TheRedArchive

~ archived since 2018 ~

seducer4real Archive

View 8 posts and 184 comments by seducer4real on TheRedPill subreddit and various other subreddits related to The Red Pill community.
Search in:
In subreddits:
More
Filter by year/month:
Upvotes Comment on Subreddit Date (UTC)
1

Thanks man appreciate that. I can follow up in the pm if that’s cool
/r/askTRP22/12/19 09:01 AM
1

Good point. Don’t you think once you’ve built some shir you’ve worked too hard to still be the one chasing these low value females that can only offer sex? I’ve built a 6 figure business now, got my shit together and still gotta chase a birch lmao. I think positioning is more important and this point to get girls instead of approaching these girls that have fuck all to offer. What do you think? These girls are Lower value than me in every sense so it makes no logical sense for me to go after the…
/r/askTRP21/12/19 10:15 PM
1

Should also mention I downloaded tinder for a week and matched with multiple 4s and 5s , one 6. These also lead nowhere.
/r/askTRP21/12/19 09:09 PM
1

Awesome. So what would you recommend to do from now? More approaches?
/r/askTRP21/12/19 09:06 PM
2

I would definitely agree that in the interactions I’ve had I was doing more talking and more of the work. I also learned that I should be looking for choosing signals before approaching. Eg one of the girls had headphones on so yeah haha but doesn’t everyone in Starbucks?
/r/askTRP21/12/19 08:51 PM
1

So currently I’d say the girls I’ve been going after are around 7. Lowest would be 6.
/r/askTRP21/12/19 08:48 PM
2

Yes so after I get there number for example or Instagram they don’t follow back or don’t text. 3 instances of this in the past 3 months (3 attempts from my end) Met a girl in Starbucks , really good vibe. Got her instagram , she didn’t follow back. I even DMd her a week later , nothing Another girl near my work. Got her IG, never replied to me or it’d be one word. In person acts nice. Ended up cutting it out. We spoke regularly in person. I think she has a boyfriend though. Another girl I see ar…
/r/askTRP21/12/19 08:39 PM
3

He used to work for buzzfeed
/r/TheRedPill26/06/18 02:42 PM
12

The line about not talking about your losses is good
/r/TheRedPill06/11/16 02:30 PM
2

I deleted Facebook years ago. Life has been much better since.
/r/TheRedPill13/06/16 09:58 PM
1

Is the podcast still intact? I can't stream it online at all. I tried streaming it in the app as well but received errors.
/r/TheRedPill06/05/16 10:02 AM
6

You're not supposed to remember all of them. Just note down the ones that resonate with your lifestyle and your mind. Make full use of those first, then move on to other new ones.
/r/TheRedPill02/05/16 12:41 PM
16

After reading it again, it actually does.
/r/TheRedPill20/04/16 08:11 PM
2

Point is: make as much money as you can. Why the fuck are people complaining about him giving examples? If there is 1 thing you take away it is that you should get rich or die trying.
/r/TheRedPill31/03/16 07:46 PM
3

It's a dating app I believe
/r/TheRedPill02/02/16 06:55 PM
1

where is the gofundme page?
/r/TheRedPill21/01/16 10:40 PM
0

This cleared up quite a few things. How do you split the food bill equally? Do you mention it upfront or expect it? How about if there is a language barrier between you and the girl? Thanks.
/r/TheRedPill04/01/16 08:17 AM
2

He is.
/r/TheRedPill27/12/15 08:38 PM
5

Last time this was said to me was a year ago. She said we need to talk. We met the next day in person and broke up. I think it was good she said that bc breaking up over text is kinda weird.
/r/TheRedPill17/11/15 08:10 PM
4

Got an example? Im quite lean but have no idea how to get a pic. Also , what should the selfie look like?
/r/TheRedPill12/11/15 06:11 AM
6

Problem is , even kids that do have dads end up being beta because their dad's mindset is like that. My parents are just like that and it took me 16 years to figure it out myself. You cant have everything layed out for you. When I was in college(high school for Americans) I was constantly observing and experimenting. I remember on my first day sitting next to a HB9, I knew nothing about picking up girls. I thought u had to make friends first. So we were friends. Then I found out she had a bf. Co…
/r/TheRedPill07/10/15 06:00 AM
0

Time to reread 33 strategies of war.
/r/TheRedPill03/10/15 05:31 AM
1

Put a towel over your shoulder and cover the chest with it. This will look natural.
/r/TheRedPill01/10/15 05:30 AM
1

To change the underlying issues, you have to address your character and not your behavior. If you just address the skills (by reading that book) you are only changing your behavior, not the underlying problem. You should work on skills after you have identified the underlying problem in your character. This is where you dig deeper and observe yourself. Look at your daily habits and belief systems. Do you set yourself up for success every day by waking up early and getting done what you actually …
/r/askTRP06/09/15 07:56 PM
0

Dude, you're still plugged in. I cant think of a way to convince you. Search the interview with Com Mirza on the Alex Becker channel and see for yourself. If you dont believe in what youre doing, youll never get there! Forget investors, family funding or whatever else, if you dont believe you can do it, you wont get anywhere(except for what you believe in). You clearly did not get the message Napoleon Hill was trying to communicate in Think and Grow Rich. In almost every page he was trying to re…
/r/TheRedPill04/09/15 04:16 PM
4

You do realise he lost all the money he borrowed from his family/friends and had to pay them all back and was in debt for a very long time? He opened 1 successful business and all the profits had to go to pay the family back and he lost that business eventually. If you're really going to come from the mindset of "if i had x then i would be y" then youre full of shit. I cant find another way to put it. Anyone can say that because it is easy! Not everyone is willing to fail 10 times , be in debt a…
/r/TheRedPill04/09/15 11:48 AM
2

Raising capital is difficult of course, depending on how you look at it. Imagine yourself in an alternate universe where you had all the capital you needed. Now write down exactly what you would do. You cant let stuff that you cant control get in your way. Lets take Richard Branson for example. When he was young he saved some money from selling newspapers. Then when he wanted to start his airline company he never had any money to hire a plane. He never let this get in his way. Instead, he decide…
/r/TheRedPill04/09/15 10:43 AM
21

