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Sadly my family can't wrap their head around why I won't marry. I won't throw away my life's work because some woman decided to cheat on me or just got bored and leaves.
/r/MensRights03/07/19 05:41 PM
1

is almost a lie Good, the opposite side piles lies upon lies upon lies, go for it.
/r/askTRP21/10/18 10:26 AM
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I would hear on the YouTube comments section of a rsdpickup video Good observation! It's because this "Amused Mastery" answer was an idea from the really early days of PuA which TRP adapted. It mostly worked because nobody was doing it and when you are out trying to get a one night stand it's a good approach. It also worked because it was used mostly by early 20s people (read: nobodies). It's probably not that interesting that you are a coffee making intern at $company. It's still the goto answe…
/r/askTRP21/10/18 08:32 AM
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So uh everyone barfed up the bullshit option, which is nice until she laughs at it and asks it again and/or you are trying to have a conversation with the other person (weird concept, right?). I'm also in IT and it's a bad idea to say that, I suggest to tell the domain you are working in. I'm working on bank software so I tell them I'm in the banking sector.
/r/askTRP20/10/18 10:36 PM
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It is the country is basically fucked...
/r/MGTOW12/08/18 09:22 PM
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I liked the lead engineer at my last gig. Balding dude in his 40s raking in horrible amount of money. He always wear the cheapest most basic clothes. I'm pretty sure that's why.
/r/MGTOW12/08/18 01:34 PM
3

Hungarian here. To be fair we are around 40 years behind lol.
/r/MGTOW12/08/18 11:26 AM
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Hungarian here. We are an illiberal democracy run by the maffia, feminist shouting does nothing here.
/r/MGTOW12/08/18 11:25 AM
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To be fair my last GF was an anal queen and that's my new standard now lol.
/r/MGTOW27/07/18 10:04 PM
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That's what Linkedin is for fam.
/r/MGTOW27/07/18 02:26 PM
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Haha yes nice autism.
/r/MGTOW23/07/18 04:45 PM
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https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=78-4RobJQ0Y
/r/MGTOW23/07/18 02:36 PM
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Yeah I'm a Java contractor. If you are not already balls deep in the topic at 20 you are probably better off with a trade. Just choose something you enjoy doing. Network a lot, try to get into a real-world job. Always improve yourself, put in the actual work. Get good enough so you can become independent. Build on your failures rather than feeling sorry for yourself. I'm a 2-times college dropout and fucked up many times during the past years. Have a somewhat clear goal, don't let people and har…
/r/MGTOW23/07/18 04:25 AM
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PUA was also great before it got mainstream. That community got me rolling with girls in college, good times.
/r/MGTOW23/07/18 01:00 AM
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Oh man you don't even know. I've managed to get into a position in my career that I can take a 3 months long project and make enough money for a year. I'm already done for the year and have built a home gym. Working on my startup then taking another project if I run out. This would have been impossible with my ex, I would be working a dead-end moderately paying job to support a family.
/r/MGTOW23/07/18 12:48 AM
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Haha link me an appropriate comic fam :D
/r/MGTOW18/07/18 02:59 PM
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there's no good reason to date someone ugly I disagree I have a kink for ugly flat women. I know I'm terrible but what can you do.
/r/MGTOW18/07/18 02:34 PM
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https://hyperboleandahalf.blogspot.com/2010/04/alot-is-better-than-you-at-everything.html Fucking learn it already it drives me crazy
/r/MGTOW18/07/18 02:30 PM
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Still not worth my friend. When asked for an opinion about these matters just say "I don't know I love women" and that's it. Don't waste your own time and energy.
/r/MGTOW18/07/18 02:28 PM
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shamed hard by the old hens. I don't really notice women above 30 so I'm not encountering it that much. In work places I just say I have a girlfriend, nobody knows. Sounds like a lot of work Yeah if you don't enjoy casual social encounters it is. I do enjoy the company of young girls, they are full of life.
/r/MGTOW17/07/18 11:34 PM
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By the time a man is in his mid 30s finding a woman that doesn't have kids is pretty much impossible Oh you can, I'm approaching mid 30s and it's never been easier to bag 20 year olds. If you have a bit of money and bit of muscle it's so easy it's almost boring. I usually keep at least 2 on the roster they balance each other out, you should try it.
/r/MGTOW17/07/18 10:23 PM
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A few years ago I was working out with a power lifting coach. I remember on a particular noon workout (which was major girls-at-the-gym time there) he pointed to look around to see I'm the only one sweating.
/r/MGTOW17/07/18 05:15 PM
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If you don't have sweat glands sure. Otherwise those squats/deadlifts should make you sweat like a fountain.
/r/MGTOW17/07/18 05:13 PM
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4 . Too much stability because it's boring
/r/MGTOW17/07/18 03:03 PM
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Money. You pay lower taxes when married and have more access to free money the more children you have. In Hungary the gov started to hand out a lot of money if you agree in a contract you will have 3 children. Also they drop the woman's student loan - yes just the woman's.
/r/TheRedPill21/05/18 08:03 PM
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As someone already said in this thread, if you start doing something because women, you are doing it wrong. I lift because I enjoy it. I play games because I enjoy it. I don't fix stuff because I don't give a shit about it. I don't go to latin dance lessons because that's not interesting to me, even if I miss 2 new blowjobs every week. You'll get the biggest return from what interests you the most, no calculations are needed.
/r/askTRP10/05/18 09:02 AM
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Yeah it's MTG, because I choose activities based on my interests and not how attractive theoretically they are to strangers....
/r/askTRP10/05/18 08:50 AM
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When I did the exit interview after a 4 years LTR: Me: You will tell the next guy you were used and abused right? Her: Yes that's for sure! Me: Will you share that you were asking for it and enjoyed every minute of it? silence
/r/TheRedPill09/05/18 12:50 PM
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Lol no you are not, women are too old for that at 35. Go for it.
/r/TheRedPill23/04/18 12:48 PM
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I'm not sure how people get these experiences. I had sex for 4 years without protection with 2 LTRs. No one will get pregnant because you stick it in them raw. Don't be a jackass and pull out just the last second, stop doing it in time and that's it...
/r/TheRedPill23/04/18 12:47 PM
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Luck is part of the skill. I could kill people when they say I'm lucky with my high earning career. Fuck off it has very little to do with luck...
/r/TheRedPill23/04/18 12:33 PM
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All of that and you still manage to be a dumb faggot, good job. You are a weak pussy who is afraid to talk to women. You are so happy while being a successful software entrepreneur you are convincing yourself the reason you don't hit on women is... anything but you being a joke without balls. :D I'm happy you found your mum dead, serves you right. Hopefully you will find your children dead in the future as well, I wish all the best luck for that. If you reply you admit being a cum eating cuckold…
/r/askTRP15/04/18 06:44 PM
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This USA thing sounds more and more like a joke, this is so dumb I cannot express myself correctly.
/r/askTRP15/04/18 09:22 AM
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Nothing will motivate you, you prefer cheap and easy time wastes instead of efficient work in both personal and professional areas of your life.
/r/askTRP15/04/18 09:18 AM
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lol faggot
/r/askTRP15/04/18 08:43 AM
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Do whatever the fuck you want nobody cares.
/r/askTRP15/04/18 08:40 AM
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Because it's refreshing in the sea of beta attention. Of course it only works if you are not faking it because you are actually busy with stuff and actually don't care whether you attract them or not. Too many retarded college guys here are trying to fake some kind of fun life to project instead of actually building it without realizing they are sabotaging themselves instead of just owning up the ramen eating video game playing lifestyle.
/r/askTRP15/04/18 08:39 AM
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They do, I dated one during college. Their downside is the only reason they haven't sucked 30 dicks is because they come from a small sheltered community. But they still go fo chad, as a virgin faggot you have 0 chance of landing one.
/r/askTRP15/04/18 08:31 AM
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How do I meet some true friends Yeah they don't exist. You are looking for a similar thing you had in your teens, but you won't find it, even if you go fucking salsa dancing or cooking classes or whatever bullshit people are coming up with. What you will find is just acquaintances for shorter or longer intervals. If you meet someone at the gym that "friendship" will last until you both go to the same gym. If you meet a "friend" during volunteering, that will last until you both volunteer at the …
/r/askTRP15/04/18 08:25 AM
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You are both moronic faggots. You are far away from being a father figure, please stop reproducing. I won't comment on what to do, it's obvious...
/r/askTRP15/04/18 08:13 AM
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Both get the first part in the first part of the relationship, then both gets the second one in the later part. There are too many misconceptions about what it's like having money in this sub, too many broke college students probably.
/r/askTRP15/04/18 07:52 AM
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Sounds like a GF, without the her paying part.
/r/PussyPassDenied01/02/18 11:39 PM
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I don't think you can afford my daily rate, but thanks.
/r/askTRP01/02/18 10:39 PM
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You should see a professional about your mental problems, this is just sad.
/r/askTRP01/02/18 10:24 PM
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I'm telling you you are a hopeless moron and fuck off already, nobody is congratulating you in this thread, have you read it? :D
/r/askTRP01/02/18 04:56 PM
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Fuck off faggot.
/r/askTRP01/02/18 02:55 PM
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Keep focusing on things that matter. Women don't matter. Her life quest to procreate doesn't matter. Forget this particular one and live like a man. Once you hit 28 you will laugh about it all.
/r/askTRP27/01/18 06:40 PM
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Fuck off faggot. Meeting with ex IS the weak move. Just tell her something came up or even better just ghost her, dont even cancel stand her up
/r/askTRP27/01/18 06:26 PM
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It's your body language that comes off autistic. The situation in itself is perfectly fine. I'm not gonna ask someone I just met You can, the problem is you are not reading HER body language and her situation correctly. Videos are cringy because cold approaching outside the bar/club is cringy. If she is locking eye contact, smiles back at you, you can ask to hang out. Otherwise realize it's just a person next to you and is being friendly without wanting to be hit on. Seduction theory suggests co…
/r/TheRedPill18/01/18 10:02 AM
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The whole world needs to lighten up Then good news, this bullshit is just happening in the USA. Oh but you said world so it's technically true am I right Burger?
/r/MensRights13/01/18 10:20 AM
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You are an entrepreneur living at home. Girls are attracted to your physical appearance then smell you are bullshit. Might be that insecurity tbh Or that's your instinct yelling at you to actually do your mission instead of trying to get laid.
/r/askTRP26/11/17 12:08 AM
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to check my work if it is perfect It's not, fuck off. I just want it to be perfect for everyone It won't be, fuck off again. Your focus is completely off. What's your mission?
/r/askTRP26/11/17 12:03 AM
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no code of honor They never had, don't blame it on modern times.
/r/MensRights10/08/17 03:48 PM
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just an ego issue. Nah, it's instinct. If you don't need to vomit when you think about the fact that your GF of 6 years got pounded by others means there is something wrong with your brain. Now not moving on from it IS an ego issue I agree.
/r/PussyPassDenied31/12/16 01:13 PM
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there are a lot of genuinely sexist fucks here. Good.
/r/PussyPassDenied25/07/16 08:04 AM
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You are just a bunch of Cunts tbqh fam.
/r/PussyPassDenied18/07/16 10:50 AM
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That's a white knight sub. Just for ya.
/r/PussyPassDenied14/08/15 04:48 PM
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And he can smash that with the power of 1000 suns after that. crazy i know
/r/PussyPassDenied01/05/15 09:30 AM
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Thanks for your life perspective. I'm 25 and has been working on a similar style and had these ideas floating around in my head.
/r/TheRedPill22/04/15 07:33 AM
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I have never been to Asia i can't advice you. You should seek mentorship from someone who lives the lifestyle you want.
/r/askTRP18/04/15 01:01 PM
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Fuck off then.
/r/askTRP18/04/15 11:31 AM
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90% of the article doesn't say anything. The remaining suggests that women are getting raped and killed and somehow it's men's responisbility (yours and mine) to stop that. Oh and it's sucks to be a male who hasn't figured it out in ~30 years of living he should fucking lift. The chick who cries rape says that his boyfriend wanted his cock sucked but she "wasn't in the mood". So it's our fault (yours and mine) that she is with a percieved nerdy beta, who turns out is not 100% beta. TL;DR: Poor S…
/r/askTRP18/04/15 11:29 AM
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https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=EBcflBBGKhE
/r/askTRP18/04/15 10:59 AM
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Just do classic handshake. Other forms are indicator of faggotry.
/r/askTRP18/04/15 10:55 AM
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You cannot really do shit living home. Moving out should be your priority, LTRing a 18yo as a 19yo is a joke, but you will find that out yourself in the future.
/r/askTRP18/04/15 06:02 AM
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Do you have the skills? I'm currently trying to start an enterprise backend outsourcing company in eastern europe.
/r/askTRP18/04/15 06:00 AM
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Figure it out yourself. That's the point of TRP.
/r/askTRP17/04/15 10:03 AM
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Yeah i hope my potential investor won't see it that way.
/r/askTRP17/04/15 08:47 AM
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Oh boy, i fucking miss r/seduction before it became overrun by idiots. TRP is one thing but it never discusses game. Understanding negs is a hard topic. You can't just neg out of the blue, you have to understand how to do it and when to do it. The rule of thumb is she has to bring the neg onto herself. Think about it more as a shit test from you. She tells you a story? If you were telling that story on which part would girls shit test you? Do that, but be sure to build enough comfort first. Othe…
/r/askTRP17/04/15 08:06 AM
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Invest into a startup software company.
/r/askTRP17/04/15 07:57 AM
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That would be the "Artist" part in PUA.
/r/askTRP17/04/15 07:54 AM
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It's to be a 10 also. You are welcome. If you are not your only chance is getting her half-drunk and exploit her insecurities.
/r/askTRP17/04/15 07:48 AM
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She wants your time without sex. You want sex without giving your time. It's up to you to balance these aspects. Having sex once in a month is not a relationship. You might be in one but i promise you she isn't.
/r/askTRP17/04/15 07:47 AM
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You can keep her as a plate but i wouldn't even invest the time for a text from now on. If she calls she can come to your place suck your dick and leave.
/r/askTRP17/04/15 07:40 AM
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No, she wasn't, that's what i'm trying to point out. One is not until proven otherwise by them. And that's not possible in a month, you need 6-18 months to find that fact out. That's why the guys on TRP suggest a minimum of 6 month plate status before even thinking of LTRing someone.
/r/askTRP13/04/15 08:40 AM
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No no my friend don't state logical conclusions to a woman. But if you still considering an LTR with this hoe you can whatever you want.
/r/askTRP13/04/15 08:07 AM
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seems to like beta characteristics? Common manipulation from women. They reward weak behaviour in order to keep control.
/r/askTRP13/04/15 07:46 AM
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You are weak, poor, spineless, small. Or you have the same name as her last boyfriend or some shit.
/r/askTRP13/04/15 07:04 AM
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She's already told me that I don't seem to be respecting her boundaries You are right, see ya.
/r/askTRP04/04/15 12:25 AM
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Bottom line is, you are trying and she is not. Answering after "and your mom doesn't count" was a waste of time and bandwith.
/r/askTRP04/04/15 12:23 AM
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Not sure. Would face fuck her tho.
/r/askTRP03/04/15 10:12 AM
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I am fairly sure that if I see a prostitute I won't be able to do that anymore Nigga wut
/r/askTRP03/04/15 10:11 AM
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The commest so far are about her but not about you. I want to talk about you. I tell her sarcasticly that "I'm not that easy" I feel you are trying to do the fake it until make it approach. Which is good, but you haven't made it yet and an experienced woman will pick it up from you body language. Also, since it's not obvious to you, she is already playing control with sex. But with kisses. Let's forget about red flags and what about her. Face it rationally, your frame is in the developing from z…
/r/askTRP02/04/15 08:13 AM
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do you really blame women for taking advantage of it? No, that's the core of TRP. People read for half an hour and make opinions. We accept and agree. We play around it. That's the point.
/r/askTRP23/03/15 10:33 AM
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I get it. He is mad at the broad. And? This has nothing to do with you.
/r/askTRP21/03/15 01:35 PM
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I can figure out her value I don't really see the correlation here. If you don't see anyone in orbit that's good. It's possible she doesn't have any. She probably gets enough attention at work and doesn't have the need for them.
/r/askTRP21/03/15 01:34 PM
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Sadly this is not something we can comment on without actually watching you. Probably something with your body language.
/r/askTRP21/03/15 01:17 PM
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"You shouldn't call or text me". K. Then you don't. What's so hard? I can't fucking understand people.
/r/askTRP21/03/15 01:13 PM
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Do whatever the fuck you want neither of us give a shit if you slave away in a 9-5 desk job or eat ramen everyday while clicking Ableton or some shit for hours. Making money off music is not about creating the music anymore. Nobody buys music. Especially if you are just clicking bars in a software instead of actually playing an instrument.
/r/askTRP21/03/15 01:04 PM
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As a college guy hunting on thursday night in pubs? Yes. As a 30's business guy doing day game on 20's? Nah.
/r/askTRP20/03/15 04:09 PM
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It's possible to pull off if you understood the material. The question is rather is it worth it? Probably no.
/r/askTRP20/03/15 04:04 PM
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An angle most guys forget and is important: in my experience when they are nearing their period (~1 week) it's not that enjoyable to have sex.
/r/askTRP19/03/15 09:31 AM
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is considered clingy in my school Nono, you should consider this: how many random dudes do IM/text girls? LOT. If you don't understand how much it will stand you out, you are not ready. This is a point where you can practice keeping frame. If you call a girl a get shit from it, that is the place to keep frame. You WANTED to call, so you did. Secondly, HS game is still about status. Just not global status but in-school status. The answer to your question lies here: what's your status and what's h…
/r/askTRP18/03/15 09:12 AM
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I only use it because fuckers stopped using MSN messenger. I talk to about 5 people sometimes. I'm in a group where we share politically incorrect and 4chan-esque images. I find people who use social media for more than private chats with IRL companions are garbage tier, waste of food and oxygen if you like.
/r/askTRP17/03/15 03:49 PM
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I get that you want to prolong the relationship, but at this point it's not about you but about her. You expect certain behaviour. You make the rules. Make them clear. If you are not willing to act upon her violation of your rules, prolonging the relationship is like slowly putting a needle in your dick hole.
/r/askTRP17/03/15 03:44 PM
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There is about 2 global firms who will reject you because of your GPA. The other 32151356 firms won't give a shit, it's not a make or break point.
/r/askTRP17/03/15 09:18 AM
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LOL no, but keep thinking that :)
/r/askTRP17/03/15 09:14 AM
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I'm just not physically attracted to older women I actually find them attractive. IF they have been hitting the gym consistently for the past couple of years. So i'm attracted to about 0,5% of older women.
/r/TheRedPill17/03/15 09:05 AM
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and a lot of younger women like older guys EVERY fucking one of them likes older guys. The ones who claim they don't is domain dependent.
/r/TheRedPill17/03/15 08:57 AM
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working in a shit HR position and calls that a job ASDF:ASD:FAS:DF:ASDF:ASDF: AS:DFA:DF:ASDF:ADF:AS:DF Thanks.
/r/TheRedPill17/03/15 08:53 AM
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I disagree, TRP is the last thing he needs right now. You want to dump on him all these shit about hypergamy? When he is depressed? Instead of that, go and have some fun. Buy escorts. Smoke weed. Shit like that.
/r/askTRP16/03/15 07:24 PM
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Not really, the last time i tried getting girls in chat rooms i was 14. If you are not ripped you won't get anything out of it.
/r/askTRP16/03/15 06:41 PM
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Girl from my BP days Soo... from the present days? If you are commited to this girl you are a faggot :D
/r/askTRP16/03/15 05:26 PM
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Piece of advice from a guy who loves to slay sheltered girls: The main error the fathers commit is they only teach the girls what they shouldn't do. They WILL have a sex drive and you should teach them HOW to choose a mate. Otherwise they might end up on my 40 yo tattoo artist's bed who tells me he should wash his sheets because too many virgin girls bleed on it last week.
/r/TheRedPill16/03/15 04:01 PM
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Don't be afraid to fail. That's how all of us learned. Also when you analyze your outcomes, consider your current socio-economic status and the age difference. Both of these should grow with the years you invest in self-building. You will realize a correlation between them and your success rate.
/r/askTRP09/03/15 12:20 PM
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How much do you pay?
/r/askTRP09/03/15 12:02 PM
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I don't think she will. What i'm saying, as a rule of thumb, she WILL contact you if she is interested. It's easy to determine if a girl likes you. She will initiate conversations. You did good by throwing her ass out. She instantly messaged you. You gone wrong where you tried to pass a shit-test trough text, and your approach would have failed IRL too. "sort of seeing someone" means she is fucking someone who doesn't care. You are considering LTRing her even without dicking her first. With the …
/r/askTRP09/03/15 12:00 PM
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LOL dude you are a living awkward comedy. You went to her THREE (3) times. And on the top of that you managed to ignore her IRL. She thinks you are a sorry ass faggot. Acknowledge her IRL, saying hi is enough. You don't need to chat. The social media delete is on you, i do that from time to time when i don't speak to somebody for months.
/r/askTRP09/03/15 11:50 AM
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First, the term "hooked up" means sex. Second, you should have just ingored her message. You failed big time, she is not interested. If she is, she will contact you. Next.
/r/askTRP09/03/15 11:43 AM
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So my question is what are some good options? Growing a pair of balls. Try that.
/r/askTRP09/03/15 11:39 AM
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Maybe turn off the computer?
/r/askTRP09/03/15 11:29 AM
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I think the main problem is on this sub people imagine alphas as ripped tall rich dudes. You need neither of those to be an alpha.
/r/TheRedPill09/03/15 11:14 AM
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It's possible to pull it off. No night game tho, you will just be labeled as boring.
/r/askTRP08/03/15 04:24 PM
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No it just reveals your narrow mind and the inability to comprehend your experience is not universal law and your opinion is not eternal truth.
/r/TheRedPill08/03/15 09:20 AM
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Better is what works for you. Not everyone can pull off day game. Night game is also a different set of skills. Night game is about timing. Different kinds of people hang out at different days. You can find the really young folk on the weekend night in cheap pubs. You can find the workaholic around 30 people in cocktail pubs at Friday nights from 8 PM. On Thrusday college bars are filled.
/r/TheRedPill08/03/15 09:13 AM
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It's because how Eastern Europian capital cities work. Any other city you wouldn't last long. There is a liveable expat bubble in every one of them. You live good because your currency is much stronger than the country's own. Amsterdam is the place to go if you are a 20-30 male ^ ^ Party catpital, every rich eastern Europian girl flies there for weeks to smoke weed. It's an Euro country. Much better investment financially.
/r/askTRP04/03/15 11:10 AM
1

