I would say most of my time has been devoted to become more charming, charismatic and to develop a wicked personality. While having a great personality is definitely a plus a personality won't get you success, it will help but you can't rely on just personality.

This probably seems obvious to a lot of people but I've been neglecting other parts of seduction and focusing strictly on personality. I need to start focusing on being dominant and more sexual. From when we first see each other on the first date I need to be exciting her physically. This has been a huge wakeup call and maybe for others it will be as well.

Personality won't get you laid.