First of all, throwaway account. Stumbled across TRP the other day and have been reading a bit. Wanted to get your thoughts because I'm still confused about what TRP is telling me I should be doing. I am a 32 year old white male with a five year old child from a past relationship. I love my child. I know it's not for everyone, but I love having kids and I want more. I would consider myself a dominant, but never really thought about alpha/beta. I am relatively succesful at work, make enough money to enjoy life, but not a millionaire by any means. About a year ago I met my LTR. She is 7 years younger, no kids, but takes absolutely amazing care of my child when we have her. She works a full time job. We moved in together. She had some submissive tendancies but I trained her to completely submit to me inside/outside the bedroom. She takes good care of me. She does all the cleaning, is learning to cook, waits on my hand and foot. And does all the typical mom stuff she should with my child. She is a better mom to her than her actual mom despite having no kids of her own, although she wants kids. She knows she needs my permission to do anything and openly admits that I am in charge of our family, and she loves and thrives on the type of relationship we have. But everything I'm reading here is selling me I shouldn't be with her, should break up with her and I should just be out fucking different girls? if that is the case then What is the end goal? I am really lost. Thanks.