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Misleading TitleLiberalPenguin/r/MensRights09/05/14 01:04 PM
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IT should just auto-swipe right on everything and give me a notification if I match with someone.
/r/seduction21/08/16 07:35 PM
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Well, I, for one, can understand her sentiment...I can't tell you how many times I've gone to McDonalds looking forward to a great old steak with baked potato, only to be met with a odd gaze from the waitress. It's almost like they have never served steak before. It's weird.
/r/seduction21/08/16 07:34 PM
4

Dunno about you guys, but I always just wait till they've passed out
/r/seduction14/08/16 01:23 PM
2

"Do you have any tips for getting blood out of carpet?" women love to help
/r/seduction14/08/16 01:21 PM
2

yeh...it's pretty common...well. ...I wouldn't do it with friends, but approach girls you're not that attracted to and you don't know and see how you do with them.
/r/seduction02/08/16 09:48 PM
1

Well done. Contiune to do that. Sounds like rapport is your sticking point. You do something that puts them off. My guess is neediness. Have you tried approaching girls that you dont find particularly attractive?
/r/seduction02/08/16 08:47 PM
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your point?
/r/seduction02/08/16 08:01 PM
2

Its probably the most famous book on this subject next to the game
/r/seduction02/08/16 04:40 PM
3

This is all you need to know: 1 You are out of practice. Get practice. That means, go out and talk to women where ever you can. Join study groups, activities, events, whatever...anything. Be around women. (ie. try not to only contact women online. It's actually quite hard these days. To me it was a confidence killer. I'm a fuck ton better live). 2 Learn to escalate: Approach Rapport Kino (touching) Isolate Invite home 3 TRY! Go fucking do it. Practice practice practice practice...go! Go do it no…
/r/seduction02/08/16 04:34 PM
2

You're a dating coach, that haven't heard of "Models"? ... good luck on your career...lol
/r/seduction02/08/16 04:18 PM
1

Well, I certainly losses a lot there. Thanks?
/r/seduction31/07/16 07:58 AM
3

Well...fuck the form!
/r/seduction30/07/16 08:53 AM
4

what if I just give you a form that you can fill in?
/r/seduction29/07/16 08:24 PM
1

Im 37. But ill wait and report back
/r/seduction28/07/16 05:43 AM
1

I disagree
/r/seduction27/07/16 05:50 AM
5

Bullshit. A 19 year old can be as mature as any 23 year old. He just has to see for himself
/r/seduction25/07/16 11:06 PM
1

good point!
/r/seduction08/07/16 06:16 PM
2

Sounds a bit narcissistic to be honest. Surprised you are saying you have done this, too. Can you explain why you would pretend you are really into a guy, even when you are not? Even going as far as having regular sex with the guy? ... If a guy does this, and they do, is to basically get sex from someone that wouldn't normally put out: Ie. They want something more, and the guy promises this in exchange for sex. When a woman does it... it makes no sense... Weird
/r/seduction08/07/16 11:07 AM
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wat? She's actually hooking up with him, but is not interested? Is she a guy? :D Im fine with this behaviour as long as she is SUPER honest about what she is doing. This is what PUA's are told to do anyway: Always leave them better. Hooking up is fine, but don't pretend there is something more unless there is.
/r/seduction08/07/16 07:22 AM
9

No. You misunderstand the behaviour. She doesn't do it for the pleasure of dumping him. She is doing it because she likes the attention he is giving her. She feels valuable. Still, she doesn't want to go any further with the guy, and abruptly ends it when he decides to escalate it to a certain point. This is why men need to be assertive and escalate steadily throughout. It will filter out this bullshit very quickly. edit: I didn't catch the part where she is actually hooking up with the guy. Thi…
/r/seduction08/07/16 07:20 AM
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Then you are robbing yourself of the many successes you had before you were shot down. You clearly have some sticking points here. Which occurs after approach and probably during rapport. Have you built enough attraction before escalating to kiss or number close? Kino? Isolation? Change of venue?
/r/seduction08/07/16 05:47 AM
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define success, please
/r/seduction07/07/16 06:24 PM
1

Ok... So. Was bald at 19. Shaved it all off. Never looked back. Have slept with over 60 women. It. Doesnt. Fucking. Matter.
/r/seduction29/06/16 09:22 PM
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Accept it happened, learn what you can from it and move on.
/r/seduction29/06/16 09:12 PM
1

She sounds insane, or hiding her real emotions
/r/seduction21/06/16 10:30 PM
7

"Wanna play a game? Its called 'how well do you know each other?' I ask a question about your friend she whispers me the amswer and you get to guess!" This typw of game includes all parties and you get to have the hottie whisper in your ear. Remember to increase kino as things are progressing. Move over to sexual questions if the situation permits it
/r/seduction18/06/16 01:57 PM
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It's basically because you don't care of the outcome with the less attractive girls, whilst with the amazingly hot girls, like SexyCyborgTittyFuck from the picture, you actually do care...and care a lot. Which makes you lose focus. If you have ever done anything like sports or competitive games, you'll be familiar with the "choke" you get when you are about to do something which can make or break a game. It suddenly gets really hard to perform. So people say "winners" can handle their shit, and …
/r/seduction14/06/16 06:04 PM
2

Like he said. Invite her out on a date. Once you have been on a date together, you can safely ignore the guy in social situations, and do whatever you want. If you have balls enough, you can try to escalate with him there, before you have dated the girl. But, you mention she is a shy girl so she will probably not react positively to this. Note: I'm pretty sure the girl likes the attention from her ex. I'd be real cautious in entering a relationship with this one. If she flakes or acts distant an…
/r/seduction13/06/16 05:48 PM
2

Why? She proved shes not worth having. Good riddance. Move on
/r/seduction11/06/16 12:51 PM
0

Wow bullshit. Sex becomes less interesting if your wife looks like a walrus. Sex is one of the most important components of a sucessful realtionship.
/r/seduction03/06/16 04:24 PM
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I see no way of that working out for him. He is accusing her friends of being douches. It's obvious to me that she has to defend her friends in that situation. It would ruin his chances basically. If I were to pursue this girl, which I probably wouldn't because potential drama, I would ignore the "friends". It would serve no purpose bringing them up at all.
/r/seduction22/05/16 04:49 PM
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You would go and tell a girl that all her friends are in love with her? And you expect her to believe you or even take you seriously, why? And secondly, how does it make you look when you go tell a girl something like that?
/r/seduction22/05/16 04:24 PM
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Say: I heard through the grape vine that all our friends are already secretly in love with you, and thus I think they may be trying to influence you against seeing me. Why the hell would you say that?
/r/seduction22/05/16 03:40 PM
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Approach women you don't find very attractive. It will make you not care of the outcome, which is what you need to get rid of the anxiety. After you have laid a few women on the low end of the scale, you can being moving upward. In the end you don't care if you sleep with "Megan Fox" or not, because you have a pool of "Jennifer Anistons" waiting for you if you fuck up.
/r/seduction22/05/16 11:52 AM
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<3
/r/seduction20/05/16 11:42 PM
2

Practice touching your friends... (Not in a sexual way, obviously). Hugs. Claps on back... Etc. When you are comfortable with that its way easier to initiate with girls.
/r/seduction20/05/16 06:26 AM
0

really?
/r/seduction19/05/16 08:17 PM
1

what did you say about cringe?
/r/seduction19/05/16 08:08 PM
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I'm not sure if its only the amount of different girls, but it probably counts towards it. I'm sure. I think it's also a lot being tired of being controlled by my libido all the time and such. I would fuck anything at certain periods of my life. It's not a good feeling waking up to a girl you absolutely despise. Due to both looks AND personality....I can tell you that much. But how to get so many partners? Lower your standards and ABC. Always be closing....I guess. It was a kind of obsession.. I…
/r/seduction19/05/16 01:56 PM
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I totally get you. Since I was there myself. And it's probably impossible to be indifferent to sex, when you haven't even ever had it. When it comes to how I got in that state of mind...it's not one thing I can point out. I could probably write a book about it...it's been a journey. ...but if I really have a gun to my head here, I would say it's when I realised I wanted sex for the validation. I needed women to validate me by having sex with me. I started thinking about it, and realised that the…
/r/seduction18/05/16 09:20 PM
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Pretty obvious stuff. I'm pretty happy with my job where I get a lot of super feedback. Always looking forward to going on vacations with friends. Or just weekends off...having a few beers and shooting the shit. Hanging out with my kid and watch him grow...also all the awesome stuff he does. He's great. I've experienced a lot of great moments with friends and family I will cherish forever. That makes me happy. My life is nowhere near "perfect", but who wants that anyway? Sounds stressful, to me.…
/r/seduction18/05/16 09:07 PM
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Thanks! Good luck :)
/r/seduction18/05/16 09:01 PM
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I've had 60+ partners. Was in a serious relationship from 24 to 32. Virgin till I was 22. To be honest: It's WAY better not to be preoccupied by sex all the time. Trust me. Being happy by going home alone after a night on the town, and be HAPPY that I'm alone when I wake up? Fucking priceless... Compared to before when I was beating myself for every lost opportunity I had the previous night. I recommend it :) Sex is overrated. And guys would benefit GREATLY if they realised this as soon as possi…
/r/seduction18/05/16 06:36 PM
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I don't enjoy sex any more. I'm 37. It's not that I don't find it fun sometimes, but it's so overrated it's not even funny.
/r/seduction18/05/16 06:23 PM
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9 months? and already boring? ...yeh...it's over. Sorry
/r/seduction18/05/16 06:15 PM
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I don't get it... You think you have to be teasing and sexual when you are talking to her to get her sexually interested or something? I went on around 10 online dates, and ended up having sex on 9 of them. I never once "teased" them. Not once. I talk about random shit, am funny, and plan the night like this: Get a few drinks Sit next to each other with possibility of kino (sic...touching) Escalate till she is comfortable with my hand on her (back, thigh, holding hands). Move to another venue (c…
/r/seduction18/05/16 05:49 PM
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Is was a virgin till 22 myself. The first lays made me feel great. And the feeling subsided with each. Until now where, unless I actually like the girl, they usually make me feel like shit. If I like them Im pretty neutral
/r/seduction17/05/16 07:00 AM
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Wrote this a couple of years ago: https://www.reddit.com/r/seduction/comments/1p9sem/a_woman_cant_make_you_happy_only_you_can/
/r/seduction17/05/16 06:57 AM
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I get approached ik clubs all the time.... But I find it harder to make something of it in those circumstances. Often they just approach to get attention. And if I try to do something with it, they jump ship. I think they often have boyfriends and need some excitement. It would explain their lack of AA anyway.
/r/seduction15/05/16 10:52 PM
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tl;dr?
/r/seduction12/05/16 07:45 PM
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Girls over 25 wont play games in the first place. lol...no
/r/seduction10/05/16 11:03 AM
1

I agree with you, but I'd avoid trying to kiss on the dance floor even if you have success with it. Kissing naturally leads to sex, and it's pretty hard to escalate from kissing on a dance floor. And if you start kissing on the dance floor it can be hard to keep up the heat until you leave. Often better to tease kiss and isolate to escalate... Depends on the situation obviously
/r/seduction08/05/16 09:51 AM
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This is a fucking walk-in. Not much you couldve fucked up imho
/r/seduction06/05/16 03:27 PM
1

Tell him when you are sober
/r/seduction06/05/16 12:02 PM
4

Some people just dont initiate much. It is how it is.
/r/seduction06/05/16 11:59 AM
1

have fun
/r/seduction06/05/16 11:32 AM
1

Hey. Your dick is worth something to someone at some point in time. I was speaking in general terms. Important distinction
/r/seduction05/05/16 01:41 AM
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In short and in general terms; No. If ever male sexuality becomes worth something, then maybe.
/r/seduction04/05/16 04:31 PM
2

(this has been said in other ways in this thread, but maybe someone finds the more general approach to the situation interesting, so here goes) Women needs to have their problem "validated" before a solution is presented. I think this is tied to their need for always seeking consensus in everything. Basically, they need to have someone that agrees with them that the problem they are having is indeed a problem, and not something trivial. Women fret over the most random bullshit all the time, and …
/r/seduction04/05/16 04:28 PM
2

Next move would be to dance with her. And escalate on the dancefloor.
/r/seduction01/05/16 07:21 PM
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she wanted to dance
/r/seduction01/05/16 05:36 PM
1

Impossible to help without hearing more specifics. The girl giving attention to your friend might just have been for fun. Maybe he's a better dancer? More fun to be around? She was left alone when your friend went to bang the other chick? If you want attention, you need to be engaging and fun. Basically. It's pretty hard if you have never done. Could take months or even years to change that kind of behaviour. Sorry. But if you want to have fun on your trip, you have to play on your strengths. Yo…
/r/seduction30/04/16 08:37 PM
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dont try to talk on the dancefloor. Dance with them, let the grind on you, glide your hands over their backs, arms and even upper legs. After doing that for awhile you can move your face closer to hers to gauge how she feels about you. Many times youll be able to make out with her just after a few minutes... NOW!! this doesnt actually mean anything. Girls do this shit all the time, and it does not mean she wants to fuck. Period. It's just plain old "fun". It doesn't mean she doesn't want to fuck…
/r/seduction30/04/16 02:48 PM
2

