My best buddy at work, a girl I’ve been glued to since we started working together 6 months ago (I.e. we carpool, take all breaks and lunches together, we’re together ALL the time), has all of a sudden decided to ghost me, for no apparent reason.

I’ve decided to ghost her back, no communication at all, I’ve blocked her number, blocked her on social media, and today I didn’t give her any attention, completely disregarded her presence(she literally sits behind me). It was sooo hard for me b/c to me, she’s my best friend in the office, I’m into her and I think she’s into me, although she’s in a LTR. I want to make her mine, now more than ever, her ghosting, god dammit, is working on me....

I’m wondering why she ghosted me? Idk if she wants end being friends in fear that she may make a mistake by hooking up and jeopardize her relationship, or if I’ve made her believe we can never be together by not giving her any indications of my attraction towards her.

Maybe she just doesn’t like me, but if that was the case, why would she always want to be with me, the whole day, EVERY day?

Now that I’ve ghosted her, how long to wait before I can just ask her straight up if she has feelings for me, and that I’m down with her? I’ve always kept my distance from her, there have been times where I knew I could have her but I didn’t do it b/c I didn’t want to ruin our friendship. Lol, now there is no friendship. Might as well shoot for it while emotions are still high, right?

So what do u think? Do I got a chance, or is it too late?

TL;DR

Best friend at work, ghosted me, I ghosted her back, I think she likes me, I like her, when should I end my ghosting so I can pull the trigger and go for it?