Yeah i also get laughed at when i mention gardening. I mean if you have a laid back hobby other than drinking you will get laughet at.
/r/askTRP04/03/15 08:39 AM
2

They can't wait for an alpha to pick them up. Between the road from school to home not many alphas approach them. Oh and are you asking are club girls DTF? Really? That's the point of going to a club. Grinding on your girl friends while betas give free attention and sometimes an alpha shows up. That's why they shake their fucking booty until 4 AM.
/r/askTRP04/03/15 08:36 AM
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They are <10 boys. Take them to the fucking arcade or something. Or a fighter dog training maybe so you can feel good about yourself.
/r/askTRP04/03/15 08:28 AM
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Just chose a random Capital city. I live in Budapest. Don't go much easter than Budapest, war 'n shit happening there. The downtown of Budapest is expat friendly. The country is cheap if you are spending your dollars. The expat areas are over priced but you probably won't have an issue with prices. There is a large pool of attractive 7-8 college girls, the problem is you won't meet them if you just stay in the expat areas. The downtown is too expensive for your average college person. On the oth…
/r/askTRP04/03/15 08:25 AM
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I texted her a "Hi, are you okay" And he states he knows what he is doing. LOL. Anyway if you are interested in commiting go ahead and do so. If you just want another fuckbuddy, agree on keeping the distance and radio silence. If she is not initiating then next.
/r/askTRP04/03/15 08:10 AM
2

Do you think the ability to dirty talk is the give away? When i was out playing the field i found a correlation between inexperience and the absence of dirty talk.
/r/TheRedPill02/03/15 01:43 PM
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OP stated he is not really interested in the girl. He is acting towards his desired outcome.
/r/TheRedPill02/03/15 01:35 PM
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What the fuck are you talking about? Are you high or some shit?
/r/TheRedPill02/03/15 01:33 PM
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I disagree with the never give a fuck opinion. OP seems like he cared. He cared because he wanted to. If you want to, do it. If it drives away the woman, THEN comes in the "who cares". Call it a male shit test. I take 1-2 days off every month to just smoke weed and play video games. No work, no lifting. Because i want to. If my LTR loses attraction because i'm not wood chopping 24/7 i'm better off being single spinning plates.
/r/TheRedPill28/02/15 09:50 AM
4

When i was in high school i was often wondering what's sexy on a man because i had no idea. Now i know i was clueless because there was almost 0 attractive guys.
/r/TheRedPill26/02/15 12:05 PM
6

Call it selfish I have to vomit from non-selfish people. If you are not putting yourself first you are moron.
/r/TheRedPill26/02/15 11:28 AM
1

I live in middle-eastern Europe. I had one girl say no to weed ever. Even if they don't smoke regularly it's a thrilling experience to them. Jacked guy with tattoos and weed. They cannot say no.
/r/TheRedPill26/02/15 11:19 AM
3

Keep in mind there isn't a default flip. It's a transition of years of hard work paying off.
/r/TheRedPill26/02/15 11:05 AM
5

It's a great reference point. If the blowjobs are not when you want and how you want, you have work to do.
/r/TheRedPill26/02/15 11:02 AM
1

Text for logistics only. Otherwise it's a waste of time.
/r/askTRP24/02/15 12:28 PM
1

You won't find out the truths, but she is shady. I wanted to write some details, but it really doesn't matter because you will be going to Aisa. And that's when this relationship ends. Don't kid yourself, she will fuck others. You can keep fucking her until you leave but in no way try to be a dumb fuck and invest in this girl any more.
/r/askTRP24/02/15 12:28 PM
1

Delete this abomination and compose your words like you have an IQ above 90.
/r/askTRP24/02/15 12:16 PM
1

I started by asking the time from strangers. Or general directions.
/r/askTRP24/02/15 12:12 PM
1

What should i have done differently Leaving the scene when you cannot keep frame / forced into another man's frame. Or even better: not putting yourself in a situation which challenges your frame for no reason. First off, it's a plate. You don't go to chit-chat with her friends and giving them rides home. You only meet her because you want to fuck her. If you have time for these kind of social gatherings you are not a busy man; and you should be. If you decide to go, because you want to wish her…
/r/askTRP24/02/15 12:10 PM
1

Keep it up. Cut her out. Ignore the mother she can go fuck herself with a cactus.
/r/askTRP24/02/15 11:53 AM
1

clit piercing, former bartender LOL dude you serious? :D No 9-10s please, give me an 8 I'm not sure 8 is the way to go. It might seem the right call but in the end it will be the same. If you are not 10 ofc.
/r/askTRP24/02/15 11:50 AM
1

had a good loyal and honest woman and created a family with her I think this will happen to me as well at some point in the future. I just turned 25 and my LTR is 22. I was her first. I started to focus on starting my business and work out more than before. I think it's just a few years and she will slip up. Too bad i won't mind it lol.
/r/TheRedPill24/02/15 10:58 AM
3

Why do you talk to kids instead of living your life ? O_o
/r/TheRedPill23/02/15 10:27 AM
2

30 year old kids complaining on a forum is not better.
/r/TheRedPill23/02/15 09:52 AM
2

I'm a half gypsy man living in middle-eastern Europe in a captial city. I always hated being one growing up, the country is pretty racist. Until in college is discovered PUA stuff and found out white chicks just get turned on by default if i'm assertive. I'm like the forbidden fruit because their religious upbringing (which is almost always racist here by default). I'm fucking glad to be only half it's the perceft balance. On the other hand i'm happy blacks don't live here we couldn't out-compet…
/r/TheRedPill17/02/15 06:29 PM
2

I heard that it's easy to get pussy there as a tall white man. Do thai men not defend their women? I heard it's also easy in japan to get pussy but in social settings japanese men often will ask you to leave if you hit on women.
/r/TheRedPill17/02/15 09:20 AM
3

You don't need to react to everything. That's her opinion. Let her have it.
/r/askTRP16/02/15 03:17 PM
1

Without being there, it's hard to tell. I give OP the befenit of the doubt he is not lending his race car from orbit. But yes, you are correct.
/r/askTRP16/02/15 03:10 PM
1

Be aware tho, you will be shit tested by your peers if you hold this rule. Especially if you go for people who are below your group's SMV. I smashed a 5 from my friend's girlfriend's circle one time. Because it was free. She just offered her pussy after two bottles of wine. The amount of shit i was getting at the next social gathering from the other girls was sad. The guys also liked to point at ugly girls and ask me if i want to take her home. But at least i got to learn how to spot a friend.
/r/askTRP16/02/15 02:40 PM
3

Have I handled this situation in the right way? LOL. You could have smashed her pussy with the force of 1000 suns. she pokes her tongue out at me and does it anyway This was an open invitation to put her in her place. You could have commanded her to pay for the damages with her body. Instead you got butthurt for some reason.... ? This one is lost, next.
/r/askTRP16/02/15 02:21 PM
1

it's not that simple who I should be approaching... My rule of thumb back in college when i was starting up was "would i get a boner to that creature's naked body"? If the answer is yes then you should approach. Escalation is key. My record for making out is 20 seconds after saying hi, and 2 hours for sex after saying hi. What's yours?
/r/askTRP16/02/15 02:16 PM
6

I... I don't know what kind of advice are you looking for. You know you are a moron. Dis but a fling created by the right circumstances. Bussiness Man on a work trip. She will lose interest as soon as you stop being a Bussiness Man on a work trip (as she already started).
/r/askTRP16/02/15 02:09 PM
1

if I give her better sex will that see a reduction in her misbehaviour? Yes it will. How do you plan to do that?
/r/askTRP16/02/15 02:00 PM
4

so she'll not constantly having guys hitting on her. Haha good luck.
/r/askTRP16/02/15 12:52 PM
1

If she is truly interested then she'll hit me up. If you actually do anything beside hitting on girls this will only happen once every year or two.
/r/askTRP16/02/15 12:50 PM
-1

No
/r/askTRP16/02/15 12:48 PM
-1

Yes
/r/askTRP16/02/15 12:48 PM
2

That's why you separate your work and private lives. In your private life you can afford that a table of people thinks you are a jerk / asshole who gives a shit. In your work life you HAVE to game you collegues. You are creating a public IMAGE of yourself. It's not you, it's your public image. You HAVE to care about your public image and sometimes that means to pretend to give a shit. On the inside you still don't give any but you realize your public image is more important than you ego.
/r/askTRP16/02/15 12:48 PM
2

Game is an important part of the whole picture. Disregarding it is like skipping leg day.
/r/askTRP15/02/15 11:48 AM
6

As someone who have been pranked in high school with a letter from a hot girl in my valentine's box - yes it is a dude.
/r/askTRP12/02/15 02:51 PM
8

It can be two things. She is insecure and is actually worried you are cheating. If this is the case tell her that you don't need to cheat. You are with her because you choose to and you would without hesitation drop her if you would to decide to fuck others. It can also be a projection and she is the one cheating. No advice needed here. Find out which one it is. If it's the former you cannot just use fucking amused mastery. You have a responsibility to your LTR's emotional well being. You have t…
/r/askTRP12/02/15 02:17 PM
3

