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OP, it seems you are really against the sensation of condoms. Did you ever try a very thin one? Maybe a thin one (might be marketed as sensuous or extra feeling) will work well for you. If she'll have sex without a condom with you, she'd have sex without a condom with someone else. The girl who doesn't want to go unprotected is safer for you. Source: couple years reading trp, common sense.
/r/askTRP10/06/20 02:21 AM
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what do you mean?
/r/askTRP13/01/20 08:16 PM
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Tinder doesn't let you talk to people until you both match, so it is not the same. However, imagine if you could only swipe 1 time every 45 minutes (regardless of whether you will match or not). So if you use Tinder for 3 hours you only get to swipe right 4 times, because each one takes you 45 minutes. Do you think you would have anyone from Tinder if you could only swipe a single time every 45 minutes? To me, that is what investing in girls who aren't interested would be equivalent to - getting…
/r/TheRedPill13/01/20 08:15 PM
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you didn't answer the question: how long ago, in days/months, was your last one? How did you meet? When was the last time you put your dick inside that pussy? I don't mean to be a dick - I'm still learning. Regardless of your answer, it will be interesting and useful! go ahead.
/r/TheRedPill13/01/20 04:51 AM
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Do you get laid - when was the last time you put your dick in pussy? Give an honest exact time such as (my guess) - 7 months ago. How did you meet the person you last put your dick inside of? As for your claim: I don't think 30 sentences is too much. Especially not if you count every single person, man or woman, that you say a single word to. (Opening a man counts as opening, too, because it's social proof and he might have girls with him.) All that said, I'm not an expert, just been reading TRP…
/r/TheRedPill13/01/20 03:22 AM
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Another important thing is that people say "assume attraction". but that means assume attraction for the 3 minutes (or whatever). It doesn't mean "assume attraction" when you're getting a firm no, when she's crossing her arms and turning away and talking to her friends, when she's leaving your messages on "read" or maybe declines your date invites. It means assume attraction 31 times, so that you can get to girl #31. Otherwise you'd still be there assuming attraction with girl #1, so deep in the…
/r/TheRedPill13/01/20 02:38 AM
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see my other comment, but you're missing: hobbies.
/r/askTRP13/01/20 02:02 AM
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(source: I've been reading TRP for a couple of years, not an expert) your answer shouldn't be "why" but "how". Those men didn't pick her up while competing with you as you went out with your homies. Ask any of them how they met their partner. (I think the answer will be social, or through some hobby etc.) I could be wrong though and maybe they went out the same way you do. On the whole I doubt it. Think about this: do the girls you've grown up with who turned into dimes actually even go out on t…
/r/askTRP13/01/20 01:57 AM
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Take "after" pictures and show us the results :) Lots of people might agree with your decision, could be good for TRP science.
/r/askTRP11/01/20 08:15 AM
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I've been reading and implementing TRP for a couple of years, and I think your beach example is wrong: I bet some women would go stand next to him or even go up and start shit testing him, which is the woman's equivalent. If you put a 5/10 guy with "perfect game" on a beach with a sign that says "free sex", and he has positive energy, talks to every girl who comes within earshot, flips the script, example: Girl: "did you lose a bet?" Guy: "don't you have somewhere better to be than talking with …
/r/askTRP11/01/20 07:24 AM
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Are you answering for you or OP (who's now gone.) If you're saying OP's height, where did you get that?
/r/askTRP25/12/19 10:01 PM
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How tall are you?
/r/askTRP25/12/19 02:13 AM
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we'll see what he answers :).
/r/askTRP24/12/19 09:18 PM
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You are right that according to red pill general teachings what you've described doesn't work - you have to be a challenge to them and tease them from the onset. Therefore since you say: "Usually fuck on first date if not second" I have these theories: Maybe you are getting with 5's and 6's, very fat women or women over 45? If not then Are you like 6'3"? (191 cm)? either of these would explain what you experience. Could you elaborate? source: been reading TRP for a couple of years.
/r/askTRP24/12/19 09:11 PM
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I thought this was going to be an interesting post because I saw "10%", like is it true someone can be fit as fuck but a small facial deformity causes a lack of success? But unfortunately the 10% wasn't about your bodyfat percentage! It was your earnings. In my opinion women don't need to know your earnings - just that you can take care of your basic needs. (Don't live in your mom's basement.) Are you trying to attract golddiggers? So since they shouldn't know what you make, the 10% earnings is …
/r/askTRP22/12/19 06:13 PM
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Thanks for the explanation. (While I agree with your lasr point, I think an indirect opening is important.)
/r/askTRP19/12/19 07:00 PM
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red pill texting is always about logistics so take 15 seconds to write her some logistics. she'll reply "oh no I can't I have blah blah blah" and then whatever bullshti she gives just leave it on read or if she doesn't respond also just leave it on read. you're soft nexting. if she wants to she'll write you in the future otherwise that's it. you've done your part. soft next and don't think about her anymore. Every moment you spend on her - including every single moment you spent submitting your …
/r/askTRP18/12/19 02:07 AM
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FLT tells what's that short for? (I checked urban dictionary couldn't find it.)
/r/askTRP12/12/19 01:54 PM
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this thread is hilarious. Read the other guy's post (just like he wrote it) in a sulky angry tone: "They are not even desserts. Desserts don't cheat on you and make emotional drama." so funny.
/r/TheRedPill08/12/19 07:32 PM
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At an art exhibit you are unlikely to find a count under 5, but at a farmer's market or book shop (the other person's example) probably half of the women 18-24 year olds have a count under 5. The ones who come over to you and open you have 15+ counts. The ones who are shy and who you have to open and do the up front work with might even be virgins. The percent of 20-24 year old female virgins in the united states who are virgins is 12.3% ("The CDC also reports that virgins make up 12.3 percent o…
/r/askTRP08/12/19 02:01 PM
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There is a specific difference, OP. Let's take your fair example. You go to a fair and talk to everyone you find attractive. What is the sample you are dealing with: girls who are at the fair, who you found attractive, and who you opened. Tinder is different: your sample is girls who are on Tinder, who matched you, AND who actually meet up with someone from Tinder. These two sampling methods are radically different. The second one vastly inflates the presence of girls who meet up with and fuck a…
/r/askTRP08/12/19 01:42 PM
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“why are you in an LTR, all women cheat; just plate” Valid question actually. However if you have vetted someone for 6 months to a year first, you should know her personality enough to "kinda-trust" her. I say kinda-trust because I still expect her to cheat lmao. I'll just be caught by surprise when she does.
/r/askTRP05/12/19 08:18 AM
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guess we're not going to agree. I just assume any girl I'm with will cheat and I don't waste a second checking up on what she's doing. there's always more girls out there.
/r/askTRP04/12/19 01:32 AM
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hey I could be wrong but this is what I think: She wouldn’t give a Fuck about going through your phone. sure she would. I don't think I've dated or slept with a single girl who would go all through my phone wtf. my point wasn't a moral one: if you think the best use of your time is tailing your belle with a pair of binoculars - or the digital equivalent - then I can see why anyone would leave you. what girl has time for a guy who has and makes the time to do that? trash, that's who. I wouldn't d…
/r/askTRP03/12/19 11:50 PM
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Going further, I heard it's best to tease about the thing they're strongest in, absolutely rock-solid. (Basically you are the one shit testing them, and they get a high passing your shit tests. It's fun.) So you need to see what they're good at and confident in: then tease them about it. Source: been reading here for a couple of years.
/r/askTRP01/12/19 07:34 AM
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Awesome, thanks.
/r/askTRP01/12/19 04:52 AM
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Congrats. How long did that take?
/r/askTRP28/11/19 04:52 AM
