourself then yes its the same as putting women on a pedestal. The great thing about money is that it can be more than that. Money is just a tool for living the life you want. The more you have, the more potential freedom you have in your lifestyle choices.
/r/askTRP23/07/18 11:38 PM
2

Text her sometime after the game with logistics only, this is being served on a plate to you.
/r/askTRP12/07/18 04:53 PM
1

Even putting aside the age gap you shouldn’t try to “redpill” other people, anonymously or otherwise. It’s an individual journey if your serious about it and only the individual can decide when or if they will embark upon it. Get your shit together first and be an example to others.
/r/askTRP07/07/18 07:53 PM
13

Sounds like your being too passive in that sphere of life. Unless your super rich/famous women aren’t going to throw themselves at you because you’re good looking. You have to go after the women you want and do it without hesitation. As far as your question it sounds like you’ve done a lot to maximize yourself. Height might hold you back but wearing lifts sounds lame. You’re not a midget and I know plenty of dudes who are shorter than you and get taller girls.
/r/askTRP07/07/18 05:45 PM
1

Hard next, and start gaming girls in person. Social media is for validation whoring and orbiting.
/r/askTRP04/07/18 04:31 AM
36

Sounds like you don’t have a mission in your life imo. Find out what you are passionate about and start pursuing it. It’s easy to put aside your mission when your in a world scarcity when it comes to women. The falsehood is thinking that once you start spinning plates the rest of your life will fall into place.
/r/askTRP04/07/18 04:29 AM
5

Honestly as long as she puts out, I wouldn’t worry about it. Sounds good to me tbh, I wish my plates wouldn’t text me as much way anyways. If she’s gonna branch swing so be it, plates break no big deal.
/r/askTRP01/07/18 03:18 PM
4

Stop living in your mind so much. I’ve been guilty of it myself tbh. If you make eye contact and you can sense she’s attracted just say hi and introduce yourself. Remember, you are the prize to be won and your attitude in the approach should reflect that.
/r/askTRP01/07/18 09:17 AM
1

I was average at math in high school but I ended up being pretty good at it in college. I took a bunch of math classes at a community college and was able to transfer into a university with pretty high math standards and ended up with a degree in Biology/biochemistry. Just saying that if you REALLY want to be in a field that requires a strong math background you can work your way through it.
/r/askTRP28/06/18 06:37 PM
11

After going over this list I would just add that ANY woman can exhibit one or multiple of these characteristics at one point or another, or all of them at the same time. While these behaviors are certainly classic warning signs you can't live in fear of this stuff. Have your shit together at all times and don't get played.
/r/TheRedPill27/06/18 09:33 AM
1

Try a bunch out and see what you like and what works with your body chemistry. For the past few years I've been using Eau Sauvage, one of the original classic scent thats been around forever.
/r/askTRP27/06/18 01:11 AM
2

Lost my Dad a little over a year ago, he was 79, I was 29. He was a huge influence on me, especially in my early childhood, it still hurts but time has slowly mended that pain. As far as a change in mindset I feel more responsible to carry some sort of legacy on, and its made me more aware of my own mortality and how fast life can pass one by. He was only around for half of my childhood but the impression he left was significant, still consider him to be my RP role model.
/r/askTRP27/06/18 12:59 AM
3

Don't be fooled by social media, its an outlet for validation seeking behavior so of course people are going to put up glitzy stuff and create an image of being some rich awesome person who lives a glamorous jet set lifestyle. In my experience, if you see a pretty girl in her early 20s with lots of social media posts about fancy cars/houses/clothing etc theres a good chance that she's a sugar baby/high end escort.
/r/askTRP21/06/18 01:33 AM
1

TRP doesn't necessarily have a "primary goal" at least in my opinion. Its more about providing the tools and knowledge to succeed in whatever way you want. The fact that much of the content here is often about the sexual marketplace is simply because sex is a primary need that we as men all enjoy.
/r/askTRP21/06/18 01:18 AM
9

It’s only your turn with a particular woman. Either take a turn with her or not, just know that she’ll bail on you too.
/r/askTRP20/06/18 06:10 AM
1

Meditation is just a way to mitigate whatever crap you've got going in your life for men and women. In other words the crap never goes completely away, you just learn to manage it better over time. As far as your situation goes OP, AWALT is ultimately rooted in concepts that are biologically ingrained in the female psyche. Maybe this girl isn't as much of a cunt and its related to her mediation habit and thats great. Just don't be a fool and think that the rules have changed.
/r/askTRP18/06/18 08:35 AM
2

I think its a bit naive to think that the Western World won't have have "hard times" in the future. One thing I can think of is when fossil fuel runs out in the next ~100 years. When it really comes down to it, fossil fuels are at the root of the Western world's development. While we do have the technologies to somewhat replace that energy source, none of them are currently economically viable at the scale needed to maintain the current level of infrastructure.
/r/TheRedPill18/06/18 08:15 AM
7

I would argue that this process of weakening started after WWII. Post-WWII America was characterized by prosperity and a booming economy and the effect of that on the Baby boomer generation who were raised then was the first domino to fall. No surprise that this generation was also the one responsible for the hippie liberalism culture that eventually gave rise to feminism and the beginning of drug culture acceptance, and sexual liberation etc on a mass scale. All of these forces were fundamental…
/r/TheRedPill18/06/18 07:52 AM
2

First off, don't pickup on women at work. Besides the obvious reasons, i.e. you getting fucked out of your job, it screams of thirst and a lack of options. As far as this experience goes, thats a rejection and she's put you into orbiter category, more than likely due to your thirst, women can smell desperation. Best way to respond to a rejection and having to see that girl again is to act as if it never happened, i.e. don't ignore her or ask her out again, just be cool and act as if the rejectio…
/r/askTRP16/06/18 09:47 AM
3

For your field I’d pass on the PhD, you only need one if you’re in a STEM field. Professors are always going to encourage you to get a PhD, it serves the academic industry by providing cheap labor to do research or whatever work you provide for a non-STEM PhD. This deal is only worth taking if your field absolutely requires one. As far as your troubles with women, sounds like you aren’t escalating or otherwise leading them to physical intimacy. If that’s the issue work on that, if not, provide m…
/r/askTRP16/06/18 08:09 AM
10

Her actions with you are what count. Your buddy might be into her or got rejected by her and is being a crab about it.
/r/askTRP16/06/18 07:46 AM
2

Maybe she is attracted to you or she just wants you to be an orbiter(more likely), she's probably got a few orbiters by the sound of it.
/r/askTRP16/06/18 01:19 AM
4

She's talking shit to you because your frame is as weak as your skinny body. Start lifting and ignore that bitch.
/r/askTRP16/06/18 01:04 AM
10

Focus on the journey, once you reach a destination there will be always be another destination. If you look at the super successful people of the world, they are never content, always striving to be better and always going after something new. Being in STEM myself, I get the frustration over watching others who you deem as less smart getting ahead while you're grinding away with no end in sight. The thing that really changed my mindset was gaining non-STEM friends, some of whom are just blue-col…
/r/TheRedPill16/06/18 12:59 AM
3

Its all great until they hit the Wall. Then the fantasy becomes reality. Chads pumped and dumped them and now they have to find a beta chump who's willing to pay top dollar for busted merchandise.
/r/askTRP16/06/18 12:32 AM
1

Society is a matrix, there’s always a hierarchical structure, some lead most follow. The only real decision you make is whether you want to invest yourself in it or break away from it and live by your own rules. For the most part, being completely financially independent is the way you escape the matrix as OP described it.
/r/askTRP15/06/18 08:02 AM
5

Honestly monk mode is a bit of a cop out, imo. Get your shit together and work on eliminating bad habits and other shit that’s dragging you down. You don’t need to actively seclude yourself away from humanity to do that.
/r/askTRP15/06/18 07:52 AM
24

You’re pretty well setup if you can bartend, did it myself for a bit in college. Since you have no attachments and a job where you can work nearly anywhere you might want to think about living on the move for the next few years, stay in a city/town for a bit and once you’ve seen enough pack up and leave for somewhere else. Take advantage of being young and see as much of the world as you can now.
/r/askTRP13/06/18 06:46 AM
2

Great, I’m just mentioning that everyone needs to stop worrying about whether the hobbies they choose are RP or not. Do what you want to do and stop worrying about if they are RP by someone else’s standard.
/r/askTRP13/06/18 05:21 AM
6

How about you do what you want to do as a hobby and not worry about if it’s on some RP list
/r/askTRP13/06/18 05:02 AM
3

Some of this might just be your body language, seriously. You would be surprised with how much a playful smirk or otherwise "open" body language(i.e. don't fold your arms or make a stink face etc.) can diffuse a really awkward moment.
/r/askTRP07/06/18 12:56 AM
5

Sidebar is that way->
/r/askTRP07/06/18 12:51 AM
1

1-Yes, imo you should've just ignored the texts until the morning or something. 2- No, if you haven't tried to go out with her or initiate/escalate with her previously there is no reason why she would think of you as a hookup option. 3-Normal, if you're her emotional tampon.
/r/askTRP06/06/18 09:48 PM
25

They are bitter because their looks, and therefore SMV, are trending downward. Extra salt for when they realize how they wasted their peak SMV years getting pumped and dumped by Chads who they were unable to latch onto longterm.
/r/askTRP06/06/18 09:38 PM
2

Sometimes it's worth remembering that simple approaches and putting your intentions out there with a girl can be really effective.
/r/TheRedPill06/06/18 09:32 PM
1

The only way to get over this fear to face it head on with no restraints. Your ego is getting in the way, you don’t want to risk harm to it so you never put yourself out there to be rejected. Bottom line is that everyone gets rejected, regardless of how jacked they are or how tight their game is, that’s just the way it works. So my advice to you is to push yourself into spots where you can/will get rejected and get used to it, after enough times you’ll find out that it doesn’t mean anything in t…
/r/TheRedPill24/05/18 06:49 AM
9

First, congrats on being self aware enough to get out of those subs and make the choice to strive for a better life. To get out of the negativity sink you’re in I’ll suggest that you look at your life thus far and find the positives and appreciate that there are other people in this world that have it much worse than you do. The fact that you have access to the internet, video games and a roof over your head is something that a lot of people on this world can only dream about. We take a lot of t…
/r/askTRP24/05/18 06:26 AM
1

This is more of a mental game thing, but anyways, you just need to believe in yourself because no one else is going to do it for you. Getting laid isn't going to get rid of that need either so you're going to have to flip that mental switch regardless of whether or not you're getting laid. Some people gain this mindset through self affirmations, others get it by lifting or meditation its really just a matter of what works for you.
/r/askTRP23/05/18 09:07 PM
15

You’re only obsessed because you lack abundance, bang more sluts, including her if you can, problem solved
/r/askTRP23/05/18 06:17 AM
1

She likes you as a customer only. Girls will flirt with you if you’re a regular customer at a cafe or bar etc, if nothing else you’ll be more inclined to spend more money at said venue.
/r/askTRP23/05/18 05:57 AM
4

It won’t hurt your chances. For me the biggest benefit has been gaining discipline and mental strength. The muscle gains are just a bonus.
/r/TheRedPill23/05/18 05:18 AM
30

Read the sidebar and start lifting. Use that frustration as motivation to better yourself. Spin multiple plates and have fun with it, drop any plates that cause stress or drama. Welcome to the real world.
/r/TheRedPill23/05/18 05:04 AM
2

Sometimes you just have to fake it till you make it. I know it sounds corny but when you’re in the middle of the desert of no poon it’s the only thing you can do to keep yourself in a positive vibe. The other piece of advice I’d give to you is to really put yourself out there with women. It’s great that you’re increasing your SMV and all, but you still need some notches in the board.
/r/askTRP23/05/18 04:23 AM
1

Got get your ego uninvested when it comes to girls. No matter how tight your game is, it’s always just your turn. It’s a tough pill to swallow but once you’ve accepted it you’ll find a whole new way to look at your interactions with women.
/r/askTRP22/05/18 03:28 AM
3