Nah not really, i will be busy in my garden and won't give a fuck about old bitches.
/r/TheRedPill12/02/15 01:47 PM
2

Building muscle is 70% eating 20% sleeping and 10% training. Assuming you are doing these factors right the only remaning explanation for not developing muscles is low testosterone.
/r/askTRP12/02/15 01:32 PM
2

No need to hide it. You assume the girls will want commitment from you. In reality majority of them just want to have sex and not that attachment shit. You have to realize in no way will you find an attractive girl who is not having guys beside you, at least on the orbit or flirting. You don't need to state the non-exclusivity, it's obvious from the start. If she asks, don't deny fucking others. If she has a problem with it (because she wants commitment) and you don't give it to her she will mov…
/r/askTRP12/02/15 01:22 PM
-1

Stop using fagbook (and social media) for starters. If you find yourself questioning wheter your actions are beta or not they are. If she brings up the topic own up your opionion but don't try to dominate her. First, it's your workplace you fucking moron. Second, she probably already sees you as a beta and there is too much disgust when a perceived beta tries to act alpha. "Yes the picture was hot". End of conversation.
/r/askTRP12/02/15 10:06 AM
2

This is an old PUA advice to always call first. I agree, you have to force yourself to make a call. I did it too when i was out hunting in the past and it's the needed thing to do. Nobody calls these days. She probably gets a ton of text messages every day. With a call you stand out from the crowd and she has to give an answer right there. If she is hesitant and it's not an instant yes you know that you are wasting your time.
/r/askTRP12/02/15 09:56 AM
3

so I can minimize mistakes That's the wrong approach. You will only get results if you try to maximize your mistakes. Burn yourself, get rejected, get laughed at.
/r/askTRP12/02/15 09:50 AM
3

If he is experienced it doesn't really matter. What matters is what you look like naked and experienced men can tell that trough clothing. It is great that you are taking care of your looks, but if you catch a relationship you will be back in your pajamas without makeup and hair not wahsed since 3 days like all the fucking women do. So you won't fool an experienced man. Also defince "interested in". Do you want commitment from him or just some lay?
/r/askTRP12/02/15 09:23 AM
1

I have no issues going out and finding other girls (will be heading out this weekend) No. You are taking it too far. Either commit to her or let her go. She will mentally break down if you keep it up. It's just too much. You can force her to keep things the current way. She will accept because you are her best option ever. However if you do, you are a major fagface who has 0 understanding.
/r/askTRP12/02/15 09:12 AM
3

if Sunday doesnt work I could be meeting with somebody else. You texted once. She didn't respond. Make plans with someone else and tell her you made plans with somebody else in the meantime IF she asks about it.
/r/askTRP11/02/15 12:38 PM
7

I intend to start. Fuck off from here.
/r/askTRP11/02/15 09:17 AM
32

Somebody gave her a pussy pass probably.
/r/TheRedPill10/02/15 11:06 AM
1

I understand that my personal experiences don't translate to literally every woman out there Oh it does. It does.
/r/askTRP10/02/15 10:17 AM
-2

You think 30 yo guy needed 3 dates to get his dick sucked? Or was it 2 hours? By the way just treat her like the slut he is and it's fine. Don't even think about GFing her.
/r/askTRP09/02/15 12:23 PM
27

You should be single. You should have a daily dose of sidebar material. Your opinions indicate you haven't fully digested the pill: but I think when she's out with her friends she's actively seeking male attention ... Personally I think it's wrong Good luck finding a girl who is not this way. (hint: that's called unicorn). If your girl is out at a bar and she is decent looking males WILL give her attention and she WILL welcome the attention and the free drinks. That's why you don't date bar slut…
/r/askTRP09/02/15 12:21 PM
1

You know it's your call. We just give the outsider's perspective. You learn by failing.
/r/askTRP07/02/15 11:52 AM
1

Welcome here. We don't tell you what to think. We provide guide lines which you can read, understand and decide what actions will benefit your situation the most. You main problem is you do not understand what attracts females. You wrote this: This new guy, he's lame. Boring, dull sense of humor, privileged yuppie hipster type. I'm creative, write songs that don't suck, built my house by hand, have way more "skills,"... Non of these matter in creating primal desire. You are trying to negotiate d…
/r/askTRP07/02/15 11:46 AM
1

I try my best to powertalk That's a problem, you don't powertalk your coworkers, you gametalk them. http://www.ribbonfarm.com/2009/11/11/the-gervais-principle-ii-posturetalk-powertalk-babytalk-and-gametalk/
/r/askTRP07/02/15 11:33 AM
2

I know you want to hang on your success, but FB contact is not the way to go. EVERY fucking chump goes the FB way, don't do that. Lesson learned that you always number close. If she is that interested she will find you on FB. Otherwise your best chance is to silently navigate to the next social gathering without any prior contact to her where the both of you will be present and game her then and there.
/r/askTRP07/02/15 11:31 AM
2

... because the answer is neither.
/r/askTRP07/02/15 11:26 AM
2

Should have gotten her number. FB contact is way too lame. But she had to leave very early, I think she lives outside of core night public transport network. OR maybe there was a dick lining up she went to jump on. Move on to the next one.
/r/askTRP07/02/15 11:20 AM
7

I'm having doubts about the relationship Then act upon them. If you don't like what's happening make an end to it.
/r/askTRP06/02/15 11:34 AM
1

You can fuck the living shit out of her and she will ask for more.
/r/askTRP05/02/15 03:01 PM
14

That's your instinct. You social conditioning would say to take her out to a fancy restaurant. If you want higher quality plates look for girls who don't spread after an hour. If you can get in an hour so can others.
/r/TheRedPill04/02/15 10:01 AM
3

You know he sold it right? He has everything.
/r/TheRedPill04/02/15 09:03 AM
1

http://www.urbandictionary.com/define.php?term=fagit
/r/askTRP03/02/15 08:31 PM
1

Go to tumblr fagit.
/r/askTRP03/02/15 02:55 PM
6

If you are a licensed professional then sure. Otherwise GTFO.
/r/askTRP03/02/15 02:31 PM
7

Nobody can help you. Depends on where you live, what is your socio-economic status, who are your teachers, etc etc etc. People here are suggesting not to do it, but if you set your mind on doing it, i say go ahead and burn yourself. You will be burned but that's how you learn.
/r/askTRP03/02/15 02:24 PM
7

It's cheaper if you only compare money spent. The hooker cost 300 bucks and the college girl cost 100. On the other hand the hooker took a phone call. The college girl took 5 hours. For me the hooker IS cheaper.
/r/TheRedPill31/01/15 11:03 AM
2

Oh yes the hair thing. Happens to all of us. It's her appearance she is free to do whatever she pleases. However, you also do as you please; and if you are not attracted to short-hair gals, let her now that you may not find her attractive anymore. Don't state it's a brake up, state that there is a high chance that you won't find her attractive. Don't discuss the issue with her. State it once; then drop the topic. No follow up questions, after you stated it's shit test territory. Hold your ground…
/r/askTRP28/01/15 12:28 PM
1

You are still deep in BP. Your SMV didn't boost jackshit. You know what would have boosted it? Dicking her in a week. Then the other girl would have heard that instead of "it was nice" and you could have dicked her too. You are just waiting around hoping pussy will fly to you. It won't. Get this ideal thing out of your head. It's just cognitive dissonance. Read Rollo's post http://therationalmale.com/2014/12/23/domain-dependence/
/r/askTRP28/01/15 09:34 AM
5

And make her think you've been thinking about it all week like a pussy? That's a logical conclusion. No broad's conclusion will be this.
/r/TheRedPill28/01/15 09:25 AM
1

I sure do. My LTR NEEDS me. I wouldn't LTR a girl who doesn't need me. Why would I? What's the point? It's not like it's a turnoff if she doesn't. That's called a plate.
/r/askTRP28/01/15 09:21 AM
2

What the fuck are you talking about you haven't had any TROUGH A WHOLE SEMESTER WHAT THE FUCK ARE YOU DOING??!
/r/askTRP28/01/15 09:12 AM
2

Don't text. Wait a week or two and do the same thing again. If she's not down next.
/r/askTRP27/01/15 01:34 PM
1

Yeah she is not your girlfriend sorry bro.
/r/askTRP27/01/15 01:26 PM
7

Concentrate on the core problem not the cause of it; because in the end it doesn't matter. As others suggested it might be nothing and she is just kind of this way. Maybe just some unresolved developmental issues. Or she sucked a dick, who knows. Either way continuing this relationship is a bad call.
/r/askTRP27/01/15 01:24 PM
1

I say you can be straight forward here. Tell her you had butt surgery. You can show if she doesn't believe :P By the way, you haven't even plated her. A few months of plate status is required before a relationship.
/r/askTRP26/01/15 10:24 AM
55

I think you are a moron. Take care.
/r/askTRP26/01/15 09:27 AM
1

Read books / articles about your field of study. A good starting point is the Gervais Principle. http://www.ribbonfarm.com/the-gervais-principle/
/r/askTRP26/01/15 09:14 AM
7

It just means you are one of the 20 guys who she keeps for her emotional validation.
/r/askTRP26/01/15 09:11 AM
3

Nobody will approach you. Especially not shy girls. If your question is how how to make a girl comfortable who is being intimidated by you: slow and steady talk. Take your time to think your answers, hold 1-2 second pauses between sentences. Talk while facing away and keep eye contact while you are waiting for her to speak. Don't use kino, be on the edge of her personal space. Not too close, not too far. Shit's called the Daddy vibe.
/r/askTRP26/01/15 09:09 AM
1

It's not about destroying her when she disrespect you but rather your honor and quality of a man. That should be above her in your priority list. You are responsible for your own life. If something is bothering you that just slows you down. How do you expect your words to have weight if you don't back them up with actions?
/r/askTRP23/01/15 07:33 PM
6

Depends on your frame. You can reply "I'm only interested in that". Or "You can cook and clean also". Or just don't reply and next time you want to bang her just text her the logistic details of the meetup.
/r/askTRP23/01/15 01:18 PM
2

The thing is, she never was a good friend of mine You are naive. You know it well.
/r/askTRP22/01/15 03:45 PM
3

Women are not interesting people. You can have a nice beer night out with girls every once in a while but don't expect regular girl friends not to bitch about their problems. They only hang with you because you listen. If you would tell them to shut up about it they would stop contacting you claiming you became boring.
/r/askTRP22/01/15 03:32 PM
12

Stop craving outside validation. Cut all of these jackasses out of your life.
/r/askTRP22/01/15 03:28 PM
2

You will either get laughed at or punched. Or both. Do it faget!
/r/askTRP22/01/15 03:10 PM
2

It's not the number of sex but rather the number of commitment. You break in a similar way if you commit too many times and get your heart broken. It's the same fashion, if you had 2-3 serious LTRs (means 1-2+ year each) you also will have a hard time to bond. The number of pussy you slayed does not have an effect on your ability to bond.
/r/askTRP21/01/15 12:52 PM
1

Just wanted to say thank you for taking the time to mentor me. I'm busy with work all week but i'm gonna do a conclusion write-up about the situation sometime this weekend. In short, all it was just a big nuclear series of shit tests which i wouldn't have passed without your help.
/r/askTRP21/01/15 10:17 AM
2

Sadly you cannot do anything. If you point out the disrespect and they are fine with it it's their problem. Just like you cannot convenience somebody to work out 3 times a week if they don't want to. These guys don't want to see, don't want to improve. They are happy that they have some pussy finally, accepting RP would mean the end of their relationship. Don't force it. You can lose friends over that shit. If they are not willing to hear it (as you confirmed) there is nothing left to do but to …
/r/askTRP21/01/15 10:13 AM
1

Depends on what you want. For a quick pump&dump or occasional fwb it doesn't really matter, she just has to be clean. For a monogamous relationship it's 2. Above that it doesn't worth your effort and resources, your investment won't turn a profit.
/r/askTRP21/01/15 10:06 AM
1

Maybe someone achieved invisibility from the AskReddit thread and did it.
/r/askTRP20/01/15 02:58 PM
1

Finding a good looking girl with no more than 2 partners is really difficul It is. But you run into at least one every 1-2 years or so depending on the quantity of your nights out. The method of finding out is how does she react at the first sex, as OP described how did he spot the slut. How hard can you fuck her first time. How loose is her asshole? :P As to where to look, college freshman. There are a handful of girls who develop later and was considered ugly ducklings in HS. If you want a gir…
/r/TheRedPill20/01/15 02:20 PM
1

I don't neg her. I just don't submit to her wishes and say no to them. Which hasn't happened to her in the last 20 years.
/r/askTRP19/01/15 11:41 AM
1

leverage her projections Might be the reason why i can work with that. I think i have been the first person in the last 20 years who said no to her.
/r/askTRP19/01/15 11:32 AM
1

It's hard to guess based on a few sentences. On one hand of course it means she is with you because you are her best option; but this is always true. On the other hand i propose another translation of her sentence: she is an alpha widow (from the musician). If you haven't run into this thing yet and why we don't like girls with high N count: because after they are broken they cannot connect emotionally to a new man. I say she noticed this and that's what that sentence means.
/r/askTRP19/01/15 11:23 AM
2

It's not a shit-test. Why would she test you for fucks sake?! She is not interested.
/r/askTRP19/01/15 11:16 AM
1

And if it's the mother's frame and she is a narcissistic delusional fat cow you cannot do anything, just don't bother going there again.
/r/askTRP19/01/15 11:08 AM
1

It's for guys who fap 8 times a day while crying themselves to sleep and guys in their 40's with testosterone problems.
/r/askTRP19/01/15 11:01 AM
3

You completely misinterpreted. The intention of that sentence is to spot the wolf dressed as a sheep. She will instantly agree and that tells you the answer.
/r/askTRP18/01/15 07:15 PM
3

There is a problem in japan's society whereas a lot of young men decided to fuck pillows instead of women because a pillow is a better option for them. It's lowering their birth rate quite much and if it remains this way it will create an imbalance where there are more retired peole than the working youth can care for with their tax money.
/r/TheRedPill18/01/15 07:00 PM
0

innocent (non-slutty) type No such thing exists. If you find one virgin who has the potential, either take her or leave her be.
/r/askTRP18/01/15 06:47 PM
1

Of course everything you read here is a guideline and it's up to you to make the decision. I suggest against it. She lost attraction to you and decided to move on. After 2 days she is already attention hungry. What do you get out of it? It's just pussy. Someone's pussy who isn't attrated to you anymore. She just needs you for her broken ego.
/r/askTRP18/01/15 06:01 PM
1

Nah i don't really care about kids, they are just a resource sink. If i'm gonna have the itch to educate the young i will be a mentor for a few who needs it.
/r/TheRedPill18/01/15 05:48 PM
18

When i was a teenager i imagined i will have a family. Now that i have seen the game, i will probably have a vasectomy in the near future... This shit is just impossible and not worth it.
/r/TheRedPill18/01/15 01:57 PM
3

It is retarded but that's how you learn. Even if you read every material, it takes practice to translate them into action. You WILL fuck up, you WILL burn yourself multiple times. After your learn to deal with the fuck ups and burns you will know yourself how to break the ice.
/r/askTRP18/01/15 01:54 PM
1

I start to think there really is no way to succeed. My 2nd LTR has started to become a not so sure thing anymore and i wish my plate spinning college years back nowadays. I think i'm just waiting for her to slip so i have my legitimate way out.
/r/TheRedPill17/01/15 11:03 PM
5

From the guy you replied to.
/r/TheRedPill11/01/15 08:37 AM
9

Man you guys are hateful here. As the sub grows more percentage of the users will be in the anger phase than not.
/r/TheRedPill11/01/15 08:18 AM
7

in case you want an LTR, which you shouldn`t to begin with This is also moronic. LTRs are the best thing ever. It's not for the weak though that's for sure.
/r/TheRedPill11/01/15 08:16 AM
1