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how much gum did you chew?? millions of people chew without anyone mentioning such effects and gum packaging says it's good for teeth (and sugar free). there's a dentist in this thread who just mentioned that it doesn't have any effect (positive or negative). no offense but what makes you so sure it was the gum and not some other aspect of your dental care or diet etc? (maybe you also ate something else, which was bad for your teeth.) I'd never heard this before.
/r/askTRP27/11/19 03:28 PM
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all right, but what about when it I'm bulking?
/r/askTRP27/11/19 04:53 AM
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I started watching a video and the movement itself (at the root of my tongue, making an ng sound) makes a clear difference I can see. (My whole neck moves up). So maybe I will just use this position as a trick to look pretty in photographs or something. If it really does have a cult and all these inflated claims around it, perhaps it isn't worth spending much time on. Dropping bodyfat gives a nice reward too. (As you mentioned at the end of your prev comment).
/r/askTRP27/11/19 01:14 AM
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(My second reply, after I started looking into it.) This technique is becoming very popular. I didn't find that models do it, but it has a fervent following. A little bit too fervent. This gives me pause: But his outspoken attitude has come at a price. In November 2018, the younger Mew claimed to have been expelled from the British Orthodontic Society because of his fervent posts. He said the board claimed his “social media statements have misled or have the potential to mislead patients and the…
/r/askTRP27/11/19 12:46 AM
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All this is great. As you started telling me the list I was thinking: "wow, really? Do models do it?" (Mew position). I'll investigate. They might be keeping it quiet (trade secret) if it really does have such a profound effect. I'll report my findings going through modelling forums ;). Thanks for the comprehensive answer on this followup q.
/r/askTRP27/11/19 12:30 AM
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This is (one of) the types of answers I was looking for. It's a big ask, but do you think you might find a pic of your face 4 years ago (maybe by going waaaaaaaaay back in your facebook), cut out just the jaw and show us compared with a recent photo? If you also lowered in bodyfat percentage, that might be the main reason for the change though. Chewing hard gum all day is a big investment, I'd like to see your before/after (just the jaw). If you want you can PM me it instead of replying. Thanks.
/r/askTRP27/11/19 12:27 AM
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See a dentist's answer below. Should have no effect.
/r/askTRP26/11/19 11:12 PM
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Cool. Related: any opinion on this ridiculous thing that was also mentioned: mew posture. (Where to place your tongue at rest.)
/r/askTRP26/11/19 11:07 PM
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What's the opposite of molecular biology and quantum mechanics? "Do you have any cats or dogs"?
/r/askTRP26/11/19 04:21 AM
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Going through someone else's phone without their knowledge or permission seems super invasive and super controlling/psychopathic to me. How about driving around tailing her, with a pair of binoculars? (Your phone rings) "Hey buddy I can't talk now I'm on a stakeout. So far she's been to two stores and is eating lunch alone but I know that Chad is going to pop up anytime now. This is a very sensitive operation. Can you bring me an MRE I haven't eaten since she left for work at... (checks notebook…
/r/askTRP26/11/19 04:06 AM
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Thus, as a tall-ish man (6'2/186 (or whatever)) I approach Interesting, I didn't catch your height in the writeups around here I've seen. (At 6'2" you are always on the menu, even if the waiter denies it. You just have to ask for it and press a little bit. Definitely on the menu, just go bring the order back to the kitchen love and the hamster will make it.) What % bodyfat are you around?
/r/askTRP26/11/19 02:40 AM
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I respect your tag. But you're not even going to talk about how butthurt mateguarding it is to invade her phone? Let's go a step farther and you start invading her mind (now we're psychic): what percent of women have ever had an errant thought while in a relationship with you? The answer, of course, is 100%. So if we just accept snooping into people's privacy (including reading their thoughts) then we must logically next 100% of women. (Or please explain where the line is.) I personally assume i…
/r/askTRP26/11/19 02:25 AM
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Big claim. Then why would people think that they do? How would it be common knowledge if if didn't happen.
/r/TheRedPill24/11/19 05:26 PM
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This is hilarious, because I meant music mix (i.e. playlist). When they're on a single track, they're often called a mix on youtube. I could edit my post to specify music, but this is just too hilarious.
/r/askTRP17/11/19 02:18 PM
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Great observation.
/r/askTRP17/11/19 12:40 PM
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You originally wrote "dropping a little shade on the bar", which I took to mean negging. I don't use the phrase "drop shade on" (I'm in my 30s), sorry if I misunderstood
/r/askTRP17/11/19 01:44 AM
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The part that is the same is "in a dump like this" (not the "what's a nice girl" part). It's negging the place. I still think it's the same.
/r/askTRP17/11/19 01:37 AM
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dropping a little shade on the bar or club you're at AKA "what's a nice goyl like you doin' at a dump like dis". (Obviously don't say it the way I just quoted, which is very old. Just pointing out that this is a very old line.)
/r/askTRP16/11/19 09:33 PM
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Thanks bro
/r/askTRP16/11/19 06:19 PM
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Thanks
/r/askTRP16/11/19 05:09 PM
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I didn't get that impression.
/r/askTRP16/11/19 05:09 PM
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Oh good point. I didn't even consider this. Very possible outcome.
/r/askTRP16/11/19 05:08 PM
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no he was oblivious, not involved at all except when he was directly interacting with her. zero awareness of the room or where she was in it or what she was doing (which is the most overt things possible.)
/r/askTRP16/11/19 11:24 AM
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Maybe it's a location thing. Are you personally frequently harassed by gay men?
/r/askTRP15/11/19 05:23 AM
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I don't get this post. If you're serious about don't shit where you eat, then you're happy if everyone there thinks you're gay, right? Is it spreading outside the gym? As far as guys hitting on you, gay guys don't hit too hard on straight men (out of fear of violence), you're not going to get constant unwanted attention the way women do. So I would say if you're serious about don't shit where you eat, then you should welcome the rumor/ambiguity. More space for you, less distractions. Source: cou…
/r/askTRP15/11/19 02:47 AM
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Do you think it's important to be self critical also?
/r/askTRP13/11/19 04:11 AM
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you actually listed the three supplements I already take (vitamin d, zinc, protein). well, that and caffeine.
/r/askTRP11/11/19 12:01 AM
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if you google "does creatine cause balding" it says "The takeaway. Research hasn't shown that creatine directly causes hair loss. One 2009 study did find that creatine supplementation is associated with an increase in a hormone called DHT, which can contribute to hair loss. Overall, creatine is safe to use as a supplement for most adults." that first sentence is good enough for me...
/r/askTRP10/11/19 11:45 PM
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(I'm OP). I don't know why that comment was removed, sometimes you need a strong statement in clear cases and I didn't mind it. "what are you retarded? the answer is [answer]" is fine if it's backed up, the way the comment did back up its claim. I had no problem with the strong language to express a strong opinion.
/r/askTRP10/11/19 11:30 PM
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So you recommend it? got home and watched the video. it's a strong recommend and gives details about the amount to take.
/r/askTRP10/11/19 07:14 PM
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Got it, clear answer and thanks.
/r/askTRP10/11/19 07:13 PM
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Got it, thanks. Why is it so popular?
/r/askTRP10/11/19 06:53 PM
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He means you can pick any line in the sand that you want, even if it's completely insane. For example you refuse to date anyone who has a relationship with her own brother. (No reason why, that's just your personal line in the sand.) Then you can date a single child, someone who has only sisters, someone who is estranged from her brother, or someone who severs ties at your request. If they were estranged when you met but the brother pops back into the picture, it's your hill to die on. "You know…
/r/askTRP02/11/19 11:29 AM
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tell her she needs to work on her flirting or if she says that to every guy, but you will make exception if she buys you a drink etc. common bullshit talk. Not so common as you think, probably 1% of the men in a given place have mastered that (we're all here to learn). I really like both examples you just gave. Can you list some more, other ones you've used successfully? (Even if you think it's common.) I really think light teasing is not as common as you think. (Or girls wouldn't react so aweso…