Yes. Ive turned it down several notches last few years. Sleeping with a new girl now basically gives me nothing. Except if I actually like her. The worry about stds and pregnancies has grown larger than the satisfaction of putting another notch in the belt.
/r/seduction29/04/16 02:09 AM
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If you suddenly start gaming people at your work, when you previously haven't they, are going to freak out. Depending on the job, the potential to fuck up is extremely high.
/r/seduction28/04/16 07:38 PM
2

Ive been a sexually active single guy for about 8 years. Slept with 60+ women. Most lays are from going out and parties. 2-3 from work. 2-3 festivals/concerts. Maybe 10-12 from online dating. Id have sex with maybe around 2/3 of them again if I had the chance. Rest? No thank you.
/r/seduction28/04/16 04:07 PM
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no thanks.
/r/seduction27/04/16 04:44 PM
6

how would you even begin to "provide results"? :D ... ugh...this is painful
/r/seduction27/04/16 04:28 PM
5

lol..."we" .. It's pretty obvious you are a failing "dating coach" in which there are thousands. And you write this piece of garbage, why? You just went and said that what you are teaching is worthless... wow....
/r/seduction27/04/16 04:00 PM
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maybe she sent a text and got a response she didn't like. Or no response at all? I dunno. One can only speculate. good luck anyway.
/r/seduction25/04/16 07:50 PM
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impossible to know, but she seems to be carrying some baggage. Tell-tale signs: checking phone constantly when with people, crying in front of people, crazy first night sex, non-stop texting... It might not be bad, but take care. Remember: TONS of girls have issues with sex. Some deal with it through going completely crazy during, to control "it"....whatever "it" is. Example: a friend of mine fucked a guy over 20 when she was 13. She fucks...a lot. Many different guys, too. She doesn't want to t…
/r/seduction25/04/16 07:36 PM
2

I dont think there are quick fixes. In the anal sex example, you probably need to understand why she doesn't feel like having a dick rammed up her asshole... Other than the obvious. And help her through that. "My dick is really tiny. you know that! It wont hurt a bit!"
/r/seduction24/04/16 04:08 PM
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/r/thathappened
/r/seduction24/04/16 03:55 PM
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def a troll
/r/seduction24/04/16 09:15 AM
3

Everyone is. IT's because it's hard to have outcome independence once you REALLY like someone. The trick is to hate everyone. Then you are golden
/r/seduction24/04/16 09:08 AM
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Once you leave the fake world built up by our society where we are supposed to think relationships are something that should last forever, and you should do anything to make it work...youll be a happier person. Realise that you can leave anything behind at any point. Be with someone if they make you happy. But dont hesitate to leave once they make you sad. There are ALWAYS new people to meet and experience life with. Only keep the ones that are precious to you.
/r/seduction24/04/16 09:04 AM
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First night: she was bored and thought it was fun to snap with a dude second: She had something else to do just ask her out.
/r/seduction24/04/16 07:23 AM
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basically: don't be ashamed that you are approaching girls and taking up their time. They will tell you if it's inappropriate, in case, you eject. You are making someones day by giving them attention when they least expect it. Just keep on what you are doing, man. You rock.
/r/seduction23/04/16 07:47 PM
1

1st: Why mention the bus thing? Also: why calculator? no phones? Always get number and call up her while you are standing there. It removes all doubt if you got the number right etc. 2nd: You couldve said you hang around till her friend comes. 3rd: You didn't get shot down. Couldve sat down and asked her what she is studying (maybe you couldve helped...blabla...5 minutes : Oh...I don't want to bother you any more? PHone number?)
/r/seduction22/04/16 03:54 PM
1

As long as you dont try, youll be fine
/r/seduction21/04/16 09:53 PM
1

What?
/r/seduction21/04/16 09:41 PM
2

If you want a casual relationship you need to make that clear EARLY. Like around the 1st time you have sex. You clearly haven't done this, and you both have gone into this with two different views on what is happening. She is catching on that you haven't been totally honest with her, and you are trying to find ways to trick her into continuing.... It's probably too late, because she doesn't trust you any more. If you are a good guy, you tell her what you want out of this. And accept whatever she…
/r/seduction21/04/16 07:13 PM
1

yeh, don't do that. It can lead her to think you are hesitant about this. Just treat her as you would any other.
/r/seduction21/04/16 06:53 PM
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You basically need to have something to "offer" if you want to make adult friends. This doesn't mean you have to suck up to them or give them stuff or anything like that. That you add some dynamic to their group of friends. Something they are missing. It could be that you know all the bouncers in town, and so can skip any queue in any club out there. Or that you have a lot of girl friends. That you have access to a private basket ball court or whatever...you know? It's not like when we were kids…
/r/seduction21/04/16 06:18 PM
3

Ok so then dont try. Give up. You are right. Its hopeless
/r/seduction19/04/16 04:56 AM
2

That you are an idiot that thinks a 30 year old cant improve himself. Its just another excuse I guess. One of many
/r/seduction19/04/16 04:41 AM
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Yeh, you shouldn't try. Actually. Never try anything. That will make everything a fuck ton better. Just wallow in your own self pity forever. Magically things will somehow change down the line, and women will be screaming for your attention. Trust me. Don't try.
/r/seduction18/04/16 03:47 PM
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Describe situations where it has happened... Hard to help otherwise
/r/seduction17/04/16 09:57 PM
1

k , get it.
/r/seduction15/04/16 05:21 PM
1

Why would you even bring him up in the convo?
/r/seduction15/04/16 05:14 PM
12

This is good. But also: if she is receptive. Try to isolate as soon as possible. Beer run. Cig run. Take a walk. Go to another party. Go to a club...etc
/r/seduction15/04/16 05:13 PM
2

uhm..it's her ex. Defending him in that situation would be really wierd.
/r/seduction15/04/16 05:12 PM
2

Dont ignore them. Treat them as you would a guy friend, but more touching. Basically.
/r/seduction09/04/16 07:54 PM
1

BecAuse they have grown to like and respect you
/r/seduction09/04/16 07:00 PM
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I think its about confirmation. When she gets the confirmation you like her the game is up. She has gotten all she "needs" from you. She can move on. I think all this dating game is a sort of social hiearchy "testing". Who is most valuable?
/r/seduction09/04/16 10:31 AM
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He is obviously not over her, so going for it, or even not rejecting her can make him sour. It basically depends on if you care enough about him to care. There are no rules.
/r/seduction08/04/16 08:30 PM
1

just invite her to something non-committal: "Hey! sup? We are going to X on friday. Wanna come? Bring a friend if you want!" If she doesn't respond at all. It's over. You can repeat it later, but don't get your hopes up. If she responds she can't do it. You repeat the process at a later time. Maybe something mid week. Mid weeks are usually open (at least for people between 18 and 25). If she says yes, remember to solidify it by send a message a 4-5 hours before the event: "Hey! We still on for t…
/r/seduction08/04/16 08:12 PM
2

Social situation. If you ask her directly if she wants to boink when you are alone, noone will see it and she can respond how she likes. If people are around she has to be more careful. Else people perceive her as a slut.
/r/seduction06/04/16 09:58 PM
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Just lock gaze with him and smile. Look away. Place yourself in his vicinity and wait. Look over from time to time. Always smile if he ever sees you looking at him.
/r/seduction06/04/16 09:56 PM
15

Nothing sexual? Okay...
/r/seduction05/04/16 06:25 PM
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So fake it's embarassing
/r/seduction05/04/16 05:13 PM
1

You're actually not getting rejected though, since that is what you are seeking in the first place.
/r/seduction31/03/16 07:10 PM
0

I had a long rant going here, but I think all I wanted to say is: Do you believe love exists?
/r/seduction29/03/16 08:05 PM
2

Total bullshit. Tons of women aren't able to show their affection or interest simply because they are afraid to be turned down. Should we lose out on those? ...no. Also: The shy ones are the wildest ones in bed ...teehee The guy needs to do the escalation, and only stopping or pausing if he gets a clear signal that she is getting uncomfortable.
/r/seduction24/03/16 09:47 AM
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Her "crazy" behaviour is because tons of guys have stopped responding to her after she has had sex with them. Please don't be a fucking asshole and do the same. Show her you MEANT what you said when you said you "wouldn't think less of her if she slept with you". It won't cost you a god damn thing to meet up a couple of times and leave the sex out. Stay friends whatever. Radio silence is a fucking dick move.
/r/seduction23/03/16 04:55 PM
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I agree. I would add that "nice guys" needs to escalate more. They can't wait around for the woman to make the "move". It also helps to filter out the women that aren't attracted, so you can move on to the next one.
/r/seduction23/03/16 08:57 AM
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No. It's complete bullshit. If you want to get laid you need to escalate. It's pretty fucking simple. And posts like OP justs confuses the hell out of guys.
/r/seduction23/03/16 08:56 AM
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Moving from talking, to touching, to isolation, to kissing, to hands down her pants, to putting the thing inside her thing. escalating.
/r/seduction21/03/16 07:20 PM
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jesus fucking christ. If you want to get laid fucking escalate. "Being nice" has nothing to do with anything for gods sake.
/r/seduction21/03/16 05:54 PM
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Dont escalate out in the streets. Keep the convo short. Invite her to the venue To continue the talk or get her number. Once youve you met her at a date or if she comes along you can first move closer to her when talking and start Touching extremities and escalation ladder etc
/r/seduction21/03/16 09:20 AM
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Move from her extremities in towards her centre. If she accepts the touching at a certain "level" do it for awhile and move one step closer towards her centre Always stopping if you get a denial. If the denial is strong. You need to build up WAY more attraction before continuing or even eject. If the denial is weak turn to hot/cold until you are past the point. You need to isolate her before you can touch her in places where its not sociably acceptable to touch her in public.
/r/seduction21/03/16 08:45 AM
0

So you think Dan Akroyd was banging 4's?
/r/seduction19/03/16 07:22 PM
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Do you even approach them? Anyway: Your mindset is all wrong. You think you need to act differently around them, but the fact is if you handle them the exact same way you would an average looking girl, you would be golden. Youve already placed hot girl on a pedestal, even before youve met her. You are already putting yourself in a position below her. The thing is: you want her. You need her. Thats why you act like you do. Once you get to the point you dont need her, youll get her. Baby steps. Ap…
/r/seduction19/03/16 05:13 PM
0

Just pull down your pants and dance around. Your bouncy penis dance will calm her down
/r/seduction18/03/16 06:23 AM
1

Good. Remember: Baby steps. Start out with girls you feel comfortable with. As in: They're attractiveness don't intimidate you. Don't worry. Once you have a few notches in your belt, and you are used to talking to women, they're attractiveness won't matter as much.
/r/seduction16/03/16 06:48 PM
2

I'm often told I'm good looking by women. I'm used to them catching a glance, and then looking up and staring at me. I'm not photogenic, however. My face just doesn't translate well to the camera. Except at certain angle's, perhaps. I'm pretty sure I could get some good photos if I hired a pro photographer and stylist. But I'm pretty sure that wouldn't work well on a profile. You need the "action" photos, and group photos and all that suck-ass. I don't have friends that like taking photos, or be…
/r/seduction16/03/16 06:33 PM
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Online dating sucks ass. Unless you look good in pictures. For a mediocre looking guy it ruins your confidence. Stay away. Approach in real life instead. This will build confidence.
/r/seduction15/03/16 08:01 AM
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that's the truth...there's probably around 2-3 women in a club that gets "all" the attention. Even the guys that don't have a flying fucking chance in hell of ever hooking up with these chicks ignore the rest of the girls there. If you want to improve your game, you have to be more aware of your surroundings and ignore those upper tier women, until you are fucking ready.
/r/seduction10/03/16 06:14 PM
5

http://www.medicaldaily.com/back-plan-half-women-relationships-have-plan-b-man-they-can-run-away-305186 This is something similar... Cant find the Study.
/r/seduction08/03/16 10:27 PM
7

Attention is one thing, yeh. Another might be that she is collecting her plan B's. Women usually keeps around a plan B, so she has something to fall back on. (I read some study on it somewhere)
/r/seduction08/03/16 08:38 PM
1

Its probably that. The more radical something is, the stronger the reaction from people is; both good and bad Its called polarising I think. Its actually a good thing. At least for climbing the HB scale. Makes you stand out.
/r/seduction06/03/16 09:28 PM
2

This was a great field report. Every incidence is linked to PUA theory. thanks!
/r/seduction05/03/16 09:33 PM
7

You build confidence in anything by doing this anything. OP handled this well, because he has been in similar situations. Get it? Do stuff that you know at the end will end you up at your place with a hot girl. Step by step by step. When you fall you get up, and continue. And so on. First? Approach. That's the first step.
/r/seduction05/03/16 09:32 PM
7

wtf? Standing still straight up on the dance floor and reaching out your hand and wait for her response? ... jesus fuck! please don't give people advice if you don't have any fucking clue. OP: If you want to dance with girls on the dance floor, learn to fucking dance. Girls flock to you like moths to a light bulb. "Oh PLEASE dance with me, cool dancy guy!" Also...the video sucked. What the hell was that complete bullshit he started out with? Cycle facial expressions until they say something? Oh …
/r/seduction04/03/16 09:12 PM
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<first paragraph of bullshit> Hello, tinder sales rep
/r/seduction22/02/16 08:01 AM
1