Study the Geravis Principle. http://www.ribbonfarm.com/the-gervais-principle/ You can get a basic grasp of the mindset. As a learned skill it's about understanding meta-human behavior and exploiting it in your favour. In my opinion this has nothing to do with women (i mean learning it) hence i suggest the above read.
/r/askTRP08/01/15 11:12 PM
1

I see some rookie mistakes here, don't worry, you always need to fail first. First date at your place is kind of meh. If you want a first date fuck take her to a bar for a drink, go to another for the same and check out a third one also. After leaving the third one and she is asking what's next you just say my place. Either she follows or not you go home anyway. I put my hand around her for the majority of the night and held her hand. I cringe and laugh at a memory of mine when back at college i…
/r/askTRP08/01/15 11:01 PM
1

Implying the constant company of a 60-90 year old menopausal woman is better than being alone. I don't really get the being alone means lonely connection.
/r/askTRP08/01/15 10:43 PM
0

and I should tell her what I meant. You should have said what you meant. Passing forward you should have just stopped writing after: Me: "Will you tell me what you laughed at?" Her: "No." How do I deal with this sort of shit test? You dig the hole yourself. You gave her a pretty find ground for that shit test and went beyond a point where you can deal with it. Don't do that.
/r/askTRP08/01/15 10:41 PM
3

I'm in the same boots 2 years+, 1 year living together. Other than educating you that they don't exist, they will fuck somebody else if you stop lifting for 5 minutes, dry up for a lifetime if you dare to spend your day off with video games and lose interest without daily 2 hour fuck sessions; here is my experience. First you have to have the right mindset. You have to be prepared to let go anytime and whenever the conversation comes up you have to tell her she is free to move on anytime. There …
/r/askTRP08/01/15 10:35 PM
3

TIL women chase me because i'M a celebrity. I hope i'm a musician not a reality show contestant tho.
/r/askTRP06/01/15 03:33 PM
9

Don't act like you want to GF her / don't lead her on. If she asks it don't lie. If she's not fine it with show her the door. It's a big shit test.
/r/askTRP06/01/15 03:24 PM
11

Recently reconnected with a girl I’ve know for almost a decade. Almost stopped reading. She has a kid, is a single mom, etc. Stopped reading. Run dude.
/r/askTRP04/01/15 10:17 AM
3

Let her have her orbiters. You should be busy with yourself, you don't have time for such nuisance things. If you have an attractive girl by your side she WILL be approached by men. You cannot do anything against it. It shouldn't bother you at all. As long as she remains faithful it's her business - let her have her outside validation. As for the orbiters, i'd say you are doing the right call. Let them act respectful it works in your favor. Don't try to be friends with them, they are random two-…
/r/askTRP03/01/15 05:01 PM
10

steadfastly claimed that it's not that easy for an average girl to get laid... What she says is true, you just don't use a Woman dictionary to translate this sentence. Let me fill the gap in the sentence: "... for an average girl to get laid with a +2 SMV guy". And that's true. It doesn't count that she can snap her fingers at her orbiters or any guy at her SMV and it would only take a bus ride home to get laid. What her sentence means is "for and average girl to get a shot with an alpha". And t…
/r/TheRedPill03/01/15 10:28 AM
3

I dunno. Go away?
/r/askTRP01/01/15 04:50 PM
2

Nah a woman is her early 30's has the longest list of what her BB should be and she will walk away if you don't posess one of the traits.
/r/askTRP30/12/14 11:17 AM
7

She manipulated you with sex for fancy places.
/r/askTRP29/12/14 12:16 PM
1

ok
/r/askTRP27/12/14 03:01 PM
-2

You can actually achieve it. You just have to be that much of value. It's a privilege you have to constantly earn. Do you have 5+ years of consistent work in your body? Do you have 5+ years of work in your business? In your game? In your mind? Do you have the mindset to do such a hard thing? Based on this wall of text, no. You are just salty because you are not a high tier man so you came here to whine.
/r/askTRP27/12/14 02:52 PM
5

Sadly you cannot. Again the only move to win is to not play. Don't treat her differently than you would with your redpill mind. Tell your friend when it happens that you are leaving because you are not interested in his girlfriend's problems. You also have to be ready to lose a friend if you choose to act.
/r/askTRP24/12/14 08:41 PM
11

I barfed.
/r/askTRP24/12/14 12:03 AM
7

Do it faget
/r/askTRP23/12/14 11:54 PM
2

If you get provoked that easily you are a little bitch either way, not acting upon it is just the icing.
/r/askTRP23/12/14 03:59 PM
0

You wouldn't go to a dinner with a plate anyway. You have problems which won't be solved by caring about trivial shit. But yeah if you are afraid of losing your LTR i cannot help.
/r/askTRP23/12/14 03:10 PM
3

In front of who? The mall goers?
/r/askTRP23/12/14 03:06 PM
2

tell me how can i get her to like me Continuous and never ceasing building of your existence based on your own standards. You're welcome.
/r/askTRP23/12/14 03:01 PM
6

what should i have done? Nothing. Walk away. Unless you wanted to punch someone/wanted to get punched. Then you should have punched.
/r/askTRP23/12/14 02:58 PM
-1

but I want to be a man Then stop following. You don't know what the address is so i assume this is a dinner invitation from her side. Let's break it down: would be asking her what the address is; whether I need to bring anything to the party She is a big girl, she can tell you. You are free not to go. If she doesn't care to tell you information you can also not care and stay home. whether she makes any stops along the way Why do you care? That's your problem. You care too much about her shit.
/r/askTRP23/12/14 02:56 PM
5

she also said she didn't feel like it. Then you say you don't feel like spending time with her and kick her out. Is this salvageable at all? WHY? What the FUCK do you wante to salvage on this? I get it, you invested 4 months into it and want your return. There is none, you wasted your resources on this one. Learn from it and tell her to fuck off.
/r/askTRP23/12/14 02:47 PM
2

Don't contact them you are not a boyfriend. My convo would be: "Beer?"
/r/askTRP12/12/14 03:50 PM
3

You have negative points because of that "group date". Taking her again to lunch and asking for her number is a slow and resource (time, money, energy) wasting plan. I'm with /u/tombreck2 on this one, isolate to a fuck date at your place. She already knows if she wants to fuck you or not. You can find it out this way without wasting anything.
/r/askTRP12/12/14 03:40 PM
52

Is it Beta to be in love? If your definition of love is the disney bullshit, then yes. Otherwise of course not, i love my GF. is the beta thing to do try and make it work? Forget alpha and beta. It's foolish to try to make it work. And what you wanna try to work on? Yes babe you fucked another dude and i'm sorry. How do you expect her to respect you if you tell her this? If your best bud got cheated on and you are sitting with him at the pub, do you tell him hey bro go home and make passionate l…
/r/askTRP12/12/14 03:33 PM
3

It can be either, it's hard to say with just a paragraph of information. The two main suggestions (take the other girl vs. radio silence and take her the night) can be either the right move. It depends on the girl and their relationship dynamic and how she acts in the meantime.
/r/askTRP12/12/14 03:24 PM
-1

So I met this woman online, single mom. I stopped reading.
/r/askTRP12/12/14 03:14 PM
26

Still hard next. Is she on the lease? If not put her ass on the street. If she is then contact your landlord that you are moving out and move out ASAP. Don't say a word to her unless it's needed. She doesn't exist anymore. Move out, gym, fuck young girls. That's it really.
/r/askTRP12/12/14 03:10 PM
3

what would you do? She would be free to do it. That's once in a lifetime opportunity. However, she would not be my girl anymore and i wouldn't spend my time with her anymore.
/r/TheRedPill12/12/14 03:05 PM
1

Possibly this is some sign of respect for me? No, the opposite. Chad told her to fuck off and you are her safety net.
/r/askTRP11/12/14 03:33 PM
11

do I refuse to be her backup boyfriend? Yes. Do I cut off all contact? Yes. One more thing, LTR's really are quite pointless. Nah, they are awesome if you know what you are doing and know who you are picking. Otherwise, yeah, disaster.
/r/askTRP11/12/14 03:01 PM
1

It's not a popular thing around here, but i smoke weed.
/r/askTRP10/12/14 03:51 PM
5

Experiment: ask your mother how many dicks she sucked and tell her what you think.
/r/askTRP10/12/14 01:00 PM
3

You are free to set your own standards. Just like the rest of us.
/r/TheRedPill10/12/14 12:46 PM
13

He is confident enough to move past it. It's not about him. It's about her.
/r/TheRedPill10/12/14 12:41 PM
3

The girls will cry on cue I'm so sad for guys who haven't figured this out yet. When i state that crying is not working on me they somehow stop immediately.
/r/TheRedPill10/12/14 11:16 AM
3

I'll tell her we don't have to become a relationship, she fades away Your actions, body language and attitude probably says otherwise.
/r/askTRP09/12/14 11:52 AM
4

Yeah they do that. It's not that i have been working out for 6 months and tied you to the bed to fuck for 2 hours. You spread your legs different this time. THat must be it. /s
/r/askTRP09/12/14 11:50 AM
30

You do both. Not at the same time. Sometimes you can slip into a more betaish mode (it's needed in an LTR anyway) but realize when it's becoming too much and change to the other side. This gives her the emotional roller-coaster they crave. There are times when life comes in and sex is not on the top of your lists. You can use this time for emotional support and giving her your attention, because, you want to and enjoy it. On the other hand realize this is a needed short-term behavior which hurts…
/r/askTRP08/12/14 03:58 PM
1

While your conclusion is logical in reality that's not how things work. If the guy cannot handle the shit test correctly (A&A) it's either the woman will lose interest (she dominates you, instant turnoff) or you will be losing interest because she is a whiny entitled bitch. It works because it provides an emotional roller-coaster ride for the woman. She just cannot figure you out. It's not that this question is uncomfortable to a guy (we are not girls ffs... ). It's that opening your hand with s…
/r/askTRP08/12/14 03:48 PM
7

Maybe I should give up on this girl. Let's say you needed to think loud.
/r/askTRP08/12/14 03:37 PM
2

No, those people never had empathy. That's why they are in leader positions.
/r/TheRedPill08/12/14 09:32 AM
0

who cares right By wasting all this time and energy, you.
/r/askTRP04/12/14 09:37 AM
3

Don't shit where you eat. Gym and the workplace are forbidden.
/r/askTRP03/12/14 11:12 PM
1

To a friend of course not. An acquaintance doesn't mean anything. If it cannot have an impact on my career i don't give a shit.
/r/TheRedPill03/12/14 04:14 PM
3

As i think back of my high school teachers, almost all of them were miserable losers. I can't imagine them teaching anything.
/r/TheRedPill03/12/14 01:17 PM
0

Yeah, not doing anything during your college years is RP as fuck.
/r/askTRP02/12/14 06:15 PM
6

It wasn't. It was the best play. You are forcing discipline on yourself. Pussy was leading your life in every aspect probably. That's not a sign of self-respect. Lay some random college girl instead. That level of drama will be present even if you downgrade her, it's just not worth.
/r/TheRedPill02/12/14 09:52 AM
-1

I use Ubuntu Haha scrub.
/r/askTRP01/12/14 03:48 PM
-1

I've never orgasmed inside a woman So you know what you are talking about. Ok. Maybe you have some expertise on weed too you can share?
/r/askTRP01/12/14 03:22 PM
-1

Did you cum before pulling out? If not she is lying / it's not yours. I have been having a lot of sex with pulling out it's effective. If you couldn't control yourself, well, yeah, idiot. If you could then you are being set up.
/r/askTRP01/12/14 12:15 PM
5

I want to point out this part: 10:20 PM - Alice: I want to be able to appreciate what you are 10:20 PM - Alice: I don't like the disposable culture we live in 10:21 PM - Alice: People mean something to me 10:21 PM - Alice: And I'd like to mean something to people 10:23 PM - Alice: Please don't freak out. It doesn't mean I want a relationship. As the dude above you said, there are reasons behind everything. Don't you feel this is a small paradox here? She doesn't want a relationship but wants you…
/r/askTRP01/12/14 12:10 PM
1

Did you cum inside her without protection?
/r/askTRP01/12/14 11:54 AM
7

I had a ONS with a girl who refused to kiss. She said it's off-limit because that's something special and she only gives it to special someones. Fucking her from behind after 3 hours of meeting is not something special i guess.
/r/TheRedPill01/12/14 09:59 AM
6

I was curious how can you tell? By your negative perception of her being used. You don't want to accept she wants that. I concluded you are not fucking her with this mindset, therefore you cannot be her best by definition. since every woman is a slut You misunderstand this part a bit. It's better phrased as every women want to be fucked and treated like a slut by a strong male. The difference between them is how easily and in what quantity is it given out. everything nice she says to her evil co…
/r/askTRP27/11/14 08:48 PM
0

She is not lying willingfully. She makes this excuses to HERSELF, not to you. You should just know better and read between the lines. Her story seemed congruent with how she acted so I believed it Women are good at this. As i mentiond it's probably true with one guy and she hamsters the rest away. Look, do you have a reason to be insecure? Or did just the white-knight inside you come out? Is there a way to tell if I'm the best she had? Hard topic. A good point of indicator is how submissive she …
/r/askTRP27/11/14 05:04 PM
4

and her trying to engage them emotionally. This is where you go wrong and causes your emotional problem. You are trying to force her unicorn image. You state she was "abused" by these guys while she just wanted to emotionally engage them. You are bullshitting yourself! While it probably happened at least with one guy, it's sure as hell it wasn't the case for every one of them. Let's discuss this point of yours: Vision of dudes just wanting to cum using her body You know that's her biggest turn-o…
/r/askTRP27/11/14 03:57 PM
1

I'm late for the thread but want to chip in: college events and college bars. The first should be pretty straight forward. They are always guest speakers, open events during the day at every college. If you are under 30 it's a good choice. The other one is college bars. Where i live in Eastern Europe these are magical places. These are the bars where the girls who would rather be at a bar than a club (i'm not talking about bar sluts) are socializing. Sometimes it's hard to find these places beca…
/r/TheRedPill20/11/14 01:14 PM
1

I suggest physical and mental discipline. Your day should be the following for months, even years based on your current level: Get up early in the morning. Eat, go to work. Arrive home, no sitting down, you get your gym bag and head to the gym. After that you prepare your next day meal and in the remaining time (it should be 10pm at this point) you either read, work or just rest with your thoughts. Shit's called Monk mode. It's hard, it's boring and you will feel alone. But that's the way.
/r/TheRedPill20/11/14 11:26 AM
3

So you can say, there is no way a woman will stay loyal forever? Every once in a while someone comes along who just makes their gina tingle and that's it? Decent ones feel bad about it but i will never know my LTR cheated on me. It scares the fuck out of me. I'm not in control. Yes i can constantly raise my SMV, hit the gym, use dread game. But what's the fucking point of the LTR if i'm constatly using dread game and and i'm at the gym every night?
/r/TheRedPill20/11/14 09:26 AM
1

serious about the LTR, whatever, to the extent it would take masterful game to pry her loose That's the catch my friend. Here we are trying to develop our sexual strategy by knowing our card - mainly that we have the relationship card. RPWoman know that their card is the sex and when you find one who she knows her shit. You HAVE to LTR her if you want a woman near unicorn status. You cannot have your cake and eat it - as we like to say to them, true for us also.
/r/TheRedPill02/11/14 11:03 AM
2

How? Gee that's a hard one.
/r/askTRP01/11/14 02:43 PM
1

Find out yourself.
/r/askTRP01/11/14 02:32 PM
9

You meet about one in every 2-3 years.
/r/TheRedPill01/11/14 02:29 PM
1

"You sound like a single girl"
/r/TheRedPill01/11/14 02:16 PM
1

Yeah it probably won't happen. Don't waste your time.
/r/askTRP31/10/14 12:45 PM
2

I'm half white half gypsy. My favourite type of women are white christians. I'm a forbidden fruit to them.
/r/TheRedPill31/10/14 11:02 AM
1

