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WHAT? just because a fucking "ENDORSED" title in your fucking name does mean fuck all. WHY THE FUCK does it have to be an EC contributor to post something like this, who says you know more about TRP than this guy or the next guy. You've demonstrated good insight, grats thats why you chose to sensor someones who clearly is upset with TRP and judging by the up votes others are upset to. People want GOOD FUCKING CONTENT they don't give a fuck who posts it.. Go ahead, ban me but before you do check …
/r/TheRedPill05/11/15 08:00 PM
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yes, the ones I posted are the most popular ones but I'm sure there is some really good content that gets less than 1000 views a month.
/r/TheRedPill05/11/15 07:54 PM
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pretty much... I used to be a relatively active poster too. I love how every FR always talks about how every women in the room started eyeing me and looking at me. I was getting tones of stares, they could feel my masculine energy.. Yea right, if people actually gamed women they would realize that the shit that the FR's get posted are bullshit. Even just a same day lay in game (daygame) is rare.
/r/TheRedPill05/11/15 07:52 PM
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I posted bunch of sites, in the forums there are some people that have been married for many years. I think marriage is important if you want kids. Here's a recent post I've seen regarding marriage, it's really interesting. https://www.rooshvforum.com/thread-51473.html I think you will enjoy it.
/r/TheRedPill05/11/15 07:32 PM
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because you let them
/r/askTRP05/11/15 06:00 AM
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If you want a community with people that are actively going out, less armchair participation and cool fucking dudes to hang with check out. https://www.rooshvforum.com http://www.realcmqforum.com
/r/TheRedPill05/11/15 02:45 AM
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It's a good idea but it would be empty because most people in TRP probably aren't getting laid. There's a lot of armchair MGTOW's here, it's not what it used to be imo. In other communities like Roosh and Christian Mcqueen there's "I-just-had-sex" thread where people post how they got the girl and other things. Sometimes there is a candid photo or two. I'd be down for something like that on reddit, only thing is. If the women you're banging find it you will be in a lot of trouble, a few well kno…
/r/TheRedPill04/11/15 03:42 PM
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you should always text the day after saying you had a good time. if you dont her hamster will run wild
/r/TheRedPill02/08/15 03:47 PM
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to be honest, I don't want the women I'm with talking about science, politics or whatever.
/r/TheRedPill02/08/15 02:25 AM
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If you had more game you could of got the number, that's a pretty flirty retort I would of responded with "Probably not, I'm not the jealous type." or something. It's cool though, gj on ur first approach now do more.
/r/seduction30/07/15 03:39 AM
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absolutely awful advice. good intent but its going to do way more harm than good friendships rarely build into relationships, and the ones I've seen do are where the guy is much higher value than the girl but she improves her appearence enough to spark the guys interest. Familiarity is NOT seductive. Looks also do matter, a lot. An ugly guy won't be with super hot chicks unless he's got money or something else that elevates his value.
/r/seduction24/07/15 02:51 AM
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as with all women you read their actions not their words. When you showed you were more invested into her, by sending a text apologized you turned her off. You may of felt weird but she didnt or she would show it in her actions. Familiarity is not seductive. What she is communicating to you is. "Im not interested" Saying you moved to fast is just a way to communicate dissinterest in a socially acceptable way. You didnt move too fast, you probably didnt move fast enough.
/r/seduction19/07/15 11:01 PM
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this is awful advice. Good hearted but bad advice.
/r/seduction18/07/15 06:47 PM
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youre just anoter option to her. The wayshe looks at it is, why do i have to be intimate with him if he still gives me validation and attention without amything in return. She keeps you for the attention.
/r/seduction18/07/15 05:04 PM
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its good tontrigger anxiety in girls, familiarity is not attractive. Shes wondering who the other girl is or why you canceled. Dont apologize and dont explain what happened.
/r/seduction18/07/15 03:29 PM
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simply meet more women, you are attaching yourself to chicks because you have no abundance in your life. There is no such thing as a special girl. Or the ONE,
/r/seduction18/07/15 03:26 PM
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women of substance dont really exist.
/r/TheRedPill18/07/15 02:55 PM
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be yourself is the ditties advice possible
/r/seduction05/07/15 02:39 PM
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You're sorta on the right track. Most of the reason we have approach anxiety is because it is NOT normal to talk to people we don't know. That's strictly the way westerners are brought up, there's a stark difference from western beliefs and south america. Furthermore people that talk in their internal dialogue can be annoying as fuck. I've done a lot of work on whether talking more or talking less is better and talking less seems to work much better. The whole premise of giving value and taking,…
/r/TheRedPill14/06/15 03:10 AM
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Not giving a fuck is terrible advice for the corporate world.
/r/TheRedPill03/05/15 04:28 PM
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i dont even remember the girls from when i started.
/r/seduction19/04/15 05:22 AM
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What the fuck, I never understood this way of thinking. You're only 20 you got plenty time to do what you want. The only people I hear say that are fucking losers. Do things, get new experiences, start a business and fail, play a sport, sell drugs it doesn't matter. Get the life experiences and use your youthful energy to its fullest. I'm also 20 and there is not ENOUGH time to do what I want. Time is fucking precious don't waste it.
/r/seduction18/04/15 09:07 PM
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I'd try some fun guessing games with their order, like they come in and you can be like "Let me guess....." "you are a steak sub kind of girl" They will ask why you thought that or if you got it right you can use her appearance Her: (looking at menu) ME: let me guess... you are a steak sub kind of girl Her: no why do you say that? Me: the red tank top tells me you like to have a good time and don't care about ruining your clothes,. A girl in a white dress will not order a steak sub. Then just go…
/r/seduction18/04/15 09:02 PM
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Let me get this straight, you expect someone ELSE to change you? You have got to be fucking kidding me. You can't even take enough responsibility to try to change yourself. Are you that fucking worthless that you don't even give yourself the best shot possible. There's no fucking magical formula that will get you results instantly.
/r/seduction18/04/15 08:54 PM
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Shoot
/r/seduction18/04/15 02:38 AM
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This girl sounds like a waste of time. Her "I'm not comfortable with any touching on the first date was a shit test."
/r/seduction16/04/15 03:24 PM
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Be a player but don't let it show in areas that are important to your life. Like family and business, if you do you will have jealous guys and girls trying to sabotage you.
/r/seduction15/04/15 12:12 AM
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I get the same feeling, sometimes I'll do things just to see what I can get away with and what people's reactions will be. Mystery is the same way.
/r/seduction15/04/15 12:09 AM
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Craigslist has a lot of good options
/r/seduction14/04/15 03:36 PM
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off topic but shes fucking ugly
/r/TheRedPill07/04/15 07:46 AM
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no you have it wrong, I won't have sex with feminists
/r/seduction07/04/15 12:37 AM
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You want to be how you are? Are you fucking kidding me You've been "yourself" for the past ten years. Where has it gotten you? Probably not laid. Think of a guy that gets a lot of pussy, I'll use Jack Nicholson. If Jack has a date with a ten and she flakes on him. Whats hit reaction going to be? NEXT. He's not going to give two shits if she flakes because he fifty other tens he could call right there and they will be over. What type of behavior is this? Non-needy behavior. He isn't needy because…
/r/seduction06/04/15 10:46 PM
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short answer. no long answer. when i get time
/r/seduction06/04/15 05:42 PM
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Feminism
/r/seduction06/04/15 01:11 PM
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Australia is among the worst places for girls.
/r/seduction06/04/15 07:16 AM
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Its online, I'm not going to find it for you
/r/seduction05/04/15 08:06 AM
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Don't rationalize a fear of sexual rejection. Sleep with her and read Sex God Method.
/r/seduction05/04/15 07:00 AM
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Always go for the kiss but dont escalate too much if you arent in the sex location.
/r/seduction04/04/15 08:06 PM
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Stop with the limiting fucking beliefs, this whole post is whining about how you are invisible to the opposite sex. There isn't a single fucking thing I can write here that is going to fix that overnight. You already know what you need to fucking do so go out and do it.
/r/seduction04/04/15 05:00 AM
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Specifics on the 2nd date? where did you go, what did you talk about.
/r/seduction04/04/15 03:05 AM
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what do you want to improve on specifically?
/r/seduction04/04/15 02:58 AM
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If you look up the definition of promiscuous you would find that both men and women can be promiscuous. The only thing is, a man that is promiscuous is high value and a women that is promiscuous is low value. “A key that opens many locks is a master-key, but a lock opened by many keys is just a shitty lock.”
/r/seduction04/04/15 02:57 AM
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You show her you like her, don't tell, Nothing is more boring than a guy that tells everything on his mind to a girl. There's no mystery. If you are fucking her she knows you like her. There's a bigger problem here, you claim to be on one date and you ALREADY really like her? That shouldn't happen and I'm going to go on a limb and say you haven't fucked her yet. Fuck her first before you even CONSIDER long term.
/r/seduction04/04/15 02:55 AM
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You can talk about ANYTHING you want as long as it promotes emotional response aka feelings. Here's an example "I just got my new car today, it's really fast and it's a rare model." This is an example of a poor sentence when talking to a girl, it doesn't have any emotion tied to it. You listed mostly facts, this is how you would talk to a guy. This new car I got, when I drive around in it, it reminds me of when I was younger and my dad would take me for drive in his corvette, the wind in my hair…
/r/seduction04/04/15 02:52 AM
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you already asked this question and you got your answer. It's pretty obvious why she lost interest.
/r/seduction04/04/15 02:42 AM
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You can't get around LMR. If you aren't getting it you are escalating too slow or you have limited experience. Getting past lmr isn't convincing her to fuck you, its establishing comfort and making her not feel like a slut..
/r/seduction03/04/15 08:24 PM
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sounds like a shit test.
/r/seduction03/04/15 07:23 PM
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I avoid Friday and Saturday for 2nd dates. Those 2 days are the most premium days a girl has in the week and it's usually reserved for friends. Saturday dates are usually when you start to have chemistry and you both quite like each other, the relationship is a little more "serious".
/r/seduction03/04/15 07:22 PM
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I used to advocate calling but a lot of girls are nervous on the phone. I'd just text and keep it short, strictly logistics avoid flirty banter.
/r/seduction03/04/15 04:56 PM
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Remember. She's not a slut.
/r/seduction03/04/15 04:52 PM
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How often do you take the initiative and escalate?
/r/seduction03/04/15 04:46 PM
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Well its clear what happened here, she initiated sex because you weren't able to be a man and initiate it like your supposed to. If she had to initiate sex her first thought is "I hope next time he isn't such a big fucking pussy that I have to do the work." Then date 2 comes along and she has to fucking initiate the make out. At this point it's a sinking ship, her interest is draining quick and every minute you don't make a move it's only going to get lower and lower. For date 3 she isn't thinki…
/r/seduction03/04/15 04:30 PM
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Investment = Sex. The more you have sex with a girl the more invested she becomes. Why would a girl want to go on a third date when all she got on the second is a kiss. Your not playing hard to get you are just showing her you have no interest in her. If you go to kiss a girl and she is really receptive then that means you could of went a lot further. Did she initiate the sex on the first date?
/r/seduction03/04/15 04:11 PM
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How did you fuck her on the first date but only kiss on the second...
/r/seduction03/04/15 04:02 PM
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Id never say that. Its too passive aggressive, its kind of a needy response too. You want to act that sex isn't a big deal, you get it all the time.
/r/seduction03/04/15 04:01 PM
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Yea dude
/r/seduction03/04/15 03:56 PM
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Why are you telling me your problems? Oh okay, I'm not the jealous type
/r/seduction03/04/15 04:18 AM
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sit down
/r/seduction29/03/15 02:00 PM
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Lets use the Brad Pitt example, if Brad Pitt approached a girl on Tumblr, she was in his area and he has demonstrated high value through his blog. Would she meet with him? It would be hard work in the beginning but if you actually like the shit you blog about, it could be a passive pussy source.
/r/seduction29/03/15 06:47 AM
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I would never of said "I'm looking forward to this" but because you did my response back to her would be either silence. If you silence her out shes probably going to text you when shes drunk. OR "No, I want you to drunk text me." OR "When are you ever responsible?"
/r/seduction29/03/15 06:37 AM
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I'd normally ignore this but I wonder if you could get her to qualify herself to you with this. "What! I didn't know you are depressed." If she's fishing for a compliment and you said this I think she would start qualifying herself. "No I'm not depressed." If she goes "What makes you say that?" respond with "Most depressed people have poor self image." idk if this would work, i'd never done it but I think it'd be interesting to try.
/r/seduction29/03/15 06:29 AM
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she looks like garbage
/r/PussyPassDenied27/03/15 07:24 PM
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Usually reference to something you talked about on the date. "lets go back to my place ill show you my pictures of Moscow." or keep the ingredients to make a martini or a fancy drink. "Lets go back to my place, I make a great martini."
/r/seduction27/03/15 06:53 PM
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its frustrating to see decent advice downvoted.
/r/seduction27/03/15 02:13 AM
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My highschool was fucking awful, I got picked on by a lot of people. It's not that people hated me, it's that I simply wasn't like them. I spent a lot of time playing on the computer and pretty much grew up in my room, the only unique thing about my high school was that I was on good terms with Chris and Kevin, the toughest and coolest kids in the school. Meaning people knew not to fuck with me because then they'd have to deal with them. Still, it didn't really help that I had no social skills a…
/r/seduction27/03/15 02:12 AM
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The post was too long so I cut it into two separate ones. I kind of feel like I'm reading a post written by a younger version of myself. Let's get a few things out of the way first. I want you to think... jstodaount: That's fucking easy..there. No you dummy, think about the people that browse reddit. What is the general demographic? jstodaount: Well it's kind of nerdy, the humor is quirky most of the guy's are in IT or something to do with computers. Generally they appear to be socially awkward …
/r/seduction27/03/15 02:10 AM
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its not that I don't want to show my real self. I can but I chose not to because I don't trust many people. People that are an open book are most often manipulated to shit.
/r/seduction26/03/15 04:38 PM
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different strokes for different folks, what would your moc conversation look like with a girl? Edit: lets say your girl has about the same interest level as the one I depicted.
/r/seduction25/03/15 07:03 AM
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Hmm, that's kind of the thing. I wouldn't say I'm a doctor and I make 100k a year. I'd just provide little bits of information that she can either bite on or not. Being mysterious is great and I love playing the mysterious brooding guy at the bar but when it comes to day game it doesn't seem to do much for me. Here's what I mean. Me: "I made a mean xxx dish with this cauliflower here. It was one of those dishes where you don't think it's going to turnout well and it doesn't look too appetizing b…
/r/seduction25/03/15 06:38 AM
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I fucking love your blog.
/r/seduction25/03/15 05:52 AM
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Learn how to put one on while escalating with a girl, nothing kills the mood faster than "hold on let me spend five minutes trying to put a condom on" Also Learn how to unhook a bra with one hand, girls appreciate this and it makes the whole seduction a lot smoother. Plus this will get them thinking "wow, this guy has been with so many girls that he can stealthy remove my bra."
/r/seduction25/03/15 05:52 AM
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this is decent beginner advice except for one thing. Do not give information to girls that you can use to judge interest. What I mean by this is, I approach a girl and start talking to her, most guys would tell them their name. I don't...why? If she says "I"m X" that's a indicator of interest that you can use to judge how interested she is. It's a small sign but it helps you get a read. When it comes to asking her questions, it's a good idea but NOT when you first approach. I've experimented bot…
/r/seduction25/03/15 05:46 AM
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Great post. Especially regarding Quality. I don't think girls get a lot of quality dick pics that send tingles to their vaginas. A POV view of a dick simply does not do this and they are a dime a dozen.
/r/seduction25/03/15 05:33 AM
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Around 10 or so, one per day roughly.
/r/askTRP25/03/15 04:42 AM
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before or after?
/r/seduction25/03/15 04:08 AM
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I've never done it but I've heard it is really easy, sort of like V-day.
/r/seduction25/03/15 02:41 AM
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how so?
/r/seduction25/03/15 02:37 AM
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You are friendzoned. If you're getting stuck at the friend zone you aren't flirting and teasing her enough for her to know that she is not a friend. I'd never open up to a girl until I fuck her. Once I fuck her she can know a bit about me but before that its strictly teasing and flirting.
/r/seduction25/03/15 02:37 AM
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Playing hard to get or as MetalPUA puts it "Push/Pull" is one of the best ways to create anxiety in women, which is one of your most powerful tools in seduction.
/r/seduction25/03/15 02:31 AM
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Talk to her and flirt before you ask her out. If she goes for the usual prescription you could joke and say "word is on the street (describe her) a blond haired girl with red shoes is selling (her prescription)" But I don't really know the girl, some girls don't understand these kinds of jokes and take it as literal.
/r/seduction25/03/15 02:29 AM
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This is pretty easy, i'd go up and say "I made a mean xxx dish with this cauliflower here. It was one of those dishes where you don't think it's going to turnout well and it doesn't look too appetising but it is." If she says something like "thats cool" you can say "yea,don't ask me for my recipe it's secret. I barely know you." Just make sure you tease her and are playful, the younger she is the more playful and teasing you should do. Don't expect her to hold a conversation right off the bat, s…
/r/seduction25/03/15 02:27 AM
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I could write you a book on this topic but it's not going to help you. Next time you're out make conversation with a random girl. Do not think about picking her up and don't worry about your opener. you can say "This is a nice concert, I like xx band." A girl is standing with you at an intersection waiting for the light to turn "It's hot out today" "The sun is so bright" "Where's xx place?" The point is you want to get her to talk. Girls know what you are doing when you say these things, they ar…
/r/seduction25/03/15 02:22 AM
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What don't you understand?
/r/seduction25/03/15 01:52 AM
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Not a bad thread. The thing that most people forget is that most alphas are criminals and end up in jail. My dad is sort of alpha, and so is a few other guys in my family. The number one thing I've noticed is it doesn't matter how much of an asshole a guy is if a girl sees him as a good person she's going to rationalize everything he does. When my dad split up with my mom, my mom was devastated. She also kept saying "Deep down he's a good guy" "He has a good heart deep down" Girls are attracted …
/r/seduction24/03/15 11:26 PM
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I disagree, genuine people and honest people get used, I never show my true self until I know someone really well. It would be nice if this wasn't true but there are too many sharks out their that know exactly how to get what they want from genuine people.
/r/seduction24/03/15 11:19 PM
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You are never more than friends until you fuck her.
/r/seduction24/03/15 11:13 PM
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You don't. Im an extroverted guy that can get along with almost anyone. As a result I know a lot of people but only a handful of these people are people I genuinely connect with. To the outsider it looks like I can get anyone to like me and that I make friends easily. I don't, I have probably ten core friends the others are just acquaintances. Very few people you meet will develop a personal connection with you. Your best arsenal when it comes to meeting people is stories, people love stories. E…
/r/seduction24/03/15 11:12 PM
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Seduction is an art, an art of manipulation and its hell of a lot of fun.
/r/seduction24/03/15 10:43 PM
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Very rarely do I go for the kiss and she does it. Usually they turn their cheek, its not saying "I don't want to kiss you" its saying "I don't want to kiss you yet.." You should of went back to the conversation like nothing happened and then tried again 10-15 minutes later. Don't let the first sign of resistance turn you away.
/r/seduction24/03/15 10:38 PM
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I have a love-hate relationship with Montreal. On one hand the women are very sexy and take great care of their bodies. On the other hand most French women are feminists and Concordia/McGill is very feminist. Maybe im hanging out with the wrong people but that was a huge turn off when it came to Montreal. Glad to see one of these broads get told no.
/r/PussyPassDenied23/03/15 06:36 AM
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She wants her cake and eat it too, then when you denied that she got pissed. I wouldn't even bother with her
/r/seduction16/03/15 05:00 PM
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It doesn't matter if your getting second dates, are you fucking these girls or not? A second date is useless if all you do is hold hands and maybe make out with her.
/r/seduction16/03/15 03:41 PM
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You gave her a kiss on the cheek and I assume you did no other escalation. From the beginning of the first date you have to be thinking "how can I fuck this girl" that's your goal and you don't stop escalating until you encounter hard resistance. If you don't do this your not get getting a second date.
/r/seduction16/03/15 03:15 PM
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You never kissed her. She has no reason to go on a date with you. Why would she go on a date with a guy that can't even kiss a fucking girl. She doesn't look at you and say that guy is attractive and I want him to fuck me, she's saying this guys a wimp that doesn't go after what he wants but he's free attention and I can get validation from him so I'll keep stringing him a long. All girls are the same, if you don't try to fuck her on the first date there won't be a second. Why are you being witt…
/r/seduction16/03/15 03:04 PM
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Whatever
/r/seduction16/03/15 11:31 AM
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Lmao whatever dude. Theyre not a big deal. Unless were talking about HIV but that's hard to get. Think about it, you fuck a hundred women your bound to get something. Its the law of averages,
/r/seduction16/03/15 06:34 AM
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every player gets an std in fact you are not a player if you never got an std. I wouldn't worry about it, sounds like your just using it as an excuse for your failure with women
/r/seduction16/03/15 05:46 AM
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ur screwing urself over mate. u gotninvited to a party with a hb9 and u declined...chances are she's already talked it over with her friends and know she wants to get with you. stopnrejecting urself
/r/seduction16/03/15 05:43 AM
0