If you have gotten eye contact, but she is busy at work, just say that you know shes busy now and dont want to bother her, but she s cute and if you could have her number?
/r/seduction20/02/16 04:51 PM
2

I think it was around 50% of girls in relationships were IN a relationship when they met their current boyfriend. I can't find the specific survey, but this should suffice: http://www.mirror.co.uk/lifestyle/sex-relationships/relationships/nearly-half-women-relationships-plan-4323872
/r/seduction18/02/16 09:07 PM
2

That type of reputation will scare off the conservative girls that aren't interested in casual sex.. This isn't necessarily true. Girls that "say" they aren't interested in sex, and girls that truly aren't, isn't necessarily mutually inclusive. In fact, many that say it are saying it to hide their very high interest in it. Get one of those alone somewhere and her interest and his social reputation can get things hot fast. You see. A girl like that needs to know that he won't tell, or freak out, …
/r/seduction17/02/16 07:56 PM
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Talk to him about it. If you can't talk to him about it. Or he won't open up, you'll never know WHY he doesn't respond to you. And you definitely won't know how to seduce him into bed again. I see by you post history that you have had issues with this for months. Even that he "needs" porn to get aroused. It's super important you don't get him on the defensive here. IT might be deep issues he has with sex in the first place. Or it might be something you do, or don't do, that's the issue. Maybe he…
/r/seduction17/02/16 06:41 PM
2

Baby steps. Start of small and build confidence: can you approach a 2-set?
/r/seduction12/02/16 04:53 AM
4

Ive gotten most response by texting random funny stuff that somehow relate to something we talked about when we met. Like i messaged a girl a picture of some toy skiis with the text: new skiis in the house! I mentioned that I had trouble finding skiis that fit me when we talked earlier. Got an instant msg back with lol emoticon. Keep it light and funny. And invite to stuff if she has responded to most txts
/r/seduction11/02/16 10:26 PM
5

Adress the group. Not just the girl.
/r/seduction09/02/16 04:19 PM
2

It can be literally anything.
/r/seduction07/02/16 07:51 PM
2

Don't ask people to hang out with you. Come up with activities, preferably something that you enjoy doing and several people can do together. Like going hiking, skiing, to the beach, the park etc. Invite a lot of people. Have fun with whoever shows up. Repeat as often as you can. In a while people will invite you to their stuff all the time. edit: Oh. Be sure to be the one to invite. Don't let others do all the inviting FOR you. You have to be the one reaching out to create that bond.
/r/seduction07/02/16 06:20 PM
0

in 1/100 you might get something positive from a line. The rest would be better of saying "hi, my name is ..."
/r/seduction07/02/16 06:04 PM
1

Relevant: How are some ways you've noticed women hitting on you? She says compliments like, "Hey, I like your shirt." If she keeps walking, no go. If she stays to chat? Stop, talk to her and get her phone number. She's attracted to you. It's a common piece of dating advice in women's magazines to say something like that to guys. The problem is, men assume the girl likes their clothes, not likes them.
/r/seduction07/02/16 12:06 AM
1

I think I don't have the patience for that. Ill have to work on it. Thanks, though!
/r/seduction06/02/16 11:36 PM
1

I feel they are way more easily offended, dont get jokes, act up every chance they get, run around craving attention from everyone making it hard to keep a convo going... So I guess I tense up when I try. Lately ive just had the dgaf attitude which works, because I get the attention but then I either really dgaf and leave, or I try and cant seem to convert their attention to anything more. Or some older chick has grabbed me and I have a laugh with them, but dont care enough to contact them later…
/r/seduction06/02/16 09:33 PM
1

Thanks. My dad question example didn't come across as I wanted it. I have no problem picking up women my own age (35+). Problem is I'm rarely in to them. But when I meet younger women I just can't seem to communicate very well with them. At least not as good. Looking forward to your future post about the subject
/r/seduction06/02/16 08:18 PM
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Never ever ever ever ever ever ever use pick up lines ever. Never. Ever. Ever. ... Ok? Never. Ever. Talk to girls like normal people. Saying she has cute glasses is super and right where you want to be.
/r/seduction06/02/16 07:28 PM
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Hehe. Hate it when that happens. Its so rare you just stand and gape like you just saw fucking big foot. These days Ive noticed Ive started to avoid women if I feel they are about to approach. Just dont need the awkwardness.
/r/seduction06/02/16 02:50 PM
0

How, though? Isn't it so that you should not "change" for them? How can you at the same time not change, but also bridge the gap, so to speak? I usually find myself asking "dad" questions whenever I'm in the company of younger women (as in 20-23) "So how is school? Are you studying hard?" ... <--- Im not swimming in it
/r/seduction06/02/16 10:14 AM
12

Whenever she is around, show your interest by staring at her from a distance. Be motionless. Only move your head. When she has left, quickly move over to where she was and look for any items she might have left behind. Including hair or discarded food containers etc. Run back to your cave and worship her at the shrine you have built. Add the items you have found, obviously. Remember to whip yourself bloody every time. This is important. Sacrifice rabbits etc. The usual. If you continue this unti…
/r/seduction04/02/16 07:37 PM
2

I don't get why someone downvoted you.. "Literally anything" is the answer. edit: he was at 0 after about 1 hour after posting
/r/seduction04/02/16 07:22 PM
13

A car, a bathroom, the park, in an alley, at a friends house, at her friends house, in a shed, in a junkyard, in a storeroom, on top of a car, in a friends car, in her friends car, cars in general, on the back of a horse, in a tractor, on a plane, on a train, on a bus ... All of these places people have fucked. And more.
/r/seduction29/01/16 06:36 PM
1

Hehe...yeh I know. I'm part of an underground crowd in my town and it happened just as you say. Went regularly to club nights where these people hung out and after a few months I was invited to the afters. I had a shoe in from before since I knew some of them slightly from a festival I went to. Sadly this crowd doesn't have hot girls. Only weed smoking or pill popping nerve wrecks that post "feel good" memes on their facebook pages. Or rants about people they've had arguments with.... :(
/r/seduction24/01/16 06:27 PM
3

Nice
/r/seduction24/01/16 01:41 PM
1

Yeh, totally! Just to cross-reference with my own cool party crowd... Where exactly are these parties and can I come?
/r/seduction24/01/16 12:54 PM
1

Just kill a squirrel and drop it at her feet. Thats what all cool cats does.
/r/seduction24/01/16 12:52 PM
1

Yeh. Make it a habit where you greet her whenever you see her. Exchange a few words before you eject again. If possible try to invite her to an on-campus lunch. No problem if you are more than just you too. Now. You HAVE to escalate at some point. So invite her out for drinks or something like that when the time is right. Stop trying to analyze stuff btw. Just do whatever yoy feel is right
/r/seduction24/01/16 11:04 AM
2

Fuck me you are overthinking this. You need to start approaching girls and experiencing stuff basically. You dont want to go out thinking you want a long term relationship straight out of the box. Those develop over time. You dont have to bang and say goodbye either. There is a middle ground. Just go out there and meet girls. Talk to them. Its not that hard. Stop overthinking this shit.
/r/seduction23/01/16 11:15 PM
7

Run away as fast as you fucking can. This girl has serious issues
/r/seduction23/01/16 11:10 PM
4

It doesnt raise your value. Its supposed to remove your approach anxiety which in turn make you better at approaching. In a small community this is a dangerous tactic and should be reconsidered. Id do trips out of town in the weekends to practice game.
/r/seduction23/01/16 10:55 PM
15

She wants to meet you. Relax. She has legit reasons not to meet up. She even fucking told you the night before! This is not flaking. Just reschedule. You are still golden.
/r/seduction23/01/16 10:53 PM
2

You fucked up. Well done. Now go fuck other girls. Because youll forget her quicker that way. Your oneitis is fucking chilling. Please dont start stabbing her when you see her with another guy plz.
/r/seduction23/01/16 06:41 PM
2

Exactly. Dont escalate to kissing. Just tease them instead. Invite her outside for a smoke or a breathe of fresh air and escalate and ask to go to another club or something. Isolate. And them escalate.
/r/seduction23/01/16 06:35 PM
1

A k-close is ending the set with a kiss. Its not kissing during a set. With that out of the way. If you have escalated to kissing on the dancefloor its really hard to keep that intensity up for a long time. You should instead build attraction more slowly and plan to leave at the same time as the girl. Outside its easier to isolate and invite her home(or her house). Its ok to start kissing around here before you invite her. Always isolate before inviting her to your place, btw I usually dont invi…
/r/seduction23/01/16 05:35 PM
1

If u act like a dick at a party expect other girls to hear about it.
/r/seduction23/01/16 08:32 AM
1

You had drunken sex and she was on E. Dont expect anything.
/r/seduction22/01/16 06:06 PM
2

Your next message should be just a normal low intensity one. "Saw a guy shaving in the gym showers today...weird". ... That kind. Just have normal chats and dont pour your heart out a week or 2. Then say you want to meet her and that you will come the next weekend.
/r/seduction22/01/16 06:04 PM
3

Yep. Why the fuck try to make her feel bad? It reeks of zero confidence Op: Just excuse yourself and start talking to someone else. Its not hard
/r/seduction22/01/16 05:50 PM
15

You don't call her out on that. You approach and talk about something random. Tell her you need to go, to whatever, and that she is cute and if you can get her number. And then split. An alternative is to invite her to a cup of coffee right away and go from there.
/r/seduction21/01/16 07:05 PM
2

How did you learn to tie your shoelaces? By not trying?
/r/seduction21/01/16 07:01 PM
1

Wtf. Nfsw
/r/seduction20/01/16 05:09 PM
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It shouldnt matter. You assume attraction and dont stop until she has clearly said shes not interested.
/r/seduction20/01/16 04:12 PM
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Wow. Did not expect this. Its solid advice. Simple and obvious when you think about it. But ive never thought to do it myself.
/r/seduction18/01/16 06:03 PM
2

I actually never used a technique. It always felt off to me. But there are general guidance stuff like the escalation ladder, LMS stuff like hot/cold and changing venues etc that actually REALLY works well and can be easily followed in most circumstances with great success. But pickup has turned into just basically reading people better for me. I'm not natural, at all, and I think I have some slight whiff of autism that makes me overanalyze everything to shit. Especially in stressful environment…
/r/seduction17/01/16 11:20 AM
1

Yes. Techniques should be viewed as training wheels. Ok to get a feel for what pickup is, but sucks when you want to do that awesome wheelie
/r/seduction17/01/16 09:46 AM
3

Anything... It doesnt matter. If they ask just make something up. "They ended up at X instead."
/r/seduction16/01/16 09:02 AM
7

Done this. I usually just approach and ask ig I can hang with them for awhile while waiting for my friends. Works well
/r/seduction16/01/16 07:08 AM
3

So... The thing is to differentiate yourself from others. Right? Does good-looking women get guys coming over to them at clubs and telling them they are hot all the time? Well yes. And most of the guys are fucking drunk. Not a good idea to do that then. But do girls get guys coming over to them at a bus stop and telling them they are beautiful? No. Would that be a good idea? Why the fuck not. If you delivery is good, it's a great way to approach someone in that situation. Will it work any time, …
/r/seduction13/01/16 08:38 PM
3

I studied electronics & software in fucking newcastle upon tyne. The amount of "hot babes" could be counted with a fingerless hand. Way better now
/r/seduction13/01/16 08:53 AM
1

So... Uhm. Whats your insta?
/r/seduction12/01/16 12:43 AM
1

Well it can be a thousand things. But your text game can improve. First. After leaving send a non commital message. "Hey its X. Nice meeting you. Later" Wait a few days. Random message about your day. Can be made up. Or something funny. Random "Cocoa puffs rock. Dont tell anyone" If she responds leave it at a few messages back and forth. Always be the first to Stop responding. Dont ask boring questions. Just random witty stuff. Whenever you feel ready shoot her an invite. Open invite. "Im going …
/r/seduction11/01/16 10:22 AM
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LMS. The car sucks for escalating. Why not invite her in to listen to "music"? Or whatever the fuck reason. I fucked a girl I met on the bus, she was sober, I wasnt, because I said I was thirsty and if I could have a glass of water at her house. Once inside and on the sofa. Escalation ladder and hot/cold until she either caves or leaves. When questioned on something always agree. "Yeh! Our parents WOULD be uncomfortble!! It would be really crazy if we were to go through with this... It would hav…
/r/seduction11/01/16 09:34 AM
1

for a guy that hasn't actually seen any of his shit, you are pitchforking a lot. Don't you think? I've seen some RSD videoes. I've seen a lot of videoes from a lot of people. And you know what? You can watch 1 seminar, read 1 book or just read the sidebar here, and you are done. That's it for theory. If you want to pick up girls. You have to do whatever that video told you. And it will work. BEcause....you WILL get girls if you try enough times. Simple as that. It will work in the end, because i…
/r/seduction10/01/16 09:04 PM
2

yeh... I didn't actually see that happen. He did pull their heads down a few inches, though. In the general direction of his crotch? I dunno. I haven't seen the real video of it. It's blown up bullshit media crap. edit: sexual assault? lol...seriously? Fuckk......everything can be a sexual assault these days. NO I don't think Julien Blanc does is good. I think it' bullshit. But your pitchforking is just blown out of proportion. I am sorry.
/r/seduction10/01/16 08:01 PM
0

be honest: You haven't actually watched a single seminar he has done, have you?
/r/seduction10/01/16 07:54 PM
1

watch this instead: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=PS360836BGc julien blanc is the victim of a huge media campaign started by feminists that hate pick up. ps: I dont follow RSD btw
/r/seduction10/01/16 07:36 PM
0