/r/askTRP24/10/19 03:19 AM
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I googled some and I'm not sure it looks red pilled at all. They look like chicks.
/r/askTRP23/10/19 06:36 PM
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Thanks for the detailed pointers and reply. I read it. As for what I meant by asking specifically for red pill, here's what I mean. To avoid linking another subreddit (which is against the rules) I just reuploaded 3 pictures from the male fashion subreddit front page to IMGUR (one is from the second page.). The second one (holding coffee) was the first one I opened on that subreddit (before I posted my question here on AskTRP) and I was confused because it's clearly a chick (she has painted nail…
/r/askTRP23/10/19 06:33 PM
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read the Sex God method (or at least a summary) and update me again if you would :). I can't summarize a whole book for you so just find it and read it. see what happens. a ton of people on the red pill have mentioned that specific book, so don't worry it's well-vetted. I forget if you work out or not, but wouldn't hurt to start going if you're not. however that is not nearly as important as the psychological component.
/r/askTRP21/10/19 06:22 PM
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Turns out the male and female sluts really are driving most of the N count. There is a mathematical reason (google "friendship paradox'). But think about it if there were no limits on n. If the world had just 50 people in it who each slept with everyone (their N-count is 7 billion) then your n count would go from 17 let's say to 67. But 3/4 of your lays would be those supersluts. (50/67). Not just that, the n count of your partners would average nearly 7 billion. All due to just 50 supersluts ou…
/r/askTRP19/10/19 10:45 PM
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Theres no religion that says ...' ignore marriage and spinith mad plates' Except the red pill!
/r/askTRP19/10/19 07:21 PM
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Great. :) thanks
/r/askTRP17/10/19 02:45 AM
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How tall are you, if you don't mind my asking? My guess based on your post is 6'4".
/r/askTRP17/10/19 01:10 AM
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listen add a /s in this subreddit if you're joking because the truth is fucking weird enough. that's why it's called the red pill, because mainstream culture is all lies basically. Most people initially react this material thinking that it's misogynist or maybe a joke or caricature. you to live it to know if someone is serious or not.
/r/askTRP10/10/19 07:25 AM
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thanks, though this advice is the opposite of the advice given by everyone else in the thread! seems I should tread lightly...
/r/askTRP09/10/19 02:43 AM
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Got it. Clear. (She was already warm with me earlier.) FWIW I didn't interrupt them :)
/r/askTRP08/10/19 11:08 PM
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Got it. Clear. (She was already warm with me earlier.) FWIW I didn't interrupt them :)
/r/askTRP08/10/19 11:08 PM
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Got it. Clear. (She was already warm with me earlier.) FWIW I didn't interrupt them :)
/r/askTRP08/10/19 11:04 PM
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Got it. Clear. (She was already warm with me earlier.) FWIW I didn't interrupt them :)
/r/askTRP08/10/19 11:04 PM
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OP: this is just my impression but I think you could become a lot better in bed. I strongly recommend you read a resource like the sex God method. Foreplay is important, too. Sex for women is psychological. See what happens if you use your words to paint a picture, before you ever have sex. I can't really summarize a book, I just recommend you read the book I mentioned. do you try talking dirty to her? what happens?
/r/askTRP26/09/19 04:30 AM
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dude good job, that is awesome. you're right, mixing your own fragrance is fucking baller as fuck. I'm not gonna copy you but way to go.
/r/askTRP22/09/19 04:43 PM
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Exactly
/r/askTRP22/09/19 02:21 PM
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Why? Because the plate eventually breaks? This post says to me that you should plate your ex: "It was a great FWB after all." Unless, like OP, you get butthurt when it breaks. ("I honestly felt like shit when she told me this.") If he DGAF then what's wrong with playing it like that? I could be wrong I'll admit.
/r/askTRP22/09/19 11:32 AM
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(He didn't say "date close", he was trying to say "date close to - or even in the - hotel ")
/r/askTRP22/09/19 10:37 AM
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Wow. I've never heard of mixing cologne. Has anyone given you feedback about your smell?
/r/askTRP22/09/19 10:31 AM
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this is interesting but you leave out genuine "friends" who you do some sexual things with. I think the thing that actually makes them a friend is that you would still be hanging out without the "benefits" and also, I think, unless a FWB falls for you, it's not really intimate like that (emotionally). I don't mean in a "beta mating strategy" way of being a fake friend, I mean you do projects together or (as you mention) take vacations that are not at all about sex, and you even still both meet u…
/r/TheRedPill20/09/19 06:38 PM
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it sounds like you play social game more, where you get with friends and friends of friends, etc - not same-night "pickup artist" style pulls. which makes sense cuz' being a pickup artist is not easy. few men go home with a rando except by luck. so was hoping to hear how they deal with two randos who are friends (and probably not ready for a threesome)
/r/askTRP20/09/19 06:21 PM
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Good perspective, thanks. Do you think it's possible/sensible/fair to do girlfriend stuff (going swimming, going to a show, cooking for/with each other, walks, picnics etc) with more than one woman at the same time (on different days) or if someone has an LTR like that then they can only maybe have mostly just sexual side plates (whether or not LTR is aware), but not several concurrent LTR like that. (But maybe you find the activities I just listed are gay and "why would you do that with a chick…
/r/TheRedPill20/09/19 12:06 PM
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This is kind of what I was looking for, but does it work in the other direction: seems like the dude just enjoys the boyfriend experience Meaning that even if you see each other weeks/months apart, when you do, you act like you're approximately declaring love, lots of snuggling and boyfriend/girlfriend stuff of every description. Meet each other's family etc. That would be very confusing to a girl, so I was hoping through clear communication, a guy could get that but without an actual relationsh…
/r/TheRedPill20/09/19 04:50 AM
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Fantastic mini field report thanks. A bit different from my question but great field report all the same - thanks.
/r/askTRP20/09/19 01:51 AM
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Have you achieved that?
/r/askTRP20/09/19 12:22 AM
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Kind of rejected me but still went on more dates with me and small amount of escalation. She rejected going home (with me or to her place). It could be timing or whatever. If there's sexual tension I don't always use direct kino. These are the reasons I was curious about your experience. Thanks for your answer.
/r/askTRP19/09/19 10:14 PM
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day game number that I’ve recently reignited If you don't mind, would you tell me if before recently, you slept with her/met up with her? There's some RP advice like "the pussy is NEVER worth the wait", but if there is some sexual tension it seems okay to me. Is your plate such an example? Did you meet up sometimes over the past year, but without fucking? What's your advice in this case of on again off again contact and a pretty good rapport, sexual energy, but no sleeping together? Can it be co…
/r/askTRP19/09/19 09:15 PM
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we could probably clear this up in this sub. don't the endorsed contributors say stuff like we define reality? So probably a stern and serious sentence early in the encounter: "Listen, I might be treating you like a girlfriend but it's just how I roll, OK?" (Seriously, not in a teasing way.) And then she nods and accepts your reality. Or something. anyone who knows what they're talking about what to chime in on this? The sidebar says to be clear.
/r/TheRedPill16/09/19 05:21 PM
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solid advice, thanks.
/r/askTRP14/09/19 02:16 PM
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but we're not exes ATM. We are literally bf and gf who do activities together and have hours of sex, see each other all the time. (I added this as an edit to my post.) I like your list of reasons. I think I dealt with sixth and seventh by NGAF when she broke up with me, like not even reacting to it, just hard next, and as for seventh I don't put up with BS. These two are good: Fourth, all this bullshit distracts you from your goals of finding a new woman that isn't already residing in your head.…
/r/askTRP13/09/19 07:39 PM
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thank you! I actually did read the Old Man and the Sea in school, and found it a good and easy read. I'll take a look at the other titles you mentioned.
/r/askTRP11/09/19 09:40 AM
2