I always call. "Hey, you know who this is. call me at #.
/r/seduction16/03/15 04:27 AM
-1

No never tell a girl your a virgin. You haven't fucked her yet...you shouldn't be thinking about anything but having sex with her. Once you have sex with her you can start conceiving the idea of a relationship.
/r/seduction16/03/15 12:53 AM
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You have no clue what you're talking about. Go and meet women read a few books on seduction, I'd recommend Rooshv Bang.
/r/seduction15/03/15 11:38 PM
0

You have two options. Offer your hand to dance with her then suggest a glass of water where you can run game.
/r/seduction15/03/15 11:36 PM
5

Never tell or let a girl ur a virgin. Instant turn off.
/r/seduction15/03/15 09:44 PM
-1

Study Steve McQueen
/r/seduction15/03/15 08:01 PM
1

Yea and usually they try to tell you that you're sexist/misogynist/insult you. When you have girls doing awesome things for you when they struggle to get a blowjob on valetines day.
/r/seduction15/03/15 07:57 PM
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That's an interesting question. When a guy approaches a girl, girls imply that you are hitting on them. If its daytime I'll flirt but keep the escalation down, an example of this is. Me"you remind me of a valley girl surely your not from there" Her"no, I'm actually Canadian." Me"oh good the only valley girls I know are crazy, I think that place brewed crazy. She did ____" Her"wow, u must hate valley girls" M"kinda, I like Canadians though. Hm I don't see a polar bear.." I sort of flirt/banter. I…
/r/seduction15/03/15 07:52 PM
0

My game is indirect. I usually have my own routines that have a high response rate. For cafes I'll sit close to a girl I'm interested in and then ask her to watch my stuff while I go for a smoke, she usually says yea and I leave. I come back and ask how many people tried to steal my stuff and from that I start a conversation. For bars I'll go up to a girl and say in a really sarcastic tone "U look like ur having the most fun of everyone in here." And go from there. I don't like direct game I pre…
/r/seduction15/03/15 06:23 PM
1

Yes even my friends and family I see the unattractive behavior. I've kind of lost respect for a lot of my family members because they are so weak and bend like a plastic spoon for their gf/wife. Even my own dad is like this.
/r/seduction15/03/15 06:16 PM
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Try indirect game, like what you did with the Chinese girl. I have much more success going indirect than direct. I prefer to make a girl guess if I like her and keep her guessing than just tell her I like you. Direct isn't really seduction imho
/r/seduction15/03/15 05:48 PM
-1

You can't escalate in a coffee shop, keep the conversation socially safe, don't talk about sex even though you probably can its just not a good idea in a coffee shop. Chances are you won't be able to escalate to get her to want to come back to your place. After the coffee shop bounce her to another location preferably one where you can escalate. Once you've atleadt made out of with her you can suggest your place but if you haven't even kissed her I highly doubt she's going to want to listen to m…
/r/seduction15/03/15 05:46 PM
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Dude....we've all been there. I wouldn't of invited her over to my house after meeting on the bus, I would of went to a bar and then to another place before going to the house. But whatever you got a girl to come to your house alone knowing she likes you..... Yet you did nothing, cmon man. You needed to escalate when she said she wants to take it slow you shouldnt of agreed with her. What do her actions say? You don't read women by wat they say but there actions, she's at your fucking house. If …
/r/seduction15/03/15 05:38 PM
-1

I'd watch out op uve fallen into a bit of a provider territory by the way u tried to show her that u aren't like clubs guys. When she told she doesn't hookup with guys from the club that almost certainly means she does or is thinking about it. You should've flipped it on her. "Who said I want to hookup with you? I'm not that type of guy," or "Who said we were hooking up...Jesus ur a bad influence." But good job with the restart. Interested where it goes
/r/seduction15/03/15 05:19 PM
2

If a girl brings up o'er you find out later she has a boyfriend don't even acknowledge it, continue as if she was single. There's a reason she isn't telling you but some of the responses here are hilarious.
/r/seduction14/03/15 02:29 PM
0

That stuffs good but in my opinion there's two lives to live and you can't have both. You can live a safe life, not taking any risks and you will be rewarded with longevity and security. You can live a wild life that you enjoyed but others may hate you for it disregarding rules and security. If you live the second life you give up longevity and probably won't last to 50 or so. Tell me, what interesting things have you done in your life?
/r/seduction07/03/15 07:14 PM
0

iill fuck a 4-5 or even a 3 if she passes the boner test shes game
/r/seduction07/03/15 07:13 AM
1

Every girl I have dated has been way older than me, the girl im talking to right now is 33 and im 20. Older girls are actually pretty easy to deal with, they dont fuck you around and they are actually interested in the conversation. Probably because they are coming to the wall but I don't care I love talking and dating older women. with older women you need to be more mature, I don't mean boring but you can't have the outlook of a 16 year old and expect to keep an older women in your life. It ju…
/r/seduction07/03/15 07:09 AM
0

if she wants to talk to you, she will text back. I take every interaction with a girl beyond the initial approach as a bonus. I don't expect them to respond back to my messages because I'm ready for her to leave as fast as she entered. If I text a girl and we have a small conversation but no date and she ignores me I say to myself. I'm glad to have had the conversation i did, it was a nice bonus. When you have the mentality that everything you do with a girl can be removed instantly from your li…
/r/seduction07/03/15 07:06 AM
2

go out with no expectations, my first night solo I didn't even get into the club because I was too nervous and anxious. I waited in line for a half hour and left. Now I can go into a club, chat with people, pick up or get into some fun situations. Takes time my friend
/r/seduction07/03/15 07:02 AM
0

i think the most important thing is that cool people actually lead interesting lives. you can't fake it, you need the life experience. Look at the king of cool, steve mcqueen. Motherfucker was a stunt pilot, stuntman for his own movies, raced motorcross, acted in a few solid films, had a stream of women around him at all times. It's no doubt that the motherfucker was so cool, he lived a cool life. I've done a few interesting things in my life and people seem to have a sixth sense, when I was a a…
/r/seduction07/03/15 07:00 AM
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im in the same situation except im slightly older and the girl is interested dont let it get you down. age is just a number motherfucka
/r/seduction07/03/15 05:21 AM
1

Don't tell anyone, no girl wants to hear you haven't made out before. That's a surefire turn off.
/r/seduction02/03/15 06:39 AM
0

I've had success not kissing at any time during the date, I'd make it look like I'm going to kiss her and then back out. She wonders if I'm actually going to. Then at the end off the date I invite her back to my place for a drink. Cause u haven't kissed her she assumes that's why you invited her to your place. Then you make out and cuz ur already in ur place its easy to escalate to sex.
/r/seduction02/03/15 03:43 AM
0

I watched his videos, I can't believe people think he has game. being able to approach and get a number isn't game. that's easy, turning that number into a date is game and that's hard. edit: I watched the beach twin pick up and it wqsnt bad. the idea works for such a chill location and playing into the theme. I wonder if any of the numbers went somewhere and if its not fake (hard to tell) then its decent.
/r/seduction27/02/15 11:13 AM
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I'm not the jealous type.
/r/seduction27/02/15 11:03 AM
0

calling is great. it sets.you apart from all.the other guys messaging her. if you get voicemail I always say this and it has a very high response rate. "Hey, you know who this is. Call me at 472-483-3938." be stern with your voice. if you want to text, make sure you keep it short and avoid grammar. If you text "c u @,8" it comes off less.needy than "I'll see you there at 8." as soon as I stopped worrying about grammar and spelling the amount of responses.back.to my texts increased tenfold.
/r/seduction26/02/15 09:13 AM
0

honestly you're fine. you froze her out and she now is afraid she lost you. you didn't escalate but that's not a bad thing at all because now she is wondering if you actually do want to be with her or not. Using a females anxiety to your advantage is very powerful. Your texts weren't beta either, a lot of guys miss that being an asshole won't get you far with women. the secret is to have her think you're a nice guy when everyone around you doesn't see it. my dad is a perfect example of this, whe…
/r/seduction26/02/15 08:57 AM
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seduction is amoral, if a girl is in a relationship and her boyfriend isnt doing a very good job then its his fault if she cheats. I have no remorse for her boyfriend its his fault and if she doesn't cheat with you it will be someone else.
/r/seduction26/02/15 08:47 AM
0