Who says it's the only way? Straw man much?
/r/seduction10/01/16 07:29 PM
1

That didn't answer my question
/r/seduction10/01/16 01:57 PM
1

She works in the same office. This is the same social circle. Not a CLOSE social circle, but they say hi every time they pass each other for gods sake. I work in an office with about 150 people. There are people I don't talk to for 6 months. It would STILL be potentially social suicide if I started chasing a girl like that and it ended up being rejected harshly. Everyone would know about it. Any chance with any other girls there would be very low after this. He doesn't know her situation. She co…
/r/seduction10/01/16 11:07 AM
3

You agree with her. "This is crazy and wrong. I would normally never go after a girl with a boyfriend like this. But..this feels special...I can't explain it.* Acknowledge her feelings: "Yes. this is wrong" But offer an escape (it was meant to be or som ebullshit): "This is special..."
/r/seduction10/01/16 10:59 AM
3

I can see you don't know jack about girls and relationships. A majority of women in relationships HAD a boyfriend when they met their current SO. What does that tell you?
/r/seduction10/01/16 10:56 AM
1

stupid advice. It doesn't even begin to consider the issues with a job relationship. Or even the social suicide it could be to chase a girl in your own social circle, and get rejected. He has to get to know the chick, and see if it's mutual interest there before proceeding. That's what you always should do when the girl is in your social circle. It's not the same as cold approaching. There are real consequences.
/r/seduction10/01/16 10:53 AM
0

sounds like a shit plan... you would go for the fugliest chick just to get the load out...
/r/seduction09/01/16 11:13 PM
0

Can I jerk off if I don't watch porn?
/r/seduction09/01/16 08:13 PM
3

pff... I can go a week without jacking off (or having sex), and I don't even think about it. But, I think it might be unhealthy. Whenever I go that long, the cum that come out when I do, is thick and lumpy. And it's a lot of it. I also read that people that don't cum regularly have a higher risk of prostate cancer. The only thing that makes me want to chase, is actually having sex with women. It gives me a 3-4 week boost of libido, that is self-perpetuating because I get laid more often when I a…
/r/seduction09/01/16 07:02 PM
4

Social status > looks
/r/seduction07/01/16 08:18 AM
10

yeh that came out of left field. Here's another thought...what if...after you have shaken hands you... ask for her name. And get this. You give her yours. We're through the looking glass here people!
/r/seduction02/01/16 06:13 PM
1

That's not true. It depends on the girl and the situation. For sex, girls definetly go for looks first, for example.
/r/seduction30/12/15 08:59 AM
1

Oh. Yeh. That makes more sense. Just wanted to point out that this is also true for guys.
/r/seduction30/12/15 07:54 AM
1

Women especially those who hid/lie about their looks and/or body image need to realize their personally will only take them so far. Are you saying they should give up sex altogether?
/r/seduction29/12/15 10:18 PM
2

Soon youll realise that every girl ever takes about 4000 pictures to get that one they like and put out there. They are all bending the truth. Fat girls just bends it a bit further. All woman know instantly that its due to overweight that someone only shows their face on a profile. They probably assume we do, too.
/r/seduction28/12/15 09:49 AM
-2

Go away Tinder representative
/r/seduction27/12/15 10:26 PM
16

Cuz shes hoping youll like her for her personality. Just like us guys do.
/r/seduction27/12/15 10:24 PM
2

This should be in /r/sex. Plenty of advice to be had there.
/r/seduction27/12/15 12:15 AM
1

Jesus christ!! Your fucking hangup on the word "condition" borders on some compulsive obsessive disorder. My advice was pretty clear: dont go into long emotional talks before sex. It ruins the mood. IF he wants those deep talks, save it for later. Its pretty fucking basic stuff. You not seeing this tells me you have about zero experience. You have also offered zero advice yourself. Also your usage of the word "imbecile" and critizing my grammar reveals a lot. Keyboard warrior telling others to n…
/r/seduction25/12/15 06:23 PM
1

Sadly shes an easy target for a guy with little empathy and low morals..
/r/seduction25/12/15 02:40 PM
1

fuuuuuck...that was a hard read. I just want to hug that girl till she is all better... I do understand your decision, though.
/r/seduction25/12/15 11:46 AM
6

Yeh, basically. She didn't like you as much as you did her. Now. To get the pain go away faster you need to find go out and do stuff to stop your mind wander to her. It also helps to pick up contact with old fbs or whatever. But the best way is just to go out and find new ones. No, you can't make her change her mind. Sorry. (it is always a possibility that she DOES change her mind on her own, though. It's women we are talking about. But don't go hoping for that. It will only make the hurt last l…
/r/seduction25/12/15 11:42 AM
0

Good one
/r/seduction25/12/15 06:48 AM
1

1: no. He clearly states thats not an issue 2: he clearly states thats what he wants
/r/seduction25/12/15 06:48 AM
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This sub-reddit basically grew out from the "The Game" and the people that "The Game" was based upon or referenced. If you think "condition" is such a fucking bad word, you should never ever pick up that book and you sure as hell should not stay in this sub at all ever again. You didn't even read what I wrote. You are pathetic. I basically said the same thing as you, but added that he should not open up before sex. Once they have had sex, he can open up for awhile. What did you say? Oh! He shoul…
/r/seduction24/12/15 11:56 PM
3

Good luck!
/r/seduction24/12/15 02:43 PM
12

Sure. But you have to first go for the sex, and then after talk. Make it so that you dont open up until after sex. Every time. That will condition them into wanting sex for the deep talks after.
/r/seduction24/12/15 02:20 PM
0

Exactly. Dating is a numbers game for men. Excuding masculinity gives a greater chance of success because more women want that in a man than not. Thats why we recommend doing that. Saying that some women dont like it is irrelevant as long as more woman do.
/r/seduction14/12/15 07:34 AM
8

Its not by chasing emotionally retarded women. Thats for sure.
/r/seduction11/12/15 11:40 PM
5

I know I can't be fucked with the cold/hot bullshit with girls. It doesn't excite one bit, and it's just annoying to get flaked on all the time and then suddenly after you've ignored them for awhile they are ALL over you again...and then cold again. I just tell them I want to be friends and delete their number.
/r/seduction11/12/15 10:33 PM
1

Still not the same
/r/seduction11/12/15 06:01 AM
1

Is your name Lars? Seriously: see someone. This sounds like you need some professional help.
/r/seduction09/12/15 09:27 PM
1

You gave him a line that didnt work. Saying that when you cant do anything about it is in mo way the same as what he wants to achieve
/r/seduction09/12/15 06:18 PM
7

What the hell is wrong with hooking up with 2 girls in the same timespan?
/r/seduction09/12/15 05:08 PM
4

She wants to make sure youll take her aboard your boat before she jumps ship. Make the move and youll see.
/r/seduction01/12/15 04:45 PM
1

Saying a book will make you get laid more, is like saying a book will make you kick the ball like Beckham. It certainly wont hurt to read books, but if you want to be comfortable around women... You need to be around women. A lot.
/r/seduction24/11/15 12:26 PM
22

You put the penuuus inside the pussayh! jokes aside. If you have been friends with this girl for a long time, and you think you have a shot: Invite over for drinks. Drink. Start the usual routine: have fun, kino, escalate etc. Warning: If you fuck this up and she never thought about you "that way", you lose a friend.
/r/seduction21/11/15 06:01 PM
-2

Talk about random shit that is happening wherever you are at. Of course, try to be funny while you are at it. Make fun of random people in a light hearted way. ie.: "Pretty sure his mom picked out his clothes tonight", and not: "She the fugliest girl I've ever seen!" Cold reading is really good, too, I find.
/r/seduction14/11/15 10:36 AM
3

Hey: post your tinder profile please.
/r/seduction09/11/15 10:39 AM
1

Run. Away. Or at least wear a condom.....and video tape everything for evidence in court.
/r/seduction08/11/15 07:53 PM
1

Stop thinking about what specifically to say. Just ask to hang out or something. Once you are hanging out you can suggest cooking or whatever.
/r/seduction08/11/15 07:44 PM
1

You will only come across as a creep if you do something that you yourself think is "wrong" or "bad". If you want something to happen you have to take control, and show her that this thing is completely fine to do. And for that to happen ,you actually have to believe that yourself. Your country sounds terrible, btw. Where is it?
/r/seduction08/11/15 07:28 PM
3

Motel, Hotel, friends house, in your car, at the beach, in the forest, in a tent... fucking is possible anywhere. Hotel room too obvious? wtf? Spending some time alone with a woman is considered satan's work in your country or something?
/r/seduction08/11/15 05:48 PM
2

Yup... The only way I've found to pulling someone at a rave dancefloor would be to first dance next to each other and making eye contact and smiles. Once that has been going on for ages, you can ask if she wants to get a drink/fag. if yes...well. Go for it. Also...you can hang around the bars and chat like any other place.
/r/seduction07/11/15 07:27 PM
3

have you ever been to a rave? Because you don't "dance with" someone at a rave. You dance predominantly by yourself. It's also possible you stood WAY too much out compared to rest of the crowd. As much as ravers want to tell you they are so including and accepting of all kinds of lifestyles, they're not. They are actually less including than your normal party crowd.
/r/seduction07/11/15 07:13 PM
1

yeh...she's friendzoned you and want to keep you grazing. She likes the attention, but she does in no way see you as a sexual partner. Moaning on about cheating boyfriends etc is a sure sign of this. Also. You have put her on a pedestal. Hanging around with her is lying to yourself. You pretend you just want to be sociable, but that's not what you are really doing. You want to fuck her. You REALLY need to start pursuing someone else. The ONLY way to get this girl even remotely interested in you,…
/r/seduction07/11/15 06:56 PM
1

God the hippocracy... It actually made me just delete tinder, so I guess it was a good thing! Edit: But it does demonstrate the distribution of power between the sexes, when only looks are considered. I would say that most guys would swipe right at least 70 or 80% of the time. The matches you make are NEVER from a hot chick. Unless you have an awesome profile yourself obviously. BUt if you are in that top 10%, it's not like you have it hard getting girls anyway. But then again: You need to get p…
/r/seduction07/11/15 03:50 PM
5

Yes. Girls are aware they have bodies.
/r/seduction07/11/15 03:37 PM
2

Hell have the same issues with all this the same as you, if he is interested. Not wanting to make a move since it can be awkward for the rest of the lease if it goes pear shaped. Since guys are fucking terrible at reading hints, yes we cant do hints. Sorry. If you want something to happen? Make sure you are alone at home one night. Buy beer. Drink beer. Enough to make you comfortable. Sit on his lap, facing him and look into his eyes. No. Dont just look. STARE. No reaction? Or does he push you o…
/r/seduction07/11/15 03:31 PM
1

Ugh... You are basically around the worst time. Women in general are way less "loyal" than men. Loyal as in keep their end of agreements etc. Not the cheating thing. I think we are equally bad in that aspect. But girls her age are at their prime. They get fucktons of attention and they crave even more. They want to exploit this time in their life to the fullest. So if you want them to uphold their end of an appointment, you have to make them feel that you are "above" them. That they are lucky to…
/r/seduction03/11/15 09:56 PM
3

Think of it this way: The more excited you are about this girl, the less chance she'll respond to you texts.
/r/seduction03/11/15 09:25 PM
1

Her 1st choice said yes too. I know it sucks. But women, especially if they are good looking and young, will trade up all the fucking time. This will be better once you get to know them better (greater social cost when breaking an appointment). But in the start of getting to know you, they'll bail more often than not. I'm in touch with a 25 year old that I met like 4 years ago on vacation. She recently moved to town. I've suggested meeting up for a coffee which she was THRILLED to do. It's been …
/r/seduction03/11/15 09:20 PM
1

Well... He's a buddy of his. First action would be to take him aside and explain the problem. Based upon his reaction you make a choice of either killing him socially. Escalating before you know if the behavior is based upon malice or ignorance isn't a great tactic in my mind.
/r/seduction01/11/15 11:51 AM
3

She's just super uncertain of herself and need some confirmation from a friend. The friend is probably going to undress her for you, if you just act nice to both of them. Because, she is probably sick of hearing about you. go for it.
/r/seduction31/10/15 09:47 PM
1

Yes. I agree with that. My point was that the researchers never said: never smile
/r/seduction28/10/15 08:18 PM
1

They are saying this in tinder chat, or after you have met them? Because if it's the first, it's just a disclaimer she puts out there, so she can't be "blamed" if whenever she ends up having casual sex with tinder randoms... "I'm not LIKE that!" If it's the second, you need to work on your ladder. Anyway: It's better to get the like, than not. They can always change their minds, imho.
/r/seduction28/10/15 02:52 PM
1

You are way overreading the results... Not smile at all? wtf? If you can pull anything from this study at all, it's what profile picture to post on Tinder or something. Even, though, didn't OKCupid conclude that smiling men got way more likes, than those that didnt?
/r/seduction27/10/15 09:58 PM
56