more specifically?
/r/askTRP10/09/19 04:46 PM
2

People read novels for fun, that's what I mean (Tom Clancy etc)
/r/askTRP10/09/19 01:55 PM
1

not exactly, disingenuous means lacking in candor, he means they have a lack of integritiousity.
/r/askTRP06/09/19 10:10 PM
1

she looks away from strangers on the street as a strategy to keep from spontaneously falling in love with someone? (OP is just talking about people he's walking past.)
/r/askTRP06/09/19 09:31 AM
4

yeah this. they might also be just starting school or their career and they aren't ready for a baby, and if they hold eye contact they could end up pregnant by the time they're home! literally! that's why they look away. This is ridiculous, but, yeah I also see what you're saying but it's still kind of ridiculous.
/r/askTRP05/09/19 11:52 PM
31

it. doesn't. just. apply to. conversation. write less. people will pay... more attention.
/r/askTRP05/09/19 02:38 PM
1

(i'm not that experienced so take this with a grain of salt.) in my opinion these aren't mixed signals, they're "no" / disinterested signals. Listen, hot women have to be super conscious of the signals they give off because if they so much as smile past someone, that person might take it as an invitation and hit on them. what you've described about their behavior is super super "no" and "not interested". regardless of whether you catch this person looking at you, she is giving you the opposite o…
/r/askTRP04/09/19 11:14 PM
0

Thanks for the detailed answer. The pressure on her must also be pretty enormous though, and the clip says he proposed after 10 days. They seemed to get along OK. Also he has 5 children. On the whole I'd say he could be beta bux but doesn't seem too bad.
/r/askTRP03/09/19 09:12 PM
10

But he struggles with women. I don't doubt that, but if you don't mind me asking, where did you hear or see this, or what makes you say do? I myself don't follow him that closely but never heard or saw anything like that. Are you kind of just guessing, or anything more specific you could share?
/r/askTRP03/09/19 07:58 PM
3

I think you did well. It's important not to mess with girls who have boyfriends - to the point where you should ask them. (As you did.) Why? Because vetting them to make sure they don't have a boyfriend is one of the easiest, if not the easiest way to avoid false rape charges. It's kind of hard to guess, but it seems about 50/50 that if you sleep with 100 girls who have boyfriends, one of them will be put in a position to have to say she didn't really agree to it. Not every girl has a boyfriend.…
/r/TheRedPill28/07/19 03:14 PM
3

I was sort of nodding along until I thought about meetups. You go to a meetup for a hobby, it's filled with women. They obviously don't fit your description, as they're investing time in their hobby. When you go lift, there mighr be a yoga class next door. When you go swim, there are the girls too. Go to a bookstore to find an interesting book, looking at the same interesting books is a girl. The fact is, you seem to be sampling from dating sites. Delete your dating apps and start sampling from …
/r/TheRedPill28/07/19 01:12 PM
3

If it’s “no, once and not firmly” and you already have her half naked in your bed, I suggest it’s a little bit of consent play and to continue. Don't do this, guys. In fact if she lets out a no it's probably best to high-tail it out of there and wait for her to contact you again. When she does, don't even answer her. This is 2019 and ignoring a verbal no is not in the playbook. Doesn't matter how much she wants it. Women with an IQ above 60 know a verbal "no" puts you at risk of rape charges or …
/r/TheRedPill28/07/19 01:03 PM
2

This is important in an LTR. You might think, shes my SO, we can chit chat now. No. You cant. By LTR, you're talking about a realdoll, right? Humans are fun to chat with.
/r/TheRedPill26/07/19 06:20 AM
1

Missing something major. Vitamin D specifically. Search this forum or the net.
/r/TheRedPill25/07/19 04:40 AM
1

Why is your spelling so good? (Except for a couple of phone typos). Hard to believe you're really only 75 IQ. You don't "sound" mentally retarded based on your writing style...
/r/askTRP25/07/19 04:34 AM
1

thanks.
/r/askTRP19/07/19 04:43 AM
1

don't you think it's also important to mention rejections? like, you get some rejections and next those girls and don't even think about them again? I think it's an important part that's often left out. for each of your six plates, I bet you said "next" to 2+ girls (each). if you had kept talking to them you woudn't have had time to move on to your plate! don't you agree? (isn't it true)? or are you batting 1.0?
/r/askTRP19/07/19 03:15 AM
1

at some point it's a comfort test. you're going to have to give up some information by the time you're in an LTR for example. if your girlfriend of 4 months asks yet again if you've ever been married, it's time to tell her the truth even if you're not open to another marriage, or a first marriage, or whatever. once she's seen enough of you, you have to hold frame but probably tell her most of the rest. don't you agree?
/r/askTRP19/07/19 02:53 AM
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Look at the self-selection in this thread. There isn't a single reply here - not even ONE - saying "once". Fine, I'll say it. I come once. guess I'm in the bottom 0% here since no one else said that. Then I just have sex on a different day again.
/r/askTRP04/07/19 09:42 PM
2

not battle-tested but the below is my opinion: I think she's now your bitch. don't fuck or her or give her any attention or go out with her, but you can now ask her anything you need and she will instantly do it. dude, she just put her job on the line for you. She will do anything you want at any point. you're now her boss and can get anything done that you want, while meanwhile you don't have to do ANY paperwork or any of the hard stuff associated with being a boss. you just ask her for what yo…
/r/askTRP24/06/19 01:13 PM
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What is "don't shit where you eat"? I've never heard of it. If you corner a coworker alone you're supposed to put your tongue down her throat because it's obviously a date or she would have a bodyguard with her and say "Hey! GUILLARMO, make sure this guy doesn't get handsy with me", plus if it wasn't a date why would you be working together fate obviously meant you to ram your tongue down your coworker's yapper and also nothing has EVER EVER EVER gone wrong from ramming your tongue down youe cow…
/r/askTRP22/06/19 11:06 AM
2

Whoa, interesting and cool advice. Any adjustment for women cockblockers (i.e. your target's fat friend etc)? What do you recommend?
/r/askTRP19/06/19 11:00 AM
1

Could you give more examples of the same kind you just gave: "This light takes forever." "I hope it doesn't rain today." Would appreciate 5-10 more - different real situations.
/r/askTRP17/06/19 11:10 PM
1

I don't have an answer for you, but don't you think she could be asking because she has a boyfriend, or isn't interested in you and doesn't want to be put in an awkward position of needing to reject your advances? If she's interested, why would she ask that? What does it get her?
/r/askTRP17/06/19 11:18 AM
1

sure. maybe in retrospect there were some red flags he didn't pick up on at the time - it's just that he didn't list any for us. I'm just curious how he knew (maybe there were some things he left out.)
/r/askTRP20/05/19 12:27 AM
2

Sorry, how do you know it was her? (It doesn't sound like she picked you up at a pool hall, just sounds like a normal tinder match.) Her story about going to work sounds normal too. couldn't just be the last person you were with? I mean you haven't listed any red signs even in retrospect or any reason to think it was her. how did you come to this conclusion?
/r/askTRP19/05/19 11:36 PM
1

? (you gave me a heart attack that she wrote that lol). what did you mean by your comment?
/r/askTRP05/05/19 10:11 AM
0