At least you're being honest with yourself. Nothing wrong with it. I'll just add that having other stuff going for you in life while getting pussy is more fulfilling. Getting chicks becomes more like seasoning instead of just the main course.
/r/askTRP22/05/18 12:57 AM
4

Once you submitted to being her "boyfriend" it allowed her the leverage to be herself around you more, i.e. being bitchy around that time of the month etc. In other words she knows you're committed to her and therefore she knows that she gets a pass on bad behavior. Keep up the silent treatment and see what happens. This might be a bad sign or just benign drama, just be more alert of any other red flag behaviors.
/r/askTRP22/05/18 12:51 AM
5

It happens to everyone at some point although I think some have a gift or trait that attracts these types, myself included. The main thing to keep in mind is to keep them at plate status only, anything higher up and you're asking for trouble.
/r/askTRP21/05/18 11:02 PM
1

Sidebar is a general guide with basic principles that will improve you life if you apply them, it’s not going to tell you what you should do with your life, that’s up to you
/r/askTRP20/05/18 05:25 PM
3

Yeah pretty much something like that. Hand her your phone and ask her to enter her number/name and go from there.
/r/askTRP16/05/18 08:57 AM
12

Your line is funny and I can see how it works in a humorous agree and amplify kinda way. If it were me I’d just be direct at that point, one you have her laughing or otherwise engaged just ask her out. I mean you can keep up the verbal gymnastics for only so long before you just need to put your myself out there anyways.
/r/askTRP16/05/18 07:22 AM
6

I really got over most of my approach anxiety once I had a few epic level rejections. Once I put myself in those situations I was able to rationalize the fear and I kinda realized it’s not a big deal to get rejected.
/r/askTRP16/05/18 07:07 AM
1

Might want to consider taking breaks from the computer when you’re not actively working. I usually have books or something to read in my office. Anything to get yourself off the computer during idle time is going to help, plus it can’t hurt to detach from the screen a bit during the day.
/r/askTRP16/05/18 07:01 AM
3

Whether you want to admit it or not you wasted your time with this girl going to dinner with her when it was clear from the past that it wasn't going to work. The only reason why someone would subject themselves to this sort of crap is scarcity.
/r/askTRP15/05/18 10:34 PM
4

While you might be right in the pure ethical sense that she is trash its still not going to help the poor bastard or anyone else who stepped on this kind of landmine. This post just highlights that even when you think you have your life together, one false step and it can come crashing down.
/r/TheRedPill15/05/18 10:17 PM
14

This one's on you man. Get abundance mentality, this post reeks of the scarcity mindset.
/r/askTRP15/05/18 10:01 PM
2

Validation seekers and college-aged women are one in the same. Some sororities had really hot girls, but with the race to the bottom culture that seems to be pervading the college culture these days this isn't too surprising.
/r/askTRP15/05/18 08:40 PM
25

The more money you make, the more vigilant you need to be in keeping track of what's going on in your life especially if you're married. The other important thing I'm seeing here is that the line between beta provider and showing value gets more precarious as you make more money. Sad story but this guy screwed himself, and his kids(sadly) over once he got content with his situation. Who knows if it was arrogance or stupidity, either way he got screwed and more likely than not, the court system i…
/r/TheRedPill15/05/18 08:30 PM
2

A buzz cut will generally look good on most guys, if your head is shaped oddly/irregularly I would think about it more carefully. It will grow back, so I would say if you're curious about it go for it and DGAF.
/r/askTRP15/05/18 08:02 PM
2

Sure, if you just need experience getting in front of people its a great option, plus you'll learn how to act which can a useful life skill.
/r/askTRP15/05/18 07:48 PM
2

Open mic night at a club or something like that. If you’re in school still, try an acting class, lot of the same benefits/skills can be obtained through acting as well.
/r/askTRP15/05/18 03:56 AM
1

Do it. Also start with acoustic to learn the basics, your fingers will hate it but if you decide to move more towards electric like I did, you’ll have a lot of strength/callouses built up and you’ll improve a lot quicker than if you just start on electric from day one.
/r/askTRP15/05/18 03:16 AM
6

When it comes to women it’s pretty easy, observe their actions and ignore their words.
/r/askTRP08/05/18 06:59 AM
17

It’s going to sound simple but you just need to stop giving a fuck about other people’s opinions. As my Dad once put it; If they aren’t paying your bills, fuck them and their opinion. Keep improving yourself and do it for YOU, don’t expect people to give you compliments, take them in stride of course and keep moving forward.
/r/askTRP08/05/18 05:45 AM
3

Keep approaching and implementing things in the sidebar, lifting, improve style and pretty much anything that's giving you positive returns. As far as your issue with day game, it sounds like you aren't steering these interactions in a direction that generates attraction. From my experience, lot of it just comes down to body language/non-verbal communication( i.e. light kino, seductive eye contact etc). However that makes sense to you, the whole point is to create some interest so your not just …
/r/askTRP04/05/18 07:17 AM
1

Speaking to looks, if girls say you’re cute, that usually means you have some features that they find attractive. That’s not going to mean shit though if you keep your current mental state. Choose to be in a better mental state, you may not think it, but your mental frame has a profound impact on how you are perceived by others, especially women.
/r/askTRP02/05/18 04:59 AM
1

Actions are what counts not words.
/r/askTRP02/05/18 01:33 AM
4

I think once you took the social media bait the game was over.
/r/askTRP02/05/18 01:23 AM
21

It sounds like you've put sex on a huge mental pedestal. Nothing is going to change this until you break through that barrier. Keep up the improvement and push yourself to escalate physically with women. At some point your going to make a breakthrough and things should level out mentally for you.
/r/askTRP01/05/18 06:55 PM
13

Pretty much normal. Its like anything you can't have/get, you build it up in your mind to be this all-time great thing and once you get it consistently the luster fades.
/r/askTRP01/05/18 06:50 PM
2

Hair transplants are pretty much a bad idea unless you plan on spending big time money on them. The only guy who I can think of right now who pulls it off really well is Elon Musk and you know he probably dropped at least $20k on it and who knows how many followup procedures. Besides what everyone else has already said I'll add that looking older at age 21 isn't exactly a bad thing, if anything you can work it to your advantage, lots of girls that age like older guys.
/r/askTRP01/05/18 06:23 PM
4

I'd take up your cousin on the offer to go out clubbing. Treat it like a chance to experience something new. Regardless of whether you decide to continue clubbing it will give you a good chance to see how your SMV stacks up. It'll probably be a tough night but again its going to let you know where you stand relatively speaking. All that being said, if you do go out don't be timid/shy, get out there and start speaking to women, get blown out/rejected and have fun with it.
/r/askTRP01/05/18 06:14 PM
3

This kinda thing happens when your relatively inexperienced with conversing with random people. The advice I can give is to try and start conversations with random people(men+women) and get used to bantering. The other thing that helps is to realize that most of being a "great conversationalist" is listening and asking questions so that the other person can keep talking about themselves. Generally speaking, people like to talk about themselves and the more you get them to do that, the less you n…
/r/askTRP24/04/18 12:57 AM
7

She's not really into you. For future reference cut the "what are you doing" bullshit, once you get her number ask her out for drinks or whatever don't expect her to make decisions for you. Move on, not worth any more time or thought.
/r/askTRP21/04/18 01:09 AM
3

The only thing I'll add since the other responses are right on the mark is to think about getting several additional bars/clubs on lock in the city. It just amplifies the benefits you are getting from the one bar currently.
/r/askTRP21/04/18 01:04 AM
1

Look up DiCarlo escalation ladder, absorb it and try/experiment with it and figure out what works for you. The other thing to closing is having your logistics down solid. Nothing worse than having a closed situation and trying to piece together a spot for the f-close.
/r/askTRP20/04/18 03:14 AM
3

So she dumped you, big deal. Plenty of other chicks out there, no reason to get bogged down with some pissy bitch.
/r/askTRP19/04/18 12:54 AM
3

There should be something in the Sidebar materials IIRC. Anyways most of it falls into three categories; agree/amplify, ignore, and flipping the script.
/r/askTRP19/04/18 12:17 AM
6

Sometimes you have to use alternate strategies to deal with shit-tests. In this case I would have just ignored her and changed the subject.
/r/askTRP19/04/18 12:10 AM
6

Besides whats already been mentioned (i.e. you blew it), if you want to keep after her hit her up via text, not social media. Social media for HB9's is for orbiters and by the sound of it she has a lot of them.
/r/askTRP18/04/18 09:14 PM
3

Sounds like you have a lot of potential, get in the gym and get ripped or do some fight training. You have a big body frame, and with some game and physical improvement you could be getting some fine small/petite women, they love big guys who can throw them around.
/r/askTRP14/04/18 12:54 AM
1

Laughed and carried on. It felt really bad at the time but now its just a funny memory my friends will remind me about every once in while.
/r/askTRP14/04/18 12:48 AM
1

If you really want to go into construction management I say go for it. Don't worry about what everyone around thinks as far your career choices, its your life and you have to live it for yourself not them.
/r/askTRP13/04/18 06:19 AM
2

I've had a drink thrown on my face once at a nightclub lol. Had women turn away or just walk away without saying anything many times etc. Nowadays if I see someone bomb an approach I wouldn't look down on them, if anything they had the balls to approach and I can respect that.
/r/askTRP13/04/18 12:38 AM
1

My advice to you is to stop overthinking this shit. Honestly, you just need to get out of your own head and just start approaching and just say whatever's on your mind. If you think she's cute just say it confidently like a boss. I'm an over-thinker myself and sometimes I just have to remind myself to have fun with approaching girls. If you keep pushing yourself into the "fun" mindset you'll notice that you start to relax more and not overthink stuff.
/r/askTRP13/04/18 12:29 AM
1

Since you have a good head of hair I would suggest going for a shorter style, you have an oval shaped face so most styles should work for you.
/r/askTRP13/04/18 12:13 AM
3

Since you are in college aren't there cool, fun things to do on campus including coffee shops.
/r/askTRP12/04/18 11:41 PM
8

Whats the first rule of Fight Club?
/r/askTRP12/04/18 01:00 AM
1

Well if you have chicks complementing your smell all I can say is keep going with whatever fragrance you are using. Everyone is going to be different as far as fragrances are concerned because we all have unique natural body scent which needs to mesh with the applied fragrance. I started using Polo Blue when I was in high school and eventually transitioned to Eau Sauvage(classic) once I hit my mid/late 20s. Tried a lot of stuff in college but nothing ever really stuck with me more than ~6 months…
/r/askTRP09/04/18 10:33 PM
2

Bad strategy and bad attitude. Nothing wrong with being realistic about your limitations but you still need to get out and approach. Don't let your ego/fear of rejection get in the way of gaining valuable experience. Everyone gets rejected at some point, even the top percentage guys. Plus there's no better indicator of your hopefully improving SMV than approaching constantly and seeing what quality/level women are responding positively.
/r/askTRP07/04/18 12:50 AM
3

I'm mostly listen to classic rock and jazz. Led Zeppelin, Cream, Jimi Hendrix, Guns 'n Roses, pretty much anything with good blues based lead guitar work as well(Stevie Ray Vaughn). As far as jazz goes I keep to the classics as well; Dexter Gordon, John Coltrane, Sonny Rollins, Charlie Parker and any other great saxophonist that I'm forgetting as well. Most of my listening choices are based on the instruments I play(guitar/sax), its just inspiring to listen to a virtuoso play and really be able …
/r/askTRP07/04/18 12:30 AM
2

Another key thing I'll add to the NGAF mantra is that it really depends on what you're applying the concept to. Certain things are out of your control (i.e. your height) while others are yours to control (i.e. your physical fitness). Generally speaking the NGAF mentality should be applied towards stuff out of your control, while things you can change should be in the GAF category.
/r/askTRP03/04/18 06:19 AM
1