I'd show value, create a guild set up group events, lead your friends. Once they realize that you're a valuable guy that brings fun you can say. Just don't treat them like a friend, maintain frame and do some flirting. "I'm headed up past xxx location for business(or whatever you want to say) let's grab a coffee and hang.out." or if your group of friends all live close yo each other invite them over to your place or rent out a location close to everyone and have a gaming party. I would not use a…
/r/seduction26/02/15 08:44 AM
0

okay, I sort of see what your saying. if you look at the body language of most of the girls its really negative and some of them are even trying to "escape" the situation. my rejections aren't usually like that. My harshest rejection of the 200 or so approaches I've done was when a girl said I was "barking up the wrong tree" followed with I have a boyfriend. I don't know the sample size of the video but I wouldn't doubt that he gets reactions like these quite often especially considering his sty…
/r/seduction26/02/15 08:38 AM
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I'd say no Id rather have ice cream. then I'd have her respond with whatever, if she brings it up again I'd be serious and do what top upvote guy said.
/r/seduction26/02/15 07:21 AM
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I don't doubt that but then it isn't really seduction and is the same as the prank videos you see all over YouTube.
/r/seduction26/02/15 07:09 AM
2

looks are important, believe it or not when you first meet a women the first thing she's going to judge is your looks. actually the first thing a women judges is shoes believe it or not. that's why when I'm wearing my nice boat shoes, that are from the 60s I almost always get compliments on them when I approach a girl and she is somewhat interested.
/r/seduction26/02/15 07:08 AM
1

seduction is a form of art and it doesn't surprise me that people here down vote you. this sub is full of losers, just like most of reddit.
/r/seduction26/02/15 07:04 AM
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I think its his sense of fashion. he looks like a clown, its like he's peacocking but too much. he doesn't fit into any alpha male category. what I mean by that is he doesn't look like an athlete, business man, mysterious brooding guy or artist. he has no sense of body language either. Girls are clearly not into him but then he asks for a kiss. he doesn't calibrate for the situation. basically he looks like a loser that just read "the game". for most men its almost always a better idea to drop t…
/r/seduction26/02/15 07:01 AM
0

college is 90% social circle game this guy knows his stuff http://thecollegeplayer.net/
/r/seduction26/02/15 05:34 AM
0

not enough attraction and oddly enough I get 90% less flakes when I call instead of text. Not a lot of dudes have the balls to call and it makes her remember you better.
/r/seduction26/02/15 05:32 AM
0

does this guy actually get any success? he looks like a fucking tool and dresses like one too. look at the girls he's qpproaching and look at the way the motherfuckers dressed. everything about him screams low value even the way he walks. Look at his walk it screams "I am out searching for pussy and this is all I do with my life." if you're getting rejected like this often its because something about you really puts girls off. I've approached a lot of women and I've probably got rejected like th…
/r/seduction26/02/15 05:30 AM
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you are a fucking idiot
/r/seduction26/02/15 05:18 AM
1

if she's reading a book I'll take a look at it and find out the author and a little back story then approach her "hey, that's a good choice reading my book." then introduce yourself as the author, like if the books author is Sherlock Holmes. say "I'm Sherlock, sherlock Holmes" then just go from there. sometimes they'll play along in which case you can say "how did you get my personal edition?"
/r/seduction26/02/15 05:17 AM
1

idk why this gets downvoted. Rooshv and his subordinates have more game then everyone on reddit combined.
/r/seduction25/02/15 06:37 AM
3

that's because you very rarely can escalate that much during the day. the logistics aren't there and neither is the girls "horniness". you can get a number in the day meetup at night and later have sex but having sex on the initial approach is really rare.
/r/seduction25/02/15 06:35 AM
6

never use the word "so" when starting a sentence. it screams that your grasping for straws. I personally make statements. "i bet ur a dreamer." although personally I'd never use number one its not my style.
/r/seduction25/02/15 06:32 AM
1

To piss you off, seemed to accomplish the deed.
/r/TheRedPill23/02/15 12:06 AM
2

Honestly, it's the type of attitude everyone should have. It's rejuvenating. Focus on having a fun vibe that amuses you, don't do it to amuse other people. If you're not feeling that vibe don't force it. Let it come, it will.
/r/seduction22/02/15 09:28 AM
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I don't really care about holding frame on the internet. Doesn't get me anything.
/r/TheRedPill21/02/15 06:48 PM
1

I'm leaving but lets go out this week and do same game
/r/seduction21/02/15 06:46 PM
1

Non, je suis Canadian. My french is pretty bad. Pm sent.
/r/seduction21/02/15 06:46 PM
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No I don't. But I'm sure you have a lot of participation medals. Go fuck yourself.
/r/TheRedPill21/02/15 10:56 AM
1

Your X age, you don't look a day over 50.
/r/seduction21/02/15 10:07 AM
2

Well, you are a dancing monkey aren't you? Going out sarging to work on game in my opinion can't be anymore desperate. Don't approach girls just to get a number, approach because it's fun. The fun vibe will carry over into your interactions and you'll start finding success.
/r/seduction21/02/15 10:05 AM
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sounds like your game is shit. The only way to get better is to keep doing it, the first time I tried game the girl left before I even said hello. You're putting girls on a pedestal, don't. But them underneath the pedestal.
/r/seduction21/02/15 10:02 AM
7

dont go to male fashion advice unless you want to look like a fruitcake.
/r/seduction21/02/15 10:01 AM
7

I don't think you fucked up at all. She wanted a dick picture and if she replied back asking why you sent a dick pic I'd of just said "Read your past messages and how can you see how I would of thought that?" Her response means she liked it but you shouldn't of apologized.It also sounds like you placing her on a pedestal. Trust me on this, don't put her on a pedestal and be ready for her to leave your life as fast as she entered.
/r/seduction21/02/15 09:54 AM
1

bar club game theres your with people that have no affiliation with you, they don't know anyone but their small group of friends. if your the leader of the 30 people you may get ioi's but probably won't pull in fact i guarantee you wont pull unless theres other circumstances im unware of
/r/seduction18/02/15 08:25 AM
1

yea, I got really carried away with the writing. I've debated shortening it but I decided against it. I know there's a ton of information and for those willing to read 3000 words then it's theirs, if not it's not my problem. I don't think you will get a severe illness from writing in a diary. It doesn't really feel like talking to yourself, it's like your putting your thoughts onto paper. The thoughts DEEP in your head that you may not know exist will come out. I wouldn't call it reflecting eith…
/r/TheRedPill16/02/15 10:59 AM
1

Putins biography is a pretty solid book and he's alpha as fuck. It doesn't directly relate to women and it's nonfiction but it's an really interesting read.
/r/TheRedPill16/02/15 10:50 AM
2

I'm not sure the obsession reddit seduction/trp have with approaching. It'su such a simple thing yet people over complicate the shit of it. Approaching is literally 5% of the battle and numbers don't mean shit. Yes, approaching will get you in the door and yes, you miss 100% of the shots you don't take but approaching is fucking easy. I've approached so many girls, and my openers have ranged from the ridiculous to the plain and boring. "You look quebecois, are you. Parle francais?" "Green is def…
/r/TheRedPill16/02/15 10:41 AM
2

gah, i must of got carried away when writing.
/r/TheRedPill13/02/15 10:11 AM
9

My mom is the same way and I just cut her out from my life for a while. I didn't talk to her for five months, she would call and text and I simply ignored her.
/r/TheRedPill13/02/15 08:22 AM
2

but why not give yourself the best possible chance. You only have yourself, you can't leave your body and come back. Game gives you the best chance and to be honest, more guys would look attractive if they actually cared about how they looked to the opposite sex. I have a friend that blows this shit out the water. He's this fat fucking art guy, he's huge at least 400-500 pounds and this motherfucker has game. He always has a girl with him and he pulls. He may not do well on tinder/online dating …
/r/TheRedPill13/02/15 08:21 AM
5

I can only speak for Montreal but the style here is very hipster with tattoos and all of that hipster shit. I think my example was a little too basic and straight forward, if you spoke fluent in a second language you would have a pretty huge SMV boost. Human interactions are a lot more complicated than the example I gave.
/r/TheRedPill11/02/15 11:57 AM
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I think that depends with there you live, in Montreal I could definitely see that but in Russia I HIGHLY doubt the losers with washboards would be that successful. I think it goes with the types of men that are attracted to locations. Like Cali surfer guys probably do really well on home turf but take them too Paris they probably bomb. This is assuming that their is no language barrier and the losers are fluent in Russian/French.
/r/TheRedPill11/02/15 09:55 AM
1

could you elaborate more on "coming off too strong."
/r/TheRedPill15/01/15 06:16 AM
1

yikes, hmmm. You're right, maybe I do have a feminine mentality. fuck
/r/TheRedPill15/01/15 06:10 AM
1

I'm confused. I believe I am doing what I want to do but it's not really helping me. I may give them validation I'm not sure, I'll have to think about that one.
/r/TheRedPill15/01/15 06:02 AM
1

I never got into weed for some reason. I've tried it a few times and the last time I did it I had a really, really bad trip. Hesitant to try it again for that reason. Psychedelics on the other hand.... Edit: I'm mainly interested in becoming more creative and having a more artistic way of thinking about things. Are Psychs a good way to develop this?
/r/TheRedPill11/01/15 11:59 AM
1

The number was cool but I was just as content without getting it. The opportunity presented itself and I figured what the hell. People are fun to chat with and the number was just a by-product.
/r/seduction11/01/15 10:29 AM
2

Exactly, it's kind of hard to describe the feeling to people that haven't done it before but you did a solid job. I want to look into ways to get that state without the drug.
/r/seduction11/01/15 10:27 AM
1

Pretty much I wanted to say but saved me the time haha, perfect post mate.
/r/seduction11/01/15 10:24 AM
1

How would I re-word my sentence so it is correct?
/r/TheRedPill11/01/15 09:45 AM
1

great resource.
/r/seduction11/01/15 09:42 AM
2

I definitely want to try it, I'm pretty big into EDM so I'm sure one day it will come to me.
/r/seduction11/01/15 08:03 AM
0

I'd actually like to try LSD sometime later this year. It's a shame it's so hard to get find though... Never heard of DMT is it anything like DXM? I'm actually right downtown near Saint Laurent metro. You from mtl as well?
/r/TheRedPill11/01/15 05:22 AM
1

hmm, I have limited experience with other drugs but I did feel more freer on MDMA. I assume your talking about LSD?
/r/TheRedPill11/01/15 04:40 AM
1

YES!!! That's the best way to describe my experience. The ego died I could do what I wanted without my ego holding me back.
/r/TheRedPill11/01/15 03:53 AM
5

Make sure it's MDMA and not some bullshit like bath salts and make sure it's pure. Do your research!
/r/seduction11/01/15 03:45 AM
1

Exactly, drugs can be really eye opening and a terrific tool for opening your mind but you have to be extremely careful. Funny enough I don't care for weed, last time I smoked it I had a really, really bad trip and can't be bothered to try it again.
/r/TheRedPill11/01/15 03:43 AM
2

You're talking about Tor right?
/r/TheRedPill11/01/15 03:41 AM
1

Mmmmm poutine. I've heard of these studies too, it will be interesting to see what the future holds. I've never done shrooms but a buddy of mine did and he ended up driving in the middle of the night, pulled over at a forest and started wandering through it. He doesn't remember much.
/r/TheRedPill11/01/15 03:40 AM
1

Yep, you hear so many stories about people dying at festivals and concerts from some stuff they bought at the venue. Like what do you expect.
/r/TheRedPill11/01/15 03:37 AM
1

-40 a couple days ago... I had my fun and that's it I don't plan to do the stuff for a long time.
/r/TheRedPill11/01/15 03:35 AM
1

The best way I can put it is that safe drug use can open your mind to abstract views of life. Getting high on difficult tasks is great but thats a linear approach. See task complete task feel good. Whereas with safe drug use you can see the all of the small connections in life, things you don't see when you are sober. Then when you are sober you remember those connections and carry them over into your non-drug induced life.
/r/TheRedPill11/01/15 03:34 AM
3

I'm curious and if you don't mind me asking. Was she on any medication prior to using MDMA?
/r/TheRedPill11/01/15 03:23 AM
1

As long as you are very precautious, test your drugs, done ALL of your research and realize you are just trying the drug and recognize that you are playing with hot fire. Go for it.
/r/TheRedPill10/01/15 11:28 PM
0

That's exactly what is was like. I got fucking friction burns from rubbing my legs on my bed too much. Everything felt so good haha.
/r/seduction10/01/15 11:03 PM
1

There is no morals in seduction. Sexual strategy is amoral.
/r/seduction09/01/15 03:26 AM
-2

Sexual strategy is amoral.
/r/seduction09/01/15 03:25 AM
2

Hey man, read this post. You think TRP it's more beta than this or this then I have no reason to respond to your posts.
/r/seduction08/01/15 01:15 PM
1

Damn, I was considering doing a post to trp but I think i'd be better off to sleep haha. I'll give it a read.
/r/askTRP08/01/15 01:07 PM
1

Ahh you've helped me a lot mate. This is so much easier then waiting for responses from people that probably aren't even qualified to give advice. I want to award you but I can't justify starving haha. thanks mate If i delete the post do you still get karma?
/r/askTRP08/01/15 01:03 PM
2

yea I did. ♂
/r/askTRP08/01/15 12:58 PM
1

Here's my pictures I could use for Tinder. which are best and is my bio good? Bio: I'm married to pizza. I'd rather trespass and I rap. Sorry I'm not black. http://imgur.com/a/40F3q
/r/askTRP08/01/15 12:57 PM
2

It's not but it's your loss.
/r/seduction08/01/15 12:20 PM
1

all of my descriptions? was there anything worth keeping Edit: I knew posting here was a better idea. The profile you just read was received well at okc subreddit. Beta bullshit. Edit: Removed some bullshit, updated it.
/r/askTRP08/01/15 12:05 PM
0

It's because the basis of red pill is to "unplug" and reveal what women TRULY are. That cute girl that says she only had sex once has actually had sex four times or whatever. Basically you get to learn how women operate and how they view things. It MAY seem misogynist to the naked eye but a womens not what they say but how they act. Observe the women in your life and compare the way they act with the philosophies of redpill. You'l see a lot of shit line-up. Redpill is on POINT when it comes to u…
/r/seduction08/01/15 09:32 AM
3

This is interesting and kind of confirms what I've learned with cold approach. She was ALREADY attracted to you. When she saw you she thought, hmm he's hot and subconsciously she wants you to have sex with her. You think if a hobo said the same thing you did he would of had the same response? Fuck no. I'm not trying to bring you down or anything because as far as I am concerned cold approach is approaching the women that give IOI or are neutral. You asked her where the next stop was. She could o…
/r/seduction08/01/15 05:22 AM
0

why are you writing when you have a bear with you? Is it your pet? hahah
/r/seduction08/01/15 02:22 AM
-1