Yes, you are a hypocrite
/r/seduction24/10/15 12:10 PM
2

being confident is not being an asshole. Some girls fall for the asshole routine, sure, but most don't. What confidencen is when doing pick up: Being able to behave just as you would around your closest family. And why do you behave the way you do around you family? You aren't constantly evaluating your own behaviour (like "uh...why did I say that?", "is my hand at an awkward angle?" "fuck...these pants are WAY to bright!")
/r/seduction17/10/15 05:05 PM
1

Strange...I went to Ukraine once, and getting numbers was like shopping for groceries. They READILY handed it out. But it was close to impossible to even touch them in public. I had to sweet talk all night and invite them on. Once we were out of view of anyone, they let go and ...well. best sex I've had in my life were there.
/r/seduction17/10/15 05:00 PM
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Love the solid field report, Panther. A few notes: You should have instantly turned to kino after you awesome neg by brushing them off her. Especially around her vagina area. Drinking too much. It costs money and hurts game. You should have instead opted for ice tea which is sophisticated and chicks dig it. Did you forget the high fives or something? If it was me I would have high fived at least 4000 times within the first minute of entering the set
/r/seduction17/10/15 10:47 AM
1

What if Im not normal? Somehow I think mentioning her butthole and vagina in every other sentence wont make her weak at the knees...
/r/seduction07/10/15 07:25 AM
1

Oh yes. When it comes to getting to know women, it's ALL just imagined consequences. But when it comes to actually living in a relationship with someone, shit is real. Both feels real to the guy anyway though.
/r/seduction04/10/15 07:52 PM
0

I think it's a basic risk/reward calculation that our subconscious does for us, that "helps" us decide if we want to spend X amount of energy to possibly get Y result, with Z risk of fucking up. I don't think it's all about being lazy. It's about we have no risk in our lives. There is no reason to do anything "risky". We can be happy by just going to work, come home,eat our dinner, have a wank and play some games before returning to bed. The grind. It's comfortable. Why do we need to introduce a…
/r/seduction04/10/15 06:34 PM
0

Or ...walk in desert, find laguna. BAM water! Drink. It's obvious
/r/seduction04/10/15 05:25 PM
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Ill add to the list: use your everyday routine to better yourself. Lunch at work? Always sitting with your team? Why not join the sales people once? Be the first to say hello when you pass someone, at work f.ex. This is my biggest realization lately. Why wait to see if someone says hello to you before responding? Say hello first. Show character and resolve. 99/100 they will respond with a hello themselves. the others are dandruff. Ignore. Have fun .Always Only you can make yourself happy. Noone …
/r/seduction04/10/15 03:17 PM
7

That's like saying if you are thirsty you should drink some water. What if they don't have water? How do they get water? That is what most guys are wondering.
/r/seduction04/10/15 03:13 PM
3

She is not a teacher. Why would you think SHE will teach you how to seduce her? Non-PC comment: will a deer tell you how to shoot it right? The correct response to her rejection would be: "I totally agree! Let's not make this more awkward than it is. I'm going to go now. Thanks for your time."
/r/seduction04/10/15 02:41 PM
1

Just remember that to get to the mountain top, you have to make the first step. Don't berate yourself for not being at the mountain top when you haven't even got your boots on yet. It takes time. Just start walking.
/r/seduction04/10/15 02:36 PM
1

You need to gain confidence in some area other than girls, before you get confidence here. Preferably some area that girls actually care about. Gaming and weed aint the shit basically. Also: Life lesson. If you want to build confidence in something. Anything. You have to try and fail about 4 million times. And don't care if you fail one more time while doing it. Preferably something fun. Or else its hell. Good luck!
/r/seduction13/02/15 11:07 PM
1

Ok, Sir Wanksalot of the Vaginaguard
/r/seduction03/11/14 06:39 PM
1

If you want to fuck a girl, don't start the relationship by being her friend. Escalate as soon as possible so she knows what is up and can decide if she wants to or not right from the bat. If she turns you down, accept that and move on. You can be her friend after that if you want. But don't pursue her any more. Memorize the escalation ladder. It's probably the only thing that is true in most circumstances.
/r/seduction02/11/14 07:36 PM
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It's like when my brother asked a hobo in Tokyo why all the japanese people treat them so different. "You are like fucking Mickey Mouse to them..."
/r/seduction17/10/14 07:28 PM
15

He did get a second date with the girl he didnt sleep with but it went no where. Who saw that coming?
/r/seduction04/10/14 11:22 AM
1

This probably seems obvious to a lot of people but I've been neglecting other parts of seduction and focusing strictly on personality. I need to start focusing on being dominant and more sexual. How are those points NOT personality?
/r/seduction30/09/14 06:46 PM
1

relax, and wait it out? You seem way tense if you want to be relaxed in social situations. But if you REALLY want to do something social, call girls up and chat with them. No girls? Sign up on Tinder (etc) and try to get some phone numbers.
/r/seduction21/09/14 02:58 PM
7

What about... "Hello, I couldn't help but notice that you are in the possession of vagina? Would that be ..."open for business", if you will?" ... Wink and make "quote signs" with your fingers as you say "open for business" here. That's important. Don't not remember that. Make a few quick remarks on the furniture, and that you once met a dwarf, or "small person". (quote signs again here). She will be pulling her phone out at this point. The 2 guys will be shaking your hands, or at least applaudi…
/r/seduction16/09/14 09:44 PM
1

Then there is an AWFUL lot of teens looking after sugardaddies around here...
/r/seduction30/08/14 05:37 AM
11

Their range sets up what they see. Your range sets up what you see. Your range doesn't affect what they see, basically... wtf...am I rhyming here?
/r/seduction29/08/14 09:38 PM
26

Just always refer to yourself in 3rd person. No way she'll forget then.
/r/seduction24/08/14 04:12 PM
2

I think it was introduced in the "Models" book. Probably the best read on PUA you will ever find. It changed my mindset totally.
/r/seduction21/08/14 09:07 AM
7

Just make sure you mention that you are not going to rape her. Chicks love security.
/r/seduction01/08/14 05:40 PM
5

Friend of mine joined a dating site once. No picture. Messaged a couple of girls. One invited him home to her. (Again..he had no picture.) Drove to her house, banged, left. They hooked up around 5 times after that... If you are worried, just meet at a public location and book a hotel room...
/r/seduction27/07/14 07:05 PM
14

You can play it safe by gliding your hand from her ass to her lower back, The other way around...surely
/r/seduction26/07/14 07:43 AM
2

Really? Why?
/r/seduction12/07/14 04:51 PM
2

I'm not really that interested in a relationship at the moment. I have several women I can give a call if I wanted to sleep with them. But I rarely do. I'm 35 and sex isn't that interesting anymore really. I'd rather just exercise, read and chill. I DO have sex of course. I just don't make that much effort for it anymore. I haven't met a girl I'm really into yet. So I rarely date. Have little trouble asking anyone out though. I have extreme confidence in social situations lately, and am thinking…
/r/seduction25/06/14 07:03 PM
3

Another point: Why would you date a girl you're not sure you'll have a good time with? because you are only looking for the sex with the womans... It might seem fun at first, but it will hit you in the ass when you least expect it.
/r/seduction24/06/14 04:55 PM
2

You should read it. I did it in 2-3 days. It takes the whole concept of women and relationships and turns it upside down. At least for me. And it feels right. That's the best thing about it.
/r/seduction24/06/14 01:44 PM
2

Depends on what you mean by "has it worked"...and...I don't "use" any of the stuff. I don't know what that means to be honest. What stuff are you thinking of? In my mind it has helped me, anyway. I have stopped chasing, or at least slowed down, my hunt for the "hottie". Realising she's most likely not what I am looking for. Before I was obsessed by it. To the degree I stalked random girls on facebook and plotting ways on how to meet them "randomly" etc. This is something I wanted. I hated my old…
/r/seduction24/06/14 06:44 AM
1

What do you think about the studies that say that around 15% of women have cheated in their lives? (around 20% for men). http://hellobeautiful.com/2013/09/27/study-shows-women-cheat-more-than-men/ Couldn't find the original source but...lol. It's serious research.
/r/seduction23/06/14 08:09 PM
2

You didn't answer my question: You assume all women cheat? Or could potentially cheat? And I'll add: Do you think all of those times you were shot down, you could have turned it around? All of them?
/r/seduction23/06/14 07:47 PM
2

You assume all women cheat? Or could potentially cheat? Have you never been shot down with: "I have a boyfriend/husband"? And moved on to the next target? Or you think she would cheat if you just pushed hard enough? Just as a side note: I have severe trust issues myself. Got cheated on by my gf (lived together for 8 years, have a kid with her). And just recently a girl I met at a party practically threw herself at me. Saying she just split up with her bf and whatnot... o...k. Banging ensued. I t…
/r/seduction23/06/14 06:52 PM
1

No...that's my dream girl. I was asking for yours... kidding aside: You don't meet women at some of your "interests"?
/r/seduction23/06/14 06:36 PM
2

Not sure here. Because you say you have trust issue, but now you are saying you get bored easily... Quick: What's your dream girl?
/r/seduction23/06/14 06:22 PM
7

RSD behaves like douchebags and borderline psychopaths imho. The Game is like geeky attempts to "cheat" their way ahead in a community they've been on the lowest rung of all their lives. And in doing so learns something. I read Models and it blew my mind. Everyone should read models. It's the godamn truth.
/r/seduction23/06/14 06:19 PM
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Just because some women will cheat when married/engaged/whatever doesn't mean all will do. I don't know about statistics, but most don't cheat. Stop going to clubs (and similar) and dating sites. Those women are only after attention. And they will crave this even after you start dating them. Stop going after women that are taken. Why? Because either they don't want you or they do. And you don't wan that. They cheat. Simple. Go to places where women hang out to do stuff they like to do. Yoga, hik…
/r/seduction23/06/14 06:08 PM
4

Cookies...everyone thinks cookies are interesting.
/r/seduction03/06/14 09:17 PM
8

You find someone else to talk to. Preferably someone interesting.
/r/seduction03/06/14 08:36 PM
0

The one were he is sliding his fingers up your bumhole
/r/seduction28/05/14 05:17 AM
1

practice I suppose
/r/seduction27/05/14 10:59 PM
2

um... So: You have to define what type of model you are talking about... Lots of "ugly" people are models. Obviously. But you might be talking about fashion models? Scratch that: http://fusion.net/modern_life/story/modeling-agency-ugly-beautiful-311722
/r/seduction27/05/14 09:06 PM
12

exactly...
/r/seduction27/05/14 07:53 PM
25

anyone can look good in a photo. Proof: http://spartanholiday.files.wordpress.com/2013/11/magnusaatboard.jpg http://upload.wikimedia.org/wikipedia/en/archive/0/04/20131124085251!Magnus_Carlsen_cropped.jpg Same guy. Point is: If you want to do well on social networks. Go to a proffesional photographer. Tell him what you want: pictures for social networks and work (if you are in to that kind of thing). Make sure they don't look like you are modelling...although that could work too. You need to che…
/r/seduction27/05/14 05:48 PM
2

Did you not do any other exercise? Like bench and pullups? Also... Form is important. Many people dont get their glutes and hamstrings in on the action and get uneven lifts... Giving massive thighs.
/r/seduction12/05/14 10:53 AM
0

Yeh. Do that enough and the fear is gone. It doesn't matter "how" you got there, as long as it worked...does it?
/r/seduction11/05/14 04:38 PM
4

Conquering fears and overcoming obstacles is a massive part of game. Get out of the couch and do some actual pickup before giving advice please!
/r/seduction11/05/14 08:27 AM
4

You have some sort of condition...?
/r/seduction11/05/14 04:37 AM
34

12: Do squats. 3 times a week for at least a year whilst you eat at a caloric surplus. The muscle you build will stay with you forever in many ways.
/r/seduction10/05/14 05:29 PM
3

hehe...I love that analogy
/r/MensRights09/05/14 07:30 PM
4

Looking at your comment history I have a feeling this won't be a very fruitful discussion.
/r/MensRights09/05/14 07:29 PM
3

Yes sadly... And there are at least 4 people in that committee that I must say I have the utmost respect for. 3 are now, or have been, party leaders. And have been more than sensible as long as I have followed them. This is what scares me the most. Have they just overlooked this? Oh... and I don't think any country should talk too loud about this. There are insane laws pushed through almost everywhere all the time. And a lot of the time it's not due to malice, but rather negligence when ratifyin…
/r/MensRights09/05/14 07:23 PM
5

and that is the exact issue with groups like these. It will never end. They will ALWAYS find something that "support their case". And women's rights groups refuse to compare their issues with others. Like if you bring up conscription or suicide rates to them, they just throw out: "We're not talking about MEN'S issues! We are talking about WOMEN'S!" The tragedy of it all is that it's impossible to compare 2 issues like that. What's worse? Not having access to own children or being raped? So this …
/r/MensRights09/05/14 07:17 PM
8

I agree. I edited the post with more info. Apparently positive discrimination is the way to go. Also. I would like to help in any way to get this picked up by the news. Any idea on how to do that?
/r/MensRights09/05/14 07:09 PM
5

