Preface

Montreal is negative 24 out right now, my will to go out has been very low but today I waved my middle finger to the cold and went out.

I went to a bar that was hosting this language exchange meetup.com event. Usually these type of events don't host the best talent and I didn't even go out to game. I went because I'm trying to learn Russian and last time I met a couple cool Russians there. As luck would have it, they weren't there tonight and I was met with the decision to either go home or try to meet cool people. At first I was bummed but this particular Friday the event brought out a lot of foreign talent and I decided it was worth having some fun gaming women.

Before we get into my night out, let's rewind to the hour before I went. A lot of people assume that you can just go out with no motivation and work on game. If you're like me and can't do that, then here's how I prepared for my night out.

  1. I watched some Mad Men, it reminded my brain what an alpha acts like and the body language on one. Plus it's a great show.

  2. I smoked a cigarette and slowly put my clothes on, I made sure that my fashion was on point and that I felt like a fucking boss in the clothes I was wearing.

  3. I watched a couple snippets of my idol Steve Mcqueen's documentary and read a famous quote by him that went

"I live for myself and I answer to nobody" - Steve McQueen"

I love how this quote is to the point and simple to grasp but at the same time it hit deeps into the soul. It spoke to me and it's one of the rules I live by.

As a man who never had a father figure, I believe finding an equivalent role model is extremely important but make sure that the role model you chose is exactly who you want to be. It doesn't have to be Steve Mcqueen or Marlon Brando it could be anyone, just make sure that they are masculine, good with women and have what you want. You'll know when you've found yours.

Field Report

Immediately after entering the bar I had a cute girl come up to me and say

"Heyyy"

I kind of was taken off guard with this and said some boring shit. Got her name and went to go find more people to chat with. I wasn't focused on gaming, I just needed to warm up my social muscle, which was kind of rusty because I've been watching LCS games most of the day.

I sat down at this sort of booth table and lounged out with both arms on the side, just relaxing and being comfortable. I texted a friend telling him he should come to this bar because the girls were hot. Just after finishing my text I noticed a cutie with two other guys, I hesitated for maybe half a second, thought of the quote by Steve Mcqueen and approached. I opened with

"What country are you representing" I said this as I moved her hair that was covering the flag she was wearing on her shirt.

This conversation was a little better, I had the entire group entertained and they were giving me their undivided attention. I felt I could of got her to leave the two guys and sit down with me to chat for a bit but I didn't. The guy next to her looked like a chump and I wanted him to have a go.

I said my goodbyes and went to find more people to chat with. I chatted with a couple french dudes and one old guy. One thing I've noticed tonight is that I seem to be able to direct attention of multiple people, I can have a group entertained at my stories and my personality. I seem to feed off other peoples energy and reflect it back at them.

After chatting with the guys for a bit I went to the other side of the bar and I had a cute black girl hit me and say

"hey"

I don't find black women very attractive but I'm always down to chat with a cute girls so I talked with her. At this point I felt my vibe was good and that I was ready to zero in on a group or a individual girl. When my vibe is solid I don't really think of what to say, I sort of just say it. It usually doesn't make a lot of sense, in fact 90% of the time it doesn't but girls and group seem to love me when I am unfiltered. Part of the conversation that stood out with the black girl was when she asked me where I was from and I said

"Nigeria, I really miss home."

Even though I'm completely white, she started cracking up and was like oh wow that's cool.

I looked at her with a dumbfounded face and said

"you ACTUALLY think I'm from Nigeria?"

Of course she said, Yea I do.

Then I said

"I'm playing with you." As I touched her shoulder and we started chatting.

I said my goodbye and went to approach these three really cute Eastern Europe girls. I learned a lot talking to these girls and it was probably my best approach yet.

Once again, I was a little hesitant to approach but then I remembered Steve Mcqueens quote and went for it.

These three girls we'll call Eva, Kata and Yula. Neither of them were wearing flags so I used that as an opener.

Me: "Are you guys part of the Language Exchange?"

Them: "Yea, we are"

Judging by there response and body language I could tell they were down with my vibe. We started chatting and they were hanging on every word of mine. I had the three of the hottest girls giving me full attention and laughing like they inhaled a 5 foot bong toke of laughing gas. At one point I noticed Kata was wearing a business blazer.

As I was talking I touched her blazer and said,

"This isn't VERY APPROPRIATE bar attire."

Kata then tells me about her job as a weather women and I said

"So THIS is what you wear on the job?"

She responds with,

"Yea it is, but a minute before I go on the floor I'm in pajamas."

I said

"Pajamas? I think a bra and panties would be a better idea."