YES r/TheRedPill is 10000% better than r/seduction and the people their actually have results.
/r/seduction08/01/15 02:17 AM
11

r/seduction has turned to shit. A lot of the shit that gets posted here is brags, re-iterations of models and just bullshit in general. I know I'm going to get a lot of flak for saying this but I stand by what I believe in. r/TheRedPill is much, much more useful than r/seduction. The people know what the fuck is up and there is a lot of very knowledgeable users in regards to women behavior and how to be a better man. Game isn't really talked about though, it's more about how to be the best man y…
/r/seduction08/01/15 02:13 AM
1

Do you actually care about those people or did you force yourself to talk to them? Like I just don't fucking care about others to talk to them at a bus stop or wherever.
/r/TheRedPill07/01/15 07:15 AM
1

That is really interesting I'd say I'm a little creative, decent people skills and a bit athletic but not much. Relating this to PUA, is PUA just a way for guys to "trick" the system? Where does PUA fall into this? Is there any book you recommend regarding this type of thing? It's really interesting.
/r/TheRedPill03/01/15 08:21 PM
0

Then according to your post; guys that are virgins are guys that are designed to be weeded out of genetics. They bring nothing valuable to the table correct? There genes are lazy and unmotivated. What girl wants that?
/r/TheRedPill03/01/15 05:31 PM
2

If you were take an artist and an athletic type guy, They are equal in all aspects and at the same level in their craft would the artist or the athlete be more attractive for flings (AF). I've already read AOS by Robert Greene. Really good book and I definately enjoyed it.
/r/TheRedPill03/01/15 05:53 AM
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and now I'm on some crazy adventure with two girls I jsust met. So glad I went out. Edit: just like that they left haha whatever. Clubs are so new to me
/r/TheRedPill02/01/15 05:02 AM
2

Well right now I don't really want to go out. I have 7 bucks in my bank account and it's really fucking cold outside. Plus the place I want to go to is mostly french speaking and I don't speak french. I'm still going to go. Even if the place sucks ass I'll salvage the night by walking in the historic part of MTL where I know there will be girls to chat up. If that fails I know a cafe that always has university kids in it. Either way I'm going to go out tonight. You really need to start your day …
/r/TheRedPill02/01/15 03:51 AM
5

Biggie also was really RP. Didn't take shit from anyone including bitches.
/r/TheRedPill01/01/15 04:02 AM
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I think this brings up an interesting topic. Why are artists so seductive? What makes them so good with women despite having nothing too them aside from art.
/r/TheRedPill25/12/14 09:14 PM
2

When they did the song called sun and moon and the whole crowd was singing "You're the sun moon to me, you'll never get over me and I'll never get over you."
/r/TheRedPill25/12/14 01:44 AM
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Depends. Montreal is from my knowledge a lot different than GTA. You have 4 universities close by and multiple CEGEP's which is like Grade 13. Montreal is notna very big city. Downtown is small but really condensed. But outside of downtown you have boroughs that each have their own flare to them. Outside of downtown, Montreal feels like multiple small towns strung together. Its a very charming city though. Don't be surprised if you don't want to leave!
/r/TheRedPill24/12/14 07:29 AM
1

I thought about moving west but I really didn't want to live in isolation or away from city life. I love cities, so inspiring.
/r/TheRedPill24/12/14 07:23 AM
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It was okay, if you move east or north you start to run into language barrier but downtown you're fine. Jobs are a little harder but still findable.
/r/TheRedPill24/12/14 07:22 AM
2

I was 19, in 20 now. I've been in Montreal for six months or so.
/r/TheRedPill24/12/14 07:21 AM
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I've only visited Toronto once and i had a great time.
/r/TheRedPill24/12/14 07:21 AM
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I wasn't trying to make it completely French. I just thought having a touch of french would make my post more interesting.
/r/TheRedPill24/12/14 07:20 AM
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19, I'm 20 now. Been in Montreal for six months or so.
/r/TheRedPill24/12/14 07:18 AM
1

I don't find Montreal snobby at all. There very down to earth and outgoing. That's my experience though.
/r/TheRedPill24/12/14 07:18 AM
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Totally down, PM me. I'm at my hometown for two weeks though.
/r/TheRedPill24/12/14 07:16 AM
2

New City Gas is my favorite club. I haven't been in a while though, last DJ I saw was Above and Beyond.
/r/TheRedPill24/12/14 07:15 AM
1

Thanks, I fucking love your city.
/r/TheRedPill24/12/14 07:12 AM
1

Its free. The Book of Pook is just an archive of posts from sosuqve forums. The first link is the download. This link should work. https://archive.org/details/pdfy-_OguVIkg2uBLSzXq
/r/TheRedPill24/12/14 07:05 AM
1

You set up with other girls. If a girl doesn't text me back its her loss not mine.
/r/TheRedPill22/12/14 04:55 PM
1

Hmm, I'll write up a post and send it to you.
/r/TheRedPill22/12/14 02:46 PM
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I suppose it comes down to this. If I didnt out my hand on the girls thigh what's going to happen? Nothing. And if I want to live a lavish sex life than what do I have to do? Put my hand on her thigh. It came down to how badly do I want to get good with women.
/r/TheRedPill22/12/14 02:25 PM
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Jesus, is this the type of content seddit has now? Are the "how do I make friends?" and "I can't approach what do I do threads gone?" That was a really good fucking fr.
/r/TheRedPill22/12/14 01:51 PM
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You haven't read any of the fucking sidebar. Please do so before you post. You want a traditional girlfriend go and get her.
/r/TheRedPill22/12/14 05:54 AM
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Why do you keep posting about this stuff... I was that guy you were talking about but even worse I never went to university or college so effectively I had very little opportunities where women were placed right in front of me. I spent 100% of my highschool life on the computer and I had zero social skills. After high school I continued to be that antisocial kid. Pissed off I thought, let's move and start a new life. I'm moving to Montreal. Arriving in Montreal, I knew no one I barely spoke fren…
/r/TheRedPill21/12/14 11:34 PM
2

Models mark Manson and power of now have audio books. You could also download an app to read text and have it read the book to you.
/r/TheRedPill21/12/14 11:01 PM
6

Think of red pill like religion. You don't force religion on people, you let them seek it themselves.
/r/TheRedPill21/12/14 10:49 PM
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I seem to have moderate success when it comes to social conversation. Everyone I meet wants to do things for me and I'm really good at befriending people. I used to be the always had something to say guy and was quite talkative but over time I realized people don't like that. Now I'm mostly silent mixed with wit, one liners and telling stories. Silence is key, honestly. 48 Laws Of Power, Law #4. "Always say less than necessary" When you are trying to impress people with words, the more you say, …
/r/TheRedPill21/12/14 09:25 PM
4

Why are you rationalizing yourself to me? Just by that fact you probably spend too much time on reddit.
/r/TheRedPill21/12/14 05:15 PM
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You forgot one thing thats pretty important. To be able to achieve this whirlwind effect you can't be spending 50% of your time on reddit.
/r/TheRedPill21/12/14 07:39 AM
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Im getting sick of these whiny fucking posts. You're short and whatever race you think leaves you in the minority. SO WHAT You're better than 90% of the fucking chodes out there and if a girl doesn't want you because of your discrepancies then fuck her. She's not worth your goddamn time.
/r/TheRedPill20/12/14 08:03 PM
3

Being able to fix mechanical things. You save a lot of money.
/r/TheRedPill20/12/14 05:33 PM
2

So what? Life isn't handing you something on a silver plate. Six figure salary, when you ran into problems with school or business did you say "well, this exam is really hard. I didn't have to study much in highschool but this is different. I'm going to quit, I can't handle this." Fuck no you didn't and if did can you please tell me what job you have that is six figure salary without requiring school. You didn't quit when exams got tough, you powered through that motherfucker and kicked ass. Sam…
/r/TheRedPill19/12/14 09:57 PM
1

Jack Nicholson? Russell brand?
/r/TheRedPill19/12/14 02:32 PM
1

So, what are some good role models for a guy that had none? I feel having a list would really help guys.
/r/TheRedPill19/12/14 02:25 PM
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Seepeopledie, femalecorpses come to mind as worse subreddits.
/r/TheRedPill19/12/14 04:39 AM
2

Mine used to come from women as well but now I sort of don't really care about catering to their needs. I do what I want if a women wants to join me go for it, if not well nice knowing ya. This is going to sound kind of depressing but if I REALLY want pleasure I always have my hand. It won't talk back to me or try to get me to buy shit. It's better with a women but really don't need them in my life. That's not to say I don't hit on women, I do but I don't care what happens in the interaction.
/r/TheRedPill17/12/14 09:49 PM
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I used to like Hank Moody but all he does is fuck women, at least he introduce me to writing. I think having a model you can actively research and read about is important. My role model is Vlad Putin.
/r/TheRedPill17/12/14 04:42 PM
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Geee, I wonder why he doesn't want to hang out with you. You seem like such a good guy to be around. /s Reading your post sounds like you're just flaunting all of the money you have to him when he doesn't make nearly as much as you and probably thinks pretty lowly of himself. Considering his girlfriend is fat, he's broke and doesn't want to do much. Given the way you described the way you act in this post it doesn't surprise me that this guy doesn't want you to hang out. Then when YOU do hangout…
/r/TheRedPill17/12/14 04:29 PM
1

Do you want to post it for me?
/r/TheRedPill10/12/14 02:59 AM
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Honestly, there's only one book youn need to read for this shit. The Book of Pook. Once you're done with The Book of Pook you will never want to read another self-help book again.
/r/TheRedPill09/12/14 04:31 AM
2

Montreal, we are so spoiled up here. Just remember to bring a good winter coat and boots, or you're fucked and not in a good way either.
/r/TheRedPill09/12/14 12:53 AM
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Read The Art Of Seduction and 48 Law's of Power both by Robert Greene. Those two books give you a bit of an insight.
/r/TheRedPill27/11/14 12:23 AM
1

Yes, nine of them. Don't be the tenth I can't handle another.
/r/seduction26/11/14 03:20 AM
3

Shouldn't of let CB bother you.
/r/seduction25/11/14 11:41 AM
2

You have no clue how powerful a good wing woman is.
/r/seduction22/11/14 01:20 PM
3

Come sit on me.
/r/seduction22/11/14 02:08 AM
2

She doesn't have to tell you anything. Her actions will show you.
/r/seduction17/11/14 01:28 AM
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Don't tell her you like her, SHOW her you like her.
/r/seduction17/11/14 01:15 AM
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Who you are in life is what you attract.
/r/seduction12/11/14 12:17 PM
6

Have you ever tried switching the paradigm? Instead of you seducing then girl make the girl feel like she is seducing you.
/r/seduction12/11/14 06:16 AM
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She has you wrapper right around her finger. You thought you did when in reality you didn't.
/r/seduction10/11/14 04:25 PM
1

I don't think you realize this but you didn't seduce her, she seduced you. Then when she got whatever she wanted from you she dropped you. If you didn't take the bait when she liked your Facebook the tables may of turned and her interest would of been reignited.
/r/seduction10/11/14 04:04 PM
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Im not really photogenic either. The girl im currently interested in is really hot, hb 9 but I don't like to give numbers. Why do you assume a guy with good looks is an asshole? That's kind of a limiting belief. I don't understand why guys see good looking men or typical "bros" and assume they are assholes. That's pretty superficial. Don't assume that what you see in the tinder sub is real, I tried a few of the lines they use their like licking nutella off your booty. I got a number and we even …
/r/seduction30/09/14 06:28 PM
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Disagree, I'm an average looking guy and I have had some solid success on Tinder. My photos are of me doing fun things and each one reveals my personality. My bio is funny but at the same time it reveals a bit about my personality. Get some good pictures that show who you are and write bio that is funny but at the same times reveals abit about you.
/r/seduction30/09/14 06:11 PM
3

overconfidence can be mistaken for narcissism which isn't true confidence. I dont think there is such a thing as having too much confidence.
/r/seduction30/09/14 05:05 PM
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probably never, there is no such things as security in my life.
/r/seduction30/09/14 05:03 PM
1

Hmm, interesting. I'm actually excited to work on this part of my seduction. I have a date with another tinder girl and I'm going to apply all of the shit people have told me to work on here. I'm reading the Sex God Method about 100 pages in, it's opened my eye to a lot of things. I texted the girl with Friday we're going to (name of club). :) She responded with: I'll let you know about it. I'm going to respond with: Let me know about what? I don't get what she has to let me know about. No respo…
/r/seduction30/09/14 06:28 AM
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I just asked her our, I text her saying Friday were going to (Name of club, she wants to go to) :) She responded with: I'll let you know about it. I'm going to respond with let me know about what? What is there to let me know about? No response and it's been six hours. I'm not too worried if I don't get a response she's hot and all but I can find another girl just as easily as I found her. I do get results really quickly, I think once I establish a more dominant, sexual mindset I will have troub…
/r/seduction30/09/14 05:44 AM
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Really man? I'm tempted to give you tough love but I've been on the receiving end of it and it kinda sucks especially when you're down. You see that gorgeous Swedish girl with a face to die for and a body that would make Emma Watson herself jealous. You are perfectly able to get her but you don't feel worthy so instead you settle with someone you're more worthy of. The hb6 with less then attractive features. Why cut yourself short? Why don't you went the very best women life has to offer? You ar…
/r/seduction30/09/14 05:05 AM
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Depends, I prefer running the high you get after doing a 5k run is incredible. Some of my best nights have been the ones i ran before going out.
/r/seduction30/09/14 04:35 AM
1

i find with approaching the biggest issues is taking that first step. Instead of just focusing on what you want to say focus on the first step of approaching, in other words when you saw those two girls you should of focused on turning around. That's it, turning around then once you turn around you just go for it because you've already gone halfway there's not point in turning back now. If you want to start small start with the time. It's not strange to ask and is low risk. Goodluck mate.
/r/seduction30/09/14 12:14 AM
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Boring people in my opinion are people that are afraid to leave their comfort zone. Afraid to experience what life has to truly offer. They value security and steadiness over everything else and that's okay because if there wasn't boring people we wouldn't have anyone to fill the monotonous jobs that interesting people dislike. It works out.
/r/seduction29/09/14 11:40 PM
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Nah her mom is really chill just that one time she put the foot down. What do you mean by Thinking doesn't always play as big a part as we'd like. You're right I won't assume anything. Wow, that makes so much sense. I just need to read her body language, she will show me the right way and she totally was yesterday but I failed to see that. I don't think she is closed off from her sexuality. She's a pretty sexual person just still a virgin. I think im going to read some literature regarding sex w…
/r/seduction29/09/14 08:02 PM
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A mysterious aura, think of a Bond girl. That shit is like crack.
/r/seduction29/09/14 02:35 PM
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I wouldn't worry much about it, next time you see her get her number. You could even say, "I meant to get it in the coffee shop but I was too distracted by my delicious tea/whatever you got."
/r/seduction29/09/14 02:14 PM
1