I read a quote somewhere that went along the lines of 'as soon as you think of a new idea, 500 people before you already thought of it". This is very true. You can test it yourself(Google your idea). Even if 100 people thought of it before you,it is still a lot. Dont just rely on getting an idea for your success. It is like waiting for someone to open the door for you to a maze. It is barely the first step. The idea of fb was already out there (friendster, MySpace), but Zuckerberg took this idea…
/r/TheRedPill04/09/15 08:10 AM
-1

She had to accept him on snapchat before he could send the pics. In other words, she agreed to receive pictures from him since that is the entire point of Snapchat.
/r/TheRedPill03/09/15 12:14 PM
1

Bill Burr is fucking awesome.
/r/TheRedPill26/08/15 11:50 AM
-4

Be careful about downloading from Tor. NSA might decide to come around for tea.
/r/TheRedPill19/08/15 04:56 AM
1

Would it have been possible for him to bail and leave the country in the first hearing? Isnt leaving the country youre currently in a solution?
/r/TheRedPill19/08/15 04:27 AM
1

What are your thoughts on travelling abroad for a few years to help clear the mind and get new ideas? This is assuming I have location independent income, of course. Im looking to leave my country for about 4/5 years so I can really focus on myself and keep my mind sharp. Whats your take on exploring the world for a Machiavellian?
/r/askTRP17/08/15 04:35 AM
1

Didnt he say he studies English at uni? I guess writing the blog takes up alot of his time
/r/askTRP17/08/15 04:31 AM
-2

His dad actually went broke, he got caught for fraud. Dan was just a normal guy that went uni and wanted to be in the army. But he was good at poker and made his money through that. I use to think it was his dads money, then I researched. That guy is a selfmade millionaire. Selfmade confirmed.
/r/TheRedPill16/08/15 05:48 PM
2

So, Dan Bilzerian lifestyle basically.
/r/TheRedPill16/08/15 05:43 AM
7

So instead of marriage you just keep spinning plates?
/r/TheRedPill16/08/15 04:43 AM
2

Dont worry, he will be part of the TRP community very soon.
/r/TheRedPill31/07/15 01:44 PM
0

Illimitable Men has an article on this, check it out
/r/TheRedPill25/07/15 10:31 AM
1

Find it strange that you can listen to comedy whilst youre on public transportation. Wouldnt you just randomly burst out laughing or smiling for no reason? I know I would.
/r/TheRedPill13/03/15 07:35 PM
11

What you want to be is witty. It's not what you say, it is how cleverly you can respond. Next time, think before you speak, don't take too long, just keep eye contact and respond with what you think is best. Watch a lot of comedy to improve this
/r/TheRedPill10/03/15 07:05 PM
1

Or "hey, gotta go, but tbh you look like a cute bitch" wonders why he gets rejected
/r/TheRedPill09/03/15 07:58 PM
1

Never seen a girl act like that, sounds like b.s but its free. Might as,well look at the other ones
/r/seduction09/03/15 02:27 PM
1

Lol I.meant ice skating hahaaa Lmao imagine going skiing for first Date.
/r/seduction01/03/15 06:56 PM
1

Do something active like skiing, golfing or bowling.
/r/seduction01/03/15 10:53 AM
2

Yesi agree. Also make sure to end the kiss before she does.
/r/seduction28/02/15 10:59 PM
1

Go meet some other fucking girls. It will naturally become apparent.
/r/seduction28/02/15 09:26 PM
1

I think what the original OP was getting at was someone that is BOLD, ASSERTIVE, has COMPOSURE, takes control at all times and is aggressive when NECESSARY. Basically, you have to look like someone that can protect her. If you're in a cinema with your girl and a fire breaks out, shes going to look at you right? Well the qualities that she looks for in THAT situation is what I'm getting at.
/r/seduction28/02/15 09:25 PM
1

in that case, "By definition, men are pussys" , does that make you feel better? I hope you get my point and dont take it personally. By aggressiveness, i see it to mean manliness. Not a douchebag who flips out every chance he gets. See Brad Pitt? That is manly aggressiveness.
/r/seduction28/02/15 08:53 PM
-1

Be as vague as possible. Say something like "i've left my past behind me, it is not something i talk about'. OR anything enigmatic, where the answer is very vague. And obviously if u do it this way, youre not lying...
/r/seduction28/02/15 08:40 PM
1

Self transformation should be your first goal. A lot of people look for quick fixes, or a mask they can wear outside to pickup girls. Sorry man, but that does not exist. Your mind must be trained, for that is what it is made for. Like the OP said, look at your strengths and make them stronger. Get in the best shape you can, clear your skin up, get a haircut that makes you look good, wear fashionable clothes and always smell good. These are quick fixes ANYONE can make. So no fucking excuse for yo…
/r/seduction27/02/15 09:20 PM
2

Something in relation to this that I have been thinking about is: If what you just said is the case plus other countless occasions i have noticed stories of people and people in general who become motivated for a little while then go back to normal, doesn't that make perseverance the most important trait for a red piller to have, or anyone for that matter?
/r/TheRedPill27/02/15 09:04 PM
2

Yeh man youve got the point. Keep doing what youre doing, I do it myself. It is a bit more advanced which is why I suggested you just break it when neither is talking. But if youre good with eye contact then.if done correctly you will be fine. Just make sure to smile and keep a relaxed look. Peace.
/r/seduction27/02/15 05:07 PM
1

I think you misunderstood my point. When I say that neither is talking, I mean YOU are not talking and SHE is not talking. When that is the case I see no reason for eye contact unless youre having sex or are about to kiss her. However, if I DO keep eye contact when neither is talking, I will keep it short then say something. Why dont you try to do the opposite of what I said? See how it goes. It is basically staring. See what works for you. Peace
/r/seduction27/02/15 01:51 PM
1

Making eye contact when.neither is talking is not sexual tension, it is eye contact rape.
/r/seduction27/02/15 12:57 PM
0

I have made mistakes. One of which was to keep eye contact when NEITHER of us was talking. This freaked the girl out, she asked me why I was staring at her. So what you want to do is keep eye contact when ONE of you is speaking. If neither of yall is talking, then just look away. And when you or the girl is speaking, hold it, dont break it. Just focus on seeing your reflection in her eye. Also try not to blink too fast, this might make you look nervous. So as long as you keep eye contact at the …
/r/seduction26/02/15 08:19 PM
1