Next move is to move on like it never happened. I mean if getting another girl for you both to share(e.g. threesome) was her idea then to me there is no reason for her to get mad. The bigger issue here IMO, is the LTR stealing your phone to look at your activities. That sort of behavior in a LTR would be a red-flag for me.
/r/askTRP03/04/18 12:36 AM
1

Besides the hormonal stuff this could also just be a case of the old crabs in a barrel situation. He's feeling left behind as far as women goes and now he's trying to bring everyone down into his own pit of misery. As far as fixing it, try to get him laid (i.e. be a good wingman) sounds like he could use it.
/r/askTRP02/04/18 11:22 PM
1

Nothing wrong with it imo, besides TRP is amoral. If it were me I'd steer clear of the whole situation, sounds like a lot unnecessary drama.
/r/askTRP02/04/18 08:30 PM
3

Being aggressive is kinda the point here, no reason to waste time significant time trying to game a chick who has a clingy BF. Regardless of your previous experiences you wanna give off the vibe of being a man who goes after what he wants.
/r/askTRP29/03/18 08:22 AM
2

I think that everyone in TRP community has a story about an "Alan" type guy who despite being a sloth/slob can still pull lots of women. Sometimes it just comes down to being comfortable in who you are and giving no fucks about everyone else. That or he's secretly rich (inheritance/trust fund) but just doesn't show it off at all.
/r/askTRP29/03/18 01:06 AM
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Sounds like he's an orbiter(?). Just start talking to her normally and see what happens, if this other guy starts butting in the convo just ask her; "Oh, is this your BF?" or something like that. If he is her BF proceed with conversation and if not, watch his hopes get crushed when she emphatically denies it.
/r/askTRP29/03/18 12:24 AM
4

You are way overthinking this, she's inviting you over, escalate and close. Check out the sidebar for tips on how to deal with LMR.
/r/askTRP28/03/18 10:03 PM
1

You have to re-frame this to your advantage, i.e. stop worrying about performing for them and remember that you are the prize to be pleasured not them.
/r/askTRP28/03/18 09:54 PM
3

Well its already too late to change what happened so just move on and work on improving yourself. If anything this should motivate you to improve and start finding chicks you actually are interested in.
/r/askTRP28/03/18 06:49 PM
1

Work on expanding your social circles then, if you're at a reasonably sized college the opportunities are out there. Definitively try joining other non-engineering clubs/groups to expand your social pool, you're much more likely to meet other girls that way. If you have any other interests/hobbies use them to meet new people. I'm an introvert myself and I was a STEM major so I get where you're coming from.
/r/askTRP28/03/18 06:25 AM
1

You can do whatever you want, clearly. From your post it sounds like you're inexperienced when it comes to escalation and that it would be a better use of your time to try escalating with girls that haven't put you in the friendzone. Simple fact is that new girls are going to give you more valuable "feedback" in terms of what you're doing right vs wrong and you may even find your way into their pants in the process (i.e. win-win situation).
/r/askTRP28/03/18 05:58 AM
5

If you haven't made a move in 6 months, what makes you think you're going to escape the friendzone here? She may be single and desperate but if your in orbit you're the last one she's gonna fuck. Find other chicks and make your mistakes with them, at least you'll have a legitimate shot to score, even if by accident.
/r/askTRP28/03/18 04:59 AM
2

As far as increasing comfort you just need to sprinkle in a few sparse comments about how hot you think they are or whatever, these are Tinder/plate dates not a LTR or anything. The flaking reference just referred to you appearing unprepared in terms of place to close the deal. Regardless of what these girls say, they were out for a ride on the CC, be the guy who can give them the ride.
/r/askTRP28/03/18 04:52 AM
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Sometimes you gotta balance out the teasing with a bit of comfort, especially if these girls are already into you. The major issue I see here is your logistics, you set stuff up with the first chick and flaked and the second situation you had an easy F-close but didn't have the place to seal the deal.
/r/askTRP28/03/18 12:52 AM
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If it was me I'd bail on this chick and start over. I mean she's given you multiple opportunities to escalate and F-close and you haven't really done anything to accomplish that. For future reference always assume she's attracted to you and escalate from there. If you get resistance, pull back the escalation for a bit and re-escalate.
/r/askTRP28/03/18 12:40 AM
2

As far as major landmarks in the journey thus far, I would say going bald and buzzing it off was something that really forced me to really get in gear and start working on myself. Its a total vanity thing I know, but as someone who once had 70s rock star level long hair it was quite the mental process to let it go and move on. At that point I was pretty much forced to start killing it in other areas of my life i.e. getting in better shape/lifting.
/r/askTRP21/03/18 06:34 PM
1

What I meant was that at times you have to embrace your weaknesses, whatever they may be and not try to hide them. I'm guessing you're socially awkward, maybe I'm wrong but either way the message still applies. People instinctively will hide their weaknesses, especially when they aren't confident in themselves.
/r/askTRP21/03/18 12:34 AM
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Stop being so critical of yourself, you're probably making tons of mistakes and thats just part of the process. You almost got a girl to fuck but you messed up, focus on how you got to that point (you must've done something right to get that far) and not so much on the mistakes that followed. It sounds like you're probably socially awkward as well, just go with it and own it as part of your persona for the time being. Its kind of reverse psychology but by being upfront with your weaknesses it ac…
/r/askTRP21/03/18 12:15 AM
5

You fell into her frame once you started going down the IG/SC route. Everything before that was good. Honestly, sounds like you got suckered into some attention whore's BS and she's already launched you into orbiter status, I wouldn't waste any more time on her.
/r/askTRP21/03/18 12:00 AM
1

But I feel like I am playing all the right cards but I just cant get to that point no matter what I do. What do you mean by this?
/r/askTRP20/03/18 11:53 PM
2

Depends on how invested/attracted to you she is. If she's questionable on that front I doubt its going to accomplish anything.
/r/askTRP20/03/18 11:43 PM
1

Well whether you're physically ugly or not your attitude towards life is ugly no doubt. Stop thinking your the victim all the time, life isn't fair and it never will be no matter how much you want it to be. If you aren't super good looking I would suggest working on your attitude and demeanor, be someone that people will feel good to be around. Your in college which should be a good time full of experiences and meeting new people and getting laid, don't waste this opportunity because you're feel…
/r/askTRP20/03/18 11:39 PM
2

Maybe you made the wrong call, I would say its a bit too early to tell. Sounds like he's freshly unplugged and I would say its a common response for them to take things way too far into the raging asshole side of the spectrum. Especially if he was getting fucked over by women, which sounds like the situation he was in. Give him time and see how his attitude evolves. If your feeling guilty yourself think of it this way; if he goes full incel, then it probably was going to happen with or without y…
/r/TheRedPill20/03/18 11:04 PM
2

You gotta dip your wick in some wax, until you do so you're going to put the pussy on the pedestal which will mess your frame up. If your frame is weak good luck trying to pull 7-8s.
/r/askTRP20/03/18 10:46 PM
3

Why not try all three out for a bit and see what actually works? I mean there is no "definitive game guide," the most valuable lessons you're going to learn are from first-hand experiences.
/r/askTRP20/03/18 06:27 PM
8

She's banging other dudes and/or thinks your banging multiple chicks besides her. Either way its not a smart idea to be smashing plates without one.
/r/askTRP20/03/18 06:22 PM
1

Sounds about right. It sounds like a easy scenario, I mean if I'm going over to her place at that time of night its an easy F-close. OP sounds like a sperg so he'll probably bungle it up though...
/r/askTRP20/03/18 06:11 PM
2

In the latter stages of my PhD in biology so I think I can offer some advice to you. Be selfish and make sure you are getting what you need out of the experience (i.e. grade in the class, publications). You're going to be dealing with people like this in academia and on the outside as well, although academia seems to be a major BP stronghold. I keep my RP opinions to myself in grad school, its not worth it trying to upset the system. If you're in a STEM field, publications are whats going to adv…
/r/askTRP20/03/18 07:24 AM
2

Honestly I don't see anything wrong with it if you like doing it. I'd look at it just like any other artistic endeavor, like sculpting or carving wood.
/r/askTRP16/03/18 02:12 AM
1

Well once she started going into branch swinging mode there was no guarantee she would swing to you. All that being said the whole hot/cold thing on her end just means that your the closest branch but she's still open to something else.
/r/askTRP15/03/18 05:02 PM
3

Yeah out of all the RP stuff I've looked at over the years the DiCarlo thing helped me the most in terms of closing. If your going to implement it I would also advise being open-minded in terms of how the stages work i.e. its not always a step-wise progression. The main thing to realize is the stages represent different levels of sexual tension which you can control depending on the situation. If you're already outgoing you probably can read people/body language pretty well so this process may g…
/r/askTRP15/03/18 07:02 AM
4

Innuendo is one thing, but unless a girl is dripping wet for you its not going to close the deal by itself. You have to escalate more physically, look up the DiCarlo escalation ladder if you haven't already seen it and look at the later stages of the ladder.
/r/askTRP15/03/18 06:30 AM
3

You post reeks of thirst. You texted way too much and never really set a plan of where to meet this chick. Stick to logistics i.e. when/where to meet and don't do the drunk text thing its never a good idea.
/r/askTRP15/03/18 06:21 AM
2

Honestly for myself NoFap hasn't done a whole lot in terms of upping my game. I mean it'll get me to be a bit more aggressive and outgoing with women than normal buts thats about it. The only benefit in NoFap is to cut the porn habit.
/r/askTRP15/03/18 05:17 AM
6

You made yourself look desperate/needy by repeatedly texted her that one night. Might as well soft next her or ghost and make her come to you.
/r/askTRP15/03/18 04:51 AM
1

This really depends on the workplace and the atmosphere/culture that is being promoted. Observe your surroundings and adapt to the environment. Sounds like you're in a desk-job/administrative kind of field so I'd lean more towards being the guy who stands your ground but are willing to make strategic compromises which benefit you.
/r/askTRP14/03/18 10:04 PM
4

From what I've seen lately(I work at a uni) Lot of it comes down to the fact that most college aged guys 18-22 have no game. There doesn't seem to be as much of a gradient between the spergs and jocks either, at least compared with non-college life (i.e. guys are one of the two and no in-between). As a result you have one population of guys who are basically smashing all available pussy and another much larger population trying to figure out how to crack the pussy code.
/r/askTRP14/03/18 03:09 AM
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I was the same way at that age and still am to a certain extent. For me at least I think its tied together with how I grew up, going through adversity and overcoming it early in life can really help you focus and be more goal oriented. Many of the guys in your age range probably haven't been through much adversity whereas those that are older are more likely to have based on being older/more experienced.
/r/askTRP14/03/18 02:52 AM
3

Its also worth mentioning here that you differentiated yourself from all the other schmucks by approaching her Dad instead of just hitting on her directly in front of her parents, which is pretty socially awkward IMO. This is the same kind of strategy you would use if your approaching groups of hot women in night game, especially if they have an uglier friends(which they always do), you gain the trust of ugly ones and then you can game the hot ones.
/r/TheRedPill14/03/18 12:51 AM
2

Not disagreeing with you per se, but unless he was your identical twin with more energy its kinda hard to rule out that she was just more physically attracted to him.
/r/askTRP13/03/18 08:18 PM
6

Energy may have something to do with it or more likely he was more attractive to her than you.
/r/askTRP13/03/18 07:51 PM
2

Sex with someone you have an emotional connection with will always be better or more fulfilling. At the same time I do like variety(girls/experiences) and the only way one gets this is by adhering to RP strategies. You also have to remember that lot of guys come to TRP after being screwed over in relationships or from growing up without success with women. Once they unplug its understandable for them to be a bit jaded and value abundant sex because they've never had it before.
/r/askTRP13/03/18 07:36 PM
2

Fellow introvert here, you're analyzing this way too much. If you want to be alone just do it, if they are being bitches then let them be and move on. If you interact with them again tease them with a smirk about being bitches the previous day, show them you give no fucks.
/r/askTRP13/03/18 07:24 PM
1