Shit, pretty accurate replies. I don't really have too much invested in her. If she text me saying we can't see each other I'd be a bit bummed but then I'd just go meet another women and forget about her. She's 19 but lives with her mom. This is great advice, I'm pretty sure were going to do a third date and I'm going to be more dominant and respond with kino instead of words. She's really attractive and I just I don't know wasn't thinking. I think I was kind of in shock I had an attractive girl…
/r/seduction29/09/14 01:50 PM
1

Love the hospitality :). I bet next date we will, she clearly is down but for whatever reason yesterday she didn't want to go further then we did. I've never done anything with a girl before so this is all a learning experience. I'm going to be more dominant with her next time.
/r/seduction29/09/14 12:45 PM
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Yea, I'd say i agree with that. Being very polarizing and creepy sort of go hand in hand. You can be really polarizing but to some girls that's negative polarization and because its negative polarization you get labeled a creep. I get what you're saying though.
/r/seduction29/09/14 12:39 PM
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In my opinion I would say if you aren't creeping some girls out you're putting yourself out there enough. It took me a while to realize this but when it comes to daygame there is two way to talk to a girl. You can either be very polarizing which creates either a strong positive reaction or a strong negative(creepy) reaction. You can also go with little polarizing its safer and you can get women that usually wouldn't connect with you but its not strong and takes longer to build attraction. I don'…
/r/seduction29/09/14 12:05 PM
1

Exactly but I'm a sucker for this type of girl. I enjoy the chase.
/r/seduction29/09/14 11:17 AM
1

I think were going to meet again she is fucking crazy and I love it.
/r/seduction29/09/14 05:32 AM
0

I fucked up...no sex she just grinded on me and showed her boobs. I completely fucked up and I want to shoot myself for it.
/r/seduction29/09/14 04:04 AM
1

I fucked up...no sex she just grinded on me and showed her boobs. I completely fucked up and I want to shoot myself for it.
/r/seduction29/09/14 04:04 AM
1

I fucked up...no sex she just grinded on me and showed her boobs. I completely fucked up and I want to shoot myself for it.
/r/seduction29/09/14 04:04 AM
1

You haven't built enough comfort between her. She doesn't know who you are aside from the fact you're witty, funny and confident.
/r/seduction28/09/14 08:44 PM
1

abc
/r/seduction28/09/14 06:47 PM
1

Why do you say that?
/r/seduction28/09/14 02:37 AM
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I'm kind of surprised, usually when people post negative comments to my shit I get pretty annoyed and I still am kind of annoyed but it's not bothering me as much as it used to. Exactly! The logistics weren't good yesterday anyways for sex. She had to catch the last subway which would of gave me forty five minutes on the roof with her. Were spending the night on the roof tonight anyway which is much better than having a quick romp yesterday. I appreciate the encouragement, I'm excited to see wha…
/r/seduction28/09/14 12:01 AM
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you sound like a fun person.
/r/seduction27/09/14 11:08 PM
1

Haha, were doing it tonight.
/r/seduction27/09/14 09:04 PM
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Meh results are results.
/r/seduction27/09/14 07:36 PM
1

Honestly dude you provably did the right thing by not making out with her immediately.
/r/seduction27/09/14 04:48 PM
1

My speciality! Well first, you have to approach. It doesn't matter what you say as long as it's genuine. I approached a girl yesterday that was drawing with "Hey, I saw you drawing and can't help but ask is there any art classes around here?" It doesn't matter what you say. I never used to be very flirty or witty but as I approach more I am starting to get really good at it. Flirty can't really be taught but the mindset that I have when I talk to a girl is learn more about her and test her but i…
/r/seduction06/09/14 12:16 AM
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Yea man, tomorrow I'm going out and cold approaching again. The hardest part of the cold approach was getting my ass in gear to approach. Once you start walking toward her or running toward her its a lot harder to back down.
/r/seduction09/08/14 04:55 AM
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Well I just did my first cold approach. I'm super excited to have finally done it. Edit: I did another one just after I sent my second message. She completely ignored me, didn't even say a word or stop. Hahahah I guess she thought she was out of my league.
/r/seduction09/08/14 02:21 AM
1

Dude I'm from Montreal and the game us kinda hurtin here because people are travelling for the summer. If you want to sarge when your back hit me up! I'd love to have someone to improve with.
/r/seduction07/08/14 08:43 PM
1

Why make it harder on yourself though, if no-fap helps you become a little more motivated then usual; it's probably a good idea to do it. You can still achieve the same motivation without it but it will be harder and who wants to make life harder then it already is?
/r/seduction07/08/14 08:55 AM
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You don't have AA so anything you post about approaching is usually solid. You're condescending as hell, you don't follow anyone's advice. Your game isn't very good because you can't seem to get past a phone number/first date and yet you still think you don't have any problems. Sometimes you give good advice outside of AA posts but your FR's are just pure comedy and you don't really seem to learn from your mistakes. You also seem to make everything about yourself, a lot of the things you post in…
/r/seduction07/08/14 08:53 AM
1

Dude, are you me? Reading your post made me feel like I have a twin out there, with identical mannerisms and mindset. You don't happen to play golf or enjoy the arts...do you? Never mind, I lied. I used to have the exact same mindset. My parents made out so much shit to be so fucking serious, more so my mom did than my dad. My mom taught me to never speak up, always agree to whatever shit people are telling you and all kinds of fucked up mindsets. You really have to be aware with where you get y…
/r/seduction07/08/14 08:37 AM
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I did something similar to this, a girl was sort of stringing me along and I already had a girl so I just wanted to be friends. I texted her: Alright, you were a pretty cool person when I met you but after 2 weeks the interest has dissipated. Then she texted me You're the one that canceled the first time and you text me the night before at like midnight to know if i am free the next day...and you told me that you just wanted to be friends when i wasnt thinking that way I was sort of annoyed and …
/r/seduction07/08/14 07:46 AM
1

I think it comes from back when smoking was a widely accepted habit. Everyone smoked and now when you hear stories from interesting people of the past we associate interesting with smoking.
/r/seduction06/08/14 02:12 AM
1

eh, i'd wait she may be busy.
/r/seduction05/08/14 01:51 AM
1

Keep thinking like that and don't be surprised if you don't accomplish anything.
/r/seduction04/08/14 07:25 PM
1

some valid arguments and some not so valid arguments.
/r/seduction02/08/14 06:56 AM
1

Sadly not, I don't know if Brad still updates the blog. The archives alone are worth visiting though.
/r/seduction01/08/14 08:13 PM
1

My dad, he's probably one of the best people I know when it comes to attracting women. He's really successful, confident and funny. He tells me stories of women that were practically begging to be with him but he didn't care for them so he just ignored them. He's a great guy but can be a bit of a dick/ass because he doesn't care about others feelings towards him.
/r/seduction01/08/14 06:05 PM
1

He he totally was a former pua. He talks about it in his blog a bit. He liked some aspects of PUA but ultimately he didn't like the mindset.
/r/seduction01/08/14 02:31 AM
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When I first read this post I judged and thought you didn't know what you are talking about. How closed minded I was, you answered my only reason I dont go out and do 10 approaches everyday. I always hated the PUA mindset but never found a way to take the general idea but flip it to a more positive light. I love this I even saved all of your posts. Thanks man! Quick question though lately I have been dealing with the "what if she is not my age excuse". Any idea how to get past this? Also what do…
/r/seduction01/08/14 12:06 AM
2

Sounds like a better idea for a day2. I could be wrong but I've always liked basic simple dates for the first.
/r/seduction31/07/14 11:13 AM
2

Meh most people don't go to clubs just to pick up women. They go with friends to have a good time and women are mostly a bonus.
/r/seduction31/07/14 05:46 AM
1

Wouldn't doubt it, nightclubs can be quite shady.
/r/seduction31/07/14 05:25 AM
3

Ugh, stop bragging. I don't care if what you said is true or not but 90% of the post is "look at me I'm so good, are you looking? Look what I can do!" You didn't have to write all the I information you did. You could of simply wrote I'm good at game yet I'm still a virgin. This whole post feels more like a giant brag and does nothing for seddit.
/r/seduction30/07/14 02:36 PM
1

Approach when you feel ready, don't force yourself to go and approach when you don't feel ready.
/r/seduction30/07/14 09:38 AM
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I posted this in another thread which asked the same question. I went on a evening date with this girl that was totally into me. She gave all the signs but she ended the date early (1 hour into) claiming she was tired. Whatever, I texted her a couple hours later. "Hey Bailey, I'd like to say I had a good time with you but I really didn't. Let's give it another shot at X time. She replied "Hey, I don't think it going to work out. I'm just not that interested in seeing you again. Good bye Diece. T…
/r/seduction30/07/14 09:36 AM
2

I went on a evening date with this girl that was totally into me. She gave all the signs but she ended the date early (1 hour into) claiming she was tired. Whatever, I texted her a couple hours later. "Hey Bailey, I'd like to say I had a good time with you but I really didn't. Let's give it another shot at X time. She replied "Hey, I don't think it going to work out. I'm just not that interested in seeing you again. Good bye Diece. This shit hit me like a ton of bricks, I don't know why it did b…
/r/seduction30/07/14 09:22 AM
2

Girls know what they are doing, she didn't have to go that attachment. She's probably interested and slightly shy. Chat her up sometime. Edit: A bit of a story, because why not. I went to a rave a couple months ago. I strictly went to have fun and enjoy the rave, I danced my ass off and while dancing this cute girl A that was close to me kept brushing against me. I thought nothing of it, I was curious though and I noticed she was with this dude that looked like a boyfriend. DAMMIT I thought. At …
/r/seduction30/07/14 08:47 AM
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Its pretty clear why this interaction went the way it did. "God this girl is annoying as fuck" Yet you were still with her. Why didn't you just leave? Its pretty obvious you had 0 chemistry. I'm going to go on a limb and say she was taken back by you approaching her. She was curious about you so she went to Starbucks with you. When she asked those questions and you replied the way you did you confirmed her suspicions that you are a player and that you do this often which are both true. If you we…
/r/seduction29/07/14 11:12 PM
7

Why are you so condescending?
/r/seduction29/07/14 10:50 PM
1

Played tournament golf Very open minded when it comes to life Very, very wide variety of music tastes and I can explain why I like a particular artist besides "it sounds good" Somewhat well versed in literature I think that's it.
/r/seduction29/07/14 05:27 PM
3

This post is condescending as hell and idk if you noticed but what you just wrote is the same shit that gets repeated here. You even said you use a pattern. Completely contradicting yourself.
/r/seduction29/07/14 05:07 PM
3

I think my issues stem back to the fighting in my house, manipulative mom and very very very hard to please mom. I specifically remember writing a short story when I was young. It wasn't a homework assignment I just felt like writing. When I was done I was eager to show my mom and when I did she told me my writing sucked and all of my flaws in my writing. Which would be fine if that's what I was looking for I just wanted her to like it. :( sort of sad just writing this story.
/r/seduction29/07/14 07:36 AM
3

You are talking to a girl you are a 7 and she's an 8. On your hangout the girl you are with chats to this 9 she met at a party. How would you behave?
/r/seduction29/07/14 03:32 AM
1

Shit tests are frame tests I wouldn't call this a shit test. If you were to judge a women's frame to make sure she is what she advertised herself as then that's a test. I don't think you can really test women the way they do us.
/r/seduction29/07/14 12:05 AM
1

I totally agree, I even thought about making it a generalizing post but I'm more familiar with rappers than other artists. Glad you were able to get something out of the post. Althought I'm not sure if I would call it selling yourself but I don't know how else to describe it.
/r/seduction27/07/14 08:12 AM
2

Would you like a medal?
/r/seduction26/07/14 03:21 PM
2

Photography Art (Drawing/Sketches) Music Pretty boring and none of these things I am good at to do something with.
/r/seduction26/07/14 05:56 AM
0

Don't forget the fart can that adds an extra 100 HP.
/r/seduction24/07/14 07:47 PM
1

Haha so true. Although some of the FRs around here could probably qualify as erotica.
/r/seduction24/07/14 07:43 PM
1

My sentence is terribly worded. Professionals read books and information about there profession such as equipment history. The point I was trying to make was they learn the basics and then refine through trial and error. Also a lot of people that become great had mentors or coaches along the way.
/r/seduction24/07/14 05:01 PM
1

Solid man! Curious what did you shoot? I can see how the applies to life and thinking in general.
/r/seduction24/07/14 04:36 PM
1

Some say he is still farming the wraiths.
/r/seduction24/07/14 04:10 PM
1

Holy shit, this is exactly what I was trying to say. Books are fine when starting out. They give you a foundation to work with. Past the basics they lose their benefit.
/r/seduction24/07/14 04:00 PM
4

Yea I know what you mean, I thought this post would get buried.
/r/seduction24/07/14 03:43 PM
0

Maybe you should contribute then.
/r/seduction24/07/14 03:39 PM
-2

Why the need to get hostile? Your post isn't particularly valuable either.
/r/seduction24/07/14 03:17 PM
1

True having a mentor is invaluable and will speed up the process considerably. A book isn't a mentor.
/r/seduction24/07/14 02:49 PM
3

Yes but golf is 80% mental just like seduction is. A good mindset is much better than good technique.
/r/seduction24/07/14 02:48 PM
6

Exactly what I was trying to say, knowledge for the basics is fine but to refine you need to trial and error.
/r/seduction24/07/14 02:41 PM
-7

Guys who naturally suck at golf suck because they constantly search for the latest quick fix. The bandaid fix so to say, they also don't play enough.
/r/seduction24/07/14 02:40 PM
2

I do agree reading material is a good start, hell I wouldn't even be doing seddit if it wasn't for a book. I should re-word my shit better.
/r/seduction24/07/14 02:38 PM
1

I completely agree with what you have to say. Knowledge in the form of a coach is invaluable because you don't have to trial and error things the coach already knows. If that makes sense.
/r/seduction24/07/14 02:36 PM
1

I have a couple questions concerning this though: How often were you playing in comparison to reading the books? How much new stuff were you trying to implement all at once? Its the same on here as for any sports. You cannot change your form radically and expect not to suck. Change little aspects at a time (if things were working for you earlier) and add the improvements you need to learn from books a little at a time. I went to the course everyday to work on my game. I was reading books and app…
/r/seduction24/07/14 02:33 PM
2

The best way to improve inner game is to go out there and work on it. Written material is a catalyst to your improvement not a main ingredient.
/r/seduction24/07/14 02:58 AM
3