(Sorry, can't tell if you're kidding.) If you're not, could you PM me a link to the consent form you use? It seems more likely that you're joking, though.
/r/askTRP01/05/19 11:15 AM
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I'm not going to link this post there, but the subreddit called "self aware wolves" would have a field day with this one. You're seeing the golden rule in action. If you demote her she demotes you. So just be nice to her :) treat her well. She'll treat you well. Play games with her that you want her to play. It's hilarious that you think she's doing something wrong. Sounds like a very nice catch! (No sarcasm).
/r/askTRP16/04/19 12:08 PM
2

fantastic answer, I'm both going to use this (your first answer about for free), and I'm like super glad I took the moment to draft this specific question to you. yeah I've tried the bullshit answer (arms dealer, I used drugs but can be whatever) it works OK but sometimes they'll just keep asking. I find that the evasive answer (obviously false drug dealer) does sound like I'm trying to hide something. better to change the script. so thanks for the detailed answer about for free - going to use i…
/r/askTRP16/04/19 01:23 AM
1

thanks, sounds great. could you give a fogging example for being asked about my work (on tinder etc). I hate talking professional stuff with strangers I'd be dating / sleeping with. so q: "What do you do?"
/r/askTRP15/04/19 11:19 PM
1

what does fogging mean? (I've seen it used before but couldn't find a definition)
/r/askTRP15/04/19 10:46 PM
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Actually there is no difference between men and women so if you are a woman who is being harassed you need to go run up to HR like a little crybaby and they'll solve it for you, because that's what HR is for (not to protect the company). Therefore since there's no difference between men and women you just have to do the same thing. bhahahahahahahahahahahaaa. Whew. That was a good one. I could hardly keep a straight face. So actually: yes, do what this guy says.
/r/askTRP04/04/19 11:09 AM
1

Why did she match?
/r/askTRP03/04/19 12:59 PM
1

What would u respond after her "no" to " "Hey! Nice puppy, can I pet him?" the way u took it as a neg?
/r/askTRP03/04/19 12:59 PM
2

^ this guy pets
/r/askTRP03/04/19 12:57 PM
1

I give up
/r/askTRP31/03/19 02:16 PM
1

Thanks. Though it could be a birth boom. (Maybe the percentage of men who are 18-20, out of those who are 18-30, increased as a fraction, and that fraction has always had less sex.)
/r/askTRP31/03/19 02:15 PM
2

Thank you so much for taking the time to make this very detailed post. Awesome!
/r/askTRP31/03/19 01:35 PM
1

Absolutely losing frame and the most bluepilled thing you can possible do. Do not do this under any circumstances. (No sarcasm.) If you already did it then you have to apologize once and very clearly, don't do it again and don't mention it again.
/r/askTRP30/03/19 09:36 AM
2

Wow. The past 12 months certainly doesn't mean "never". OP needs to edit that in.
/r/askTRP30/03/19 08:34 AM
1

okay so those places are ruled out. so the right places are........ ? could you give some examples bro.
/r/askTRP29/03/19 07:20 AM
2

There are a few gems but got to know the right places to meet them. Which is...?
/r/askTRP26/03/19 08:16 AM
1

Thanks. What does fog mean - change the subject (like smokescreen)? I didn't hear that before.
/r/askTRP22/03/19 04:41 AM
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whoa this is useful. you're right I bombed. What do you advise me to do now? any agree & amplify or just act like it didn't happen?
/r/askTRP22/03/19 03:33 AM
2

Lol. This question and answer is comedy gold. :) good on you for recognizing it.
/r/askTRP21/03/19 04:56 AM
1

10 dates though? I know you're probably exaggerating but does 10 dates then fuck, actually happen?
/r/askTRP20/03/19 04:55 AM
1

got it. thanks.
/r/askTRP19/03/19 05:29 PM
2

if in 1 year you still feel guilty I guess you could send everyone involved a quick note then. probably not worth doing though. move ooooooooon. next. and delete the post ;)
/r/askTRP19/03/19 05:10 AM
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you don't need to apologize. in fact you should probably never apologize to anyone, ever. There is no need, based on your description. just doesn't matter. you burned yourself in her mind anyway, move on. don't do the same thing with any other girls and that's all the apology anyone can ask for. learn and move on. time to delete this post, you got your answers. don't think about her again.
/r/askTRP19/03/19 05:08 AM
1

from your description I agree that everyone has probably moved on and you should too. time to delete this post and just don't think of her again :D
/r/askTRP19/03/19 04:58 AM
1

what did you share that could be so bad? I bet she's moved on. it sounded like you gave her good "closure" (like fuck, what an asshole). it's a lot better than having her still love you and pine after you. closure is great for them. (but don't do that again.) so time to move on!
/r/askTRP19/03/19 03:45 AM
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And I can only imagine she probably feels the same way haha, no she doesn't feel like it happened years ago. come on. 2 months is nothing. just put it away and don't deal with it. next.
/r/askTRP19/03/19 03:27 AM
2

so you won't even meet them 2/3 times? that is crazy fast for many women. what about not from dating apps? (day game for example)? one date is all any of your plates get?
/r/askTRP19/03/19 03:25 AM
1

lol "past" beta behavior. it happened a month ago. you ain't past anything. (from the title, you'd think you're talking about something from 3-15 years ago, before you got redpilled). just next and no contact. also good on you for identifying that spite/vengeance is a totes beta action. now improve, move on. source: 2 yrs rp.
/r/askTRP19/03/19 03:15 AM
0

How does their attractiveness depend on mine? actually for your tinder example, tinder will match you with equally attractive people. called your elo score. celebs get matched with celebs, fatsos with fatsos. work out or get better pics, maybe professional pics. you'll see a change in the women it presents to you, instantly. if you're getting shown 2's and 3's, you're a 2 or 3.
/r/askTRP19/03/19 03:02 AM
1

very important post. comfort tests are also important.
/r/askTRP19/03/19 02:59 AM
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(couple of years redpill experience). yeah this is an issue. So when a girl says "no" or "fuck off" you have to like immediately hard next her, don't even say anything just turn and leave, talk to someone else. And in my opinion you should even ignore her "wait!" however if she's insistent enough with her "wait", meaning she was just playing, you can give her another chance. Make her work for it. "Why should I keep talking to you when you just told me to fuck off? You're not worth a harassment c…
/r/askTRP18/03/19 12:07 AM
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How did Bob violate the order? I think they've probably had a "oh shit" moment and realize they need to shut up and stay out of your hair. I think you can now drop the matter. The police certainly have. I have one concern. Your suing them appears very similar to how people like Weinstein would aggressively go after people they raped. You are in a very different situation and this situation needs to be communicated clearly to anyone gossiping about you. hold frame and ignore that jabber.
/r/askTRP13/03/19 04:11 AM
1

thanks
/r/askTRP10/03/19 07:10 PM
1

Your advice is gold, bro. The reason I want to be "more sure" is #metoo shit. Ideally we could know in advance when she will be accepting of kino (and even you said she doesn't reciprocate in all cases). The eye contact thing is good advice. I did not try it in the case I just wrote this post about - I think it could have already helped me determine she wasn't interested. You're absolutely right that it's like I read a wikihow on hoe to read body language :). I'll focus more in the parts you sai…
/r/askTRP10/03/19 06:03 PM
1