I would keep solid eye contact whilst with a smile say "sex is important to me, as it is to everyone else, because without it, there is no reproduction. Now, am I JUST in it for sex? No, it is a mere bonus to my life, im more IN IT to reach my dreams."
/r/seduction26/02/15 08:11 PM
1

There are actually many ways to apply reverse psychology, and another article is required to do the topic its justice. For example, if you ask a girl for her number and she says "sorry i dont give my number out", the reverse psychology guy will say " Same here i dont give my number out either, you generally shouldnt be giving it out" with a smile.
/r/seduction26/02/15 12:08 PM
3

Eye contact, eye contact and some more eye contact. If you think you're having too much eye contact , chances are you're not even close.
/r/seduction26/02/15 11:23 AM
1

Leave your past behind, when you talk about yourself, talk about the good stuff but dont reveal it all. Dont put all your eggs in one basket. If you dont have too many good memories, take the ones you have and use them sparingly.
/r/seduction26/02/15 11:11 AM
6

nice post. The abundance mentality is what is either going to make you develop one-itis or look at that one special girl as just 'another girl'. Think of a shoe shop. You pick some shoes. They dont fit you. So they go to the back to get another size. And you get a new one. Same with girls, they wont all be receptive to you, so all you have to do is replace them by talking to more. At the shop, you dont just look at A SINGLE pair of shoes. Why the fuck would you do that? You look at all of them, …
/r/seduction23/02/15 08:24 PM
2

Nice style of writing, I will keep that in mind the next time i write a field report
/r/seduction21/02/15 06:44 PM
2

lol my mate actually put her number in my phone, so what i might do is text her at the end of the college year (in like 2 months). Ive moved onto other girls anyway so fuk her.
/r/seduction20/02/15 09:41 AM
1

When texting, keep it short and sweet. Make it sound fun, maybe do role plays or some question game. Dont be talking about weather and shit.
/r/seduction19/02/15 10:31 PM
1

You'd be surprised... I remember once this girl started giving me weird looks when i told her i liked Black Veil Brides (dont anymore). Just tell them if they like metal. Also, dont just randomly play AA, you'll freak them t he fuck out :P Theyre good though, but ask them if they will like it before hand.
/r/seduction19/02/15 10:29 PM
1

get the number and meetup
/r/seduction19/02/15 10:25 PM
3

I was looking for a solution to this myself. You have to watch comedy and read more. Comedy is just amazing to help you come up with witty comebacks instantly. Some comedians you might want to watch are : Kevin hart, Bill blurr, eddi murphy. There are many more, just search on youtube
/r/seduction19/02/15 10:24 PM
1

Why dont you just try going for 1 girl? Look through your contact list and find that 1 girl you think is worth it , and keep dating her.
/r/seduction19/02/15 05:24 PM
-2

someone just made a post on this, it is called "eye contact sexual tension" i think. Check recent threads before you post next time :
/r/seduction19/02/15 05:19 PM
1

Get her by herself, chances are she might calm down. If she is still the same then just leave her.
/r/seduction19/02/15 12:17 PM
1

It is a free world, people can do what they want. The information is out there, they can use it as they wish. Some want ONS some want LTRs, it is up to you.
/r/seduction19/02/15 12:16 PM
1

I'm used to be a really good magician and entertain groups all the time. I mean even as a magician myself (not anymore), i still know how to go up to anyone , ask them to think of a card or number, then tell t hem what it is. Impressive right? . One thing i learnt from it though is they will just look at you as a friend unless you turn it sexual. Plus chances are they wont expect it from you, they just expect you to be the entertainer, and why would an entertainer hit on girls? Now this changes …
/r/seduction19/02/15 10:36 AM
1

say 'ok' with a smile.
/r/seduction19/02/15 10:28 AM
0

What i would do is wait till friday , then reschedule for another day, just tell her youre busy even though youre not. This will make the game square, also make sure to reschedule. If you dont want to be her puppet and dont want her to think it is acceptable to flake on you, then do what i just said. However, if youre cool with it, then just meet up like normal. IMO as long as she likes you , text game wont do much unless you demonstrate LMS(looks money status). If she is interested she will com…
/r/seduction19/02/15 10:27 AM
1

Keep strong eye contact and kino, then go for the kiss. If she does not respond well, then move on. Be prepared to move on, but you might as well take the shot.
/r/seduction18/02/15 07:05 PM
83

For some reason when I AM in those situations i can manage to stay calm and keep eye contact, its just that my conversation might not be top notch because of excessive interior monologue :
/r/seduction18/02/15 07:02 PM
1

Then you go get a fucking Spongebob suit, you just gotta think outside of the vagina sometimes.
/r/seduction18/02/15 07:01 PM
12

^ you just gotta think outside the box sometimes
/r/seduction18/02/15 04:53 PM
3

Never seen one tbh. Why don't you start one? If you do, stay consistent with your posting and keep it interesting.
/r/seduction17/02/15 08:48 PM
1

Just keep it to yourself and don't tell anyone. If they find out just say that she was a maniac and broke up with you.
/r/seduction17/02/15 08:47 PM
1

Just pick and choose what works for you. What works for someone else may not work for you, so you have to stay unique. Remember "good artists copy, great artists steal". Do not copy a pickup artist , instead steal his best moves, and do this to every person you feel is good with women. Over time you will have gathered the best moves from each person, how amazing is that?
/r/seduction17/02/15 08:44 PM
1

I actually felt that way once upon a time, until I realised that there are other hotter girls out there who i could be fucking instead of chasing 1 girl that never will. There is an abundance of girls, so why not make use of it?
/r/seduction17/02/15 08:41 PM
8

Keep texting at a minimum. Use it to mainly arrange dates and text infrequently. Make it short and sweet.
/r/seduction17/02/15 08:30 PM
2

if theyre not interesting then theyre not worth your time, dont waste your valuable time on shit.
/r/seduction17/02/15 10:48 AM
1

I browse reddit,facebook and youtube in the morning (9) for like an hour or 2. Then i get some work done. Then i read some books on business and money making. Then i hit the gym for like 2 hours. Come back and read some more books. Browse some bullshit for a while. Then do some programming for like an hour or 2 and watch some videos. btw this is only in the holidays, on college days i dont get this much time but i still go gym 5 times a week and read everyday
/r/seduction17/02/15 09:58 AM
3