You are her "nothing better to do" option. I would set up a date and cancel it a few hours beforehand just so she knows her place. This can lead to two outcomes: she either fucks you later really hard or shows her true face where she just sees you as a puppy when she has nothing better to do. But i'm not sure with your state of mind you can pull this off.
/r/askTRP31/10/14 09:30 AM
1

I will never stop lifting. If i live alone at 60 i will spend my time gardening and helping 20 year olds with heavy daddy issues or fucking expensive escorts if no girl throws herself at me.
/r/askTRP30/10/14 08:30 PM
1

No. If i would decide not to raise my SMV and dedicate my life to smoking weed and playing video games i'd rather pay expensive escorts every now and then. It's about the same amount i would be spending on a girlfriend, zero bitching, 100% free time and better sex. But reading your thoughts you didn't understand the topic.
/r/TheRedPill30/10/14 07:49 PM
2

He was a whimpy kid who decided to do a lot of steroids and become a manwhore. Then he died at 22 because his body couldn't handle it. Lot of people praise him but he was a moron. I read his body building book and it's full of shit, he had zero idea about the topic.
/r/askTRP29/10/14 02:06 PM
3

I want to recommend his book "Choice is hell" but it's old as fuck and for some reason i can't find it on the web. (I only have it in Hungarian pdf) If you can't find it a more recent one is "Creativity". He likes to speak in circles so almost any book of his is a good choice. I stopped reading them after about 5-6 books because the core concept he is talking about in them is the same and gets repetitive.
/r/TheRedPill27/10/14 07:11 PM
3

wearing a rubber and wasn't really feeling it (literally), so I lost my bone. For future reference: when this happens the answer is not to finger her lol. You order her to suck you hard again and fuck her throat. You can continue after she has done her job.
/r/askTRP27/10/14 03:45 PM
110

I went from a dorm kid to a professional with above average money, a decent flat and a virgin LTR in 3 years. The core concept of my advice: become a psychopath. When i moved to the college dorms i decided that i won't see people as before. I saw them as puppets, as a social experiment. They were pawns in my social learning game. You have to accept everybody is a temporal companion in your life. As were your HS classmates, as are your college mates. As will be your colleges from your first workp…
/r/TheRedPill27/10/14 03:23 PM
1

go full No Contact, and don't give that bitch any closure whatsoever. This almost broke my mind when i was a 19 BP college guy and my LDR high-school GF of 3 years and i broke up. I broke up with her because she had 0 sexual affection towards me and even being a beta BP i could figure out i shouldn't be with her. After a few weeks she was messaging me how bad she wants me to fuck her in the ass. I just threw my keyboard away at that point.
/r/TheRedPill27/10/14 12:03 PM
16

After we had a good amount of schadenfreude i want to analyze this from the standpoint of (perceived) male SMV: Wealth. Whether you like it or not your assets raise your SMV 1-3 points. What happened here in my opinion: they meet at party, Will has looks and game. He is perceived one point above her own SMV: scheduled a coffee date and have been seeing each other ever since So he probably fucked her that night. Game and assertiveness: he is one point above. She is LTRing him up ASAP. Keep in min…
/r/TheRedPill27/10/14 11:19 AM
3

I fear for our future I don't. It just produces more drones. That's the point from the perspective of the upper class. the distant future will be full of pansy ass little boys. Disagree. The present is full of pansy ass little boys already. I have started to think it's actually okay and needed for the species to function at this level of technology and head count. Do you think with 1 billion alphas on the surface we would be living "easy' big city lives? No, they would constantly kill each other…
/r/TheRedPill27/10/14 10:41 AM
2

I don't see any connection between studying animal behavior and politics. I'm not into politics but my world views correlate to the left wing. No. I play about 2 times a week for 4-8 hours per week. It's a hobby. The important thing is to have other hobbies, don't schedule your life around it (oh no i can't make it tonight my guild is raiding) and don't let it control your emotions (don't play LoL if you cannot not rage) Depends on many factors can be either or more. Nobody's genetic structure m…
/r/askTRP22/10/14 08:34 AM
7

i flexed my biceps and kissed it Dude facepalm. A man of value don't need to show off anything. You are overplaying your progress and everybody can see it. i like my biceps more than i like you The fact you are trying to prove your worth to her says otherwise. who never rose his voice in public. Rising your voice? Why? That's an emotional reaction. If you see a reason to raise your voice you should just cut those people off from your life.
/r/askTRP22/10/14 08:14 AM
1

It's a nice counter point to my view. You widened my grasp of the topic by sharing yours.
/r/TheRedPill21/10/14 08:53 PM
-6

You are the kind of moron who goes clubbing and whines he only meets sluts there. I see this theme too often. Bar/club girls are used up sluts and people are surprised.
/r/TheRedPill21/10/14 12:25 PM
3

the decline of civilization. I'm on the opposite side. It will greatly improve it and will move us faster to becoming a Type 1 civilization. Once these brilliant men can focus on their work and not being unable to function because of pussy we will skyrocket. Monogamy will be pointless for the remaining alpha males. It will become socially acceptable for these guys to have harems. There will be the single career moms never stopping their CC ride and the harem material girls living with one alpha …
/r/TheRedPill21/10/14 12:01 PM
1

Your unconscious mind showing your repressed doubts. You know what's the real deal now and see the bleeding edge you were walking on before TRP. Acknowledge your doubt and deal with it (i'd say you are worried about the ex boyfriend, not about the fact you beta out in the dream, but i might be wrong). It will go away if you accept your doubts.
/r/askTRP21/10/14 11:30 AM
2

If you are desperate for pussy AND can keep frame you can boink the shit out of her. Until she decides you are not interesting again of course. Otherwise it's not worth.
/r/askTRP21/10/14 11:22 AM
7

If you actually do things in your life you won't have time for more than 2-3.
/r/askTRP21/10/14 08:56 AM
2

You fucking piece of moron. Either listen to us or get the fuck away.
/r/askTRP21/10/14 06:40 AM
3

I agree but OP won't understand what you are talking about. You need to have your first LTR walk over you to get a grasp of reality.
/r/askTRP21/10/14 05:49 AM
1

It's what Rocco Siffredi does if you need visual aid.
/r/askTRP20/10/14 05:49 AM
1

You are wrong. With enough muscle and a pinch of a game you can do that as 7. The difference is the time you need to invest. I was spinning plates before my current LTR and was a 7 with small toned muscles and abs. My record is 3 lays in a week. Going out 1-3 nights a week guarantees me at least 1 lay if i approach ~10 girls a night. But this is half of my free time. If i want a lay i have to spend half of my free time working for it. I'd rather work on myself for a couple years and raise my SMV…
/r/askTRP17/10/14 10:46 AM
2

I fucking love you this is awesome.
/r/TheRedPill15/10/14 07:46 PM
1

I want to emphasize: CUT ALL CONTACT. Delete and block on social media, say goodbye to people who are friends with both of you, change your phone number if needed. When you are feeling down use that energy at the gym. Don't sit on your ass. Oh and don't get into another LTR before you have experience with spinning plates.
/r/askTRP15/10/14 04:54 PM
4

Majority of metal musicians are beta as fuck actually.
/r/TheRedPill15/10/14 04:44 PM
3

Can you give me any tips moving up? I'm a young Java Developer (will turn 25 soon) and i want to stop coding in ~ 3 years (have been coding since 21). Which areas should i focus on?
/r/TheRedPill15/10/14 01:12 PM
1

Yes of course it's just sex.
/r/askTRP15/10/14 06:46 AM
3

Nnnnooooo not in the gym dufus! Don't shit where you eat. You made this mistake with this girl - you have the same circle of friends and now you probably have to get a new one. Do you want to find a new gym also? :P
/r/askTRP15/10/14 05:27 AM
1

my wife won't be happy Oh she will. She will be one happy girl. Have you ever fucked her like Rocco Siffredi would? Have you ever used her like the guys from Facial Abuse would? (okay not that hard lol, but the dynamic) What i'm talking about is forcing her into submission.
/r/askTRP14/10/14 09:04 PM
7

That's the game. Sometimes someone worthy comes around but it's just not time for you for an exclusive LTR. She has a limited time frame to pin down a provider for herself. You can't expect her not to terminate your relationship when she is looking to settle. dealing with these feelings? Accept them. You loved that little girl. You are sad to let her go. Keep these feelings behind closed doors. Don't show them to her. She will figure out by herself to come back if she gets bored. On the meantime…
/r/TheRedPill14/10/14 11:45 AM
3

-When she arrived i should have gotten up and kissed her just to set the tone. You wot m8? You should have just left after a bit of chitchat.
/r/TheRedPill14/10/14 10:25 AM
1

You are not wrong but you are only seeing half the picture. She's supposed to enjoy it Yes, but not 100% of the time. The problem with your approach is that it only focuses on the positive side of the emotional scale of a woman. This is half the picture. They NEED and WANT to feel the negative side of the scale sometimes to be balanced. Not in 50/50 but you cannot disregard it. Sometimes you need to facefuck her until she cries and pukes. I know it's hard to accept/comprehend but you have to rea…
/r/askTRP14/10/14 09:07 AM
1

No that's bullshit. Look for introvert girls. The ones who prefer baking cookies and watching a series in their PJs instead of going to a club. Another describer i saw here is "plain Janes". The thing is, for a successful LTR they say you need to be 1 or 2 points higher SMV than she is. I say 1 is not enough, you need to be 2 points above her. Why? Because that's the scenario where a that much better guy coming along has a low chance. Many people advise here to go for the "hot ones" (8+) but you…
/r/askTRP14/10/14 08:53 AM
1

Let me go off topic and ask for life advice. Does having a child worth all this shit?
/r/askTRP14/10/14 08:33 AM
5

She probably seeks commitment. After 7 months you can't hold her at fault. If you are not up to the task then you have to let her go.
/r/askTRP14/10/14 08:19 AM
-2

will get you through loneliness. Do you think having to live with an old woman who you no longer desire (don't kid yourself you would desire your 60 year old wife) would be less lonely? You will be sick of her lol. You are insecure and asking us what's the meaning of life. There is none. Existence is pointless.
/r/askTRP14/10/14 07:46 AM
3

One of you will find someone else, And that will be her. OP, a guy can't win in this situation. She won't jump on the first cock but somebody with higher SMV will come and she won't hesitate. he's overly attached to me, and relies on me too much for entertainment. Welcome to being in a relationship with a woman pal. The first is in your favor, the second is against. If you are doing your own business and attending college, in no world are you able to give a 18 year old freshman girl enough atten…
/r/askTRP14/10/14 07:35 AM
2

Can you elaborate on why? They suggest this because the rule of thumb in decision making is not to go against the odds. In one thread someone suggested not to assume every woman will cheat under the right circumstance. Some other fellow suggested: can we assume the usual ? That's what you are dealing with here. Everybody is suggesting to assume the usual. On the other hand there is the possibility she is just insecure. Your answer lies in the context. I suggest a pinch of dread game flavored wit…
/r/askTRP14/10/14 07:21 AM
31

This one is pretty easy. Deep down you played with the chance this can be more. Just a tiny bit. You had emotional investment. A stronger man than you had his way with your sweetheart and on the top of that more easily. It's defeat in your stomach caused by your shattered ego. What can you do? Right now, nothing. It shouldn't bother you because she is just a plate. But no problem, you still have work to do. Be the guy who fucks teenage girls on an airplane when you are in your 30s. Drop her if y…
/r/TheRedPill13/10/14 02:22 PM
11

3 months in and she texts an old fuckbuddy. Sometimes i wonder why do you guys do these things for yourself. Just keep fucking the plate and loose the other whore...
/r/askTRP13/10/14 01:45 PM
1

