What’s the difference between paying for a date in NYC before taking her home and paying for a bar girl in south east Asia ?

Psychological_Radish · 2018-12-09T20:00:45+00:00

Betas take a transactional view of sex because that's what the Blue Pill teaches; if you do X like a good little boy, then you will be rewarded with sex. So you're right, there isn't really a difference in principle.

However, the real question is why are you even paying for dates in the first place? Fundamentally, your question reveals a Beta mentality because you can't envision a situation where a woman has genuine desire to sleep with you. Most of my lays were either free or close to free ($5 for a beer at a dive bar) and I live in a city with a high cost of living.

BPasFuck · 2018-12-09T20:16:55+00:00

Are you autistic?

The differences:

One: Involves departing from your home culture and traveling halfway around the world in search of greener pastures for hunting pussy.

The other: Involves pursuing whatever your mission is and fucking women on the side.

That's the difference.

That's why one is kinda ick.

It is essentially the result of abandoning whatever goals you have outside of pussy, in favor of what you think will be a cheap, and easy pursuit in some foreign land.

Let me tell you, fella, the people there in Thailand? They see you coming from miles away. And every one of them is there with a goal of emptying your wallet.

And if you are lucky, and fortunate -- you will eventually leave there a little poorer, having mindlessly fucked a few girls, and become a little less able to relate to women compatible with your home and culture, and with stories you won't want to share around the Christmas Dinner table.

If you are not so lucky, you could wind up leaving with permanent, negative changes to your health, and a whole lot less money.

Maybe you're a generally lucky guy.

But I'm willing to bet that you're not. I'm willing to bet that for the most part, your life has been an 'unlucky' one.

This doesn't mean you shouldn't go. I'm just trying to spell it out for you-- your notion that it's all equivalent is so idiotic, that you really need to question your assumptions here.

If you stay in the safe, straightforward, expected paths of a sex tourist in thailand, you will probably be okay. But you'll also be one of "those" guys. Nothing wrong with it, if that's what you're prepared to be-- it is what it is.

If you try and go outside of that path-- well, you might find things get a little slippery, and a whole lot more costly.

If you wanna fuck this badly-- well, you might as well go and do it-- get it out of your system. But don't be a blind dummy, trying to justify it by saying it's no different from staying home, working on your self, and blowing cash on thots.

If you're blowing cash on thots-- you're doing it wrong.

fnxmobile · 2018-12-09T19:44:39+00:00

Don't call your mom a slut

2stoned0jaguar9tre · 2018-12-09T21:14:24+00:00

I dont pay for sex. Thats beta shit. If you can get a cute girl that will let you play with her ass without paying a dime for it, now youre doing it right.

Title	What’s the difference between paying for a date in NYC before taking her home and paying for a bar girl in south east Asia ?
Author	Retstortion
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Date	December 9, 2018 7:41 PM UTC (7 years ago)
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