Obama is an expert on delivering speeches. He knows when to pause to create suspense and how to keep the audience drawed in. So you might as well watch him. Russel Brand is also a really good speaker, a bit too fast at times, but hes got a clear voice
/r/seduction17/02/15 09:11 AM
1

Well if some ugly girls try to talk to him, he is just as nice to them as eveyone else. As for charm, then tbh it comes with looks. There have been numerous studies conducted that show that the better looking you are the more charming people perceive you to be. So make sure you are always looking your best, in terms of hygience, skin care and clothes. Physique is also quite important, it adds a lot to your posture. Especially muscles like the Lats and shoulders (use lat pull down and low seated …
/r/seduction17/02/15 09:07 AM
2

This gay guy in college. Ok I know he is gay, but he can charm literally any girl in college. What does he have? A very large social circle, good looks and CHARM. Even though im not fond of gays, man is he charming and he is always interested in what you say. Looks and hygiene and fashion are always spot on. And he is nice to EVERYONE, not just the hot bitches. He even holds hands with bitches and gives them kisses and shit and is always surrounded with girls, so he is always meeting more. And t…
/r/seduction16/02/15 10:39 PM
9

you fuck her right in the pussy
/r/seduction16/02/15 10:35 PM
1

Keep rehearsing 'whats your number?'. Rehearse it all the time. Write it down 100 times. Keep doing this. Why:? When we are nervous our brain tends to use the most rehearsed information in our mind. The last thing it is going to use is something you just read online. So even if you're nervous, you will be able to pull this off.
/r/seduction16/02/15 06:54 PM
1

what she say?
/r/seduction16/02/15 06:51 PM
1

follow everything he says, especially when he talks about writing the stuff down. If you follow that book exactly, you just cant go wrong. Btw you can find the pdf version online, just search the "book name, author pdf", and download it one time
/r/seduction16/02/15 06:51 PM
2

nah dont wink, youre not in a movie.
/r/seduction16/02/15 05:19 PM
1

Go talk to her, get her number, then meet up again and escalate.
/r/seduction16/02/15 04:34 PM
66

A wise man once said : "simplicity is the ultimate sophistication". You kept it simple, which equated to success.
/r/seduction16/02/15 04:31 PM
3

I'm also going to make one JUST on eye contact. The importance of it and how to make it habit. I should have made that one before this one but it is too late now. Just practice these for now, i will have another one coming up by wednesday
/r/seduction16/02/15 01:48 PM
1

tbh anything is ok , if she likes you she will say yes
/r/seduction16/02/15 01:11 PM
1

go to socialskillstrategy website, some guy on this forum made a free course on how to have good conversation, and it is very good. Be sure to check it out. Even after the first lesson you'll feel as though you know a lot
/r/seduction16/02/15 09:55 AM
1

then remind her about the party and GO
/r/seduction16/02/15 09:01 AM
1

I think i know the perfect book to meet your needs. Read 'Think and Grow rich' by Napoleon Hill. It might be the best thing you have ever read.
/r/seduction16/02/15 08:30 AM
1

Take Robert Greene's number 1 advice on seduction : " treat each woman as a separate country/culture. Do not apply the same techniques to different woman. Shut off your interior monologue and penetrate their way of thinking" IF you separate each piece of advice you will see that mastering all 4 of the above, will make you irresistible. To shutoff your interior monologue, dont always think about it as youre going to do it, stay calm and stop talking inside your head. I cant take each point of adv…
/r/seduction16/02/15 08:28 AM
1

Get a short conversation going but dont invite yourself to the party. Talk about it, and if she likes you she will invite you, if she doesnt, ask her out for ANOTHER day, not on her party.
/r/seduction16/02/15 08:21 AM
2

You have to remember that body language is the first they see, it is like an instant judgement. I'm going to make more posts on body language in the future because if you haven't got the basics right, you will always find yourself in an endless circle ,whilst in each loop of learning a B.S pickup technique you will also pickup up 1 piece of fundamental technique(which is what ultimately helps you)
/r/seduction16/02/15 08:18 AM
-2

Dont worry i will not edit it out. Bitch just refers to a girl, it is not insulting her. That was my intention anyway. Why dont you tell me about YOUR theories and how to not talk like a stalker? Also looking through your contributions, you have not even made that many to the seduction community, so how can you say that my theories are dumb when there are so many people out there that have thanked me for my advice?
/r/seduction15/02/15 09:14 PM
3

If youre outside asks where you can find a place where you can get a nice milkshake or something. Then after she answers tell her something you noticed e.g "btw i noticed youve got a really artsy vibe, you into arts at all?" , then if she says no then ask what she is into. Dont start of with introducing yourself, that is not very effective, she will instantly forget your name. You have to seem casually interested, not begging for her attention Nah dont use pickup lines, maybe in a club or a conc…
/r/seduction15/02/15 08:27 PM
0

where did i call her a bitch? quote the text
/r/seduction15/02/15 08:20 PM
1

Start of with a question you are comfortable asking anyone, then after that go a direct.
/r/seduction15/02/15 04:20 PM
1

Message me and I will help you accordingly. Just make sure you are specific in your question and do not be vague. Peace.
/r/seduction15/02/15 04:18 PM
10

This guy explains the shit tests very well. He goes through each one. Even though he follows he red pill philosophy, his shit test article is very general and uses psychology techniques to overcome them. http://illimitablemen.com/2014/12/14/the-shit-test-encyclopedia/
/r/seduction15/02/15 04:17 PM
1

There are a few ways to approach this. The method I would recommend is the INDIRECT approach. You must be as indirect as possible. Don't add her on Facebook or follow her on twitter just yet. When you see her at church position yourself in such a place where you can ask her an indirect question such as "where is X?' or any indirect question that is applicable to your situation. Make your question as innocent as possible unless you want her AND her parents to know that you are hitting on her, whi…
/r/seduction15/02/15 04:15 PM
3

You can read as many tips and study as many techniques as you want. But i believe there is 1 thing that is SPECIFIC to your question that is going to help you. And unless you nurture and stay persistent with that 1 SPECIFIC thing , I can not gaurantee how much other tips/techniques will work for you. So here it comes, you have to have DESIRE. How badly do you want to succeed? You must DESIRE your goal. You have to stay PERSISTENT. Let me ask you 1 question: Did you really give it your ALL when y…
/r/seduction15/02/15 04:10 PM
3