Call them victims instead.
/r/seduction23/07/14 07:21 PM
1

Casanova's key imo was the life he lived and that he was 100% real. He looked at his emotions as facts and acted accordingly.
/r/seduction23/07/14 07:17 PM
2

Similar no but I've heard Barney Stinson from How I Met Your Mother is a decent role model. I don't watch the show though.
/r/seduction23/07/14 06:19 PM
2

It's great I've actually learned a lot from observing Hank. Just don't follow his huge oneitis for his ex.
/r/seduction23/07/14 06:17 PM
2

Not really everyone in the center of the city (centreville) speaks English and french. West of Montreal is called westmount and that is mostly English. The other side of mont royal is mostly French and the east side is French. I live in the east side and it's mostly French but everyone can speak English. I don't speak French and haven't really felt many issues with a language barrier.
/r/seduction23/07/14 06:16 PM
2

Yea I just moved here 3 weeks ago. Solid place to game.
/r/seduction23/07/14 05:34 PM
4

Tokyo bar is pretty solid There a ton of strip clubs on Saint Laurent and Saint Catharine most of them are shit and the girls are ugly. Crescent street has some nice bars and is mostly English Le distillerie is a nice bar with really good beer. Places will be fucking packed though because all of the university kids are going to be coming back here for school. That's all I can think of for now.
/r/seduction23/07/14 03:00 PM
1

That my friend is the whole basis of seduction.
/r/seduction23/07/14 04:42 AM
2

Some pretty good advice in this video the guy on the corner with crossed legs really annoyed me though. At one point I thought it was his interview. I wish they expanded more on if a guy makes you feel bad does it create attraction. Like a trouble maker or something. I wish they had more varieties of woman though, girl in management, artsy girl, clubber and a sports girl. It would of been interesting to hear the different dynamics.
/r/seduction22/07/14 04:50 PM
5

Great advice, I never thought about it that way but it makes a lot of sense. Solid post.
/r/seduction22/07/14 02:46 AM
1

Maybe I'm in the minority but nothing is hotter than a girl that is fashionable. Maybe its because I'm a artsy person but fashion turns me on.
/r/seduction22/07/14 02:43 AM
2

That could be poor self talk. How do you know she is thinking like this? Did she give any body language indicators? Its often wrong to assume.
/r/seduction21/07/14 11:59 PM
1

Have you lived here long? Do you go there often? How do you like the city? Just ask a question that relates to your conversation. You could also notice something about her that you are curious about. If she looks artsy you can say you got this creative vibe do anything with the arts? Just anything that you are genuinely interested in about her.
/r/seduction21/07/14 11:49 PM
1

Ive had success with indirect openers such as asking where a restaurant is. The way I see it is you ask about the restaurant and then she tells you. You become interested in her life and she thinks it was a coincidence that you asked her and she met such a cool person. I've had a decent sum of dates with day game.
/r/seduction21/07/14 11:34 PM
1

I'm totally going to nerd out on this because I am infatuated with that book. Aren't all of the 8 archetypes rare? I can name maybe 4 people I have met that illustrate one of the archetypes or a combination of them. Ive read that Ideal Lover is one of the hardest of the archetypes to pull of because of the dynamics. Is this true? Oddly enough out of those 4 people that illustrate the archetypes well one of them is my dad. He is very strong coquette reading the summary was like a continual repeat…
/r/seduction21/07/14 11:17 PM
3

No you don't you don't want any of those things. You want those things because when you think you have those things you can finally can get a girlfriend. If you truly wanted those things you would be out getting them instead of complaining why you can't. Nothing people post here is going to help you, you need some therapy.
/r/seduction21/07/14 10:28 PM
5

I like that ending quote, fashion is who you are.
/r/seduction21/07/14 07:41 PM
6

She is interested in you when a girl tells you she is busy and reschedules that shows really high levels of interest.
/r/seduction21/07/14 07:32 PM
5

I realized I only have myself I can't change bodies so to dislike ones self or judge oneself is a useless action and the only proper action is to fully love oneself.
/r/seduction21/07/14 05:10 PM
5

Your self esteem isn't as good as you think it is. Just starting off with the sentence "My self esteem is not the problem" shows me that it is a problem and you are insecure about it. The only way you get experience with these things is manning up and seeking it. It can be done 3 weeks ago I never made out with a girl either. It can be done.
/r/seduction21/07/14 06:26 AM
4

So crazy it probably works going to try it to tomorrow.
/r/seduction21/07/14 05:38 AM
5

Same dude, I went on a date with a girl and when we held hands I had a hard on. I was like really?
/r/seduction21/07/14 05:10 AM
1

Ahh I see, well Im not really in a position to offer you advice. Have you ever considered therapy? It helped me a lot.
/r/seduction21/07/14 05:07 AM
17

Stop fapping.
/r/seduction21/07/14 03:42 AM
1

Then why haven't you?
/r/seduction21/07/14 03:00 AM
2

None taken dude, I want to get better at FRs and any criticism I get is good. I re-read the field report right after I read your post and I agree it was kind of boring. I didn't really talk about The Rake at all. I plan to go out tomorrow and try again and put up a FR.
/r/seduction21/07/14 02:52 AM
2

Dammit I was trying to avoid giving a summary of the day. What do you think could be improved upon?
/r/seduction21/07/14 02:45 AM
2

I sort of get what your saying a lot of those don't really go into mindsets or techniques they applied. Then again a. lot of seduction is mental state and not so much techniques. I do like the idea on success stories or a flair for bragging. FRs with questions are fine though. It helps give another view on what you did wrong or right. Since you are criticising FRs I cant help but ask what you thought about the FR I put up in the last day.
/r/seduction21/07/14 02:36 AM
3

People like to live success through other people. That's why success posts get the most attention here. Its easier to read about a guy picking up a model and thinking wow I can do that than going infield and picking up a model. A standard isn't a bad idea, I do like reading the various styles of FR's though. So of them are quite well written.
/r/seduction21/07/14 01:55 AM
2

Do you actually want to improve? Improvement is not going to be easy you need to push your ego out of the way and reflect with an unbiased opinion on your progress/results. There is going to be sweat, tears and probably depression but you need to go through those emotions to get better. There is no such thing as a dumb luck, timing yes but luck no. This is actually an interesting thread because if you are relying on dumb luck you wouldn't be outcome dependant. You would be outcome independent wh…
/r/seduction21/07/14 01:49 AM
1

I was considering suicide because of my lack of social skills with both men and women. I decided to see if there was information on the internet about how to make friends and such. I came across this shit website talking about how you can get any girl to kiss you by holding a sign saying kiss me. I bought into it and then I started browsing the websites forums and came across a book called Conquer your Campus. Changed my life I studied that book for 3 years internalizing each concept.
/r/seduction20/07/14 05:53 AM
4

When should we expect the post asking why you get so many flakes?
/r/seduction19/07/14 11:31 PM
17

R/socialskills is also depressing as fuck.
/r/seduction19/07/14 07:27 PM
2

I don't text immediately either, I am notoriously bad for responding to texts. I see it but when I'm out I just can't be bothered.
/r/seduction19/07/14 07:25 PM
2

Some great advice here, this is going to be slightly off topic but when living in a dorm it is REALLY easy to get sucked into just college life. Sure college is fun and all but remember there is more to your city than the areas with student housing. A lot of students never really experience their cities outside of the "college" bubble. Try to venture outside that bubble and it will be worth it.
/r/seduction19/07/14 06:11 PM
1

"Nice non-creepy dude" I'm going to say that is your problem, you see in order to seduce you need to escalate and polarize. Read up on DiCarlo Escalation ladder. Being nice non creepy is great but when you act like that you aren't polarizing a girl sexually. She is simply staying neutral or even losing interest. You will creep girls out that's just part of seduction. The more polarizing you are the more people will LOVE you or HATE you. Your intentions may not be clear either. She might not know…
/r/seduction19/07/14 01:07 PM
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Fucking killed it mate! Good job!
/r/seduction19/07/14 04:16 AM
1

He wasn't mature but that was apart of his appeal and women found hin M severely polarizing. There is no middle grounds to liking a seducer of his magnitude either you loved him or hated him.
/r/seduction19/07/14 03:39 AM
0

Wrong subreddit mate. Try r/socialanxiety or r/socialskills Hell I'm sure there's an improve reddit.
/r/seduction19/07/14 12:52 AM
5

Funny people can usually make anything funny. I can't help you much but a good thing to do is say something and have your audience expect you to say or relate to a certain thing then say something completely opposite of what the audience expected.
/r/seduction18/07/14 10:58 PM
2

I have read some of the book. I plan to finish it but its taking a while. How long did it take for you to finish? On the topic of books you might like The Art Of Seduction by Robert Greene. He even talks about Casanova in the book.
/r/seduction18/07/14 09:32 PM
1

I highly doubt she will flake, op did a great job conversating with her and teasing. 10-20% flake. Although if she flakes she won't set up another time.
/r/seduction18/07/14 07:08 PM
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Observe him, watch from an outsiders view on him. Hell even take notes if you really want to become like him. Once you do this you will start to break down his charm and learn what he does that you don't. Then just apply what you have learnt to yourself.
/r/seduction18/07/14 05:46 PM
1

Compliments to quickly and you sort of submit yourself to her.
/r/seduction18/07/14 05:20 PM
1

Your going to want to kino on the next date. She may have you friendzoned by now though.
/r/seduction18/07/14 05:18 PM
2

Same dude, what do you find you like the most about him?
/r/seduction18/07/14 05:01 PM
2

Do you watch a lot of Justin Wayne?
/r/seduction18/07/14 04:20 PM
5

So you haven't?
/r/seduction18/07/14 04:05 PM
1

Have you kinoed her at all?
/r/seduction18/07/14 03:52 PM
11

Alpha male stuff is mostly bullshit. Some of it holds true. Listen more then you talk You don't have to be high energy to do well with women Text 1 day or 2 days after getting her number Initiate kino immediately on the first date. not seduction per say but to get what you want in this world you have to manipulate people and read their true motives. Think of it as a game of chess Being spontaneous holds interest Don't tell a girl everything about yourself let her imagination come up with ideas
/r/seduction18/07/14 03:48 PM
1

Not on the topic of seduction which sounds like you did a great job at. What type of music did they play at the rave? Was it big room? Trance? House? I only ask because I may be visiting Florida soon and I love raving. Edit: out of curiosity were you rolling?
/r/seduction18/07/14 11:59 AM
8

I'm going to say its probably your techniques that are causing this. I have pretty bad AA but when I do approach I usually get dates. Out of 6 women I have approached in 2 weeks 4 of those were numbers and 3 were dates
/r/seduction18/07/14 10:45 AM
1

My top 9 traits in a women 9Driven Willing to experience new things Travels A challenge Smart Went to school Mysterious Defines her reality Fashionable In that order
/r/seduction17/07/14 04:50 PM
1

You could of teased her when she said "what do I do? What do you mean?"
/r/seduction17/07/14 04:58 AM
1

What toy? I want to hear the voice now...
/r/seduction17/07/14 04:52 AM
1

Fuck man you are a funny asss dude.
/r/seduction17/07/14 04:50 AM
1

She's not interested sorry dude.
/r/seduction15/07/14 07:23 PM
2

I take it you are blind.
/r/seduction15/07/14 01:22 PM
2

Life was a lot less taxing when I sat around all day playing LoL. Living your life to its fullest is fun and can bring incredible highs but very low lows. I feel terrible right now, which doesn't make sense but that's how it works. Tomorrow I may feel great I couldn't tell ya. When i played LoL all day my happiness was mostly neutral with some low highs and low lows. Depending if I won my games or not. I don't mean to discourage but be prepared when you feel like jumping off a bridge despite hav…
/r/seduction15/07/14 03:29 AM
3

Nothing,I thought only approaching would solve a void in my life. It didn't really. I met a really cool girl a week ago but I don't think its going to work. Women come and go but you stay. I did decide to join some groups so I can hang around like minded people. This is the list of things ive decided to do beside approaching. Photography Art - Drawing, Exhibits, Lessons Opera, Classical music Writing and reading Travelling Leadership Music production Trance/Raves Fashion Thrift shopping Cooking …
/r/seduction15/07/14 03:04 AM
7

Reminds me of myself. Exact same situation and even the game is the same. You got this shit bro I believe in you.
/r/seduction15/07/14 02:48 AM
0

You aren't running solid game. Don't even bother responding to this. I won't reply back.
/r/seduction15/07/14 02:46 AM
3

Conquer your Campus was my go to book for 2 years. Its an easy read and is a great entry level book. You could also try models, the game and meditations (although the latter is a hard read.)
/r/seduction12/07/14 07:58 PM
2

I came up with it when I was frustrated with not approaching.
/r/seduction12/07/14 06:10 PM
9

I just moved to the new city and I was frustrated I couldn't approach. So I took out a piece of paper and started writing my feelings down. Here's some context. June 29th/14 Some people wallow in misery, life is exactly what you do with it. Do you want to be anti-social and isolated? Go for it mate that shit is your decision. If you want something you have to go out there and get it. Good things come to those who wait? Bullshit good things come to those who beat their heads against the wall to t…
/r/seduction12/07/14 04:57 PM
8

Writing was never my strong point, why a semi colon?
/r/seduction12/07/14 04:35 PM
42

He was right, I edited it though.
/r/seduction12/07/14 04:20 PM
3

Too early, it sounds like you started talking to her early on in the night. She simply didn't want to leave early with you she wanted to have a great time not get laid. Then when she realized that you are following her and trying to get something from her she rejected you. I would of stayed at the bar with your friend and went for a number instead.
/r/seduction12/07/14 01:19 PM
1

Great list but I don't like always going for the hug. If I really like her I will if not I go for the hand shake. I judge it based on the personality of the girl and the rapport.
/r/seduction12/07/14 01:14 PM
10

I'll chime in on this, a week ago I never kissed a girl and never went on a date with a girl higher than a 5. Might I add I moved to a new city a week ago with 0 contacts. In that week I have had 3 dates with girls that are around a 7.5-9 All of these girls were quality, one has travelled the world. The other works as a a marketer in a huge company and the last is in a band and creates her own music. As far as sweedish girls go? Ive approached one but she was waiting for the bus to go to the air…
/r/seduction12/07/14 01:01 PM
3

Fucking love shy girls. Once you get them to open up you see a very dynamic person.
/r/seduction12/07/14 04:28 AM
1

Approaching can create some solid friendships.
/r/seduction11/07/14 05:24 PM
7

The only thing that works is going out there into the field, reflecting on your session where did you go wrong? What did you do right? Then applying that information next session.
/r/seduction08/07/14 02:42 AM
2

Don't text her that. It's very needy and attention seeking.
/r/seduction07/07/14 11:33 PM
1

It starts off a little dry but it picks up really quick and becomes really interesting.
/r/seduction07/07/14 06:25 PM
1