Make sure your women are faithful. But don't make the mistake of having only one. Can you expand on this one? Whenever i see this suggested i'm having an emotional reaction and feel my gut/stomach. I just realized this because i feel this would hurt my LTR. (2 years, living together, 24yo / 21 yo, she was a virgin). Is talking to other women when you are out ( we are both introverts, only go out to drink about twice a month) not enough? I saw the benefits other women showing a little interest in…
/r/TheRedPill10/10/14 05:54 AM
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The PUA techniques do work and will give you the temporary bump up in SMV that you are seeking but they don't change the undelying problem of having the "beta core". My take on the PUA topic because i feel a slight hate on the field on the subreddit (which i agree to a degree): The problem with their method is it focuses ONLY on game and stating it's the most important part of your goal. It's just a chunk of seduction. Why it works is because there are so many betas out there even being a chunk …
/r/TheRedPill10/10/14 05:40 AM
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How is it not honest? She just revealed every women's sexual strategy. This subreddit gets hate for doing the same.
/r/TheRedPill08/10/14 04:45 AM
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i also cut down my alcohol consumption a few years back when i realized i tend to be aggressive after a few shots. I don't like the guy i become when i'm semi-drunk. Also alcohol is counter productive for training. It blocks protein synthesis and is just empty calories. I guess what i wanted to say is learn your threshold when you turn into the guy you don't like and stop drinking before you reach it.
/r/askTRP07/10/14 12:29 PM
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I was really provocative to a point where it showed my lack of respect for the other person Picking drunken fights with others (and i'm sure you are only picking on weaker targets) without a reason is showing your lack of respect for YOURSELF, not the other person. Train with like minded people, sober, if you feel the need for punching.
/r/askTRP07/10/14 11:57 AM
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Not everyone but most. Look at guys on the street, that's your competition. Consistently working on yourself will make you high tier compared to the couch sitters and beer drinkers. The key word is consistently. It takes about 8 years of consistent work to get there. Also you are only ugly if you are not ripped. With muscles your face has character.
/r/askTRP07/10/14 11:52 AM
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Dude i don't know what are you trying to achieve here. You are free to be cuckolded by a cumbucket if that's your thing.
/r/askTRP07/10/14 11:47 AM
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I have met zero girls with all of these traits. The actual hobbies part bothers me the most. They don't really have any.
/r/TheRedPill07/10/14 09:00 AM
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Yes. It does. Bro don't spread the word, let these morons go for the social butterflies. Dude values his partner based on the external thumbs-upping of his peers. Just wtf.
/r/TheRedPill07/10/14 08:58 AM
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Have you heard of Zyzz? I have. I read his body building book. Dude had zero idea about the topic. He was also a stick compared to professionals. Dude also died.
/r/TheRedPill07/10/14 08:40 AM
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They want to find a good man (ie wants a committed relationship, honest, stable, loving, trustworthy). The goal is to find a good man that you're attracted to. It bugs me you only mentioned Beta Bucks traits. Why?
/r/RedPillWomen07/10/14 04:41 AM
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What am I dealing with here? He is hot. You are not. awesome guitarist; but only from guys. Women don't give a shit about your skills. They care about the hot guy in the band. What do I do? Get ripped.
/r/askTRP06/10/14 03:12 PM
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For starting out, yes. Do cold approaches! Do pursue pussy! When you have success you will have a more clear view on the topic. You won't feel pressure or anxiety about getting laid. In fact it will look unappealing. That's the point you should achieve because at that point can you truly implement TRP; at that point can you focus your resources on yourself and not on pussy.
/r/TheRedPill06/10/14 02:58 PM
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How do I truly break this shit? What do you want out of your life? Truly? Strive to achieve that.
/r/TheRedPill06/10/14 02:44 PM
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I would only LTR 0-1 dick count. Would consider 2 in some cases. Above that is just not worth.
/r/TheRedPill06/10/14 02:10 PM
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Can be anything really. The rule of thumb is to assume your SMV is not high enough. She might have some baggage: "it's not you". It's not wise to pressure her in this case. She is just not DTF after 4 dates: "not just yet". This scenario has a low possibility especially she being 8/10. It's up to you to decide based on her character. I suggest soft nexting her. In case of her contacting you make plans for movie/dinner night at your place. If she doesn't want that you are just wasting your time a…
/r/askTRP06/10/14 01:35 PM
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garden a little Many girls laughed at me, including my current LTR, when asked about what i wanna do when i'm old. The answer is gardening. I want to have bunnies and make my garden into a little eden with small artifactual waterfalls and shit.
/r/TheRedPill05/10/14 08:43 AM
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You should play with that hamster, it's kind of easy: It's okay if she wants to wait with sex. Escalate and use her as a mouth whore. If she doesn't suck your dick then you have your answer; she is a waste of time. When it gets to the point you are bothered by the lack of pussy, you tell her you will get it elsewhere. It's not "cheating", you can only cheat on somebody who you are having sex with. The game is simple, guy gives commitment and girl gives sex.
/r/askTRP05/10/14 07:43 AM
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I was like ok cool I can do my other things I gotta do Epic lol. Girl seems super needy and high maintenance. But for all I know she could be boring She probably is boring. But as i see you are already thinking with your dick so it won't be a turnoff. Imagine if boring would be a turnoff in a chick. I would get laid once a year...
/r/askTRP05/10/14 07:31 AM
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TRP will agree that money = everything Where the fuck did you read this....?
/r/askTRP04/10/14 01:29 PM
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Are you asking why does she have her coworkers number? Don't you? On the other hand if it's a daily happening then i hear you. The fact she tells you about them is a good sign they are orbiters; you not setting the boundaries of orbiter contact is your wrong move here. The rule of thumb here is finding out wether she is still following your lead. You cannot control what she does when she is alone, but you can tell her to put down her goddamn phone when you are together. If she does without too m…
/r/askTRP04/10/14 07:51 AM
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I would reply i don't care what your family thinks. Or i'm not controlling you can walk away i won't hold you back if you don't like me anymore. You have to learn to not give a shit about family, especially moms. They have no power over you. If she is acting up because of her mommy just say goodbye.
/r/askTRP04/10/14 07:35 AM
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I'm done paying the shit princess next spring I would take you out for a night when that happens but i live on another continent lol.
/r/TheRedPill03/10/14 09:16 AM
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My favourite thing was lightning up a joint and watching fail compilations on youtube together. This has two possible outcomes. She thinks it's stupid as fuck and thinks i'm a moron. In this case i don't want to spend time with her anyway. The other is she laughs with me and at that point the ice barrier is broken and really any stupid shit will do.
/r/askTRP01/10/14 05:09 PM
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how can I work on controlling and suppressing these feelings In my experience suppressing is not the answer. You have to accept your feelings and admit them to yourself. I'm feeling down because it turned out that girl is a coke whore. I'm feeling down because i did 10 approaches tonight and not even a number close. Examine these feelings; point out to yourself the roots of those feelings. Look at them as an outsider. Think of yourself as an observer of those feelings. Don't forget to have your …
/r/askTRP01/10/14 04:59 PM
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I would also like to hear more about this. Should i just read Origin o Species ?
/r/TheRedPill29/09/14 08:59 AM
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the only reason I meet women is to get laid and toy with their hamsters It's not like most of these bitches is good for anything else. They act like fuck toys and get mad when you think of them as a fuck toy. I like to laugh at them too.
/r/TheRedPill29/09/14 08:54 AM
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people are seriously clueless about female attraction. I'm on this opinion. Women in general has zero idea about what attracts them or even worse - when asked they say the BB qualities. No wonder guys believe it. I had success with women here and there before i found this place but couldn't connect the dots.
/r/TheRedPill29/09/14 08:41 AM
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What do you want out of life? Banging fat chicks as it seems.
/r/askTRP28/09/14 05:46 PM
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but I'm curious what you guys think. I think you are a moron.
/r/askTRP28/09/14 04:44 PM
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Asian women just think a non-Asian man is automatically more "alpha" This just means you don't have to be higher SMV amongts your own people. 5 SMV US guy and 5 SMV aisan girl gonna happen. 4-5 won't. I don't think the guy married to a 10 SMV aisan girl is a beta.
/r/askTRP28/09/14 02:32 PM
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Monk mode. I did it for almost a year. School/work, gym, reading, video games. Working on yourself will make you realize things we cannot tell you. It will come from within.
/r/askTRP22/09/14 05:56 PM
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It's okay to wait if you feel like she is worth it. Just be sure to have sex with other girls and sometimes decline her hangout request. Don't make her a priority until she makes you a priority.
/r/TheRedPill22/09/14 05:44 PM
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You are one of the guys who are completely hopeless.
/r/askTRP22/09/14 11:23 AM
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told her that's not a problem and she should shoot me a text when she knows her schedule for the week Classic beginner mistake. Just text "ok" and that's it. No need to tell her to text you when she knows her free time; she is not mentally disabled. She can figure out she can text you. With this you are stating you are willing to wait for her which is counter-productive. Did I make a mistake I haven't noticed? Yes. This one: I'm not of high SMV She was probably down emotionally and you were ther…
/r/askTRP22/09/14 09:55 AM
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I don't. It's not needed for the body i want for myself. Could shortcut with them but i have patience.
/r/TheRedPill18/09/14 09:37 AM
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The thing is, it has to be your game and has to match the situation. You cannot learn this by asking advice here; you can only learn by making mistakes. You will fuck up the first few plates. No short cuts here. Do what you see best and learn from it.
/r/askTRP18/09/14 09:22 AM
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Just a little girl crying for attention / trying to throw a tantrum. Poor creature is so out of her game she can't even control a 22 year old boy. Ignore her.
/r/askTRP18/09/14 08:25 AM
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All the naturals i have met was really bad at keeping the girls. One time i met a top 1% guy at a college party. He was a son of a fucking rich investor and his looks was just not fair. He bragged that he banged the hottest chick there and pointed at her - he was right. We drank and talked for a few hours and he broke down to me. Said his longest relationship was 3 months and he is fucking tired of girls and just wants a stable girlfriend. Natural alpha problems man.
/r/TheRedPill17/09/14 01:29 PM
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I'm always confused by the opinion that younger = better For me teaching inexperienced girls is more enjoyable. I love the daddy/little girl dynamic. If you prefer instant deepthroat / already gaped asshole so you can fuck it furiously and don't give a fuck then yeah i see your point.
/r/TheRedPill16/09/14 03:54 PM
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Do i want to play video games until 1 am and be a skinnyfat tired moron every day. Or do i want to be a man who has lots of sex. I decided to the latter. I get up 6 AM every day and work out, eat right and get to bed in time. There is no progress from being lazy to being hardworking. Either you do because you decided or you do not; because you decided.
/r/askTRP16/09/14 03:25 PM
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It sounds horror that every guy from the USA says this. Here in middle Europe majority of 18 yo girls had 0-2 partners. But when college starts it's almost the same. I once fucked a slut after 2 hours of meeting. She was complaining she haven't gotten laid in 2 weeks. Oh the horrors.
/r/askTRP16/09/14 03:22 PM
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Man you should really hit the brain gym.
/r/askTRP16/09/14 03:15 PM
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It means she wants to get strange cock and ride the CC. The thing is women need passionate sex and dominant rough sex too. Most of BP guys' mistakes lies here: absence of dominant sex. She is craving dominant alpha sex but she doesn't know it on the conscious level; she just knows something is missing. After years of passionate sex with the BP boyfriend she has a massive imbalance in her sexual need but cannot put her finger on it. She goes out and Chad Thundercock rides her good. She is one hap…
/r/askTRP16/09/14 02:54 PM
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a captain who's afraid of her past Can you morons forget this afraid of experienced women bullshit already? You are a used up piece of meat with a handful of physiological baggage and attitude. Why would anybody commit to that?
/r/askTRP16/09/14 02:37 PM
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Guess there are always exceptions to the rules. Yes dominant career-minded women exist. The problem is these people got high positions and education teaches girls this is the norm (as in OP's case) but in reality most girls just want to be submissive housewife but they should be ashamed of that desire. I mean what's not to love about that life style? You get up, take care of your kids, pick up groceries, cook then the husband comes home and ties you to the bed for a hour and a half. After that h…
/r/TheRedPill15/09/14 12:31 PM
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For example, moving out, changing your education/career? None of their goddamn business. A man lives on his own. You don't have a chance without patience and years of hard work. There is no short cut. Here is my tip: grow the fuck up.
/r/TheRedPill15/09/14 12:09 PM
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she does like me though or not
/r/askTRP15/09/14 11:44 AM
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Put your phone away blahblahblah why/youarerude blahblah hamster hamster Reach in your pocket, throw some money on the table and leave the location without loosing another word. Nothing else needed. You don't say it twice. Put it away. No. Be on your way. If she is coming after you for another chance and saying sorry you command her to turn it off. If she is willing to do that you are willing to give her another chance. If she is not you boot her.
/r/askTRP15/09/14 10:46 AM
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She had a similar late night emergency two weeks ago... And you are still with her? C'mon man... you are a moron. 1.) What is the line between jealous / possesive and not letting myself get cuckholded / walked all over It's what you make that line. You are (supposed to be) a man. It's your line, not mine or anybody else's here. 2.) Should I put my foot down and demand an explanation There is really not much to explain here. What the hell do you think a girl is doing late at night? Don't listen t…
/r/askTRP15/09/14 10:41 AM
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any advice on being more discreet with hooking up with girls, so often once the word gets out your game is over versus in Moscow That's a big enough city. There is a point when you used up all your potential in a social group and should move on to the next one. Don't mix friends and hookups that's just retarded in the long run. how do I do "damage control" Except holding frame you cannot do anything. She's a child throwing a tantrum, act accordingly.
/r/askTRP15/09/14 10:28 AM
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Introvert girls. Also lower N count (what a surprise right?). Chance to be an alpha virgin. Nothing compares to taking a girl's alpha virginity. More appreciative, more shy and easier to lead.
/r/TheRedPill12/09/14 07:36 PM
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It's not a thing. It's my personal preference. What makes you want to talk to women you're not fucking? They are people with personalities and i enjoy spending time with them before/after sex. I find my desired personality traits in girls who don't sleep on the first date to a much higher degree than first night lays.
/r/TheRedPill12/09/14 06:13 PM
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I had my share of ONS as well and i concluded i enjoy the sex with the girls who didn't put out on the first night much more.
/r/TheRedPill12/09/14 05:02 PM
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I guarantee I will smash this girl if I keep hanging out with her So 3rd date movie at you place? ^ ^
/r/TheRedPill12/09/14 09:56 AM
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Guy from Hungary here. No feminism? About what percentage would you say college chicks are having feminist ideas over there? Here in Budapest the worst are the law students and liberal arts / language majors. Not satisfied hippie chicks man. How's the Disney dream over there? It's horrible here, almost every girl thinks they are entitled to the prince on the white horse. Worst thing is they genuine BELIEVE that's what they are attracted to. I can second the wifey stuff. My LTR is from a rural ar…
/r/TheRedPill12/09/14 09:43 AM
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I'm really confident in my ability to be in the top 10% by the time I'm around 30 in 2020 I have the same idea. Muscles in constant development. Career is really in check. I'm heading to a point when at 30 nothing can break my frame. I think my favourite will be walking away from dates when the college chick doesn't turn off her phone when i told her. I'm sure i'll have a no electronics past the hall rule at my place.
/r/TheRedPill12/09/14 09:32 AM
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can you be a romantic and be alpha? can you be a poet and still be an alpha? Yes. It's hard work and you can only learn it via experience (read: via failure). In the book Sex God Method the author explains something: women want to feel ALL of their emotional spectrum. This includes NEGATIVE emotions too. That's the hard part about it, leading a woman's negative emotions up and down takes practice. Most people make the mistake of trying to "defend" the girl from her negative emotions and always t…
/r/askTRP11/09/14 03:59 PM
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You helped my frame development with this mindset explanation, thank you.
/r/TheRedPill11/09/14 03:26 PM
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Plate her if you want but don't girlfriend her. Taking a break means i want to get validated by other dicks. Same shit like "i want to find myself". She was pump & dumped by somebody (or she wanted). The thing is: you are the silver medal guy. Hell maybe the bronze medal guy. The entry level for an LTR is if you are her gold medal man and she gets wet the moment you meet after 3 days because you was on her mind constantly. Treat good women like good women. Treat whores like whores.
/r/askTRP11/09/14 03:05 PM
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Lifting takes focus. You are not just training your body when you are at the gym; you are also training your mind. It's meditation. You clear your mind from work, pussy, social media. Only the weights and you exist. When you walk out after a 90 minute workout there is silence inside. Embrace that silence. That's maneregy. Remember that state and try to achieve it when you are talking to women. They eat that state up like you cannot believe.
/r/askTRP11/09/14 02:59 PM
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Women are children. This TRP realization changed my life.
/r/TheRedPill11/09/14 02:48 PM
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What's your strategy with plates like this? Does really having muscles and not giving validation this much of an effect? How do you stay outcome independent?
/r/TheRedPill11/09/14 02:32 PM
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Let me brag then. Yesterday i presented my boss with a possible software solution to the company's upcoming flag ship software product. He liked my idea and gave me green light to research the area and make a proof of concept demo in the upcoming weeks. Right now i'm getting paid to have fun. It had a massive boost to my frame.
/r/TheRedPill10/09/14 05:41 AM
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however her friends piss me off Rookie mistake. Don't let them get emotional responses from you. If they are talking to you / trying to mock / anything just stay calm, slowly turn your head to their direction, stare them down for a few seconds and continue on your way. Just a bunch of stupid little girls ignore them. She basically soft nexted you, you should do the same. Go and chat up some shy and quiet girls from your school, they are the best ;) You are still in the beginning. She betafied yo…
/r/askTRP09/09/14 04:52 AM
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'Do you want to meet up for a coffee?' obviously to sort it out. obviously. obviously? obviously! Nah. She just wants you to hear her hamster. As SKorchZang wrote : the woman wants closure and to feel like you're jealous and destroyed without her If you want to reply, just state you are busy.
/r/askTRP08/09/14 12:45 PM
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Stop whining faget. I want to put my progress on fast trak There is no such thing.
/r/askTRP08/09/14 10:32 AM
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I wouldn't reply just let her stew. My next message would be in a day or two stating the place and the time we are meeting.
/r/askTRP08/09/14 10:29 AM
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You are basically her beta provider. She said she didn't want to say anything because Because that would mean she'd lose her provider. Don't buy women's bullshit. If she wants to spend time and work things out we can There is nothing to work on here. She doesn't want your cock. She was planning to have me meet her parents at the end of this month. If you do this please chop off your balls and post it to /r/WTF . My LTR told me a few weeks ago when we were early in the relationship she often got …
/r/askTRP08/09/14 10:25 AM
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I'd like to expand this theory: alpha virgins = better. Lemma: women always want it better. Even if you are on the same ground as her previous alpha, you don't stand a chance. You are about the same therefore you come in 2nd place. I'm in a monogamous LTR right now but i know what my hunting strategy will be when i'm single again: Young college girls who have been only dicked by their beta high-school boyfriends.
/r/TheRedPill08/09/14 09:46 AM
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Meh, smells like she is just trying to get people to go to her friend's gig. I would decline the invitation.
/r/askTRP05/09/14 02:28 PM
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Abandon ship, bro. Don't look back. If she hasn't cheated already it's just a matter of time. Go get yourself a 20 year old college chick. Or two.
/r/askTRP05/09/14 02:18 PM
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Trust and desire from the other party. Frame, hard body and knowledge from you. There are no tricks. Have you read anything here? It's no become dominant in 2 weeks with these simple steps shit. Years of hard work and becoming a man will born the answers from within you. This is not something you can get from external sources. Also you are talking about a fucking television persona. C'mon....
/r/askTRP05/09/14 01:02 PM
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If you want to keep this LTR i suggest the following: You have to restore her respect. The woman is allowed in your kingdom only if she has proper respect for you, not love. The love will be there from here for much longer than her respect. Your key point here is her desire to marry you. Tell her she is not acting like a good wife and therefore wouldn't be a good one. You want a good wife and if she cannot (translation: don't want to) act like one before marriage it's sure as hell she won't act …
/r/TheRedPill04/09/14 01:26 PM
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This is not LMR, that's when she lays naked on your bed and says no. Just go no contact. If she messages you asking to hang out just say you are busy. If she stops contacting you then you know the deal. If she keeps on asking you to hang after a few "i'm busy that time" excuses agree and invite her over to your place. No other bullshit, if she wants your company that's going to happen at your place. If she is not putting out just kick her out and have a good night sleep.
/r/askTRP04/09/14 12:54 PM
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how about now? Her: I don't want to rush it... Wrong approach in my opinion. Should have just pick her up and slam her into a door. If it's still a no then you are in a deep hole my friend. She frequently calls me "absolutely perfect" This screams provider for me. Being "absolutely perfect" and not craving getting ass fucked by you is a great sign. Be on your guard! (often asking about when I'll ask her to marry) Again as above. I talked about this for a few minutes, choosing my words carefully.…
/r/TheRedPill04/09/14 12:12 PM
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Looks like nobody remembers the definition. Here it is: It means Hot Babe but the number scale does not define physical attractiveness but rather social standing. A HB10 is somebody who has constant approval, validation and attention from males wherever she goes. It's not her looks it's her own social value she identifies herself with. Let's compare her to a HB7. She is not getting male attention frequently, has self-image issues and lot of betas try to get with her. She is a bit sad and doesn't…
/r/askTRP04/09/14 09:38 AM
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I'm in a LTR with a girl like you. You just need to find your leader. He will help to be yourself. My girl was a sad depressed person when we met at college. She was always on what her mother wanted. She had no free time and told me she didn't really care about college. We moved in together and couldn't stand seeing her that way. I told her mother to get lost. I told her father to get some balls and listen to her daughter and be there for her. I'm getting blamed for controlling her and her mothe…
/r/askTRP04/09/14 09:01 AM
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In your second paragraph you kinda answered my current inner development problems. Blows me away i'm getting answers without asking. I suppose my current situation is as common as it gets so you saw right trough me. Thanks.
/r/TheRedPill04/09/14 08:26 AM
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post-TRP should not dictate which action you take Thanks for pointing this out. There are few too many "just plate her brah" opinions here nowadays. Sometimes it makes me think darker than i would by myself. I would choose the LTR again.
/r/TheRedPill03/09/14 01:28 PM
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It's good to hear it from someone else, thank you.
/r/TheRedPill03/09/14 11:00 AM
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24 yo software engineer here. I say i'm a secret agent. Not because gold diggers but because it's instant betafication, no matter how i look. I'm decently ripped and tattoo'd but rarely wear revealing clothing. When i'm out in a wife beater and state i'm an enterprise software engineer they don't believe it... Of course after a few fucks if she asks again i tell her but not before she got the alpha fucks. That would be just shooting myself in the foot.
/r/TheRedPill03/09/14 09:32 AM
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It seems like girls who are younger are more likely to fall into line for an alpha Funny how that happened to me before TRP and i thought that was a bad thing. I was spinning plates at the time (after reading a lot of r/seduction) and one of these plates was a 19 year old virgin. She is as close to a unicorn as it can get in real life. We were having drinks late night and she heard as i was talking to a buddy of mine about my two other plates and debating whether or not upgrade this one to LTR. …
/r/TheRedPill03/09/14 08:41 AM
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He is pulling bar sluts and that's the way to do it. I also do not advocate his method but my target audience are not bar sluts.
/r/TheRedPill02/09/14 03:22 PM
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So what should I do? Stop being an insecure moron.
/r/askTRP02/09/14 02:46 PM
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Yes. When she asks.
/r/askTRP02/09/14 02:21 PM
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NNNNEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEXXXXXXXXXTTTTTTTTTTTT oh and I told her to let me know NNNNOOOOOOOO you tell her you are busy rest of the week and say goodbye.
/r/askTRP02/09/14 11:42 AM
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WTF is this bullshit you are doing ?! She keeps you as an orbiter how the fuck do you not see it. Next her and stop texting for fuck's sake.
/r/askTRP02/09/14 11:34 AM
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They all seem to really hate the college guys. I don't blame them. Seeing college guys / thinking back about my college self; we are pussies. Where do you meet them? Do you still go to college places or day game?
/r/askTRP02/09/14 04:49 AM
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Sometimes they'll intentionally give bad advice That might be an edge case but in general they are just clueless of their own game. They cannot connect the dots. They are incapable of viewing the world from a man's perspective thus they cannot render proper values to pros and cons, cannot think about what would benefit YOU the best. Think about dating advice. She is not saying be yourself / be respectful / just wait because she is intentionally being a cunt to you. They don't THINK, they FEEL. W…
/r/askTRP01/09/14 02:55 PM
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how messy do you think this could get? From no consequence trough awkward work time to having to change jobs. Anything from that scale. As /u/n00f said wtf are you talking about this is easy mode. Screwing your boss' wife would need that meme. Screwing the random HR chick is decent but nothing more. Be sure to shout "HERE ARE MY HUMAN RESOURCES" while you cum on her face.
/r/askTRP01/09/14 01:39 PM
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Internalize that your road to become a man has just started and to get the results you are dreaming of might take 2-15 years of consistent work to pay off. Don't get discouraged because that really hot brunette went off with the 30 yo businessman and not you. Become that businessman and get the really hot fresh brunette then. And a few more at the same time. Becoming a man is fucking hard and long work. Study, network, LIFT, fuck as much as you can but remember your #1 goal: to become a man. Par…
/r/askTRP01/09/14 01:33 PM
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women don't want to be "objectified." Oh they want but only by the alpha. You need to forget your princess mentality. They are people just like you and me. They want the hot ones but guess what: there is a big fucking competition for a high value male. They are competing for that high value male's attention. Pickme pickme i'm a hotslut!!!!
/r/askTRP01/09/14 12:30 PM
0