I was approaching way before dating ever crossed my mind. I was a magician at 16 and always approached girls and crowds to show them my tricks, i did this literally everyday for about a year. Ocasionally i would approach a girl because i liked her,but i cant remember my first approach lol. The truth is, to this day (im almost 18), i still have approach anxiety, it never goes away. The only thing that changes is your ability to handle approach anxiety.Ive also noticed that the hotter the girl , t…
/r/seduction15/02/15 04:03 PM
17

sometimes girls are not in a real relationship and a lot of the time they lie about the boyfriend. I myself have never used any boyfriend destroying tactic. Girls that are just seeing a guy and calling him a boyfriend would be the case most guys are hopefully talking about, and not someone that is in a serious relationship because that is just not normal since theyre in a healthy relationship. As for why they do this then maybe they are really into the girl and the girl is into them MORE then th…
/r/seduction15/02/15 03:53 PM
2

hey man, ive been following your blog for quite some time now, do you send updates via email when a new post comes out? (Ive subscribed) thanks
/r/TheRedPill14/02/15 10:44 PM
-1

I see where you are coming from. Did you read the entire interaction though? I tried to keep the conversation going the first time with no luck since she was in a hurry for a class (which i already knew before i approached), so it was difficult to even keep a conversation. So i had to pursue her one more time. As for the second interaction, i dont know why I did not ask, i just kind of froze and asked for her facebook instead, which she doesnt have. And for the third one, im guessing you read fo…
/r/seduction14/02/15 10:03 PM
1

Hey there, thanks for the course, just enrolled. The course ends at section 12 right?
/r/seduction14/02/15 07:16 PM
5

wtf never. Never tell anyone, not even your mates unless they ask. Dude , once you tell her, she wont even respect that haha. You have to make your seduction look effortless. It is a law of power. If you reveal all the practice and labor that have gone before it , you have lost power, especially if your seduction was very smooth. It might seem impressive, but the truth is that it is impressive if you dont tell her
/r/seduction13/02/15 08:35 PM
19

"be yourself, only better"
/r/seduction12/02/15 12:11 PM
1

if youre confident enough to approach the group without making it awkard and seem interesting then go for it. i know i wouldnt be able to do that so I just do what i can : which is a tester first , then make the bold move.
/r/seduction12/02/15 12:09 PM
3

In my opinion, a confident man is someone who is happy without girls. Why? Because he is always following his passion and working on improving himself, that is his number 1 priority, girls are a bonus to him. Girls love guys that are passionate, so become the best at what you do. This does not mean that you do not talk to girls, no. Youre still improving yourself, youre still spending months on months honing your social interactions, practicing as much as you can, becoming the best you can be. A…
/r/seduction12/02/15 09:59 AM
2

You're going to have to practice. Go out there and approach strangers without hitting on them. Just do indirect approaches and ask them anything, where a place is , what the time is, anything. Keep doing this for like a week. If you do this, you will develop the ability to instinctively approach, you main worry will not be approaching anymore, instead it will be on the conversation. After youve done this, you want to talk for a bit longer, ask them where they're from and what they study, basical…
/r/seduction12/02/15 09:52 AM
1

check my latest field report, notice how i did a tester before making the bold move. To summarize it, just ask her an indirect question like "do you know where X is?' , then ask 2 more indirect questions whilst smiling and keeping eye contact. Then the next time you see her , be like "oh hey hows it going? were you the girl that does X?". This works like magic for me, so try it out. And if they are interested, they will make it easy for you very easy.
/r/seduction12/02/15 09:41 AM
1

oh lol, it wasnt that easy. The first time i saw her walk into the bathroom (hint hint observational skills!), so i waited near it until she came out then made my move. And the second time i was on the computer and saw her from far, so yeah, just keep your eyes open , keep observing. I also have a few crushes that are always with their friends, like always. But i cant let that stop me, you have to pursue other girls because the truth is that your'e just wasting your time waiting for the right mo…
/r/seduction12/02/15 09:37 AM
1

yes that was the whole point of the 'tester'. Just so that the NEXT time i saw her she would feel as though she knew me, and i got it right too, becaus she brought up the interaction from 2 weeks ago! It is quite amazing that she remembered it and brought it up. Cant wait for tomorrow , going to have to close the deal.
/r/seduction12/02/15 09:34 AM
8

To add to this, there is nothing wrong with feeling approach anxiety. Ive approached a lot of girls and i still suffer from it. It is your ability to handle approach anxiety that changes, not the anxiety itself. Even Mike Tyson who was known as a 'fearless warrior' and 'most feared boxer' actually wasnt all that 'fearless'. He even said in a video that he dreams of losing the fight, he is always thinking about losing, always scared and afraid to lose, even as he walks towards the ring he thinks …
/r/seduction11/02/15 10:34 PM
3

The only solution is to talk to her. So unless you wanted someone to give you a solution OTHER than talking to her , I'm sorry to disappoint you. Sometimes you just gotta do it man. Fear is self imposed -youve created it. I approached this girl today that i had a crush on for ages, i was shitting my pants minutes before but as soon as we spoke there was instant chemistry and we got on well. My advice is to go for it ASAP. Just say Hey hows it going. Thats all it takes. youve got more inside of y…
/r/seduction11/02/15 10:27 PM
3

It is the romantic connection. It takes more than looks and money to get most girls. They want to feel connected around you. She even said in one interview that when Kanye was on tour they would always skype and talk for hours on end , and never get bored of each other. How many people can you do that with? Usually girls bore you after 5 minutes, this just shows the lack of intimate connection between the 2 of you. If she feels good around you, and you make bold moves to ask her out, then you ha…
/r/seduction11/02/15 10:24 PM
2

mate, you get what you put in. You put in hard work and you will get serious results. You put in little bit of work, you will get minimal results. It is almost directly proportional. Ask yourself this question : how much effort have you actually put in to get girls? Approached 5 or 10? is that it? youre going to call that hard work? i call it bull shit which could be the reason that you have bullshit results. Here watch this video by Greg Plitt to understand how much effort you have t put in to …
/r/seduction09/02/15 10:02 PM
1