Do exactly what you describe you are doing but do it better
/r/seduction07/07/14 06:18 PM
6

Disagree slightly with the list. Number 2 should be Marcus Aurelius Meditations. I don't care how old that book is its an emperors self guidance and self improvement notes. You don't get much more power and responsibility then an emperor. I do agree with models and dales book both are great.
/r/seduction07/07/14 06:16 PM
1

Haha yea :d
/r/seduction07/07/14 06:00 PM
1

Yes idk either it needs to be tested.
/r/seduction07/07/14 05:10 PM
2

Nope Canada
/r/seduction07/07/14 03:41 PM
1

Great idea dude, if the conversation goes well enough you could even introduce your kids to there's then say I'm having a small get together on x day would you like to come? Keep up the good work dude!!
/r/seduction07/07/14 03:34 PM
2

Having touch in your interactions helps achieve this goal.
/r/seduction07/07/14 06:27 AM
1

Yet you complain in other posts about how you want to fuck a Asian?
/r/seduction07/07/14 06:21 AM
5

What did you find helpful in my post?
/r/seduction07/07/14 06:16 AM
1

I saw something similar at a party once, dude walked in we'll call him Steve so said 10 word the entire night and had sex with the hottest girl there. Dude was a fucking boss.
/r/seduction07/07/14 05:56 AM
2

Great fucking job dude! Keep at it and you will be a pro in no time. :)
/r/seduction07/07/14 05:31 AM
2

Touch is fun though, when you talk to someone do you have more fun when someone lightly touches you or the latter?
/r/seduction07/07/14 05:24 AM
1

Next time try doing some touching during the first interaction. Make it really light but do it some. I'd like to see your results when you come back.
/r/seduction07/07/14 05:15 AM
2

Trust issues? You know you are a confident guy and a fucking boss. Girls should be coming up to you and giving you there number. Not the other way around that's how fucking awesome you are.
/r/seduction07/07/14 05:07 AM
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I don't know if this will work but try texting them then never respond to there message. Completely ignore it. This should build suspense/curiosity and when 2 months goes by they will remember you as the guy who blew them off and you will be of value. Then just reopen. This may or may not work but its the best I could come up with.
/r/seduction07/07/14 05:04 AM
1

Great stuff! Do you use any touch in your game?
/r/seduction07/07/14 04:58 AM
1

Make sure it is a light soft touch and don't hold the contact for long. She may or may not feel uncomfortable that doesn't matter you just want to work on getting comfortable touching women. When I started doing touch im sure I made people uncomfortable. I can guarantee it.
/r/seduction07/07/14 04:55 AM
1

What can you do that is within you control that would make your day game more successful?
/r/seduction07/07/14 04:51 AM
1

What do you think you are doing wrong?
/r/seduction07/07/14 04:23 AM
1

What do you have to lose?
/r/seduction07/07/14 04:17 AM
1

Alright dude, you are honestly one of the most dedicated people to this shit but you haven't gotten results. I'm not going to say I'm an expert but I do have some experience. Day game goes like this, You open her, this can be anything from hi you're cute to where is a good place for bar food? Gauge her reaction, some people will be really receptive to someone approaching them others won't. Start talking, if you opened with "where is a good place to eat" transition to are you from around here? Th…
/r/seduction07/07/14 04:16 AM
1

Yea man, you gotta get out there and just do it.
/r/seduction07/07/14 03:56 AM
4

When she says something that you found strikes an emotion in you touch her arm. I used to be like you but now I'm fine, when I first started incorporating touch I felt really creepy and awkward now it sort of just flows.
/r/seduction07/07/14 03:41 AM
1

I cant really respond easily to your message because im on my phone and its hard to view. I don't care that much, she was cool but what I've learned from doing pick up is that there is so many people in the world it isn't worth it to stress over one. Do you fap at all?
/r/seduction07/07/14 03:36 AM
1

"that guy was different then 90% of the losers out there. I want to get to know him." Let's give him my number.
/r/seduction07/07/14 03:32 AM
1

Thanks dude, I did text her though asking when she was free. I'll leave her now though but really if it fizzes out its whatever just take it as a learning experience. Do you have any suggestions so I can make my next fr more impactful/better.
/r/seduction07/07/14 03:15 AM
1

When your done can you post some feedback?
/r/seduction07/07/14 02:02 AM
1

There, I think I fixed it.
/r/seduction07/07/14 01:47 AM
1

Its good i can definitely add fake names.
/r/seduction07/07/14 01:37 AM
1

I'll try to write one up tomorrow or so. I didn't realize my FR was so long.
/r/seduction07/07/14 01:24 AM
5

I feel this has to be said only listen to people that have experience and results. A lot of people post advice when they have no qualifications to do so.
/r/seduction06/07/14 06:33 PM
1

I found trying to think of witty things to say about a situation helps. Also writing and reading helps make you more well spoken.
/r/seduction06/07/14 06:00 PM
2

This is my basic frame for approaching. Approach, develop comfort, tease and # close. Wait a day the text her : hi it was nice to meet you yesterday let's meet up on x date and time. Then just wait
/r/seduction06/07/14 05:06 PM
3

Sounds like she wanted for you to make a move but you didn't so now she is confused if you like her.
/r/seduction06/07/14 02:13 AM
1

Find a pua or TV personality you resonate with. For me its Justin Wayne and hank from californication.
/r/seduction06/07/14 01:43 AM
1

Maybe your standards are to low toward yourself. Like attracts like and if you are unemployed then you will probably attract people that are unemployed.
/r/seduction06/07/14 01:34 AM
2

It seems you are having a really hard time with this. Ive seen you post here a lot and k can relate to your feelings. Maybe record a couple interactions we could probably help you more if you did.
/r/seduction04/07/14 02:18 AM
1

I actually find attractive girls easier because I feel genuine when I ask them for a number. Plus I have pretty high standards.
/r/seduction04/07/14 01:52 AM
0

Ice breaker I always use when I have a cute server is. Looking at the menu then asking if you can have anything on it. She says yes ask again. Then put the menu on the floor and ask her to stand on it. This isn't my line and in didn't invent it myself I saw it somewhere on reddit.
/r/seduction03/07/14 03:39 AM
1

I could take or leave sex, mostly just down to have fun whatever that is.
/r/seduction02/07/14 03:27 AM
1

Anything that both of you can relate to . today I sat a picnic table and a girl was sitting across from me. The wind started blowing and I said how can you study out here with the wind like this. Then we had a good conversation for an hour or so.
/r/seduction30/06/14 11:07 PM
2

Don't worry I feel wrong.
/r/seduction30/06/14 11:01 PM
1

Read the replies to your other posts.
/r/seduction30/06/14 10:53 PM
2

We already told you what you are doing wrong. Don't listen to us if you don't want to. Just ask yourself this question. How many dates have i been on? How many flakes have I had.
/r/seduction30/06/14 10:47 PM
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Relationships are both ways.
/r/seduction30/06/14 10:27 PM
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Situational openers are my favorite for day game. Pretty easy like if you walking along the sidewalk and a girl walking in the same direction is smoking. You could say "you know smoking is terrible for your health"or just anything about the environment. The thing I like about situational openers is it seems to attract women of quality.
/r/seduction30/06/14 10:13 PM
2

No wonder she doesn't want to see you this whole post was about what you wanted and how you only care about yourself. You didn't care about what she wanted.
/r/seduction30/06/14 04:26 PM
2

Exactly what I did for day game, start off with hi. Then move up to hi how are you doing? Then once you get to that step you can start approaching with the intent of picking up.
/r/seduction30/06/14 04:49 AM
2

People that are good with women will never tell you they are. The ones that tell you they are most likely aren't but goodluck :)
/r/seduction28/06/14 11:01 PM
1

30 minutes? Try waiting 2 days that's the usual time a girl takes to respond.
/r/seduction28/06/14 10:34 PM
2

Same thing happened to me when I went to Toronto alone for a concert. Everyone I met even guys were like holy shit man you got balls I wish I had
/r/seduction28/06/14 06:15 PM
2

Best night of my life was when I said to a girl at a concert "that concert was awesome, where's the after party?", Turns out it was at her house.
/r/seduction28/06/14 03:41 AM
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Mostly just for the fun of it. I don't take most of the stuff seriously but there is some really good content posted once a week. I like reading FR's because I find human psychology interesting. The self improvement doesn't hurt either.
/r/seduction27/06/14 04:01 PM
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I don't get how people go through all of that trouble just to get a number and a date. I would of said right from the first 5 messages. What is your number, I want to take you out for a drink. If she says no I don't give my my number I would of just deleted the convo. No one has time for all of that teasing.
/r/seduction26/06/14 07:15 PM
1

How did it go?
/r/seduction25/06/14 07:44 PM
1

Goodluck!
/r/seduction25/06/14 12:46 AM
2

A always B be C closing Always be closing. If you can't close, you can't close shit. YOU ARE SHIT, hit the bricks pal and beat it.
/r/seduction22/06/14 12:42 AM
1

Unfortunately not, I'm moving in less then a week to a new province.
/r/seduction22/06/14 12:31 AM
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I'm glad you asked this questions, it's been something that has been a problem with me for the longest time. Now I am not the greatest convertsationalist in all of man kind but I belive I can do pretty well. First of all a lot of people say to others that want to learn good conversational skills and I won't say I disagree but to me conversation is more then just facts it's more sharing feelings and emotions. A recent example that sticks out in my head is when I went to go get my hair cut yesterd…
/r/seduction21/06/14 09:27 PM
1

I sort of look at it this way, I want to be sincere to myself and an honest person. I guess you call that real or down to earth. If you see someone you are interested in you are simply letting yourself down. You are not being sincere to yourself.
/r/seduction19/06/14 09:23 AM
1

Marcus Aurelius - Meditations Hermann Hesse - Siddhartha I read those 2 books right after Models, I read both of those 2 books right after Models.
/r/seduction17/06/14 06:57 PM
1

I just went to a club with my brother, i usually enjoy hanging out with him but he sort of stands in the corner. I didn't want to leave but he was my brother but damn did that bring my mood down. Solid advice.
/r/seduction15/06/14 07:56 AM
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I was at a golf course driving range in the evening working on my game for a tournament and while practicing I noticed 2 cute girls wearing no shoes that looked my age at the range as well. I mustered up a lot of courage and walked up to them "you should really be wearing shoes"." They both laughed and we talked then I asked what high school you from? "We don't go to highschool, we teach it" ABORT ABORT, I aborted instantly and said awkward and went back to my area and worked on my game. Then ju…
/r/seduction14/06/14 08:26 PM
1

How to win friends and influence people - Carnegies Models - Mark Manson
/r/seduction14/06/14 08:22 PM
1

I'm not tall, actually I think I'm pretty average height. I look at height this way, it probably does matter to some women no doubt but the women it does matter to aren't women I would be interested in anyway. So it doesn't really bother me.
/r/seduction14/06/14 08:05 PM
1

Dude I'm moving to montreal in 3 weeks and am totally down to do some pickup. I also will be taking some French classes and have 0 contacts. I'm pretty young though (19)
/r/seduction11/06/14 02:19 AM
4

Also if you compare and contrast dudes that area really good with women to dudes that aren't. It's pretty easy to tell which guy is good with women and which is not. What I mean by this is you have to actually be around women to get good with them, simple advice but a lot of people seem to think a mindset or a line will get them good with women. It won't the only way you get good with women is by being around them.
/r/seduction09/06/14 09:26 AM
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Meditations - Marcus Aurelius Honestly I've recommended this book to just about everyone looking to improve themselves. Plus it's a fun read because you are reading the actual words of someone that has done something in their lives not just a guru on information. I think you would enjoy it.
/r/seduction09/06/14 09:23 AM
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true say, could also be worded as no one will value you until you value yourself.
/r/seduction22/05/14 07:27 PM
4

Conquer your campus.
/r/seduction17/05/14 07:23 PM
2

r/seduction is where most people should go if they want to become a better man. There is another subreddit similar actually r/socialskills but thats more for blending in and becoming normal. Which as you could probably guess normal people are just that normal.
/r/seduction17/05/14 09:16 AM
1

from what I know AKA very little
/r/seduction13/05/14 08:16 PM
1

Are they human? If so approach
/r/seduction12/05/14 05:13 PM
1

just a tad
/r/seduction12/05/14 05:27 AM
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life's boring mate, people need to learn to spice it up. Plus if this guy listens to what I say there is the off chances she might be down to fuck and it removes all of the awkwardness. To OP if you do fuck someone with my advice I would suggest giving the condom a thorough check.
/r/seduction11/05/14 04:31 AM
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Take what throwawayPUA said and add on something a little sexual. "you look like you need help with these azaleas, is that a nipple ring? "I see you are looking at the roses, we have roses for all types of occasions from the anniversary to the first date or just surprising your SO before a nice fuck." You know how you are supposed to "up the value" of the sale by suggesting extras or things that go with their purchase? Well if they buy roses you can just say "We also offer books and equipment to…
/r/seduction11/05/14 03:26 AM
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Lesson 3. Take that fucking fedora off.
/r/seduction08/05/14 02:54 AM
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I would of shrugged it off and been like "oh really?" then proceed to give her the worst kiss possible. It honestly sounds like she was just bantering with you and you took it way to serious. She probably was into you but wanted to test you and you epicly failed the test which makes her lose her attraction towards you. Next time you get something like this just turn it into something that is fun and positive. Whatever that may be.
/r/seduction08/05/14 02:52 AM
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On the topic of extroverts/introverts. Extroverts want to be more introverted Introverts want to be more extroverted So it doesn't really matter what you are because either way you want to have the tendencies of your opposite. For example I suck dick at analyzing shit and being alone. I wish I could be more introverted because then I could have fun alone.
/r/seduction07/05/14 05:11 AM
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I was going to post this on r/social skills but I think this this post works much better here and it greatly relates to OP post. It is REALLY long but I think it is worth the read. The context of the post is that I tried to get people on r/socialskills to see why approaching strangers is a good thing. Yes it is OT but read on and I think it works well with OP's post. I bolded the point that relates, just read the bold the rest doesn't really relate but I spent so much time writing this post I co…
/r/seduction29/04/14 12:27 AM
1

I'm going to be honest with you here, I don't think this is what I am experiencing. I think the big thing is that she is almost identical to my celeb crush which I've had since I was 8. I don't think sex or make out or anything would be different then other girls he'll she wasn't like me at all. Different music, education but the one thing that a he did that may of caused this was she kept asking how she can live life more adventurous (talking to people on the street). Maybe this is a form of on…
/r/seduction22/04/14 03:45 AM
1