Got it, thanks.
/r/askTRP10/03/19 09:58 AM
1

unless literally every single person here says staring at you from afar all night means that they have a boyfriend and will shoot you down. (otherwise they'd come and talk to you / stand next to you so you can talk to them.) If there isn't even one single positive story here (assuming my question gets some traction / upvotes / replies) then I will simply treat it as my little market study and from there on out I just won't talk to chicks who are eying me from a distance. so let's have the storie…
/r/askTRP10/03/19 03:12 AM
2

sorry, I don't understand your comment.
/r/askTRP10/03/19 02:23 AM
1

another negative. thanks.
/r/askTRP10/03/19 02:23 AM
1

so it's not an IOI on their part? Though in this case her body language was also SUPER open. it could be a coincedence due to the space being somewhat cramped, but she sat down right next to me, watched me, and had her whole body facing me.) I guess you're saying "NEGATIVE" as an experience. (your vote). I mean if you try to actually talk to these girls who are eyeing you.
/r/askTRP10/03/19 02:14 AM
1

why are we talking about "most". please answer these questions: Did you go to college? Did you work with women? Have you ever had a factual conversation with a woman, where you are definitely the one who mainly benefited, by "picking her brain" or her knowledge about some subject, situation, tool or process, whatever? if you need to know something, don't you sometimes message women to ask them (something factual, something you want to know) or get suggestions, or literally you only would message…
/r/askTRP08/03/19 07:28 PM
1

you're saying "don't say one word to a woman you're not fucking. In fact probably keep your talk down to a minimum even if you are." Now I'm asking about blue pilled times: you've never learned anything from a woman? I mean something specific and factual. Did you go to college? Did you work with women? Have you ever had a factual conversation with a woman, where you are definitely the one who mainly benefited, by "picking her brain" or her knowledge about some subject, situation, tool or process…
/r/askTRP08/03/19 05:49 PM
1

I get what you're saying, but even before red pill you never had a friendship with a girl? (Including one that you were dating, but also kind of had a friendship with, too.) It was always just sex, never anything else? (No friendship or hanging out on other subjects). I definitely found women's perspectives interesting on a variety of subjects, amd would say I also was friends with people I dated in my blue pilled days.
/r/askTRP08/03/19 05:27 AM
1

Do you think that maybe as someone gets red pilled, they don't get normal conversation anymore, because they're categorized aa fuckboys, so that girls realize they must (or feel they must) treat the person sexually. (That might include rejecting/avoiding the person, or being cold and not engaging, if they're not interested)? This would explain why blue pilled male feminists can have lots of female friends and have interesting conversations with them. The same girls would NOT give the same intere…
/r/askTRP08/03/19 04:50 AM
1

The advice you are getting matches other advice people here got, but it didn't really work out well for them. (Including in updates they gave TRP later.) I think you should read the DARE and DEER guide: http://archive.is/2hjQR So, I think you should go nuclear and agree and amplify, then repeat and exit. I would send this: "Hey u didn't just say no while I was taking your pants off, I had to knock u out with a frying pan - it was pretty bloody so you could prolly get some samples taken for a blo…
/r/askTRP08/03/19 04:04 AM
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Got it. I don't play minecraft but there's lots of boring stuff I care about that nobody does, this answer helped me understand. (though you're not the person I asked.)
/r/askTRP03/03/19 11:32 PM
1

You dont want to reject a drunk girl because that's going to make her want you more. What you do is make her decide she doesnt like you. I can read em well enough to pull this off pretty quick. could you be more specific (maybe give a specific example)? interested in how you do this.
/r/askTRP03/03/19 08:33 PM
1

What do you mean about the socially inept thing?
/r/askTRP02/03/19 02:22 PM
1

Do you know any lesbians (only date women. Have real relationships with them / girlfriends. Don't ever sleep with men, do sleep with women)?
/r/askTRP02/03/19 08:26 AM
1

Interesting, thank you.
/r/askTRP02/03/19 08:25 AM
1

But is it real?
/r/askTRP02/03/19 08:23 AM
1

this is an interesting view.
/r/askTRP02/03/19 02:46 AM
1

regardless of the "reason" for it, are they actually lesbians in your experience?
/r/askTRP02/03/19 02:46 AM
1

:D (so no, there are no actual lesbians, according to you.)
/r/askTRP02/03/19 02:44 AM
3

You're getting good advice here. This has been covered a bit by red pill teachings - working with women. Basically don't divulge any information. be ambiguous. (About your sexuality, like whether you're gay or straight.) By the way are you sure all your gay coworkers are really gay? Could be a coping mechanism and after 6 p.m. they're chad! Try to be one more gay/ambiguous person in the office. This is your livelihood. Quietly lead from the bottom. (Including your boss.) There is a lot that has …
/r/askTRP23/02/19 11:01 PM
1

and sometimes being relatively innocuous describe how a straight man can put his hand on another's straight man's thigh in an inoccuous way, and I'll believe you. you're full of shit.
/r/askTRP23/02/19 07:12 PM
1

I think a hand on a thigh is way more intimate than putting an adm around someone's shoulder, which, depending on the situation, guys have done with me non-sexually. Girls also did that with me on a tinder date. Are you daying when a girl put an arm around my shoulder as described, that is some massive escalation? It didn't feel like that to me. Maybe I missed it.
/r/askTRP22/02/19 09:54 PM
1

That is NOT how you escalate unless it had worked, in which case sure it is. anyway mr casanova "how do you escalate" then? if that's not it.
/r/askTRP22/02/19 12:53 AM
1

I guess that is one way to look at it.
/r/askTRP21/02/19 04:44 PM
1

In bizarro-world, if I'm accused of a murder that literally didn't happen (there was no murder, victims are like, hello, we're fine and nothing happened), I don't want my trial and optics around it to look and feel like the O.J. Simpson murder trial. (Even though he was found not-guilty.) By analogy I don't want to do what guilty people do. And as for being accused of a murder that literally didn't happen, with the victim denying it, this is the bizarro-wprld we're living in. Just read the post.
/r/askTRP21/02/19 04:37 PM
2

That is some incel stuff, it's not the Red Pill perspective. Having orbiters doesn't make a girl more attractive, no. (On the other hand, if you have female orbiters you do become more attractive to them, yes.) If anything orbiters are a red flag (they could white knight, try to tarnish your reputation for fucking their innocent little princess, etc.)
/r/askTRP20/02/19 09:05 PM
2

No.
/r/askTRP20/02/19 07:52 PM
1

There's no case at the moment, just public (university) opinion. You want this innocent guy's legal actions to be indistinguishable from the worst rapist's? (70+ literal rapes, zero consent and very violent). Doesn't seem like a great strategy to me...
/r/askTRP20/02/19 07:04 PM
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In a great, intimate relationship where she respects you, the proper reaction would have been to murder her (don't answer why, she knows why) but not bury her body. Set her house on fire, but first from her own instagram account (you have her phone password, right? I said in a great, intimate relationship) post something to ruin her reputation. Even as a literal otherworldly ghost she does not deserve to hold on to her reputation. Post something like "A coffee isn't cheating right? #sorrynotsorr…
/r/askTRP20/02/19 06:36 PM
1

Seems like a huge waste of time but to be honest the thread doesn't have great advice for him. When he posted part 1 he kind of got some advice, but nothing really great, based on the update we just read. There's just no great advice here.
/r/askTRP20/02/19 07:42 AM
2

I don't understand. Did he get a payoff from the university and/or the couple, and how much? we could get something useful going here, to turn the tide on false accusations. if you click my comments, you'll see how I just referenced how Weinstein (actual calls-a-business-meeting-with-zero-rapport-or-prior-contact-locks-the-door-and-lunges-at-you-and-rapes-you-then-sues-you-to-shut-up-about-it rapist) would sue people into silence. But he never asked for money from them. So this would be a point …
/r/askTRP20/02/19 12:49 AM
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I'm sorry, I really don't see this as "working out big". I don't want to spend 2 years suing anyone, and neither should anyone else. we need something better.
/r/askTRP20/02/19 12:07 AM
6