It means "i wont let you know"-- if she did let you know, chances are she had other plans and you were second option, and she chose you because they got cancelled
/r/seduction04/02/15 10:30 PM
1

For openers tell them something youve noticed i.e "do you do arts? bc ive noticed youve got a really artsy kind of vibe etc." then something like "you look like you do something creative etc" . Thse are my top 2 lines, so use them with caution :P for numbers just ask, they always give you, even if they dont like you.
/r/seduction04/02/15 10:25 PM
2

Yeah, write down5 things you want to accomplish each day and do them all. Keep doing this. After time, you will start to do as you say and in turn become confident you can always accomplish stuff
/r/seduction02/02/15 08:31 PM
1

watch justin wayne dating on youtube, the most consistent pickup artist. Look at how he keeps conversation, then learn from him.
/r/seduction31/01/15 09:34 PM
1

in 90 days you will be the person you want to be / Today is 1/90 of that opportunity. You guys find a fear, that fear will either create you or destroy you. I love fear. Reason why; behind every fear, there's a person you wanna be. Fear is self-imposed... Meaning it doesn't exist. You create it, you can destroy it too. It's an intangible. If you face your fears guys, you'll realize it's not that big. And once you face it, you're gonna say 'my god, man. All this time I've been running from it.' Y…
/r/seduction31/01/15 09:25 PM
1

The secret is to practice. Cant approach? Do what you can. Ask for directions or for t he local gym (then also get a membership) or ask for the time. Do that about 10 times. Now ask 2 questions. Do this about 5 times. Then ask personal questions, then ask more questions. Keep adding to this/ Forget about the number for now, right now you have to walk through the mud, push through all the resistances and that your mind is putting forth, if you keep doing this you will succeed.
/r/seduction31/01/15 09:22 PM
3

when not talking i meant when neither of you is talking, if 1 of you is talking then you obviously keep eye contact. When she is talking, nod every now and then, this will show interest.
/r/seduction31/01/15 09:19 PM
1

Im not going to say shit to you like : Get her digits or on how to escalate. I dont know what your level is at, but use the following as a a template for approaching. Each time take it to a different level, thats how you will become good Do as many approaches as you can. Practice as much as you can. Dont jump ahead of your self. If you find it hard to approach, simply go up to people and ask for the time, or for a local gym (then get a membership too :P ), or any question you are comfortable ask…
/r/seduction31/01/15 09:17 PM
3

48 laws of power by Robert Greene is your best friend in life. Everyone wants power in a social interaction, and he goes through every law, some are dangerous and immoral but people use them every day without knowing what theyre doing. Read all of Robert Greene's books, they're all very deeply though out and true to the authors word. Remember he speaks laws not theories.
/r/seduction31/01/15 09:12 PM
1

You cannot make your analysis based of 3 approaches. If you do so, t he information you obtain will be very unreliable and invalid. I, myself, do not go to parties so I wouldn't know what it is like from your perspective. I have only done cold day approaches , and from my perspective, i would say you should approach more, get their digits and keep the conversation a bit longer. Escalate with hand holding first then move onto kissing. Truth is you miss 100% of the shots you don't take, so why not…
/r/seduction31/01/15 09:04 PM
2

What you want to do is to get the girl to talk about herself by continuously asking her questions about her interests and refrain from talking about yours. As you get to know more about her you will develop an element of mystery which will make her curious about YOUR interests and hobbies. This is your time to shine right? No and yes. Whenever she does ask you questions about yourself, you want to remain vague and never give the full answer. This will make her even more curious and the conversat…
/r/seduction31/01/15 08:57 PM
2

Don't rush things, you should be busy doing things that are important to you, not worrying about your next date WHILST at the same time setting up your dates in such a way that it barely occupies any of your time. Since you've already asked her once, you should give it 1 more shot before playing ghost for a couple of months until she pops up. When you ask, give her 2 dates to choose from e.g wednesday or friday. Dont just say "want to go out for golfing on saturday?", because truth it, they cant…
/r/seduction31/01/15 08:48 PM
1

I am too, you simply misunderstood the point i was trying to get across. My point was : just because youve got many girls, does not mean you are successful as a whole, only with girls... As for your fitness program, then i hope you keep it up, i still recommend that you take a look at MFT28 .
/r/seduction31/01/15 08:41 PM
1

I just forget to tell her my name then I forgot to ask her name. those statements contradict each other but i will assume the second is a typo. I wouldn't tell her my name unless she asks me. It is a test of interest, if she is interested , she will ask for your name after you ask for hers. Also, when she does say her name, talk about her name for a bit, pronounce it wrong or something, or just be legit and say "it sounds very unique".
/r/seduction31/01/15 06:53 PM
3

Eye contact is very necessary, you will want to keep it when you're talking and avoid eye contact when not talking which is known as staring. Practice eye contact with everyone , not just girls, with friends family and generally anyone you meet.
/r/seduction31/01/15 06:49 PM
1

Forget girls, you want success. Success does not come from girls it comes from your mindset. Want me to guarantee you success? Do the MFT28 program by Greg Plitt, he died last week, it only lasts 28 days. Like i said, that program will guarantee success. Take my word for it and become successful or take your own advice which has lead you to where you are today. The program can be found on bodybuilding .com or on youtube, a simple search will do. Got any questions? reply to this or message me.
/r/seduction31/01/15 06:47 PM
2

Talk to as many girls as you can. Look as good as possible. Ask for numbers. Hold hands. Keep eye contact Dont talk about yourself and youre achievements unless they ask. Talk clearly and loudly.
/r/seduction27/01/15 09:54 AM
1

It means "we wont see". ive experienced this and if it is anything less than a solid yes, it is a no.
/r/seduction27/01/15 09:50 AM
1

Sex is not totally necessary. You can kiss them and take them out like the other guy said. If they insist on sex just say youre taking it easy and you want to wait a little bit. Friendzoning aint gna get you anywhere, action is better than radio silence in this case.
/r/seduction26/01/15 01:00 PM
1

Dont talk to her about her ex. If she tries to do that then change the subject, in person just act not interested. Like i said, get the date. As for reading her then that is impossible. Just escalate in small steps (hold hands first), thats the only way to find out.
/r/seduction26/01/15 12:51 PM
2