Pretty much sums up how I feel. I feel I went creepy on her but sex wasn't my mission, my mission was to hang out with her longer plus I needed a place to stay.
/r/seduction22/04/14 03:40 AM
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I don't know, I screwed up at the end when I had started to like her. I asked if we could watch some supernatural (she loves it and I have never seen it) at her house she said kindly rejected saying next time you are in the city we can. I then tried once more and asked if i could charge my phone at her place (my phone was dead and I didn't bring a charger with me to toronto). I actually wanted to watch supernatural and having my phone charged would of been awesome. Sex would of been nice but it …
/r/seduction22/04/14 03:17 AM
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Yea dude me some awesome chicks, more of a friend type but still fuckin awesome times.
/r/seduction21/04/14 01:22 AM
1

I would just have fun and make that your main focus. Then when the party ends I just ask where's the after party at? Usually works.
/r/seduction20/04/14 05:27 PM
1

Go fuck yourself, we got so much pussy around here call it fast food
/r/seduction19/04/14 02:54 PM
1

I'm the same way, I can talk for hours about shit and I love making myself laugh but I can come across obnoxious so I have to just turn it down. If I truly lived by doing whatever I want to do I would of thrown a glass at a baby and poured water on a co-worker. You just have to learn how to control things.
/r/seduction19/04/14 02:43 PM
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Intimidating.
/r/seduction19/04/14 02:40 PM
1

Justin wayne? He's also pretty good imo.
/r/seduction18/04/14 02:54 AM
1

Lets cut the pie and find out how much attractiveness actually plays into the role of meeting girls. 60% Confidence 30% Body Language (escalation and shit) 9.9% What you say 0.1% Attractiveness This is just a super basic breakdown but attractiveness means very little. In my opinion attractiveness helps very little and when it does it only helps when you start the interaction but once you start talking it doesn't matter.
/r/seduction17/04/14 09:10 PM
1

Conquer your Campus - Mark Redman Book saved my life and was my go-to book for a longggg time.
/r/seduction15/04/14 03:13 AM
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I'm one of those guys that reads about it, watches it but rarely does it. I did force myself to approach today, got a number but doubt anything will come of it. Tomorrow I'm going out again but this time I'm going to try to let my intentions known and escalate more.
/r/seduction15/04/14 03:08 AM
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The motorcycle dhv was kinda weak. As a general rule you shouldn't brag about anything you have, let them find out themselves or if the topic gets switched to something that would give you a reason to mention your bike you can do that. You also seemed to leave way to quickly without really building rapport. Your voice comes off to wishy washy not very confident. Work on your intonation. Grats on having the balls to approach though, I wish I could.
/r/seduction14/04/14 07:57 PM
2

Easy, meet girls in person and use facebook as a networking device or don't use it at all it doesn't really matter.
/r/seduction14/04/14 07:51 PM
1

she straight up told you she wasn't interested but said you could be friends. Of course she is going to be awkward around you now that she knows that you are interested in dating her, she doesn't know if you are being friendly or if you are flirting it would be awkward. I don't quite understand that dirty look when you talk to girls, I would take that as she is interested in you or at least slightly. If you just ignored her she will probably come around eventually. I could be wrong though I'm no…
/r/seduction14/04/14 07:48 PM
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Last time I asked out a girl it took her 4 days to respond, she was probably considering it but decided not to. So you just have to wait. If you had 100 girls on your dick you wouldn't care if this one responds or not. She might be waiting to see if your needy.
/r/seduction14/04/14 08:18 AM
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Work in a kitchen, seriously since I have started working in a kitchen I have become much more witty and humorous. You could also hang out with your wing more, you will probably pick up on his habits/wit.
/r/seduction14/04/14 05:16 AM
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Bar/clubs have all sorts of people, from hr women to cum dumpsters you name it a packed bar/club has it. Can't help you on the rest because I can barely approach in the day.
/r/seduction14/04/14 05:14 AM
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Same situation brother, today though I feel like I made a pretty big stride. You don't really go from not approaching to approaching it seems really simple but it's really hard to do. I find if I do small things like today I said hi, how are you doing to everyone I walked by while holding eye contact and smiling. Then I ended up talking to a girl at a coffee shop (she worked there) while she sweeped the floors. Then I walked home hoping to find someone I could open but I didn't find anyone. I'm …
/r/seduction14/04/14 05:11 AM
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eh seems alright, your text was fine. i don't really know why they stopped responding. If it keeps happening though try to reflect on what you are doing. Having 2 girls flake is fine but having another 4 flake means you are doing something wrong.
/r/seduction14/04/14 04:35 AM
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mind putting up the convo? it would probably help.
/r/seduction14/04/14 03:42 AM
2

first impression is you came off too needy/attention seeking. I wouldn't of texted it was really nice to meet you, then call her later on in the week. Something doesn't seem right though, if these girls actually did invite you to the events they shouldn't of reacted the way they did (i think). Either something is made up or you mis-read what they were saying. Your texts also seem pretty boring, I prefer to use the phone as strictly a way to set up the next date. Keeping it short with some light …
/r/seduction14/04/14 03:27 AM
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Wow I feel like I am listening to my younger self. I had a lot of trouble with being fun and I also noticed sometimes I am fun sometimes I am not. The biggest issue I had to overcome with being fun was just not thinking about what I do before I do it. If I want to do something that I find funny I do it. A good movie I watched that helped me become more fun was Animal House. It takes time but slowly you will develop it.
/r/seduction14/04/14 02:22 AM
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No problem mate, just remember what I said is just advice. You don't need to follow it word for word, listen to what you like, not what you don't like. Gooduck out there!
/r/seduction14/04/14 02:15 AM
1

I honestly think most big guys don't need to game because they naturally have women attracted to them. They don't give a fuck and are used to people making fun of them. An ultra extreme example of this is Biggie, he was ugly as fuck but you still couldn't hate him because he just didn't care and was super charismatic I know being famous had lots to do with it but even before he was famous he was known to pick up women out of his league.
/r/seduction14/04/14 02:12 AM
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I would look at it from a I have 100 of hot girls waiting to be with me point of view. If you have 100 why do you need this one? In all honesty though I am probably not the best person to ask for advice if you should re-engage. I am a very flaky person and if people don't want to hang out with me I don't waste time waiting for them to.
/r/seduction14/04/14 02:08 AM
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I hate people that brag about how intellectually superior they are to people. Maybe I'm an ass but 90% of people that say I'm very smart, I hate people because everyone else is dumb usually aren't the brightest and honestly you don't seem very smart. I don't like to point out stupid shit like spelling but if you say you are smart at least make sure you can spell. Phrases,thought and excuse. Also these lines are pretty boring and would probably bore pretty much anyone. (Now I am being an ass)
/r/seduction14/04/14 01:56 AM
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Your conversation topics probably turned her off. Also remember "awkward silence" is only awkward if you make it awkward. I love having silence when talking to someone because it's natural no one can talk the entire time with no silence in between. You also seem to be a very self centered person which isn't very attractive to anyone really. I used to be the same way and I always tried to turn the conversation onto myself relating to myself. The more I stopped doing this the better conversational…
/r/seduction14/04/14 01:50 AM
1

Totally just did that, I talked to a worker at Tim Hortons she actually seemed slightly interested but I forgot to ask for a number. Said hi and looked at everyone that was walking towards me on the sidewalk in the eyes. Today I slightly stepped out of my comfort zone and I feel awesome. I gotta remember Rome wasn't built on a day and take the small accomplishments with pride. I'm going to go out every day of the week for 30 minutes. Only way I'm going to get out of my comfort zone.
/r/seduction13/04/14 08:14 PM
1

Are you doing this because you want to do this and you don't care of her reaction or are you doing this as a sly way to get her number without you straight up telling her we should meet. What I'm getting down to is this a genuine thing you are doing that is just "you" or is this not you but a way to discreetly get her number/get her interested in you. If it's the latter don't do it be genuine.
/r/seduction12/04/14 07:11 PM
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haha, alright well the best advice I can give you is don't expect to get a girl if you are going out for the first time. The trick here is you just want to get out of your comfort zone. Do something you feel uncomfortable with and don't let yourself give a reason why you shouldn't do something. Like when I do go out which isn't very often because I've been pretty lazy and don't have a car. I try to just do something I wouldn't do, last time I went out I danced and held eye contact with every gir…
/r/seduction12/04/14 06:42 PM
2

color me odd but I like a little bit of fat. Like just a little nothing crazy but a tiny amount is something I find attractive. I guess you could lean more towards curvy but I also like smaller girls to, and flat chested to a degree. Not really into your stereotypical bombshell.
/r/seduction12/04/14 06:39 PM
0

you only need one tool and that is a dick.
/r/seduction12/04/14 06:30 PM
1

sounds like you just made a bunch of bullshit excuses on why your average. If you want an average life or to have no club game then don't go if you want club game go. Simple as that.
/r/seduction12/04/14 03:59 AM
1

That's great advice and seems to be my main root issue. I may be down in Cali in a year haha hopefully by then I have defeated aa
/r/seduction25/03/14 01:20 AM
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I just message a ton of girls on okcupid asking this: If you were walking in the mall either alone or with a friend and a cool guy approached you saying "hello, I noticed you walk by and wanted to say your cute" what would your reaction be? Everyone that responded said they would respond positively, I'm going out tomorrow and going to try again. I think this time I will feel a lot better.
/r/seduction25/03/14 01:05 AM
1

I don't know man, today just feels like a down day. Not in a great state so to speak. I need to amp myself up or something, I had 1 day this week where I would of approached anyone but only had 10 minutes and no girls were on the street I was walking. Some days something clicks in me and I become confident other days I am weak and slightly depressed. Today is not yet over I'm going to try to force one approach. I want to try reacting faster then my brain can process what I am doing. Then get to …
/r/seduction24/03/14 11:45 PM
1

Southern ontario. I sort of think I understand why I have so much problems. I place myself low value so when I don't feel like I add anything to the girls life. If I were to reverse it meaning if a girl approached me I only want cool people to approach me. I have no problem if an awesome girl or guy came up to me and said hello. I need to change my mindset, I'm not giving the fuck up but I need to really believe I am an awesome guy and a girl is lucky to be approached by me.
/r/seduction24/03/14 11:29 PM
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So far 0 goddamn approaches, I feel so depressed today. Also I feel really uncomfortable about going up to strangers and saying I think ur cute I just feel weird. I know this is just pussy talk but fuck.
/r/seduction24/03/14 10:07 PM
1

Just listened to that, nice job man, how do you record your conversations though?
/r/seduction24/03/14 04:57 PM
1

Going out inn 3 hours to the mall, I don't have a ton of time there but I really want 5 approaches. Hopefully I get 5 and I'm totally going to write a fr.
/r/seduction24/03/14 04:28 PM
1

Should I post a fr even though I only did 2 approaches?
/r/seduction24/03/14 05:26 AM
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Sure thing man, I actually met quite a few people today though besides just girls. I learned some Korean and met a guy from my school at a clothing store I visited. I wish this subreddit was more popular though and had quality posts (not saying mine are)
/r/seduction24/03/14 05:05 AM
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Love this post man, I think tomorrow I'm going to go back to the mall and shoot for 5 approaches. This is going to sound odd but I feel like I can do a lot better then what I did today. I missed a lot of opportunities but i like what you said about making the approach the goal that was totally what I was doing and because of this I kept getting in my head thinking I'm a creep.
/r/seduction24/03/14 05:01 AM
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I tried but pussied out, I got 2 down today I wish I did another 3 but I'm happy i at least did 2. The mall closed early and it demoralized me then I sorta gave up. Approach is so hard because I make it hard I wish I could shut off the brain.
/r/seduction24/03/14 12:39 AM
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I fucking pussied out, I did 2 approaches today then the mall started to close but fuck I hate myself I should of got 5.
/r/seduction23/03/14 11:56 PM
1

Totally am mate, getting some clothes to though
/r/seduction23/03/14 07:48 PM
1

I love your fucking encouragement Too bad I'm fucking choding out right now fuck me I fucking did if, first ever god damn approach, holy shit no number but it went well and damn.
/r/seduction23/03/14 05:12 PM
1

At the mall now mate.
/r/seduction23/03/14 04:00 PM
1

Invite the family to a party to a bbq or something with your family. Just say hey we never really knew our neighbours well but you seem pretty cool my family is having a bbq on xx day.
/r/seduction23/03/14 03:21 AM
1

fucking right I am.
/r/seduction23/03/14 02:58 AM
1

English is his second language his first language is girl.
/r/seduction22/03/14 04:49 AM
2

Andrew Wk - Party hard
/r/seduction21/03/14 06:22 PM
1

I find listening to a fun song helps a lot, Andrew wk party till you puke is a great one.
/r/seduction20/03/14 02:11 PM
1

Plus chicks dig elo
/r/seduction20/03/14 08:34 AM
1

I'm a dude but I feel like I behave like a chick when it comes to texts so here's some of my input. I read your text, yes have I considered responding possibly, but I get distracted way to easily and 100% of the time I forget to text and by the time I remember its like well they probably lost interest. I'd wait a couple days maybe 3 and then text one more time, if no response drop her .
/r/seduction20/03/14 07:32 AM
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Depends on the interaction there is no set in stone way of handling it.
/r/seduction20/03/14 06:47 AM
1

For me it's not so much rejection fear but fear of what others think around me when I do it. If a girl was alone and not to many people were around I would approach but if there is others around I don't and it kinda sucks.
/r/seduction19/03/14 10:38 AM
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Alright so I thought it over and I'm going to go with friends i dont really know many girls in my area around my age and it would be awesome to have a friend that I could call up and hangout with after work or before work.
/r/seduction25/02/14 04:09 AM
2

Honestly I dont really see watching a chick thats passed out half naked for a night to make sure shes safe is beta. Unless of course no other dudes were in the house.
/r/seduction06/02/14 08:20 PM
2

Hes pondering, when I texted a girl thats 3 years older and wayy outta my league if she wanted to meet up for coffee I had no response for 3 days I figured she was just ignoring me but after 3 days shes finally got back to me. Thats when I found out she actually considered it, she though do i or do i not? That's the same thing the guys doing hes considering you and hasn't made his mind up yet.
/r/seduction20/01/14 07:19 AM
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I'm not very great with women but wouldn't a simple, hey you seem like a pretty cool person and I'd like to get to know you better, heres my number. And just go from there or would this approach not work?
/r/seduction14/01/14 02:32 AM
1

fun
/r/seduction20/02/13 11:45 PM
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I suppose I should update people on what i think of the advice so far. I appreciate that some people have taken the time out of their day to help me with this issue, I have read all of ur posts and I think a few people hit the nail on the head here. A few things stood out 1 of them being a listener I don't usually listen that well to other people and I am quite often to interject with my own things and sorta steer the topic to things I want to talk about or I will become negative in an attempt t…
/r/seduction04/12/12 05:15 AM
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dont worry you will be the first to know.
/r/seduction03/12/12 02:23 PM
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