Well if you frame this right she'll drive to you so what do you care how long of drive it is.
/r/askTRP13/03/18 06:18 PM
3

You have to set the frame ahead of time i.e. before taking her out for food. In my experience, if you make it into an official "date" they will automatically expect you to pay but if you're just "hanging out" they will be open to splitting or paying the tab by themselves.
/r/askTRP13/03/18 08:00 AM
3

It sounds like you have got the pussy on the pedestal way too much. You're interested in her and you wanna pick her up cause she's attractive right? There's no right thing/line to say that will work all the time and for everyone, you just gotta try and find out what works for you. If your really struggling beyond the introduction part try commenting on something she is wearing i.e. clothing, bracelets etc and ask or compliment her about it. Girls tend to wear certain stuff to because they want t…
/r/askTRP13/03/18 12:05 AM
3

Your post isn't describing a believable scenario.
/r/askTRP12/03/18 11:11 PM
5

First of all welcome, hopefully you check out the sidebar and start making changes and improving. As far as your question, I would say why not try it out, you got nothing to lose. I mean its most likely not going to work because these girls have already put you in the beta bin.
/r/askTRP12/03/18 10:59 PM
14

At your age I wouldn't worry too much about those comments. Agree and amplify or find another way to diffuse that stuff, those are all basic verbal shit-tests anyways.
/r/askTRP25/02/18 01:05 AM
1

You'll find plate material for sure (wrap it up too). You might find LTR material as well but I wouldn't count on it. Either way they should have to earn LTR status from you, preferably through a plating period. As for the second question, hoes are like penguins and polar bears, they don't get cold LOL.
/r/askTRP15/02/18 12:22 AM
4

You'll know if something is important to you if you keep doing it regardless of what women are in your life. Doesn't matter if you've got multiple plates or are in the biggest dry spell ever, things you truly enjoy doing you will find a way to do regardless.
/r/askTRP15/02/18 12:14 AM
2

Most approach anxiety comes from being too worried about trying to say the perfect thing or whatever. A great way to get out of this is to approach within lets say a minute or preferably less of getting an IOI. The longer you wait to make a move, the more your mind will start messing with you making it more difficult.
/r/askTRP09/02/18 11:27 AM
1

Have multiple options, women are experts at sensing if you have options or not and if they know you’re got nothing else, well you know what happens next.
/r/askTRP08/02/18 08:03 AM
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I’ll just add that it sounds like you’re relatively new to spinning plates so it’s pretty common to get more invested. If you keep this pace up though you’ll start caring less about it, the novelty does kinda fade over time.
/r/askTRP08/02/18 07:55 AM
7

Read and most importantly absorb and apply the Sidebar and it’s contents. First lesson; you’re never going to bang a chick by being her girlfriend. Act like a man.
/r/askTRP08/02/18 07:46 AM
2

Anytime you look at the far extremes on either side you'll find rejects. Extreme political moments/groups have always preyed upon people who feel disenfranchised, its how they maintain their power structure.
/r/askTRP06/02/18 05:39 AM
2

Thats why you only bet on stuff when cash is immediately put on the table by both parties.
/r/askTRP06/02/18 05:16 AM
3

Sounds like you need to tone down the jerk attitude. There’s a fine line between lovable asshole and jerk who just shits on everyone.
/r/askTRP04/02/18 04:08 PM
1

Most women I’ve been with liked rough stuff although to varying degrees. Usually I’ll go with lighter forms at first to see where she stands and escalate to rougher stuff later. If you’re her Chad you can do whatever you want really, women love pleasing real alphas, it’s hard wired into their psyche.
/r/askTRP04/02/18 03:59 PM
1

Speak with you diaphragm, look it up singers do it to project their voice. If your gaming you should be pulling women into your physical space, use kino to bring them in and speak in close quarters i.e. talking into her ear etc.
/r/askTRP04/02/18 03:51 PM
2

Take for walk in park or something to engage with her physically, think active stuff like billiards or mini golfing, anything to get yourself in easy kino situations. If you wanna close the deal try messing around in the car, if you have her warmed up enough she should be willing to go for it.
/r/askTRP04/02/18 03:44 PM
2

Good luck with dumping your baggage on some stripper. They only want your money when it comes down to it. You need to start approaching women and getting over the fear of being inexperienced. I lost mine at 22 with a chick in her mid 30s so think about going for more experienced girls, heck you might learn a few things in the process so it’s a win-win situation.
/r/askTRP04/02/18 03:35 PM
1

Hate to say it but I think you blew it. If she starts dishing about her ex you gotta seize the moment and really push for the close. Change the subject and escalate physically, she’s vulnerable emotionally and she’s sitting in your lap, that’s a close wrapped up if you can play the situation right.
/r/askTRP04/02/18 03:27 PM
1

I can play saxophone and guitar, come over and I can play a song for you at my place.
/r/askTRP04/02/18 03:22 PM
2

If you don’t enjoy going out at night your going to run out of energy at some point. Drinking can help but it’s a crutch you really shouldn’t rely on. Think of things you actually like do and try to mesh that with meeting women. It’ll be more natural IMO. If you’re determined to do the night life scene you can try imagining the women you’re hitting on in sexual situations, I know that always seems to bring my energy up.
/r/askTRP04/02/18 03:19 PM
3

Honestly it sounds like you have weak physical presence. If other guys are pushing you around you need to start lifting and bulk yourself up. Other guys will think twice if you at least look look like you can handle yourself in a fight. I’m not advocating starting fights but if you look more muscular you will find this type of stuff will fade away.
/r/askTRP04/02/18 03:13 PM
1

It’s tough when you first acknowledge the truth. Either way accept women for what they are and enjoy them. Times and attitudes are in your favor for plating chicks and having a good time. Looking back on my early 20s I wish that had taken more advantage of the situation so have fun and put yourself out there and see what happens.
/r/askTRP04/02/18 03:07 PM
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I’ve been in your spot, let someone in her family know about her and get the hell out ASAP. At least by doing this you can feel no guilt if the worst happens.
/r/askTRP04/02/18 03:03 PM
1

For me, I usually keep my own counsel when it comes to problems with women. Don't know what kinda issues you're having, but most of the ones I've encountered are fixable if I'm being totally honest with myself and adhering to some of the basic concepts of TRP. If people ask for your opinion, I would lean heavily towards not really giving any RP based advice, and deflecting the issue to someone else if possible. Lead by example, not by words imo.
/r/askTRP31/01/18 08:46 AM
7

If she's really into you, i.e. you're her Chad, she'll do whatever you want her to do. If you want her to take charge and ride then tell her, if you want her to be passive and you dominate tell her that then. Ultimately you have to take charge and direct her.
/r/askTRP08/01/18 10:01 PM
2

If your approaching women at their job its really not the ideal situation. Especially in the positions you listed, which are customer service based, i.e. they can't be rude or honest because they are working and you are a customer. Indirect is going to be your best bet, especially if you both have some common interest or something.
/r/askTRP08/01/18 09:56 PM
1

Do what you want. As with any hobby or activity if it starts taking time away from you need to do to stay fit and kick ass in life then you need to re-evaluate. The main issue with video games is that they can quickly take up a lot of time and basically serve no purpose besides entertainment. In other words you aren't getting any additional benefits out it besides entertainment.
/r/askTRP08/01/18 09:00 PM
2

Not to shift the discussion here too much, but from what I can tell a big issue here is the fact that you both are in different parts of your respective careers. Along those lines what career options you both pursue with your PhD's will really affect the situation as well (industry or academia). If your plan is to do the academia thing post-PhD, I would say its going to be tough for you to get what you want i.e. kids, regardless of whats going on with him. If he's in industry already, I would sa…
/r/askTRP06/01/18 07:57 AM
9

I think the whole concept of thinking that girls having higher n-counts is basically there to illustrate the difference in access to sex between women and men. While I'm sure there are women and men with >100 I think those are going to be relative outliers compared with most in the population. Seems like people also forget or underestimate how much effort and time it would take to fuck 100 people. I mean thats pulling a new chick every week for almost 2 years straight. While a relatively attract…
/r/askTRP06/01/18 07:32 AM
7

I think you nailed the general feel/atmosphere of these cities, at least with regards to LA,SF and ATL. Can't comment on the Canadian cities, never been to them myself, but I've heard from multiple people that Toronto is a hellhole. The only major issue I have with this this piece is the aspects of nightlife. I mean every major metropolitan city has the same (more or less) nightlife/club scene and the rules are fairly universal across the board. If you are connected with the right people you're …
/r/TheRedPill06/01/18 07:10 AM
1

If all you want her to be is a plate why worry too much about it, hit her up and proceed like nothing ever happened. I've lost plates only to get them back, it happens. Remember thats why they're plates in the first place i.e. not worthy of commitment on your end.
/r/askTRP06/01/18 06:53 AM
1

That sounds like hanging out with friends not a date. If your not escalating or isolating (which can be done subtly too btw) then you're putting yourself into orbiter territory. For future reference don't go shopping with a chick you wanna bang, it'll either frame you as another one of her girlfriends or a beta bucks guy.
/r/askTRP06/01/18 04:33 AM
5

Having multiple options should provide the ability to be emotionally distant, although I've seen plenty of guys with multiple plates drop them to be with one. The question you have to ask yourself is why are you becoming emotionally dependent on one particular woman? Women, no matter how many you have had, or currently have, are not going to make you genuinely happy and therefore should never be the center of your life, more like side dishes that enhance it. You invest emotionally when you belie…
/r/askTRP05/01/18 12:59 AM
13

She may be your mom, but she is still is a women so AWALT still applies. Don't ask for feedback on your romantic life or anything of that sort from women, even your mom.
/r/askTRP04/01/18 02:54 AM
3

Banging a few hookers isn't going to solve your problems with approach anxiety. You gotta face that fear eventually, and when you do you'll realize that getting rejected whether it be at the approach stage or even later on in the process isn't that big of a deal. Also, messing around with hookers isn't the same as getting it from a normal women. Its often a cold/emotionless experience, even with the more expensive ones. They can still be fun though, but for your particular problems, I doubt they…
/r/askTRP04/01/18 02:48 AM
3

Sounds like she's trying to manipulate you into feeling bad for her or just trying to get attention. If it was me I'd let someone in her family know about the whole suicide thing and cut off all contact with her. Absolves you from being responsible and cuts the drama out, win-win.
/r/askTRP16/12/17 10:38 PM
1

I played a lot during childhood. Started to phase out of playing by the end of high school. Social life and later college became more important and I started to pick up other hobbies like playing music that were more rewarding.
/r/askTRP16/12/17 10:26 PM
1

If she's had STD scares from (?) it tells you something about her behavior. She'll probably be the type who won't mind doing it raw and probably is/has been doing it with multiple guys. Proceed with caution on this one.
/r/askTRP08/12/17 07:20 PM
1

If your really not interested in pursuing your field of study then you should really consider leaving school, especially if your getting into greater debt. College degrees just aren't as valuable as they once were, even in the STEM fields the returns are diminishing especially for those with just a Bachelors degree. Take some time to think it out and go with whatever option will make you happy.
/r/askTRP08/12/17 07:05 PM
2

I meet women everywhere, they are people just like you and me. Doing cold approaches is pretty rough at first but force yourself to do it and see what happens. The whole idea is to get over the mental hangup of going for it and seeing what happens. You will get rejected, get over it, it happens to everyone and really doesn't mean much once you put it into perspective.
/r/askTRP07/12/17 07:12 PM
2

You might want to actually talk to her first before fantasizing about plating her. If she is a HB9 and has social media she's probably got tons of orbiters, if you want her talk to her in person, don't make excuses.
/r/askTRP06/12/17 09:55 PM
4

I think it really depends on what city you're in and to some extent which bars/clubs you go to in that particular city. If you're in a larger city like NYC/LA I would say you have a better shot of running good night game given the right spot/logistics etc. From my experience if you want to get into the night life scene and successfully score women you better be at least in the top 10% of SMV at a given place. Nightlife game is brutal and if you're not in that 10% you're just wasting time and mon…
/r/askTRP04/12/17 07:45 PM
4

