How many girls do you approach, on average, per week?

Diece · 2015-03-25T04:42:35+00:00

Around 10 or so, one per day roughly.

americanpegasus · 2015-03-25T09:47:37+00:00

I've been doing this for a lot of years, and I still hate cold approaching. I don't think that ever goes away.

I'm in good shape, attractive, have a good job, and am confident, but still dread cold approaches to hot women.

But I do it anyway, all the time.

You know why? Because at this point in my life, I know the pain and shame of having skipped the opportunity is worse than any rejection. I never regret any woman I've talked to who has turned me down. I sorely regret all the times in my life I was too chicken shit to approach someone I liked.

As well, as long as you aren't a blithering idiot it is unlikely for anyone to be outright insulting / hostile. Simply walking up, introducing yourself, and then chatting them up about whatever you feel like will either result in them being attracted to you or politely dismissing you.

You should be able to tell the difference between the two based on body language fairly quickly.

So you either make a new friend, or you don't. Either way, you walk away from that interaction better off and feeling good about yourself. Every time.

The pain of not approaching someone you find attractive is far worse than getting rejected.

[deleted] · 2015-03-25T13:30:34+00:00

Quality over quantity.

You can approach 100 girls while daygaming and end up with a couple numbers.

Or you can approach 10 girls at a house party and get a couple numbers.

Build up your social network and approach women at more intimate settings for greater success.

MrEiffel · 2015-03-25T13:35:23+00:00

Good social network => Fun social gathering => I don't even have to try, they approach me.

Title	How many girls do you approach, on average, per week?
Author	AllOrDeath
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Date	March 25, 2015 3:51 AM UTC (11 years ago)
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