Her friends and Kata all start laughing. This isn't really word for word but it's the gist of the conversation. The more I game the more I realize that what you say DOESN'T MATTER but the mindset that what you say comes from DOES MATTER. Half of the shit I said tonight only worked because it came from a a FUN mindset and POSITIVE vibe. That's IT. If my vibe wasn't positive I wouldn't of done well at all tonight. I really think girls have a sixth sense for detecting a mans vibe and seeing how real he is. I was real tonight, nothing I did was fake or forced. That's why I had girls approaching me and why I was able to command attention of groups.

There was never a point where I had to think to myself what to say. A point in the interaction that sticks out was when the girls were all asking what I did. Here's the conversation.

"I plan to travel around Canada and eventually the world on a bike."

They just looked at me and with the facial expression "wow".

I looked right at one of them, we'll call her Yula and said. Unfortunately, the bike only has room for one.

Yula was like

"Oh, I'm sure you'd love to have me."

I said in a very sarcastic way.

"Yea, I'm sure you're a REALLY INTERESTING person but sorry."

The girls just started laughing.

After chatting the Polish girls for a while I suggested we move to a table because I was tired of standing and they obliged. After moving to the table I continued my antics and sharing my positive vibe. Eventually after finding out that Kata is way older than me and Yula was in a relationship I started seducing the most attractive and youngest of the bunch Eva. At one point she asked me why I liked Eastern Europe so much and I started telling her about Putin and how I like the guy. I didn't know it at the time but Poland does not like Putin and Eva immediately starts giving me shit. I didn't think of it at the time but she was shit testing me.

She asked me "You like a murdered? How can you like that guy."

I said,

"I like where he came from but I don't agree with his moves as a politician" Then I turned to Kata and said

"Your friend Eva is ALREADY talking about politics. Is she always this boring?"

Kata just laughs and so does Eva.

Kata says "You know you just told a Polish girl that you liked Putin."

I said "Yea, I do and I stand by that." Then I turned to Eva and said "You must really hate me now that I said I like Putin" As I said this I jokingly crossed my arms and turned my back to her.

Eva says

"Noooo, not at all." While messing with her hair, at this point I knew I could close.

I said to Eva that a friend texted me and that I had to go meet him for something and that we should meetup again, then asked for the number.

This is where it gets interesting and where I personally am proud of myself. Eva is actually thirteen years older than me. She's 33 and I'm 20. She tells me that she is much older than me.

Me: Age is just a number, thirty three is the same as ninety nine to me. You're a good looking ninety year old.

Eva: No it's not, it's not a number. How old are you?

Me: 25, my baby face never left.

Eva: You're cute and all but you're much younger, all that travel the world stuff that's thing you say when you're 18."

At this point I put my foot down and said

Me: You don't need to know about my past, I'm 25."

Eva: Show me your I.D

Me: I don't carry one, I don't need it. (Which is actually true, I don't carry one.)

Then I emptied out my pockets

Me: Where's the I.D

After a couple more back and forths she eventually gave me her number and said

Eva: This is not romantic, just so you know. You're only getting it because your fun to talk to.

I replied with kind of a ballsy move. At the time I didn't realize this but I don't think she wanted to seem slutty infront of her friends so she said "friends". Even if she truly wants to be friends I don't really care, something I've learned is having true power is being able to lose what you have and not let it bother you. You have to be ready to have anyone leave your life. Especially girls.

Me: Yea, the last girl that said to me she...Yea, let's not know what she did.

Eva looks at me and sort of plays with her hair while she does this like half smirk that says I know what you're saying and I'm okay with that. At this point there was a guy flirting with Kata and I turned to him put my hand on shoulder and said

"You're going to have A LOT of FUN talking to her. She's the MOST interesting weather women you'll MEET."

I said this in a way that you can't tell if I'm joking or if I'm being serious but it's not offensive. I've kind of learned this technique from a British friend of mine. He'll say something but you can't tell if he's being serious or not and as a result it's funny as hell.

The group starts laughing and I leave.

I'm proud, this is the first time gaming three attractive women. I'm going to call Eva tomorrow and try to set up a date and close her. It'd be cool to fuck a 33 year old and I love slavic women.

With this being said, I'm completely fine with losing Eva as well. The interaction we had was fun and anything beyond that is a bonus.

Takeaway TL;DR

Vibe, being able to vibe is key to seduction. When you have a positive and fun vibe you don't even have to think of what to say because the worlds will flow naturally to you. Find a male role model that has what you want, if you want women in your life don't role model after Bill Gates because that's not going to get you women. The life I want right now is rebellious, bad boy not because women are attracted to that image but because I enjoy that image. Steve Mcqueen is the perfect candidate.

Remember, game is supposed to be fun. There wasn't a single part of the night where it felt like work. There's no set in stone way to game women, everyone has their own style. Have fun. find your style and reap the benefits.