I agree. I edited the post with more info. Apparently positive discrimination is the way to go.
/r/MensRights09/05/14 07:09 PM
3

No. That is wrong. There are 2 alternatives to the text. 1 where they use "old language" and one where they use new language (both bokmål and nynorsk). The parapgraph is completely new.
/r/MensRights09/05/14 06:52 PM
7

are you serious?
/r/MensRights09/05/14 06:46 PM
4

Besides what /u/BlueIsStylinOnYou and /u/ProfessionalNiceGuy said I wanted to add something. I actually just realised this myself the other day, and was planning a longer post on it. So...I guess is the pre-view. Don't feel ashamed Have you ever looked at a hot girl from across the room and quickly looked away when she noticed? Even looked down, and hoped she didn't notice? Maybe avoided eye contact after that until you could leave? Why is that you think? Is looking at someone a bad thing? Does …
/r/seduction26/04/14 11:44 PM
1

Doesn't mean a thing. Other than: She doesn't hate you. Get to know her in person.
/r/seduction26/04/14 05:18 PM
17

Welo done killing your AA. Just wanted to point out that when approaching groups you need to game them all. You were cockblocked by their friends because you kept ignoring them. Include them in conversations, dance with them too etc.
/r/seduction30/03/14 08:38 AM
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retarded eh? .... giggity
/r/seduction09/03/14 02:38 PM
2

No. I forgot to add "that the target isnt aware of."
/r/seduction08/03/14 09:38 PM
1

I wasnt' the "travel guide" but I could look it up I think
/r/seduction08/03/14 09:12 PM
1

yes
/r/seduction08/03/14 09:12 PM
1

I was with 3 other guys. 1 that's people love instantly. He's just that nice guy that people want around them. Not a PUA by a long shot though. Total AFC. Another guy, a natural that has lost total interest in sex and relationships. Usually doesn't mingle much. But has an insane charisma that people get drawn too. We lived a cheap but very nice hotel...Metro or something.. I, think, I'm more of the guy that gets things done if nothing is happening. If I feel nothing is happening I try to make it…
/r/seduction08/03/14 09:00 PM
2

heh...funny. I was is oslo and hooked up with a crazy brazillian about a month ago. No FR needed: It was simply. Being pulled along by my scarf until I was in her bed. I thinky you maybe have to hang out in the right crowd. The techno scene, for example. It's pretty big there. Drugs are there, too... I war probably invited since I was foreign I guess. Youre from England I'm guessing.
/r/seduction08/03/14 08:50 PM
1

Oh :) been to Glasgow once. Amazing place. So friendly people. Was there a weekend, and ended up on 3 afterparties. They just invite any random stranger apparently. It's ...amazing From Norway, myself.
/r/seduction08/03/14 08:42 PM
1

Hehe. Thanks :) We should hang out and all that. From your writing, I gather you're british?
/r/seduction08/03/14 08:34 PM
6

I'm still responding to both our threads for some reason. I blame various psychoactive substances. Alcohol mainly
/r/seduction08/03/14 08:17 PM
4

It's pretty hard to give any more tips, also. You are clearly being driven by emotion by this girl. You are responding emotionally to her signals. This is a big no-no. Especially when you are going for the FWB route. You know this: If you are going the FWB route, YOU are responsible for your feelings. And she will try to make you responsible for her feelings too (that how girls work). So you responding to her signals the way you do, with emotion, makes her uncertain. Again: Decide what you want.…
/r/seduction08/03/14 08:13 PM
6

yep we do. Just don't wait for her to decide what happens. Decide for yourself. Set the stage. First: She wants you to. Second, you'll avoid the emotional rollercoaster that comes from reading signs and shit.
/r/seduction08/03/14 08:09 PM
2

If you just want her to a fwb, you can't wait for her to make up her mind. You tell her that. And you have to be clear on: "IF you meet someone else, that you want to go further with. You tell me. And then we are done." <--- that is what a fwb is. Simple, no?
/r/seduction08/03/14 08:01 PM
7

My guess is that she is experiencing emotions, too. Like you. I WOULD think there is another guy in the picture, too. But since you prowled her phone and found nothing...well. Yeh.
/r/seduction08/03/14 07:47 PM
15

You care, obviously. Don't deny that. It'll only hit you in the face later, when you least expect it. You weren't curious. You were trying to find out if she bangs anyone else, because you were jealous. Now: She is gaming you. She is winning. The second you bring up any serious emotion with this girl, it'll be like an ultimatum. Either she bolts, or she succumbs to your ferocious charm. It's a fucking mindfield, though. And since she can sense your weakness, I think the former is the most likely…
/r/seduction08/03/14 07:40 PM
2

any and all PUAs do this. Manipulation isn't necessarily a bad thing. If you smile to someone (on purpose) when greeting them, it's effectively manipulating them. It's basically doing something to elicit a certain response from someone.
/r/seduction08/03/14 07:34 PM
19

We're having 2 conversations about the same in this thread ^ I think it's about control (as I mentioned). For a girl it's often about getting the guy emotionally involved that's the game. Not the banging. She isn't ready to settle down, so plays the game. She is considering several guys at this point, and will be outgamed in the end .She'll go for that guy. Since you are long-distance, I think she is using you for "practice". It's safe, because any fuck-up will have close to no blow-back. It's i…
/r/seduction08/03/14 07:26 PM
17

To see if she still "controls" you. A guy is perfectly happy to move on after a fuck. A girl needs that validation WAY after the fuck also. Well. Generally speaking. You do realise she is doing this to several guys right?
/r/seduction08/03/14 07:21 PM
8

well, there you go.
/r/seduction08/03/14 07:12 PM
64

I'll chime in with some "wisdom". I am sure this girl is between 20-25. Somewhat attractive. She is just realising her potential in the market and tests it out. Women love these games from a young age, and when they experience success with them, they grow fonder. It's fairly dangerous to get emotionally involved with this type of girl at this point. But you seem to enjoy the ride, so good one ya. More vulnerable guys, maybe from a recent breakup can be severly fucked up if they bite.
/r/seduction08/03/14 07:05 PM
10

Well. Manipulation is exactly what a PUA does. So...why do you do it?
/r/seduction08/03/14 07:03 PM
3

Just realise the journey doesnt end there. Anything can happen. Passion fades etc. Just know that there is life after a failed relationship too, and the less you depend on her to be happy and feel safe, the more youll enjoy the relationship, the longer it lasts and the quicker youll bounce back from a failed one.
/r/seduction06/03/14 06:20 PM
1

Ok great! Your initial post didn't come across this way to me. And about the "ideal" girl. You'll be sorely disappointed. But I'll let you have that dream for now. Maybe you'll be wiser some day. Good luck!
/r/seduction06/03/14 05:21 PM
2

Yes...they come to this subreddit because they are struggling with women. A massive part of that struggling is because they think that there some end game here. Some zero-sum game where either you make it (get married to an HB10 and have kids and live happily ever after) or don't (stay single and unloved). Your post builds upon that myth. You are promising them this prize, only if they work at it hard enough. Sadly it's all bullshit. There is no zero sum game. No end-of-the-rainbow-relationship.…
/r/seduction06/03/14 04:55 PM
32

This is the wrong attitude. Your attitude should be: I'm am happy with or without a woman. A woman can not make me happy. Only I can.
/r/seduction06/03/14 11:11 AM
13

and also lick your lips while blinking furiously. they love that
/r/seduction06/03/14 10:29 AM
1

I think its a nice idea. Good luck!
/r/seduction05/03/14 10:47 PM
0

He's already has good response when announcing it. Fine dude. We're not getting anywhere with this. Im out
/r/seduction05/03/14 09:12 PM
1

Oh, So you are not advising him to avoid talking about it in public?
/r/seduction05/03/14 08:55 PM
2

Are you assuming I haven't? No? But you are assuming I have an issue with this subject. So I had to show I don't. Who says preaching? Approach the subject in a respectful and inquisitive manner. I honestly don't see the problem with this. You are basically saying this subject doesn't stand up to scrutiny.
/r/seduction05/03/14 08:47 PM
0

Again, we don't need to convert anyone. People have to SEEK help. Seeking help. Hear about a communtiy that just does that, but is a bunch of creeps and should be avoided. Guy avoids it. Yeh. I don't see why we wouldn't want that. Fuck off with your assumptions that I need validation, man. I've used the topic PUA when picking up girls with great success. I have noe qualms about it. Most girls are receptive to it, IF you present it right. And that's my fucking point. People here seemingly have GR…
/r/seduction05/03/14 08:09 PM
-2

the fuck calling me naive. And who said anything about logic? It's about giving a face to the PUA community. If he does it right, of course it's going to be a good thing. "Jeff does PUAing? Wow. He's a terrific guy. Maybe this PUA thing isnt so bad after all." jeez.
/r/seduction05/03/14 07:46 PM
0

Exactly. Talking about it publicly, showing you are not a creep is the only way to turn this.
/r/seduction05/03/14 07:29 PM
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I meant: how are we going to turn the extremely negative view on our society. This negative view turns a lot of people away that could be helped if they were told the truth about all this. Ultimately we want our genders to move closer to a better understanding of each other. PUAing is a way to this goal. But if we ourselves set up these roadblocks and avoid talking about it in public, people will assume it's because we're embarrased or ashamed of what we are doing. If you disagree: how is this p…
/r/seduction05/03/14 07:10 PM
2

Lol wtf are you on??? Hahahaha
/r/seduction05/03/14 06:39 PM
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Wow? What the fuck is wrong with you guys? "Dont do it!!! It will trainwreck!!! Omg!!" You are fucking idiots!!! I am sorry to say. How the fuck do you think this community will get ANY recognition when we OURSELVES are avoiding talking about it in public? My only guess is that this subreddit has lost all its experienced PUAs and we only got the armchair experts left. Fucking hell. OP: this a good choice of subject. It is something you are interested in. On a level above getting laid. You are an…
/r/seduction05/03/14 06:37 PM
1

This is important info. Too bad no tapes of the start. Would be great to compare
/r/seduction04/03/14 06:54 PM
3

I think it just shows that girls love being picked up in daytime. He didn't do anything special, and that's the whole point I guess. Just avoid creepy and thats it.
/r/seduction17/02/14 09:56 PM
10

Right. 8 years living together, have a kid together. Shitty last few years, but she cheats on me, I leave, and then she spends 2 years trying to get me back. It was fucking rough. I can tell you. What worked? Ok. I couldn't cut contact (do that if you can). So I had to figure out ways to remove the pain. Remove the "why's". Remove the "will she change?" etc. What works: DON'T TRY TO FIGURE HER OUT. Whatever she did, or whatever she said or whatever. Don't try to make sense of it. She won' EVER g…
/r/seduction25/01/14 06:46 PM
4

You probably went to hard on the kino without having built enough comfort first.
/r/seduction25/01/14 03:54 PM
0

Don't. I don't think I've ever turned any convo sexual before sex. Have had enough one nights stands to know it's not necessary. If youare not comfortable with it, just don't do it. Just light kino, isolate, escalate kino and get your hand down in those panties at some point.
/r/seduction19/01/14 10:59 AM
-1

Bit confused about the post... Are they FWB that turn around and want a releationship, or have you just met them and haven't had sex yet? If they ARE fwb's: Never text/contact/invite/chat/call her unless it's for sex When she comes over initiate sex as soon as possible (avoid movies, dinner, talking about deep stuff) NEVER meet her friends. NEVER. After sex, cuddle as little as possible. And leave the same night. No sleepovers and morning sex...sorry. These are on the extreme end. You can do som…
/r/seduction09/01/14 08:12 PM
33

Most of your examples of "cocky-funny" are pure negs, imho. Style -“I like that shirt…did your seeing eye dog pick that out?” Fitness, size -Now be very careful with this one because these could earn you a slap in the face. It’s better if you use these on girls with high self-esteems. Low risk example for a short girl: "Those are some pretty tall shoes. You must be like what, 4 foot 7 without them?" Age -“What are you 12?” “Cute, you act just like my little sister.” Cleanliness -“I like your hai…
/r/seduction06/01/14 08:54 AM
1

so they want to see the real me by putting on an act themselves. GF thinks thats retarded. No. They want to see if the real you can handle himself in awkward situations. Its not random because they make the choice. I was asking you: WHAT should they make the choice on? Say they get 15 approaches during a night? Chit-chat politely to all of them, and never challenge any of them? Shit testing effectivelt weeds out the inexperienced, and lets her engage with more experienced guys pretty fast. Is th…
/r/seduction05/01/14 10:21 PM
2

Cute girls get a fuck-ton of invites to go out every time they are out. They need a way to quickly filter out the duds, and many use that tactic where they try to cut through your ... act, and see the "real" you. As in : "how does he react to something unexpected?". If you play it cool, that is a "pass" in their books. If they chode out, act aggressive etc, that's a "fail". I wonder what you suggest these pretty women should do? Just randomly say yes to one of her approaches that night? ...weird…
/r/seduction05/01/14 04:29 PM
33

ITT: Typical negative response to a woman's PUA tips. The tips where pretty decent. Nothing ground-breaking, but I haven't seen anything ground breakng here for 2 years, so what's the problem? She seems pretty adept. I wonder if she has any new stuff to try out.
/r/seduction03/01/14 11:18 PM
11