At that age having a "boyfriend" means nothing. Start approaching and expect to get rejected, it happens and the only way to get better is to learn from your own mistakes. Everyone gets rejected, once you remove your own ego out of it you'll see that it doesn't matter and you become outcome independent, which is a large part of confidence.
/r/askTRP30/11/17 07:13 PM
2

A lot of it is a witch hunt situation right now and I don't see how this will die down. The reality may be that this is the mentality we'll have to put up with going forward. Ultimately though, the common thread in all of this is that the men who are falling are the ones who fucked up by shitting where they eat. They used their professional influence/power as a bargaining chip with women and now they're getting screwed.
/r/askTRP29/11/17 06:40 PM
6

You need to go into monk mode and work on improving your SMV.
/r/askTRP28/11/17 05:03 AM
4

Sounds like a pretty half-baked idea tbh. If she's giving you signs of real interest why play games, just ask her to hang out and do what you want. The onus is on her to reject your advances.
/r/askTRP28/11/17 04:30 AM
5

So I guess she's plated you then, LOL. Seriously, sounds like you have a good thing going so don't fuck it up. I get that you want a LTR with this chick. The reality is that the closer you get to this chick you're going to find the flaws and at some point she's not going to be as attractive to you.
/r/askTRP28/11/17 04:25 AM
1

Nothing wrong with talking or not talking about your own feelings when it comes to someone close to you passing away. Everyone goes through the grieving process differently.
/r/askTRP28/11/17 01:34 AM
1

From my perspective both complement each other when it comes to practical application. A core idea of Stoicism is the idea of not letting other people's words and actions affect your emotions and/or actions. If you're able to "disconnect" yourself from other people in that way it makes implementing a Machiavellian strategies easier.
/r/askTRP28/11/17 01:10 AM
3

What do you want to do with your life instead? Given that your in an engineering program you've got the intelligence needed to succeed in anything you want, you just have to find out what that something is.
/r/askTRP28/11/17 12:28 AM
2

Take a cooking class, usually a lot a women at them and if nothing else you'll learn how to cook some good dishes for yourself.
/r/askTRP27/11/17 09:34 PM
2

Go to the gym and let that anger out by lifting heavy weights or get into a MMA or other fighting style gym. Try meditation to strengthen your mental frame, sounds like you need help on that front too. Women are the ones who whine, men who whine about everything are pussies.
/r/askTRP21/11/17 06:10 AM
1

If you're dead set on getting laid with women at your college you have to at least start approaching, A LOT. Most people at CC are just trying to get out so the social hierarchy that you would find at a University is absent, at least it was that way for me. My only question to OP is why are you limiting yourself to just chicks on campus?
/r/askTRP21/11/17 05:40 AM
3

Move on from the disappointment, you can't do anything about it now anyways. If you've adopted the right mindset and lifestyle finding hot chicks, even the college ones, shouldn't be a challenge. Good friend of mine is mid-30s and still pulling college ladies regularly. All that being said, own up to the fact that your experience in college was a product of your own making. Don't act like a victim, your post reads like it. FWIW, I transferred to a university after community college too and I had…
/r/askTRP21/11/17 12:53 AM
2

Means she felt awkward with you not leading the escalation forward towards sex. When a girl says she's waiting for "the right time" you're pretty much screwed, because "the right time" is never going to happen.
/r/askTRP17/11/17 07:14 AM
1

She's got you wrapped around her finger, at this point let her engage you and isolate and escalate from there if you can. Realistically, she's probably gonna keep you orbiting because you broke frame and she knows the allure of sex, especially as a virgin, is going to keep you in place more than usual.
/r/askTRP17/11/17 06:32 AM
5

Sounds like you basing your self-worth on what others think about you. You're going to meet people in life that don't like you no matter what, so be the best version of yourself and roll with that.
/r/askTRP17/11/17 06:24 AM
2

Sounds like a soft next situation to me. You've lost frame with her for sure, and you know it. This kinda stuff happens just move on and learn what you can. My advice is to just be more willing to escalate and get laid, once you break the seal you'll realize its not such a big deal.
/r/askTRP17/11/17 06:17 AM
6

Wrap it up unless you wanna pay for her next kid. If she does have a kid don't get involved with them at all, no exceptions.
/r/askTRP17/11/17 05:31 AM
9

Go out and focus on having fun for yourself first. If you get too hung up on getting laid you're probably not going to get any, at least in my experience. If you're having a good time that energy will show through and people will be more receptive to you.
/r/askTRP17/11/17 05:19 AM
2

Sounds like you have some residual oneitis going on along with being in the so-called "anger phase". It will pass, just keep doing what you're doing and don't let women get in the way of your goals. It takes time, but once you realize that women aren't the solution to your life/problems the world opens up and things become clear.
/r/askTRP15/11/17 04:14 AM
2

Don't mate guard, the same rules apply here too. If anything, act amused by the situation. Best case scenario you get wild kinky MFF action, worst case it leads nowhere and by holding your frame you end up looking better for it.
/r/askTRP14/11/17 03:45 AM
1

It used to affect my mindset in my early 20s but now it really doesn't matter. At the end of the day its all about frame and whether yours is strong enough to make stuff like this not matter. If anything it helps as you get older, you still look young with the added benefit of life experience/knowledge.
/r/askTRP14/11/17 03:27 AM
1

You have time to read 5+ hours a day and you can't find 1hr to do even basic lifting? Lifting gives you physical strength which ultimately transfers to mental strength as well.
/r/askTRP13/11/17 10:36 PM
3

Usually picking through your old garbage isn't a good practice. Not saying you did anything wrong but continuing on with her is only going to leave you open to drama and BS, not worth it to me but do your own thing.
/r/askTRP13/11/17 10:32 PM
9

People have to be willing to change themselves. If he's blissfully plugged in, leave him that way. The best thing you can do is be the best version of yourself and maybe he will notice your lifestyle and ask in the future.
/r/askTRP05/11/17 05:08 PM
2

Always ask for the number at the very least. Maybe they have a BF maybe not, doesn't really matter. Women give out their numbers like nothing, it doesn't guarantee anything beyond what it is.
/r/askTRP04/11/17 12:20 AM
1

Sometimes you can finger a chick too much, if she was already wet you gotta seize the moment and go for it. Get her to blow you, if she's not willing to help you get hard she's most likely selfish and not worth effort imo.
/r/askTRP04/11/17 12:12 AM
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I would reconsider that friendship, drunk or not there really is no excuse for punching someone in the face especially for some chick. FWIW, he most likely has anger/control issues not someone I would hang around if didn't have to.
/r/askTRP03/11/17 07:33 PM
1

Look up the DiCarlo escalation ladder, seriously. It makes the transition to sex easier and almost eliminates LMR. All that being said it wouldn't hurt to incorporating push pull a bit, you were on this chick the whole night, literally. Props for being aggressive but you gotta let them come to you a bit once you've established attraction.
/r/askTRP03/11/17 01:29 AM
1

I really believed she was the one for me. I had seriously fallen for this girl. She'd always tell me how much of a nice guy I am and how she loved spending time with me and how "I was hers" This is where you fucked up. Everything else TL;DR. Sidebar read it
/r/askTRP03/11/17 12:01 AM
1

Are you approaching and meeting new women daily? Are you escalating with ones that show interest? If your logistics are fucked, it can put a damper on those efforts for sure. Still not an excuse though, you can always go to their place to bang.
/r/askTRP02/11/17 11:54 PM
2

My advice is to stop reading and start approaching lots of women including her, you're going to get shot down A LOT but its the only way you'll figure out where you are in terms of strength/weaknesses.
/r/askTRP02/11/17 07:54 PM
5

You're too worried about losing this HB7, thats why you aren't escalating is my guess that or you just don't actually know how to escalate. If its the first issue my advice is to be more aggressive with touching her (i.e. grab their ass), in other words be bold and see how far you can go before they push back. You'll probably be surprised at how far you can escalate. If you legit don't know how to escalate look up the DiCarlo escalation ladder book, its really good at breaking down the process s…
/r/askTRP02/11/17 12:55 AM
6

If there is a catch I will say that they are often heavily influenced by their family when it comes to making decisions on LTRs. From my experience Chinese families usually prefer their offspring to be with Chinese, if your a white guy and your financially successful or otherwise have job prestige (i.e. doctor, lawyer) you can get a pass on that though.
/r/askTRP01/11/17 06:47 PM
1

As someone who has dealt and to a certain extent still dealing with this issue the best advice I can give is for him is to start lifting/working out if he isn't already. Once the muscle gains start becoming readily apparent you go from looking young in an unattractive way to young in an attractive way, if that makes any sense. Also, he needs to strengthen that mental frame of his, even when I was skinnier and had a baby face I could still pull chicks. When the shit-tests started I just agreed an…
/r/askTRP01/11/17 06:40 PM
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Most likely she's got other dudes smashing, I mean if raw was OK before but now all of a sudden its not...pretty suspicious imo. I would rethink the whole no condom thing with plates, thats playing with fire in a bad way.
/r/askTRP31/10/17 11:40 PM
3

For someone who is in total isolation I would suggest approaching in person, you probably have little social awareness/skills so its going to be tough at the outset. Just keep pushing yourself to go out anywhere and get comfortable with talking to people, men or women. Worry about getting laid once you've gotten more social skills.
/r/askTRP31/10/17 05:34 PM
3

Her interest in you showed up when she was buzzed/drunk so I'd take that into account. Hope you have other prospects lined up because there could be all kinds of drama awaiting you with her.
/r/askTRP31/10/17 08:22 AM
3

IMO, there shouldn't be a next time, as in hard next her.
/r/askTRP31/10/17 12:25 AM
1

Ask her out for something simple, i.e. coffee, anything really. If she says yes great, if not move on. Stop the mental masturbation.
/r/askTRP31/10/17 12:18 AM
5

She gets validation all while you think that you may actually score. You're being played man.
/r/askTRP31/10/17 12:11 AM
1

You acted like a bitch when you first met her, first impressions matter.
/r/askTRP30/10/17 11:30 PM
8

If you're hamstering this much about seeing this chick you might want to re-evaluate who is plating whom here.
/r/askTRP30/10/17 11:18 PM
3

You're getting weird vibes because she thinks you're a creep/weirdo and you're acting like one. Honestly from your post I would agree with her.
/r/askTRP30/10/17 11:15 PM
2

In these sorts of situations the best advice I can give is that you need to take an honest look at yourself and figure out how you got to this point, don't even worry about her. Might even be worth it to go monk mode for a bit too.
/r/askTRP30/10/17 10:53 PM
2

You didn't realize or didn't want to accept that she is a whore. Classic case of having oneitis in a bad way.
/r/askTRP30/10/17 10:20 PM
2

There really isn't an "end-goal" to TRP per se. Its just about seeing the truth in all things. The people who get the "break up with her/abundance" advice are the ones who either have oneitis or are in relationships that have red flags and haven't accepted it yet.
/r/askTRP30/10/17 10:15 PM
2

Do what you want but personally I'd avoid getting involved with women that I work with in ANY capacity. Don't shit where you eat. FWIW this whole thing sounds suspect (i.e. a setup).
/r/askTRP30/10/17 09:49 PM
2

A hard next is a total cutoff of any/all contact of any sort. A soft next is basically not reaching out to her anymore.
/r/askTRP27/10/17 01:07 AM
1

I think its an inherent attribute. Being more emotionally aware or otherwise connected at that level seems like an optimal trait for the gender that has been the primary care-giver of children throughout human history.
/r/askTRP27/10/17 01:03 AM
7

Nexting in any of its forms isn't about getting her back so the idea of any sort of "success rate" is illogical. Its more about moving on mentally to other new females. Read the sidebar.
/r/askTRP26/10/17 10:44 PM
1

Its not your problem, at all. If he's stupid enough to marry and knock up this slut, then so be it.
/r/askTRP26/10/17 09:26 PM
3