Could you give some (obviously anonymous) details?
/r/askTRP19/02/19 10:54 PM
0

I disagree with the advice in here, specifically the advice to sue Sally, because it is indistinguishable from the tactics that Weinstein used to silence his literal rape victims. Remember that Weinstein would call women he had 0 rapport with into meetings through their agents, posing as a business meeting, close and lock the door, lunge at them and literally rape them. Then he would sue them and hire people to destroy their lives. For these reasons I am very wary of this suing advice. Since Sal…
/r/askTRP19/02/19 10:53 PM
1

thanks.
/r/askTRP13/02/19 12:13 AM
1

hahaha, this is great. OK.
/r/askTRP13/02/19 12:12 AM
2

thanks for your advice. I'm a bit torn because after all, I only got this job by going to a social event to begin with, where I met a woman who introduced me to her company. The reason I'm torn is that as you can see, most of the advice in this thread is the opposite.
/r/askTRP13/02/19 12:11 AM
1

Hey, I'm just following a recipe here. The TRP recipe. I'm not sure what supposedly will happen if I go. (according to TRP veterans.)
/r/askTRP12/02/19 04:28 PM
1

oh okay, thanks. and are you still in the top shape that you mentioned, or was that before? (you wrote it in the past tense.)
/r/askTRP11/02/19 01:09 PM
1

so when did you start taking girls home? I feel like I'm missing a step here as you related your journey. I get it, that girls started smiling at you, touching your arm etc. (after you got built + got some confidence.) And then?
/r/askTRP11/02/19 08:57 AM
1

did you give up porn entirely? also after this point "BOOM girls are giggling at literally everything , touching arms, complimenting etc" did you actually take them home at all? (I mean were they just being friendly since you were being friendly. was it sexual - did you get with them?)
/r/askTRP11/02/19 05:33 AM
1

examples of a 6 figure income isn't that beta buxx though?
/r/askTRP11/02/19 02:56 AM
2

got it, agree & thx
/r/askTRP10/02/19 11:30 PM
2

guess so. guy answered, 5'11", which certainly isn't any disadvantage. based on what other people have said I'm confused he didn't have girls give them their number and so on
/r/askTRP10/02/19 10:02 PM
2