A guy friend for a girl is an emotional trash can. She takes your time and energy... for what? What do you get in return? Nothing valuable. Women are boring people. She won't understand any of your problems (that's what men friends are for, you state your problems with details and you can discuss hypothetical outcomes) and if she pretends to care you can bet she will give crap advice. But of course you can go for it it's up to you to decide. You can also go to a children's playground at 3 AM run…
/r/askTRP01/09/14 11:12 AM
0

Let me disagree with a bit: "he's an asshole" (with higher SMV than mine) = I'm attracted to him "he's an asshole" (with lower SMV) "he's a creep" = I'm not
/r/TheRedPill01/09/14 06:40 AM
2

won't those things increase my SMV post relationship? Yeah but something would increace it much more: realizing you are not there yet to date a girl "that hot" and she is not the type you should date. You have developed oneitis already for her. You are not in the right mindset to be the captain of the ship. Espacially with this high partner count. What you should do is go back to the drawing board and continue working on yourself as a man for the coming year instead of trying to start a relation…
/r/askTRP31/08/14 07:58 PM
0

Yes, meeting "cool" people and being away will totally get her wet for you. The male hamster is strong in you.
/r/askTRP31/08/14 07:32 PM
0

for those of you who think I should walk away, why? Because you blew your frame. She's got the control over your relationship now and you are waiting for her to set her rules. she says she doesn't know what her attitude towards me is. So she's waiting to see if you are a good puppy. You cannot regain this control (not with lower SMV). Especially after the LTR begins on her terms. You will simply get betafied over a year and she will jump to the next one. You cannot raise your SMV in 2 months to …
/r/askTRP31/08/14 07:03 PM
2

The way to go here is to become her teacher. If you don't want to teach her then yeah i suggest nexting. This way is not pump and dump: teach her about sex and her body. Teach her how to be a decent person and let her live out her fantasies. Because every girl has that one: an experienced strong man taking her virginity. If you frame your relationship this way it's easier to keep the higher SMV and the power dynamics.
/r/TheRedPill31/08/14 07:09 AM
0

Please elaborate. You do the monogamous "we are going out" thing and dump them on a two-strike rule after a few months?
/r/TheRedPill31/08/14 07:04 AM
0

Analyze the situation, make your decision in 7 seconds, stick to it and move on with your life. You've got better things to do than worry about this chick. I don't know what the fuck would i do without this subreddit. I needed that thanks.
/r/askTRP29/08/14 09:39 PM
0

Yes, fucking your ex with herpes is better than fapping. /s
/r/askTRP29/08/14 08:14 AM
3

Life is cruel.
/r/askTRP28/08/14 02:35 PM
2

http://therationalmale.com/ read everything here. The confirmation you get must be coming from inside of you. You can read experiences everywhere but the only person who can determine which way is yours to change is again only just you. Can you change your current relationship? Most will say no but it's up to you try but at the end of that road there is the high possibility of breaking up. We are not here to make your decisions for you, we are here to provide a framework and insight. Based on th…
/r/askTRP28/08/14 02:11 PM
1

Any advice on kissing? Use your dick!
/r/askTRP28/08/14 01:39 PM
6

You wanted to vent. That's okay. First step is not to be a dumb fuck who can't even take his time to read the freaking sidebar on the parent sub.
/r/askTRP28/08/14 01:38 PM
9

Shit will hit the fan. If you go and play nice with her family she will be more upset when you tell her yeah we are not getting in an LTR than you declining the invitation stating you are not her boyfriend. Going indicates your want an LTR. Only go if you want.
/r/askTRP28/08/14 12:18 PM
0

No you dumb fuck.
/r/askTRP28/08/14 12:14 PM
13

You don't go to a plate's family happening. What do you think will happen? Family this is the guy who makes me his whore once a week, i'm glad you finally meet! I don't even go to my LTR's extended family happenings.
/r/askTRP28/08/14 12:13 PM
8

I live in Budapest, Hungary. You can catch really good ones here on the 0-2 dicks scale. The CC exists and if they start riding it it's the same. But you can find a small amount of sophomores in college who are still virgins (and not ugly, just self-image issues and such) and a significant amount who are in LDR with their high school beta / trying to get over them. Alphas basically are almost non-existent in the 20-30 year old bracket. I have met a handful of ~40 yo naturals but all of them were…
/r/TheRedPill28/08/14 11:26 AM
5

They are morons cut contact. It's a defense mechanism for their egos.
/r/TheRedPill27/08/14 02:29 PM
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I fucked a chick on the 2nd date who said this. Me and my buddy cold approached a group of 4: 3 girls 1 guy. Just went up and said hey guys, mind if we join you? They said sure. Guy and Girl were a pair and left shortly after leaving us 2 vs 2. Just talking, touching, dancing, making out. Got her number. I call her and set up a date. We go out and drink a few beers. I tell her it's getting late, let's finish this beer and we are going to your place. "Uhh okay you can sleep there but nothing gonn…
/r/TheRedPill27/08/14 10:13 AM
1

The human race is pretty well off. Actually better than ever. Women's mate choosing is very successful, there are 7 billion of us right now. You know who are doomed? The betas. But i can see that betas = human race in your eyes so yes, for you, the human race is doomed.
/r/askTRP26/08/14 10:25 AM
1

I think i get the idea. Thanks.
/r/TheRedPill25/08/14 02:17 PM
0

It's your choice to stay the way you are. Everything is up to you.
/r/TheRedPill25/08/14 01:34 PM
1

Sounds horrible lol. Just pick up something you do by yourself outside the house and it's none of her business.
/r/TheRedPill25/08/14 01:29 PM
12

My father did. I quoted him.
/r/TheRedPill25/08/14 01:28 PM
1

How about lust for experience? Was there never a problem when she thinks that you are the only have she has been with and wants to try other dicks? Does this never happen if you are the in the 5% RP? Is it just the case that you are constantly doing self improvement and literally you are her best option in every year of your lives?
/r/TheRedPill25/08/14 01:25 PM
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You do not tell her anything for fuck's sake... it pisses me off when she does that shit Well there is your problem. Your woman has the lead on your emotions. It should be the other way around; you have to be stoic. She implied that I was going to just bring it up for her and said, " oh, you can't bring the basket up with you? Shake your head, head to your bedroom, grab your pillow and you don't sleep next to her. You get up early in the morning and head to the gym (or after if you work early sh…
/r/TheRedPill25/08/14 12:51 PM
1

Have her as a plate for a few months before upgrading her to LTR. got a no but a yes to something in the future. Wait until Thursday, call her and invite her to do something Saturday. "I'm heading to this bar Saturday, join me". That's it. If it's a no again but yes in the future that means she sees you as a beta orbiter. "No worries take care" you hung up the phone and go out Saturday to look for your next target. She would drop any plans if she wanted to be with you.
/r/askTRP25/08/14 12:41 PM
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Well then it is time for me to go home. Goodnight. Congratulations, you did the right thing. Don't convince yourself into a relationship for sex it's clear you don't want an LTR right now, just sex. Her: "I can't do this. You don't want to have a relationship. I don't want one thing without the other. We can't continu like this." This is either true or a shit test. If it's true don't waste your and her time. If it's a shit test don't waste your time by contacting her or talking to her. Ignore he…
/r/askTRP25/08/14 12:32 PM
4

You did too much explaining. Actions instead of words. She came over, wrapped her arms around me and apologized and said she gets so frustrated that she can't keep the house as clean as she'd like. Aaaand you believed it. You had frame for a moment and threw it away the instant she gave you physical contact. Stop doing housework and practice dread game.
/r/TheRedPill25/08/14 12:19 PM
2

I married one in 1995. Please elaborate. Was she a virgin? Low dick count? What was your age / her age at that time? their views arent popular these days. Please explain these views.
/r/TheRedPill25/08/14 12:05 PM
2

That's why i love average girls. As my father said, a hole is a hole. But for a 10/10 girl i disagree. She will leave the successful alpha engineer for the successful alpha CEO if the CEO waves at her to come.
/r/TheRedPill25/08/14 11:48 AM
8

I find the first woman's reaction of joy particularly disgusting. I don't. That's how women are. Accept it.
/r/TheRedPill25/08/14 11:24 AM
1

What about the loneliness? That's the point. Accepting that you are alone in this world. Even if you have a girlfriend and friends, you are still alone. One of your problems is you don't want to accept this life fact.
/r/TheRedPill25/08/14 11:18 AM
2

and has only ever been your ho This is an interesting point. Is this the definition of wife material? An alpha virgin? My current LTR was a virgin when we met. She is getting the alpha fucks from me to a great degree. I'm moving to the west in a few years and we discussed that will be the end of us. Does this mean i "ruined" her as wife material?
/r/TheRedPill25/08/14 10:25 AM
4

Hi there my young friend! Here are 4 articles. They are long and will take hours to you to read but you will understand what's happening. The thing is, as a high school guy your looks just don't represent a man and for HS girls that's the only thing that matters: looks. Don't sweat it though; work on yourself and you will have plenty of pussy. http://therationalmale.com/2014/03/16/preventative-medicine-part-i/ http://therationalmale.com/2014/03/26/preventative-medicine-part-ii/ http://therationa…
/r/askTRP24/08/14 10:47 AM
1

Just a reminder for you. Let her cry. She is in control for it. Try it: next time hold eye contact and with the most stoic body language and voice tell her she can stop it because you are unaffected completely. Watch her as she stops it in an instant.
/r/askTRP23/08/14 10:07 PM
3

I suggest to just cut contact. Your oneitis won't be cured if you keep fucking her. You need to fuck others. If you decide otherwise: "you use me only for sex. I'm not your breathing fleshlight" Then don't come over. Show her the door. Ideas about sexting or using snapchat/skype for fun ? No. Don't give her any attention. The only time she is having your attention while your dick is contacting her.
/r/askTRP23/08/14 10:01 PM
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I think these are not shit tests per se but her being reeeealy insecure. LTR will come in sometimes Clear sign of it. You don't sound like LTR material from your perspective. 2 jobs, 5 days a week at the gym. You have to make your partner feel secure and loved in an LTR and that requires time which you clearly do not have. I think the opposite is happening what you are thinking: you are not showing any beta value AT ALL. That's why she is insecure this much. Balacing Alpha and Beta is a must in …
/r/askTRP23/08/14 09:48 PM
3

