How much does smiling and being "fun" matter?

oldredder · 2015-03-08T21:58:41+00:00

If you're not dangerous, if you're not fun, then what's her reason to be interested in you? Money? I know some guys who don't joke around but they're tough as nails and attract women who want guys that are rough assholes.

Soultrane9 · 2015-03-08T16:24:56+00:00

It's possible to pull it off. No night game tho, you will just be labeled as boring.

letmeseeyourrealface · 2015-03-08T16:52:20+00:00

You don't have to smile. I don't smile a lot either. But I do smile when I have to smile. Some guys seem to smile 24/7. Joking is cool though, try to just tease her by the way she acts. You don't have to be a comedian.

bsutansalt · 2015-03-09T12:41:12+00:00

As a guy who never smiles or jokes a lot with girls, do this hurt my chances much?

Yes. And no. It depends. You need to stimulate women's emotions. Being upbeat joking around and stuff gives them one type of stimulation, but so does being serious and brooding. The trick is to be able to change things up. That ping/pong from positive to negative, that push-pull, is really what it's about.

Title	How much does smiling and being "fun" matter?
Author	ineversmileamifucked
Upvotes	2
Comments	4
Date	March 8, 2015 4:07 PM UTC (11 years ago)
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