I don't necessarily see anything wrong with your life as you've described it. Btw, I'm a PhD student in biology myself so I understand where you're coming from career and life perspective. Anyways, I think the main reason why most men are here is that they have a fundamentally erroneous perception of women, and how they behave. This sub is mainly about contextualizing all of that and altering our behaviors and thought processes to better reflect that knowledge. From a bio standpoint, its evoluti…
/r/askTRP26/10/17 08:37 PM
1

Try listening to music or meditating
/r/askTRP26/10/17 08:09 PM
1

I've done this a few times and while its fun in the moment, it really isn't worth it in the end. OP, you're getting IOI's so your doing something right, apply it elsewhere and gain abundance.
/r/askTRP25/10/17 06:28 PM
1

People have the crabs in barrel mentality look it up. Does that mean im not gonna get that whole "im a fucking young buck in college banging a new campus slut every week with parties and booze and sex whore orgies" experience? No, it just means you need to focus on getting out of there. Myself included, most people I went to CC with were going to transfer to a university. Focus on goals that will lead you to whatever success you want in life.
/r/askTRP25/10/17 06:24 PM
1

Well to answer your question you should game chicks everywhere. Rejections don't matter, if people mock your attempts so be it, the reality is that they more than likely don't have the confidence to approach. All that being said I would strongly suggest staying focused on school. You're in community college, which in my experience, is basically an "adult waiting room", stay focused and get out with what you need and move on.
/r/askTRP25/10/17 05:56 PM
5

Sounds like you have a lot going on so my advice is to start organizing your time (i.e. get a schedule) outside of class and cut out any non-productive time wasting crap. Its easy to fall into bad habits and activities which often take more time up than you might think. Write out everything you would do on a typical weekday and go from there. There is more than enough time in a given day you just need to utilize it more efficiently.
/r/askTRP25/10/17 01:16 AM
13

First rule of being an orbiter is to not touch or otherwise physically escalate. Second rule; don't ask her out under any circumstances. You're lucky enough to bask in her presence. Any transgressions of these rules without profuse explanation or apologies will lead to immediate demotion from orbiter status to creep.
/r/askTRP24/10/17 09:57 PM
2

Nothing wrong with what you did there in my opinion. When she comes over, rinse and repeat.
/r/askTRP24/10/17 05:40 PM
3

Sounds like you need to be ready/willing to drop this chick. Shit tests aside, you've noticed her lack of affection/being distant which is a huge red-flag.
/r/askTRP24/10/17 12:46 AM
1

Why is the goal here to get shitfaced? I mean, I like alcohol and have done my share of partying for sure, but somewhere you got to have some self-control/moderation. If you don't its just gonna end with everyone puking/passing out and no one getting laid, not a good time.
/r/askTRP24/10/17 12:40 AM
3

She rejected you, plain and simple. Sounds like you were being needy or she only wants you around for validation.
/r/askTRP24/10/17 12:32 AM
2

Honestly, unless there are some major red-flags that I can pick up immediately her sexual past is something I don't care about. Besides, even if I asked I'm fairly certain I wouldn't get the whole truth anyways. I've always believed in the notion that if your wondering/worrying about her sexual past its just a mental cover-up for some other red flag(s) that your instincts are picking up on.
/r/askTRP24/10/17 12:21 AM
5

Rejection sucks but the more times you experience it you realize that it doesn't matter as much. You just need to toughen up mentally and keep approaching and be willing/ready to get rejected, it happens to everyone at some point. As far as texting goes, always logistics no other BS. Read up on the sidebar.
/r/askTRP23/10/17 05:46 PM
2

Bartender can be a great side job on nights/weekends. Obviously you'd have to work up to that position over time if your not in the industry already, but you can definitively make some good cash given the right bar.
/r/askTRP23/10/17 05:31 PM
1

Work on not being so worried about what people think about you. Nothing wrong with being introverted, you just need to know when to get out of your our head and just have fun and not worry.
/r/askTRP21/10/17 08:33 PM
3

Go out with her anyways, escalate and see what happens. If she's into you and you can escalate smoothly its going to happen regardless of what she says now. Game other chicks too so you're not stuck with no options.
/r/askTRP21/10/17 08:30 PM
4

You should've just ignored her texts if it was distracting you from what you were doing. You replying to her texts like that shows you fell into her frame. You're probably screwed with her, but your weak frame would've doomed you anyways.
/r/askTRP21/10/17 08:23 PM
4

Go play mini-golf, billiards, shuffle-board, these all give you easy opportunities for kino as well. If you wanna be outside more go to a park and do something like play frisbee.
/r/askTRP18/10/17 05:10 AM
14

FWIW, my college experience was worth it, pretty much mandatory given that I wanted to go into a STEM field. Lot of the other majors though probably are a waste of money/time especially if you're not gaining any transferable skills (i.e. gender studies etc).
/r/TheRedPill18/10/17 04:43 AM
1

Are you sure that going to med school is really what YOU want to do and not some expectation that your parents put on you? Several friends of mine in college got into this kinda situation so I've seen how that works out. All that being said, it sounds like you need to grow up and stop being a pussy. Take girls out and escalate with them and see where it goes, go find some sluts, some of them will probably get off on being your first.
/r/askTRP18/10/17 12:56 AM
1

Sounds like you did fine. I would have been the one to get the Uber if for no other reason than to get to her place and play the plausible deniability card and try escalating (i.e. "need to use your bathroom"). May not have helped, she may have actually had to be up for work either way. She's contacting you so there's interest on her end, just play silent and make her come to you at this point.
/r/askTRP17/10/17 08:49 PM
2

Biggest lesson to be learned here is to never discuss RP concepts with any women. As far as your LTR goes, keep track of this behavior, this is the kinda stuff that can lead to future drama/BS.
/r/askTRP17/10/17 07:37 PM
3

Take her out for something simple, go get ice cream or coffee. You have no idea if she's worth the time/effort/cash so make a minimal investment and find out.
/r/askTRP16/10/17 11:35 PM
6

What do you hope to accomplish in telling him? Ultimately, its not your problem. Don't create drama, thats what women do.
/r/askTRP16/10/17 11:29 PM
1

First of all, why are you picking through your best friend's trash? Seriously, it sounds like you've had plenty of chances to bang this chick and haven't capitalized on it. My advice is to cut your losses at this point and move on. If she's into you still she'll contact you and if not find other girls.
/r/askTRP16/10/17 05:39 PM
3

Sex and getting to it with someone new is always going to be a bit awkward. I think the way you can flip the script on this is to just embrace the awkwardness and push through it. At least in my experience, I enjoy that sexual tension, it makes the close all the more satisfying.
/r/askTRP16/10/17 05:29 PM
4

But since he wants to force her to move which i don't want to i Need to take some Action. Think about these words, if you can't see whats going on here I don't know what else say.
/r/askTRP15/10/17 02:15 AM
1

Welcome to the RP, it never promised to show you something you wanted to see, only the truth. My advice is to compartmentalize this situation and find some sort of fulfillment in your life. Gotta be able to look at yourself and figure out what YOU want out of life and go after it. Fucking hot chicks is fun but you can't live just for that in life.
/r/askTRP15/10/17 01:54 AM
1

Well then plate her and see what happens. You have standards and she's met them, thats a good thing and a reason to plate her. Just don't think that she's the only one who you'll ever meet that will meet those standards.
/r/askTRP15/10/17 01:47 AM
5

Reality check, you've got deep oneitis going on. You're trying to manipulate this chick (who probably isn't worth it, imo) and your using the "she'll be happier with me" excuse to justify your actions. Who cares if she ends up unhappy...thats HER problem not yours.
/r/askTRP15/10/17 01:33 AM
2

Well just remember she's never going to be yours its just your turn at the moment regardless of what she does. If she wants to be with you she will be regardless, don't weaken your frame by trying to manipulate her, it comes off as desperate.
/r/askTRP15/10/17 01:25 AM
1

You mentioned this chick is the "perfect one" for starters. You barely even know her and you've already got her on a goddess pedestal. She's just like any other woman, and as such, she should be an accessory to your life IF you choose her to be.
/r/askTRP15/10/17 01:15 AM
2

Personally I wouldn't invest much time in trying to control this bitch beyond just being the Chad to get laid. Its foolish to try to control someone, she's going to do whatever she wants regardless of what anyone wants her to do. Find other chicks too, nothing beats abundance.
/r/askTRP15/10/17 01:05 AM
2

For someone claiming to be RP you certainly have a lot of blue thinking in this post.
/r/askTRP15/10/17 12:20 AM
7

If your not banging either one of these chicks, whats the big deal?
/r/askTRP15/10/17 12:17 AM
0

By realizing its mostly BS stirred up by the media. All things being equal though this is an example of where being rich/famous has its downsides. You become an easy mark for whores looking for a payday.
/r/askTRP14/10/17 12:43 AM
6

Sounds like she just wanted dick and you happened to fill the need at the moment. I would just play silent with her at this point, if she was satisfied you can rest assured she'll make contact again at some point.
/r/askTRP14/10/17 12:32 AM
2

Life is often about timing, in this case you and your LTR are heading in opposite directions on the SMV scale. You can keep telling yourself that there's a way around that truth but reality will eventually set in. Your still relatively young so why get weighed down with an investment thats only going to lose value in the future.
/r/askTRP13/10/17 06:03 PM
1

You've been cut off or friend-zoned once it will happen again. Sounds like she's using the allure of sex to keep you around as an orbiter. I'd bail on situation.
/r/askTRP11/10/17 01:01 AM
1

Just say Hi to her and something about remembering seeing her in whatever class you two were in. If she responds positively ask her to go get coffee etc with you and ask for her number. You might as well go direct at this point.
/r/askTRP10/10/17 06:27 PM
2

Get more plates to spin. Doesn't matter if one breaks because they can be replaced.
/r/askTRP10/10/17 06:20 PM
11

I was going to suggest the old standby using the bathroom excuse but when you mentioned asking and getting approval from her...you were screwed from that point on.
/r/askTRP10/10/17 12:08 AM
1

So would your brain or nose get erect in this situation? OP, if it lasts longer than 4 hours you know what to do LOL.
/r/askTRP10/10/17 12:04 AM
2

I've got the same issues as you although I'm 29. You don't need to lift to get huge, just build some muscle tone so you don't look like a chemo patient. IMO, if you can run you can lift. As far as facial hair goes it may come in later for you, mine is just now coming in at my age so it could just be a genetic thing. As far as dealing with women goes, exploit your appearance and go for chicks who want the "young/cute" types, they are out there, trust me. I used to think looking young was a curse …
/r/askTRP09/10/17 11:58 PM
1

For future reference don't plan your time/activities around your plates. You go out somewhere you want to go and invite her along, if she flakes you still are doing what you want regardless of whether she shows up or not.
/r/askTRP07/10/17 11:00 PM
1

Well thats an easy problem to solve, start/continue improving yourself and work towards self-sufficiency. Like it or not, you have to be willing/able to be alone in the world because women, and people in general come and go all the time.
/r/askTRP07/10/17 01:14 AM
1

In theory yes. Unfortunately, I think its almost impossible to truly 100% not care about how we are perceived by others.
/r/askTRP07/10/17 01:10 AM
1

Pretty much that or just ignore any discussion about her going out to party.
/r/askTRP07/10/17 01:08 AM
3

Sounds like you're head is in the sand with this chick. She's gonna do whatever she wants esp. at that age and probably already has Chads lining up for a shot. The mistake you made is staying that invested in her when it went long distance, that shit never works.
/r/askTRP07/10/17 12:30 AM
2

Establish it by not giving a fuck about how YOU think they perceive you.
/r/askTRP07/10/17 12:24 AM
1

You already had a few good replies in you post. Have fun!
/r/askTRP07/10/17 12:22 AM
1

Sounds like you have a decent shot at being able to smash. I'd cancel going over to her place, put some level of doubt in her and let her hamster do some the convincing for you. If she likes you and has friends who tell her not to let you fuck her its highly likely that it will happen if you play it right.
/r/askTRP07/10/17 12:16 AM
1