You still shouldnt ask for nudes. In my opinion, when you first get to know a girl, texting should only be used to arrange dates. Also, if you like a chick, get her number in the first interaction. Dont wait. Then immediately sort out the date.
/r/seduction26/01/15 12:47 PM
2

Yeah dont, be excited when she turns up for the date. Dont forget to arrange one.
/r/seduction26/01/15 12:42 PM
1

Man i have experienced this exact thing. I saw her at the mall and thought she might like me, didnt approach. Next time i saw her i went in onetime. Youre just going to have to do it man, there is no other way than to just be a boss and fucking do it. However. I will let you in 1 technique i used. It is the way you think of the approach that allows you to do it. I thought to myself : "wait a second, time goes so fast, who the fuck cares what happens, im at the mall now, and before i know it i wi…
/r/seduction25/01/15 08:23 PM
3

You should at the very least hold hands on the first date. Kissing is not necessary until the second date. Don't just randomly touch her on her arm on the first date with the intention of kissing her, hold her hand first, then pull her in closer whilst maintaining eye contact. The only time you should ask a girl out is on text, dont arrange the second date after the first in person, no, wait until you get home and arrange for for a week later. And what kind of dates do you go on? coffee dates as…
/r/seduction25/01/15 08:17 PM
10

You can only learn past. That is why it is there. USE this knowledge to your advantage so that you dont fuck up your feature dates/ You didnt escalate? Next time you will. I is as simple as that. Just keep in contact with her and arrange a second date asap(a week after this one happened).
/r/seduction25/01/15 08:10 PM
1

Looks gives you an advantage but will not completely prohibit you from getting girls. Because if you are very ugly, then you're going to have to find a girl that has looks similar to yours. It is as simple as that. If you are very unattractive and keep approaching model looking girls, you're success rate will be low. However, if you combine ugly looks with either status or money, then this changes things a little bit. Quite a lot actually. Status/money somewhat adds to your 'looks department' , …
/r/seduction25/01/15 08:06 PM
1

Good question. Where do you take her? For the first date i do not recommend that you go out to eat or like a coffee date, instead you want something more active. Like golfing/bowling/concerts, anything that does not involve you 2 just sitting down together and talking. So choose something active that you like to do, and do that with her. What do you do? Dont go in for the kiss within like 5 minutes. I , myself, would not kiss on the first date(unless it went shit, if it was good, i wouldn't kiss…
/r/seduction25/01/15 07:47 PM
1

Get a date man. Just you and her, friends shouldnt be involved in this initial date. Do that, escalate on the date (hold hands, and kiss if you can). That is the only way to know if she likes you/ Judge people by their actions, not words (Law of power). IF she doesnt turn up - she doesnt have that much interest. If she does, she is interested because she already asked you if you like her, so she obviously likes you. If you need any more help, let me know.
/r/seduction25/01/15 07:34 PM
3

Wait so you haven't even met her? Don't ask girls for nudes again ahaha , that's the No.1 pedophile move online, please eliminate it from your repertoire. I'm going to assume you haven't met her, if that is so, then meeting her should be your first priority, not the nudes. So get the date, then turn up, escalate and do the usual. If you don't know what do on dates , ask. But arrange one first. No more 'nudes bullshit'.
/r/seduction25/01/15 07:31 PM
2

Dont worry about the accidental dial, unless she asks, dont say nothing. After all, it was an accident. arrange a date , make it an active one, like golfing/bowling, basically not coffee. Then just escalate how you usually would. The just take it from there.
/r/seduction25/01/15 07:27 PM
5

The fact that you made this thread, it is going to make you hesitate even more. Because youre bombarding you mind with so much information that it is not sure what to do, so you might back out. Stop making it so complicated, asking for a number is simple. You simply ask for a number. Done. You do not make a thread about how to ask for a number. This will lead to all KINDS of resistances in your mind. Trust me , if youre trying to memorize a script, or learn all these stupid pickup techniques, i …
/r/seduction25/01/15 07:23 PM
3

Nah dont meet up with them if youre busy. Dont tell them why youre busy unless they ask. Just re-arrange the date/meeting until another agreed time and it should be cool. You have to remember , getting girls is just a bonus to your life, your life shouldnt revolve around it. Like another user said "seduction has to take a back seat sometimes" , im going to add to this and say , seduction should always take a back seat. Your passions and life goals should take the front seat. Nope, it aint weird …
/r/seduction25/01/15 04:44 PM
5

no just respond straight away, if she likes you she wont give a fuck. And text at any time in the day, whenever the fuck you feel like it. Just don't keep the conversation long, keep it short and sweet. Ask about 2 personal questions then get the number and date sorted out immediately. Nope it is not creepy, it is however annoying if you continuously message her. So only 1 message at a time, dont bombard her. the ratio should be equal
/r/seduction25/01/15 04:40 PM
1

I dont really pull at clubs, im more into daygame, but anyhow, here is some stuff i know about 'club game'. First thing you want to make sure you do is you look as good as you can possibly look. In clubs, looks matter about 10% more than usual. So a fresh cut and look is necessary when keeping a girl attached to you throughout the night. Cologne will do all kinds of magic if applied correctly Now the techniques: One technique you might want to apply is shuffling. So what you want to do is keep m…
/r/seduction25/01/15 04:37 PM
2

A technique that i like to use to keep the conversation flowing and keep it interesting is to use mystery. Now, by mystery i do not mean creepy, if youre a creepy dude, youre not mysterious. Mysterious people are people that are charming yet hard to figure out, but when you talk to them, they always seem to be up to something rather thatn someone who always has free time to meet some bitch at a seconds notice. The mysterious guy is busy and generally has shit to do , so wont spend too much time …
/r/seduction24/01/15 09:09 PM
1

yeah forgot to mention that. If you're at the mall , then go indirect then direct. I've tried to go direct at the mall, but they think you're trying to get something from them lol, so you have to get them hooked, so they know that you're not a threat or trying to sell them some fucking product. So you get them to stop walking by asking a legit question that poses no threat, then once you've done that , you can ask about their profession or their name etc. Make sure to keep it short. At college i…
/r/seduction24/01/15 05:11 PM
1

Haha. Build some rapport before getting the digits. She has to think she knows you before she'll even meet up with you again
/r/seduction24/01/15 12:16 PM
2

