so I'm very confused by something. I applied so much dread to someone that in between I had like a different girlfriend, now that someone is my girlfriend or I guess plate based on how we defined the relationship. so this onboarding took literally months.

how long do you take onboarding plates? are your plates people you're fucking after the first few times you hang out or can it be someone you're around for months/years?

what's the plate timing here?