Key points in my mind: Always assume there is a chance You gave her an innoncent smile and a wave even when she was walking around with another dude. Nice. You let the AFC show his weakness to the group on his own. Reducing the chance of a confrontation with him. Moving over to the girl at the moment this guy gets focus. AWESOME TIMING! These things don't come on their own. It requires experience, or luck. ...just great. This is a key moment. Well played. I think is the part that reveals your sk…
/r/seduction03/01/14 11:04 PM
1

All the material a PUA bootcamp will give you is readily available on the internet and in books. A bootcamp can probably kickstart your "career", but it's all down to you in the end and once the bootcamp is over you are all alone again. And have to do it all alone again. If you have a shitload of money...why not. You don't? Spend time reading a book or 2. Get the basics down. But: Your social anxiety needs work. I assume you have a job where you have to interact with people? Well: Interact with …
/r/seduction03/01/14 05:10 PM
1

Do a venue change from dinner to drinks. (HAVE THIS PLANNED BEFOREHAND!) "Hey. There's a bar across the street. Wanna go for a drink?" At the bar you should position yourself next to her. Barstools facing the window is nice and easy. A cubicle can be tricky as it might look weird if you sit on her side etc. Point here is that you need to initiate kino. Read up on kino. Short guide: short light touches to hands, shoulders to start with. Progress to longer touches and hugs. And then to holding han…
/r/seduction03/01/14 04:52 PM
3

It's all downhill from there? Don't think you are using that expression, right. Or it was intentionally funny. Which it was.
/r/seduction03/01/14 04:46 PM
1

I'm pretty aggressive, I'll approach mixed sets, initiate a frame and quickly belittle anyone who isn't on board. I get rejected a lot, insulted, and threatened often by white knights. Idk, I've won every fight I've ever fought (ok, a few exceptions here). This doesn't give that impression.
/r/seduction02/01/14 10:23 PM
1

There is a distinct difference between the rave/edm scene and the normal dance clubs. In the rave/edm scene you really don't "dance with the girl". You dance next to them, smile, have a chat etc. In the normal dance clubs, you are expected to approach and "dance with them". At least in my experience.
/r/seduction02/01/14 12:28 PM
2

Protip: Add an /s to the end of sarcastic posts.
/r/seduction02/01/14 10:38 AM
1

Well. I don't see how bellittling others protects me. On the contrary. It makes possible enemies which will attack me. Escalating to violence is a very good indicator lack of confidence. Avoiding or backing out of a fight shows "weakness" and with a low confidence showing such weakness is "dangerous". I have personally never met a guy that I know was violent (as in: "first to throw a punch") wihtout him having severe lack of confidence. They often act with HUGE bravado, and are loud and obnoxiou…
/r/seduction02/01/14 01:10 AM
2

I believe both of these are most often results of lack of confidence. Could be lack of empathy too, but that is less common in my experience.
/r/seduction01/01/14 01:04 PM
9

Belitteling anyone that doesnt play to your tune shows a severe lack of confidence... Your whole post reeks of it actually.
/r/seduction01/01/14 11:41 AM
4

In smaller clubs I just go to the dance floor and have fun by myself. Up close to the dj and high five him and shit. The DJs usually love it. And you won't believe how many girl groups come up to me when I'm by myself out there. They also invite me over to their table a lot of times, too. And well. Then you're in, right? It's FUCKING important that you don't do what other single idiot chodes do out there. That is; stand almost completely still and eyeball every piece off ass out there. You have …
/r/seduction18/12/13 08:06 PM
1

Have a vague plan for the date. But don't tell her about the plan... This plan should end with her legs up in the air...obviously. Again. You don't tell her about this plan of course. Like..."Hey. Let's go for a drink, then we can take walk along the pier,...and after we are bored of that we can go to my place and listen to Michael Jackson whilst fucking! Are you in?" Haha...that won't work. Why? Because you mention you want to fuck her? No. Because there is zero excitement. There is no adventur…
/r/seduction18/12/13 04:51 PM
1

girls don't often do that. They make themselves available. Some toy with it just for attention too. So... You're a friend now. Only way to break the cycle is if you take action. Asking her out will set the record straight. If she says no. Then fuck it. A million more fish in the sea and so on. If yes. Well. Remember condoms. Google Oneitis. You have it.
/r/seduction13/12/13 04:58 PM
1

ask her out ffs.
/r/seduction13/12/13 04:42 PM
1

Right.no alcohol..just have a plan to change venues. Take her on an adventure. Lead. Show her the world. It can be anything. Go for it dude
/r/seduction13/12/13 05:34 AM
1

I'm not trying to burst your bubble here, but I thnk she's gonna flake on this one... I commend you on your balls for going for it. DO THIS! Continue doing it. Because it's what works. Problem here is that you haven't built up any "tension". You are playing the nice guy, sort of. Unless you have done this before this encounter, she is either going to flake, or go grab a coffee with you and friend zone you quickly. So move quickly. Be confident. Have a plan for what happens AFTER coffee. MAybe yo…
/r/seduction12/12/13 09:40 PM
3

didn't u go to class? http://physicsgeek.mu.nu/archives/redneck%20sex%20ed%20class.jpg
/r/seduction26/11/13 08:14 PM
6

ok. Just want to add to that terrific list: Don't play several guys at once. We notice and will put our effort in somewhere else if we think you just want the attention. TONS of girls play like that in clubs, and end up sitting alone missing out a ton of opportunities... Guys do to actually.
/r/seduction25/11/13 07:14 PM
1

35 isn't forties!!! :D I lift...testoserone might be the problem though... I dunno. It's a radical change from just a few months ago. From "always" on the hunt, to ignoring hot-attention-seekers on the dancefloor...
/r/seduction17/11/13 04:39 AM
1

:) Good comment I agree it's not necessarily a bad thing. I'm slightly worried I'll pass on something great due to my "don't give a fuckidness", though. The lack of need for validation is awesome. Actually. I actually HAVE feelings for this girl these days. And I'm am going to go for that one soon. I hope I don'tloose interest as quickly as with the other on that one. bro-five
/r/seduction16/11/13 07:53 PM
5

I stare them down like I'm in a boxing match. I don't recommend it.
/r/seduction16/11/13 07:04 PM
5

or...you know. Just make jokes. Kick the shit. It's not like it's a job interview.
/r/seduction16/11/13 07:00 PM
1

To avoid the temptation of participating in the like-caroucelle.
/r/seduction12/11/13 04:31 PM
5

Don't post anything, ever. Turn off all notifications from all non-close friends Remove all non-close friends from your chat window Hide ALL photos, and likes and whatever you can to make your profile as uninteresting as possible. Deny every attempt at tagging you in pictures.
/r/seduction11/11/13 08:50 PM
1

Distract them while you steal their dignity...then you direct them towards the gents.
/r/seduction09/11/13 02:34 PM
17

you have already gotten to the point where you are playing games with the girl. Turning things sexual is sort of ... well, given. Well done, though. Text game problems is usually when guys want to initiate contact. Waaaaay before you have gotten her to play games with you.
/r/seduction03/11/13 04:29 PM
1

What have you done when trying to isolate? It should be as simple as inviting her for a walk. Or movie night at your place.
/r/seduction02/11/13 08:00 AM
1

well...you are kinoing? So I assume you have got her somewhere alone, and "safe"? you escalate the kino to breasts and then...well you know...teehee... then, if she is enjoying herself, you open her the button on her pants and put your hand down there...rub...escalte etc...wtf. Spoonfeeding here I guess... lol
/r/seduction01/11/13 10:33 PM
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This should be top post on this sub, imho
/r/seduction01/11/13 08:31 AM
8

8 years with a kid. Not easy. But its the "only" way.
/r/seduction26/10/13 08:49 PM
1

yup
/r/seduction26/10/13 07:14 PM
1

don''t expect the "falling madly in love" with anyone once you're passed thirty. Most people that age have ran the circuit at least once, and are hesitant to show real emotion for a loooong time into your ...relationship. unless they are on ecstacy.
/r/seduction26/10/13 05:27 PM
2

don't expect a verbal: "yes lets fuck". You need to escalate by isolating her, "lets go to my place to watch a movie", and kino (= start by touching lower arm when you make a point in the conversation, laugh and touch her shoulder when she says something funny, hug her if she does/says something goofy..." once isolated you can put your arm around her etc (<--- KINO FIRST!) again: DONT expect a verbal "YES" before you put it in her. IT's all in the body language... also: silence isn't bad. Breaki…
/r/seduction26/10/13 05:22 PM
3

I'm confused: You want advice on how to avoid getting "clingy" or how to handle the rejection? Only way to avoid oneitis is to date other girls. If you don't want to do that, I suggest you avoid contact with her as much as possible, and spend time doing stuff that makes you less focused on her. Training hard f.ex. Work...whatever keeps your mind off her.
/r/seduction28/09/13 03:55 PM
8

IS it really WORTH IT?
/r/seduction28/09/13 03:53 PM
1

I most places he is not under age.
/r/seduction28/09/13 03:31 PM
3

some people find comfort in wallowing in their own self-hate. I guess it gives a form of control. I have had many pointless discussions about this when trying to convince people they can drag themselves out of whatever mess they are in by actually believing they CAN do it.
/r/seduction28/09/13 02:53 PM
8

teach me your ways! I love the petite girls...
/r/seduction22/09/13 04:53 PM
7

Well fuck it. I'll go out sober one day, then! Why the hell not?
/r/seduction22/09/13 04:36 PM
1

nice shining armor you got... Besides, the context of this post is the ability to talk to someone new and not be intimidated. In the fucking seduction subreddit...what do you think the purpose of this would be? Ask for fucking directions to disney land? jesus fuck...either you are...or... Ah fuck it.
/r/seduction20/09/13 09:41 PM
1

aside from the sub this is in? That's the whole context! wow.
/r/seduction20/09/13 09:24 PM
0

yeh...just ignore the entire context of the post and make a comment completely out of context and at the same time setting up a strawman...and THEN tell me I should realise it's out of context? great dude.
/r/seduction20/09/13 08:51 PM
0

let me rephrase that from "bone her" to "pick her up"... now better?
/r/seduction20/09/13 08:25 PM
1

The game is basically a numbers game, though. You rack up your approach attempts until you are comfortable with it. After a while you are good at it. Simple All the fucking PUA shit sites out there could say just that: APPROACH AND LEARN. Done.
/r/seduction20/09/13 07:41 PM
2

lets be fucking real here. If a guy comes over, that she is NOT physically attracted too, and it's OBVIOUS he wants to bone her... is it HER responsiblity to not damage his ego? No. Just NO. Her saying: No thanks, at an early point will actually hurt him way less than if she acts like she is interested.
/r/seduction20/09/13 07:38 PM
1

challenge accepted!
/r/seduction20/09/13 07:32 PM
1

All I hear is: "I will never EVER do that...again"... If a girl says she won't fuck you that night, be sure to have some rubber ready.
/r/seduction20/09/13 07:32 PM
0

yeh...what button do one push to fix that again?? jeeez
/r/seduction20/09/13 07:27 PM
3

I'd be sleeping and she would wake me up and nag at me @ 2am because she can't sleep because of her own personal past problems. I can beat that. My ex woke me up repeatedly at any time. Because it was "annoying" that I slept. She also cheated on me, told me she was pregnant after I broke up with her (she wasn't), begged for me to come back whilst STILL seeing the guy she cheated on me with... Yeh. I am fucking bitter. 8 years tossed away at that ... turd of a person.
/r/seduction20/09/13 07:22 PM
2

At a party: Who are you here with? Follow up with, where do you know them from, etc... At a concert: what's your favorite album...etc. just get some clues about the person, and quickly move from questions to story mode. I.e. You tell her about yourself or a funny story related to whatever she just revealed to you. "Oh. I love that album. Me and my mates listened to it all the time when we went to Hawaii! Wow...just thinking about that reminds me of that fruit they always served with breakfast...…
/r/seduction14/09/13 03:47 PM
5

only in laboratory settings
/r/seduction11/09/13 05:54 PM
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Cocky funny is good. But you examples are mostly where the girl is initiating it. It would be better if you could supply examples where the PUA is driving the conversation AND being cocky funny. I think that is the situation most guys find themselves in.
/r/seduction31/08/13 09:12 AM
1

Wait... Are you trying to escalate in a public place? What do you mean by "isolate" exactly? I read it as getting her in a corner of the club or whatever... ANYWAY: You want to isolate to a secluded area, or 90% or women will stop your escalation. They don't want to be observed being fingered. So. Given that, you have isolated her to a secluded area (as in a bedroom): After kissing, start touching (stroke with flat palms...like you do a cat...) her body. Sides of body, stomach, tits, move down t…
/r/seduction25/08/13 07:22 PM
1

In OPs story he doesn't even get a #-close. You need to demonstrate your intent, ie sexual intent, if you want to hook up later. Just "hanging out" gives her the "be friends" exit, which is fastlane to friend zone. You dont have to go for sex the first date/meeting, but you have to show her that you intend to have sex with her sometime in the future. OP did nothing of the sort, except light kino which he abrubtly stopped once they arrived at his house or wherever they went.
/r/seduction25/08/13 10:17 AM
1