5'11" is absolutely fine. I'm extremely surprised that you got ripped without having women do all the work including coming up to you, inviting you out, giving you their number, basically doing 100% of everything while you just stand there and say OK. if you have a picture of your body without face you could share (via PM also OK), but I believe you about how ripped you got. fascinating info, thanks.
/r/askTRP10/02/19 10:01 PM
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top tier 1% body ... girls just sensed there was something wrong and rather talk to the 110lbs skinny nerd or 280lbs fatty than me because they exuded more confidence or were much more interesting in various ways. This doesn't really match what I read everywhere else so I'm going to ask this: how tall are you? (My guess is like 5'3" or something, like something most people would call "short".)
/r/askTRP10/02/19 08:26 PM
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"You can get them after sex" In my opinion don't make it transactional (google "covert contract", where someone pretends to do something helpful but secretly wants something in exchange - don't do that.) if it takes you a few seconds, go ahead and send. don't expect anything back, broken plate is broken. moveon just my opinion. every second you spend on her you're one second farther from your next girl.
/r/askTRP08/02/19 11:10 AM
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OP, it doesn't sound like it from the fact that she sent you an IG pic 10 minutes later, but could she have had some guy she was into and didn't want to cheat? However the timing doesn't really support this. just curious.
/r/askTRP31/01/19 10:41 AM
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Well upvote the post so we can get some insights from people who know how to handle this then.
/r/askTRP28/01/19 03:39 PM
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your analysis and answer are on point, thanks.
/r/askTRP28/01/19 11:22 AM
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I said I'd leave my reaction in the comments, since I'd like people to respond with theirs first. So anyway, here's how I think I would have reacted to it. So, in the write-up he's been talking to the first girl for a bit and see's that she's OK, right? Her reaction to her friend's venom also seems okay. The new friend's male friend is also apologetic. Everyone sees that the new friend is not being socially gracious. When OP says he'll leave, the original girl says "no, please stay" and says her…
/r/askTRP28/01/19 10:28 AM
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Got it, will do. The advice in this thread was pretty clear (though surprising). So I guess I'll just have a girlfriend while strongly implying I don't. LMFAO
/r/askTRP27/01/19 10:13 AM
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By demand I meant that if I have any hard boundaries and such she respects them. For things that I simply want, of course I'm reasonable, not everyone will always get everything we want, I'm pretty flexible. I haven't given her any ultimatums. I'll give you an example of what is a demand. I like pretty hard sex and I know that I am too hard for some girls, because they'll tell me. But people are physically different (how sensitive etc) and I have lots of different stuff that I do, it's not like …
/r/askTRP27/01/19 05:52 AM
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Thanks! You hit the nail on the head. So you think it's okay to tell her that? (That she's my girlfriend). Or should I try to keep up the charade (that I am actively fucking other girls), which as you mentioned she knows probably isn't true?
/r/askTRP27/01/19 05:28 AM
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Yes all this is correct. For this: If you consider her your gf and still want to keep it that way, you don't need to do anything. Yes, this is my situation. Why doesn't this include telling her that? Why is it important to just have it be an impression? She has mentioned me to her parents and friends (I'm OK with all this) and likewise my friends know about her and actually, to my friends I call her my girlfriend, just not to her. Why shouldn't I tell her the same?
/r/askTRP27/01/19 05:25 AM
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Sidebar literally says "Head it off before it starts" so I did that.
/r/askTRP27/01/19 05:22 AM
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I do approach other girls, actually - all the time. This includes literally going on dates off of Tinder. I've also seen call girls. All this is totally within the bounds of the relationship I established with this girl. (Per the sidebar.)
/r/askTRP27/01/19 05:21 AM
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It's on the right side of this subreddit (AskTRP), in the sidebar: Are we exclusive? Handling "The Talk." If confronted, be vague. "Hey baby... I thought we had a nice thing going here... we like each other, we enjoy spending time together, and who knows what the future holds? There are no certainties in life, but I know that when I'm with you, I'm with you". I wasn't confronted, but preemptively said almost word for word that. In fact she understood it and repeated it to me sometimes. She has i…
/r/askTRP27/01/19 05:14 AM
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By open communication I mean directly telling her what I want (demand), how to behave toward me, etc etc. She follows everything I've laid out (while having a mind of her own ). For what's going on: we sleep together most nights of the week and do obviously boyfriend/girlfriend stuff. I'm obviously her boyfriend and she's obviously my girlfriend. Why do I have to keep this charade up where I tell her we are not exclusive and strongly imply (don't contradict) that there are other girls?
/r/askTRP26/01/19 08:18 PM
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How is she not my girlfriend then? We do stuff together (I mean go places, do activities), she just went out with me and some of my friends. She was obviously my girlfriend and that's how they talked about her/me. Was I supposed to correct them?
/r/askTRP26/01/19 08:13 PM
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Even if I see her 3-4 times per week?
/r/askTRP26/01/19 07:53 PM
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Actually I did read the rational male. What I followed to the letter ia rhe sidepill advice about having "the talk". I don't rub it in her face that I have other girls, but I tell her that while we're together (in those minutes) we are together and not to get attached. Plate spinning talk. She asks about other girls but I don't answer those questions. She is very good to me. I guess you are saying I should keep up the talk that she's a plate.
/r/askTRP26/01/19 07:52 PM
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This is correct. So why not come out and say it? She thinks I have or can have lots of girls.
/r/askTRP26/01/19 07:47 PM
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Could you be more specific?
/r/askTRP23/01/19 07:46 PM
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come on - nothing alpha? like, he doesn't have any kind of mission in life nor does anyone do what he says? he can't make plans and execute on them? he has no followers? people don't shut up when he talks? come on, I get what you're saying but he certainly has some of the strongest alpha qualities due to executing on a mission. It's not like he inherited his wealth. he executed on his own ideas, with followers falling in line to follow his leadership. after he proved himself.
/r/TheRedPill05/01/19 08:22 PM
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No, it's not exactly like that. Having read a lot of advice here and in the books that are frequently linked, I would say that I've often read that the man has to make the first move, and even when women make the first move they do it differently. There was an ask TRP asking if women will approach and flirt if your SMV is high enough and the answers were "kind of but they will just come stand next to you" and that sort of thing. So, a woman's first move when she's actively making the first move …
/r/TheRedPill05/01/19 08:19 PM
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This. But don't just read it. Get a physical copy and chew up each page and then swallow it.
/r/askTRP02/01/19 11:20 PM
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Bitches literally decapitate men and they get off with a nudge on the wrist, in the West at least. What are you talking about? I googled: woman decapitates man let off -- but I didn't see anything like that.
/r/askTRP02/01/19 10:37 PM
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you're right I completely misread that, the way he referred to it "SAINT LAURENT PARIS" is exactly how it's stylized on the logo: https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Yves_Saint_Laurent_(brand) I'm kind of shocked at how badly I misread it, he even said "wear". So you're right. Kind of weird to call out one particular fashion brand though. It's like saying prada: wear it, isn't it? (Or gucci or whatever).
/r/askTRP10/12/18 07:51 PM
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This shoudn't be a question this should be a field report. Because: she ignored her at the end and went home with you. you handled this perfectly, champ.
/r/askTRP10/12/18 02:15 PM
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if it works it works, but you're talking about this right? I ask because it's labelled as a women's perfume, and I only found it in the women's section of the YSL website and couldn't find a men's version. but if it works it works. if you're talking about the women's fragrance, may I ask what other men's fragrances you've worn and why you prefer it, what makes it better? Have any girls mentioned it to you? I will admit I'm a bit hesitant to wear a women's fragrance.
/r/askTRP10/12/18 10:28 AM
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Can you tell us this story in a reply? It sounds very strange that it would get to the level of a lawsuit, if you'd never so much as even sent her an email? What happened exactly, and what do you think caused this?
/r/TheRedPill10/12/18 10:02 AM
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Okay granted. But anyway as for the comparison, a normal everyday (not prostitute) girl you pick up who ends up taking you back to hers or comes up to yours after a date, and you have hours of fun, is somehow doing 4 hours of work having sex with you for the $10 steak you bought her before all that? She certainly doesn't feel about it that way and wouldn't do it if you were her client (if she were a prostitute instead) so you have your answer for the original question.
/r/askTRP10/12/18 01:44 AM
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No, it's totally different. With prostitutes it's a business transaction, they will be interested that you are normal (not some creep, they may vet you a bit or decide your vibe) and you can mention what you would like in a straightforward business way and if they're comfortable doing that you agree on a price and you do it. I suggest you try it. They will make you wear a condom (good!) And are very clean. To test this, in your own city try to find some online, judge their photos and any text th…
/r/askTRP10/12/18 01:02 AM
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It's not a big deal until you make it one. Almost transactional. Like with this post. Look bro I've paid for women, as in call girls. They're good. They're professionals, and working. I don't then turn around and say, but I work too whenever I am licking my girlfriend, because that's hard work so it's the same thing! Yes and no. It's a bit boring to go down on someone to orgasm, you can do it out of love and affection but it's physically a bit of a chore. I don't then say so I'm a prostitute so …
/r/askTRP10/12/18 12:52 AM
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I didn't say anything about asking them to! I am telling you that once you're more red pilled they will sometimes do so. (Definitely not most of them or anything. Just that it will happen that they pay for the full first date.) Be more red pilled. You don't really need a lot of money. It's almost like you're playing beta bucks game. Alpha game doesn't pay for women. That simple.
/r/askTRP09/12/18 11:34 PM
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I've had women pay for the first date too. I think you're not red pilled enough bro :)
/r/askTRP09/12/18 10:38 PM
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So no woman has ever paid for your first date (coffee, beer, tea, whatever)?
/r/askTRP09/12/18 10:18 PM
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Sure it is. Will you answer the question?
/r/askTRP09/12/18 10:11 PM
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She's never offered?
/r/askTRP09/12/18 10:10 PM
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A woman has never paid for your first date? (I mean paying for your coffee or beer etc). Like never ever ever, not even once? Seems odd.
/r/askTRP09/12/18 10:09 PM
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thanks. you start off about drama but end about being hyper and excitable. can you talk more about the former, what is this drama stuff. Think I don't want it but if it's just the same as all other women I don't really have much choice while hetero, it's that or the hand. what drama is she going to cause?
/r/askTRP03/12/18 09:19 PM
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Thanks! Will do.
/r/askTRP02/12/18 02:09 PM
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Yes, I agree about what you wrote. On the other hand haven't you also had the experience that some of the people are really just trying to get with you, and if you don't reciprocate that then they give up after a bit and stop making the language partner thing happen either? This seems to me more that kind of situation. She showed way more interest in me than anything about language. But after reading the other comment it is probably because "At her age she can come on super strong, but then her …
/r/askTRP02/12/18 02:09 PM
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Again this seems completely accurate. they know they have the experience to really dominate them and take control Yeah. I just don't want her to think that's how everyone does it. What's great about doing this with a 27 year old is she straight up tells me how much better this is. No #metoo issue there, when an experienced adult is telling you explicitly how fantastic everything is. But I know lots of people would shame a man in his 30s for even being in the same bed as a 19 year old while they …
/r/askTRP02/12/18 01:54 PM
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Couldn't this interfere with her normal sexual development? I found 27-30 yr old perfect for what you mention: they can experience something new with me! While knowing the ropes already. I don't want to be in charge of someone's virginity and first sexual experiences. What do you think about this? 22 is fine if they're the tiniest bit mature but 19 really has me worried. I wouldn't be with girl-version of 19 year old me that's for sure! Maybe I am fundamentally thinking of this wrong.
/r/askTRP02/12/18 04:38 AM
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right on, this is the kind of concrete advice I wanted. Thanks.
/r/askTRP02/12/18 01:27 AM
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actually that certainly makes sense. thanks for sharing.
/r/askTRP30/11/18 02:02 AM
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if it's fun go ahead.
/r/askTRP30/11/18 01:51 AM
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But as far as I quoted the conversations above, they're not over. Each of the 4 could continue and after 2-3 minutes, why wouldn't they give me their number? I can ask for numbers assertively. You just say, "Hey I gotta go. Listen, what's your name" (they tell you) "here" and just hand them your phone after you've typed their name and maybe where you just met and have it in the phone number field. I mean sure they might decide not to give their number but there's no way to make it to 100. so whe…
/r/askTRP30/11/18 12:10 AM
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I'm sorry, I find it very hard to believe that you have said that as the first words out of your mouth to a stranger. When you weren't drunk. Have you?
/r/askTRP30/11/18 12:07 AM
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this is a special game where we are meant to get rejected 100 times. so...what counts as a rejection? for the purposes of this special game. (Where you lose if you get a phone number.)
/r/askTRP29/11/18 10:55 PM
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EDIT: I mean for this special game. What counts as a rejection? 1. "Hey I was just wondering if you had a boyfriend" "Yeah." "Ok see you" 2. "Hey I was just wondering if you had a boyfriend" "Why?" "I thought you're cute and I had to say hi" "Thanks." (Silence) 3. "Hey! Mind if I ask you a question?" (Ignores but is listening to you.) 4. "Hey! Mind if I ask you a question?" "Yes." (Coldly.) (But obviously you can still ask whatever you want.worst case scenario she ignores you) Etc. Without exvep…
/r/askTRP29/11/18 09:57 PM
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