First ask any indirect question. E.g "any idea where i can buy some healthy juices?". Then after she answers say something more direct. E.g "btw i noticex youve got a really artsy kind of vibs, you into arts at all?" if she says no ask what shea into. Then keep. It flowingfrom there. Also keep the convo directed towards her, always talk about her, bc righr knowshe dsnt giv a fuck aboit u
/r/seduction24/01/15 12:06 PM
1

Lucky. I got lucky like this too with my first girlfriend. She would be the one escalating on me.
/r/seduction24/01/15 12:01 PM
1

Do me a favor and say hello to her. And no its not awkard to ask for the digits. It is awkard TO NOT ask for the digits. So first talk to her Then ask her a few qs. Dont talk abt ur self unless she ask, always talk about her. Ask for digits. Bounce
/r/seduction23/01/15 06:35 PM
19

hesitation=masturbation
/r/seduction23/01/15 05:31 PM
1

Man, by the way it is going i think she wants you as a friend -- could be wrong though. You should have initiatef some kino, like hold her hand. Start off with holding hands and always keeping eye contact. What you need is more sexual tension, and eyr contact has been scientifically proven to increase hormones associated with sexual tension. So make sure to that. Also keep mystery, always keep the convo towrds hr,dnttalk bout urself unless she asks, wrn she does be vague. Go for the kiss in your…
/r/seduction23/01/15 03:45 PM
2

i just responded to a similar situation in this thread: http://redd.it/2t9owi If my answer helps you then great otherwise here is some things that might apply to your situation. Since your not exclusive to each other, i recommend that you go out and meet more women (i spoke about this in that link :), do not reveal your feelings to a girl, she will instantly take you for granted. I have never used the following tactic but i know from other peoples xp that it works. It is the jealousy tactic. So …
/r/seduction22/01/15 03:31 PM
0

Your friend was right, the only way to avoid the friendzone is to NEVER GET INTO IT. Mate I'm sorry to break it to you but whatever friend you have your eyes on now will stay as a friend. You will have to move on and find another girl. Dont bother finding techniques on "how to get out of the friendzone" , i know them all and im not even going to recommend a single one simply because the only way to avoid it is to never go in. If you do decide to ignore my advice and pursue your intuition, i can …
/r/seduction22/01/15 03:21 PM
1

also dont forget the number ahaha, in the middle of the convo just be like , "yeah blablabla, why dont you go ahead and give me your number?" , or just "whats your number?" . good luck with that girl.
/r/seduction22/01/15 03:04 PM
1

haha appreciate the compliment, but the truth with me is, i know too much and knowledge is not enough, action is important. Looks are very important, although you might not be male model looking you must work with what you have. I can help you with this if you want. Cologne will also be helpful for a date, i don't think it is TOO important for when you're first approaching, but throw it in there if you have one (otherwise buy one). Glad you understood the mystery part, use it wisely and she will…
/r/seduction22/01/15 02:34 PM
7

Judging from your initial thread description , i dont know if you want help on text game or infield game. But ill help you out on both. Text Game - Dont be saying anything stupid , no jokes, save the jokes for when youre meeting her, because the last thing you want her to think is that youre trying to hard to impress her. Dont try to impress her, that is how you impress her == by not impressing her!! Most guys will try to be funny with some witty remarks and tell them all their achievements and …
/r/seduction22/01/15 12:58 PM
2

Also make sure youre looking your best. Some people underestimate the power of looks. Although looks matter, they have to be used in conjunction with confidence. So always make sure youre as fresh as you can be when you go out to do your approaches. MAke sure you smell good, movie style haircut or just whatever looks best on you, and take care of your skin when necessary. Trust me these things all add up. When you do approach go indirect especially is youre going to do it on the fly i.e stop the…
/r/seduction22/01/15 12:36 PM
2

Ok, there is one crucial thing you must do, i repeat you must do this to make your kino go smoothly. That is keep eye contact when talking. This will increase sexual tensiom by a 100%. Take my word for it. Once you have that in place you will be good to go. So when you greet her give her a hug if you dont already. And do a proper hug not a side one. Then when you get on the train, talk fot a bit whilst maintaining eye contact. Then, when it feels right, hold her hand and see how she responds to …
/r/seduction22/01/15 11:10 AM
2

There is no magical way to seduce anyone. Even if someone claimed to have one, chances are it will only work for them because thats what works for them due to finding out after alot of xp with girls. I know this might sound off topic but you seem to be looking for a magical pill when you havent got the foundation grounded yet. Here is my advice: do a 100 approaches. Log each one down and learn from your mistakes. This is the only way to see what works and doesnt work for you. You might find that…
/r/seduction22/01/15 10:57 AM
5

Basically, you keep taking the direct approach and not every girl will respond well to that. So instead, you will start taking the indirect approach to get them hooked in then move in direct. If someone were to read your text convos on a microphone in front of millions of people, you wouldnt feel embarassed. Keep your flirting for the dates, on text just try to get the date set up, not to build a connection. Hope i helped.
/r/seduction22/01/15 10:48 AM
1

Cheers man, what it all comes down to is doing your approaches. People keep doing everything except approaching or find ways around it. Just like the gym you have to do your reps and sets to become good. :)
/r/seduction22/01/15 10:43 AM
1

Start looking at everyone as your equal. Woman are not superhuman neither are you. So stop looking at them in that light. Also guess what? this is going to take time, youre going to do your reps and sets to get better. Same way at the gym u gotta do yur reps and sets, same with girls. And dont tell anyone about it, dont allude to it. Keep this shit to urself. Why? results will speak for you, no need for you to talk about it. I recommend u do a 100 approaches within 4 months, log each one down, d…
/r/seduction21/01/15 11:26 AM
1

Well done, simplepickup also recommended this technique during lecture time or in sessions when u cant talk to anyone
/r/seduction21/01/15 11:18 AM
1

Amazing report. How goodlooking would yourfriends rate you? Also where can i post a journal on my daily pickup stuff? im doing a 100 approaches at the moment starting today.
/r/seduction21/01/15 11:02 AM
1

I read a lot of books, especially ones by robert greene. I dont think pua books are necessary. As for approaching, im doin a 100 approach challenge starting today bc yesterday i fucked up.
/r/seduction21/01/15 10:51 AM
You can kill a man, but you can't kill an idea.

© TheRedArchive 2026. All rights reserved.
created by /u/dream-hunter