Top 2 commenters got it right. I just have a few questions, though: Why did you bring her back to a place crowded with your friends? If not intentional, why not suggest you go elsewhere, like to your bedroom? She went with YOU! Not you friends. Why the heck would you hang out with them once you isolated her?... I just ....wat?
/r/seduction24/08/13 09:35 PM
1

Where in OPs post does it say that he didn't want sex?
/r/seduction24/08/13 09:32 PM
1

me too buddy. But's it's enough for everyone! Share the love!
/r/seduction17/08/13 07:57 PM
12

You don't ask people at rave's to dance per se. Like...together. In raves you dance "alone" towards the dj. Float in your own world, sort of. You can of course ask someone sitting down if they want to hit the dancefloor. But don't excpect "face to face" interaction. Everyone faces the dj. But, use body language, looks, bump into them lightly. Get their attention. They will hover around if interested. Dunno about grinding. NEver seen anyone grind at a rave, but this might be because cultural diff…
/r/seduction17/08/13 07:44 PM
1

where is she anyway?
/r/seduction17/08/13 07:42 PM
1

I don't get how it's not sexual before the date...
/r/seduction17/08/13 03:24 PM
0

Interestingly, there were no questions on how many sexual partners they were having at the same time...What would they respond in a group setting, with slut shaming in mind? I think the group interview thing is a problem here too. We know women are WAY more sensitive to group pressure and adherence. Being the one with 10 guys hitting on her a day would be alpha-female material.
/r/seduction16/08/13 08:54 PM
3

Don't ever interview people in groups. The truth won't come out. Anyway. Interesting read. And I am super thrilled on your success /u/TofuTofu. I mean. I've folllowed you arond here for the 2 years I've been here, and many of the stories have seemed WAY over the top and I've went: "ya...k, dude." Seeing that they are probably all true just removes even more of the doubt that's lingering in the back of my mind when going out there. Anythng is possible. Just do it. Good luck man!
/r/seduction16/08/13 08:52 PM
6

Great play! A lot of guys here in this thread goes: "WELL YEAH! BUT SHE WANTED IT FROM THE SECOND SHE SAW You!!! SO ...THERE'S THAT!" Forgetting to actually pick-up on the parts that ARE interesting. How many times have you caught a girl looking at you? How many times have girls "accidently" bumped their tits against you at a bar? How many times have you done nothing? Or choked? Or made up a reason she's not interested in you? Things to pick up from this FR: Social proof is fucking golden. Get i…
/r/seduction14/08/13 07:38 PM
276

ITT: OP: "I need help" Seddit: "here is help" OP: "no. that won't work, because random excuse" sigh
/r/seduction13/08/13 07:50 PM
36

fuck...missed them. Now I'm curious! :D
/r/seduction09/08/13 09:30 PM
4

Don't you know the HB scale is relative?
/r/seduction09/08/13 09:28 PM
32

Yes, and: Lightly touches you whenever you say something funny, or to get your attention. She looks at you when you are not looking (stares) Copies your posture Opens up her posture to you (arms to the side, and not closed in front) Does not move away when your bodies accidently touches Grabs your dick and says: lets fuck Not sure about the last one
/r/seduction08/08/13 09:34 AM
1

Yes, and you are right. Or...Yes, and I agree. (<-- much better)
/r/seduction06/08/13 09:52 PM
1

Totally, so true...yeah! But seriously. Not disagreeing is good, but still adds doubt in my opinion. Maybe a mix of "yes, and" (this is going to be a term here from now on... can feel it :"just 'yes,and' her and isolate") and not disagreeing?
/r/seduction06/08/13 09:51 PM
1

Probably took some time to get there and get everything into water and such. Without knowing any details I accurately calculate the time they actually spent in the water to....15 minutes. No. 16.
/r/seduction06/08/13 09:48 PM
3

Yes, and well...I thought this would be applicable to any social situation, no? But, of course...it was just a joke.
/r/seduction06/08/13 09:46 PM
2

Yes, and I guess these could work: totally oh yeah so true
/r/seduction06/08/13 04:31 PM
23

What time is it? yes, and it's four.
/r/seduction06/08/13 03:37 PM
3

Sure and OK is not the same as yes. It adds doubt to your response. You can avoid it all together by not adding any word. Just NOT DISAGREE with the person instead, but add to their notion or whatever.
/r/seduction06/08/13 03:36 PM
1

Volunteering stuff is basically asking for validation in most cases. There are exceptions. F ex that its relevant to her story.
/r/seduction04/08/13 07:03 AM
1

Well. Tone down the amount of questions and tell stories instead. Interesting and funny stories, obviously. Not long winding ones either. Something that relates to whatever venue you're at is good. Slip jokes/quips/innuendo/etc in, whenever you can. Also. Try not to volunteer information about yourself. Try to be a mystery for as long as possible. The questions will come, which you should try to answer in a story-telling fashion. Invite her to tell stories too. Short answers are a killer for con…
/r/seduction03/08/13 06:50 PM
0

I agree. I read it as awkward dates where not a lot happened. 3rd was probably just to "be nice".
/r/seduction14/07/13 11:15 PM
3

exactly my point...and the HB7 too for that matter.
/r/seduction06/07/13 08:22 AM
1

Don't get too graphical though! "I'd love to stick my tongue up in between those buttcheeks and go to town!! you know what I mean?!" ... lessons learned
/r/seduction05/07/13 05:42 PM
3

Her: "I just don't think much, I guess." eject
/r/seduction05/07/13 04:25 PM
6

Why would you go for the HB7 (friend of HB6), when you know she's coming over with a drink for you? Sounds to me like a complete dickish move. ..?
/r/seduction05/07/13 04:13 PM
19

Agree with her. "Yeh. It's crazy how fast things have gone. We should probably cool things down." If you were at a point where kino was turning sexual and she says this: Turn it cold and stop kino, but sit close at the same time. Most likely she will initiate kino again herself. Build up from her advance. If you haven't initiated kino and she says this, it's either because you are in a public place and she's not comfortable showing affection there (ISOLATE) or she's not comfortable with you for …
/r/seduction05/07/13 11:07 AM
1

I've never had haters either. Or, just automatically ignore that shit and forget about it. aaaanyway. I've had GREAT success in showing friends some tecnhiques. I even got a uber-AFC a great lay out of it by coaching and setting the stage for him. It was almost better than getting her myself...which I could have if I wanted to. What I did waa just casually talking about specific things you need to do. Like approaching. So talked about that for a tiny little while, and let it lie. Than we change …
/r/seduction05/07/13 09:26 AM
1

What is he doing?
/r/seduction05/07/13 09:21 AM
9

This is a really good tip. Girls that like you, but have a BF is INSTANT social value in their group when you hang out with them. Also, if the BF is there, you HAVE to chat him up also. Make him your "high-five" friend for the night. If they like you, they will actively work you into their social circle. They DREAM of having a cool couple they they can hang out with. I once shared a cab with a couple. They were strangers but we lived closed. I was hilarious, according to them and the practically…
/r/seduction04/07/13 08:57 AM
4

Only a very select few women have it like that. And it fades quickly with age, and they are incredibly fucked when they turn 35 and haven't landed on a guy yet. you should seriously stop blaming everything and everyone. A guy basically just needs to go to the gym and eat healthy, get an ok body and he will get the attention he deserves (sic) without much effort. Just like the women out there.
/r/seduction02/07/13 08:22 PM
0

lol...
/r/seduction02/07/13 04:44 PM
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armchair-PUAs probably. The post was better than most FR I've read in this sub for months. It gives detailed tips on what actually worked on her, or at least what she noticed she liked that the guy did.
/r/seduction02/07/13 03:21 PM
2

oh god...I mean, oh me! I always knew!
/r/seduction27/06/13 08:09 PM
2

are we high?
/r/seduction27/06/13 08:04 PM
2

whats going on here?
/r/seduction27/06/13 07:19 PM
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/r/seduction27/06/13 07:03 PM
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:P
/r/seduction27/06/13 01:26 PM
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ok, guy
/r/seduction27/06/13 08:23 AM
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It's only relevant if it concerns DUI in this thread. It's like saying in a discussion on what is best of chicken and pork and you go: "I am a vegetarian." ... Get it? No one asked you. You don't drink so you don't ever consider DUI anyway.
/r/seduction27/06/13 07:35 AM
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nah... I'm good.
/r/seduction26/06/13 07:31 PM
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Ah. I see.
/r/seduction26/06/13 06:49 PM
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of course. But if you make it obvious you are trying, it backfires.
/r/seduction26/06/13 06:48 PM
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I don't get the down-votes. I guess it's a cultural thing. Planning on driving home when having a few is not a good thing. Because "having a few" can often lead to "having a few more". And at that point your sense of judgement is pretty low. The chance of getting into that car at that point is way higher than if you were not planning on driving home at all. Just having that car there in a drunken state is a bad idea in my experience. Now. Again, it's a cultural thing and maybe it's more common t…
/r/seduction26/06/13 05:08 PM
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It's not relevant you don't drink at all.
/r/seduction26/06/13 05:02 PM
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yes. Unless this is a girl you know really well. Then it's fine unless its obvious you are trying to impress.
/r/seduction26/06/13 04:57 PM
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It can be done in so many ways, and it's highly situational. But universal ones can be: Be funny Be interesting Act with real confidence Be a leader Introduce the group to other high value people Invite the group to high value events the list goes on I guess... You dont have to do all of them, obviously. Do you get the point, though? Increase their regard of you, basically. in your example you could do stuff like: Suggest the teams (I'll go with blondie, and you go with brownie. Loser buys the n…
/r/seduction09/06/13 08:48 PM
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Yeh...he jumped like 3 stages of the approach by saying: ISOLATE!... Building social value etc comes first. Open Raport (increase social value and comfort) escalate by initiating Kino isolate escalate further close or invite home etc... It's not a strict recipe, but they go in that order usually. someimes you can skip some, sometiems you have to do a reitaration of some...etc Isolation is important though, but won't be possible before the girl is comfortable being alone with you. Or even, actual…
/r/seduction09/06/13 07:28 PM
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"ha ha... It's the white ball I'm supposed to hit right? ...ha....ha..." sigh... "WHY WON'T YOU LOVE ME?!?!?!?!?!?"
/r/seduction09/06/13 12:53 PM
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I disagree.
/r/seduction23/05/13 05:42 AM
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yeh...nothing was meant as an attack or putting him down. It was a wake up call. He needs to change his mindset and stop putting her above him. He IS playing out of his league, clearly shown by her actions and his actions. And I wanted to make that clear. The bore thing: I actually missed that. My bad. Assumed it was him :) That's actually a pretty good sign her qualifying herself to him like that. "The guys that have a lot more going for them", douche for short, are like insects to a nightlamp …
/r/seduction22/05/13 10:36 PM
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Yeh. Could work. I thought that sounded a bit douchey and reaching to be fair. But I guess it's all in the delivery. And/or mood of the setting. Jokingly being douchey works wonders sometimes.
/r/seduction22/05/13 07:07 PM
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Hey. Teaching/helping is the best way to learn yourself imho, so it's all good. About the kino: there are always breaks between courses and speeches and what not. You couldve asked if she wanted to get a breath of air, or keep you company while you smoke or whatever. Maybe you saw some weird art in the bar you wanted to show her...yes. It can sound ridicolous, but as long as your delivery is sound it should be all good. Any excuse to isolate basically. Then kino lightly there before returning to…
/r/seduction22/05/13 07:04 PM
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Story time: Went out last week and had a splendid time. For some reason I had a lot of female attention. Dance and hugged with about 5-6 girls at the dance floor. They all came up to me. One girl, which I have flirted with before practically followed me from the club and wanted to hang out after... I had to get up fairly early the next morning to be with my son, so couldn't go home with her. She could go home with me, but...sex just didn't register as an interest for some reason. I hated having …
/r/seduction22/05/13 09:46 AM
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I'm not a fan of flaking myself. It can easily turn into a "who can flake the most?" game. It's really hard to tell, because people react to flakes differerently. However, she has yet tried to qualify herself, to my knowledge, and I don't think him flaking will increase those chances. She works full-time and probably enjoys little free-time. If she flakes, (depending on the flake an appropriate reaction is mandatory!), I would change over to non-commital and non-exclusive proposals: "Hey. Going …
/r/seduction22/05/13 09:24 AM
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Ok. It's pretty obvious, to me anyway, that you are playing out of your league here. (I am not being a dick here. Just stating my opinion. Hope you have hard skin :) ) The convo reeks of it. The whole post does. I'll give you some examples. (didn't stalk her, she was in the same invite group). Excusing your own behaviour. Correct mindset (CM): You were doing her a favour by adding her. Or should I just cut and run? Depending on the social situation (is she close friends with your circle?) you sh…
/r/seduction22/05/13 08:23 AM
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lol sin? Polygamy? It's perfectly acceptable in Europe to have several sexual partners at the same time. So...World view? Or your view?
/r/seduction11/05/13 11:20 PM
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Good pointers there. I'm actually going the dj/producer/promoter path myself. Mostly because I fucking love the music, but girls is a nice addition. Starting to get a nice international network in the psychedelic genre already. So much fun! Sadly I live in Norway which has about the shittiest community for EDM. Think 70% druggie loosers, and the rest of the nightlife think that PSY dance is awesome. Want to rent your couch out for a week or two? :D
/r/seduction11/05/13 11:04 PM
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