So I made a post about a week ago about my LTR and since then its gotten worse. Over the weekend on Saturday night we were texting and gave me a pretty overt shit test from my perspective. A day before this I told her about how I smoked weed with my friend.
Her: "I didn't know you were a regular smoker."
(This is a loaded statement because this is only my third time over the course of 2 years that I've smoked. She's known me for over a year now and she knows I'm not a regular smoker.)
Me: "yeah I light up 8 days a week"
Her: "I have to admit, I'm not really into smokers"
Me: "sucks for you"
I realise now that my reply might be taken as a little over reactionary but I was pretty annoyed by her reply and buzzed from alcohol at the time and didn't think too much of it. But in any case I haven't heard from her since (Monday night now). I'm just highly confused above all else. I do like her and would like to keep this relationship alive but am in doubt at this point.
In addition to this little incident I've noticed that over the course of the last couple months she's grown really distant, gradually texting me less and less and just a gradual loss of affection or something has happened. And the last time I was with her I could tell her body language was terrible towards me.
I plan on not contacting her until she initiates again and then bringing this up with her. Maybe asking why she's been acting like this lately. But any additional advice would be great as I am honestly just hella confused
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