A bit stuck in my head could use a good advice for this one.
I hooked up with a girl on my birthday, I met her a day before through a mutual friend and she gave me a alot of iois. Mind you we didn't go all the way as she was putting too much lmr and she is pretty young. I guess in second thought I could've dealt with it better.
A day later she messages me I text her back and try to set up a casual meeting that night but she said she is "too tired" and she has work tommorow.
Same deal for monday evening (like 2 days after). I tried setting it up and was met with a bs answer fight with the parents or smt. This time I pushed until she said we could meet friday. She said week days are no good for her. I teased her bout never talking to her on week days again, and that is it.
So my friends, how would you take it from here ?
Should I check up on her on friday to see if we are on? Should I just ghost her a bit just to get my frame back? Kinda stuck in between right now.
Some notes : The girl showed some red flags, she has a bit of crazy but crazy girls give good sex so ill give it a shot.
I was being a bit pushy both times cuz it is my personality to some extent.
I am already aware of my bads here no need to point out too much. I acted too quickly, broke some frame with the neediness, and probably should've dealt with lmr better. Plus I probably should've just ask her when is a good time for her to meet.
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