Sounds like she was either attracted to you when you met in person or just playing bullshit games with you. Either way I'd write if off and forget her, not worth it unless you just wanna throw more gas on the fire for the hell of it.
/r/askTRP07/10/17 12:07 AM
5

You already answered your own question, you're desperate. Even worse is the fact that its over some chick you've never met in person. Start living life outside your computer, thats most likely your issue.
/r/askTRP06/10/17 06:10 PM
1

From your post you sound way too outcome dependent on this one situation. Flirt with her a bit next time you see her in person and see if there's any attraction. If not, use her to get good at chemistry and move on.
/r/askTRP06/10/17 06:02 PM
27

Your becoming an asshole, and not the endearing variety. Most of the stuff you described confronting wouldn't even register with me. If you wanna be a badass and get into fights everywhere, just remember there is always someone out there who can kick your ass.
/r/askTRP29/09/17 05:03 PM
2

Well if she is a legit head-case, or her parents are like nuts who keep her locked up, next her. If she's just nervous around you or whatever, try to get a feel for what things she enjoys and ask her out to do something where she would be more comfortable.
/r/askTRP27/09/17 08:33 PM
2

I play electric guitar, every once in a while I'll play with a old friend's band who needs a fill-in for a bar gig or something like that.
/r/askTRP27/09/17 08:29 PM
3

Ask her out, ASAP. You've established attraction and everything else needed so do it.
/r/askTRP27/09/17 07:55 PM
2

Take a shower with her first to hopefully remove any unseemly residue(s). My question to OP is why did she smear her poop on your wall, WTF?
/r/askTRP27/09/17 07:48 PM
1

Taking TRP is a tough road. You have to be completely honest with yourself and be dedicated/disciplined to getting your shit together. Lets face it, most people can't face up to their weaknesses much less be dedicated enough to enact something to fix it. I have a feeling its a generational thing, definitively seems like society as a whole has gotten mentally weaker compared to earlier generations.
/r/askTRP27/09/17 06:06 AM
3

Look up the DiCarlo escalation ladder, especially the ramp section since you should already have her isolated. Wear a rubber and learn how to put one on before seeing her. Don't put too much pressure on yourself, its most likely not going to be your best performance so just have fun with her body. The rest of it is up to you, women like being with a dominant male in bed so do what you want in terms of positions etc.
/r/askTRP27/09/17 05:57 AM
5

I'd soft next her to be honest. Sounds like she's going to bang him at some point so best to bail on the situation. I'd do the same thing with your friend too. Even if she was just a plate I would certainly have a problem with a friend wrecking that situation, thristy or not. No need to confront him or make any drama, just peace out of the situation and if he ever asks why you don't hang out anymore just mention this and leave it at that. If you can pull a HB9 once your doing something right and…
/r/askTRP27/09/17 05:45 AM
2

When it comes to girls, don't take things so seriously. Flirt with them, tease them, just have fun and escalate with ones that are receptive. Man, 90% of male/female dynamics in high school is drama and gossip so do what you want with who you want, no apologies. The more experience you get with managing women before college, the better.
/r/askTRP27/09/17 04:34 AM
1

People generally like talking to bartenders, you get all kinds of confessions and other disclosures if you ask about how someone's doing and continue to ask follow-up questions. Its basically a free pass to open anyone really. Women love getting hit on by bartenders, especially if their in a group (validation) and it generally always works in your favor, they either leave a big tip or order more booze to boost your sales. The rest of it is just running game as usual. The great thing about it is …
/r/askTRP27/09/17 04:20 AM
12

This sounds like some weak beta narcissist jerk off story. WTF is the point of any of this, and why is it here?
/r/TheRedPill27/09/17 03:56 AM
2

Yes, I've gotten laid as a result of meeting women during my job. The main thing there is to not be that bartender who spends all night flirting with women instead of doing the job, usually that guy is the first to go ASAP. I got my hourly wages as a paycheck, but the real money, aka tips, were always in cash.
/r/askTRP27/09/17 03:36 AM
1

A few lines I've used to get past this are; "I don't kiss and tell." "There are so many its hard to remember them all." "I'm not about the past, thats history, I like to focus on the present." The main thing with all of these lines like most things is how they're delivered and you holding frame i.e. not telling her anything no matter how many times she asks. If she keeps nagging you about it to no end, soft next.
/r/askTRP27/09/17 01:37 AM
2

If this was a first date I would say it went pretty well. I would've kept the lack of a relationship history quiet, you gain more in the long run by letting her fantasize about you that way. It sounds like she's into you so the ball is in her court and your doing the right thing with the soft next.
/r/askTRP27/09/17 01:16 AM
2

Well it sounds like your going in the right direction, generally. I would just say from your post it sounds like you need to get out of your head a bit and stop overthinking this stuff. You don't need to be the guy who is super controlling and trying to be "alpha" in every fucking situation, it makes you look insecure. If you manage to go out focus on having fun with her and flirt/kino, escalate if all signs are good. Finally, get some other chicks on deck if this one flakes, your being way too …
/r/askTRP27/09/17 01:06 AM
1

If/when your over 21 think about working in bar if thats your kind of thing. You'll probably start as a bar-back doing a lot of grunt work but if your at the right place you can work up to being a bartender. Added benefits include learning to make all kinds of drinks/shots and meeting chicks during your job. I tended bar during a few summers with a friend of mine in my last year of college and it was a good time.
/r/askTRP26/09/17 09:30 PM
2

I've used it in the past to supplement in person approaching when my schedule got to busy. My opinion on any of these hookup apps is that they're mostly a waste of time. You still have to game her in person and I'd rather approach in person and get a read on her that way. All that being said I've had two good lays that turned into plates from Tinder so its not a total lost cause, just too much time with not enough payback.
/r/askTRP26/09/17 09:21 PM
2

Without seeing these approaches or getting more details; my guess is that your not creating a lasting impression of yourself with the girls who give you their number. You're just another guy who gave them validation and thats it, women give their number out or a fake one all the time. This could be your game being weak and/or you just lack SMV. Don't be afraid to challenge these bitches, call them out on something they're wearing with a big grin on your face etc, anything within reason to get so…
/r/askTRP23/09/17 12:30 AM
3

Its called stage fright. There's not a lot you can do about it except to keep getting in front of people and performing. A piece of advice I can give is to slowly ramp up the crowd number i.e. try performing in front of 50-100 until you feel comfortable and go from there. Think about how many clubs/bars that the big name comedians have performed at, thats hundreds of hours on stage over many years, it takes time to get comfortable up there.
/r/askTRP22/09/17 09:51 PM
19

Relatively speaking 6-6.5 isn't exactly in a position to get a high SMV male. Obviously attraction factors in this, as well as if the guy has money(they usually do). Some girls also just get pleasure/ego validation in taking on "project guys," ones they can manipulate to their whims, most higher SMV guys aren't going to go along with that program.
/r/askTRP22/09/17 07:02 PM
0

See if she's game, expand the horizon of possibilities...LOL
/r/askTRP22/09/17 06:19 AM
4

Just speaking from experience, I said the same thing and she was able to call my bluff at some point after we got naked. Don't sweat it, just go with it and it'll work out.
/r/askTRP22/09/17 04:27 AM
6

Look up the DiCarlo escalation ladder if you need actual ideas on how to kino and physically escalate. She's coming to your place for a movie so she's already attracted to you so assume the sale and relax as much as possible. At some point its going to be obvious its your first time so if she mentions it don't get defensive or weird about it, just remain cool and keep going.
/r/askTRP22/09/17 04:12 AM
9

Thats why you plan a date around something/somewhere you would go anyways. If she flakes, go anyways and have a good time.
/r/askTRP22/09/17 03:01 AM
13

She is on the cock carousel and you happened to get a turn, thats about it. All that being said you made a few mistakes that you should learn from. You became needy with her. I get it, she was your first and that happens (FWIW, happened to me too). She moved on, so should you unless she reaches out to you. Don't shit where you eat. Don't hookup with chicks from work, it just makes things awkward for both parties. It being your first time it was probably a crappy experience for her making the sit…
/r/askTRP22/09/17 02:58 AM
6

Stop being so emotional about your bro and let him do whatever he wants. If its more convenient for his job and he gets to bang her(?) why wouldn't he stay at her place.
/r/askTRP22/09/17 12:21 AM
1

I'd stay in the business, you've already got it off the ground and are making money so why mess that up. Your Dad already put himself out there to give you some start up clients (at his expense) so run with it, your in a good position to be making a profit and clearing debts this early on.
/r/askTRP21/09/17 09:55 PM
12

Pee on her, seems to be popular on this sub
/r/askTRP21/09/17 09:31 PM
3

As far as flaking goes, setup dates in places you would actually go to on your own. For example, I setup a date with a girl at a driving range (she supposedly wants to learn to play golf) last weekend, she flaked but I was going to go there anyways so my time wasn't wasted. If they flake you haven't wasted time.
/r/askTRP21/09/17 09:13 PM
19

Pro tip- you clean the cum off her face using your piss.
/r/askTRP21/09/17 09:04 PM
0

Just introduce yourself and talk to these girls and see where it goes. Keep pushing/escalating and see where it goes, worst case being nowhere. Honestly, in college no one gives a shit about this kinda stuff and the only people who would give you a hard time about it are people who aren't getting laid.
/r/askTRP21/09/17 07:25 PM
1

Sounds like a no-win situation regardless of what you end up doing. If you resume smashing you may get stabbed. Ignore and you may get stabbed at school. She sounds highly unstable, I'd bail and hope that my shit doesn't get messed up.
/r/askTRP21/09/17 07:21 PM
1

So your willing to throw 5 years of work away with this company to nail some chicks? Man, if you're that stupid IDK what else to say.
/r/askTRP21/09/17 05:13 PM
1

I was in community college at one time and its pretty bleak in terms of prospecting for girls. Not saying its impossible, but most people there have jobs in addition to school so the campus isn't exactly a conducive environment. If you have a social circle use it and hang out with people outside of campus.
/r/askTRP21/09/17 04:57 PM
1

I drink a cup of coffee in the morning before work, never really drink coffee during the weekend. If your feeling like crap without it your probably somewhat addicted. Keep it limited to a cup a day and you should be fine.
/r/askTRP21/09/17 04:48 PM
8

If it was me in your spot I'd just do a hard next. There's nothing to gain from confrontation, you already know the whole story and she has a track record of lying to you and nothing is going to change. Keep her as plate if you want but be warned that more drama and BS is in store for you.
/r/askTRP21/09/17 06:24 AM
3

Think about balance. Working out at the gym and your career are going to take time but you also have to make time for putting yourself out there and getting feedback on where you need to improve. Think of it as a cycle of going out for success/failure followed by self-evaluation and then improvement.
/r/askTRP21/09/17 05:45 AM
1

Go after what you want unapologetically, you got the world in front of you at that age. Don't get involved in a LTR, its not worth the time and there are too many girls out there looking for a good time. You'll eventually experiment with drugs and alcohol so just be smart about it and don't put yourself in a compromising situation.
/r/askTRP21/09/17 05:32 AM
2

Props to him for being a tool and being unapologetic about it but I don't see how thats really gonna work if this dialogue is not said with obvious sarcasm (i.e. amused mastery). No one likes be told they are inferior, its just an asshole move.
/r/askTRP21/09/17 05:26 AM
1

Don't take high school so seriously on the social front. If you want to go after chicks at school simply say hi or introduce yourself and engage with them (i.e. ask what classes their in, what kinda music they like, anything really). If you can be laid-back and engage with girls in a non-creepy/autistic manner you'll be in good shape. Now's the time to experiment with approaching and getting a feel for what works for you. Social proofs, like being on an athletic team really mean a lot in HS and …
/r/askTRP21/09/17 05:15 AM
3

Do what you think is best. If it were me I'd dump her, no telling what kinda disease(s) and baggage she's carrying. If you're thinking of keep her, do heavy dread game and use her for sexual stuff your other plates aren't going to do.
/r/askTRP20/09/17 11:11 PM
5

You pretty much fucked this up in every way possible (quite impressively too). Focus on yourself a bit and next her, you need to work on your frame and more based on your situation.
/r/askTRP20/09/17 07:17 PM
2

At times you can score points by interspersing some "emotional vulnerability" with women especially if your in a LTR with them. If the chick is a plate or FWB its probably better to stay distant and keep them chasing you. FWIW, I've kept chicks with daddy issues and other emotional baggage distant. They've got enough crap in their head and me unloading my crap is just going to turn them off.
/r/askTRP20/09/17 07:12 PM
1

First question; no its not too bold, possibly omit saying anything about wine, just mention drinks at your place and when to come over. Second question; Maybe she is a virgin, you're there in person so its on you to read her and this situation. If she is a virgin, your gonna have to dig into some foreplay to get her going and wanting it, the rest should fall in line from there. Also, IMO you didn't "hook up" with the second girl until you've actually had sex. Cuddling virginity...what middle sch…
/r/askTRP19/09/17 10:10 PM
2

Your instinct is telling you something, listen to it and go from there. IMO, keep her as a plate and work on spinning new ones at your college. College is probably the easiest environment to get started with plates, take advantage of it.
/r/askTRP19/09/17 03:10 PM
1

Don't be a gossip, thats what women do. If this guy is a problem, don't hang around him anymore and cut him out of your social circle.
/r/askTRP19/09/17 02:58 PM
5

The fact that your not implementing RP concepts actively is going to hold you back more than bad eyesight or having to wear glasses.
/r/askTRP19/09/17 02:54 PM
1

In your situation I'd be radio silent for at least a week or so. You've spent significant time with this chick practically 2 days in a row, let the situation work itself out on her end. It sounds like your in good shape though, you just need to let her hamster do the rest work for you.
/r/askTRP18/09/17 11:59 PM
0

Reality check man; if she wants to be with you then why is she off with her ex right now (probably banging him too btw). If she's into you she'll do anything to be with you. Your buying into her words and not her actions which clearly indicate that she's not into you. You clearly have oneitis, you've admitted that she isn't LTR material and yet your emotional about not having her right now. Work/focus on yourself, spin more plates and move on, abundance is the key here.
/r/askTRP18/09/17 11:52 PM
1

You have a case of the dreaded "oneitis". You need to acknowledge the reality of her never being "yours" and that its merely your turn.
/r/askTRP18/09/17 10:20 PM
2

Welcome to the world of going out with a stunning woman. Its gonna happen no matter what and you gotta keep your frame together and not give a fuck at all times. Since the German guy wanted to buy you both drinks an easier way to make that situation advantageous is tell him whatever drinks you wanted and let him go fetch them and bring them back to you himself.
/r/askTRP17/09/17 01:38 AM
1

Its happened to me a lot, more often when I was in my early 20s. Ultimately sex is about your pleasure and using her to please yourself, if she's into you additional rounds shouldn't be a big issue. As long as you're laying it good they won't complain.
/r/askTRP17/09/17 01:16 AM
2

Maybe the spark was just lost on her end, she was into you right then and there and since you didn't escalate further it died out.
/r/askTRP17/09/17 01:10 AM
7

The only thing holding you back from adopting this lifestyle is your own mind. Get out of your head for once and stop making excuses for not making changes to benefit your overall lifestyle.
/r/askTRP14/09/17 07:15 PM
1

Women are overgrown children and the ones your describing are no different. The only logical response is to ignore all of it and don't get hung up in the BS. Bail on the situation and find new roommates if it becomes untenable.
/r/askTRP14/09/17 07:05 PM
3

Having been with a few Italian women I can tell you that their "flirty/friendly"-ness is part of their culture. Having said all that, women will throw you in the friendzone quickly if you screw around and not make your intentions known(esp. Italian ones). If you've already spent that much time together and you haven't escalated or made any moves you might be screwed. Try escalating next time you see her, she's giving you a hint about the BF being away.
/r/askTRP14/09/17 06:52 PM
1

Props for approaching her and trying something. As far as her question goes, if your feeling real cocky say something like: "Yeah, I'm THAT guy in your dreams"(smirk). Its worked for me when I've approached obviously higher SMV chicks and if anything it loosens up their bitch shield long enough to let your wit/banter take over.
/r/askTRP12/09/17 11:49 PM
2

If she wants you she'll find a way, family or not. The only thing I can think of is that she may try to offer another arrangement for the encounter. Hold frame, and either go silent or offer another time that works for you. You got another plate in the oven so no big deal.
/r/askTRP12/09/17 06:20 AM
3

She swung branches and now she has regrets, its only a matter of time until she bails on you too. Start looking for new plates and demote her to plate status or just next her.
/r/askTRP12/09/17 04:54 AM
3

Go for the easy kill imo. When your a virgin you naturally have pussy on the highest of pedestals and you need to dump that mentality asap.
/r/askTRP12/09/17 04:49 AM
1

Maybe she's just crazy, not like that hasn't happened before. Have you tried to escalate or flirt with her?
/r/askTRP12/09/17 04:46 AM
3

Got the exact same dick as you OP and I've only had negative experiences with women when I've worried about it. The only thing holding you back from actualizing TRP is yourself, and honestly from your post it seems like your looking to validate yourself (and/or your dick) via women's approval. Thats never going to work. If anything work on attracting and fucking actual women, thats your REAL problem and your projecting this dick size stuff over it to cover up.
/r/askTRP12/09/17 04:27 AM
1

How do you REALLY know if she's banged all these guy friends of hers. She not likely to tell you the truth, and none of these guys are obligated to tell you anything. The real question here is why do you care? If she's a real hot girl these guy friends are called orbiters, guys who want to fuck her but are stuck in the friendzone due to their relative low SMV and/or lack of game. They serve only as validation of her own SMV. Women don't like each other at a base level, every woman is competing a…
/r/askTRP06/09/17 09:00 AM
2

Maybe the dude she ended up with was a Chad thats been plowing her previously. Either way she sounds like a trashy slut so I wouldn't worry too much about it, sounds like if you hang around with her circle long enough you'll get a turn anyways. As far as dealing with mate-guarding behaviour, just shrug it off and move on. I've been involved in a physical confrontation stemming from a woman and I can tell you that its not worth it.
/r/askTRP05/09/17 08:29 AM
2

Sounds like you need to be doing more exciting things in your own life to fill in that void. Find hobbies or other stuff in your life that makes you feel alive again and pursue it. Women are supposed to be "extras" in life not the main course.
/r/askTRP05/09/17 08:07 AM
1

Sounds like your instinct is telling you something and your not listening. I'd figure out an exit strategy because its only going to get worse from here. If your not sexually attracted to a chick anymore due to whatever cause, the relationship is only going downhill.
/r/askTRP05/09/17 07:50 AM
2

I've been there myself in past so I can relate to your situation. All I can say is that its a waste of time to try and game a chick that has seen you in beta form previously. Get new pussy, maintain frame from the start and move ahead.
/r/askTRP02/09/17 11:13 PM
2

That doesn't change anything, she's already shown her real colors and clearly didn't have your back when you were in a bad spot.
/r/askTRP02/09/17 11:06 PM
5

She's being a bitch, your family always comes first. If this chick can't understand that concept then she isn't worth the time for a LTR. Sorry about your mom too btw, always remember people show their true colors when shit hits the fan.
/r/askTRP02/09/17 09:59 PM
6

Sounds like she already has a Chad giving her cock. She's just fucking around with you for attention/her ego. Nothing in your post indicates that she's really got any interest in you.
/r/askTRP02/09/17 09:55 PM
2

Don't shit where you eat. Being in grad school is practically the same thing as a job and you should really think twice about hooking up with another grad student. The fact that she has a LTR bf and is willing to fuck around on him is a huge red flag. Not worth getting your reputation in school fucked for her. As far as avoiding drama its all about maintaining your frame with abundance of other options. If a plate is giving you shit, next them and replace as needed.
/r/askTRP02/09/17 09:37 PM
2

Doesn't matter, all she knows is she asked you to hang out and you showed up (falling into her frame).
/r/askTRP01/09/17 11:26 PM
9

In hindsight you should have spaced the 2nd and 3rd dates apart, seeing her the next day after getting almost blown and falling into her frame by going with it reeks of thrist. She knows your hers now and its going to be one long string-along with nothing at the end.
/r/askTRP01/09/17 08:46 PM
6

Focus on yourself first and always really. Read the sidebar stuff and internalize it over time. Your at rock bottom right now, your getting a bunch of BS from a slutty fat 4, just being brutally honest here. The fact that your learning about TRP is great but until you start making real improvements it amounts to squat.
/r/askTRP01/09/17 07:05 PM
5

If your not phased by her beauty then why haven't you escalated and smashed her yet? Seriously, she's begging you to make a move and if you keep acting too cool about it she's gonna assume your not interested and move on.
/r/askTRP01/09/17 06:55 PM
4

Her past behavior is a red flag. Her n-count is probably much higher and she's giving you trickle-truth. She says some guy (read: beta) who saved her from being a whore...reality is she found a Chad who was better and probably fucked him on the side before bailing. Truth hits and Chad isn't such a good catch and she meets you, a possible new victim. Sounds like she knows the impending wall is coming up and is desperate to find a long-term provider. She's trying to tell you she's not a whore, but…
/r/askTRP01/09/17 05:57 PM
1

If your approaching and putting your interest out there you've already put yourself in a good spot. You not closing sounds like the conversation post-opening is going south and thats why you aren't getting better results.
/r/askTRP01/09/17 05:31 AM
1

Keep lifting and improving yourself relentlessly. Consider joining clubs or other social type groups. Don't confine yourself to the chicks in your hall too, its a college and there's bound to be more hotties around so keep expanding your social network throughout college. The other thing I will suggest is to make some investment in your clothing, most guys dress like slobs in college and if you have some style it will help you stand out from the masses. If nothing else just find casual clothes t…
/r/askTRP01/09/17 05:20 AM
3

Second what everyone's said thus far. Just invite chicks to your room for whatever (btw, if you play guitar your setup to slay), if their interested they'll follow and if you have even a shred of game you will get laid, just relax and escalate. Don't worry too much about first lay or any of that sentimental shit, the reality is that these chicks are probably just as nervous as you are. Everything else you need is in the sidebar...
/r/askTRP01/09/17 04:48 AM
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Listen to your gut instinct on this, if she flirts with other guys and even kisses them when drunk she has no respect for you. She's only being nice with you until she finds someone better and you'll be gone quick. Consider this a GTFO card, play it and be gone
/r/askTRP01/09/17 02:37 AM
2

I wouldn't overthink it, either keep spinning both if its worth it to you, or dump them. Excuses are like assholes, everyone's got one and they're usually full of shit. Sounds like both have new Chads...
/r/askTRP01/09/17 12:57 AM
1

I think in the right situation it can be a rewarding experience. Its basically a roll of the dice as to what kind of kid you end up with, they could turn out great or be disasters and none of that is completely in your control.
/r/askTRP01/09/17 12:19 AM
2

Sounds like you did a good job until you and her got naked together on the second date. She was looking for you to take the lead as the sexual aggressor post HJ and you didn't seize the moment (at least thats how I'm reading it). At this point hit her up for another date when and if you want to. Just don't be surprised if you hit another LMR wall, you've already demonstrated your willingness to listen to her problems without any sex.
/r/askTRP31/08/17 11:55 PM
1

Currently in my 5th year of grad school in Biology here. As far as balancing stuff you just have to try your best to put boundaries on school and think of it as a 9-5 type job. If your in a research oriented field I would also suggest really focusing on planning your research tasks out, it can really help in working efficiently so that you can minimize working late nights/long hours. I will say that it will take at least a year or two to figure this out for yourself, it took me a while until I f…
/r/askTRP31/08/17 02:36 AM
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