Don't be afraid of being straigth forward with your actions. If your intention is to fuck her don't act otherwise. You know what turns girls on? Ripping off her clothes with your eyes. She seeing the masculine maneregy in your actions. She is a whore not a princess.
/r/askTRP23/08/14 09:37 PM
1

Get blowjobs from high school girls in parking lots. Seriously.
/r/askTRP23/08/14 09:05 PM
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What do you think my chances of success are? Zero. You say you were both virgin? You are lame in bed. That's what take it slower means. She doesn't enjoy sex with you but wants to keep you around for the emotional support. Modeling and very social? You are in a world of hurt if you stay with her. Your only chane is to become a master of sex but that's not something you can quickly do. When you ask her "how many times did you cum" and the answer is not "woah i have no idea" then you are not doing…
/r/askTRP23/08/14 08:53 PM
2

Oh it has. It has a positive effect on it.
/r/TheRedPill23/08/14 05:53 PM
1

Young average looking women are very, very common I came to this conclusion also. Find a shy 6/10 and make her a 7.5/10 with excersize and good fucking. They feel so special being with you. The girls who didn't get the alpha cocks (or any) in high school. You can make her your own whore. I'm in an LTR with a chick this kind (21 yo) and it's fucking sweet.
/r/TheRedPill23/08/14 05:39 PM
1

I presume you ask about girls who appear on exploited college girls and such sites. They make easy money. They get (probably) a good banging and most of these girls only have been with betas who finger them two times then cum in 3 minutes. They do it becuase they enjoy the raw sex without the guy being emotionally connected to them. Believe it or not most girls enjoy their partner using them. And also they are young and free and yadayada nobody will find these videos in 8 years when they are dec…
/r/askTRP23/08/14 05:18 PM
1

Actually the opposite i'm looking to create liquid with instruments. Music is expensive if you want to make it big and you have to invest a lot of money into equipment. It's also really time consuming and takes years to harvest profit. In the meantime i need money and a career. I like my current occupation and it's a great provider of money. Also it's good fallback knowledge if i'm not good enough to make more money from music than my software skills.
/r/askTRP23/08/14 03:05 PM
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Thoughts? Only faggots try to get women online.
/r/askTRP22/08/14 09:42 PM
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My next move is to move to Amsterdam and try out myself as a liquid dnb artist. To actually make this move i need to deepen my knowledge as a software engineer (my current occupation), get a job there and compose music in my free time.
/r/askTRP22/08/14 09:39 PM
1

By being alone. You live alone and hunt alone. Maybe with one other guy, but you are alone and don't let anybody interfere with your lifestyle. Your targets are girls with social pressure on them who find this lone wolf life style hot as fuck.
/r/askTRP22/08/14 09:29 PM
1

never thought it would be possible for it to end the way it did. I'll gladly hear you out if you need to vent. Also i'm in my unicorn relationship and interested.
/r/TheRedPill22/08/14 05:01 PM
1

I appreciate your answers! How do you handle this while having a partner? I assume she is monogamous to you and doesn't know about your plates. I'm asking this because somebody here suggested me i should have plate(s) beside my girlfriend to restore my subconscious frame. First i declined the idea (thatwouldbecheating!!!) but as weeks go by i'm accepting that answer more and more. I actually had a dream where i went out to get laid and yesterday i had a dream where she was with another guy and w…
/r/TheRedPill22/08/14 02:22 PM
2

You can't control a woman. You can. That's the point. If you can't that means YOU are not able to do so. You set borders and tell what's wrong and right -- that's how you raise a daughter, but not a woman. Same shit really. That's what makes you a man in her eyes. You say how it is. She either accepts it or leaves.
/r/TheRedPill22/08/14 02:08 PM
1

I'm guessing you're asking if we use rubbers? Lol no. I'm asking about your dynamics not a step by step scenario. I'm interested in overall session length, foreplay length and type (kinky? vanilla?), the balance between hard and fast fucking versus slow and deep fucking. Or is raw sex here just non-stop pussy pounding for 2 hours?
/r/TheRedPill22/08/14 02:01 PM
1

I am not that kind of girl. Please help me how to defuse this bomb. What did you do?
/r/TheRedPill22/08/14 01:56 PM
1

Please describe this raw sex you are having.
/r/TheRedPill22/08/14 01:44 PM
2

She was the sweetest person I ever met and now she is more or less a whore to me. And should stay a whore to you. YOUR whore. You can have your hugs and sweetness from her but that requires fucking her half dead and holding your frame. This is a woman's real sweetness not that illusion bullshit you were having in the first place.
/r/TheRedPill22/08/14 01:26 PM
2

Edit: I want to answer another related question before my rant: how do i know she won't cheat when it's just a Wednesday night and she goes out to a bar? The answer is simple: keep fucking the living shit out of her. If you make her a happy girl and rail her regularly until she dries up and cannot take any more orgasms, she won't cheat. Just like you are really not up for sex after having 2-4 orgasms every day for 2 weeks, she is not up for sex after having "i don't know how many orgasms did i h…
/r/TheRedPill22/08/14 12:35 PM
1

Nothing more. You do not to explain yourself to anybody. Especially some girl who is not even fucking you.
/r/askTRP22/08/14 11:41 AM
5

I can't wait for your book "how i ruined my life". I hope you will sign a copy for me!
/r/askTRP22/08/14 10:29 AM
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You are a bit off on the alphaness but it's clear you are progressing. You are still outcome dependent. Shouting after her was anything but alpha. I really missed her and that's why I tried to be close to her, put my arm around her Really wrong approach and mindset. What you should have done is to keep distance. Say hi, a kiss to the face then keep distance. If she is not coming to you after 5 minutes she is not into you. That's when you say you have shit to do and leave. I was pissed that she a…
/r/TheRedPill21/08/14 11:09 AM
5

I'm in an LTR with a bit of fucked up girl. Not crackhead parents fucked up, but narcissistic overbearing family and no father figure fucked up. BluepillProfessor above you wrote this: This is a strong girl and she just need a strong, stoic, supportive, guiding hand. This should be your frame. These girls want nothing else but to learn from a strong man. Teach her everything you know about life, hard work, relationships, sex, men, women. Teach her how the world works. Aspire her to find interest…
/r/askTRP21/08/14 09:04 AM
7

They engage small talk and hold eye contact much longer.
/r/askTRP20/08/14 02:41 PM
6

of course her libido will go into overdrive. She's back into competition with other females for a higher value male. I'm experiencing this right now in my LTR. The girl betafied me and wanted to break up. I found TRP and went back to alpha. I told her she is more than welcome to leave, September is near and the juicy freshmen are coming and i can easily replace her with multiple 18 year olds. We have been fucking every day for 2 weeks, 1-4 hour sessions. She says she needs a break but her wet pu…
/r/TheRedPill18/08/14 08:38 AM
1

While every case is unique i think that would be too much. I think these types of girls worth a try. She had a long dry spell as a fatty and decided to change that with success. Girls who have been low on their sex life in their teens and/or early 20's have one thing in common: they have an unfulfilled sexual fantasy from their teen years. They don't know what it is (well girls don't know shit about themselves in general), they don't know they need it, but it's in their unconscious mind. If you …
/r/TheRedPill15/08/14 01:55 PM
1

Well i was asking about your reading. Please visit /r/suicidewatch. Call your local suicide line it's free. Yes life is a game but that's just the reason you can take it lightly and have fun playing the game. Suicide is the easy way out, don't do that.
/r/askTRP15/08/14 08:16 AM
0

As the other dude said, go back to reading and lurking until you see how dumb your questions are.
/r/TheRedPill14/08/14 02:34 PM
3

Seems like he wants to ignore it. They always want. You cannot force the pill down on anyone's throat.
/r/TheRedPill14/08/14 02:31 PM
1

but outside of the U.S., shit like this can get you killed. European citizen here. That's not true, i too enjoy pulling girls while they are with their orbiters. In the non-ghetto part of the city, of course. In the college districts it's the same shit as there.
/r/TheRedPill14/08/14 09:40 AM
5

High risk high reward. She asks for this. I live in Europe it's not that harsh as in the USA. I don't care what people think.
/r/TheRedPill14/08/14 08:15 AM
1

Read the sidebar material and lurk for a few months before you start commenting. That reply is horrible.
/r/TheRedPill14/08/14 06:31 AM
7

When my girlfriend disrespects me i slap her face. Not too hard, just with enough strenth she knows i'm serious. Discipline turns her the fuck on but she is having a hard time accepting this fact. I imagine this slapping scenario would describe an abusive relationship to the hamsters.
/r/TheRedPill14/08/14 06:27 AM
9

, but if daddy never taught you to share, then I'm going to have to." Dude. Did you pull this out of your butt? It's fucking epic. /clap
/r/TheRedPill14/08/14 06:11 AM
2

Hey man, i was in your shoes. You don't need a group of people just one another guy to go out with who is willing to talk to strangers. Also if you are an introvert, go for the quiet girls. Believe me they want to fuck more than the loud ones because they rarely get approached. I had my share with the extrovert party girls and they cannot sit on their asses for 5 fucking minutes. If you are looking for FWBs (or LTR material) who you can sit on your couch with AFTER (and i mean AFTER) sex, watch …
/r/TheRedPill13/08/14 04:04 PM
3

Your goal is to be a better man than you were last week. Without lifting that's not gonna happen.
/r/TheRedPill13/08/14 01:42 PM
1

Thank you for poiting it out. I'm having this problem with my game right now, your comment helped me to get closer to this mindset. Thanks again!
/r/TheRedPill12/08/14 06:16 PM
2

So in conclusion, did OP end his dread game too early?
/r/TheRedPill12/08/14 02:43 PM
3

Can confirm. Started my journey from r/seduction 3 years ago. Beta me could find lays every month.
/r/TheRedPill12/08/14 11:30 AM
9

I can't wait for the millennial generation to grow 18+. Telling them to put away their phone i'm sure most of them will whine. I wonder how many tail i will be able to pull by walking away at that moment.
/r/TheRedPill12/08/14 06:42 AM
2

I use the word "attitude" for (almost) every emotional swing. It's really like training a dog, she hears the word "attitude" from me and knows she fucked up. Also throw in a quick but hard spanking.
/r/TheRedPill12/08/14 06:36 AM
4

I'm 24 and she is 21. My current long-term goals need 8-12 years of work to become reality, which includes living in different countries. I gave up on these goals a bit and it made me less of a man. She started to drift apart, that's how i found this place. The moment i decided to continue on my original path i had her again around my fingers. Also she is a woman, she will have her need for babies and i'm not up for it until i reach my goals. I could keep her around but let's look at the possibl…
/r/TheRedPill11/08/14 03:02 PM
3

They are the best for LTRs (if you prefer to spin LTRs). You pick out a willing 6.5/10 in her early 20s, make her a 8/10 in 2-3 years and release her. I'm currently in the 2nd year of this process and i love it.
/r/TheRedPill11/08/14 10:33 AM
1

Thanks for your point of view but i think cheating is not the answer here. You are right about valuing her too much, that's becuase i care about her. I'm in the middle of rebuilding my frame. (i know lot of people here say that's not possible / not worth but i want to learn from my own mistakes :P).
/r/TheRedPill09/08/14 10:09 PM
0

Being at-peace with the possibility How the fuck do you do this? I recently found my RP self and went out to dance last night with my girlfriend. My muscles began to came back (i was decently ripped when we met, got fat during the LTR), my confidence is rising. We were early at the party and was the first couple to start dancing. There were a few losers standing with girls just doing nothing because the party was empty, just me and my girl. Man, the eyes those girls standing with the betas gave …
/r/TheRedPill09/08/14 01:50 PM
1

You need time to strengthen your mind and body. This can take from 2 months to 2 years. There always will be 20 year old girls, no need to rush.
/r/TheRedPill09/08/14 01:24 PM
3

I disagree. The femininsts are the wall hitting sluts who coulnd't figure out value men will choose others to marry if they suck 100 dicks in their party years.
/r/TheRedPill09/08/14 12:45 PM
12

and exercise the hell out of your body in order to achieve what we consider a male beauty standard. This is just half truth. You have to excersie your mind also to achieve male beauty standard. With just muscles you are a frat boy, not a man.
/r/TheRedPill09/08/14 12:42 PM
1

A slut will be more used up i don't think you need math here. It's a strong enough correlation. And how does it magically give a girl entitlement issues? Because after the good party years when she had every attention in the form she wanted (dominant alpha cocks) and riding 50-100 of them, she decides it's time for settle. She shifts her need of attention in another direction in order to get some moron to marry her. It won't be met. It's her turn to get constantly rejected from what she wants an…
/r/TheRedPill08/08/14 06:42 AM
4

Where do you get these girls?
/r/TheRedPill07/08/14 01:33 PM
1

That 6 month chasing time is actually a really good idea. Thanks!
/r/TheRedPill07/08/14 08:57 AM
2

I will treat a woman with respect and equality when that makes her pussy wet, not the other way around as I had to find out the hard way. Until that they are a piece of meat.
/r/TheRedPill07/08/14 08:16 AM
1

Who would have thought... Honestly? This guy.... Fuck my life.
/r/TheRedPill07/08/14 08:03 AM
2

Why are people surprised that this behavior is somehow not the norm, or that "romantic" dating was ever really a thing? BECAUSE I WAS FUCKING TAUGHT TO FOR FUCK'S SAKE (still in the anger phase)
/r/TheRedPill07/08/14 08:01 AM
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Why is it a big deal if they choose to use that advantage? It's really not. But i can choose between a 28 year old woman with a gaping pussy having entitlement and attitude and a 22 year old woman with a tight body, a will to serve and only 2-4 dicks have been in her. I have an honest question also. Why the hell would i choose the first? Having casual sex is more than okay. But every dick in you decreases your marriage value.
/r/TheRedPill07/08/14 07:15 AM
8

I don't think they are crazy. They are just hard-wired and subconscious. They seem crazy because we bought the shit that they are looking for "the one". Bullshit, they are looking for what's best for them at the moment. A 20 yo fucks me because of my muscles. A 30 yo fucks me because i'm stable and thinks i will be her provider. They don't care about you. They care about themselves and that's often requires to pretend they care about you. Pretend might not be the right word, because i believe th…
/r/TheRedPill06/08/14 01:03 PM
19

Growing up my father always told me and my brother to never get married. I know understand. Thanks dad.
/r/TheRedPill06/08/14 09:51 AM
5

Thanks for the perspective!
/r/TheRedPill05/08/14 12:35 PM
5

Isn't everybody's endgoal kids and a permanent woman? I mean i can't imagine fucking around being that interesting when i'm 50.
/r/TheRedPill05/08/14 11:10 AM
24

Is this family shit worth it in conclusion?
/r/TheRedPill05/08/14 10:43 AM
1

Did she move out man? How are you doing?
/r/TheRedPill04/08/14 02:23 PM
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which leaves her with two options: be submissive, or look for the door. The story of my first deepthroat.
/r/TheRedPill04/08/14 01:58 PM
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Now I'm pursuing things I would never believe I would be doing. I need to have a detailed list about these. Please brag!
/r/TheRedPill04/08/14 01:35 PM
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Help me out here i'm just swallowing the pill. Isn't that boring? Dating 18 year olds? I'm 24 right now cannot imagine taking a 18 yo girl seriously. Or is this the whole point here? That we never should take women seriously? From this subreddit i get the feeling that life-long partnership is an illusion. That emotional investment in a woman is the stupidest mistake i can make (which i have been making my whole life). I don't really see how i can move in together with someone. How i can take the…
/r/TheRedPill01/08/14 09:30 AM
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I just don't have the energy most of the time to be that socially outgoing. Don't sweat this aspect too much. It's a process. Just like you won't bench 80kg (176 lbs) during your first month in the gym. I'm also an introverted person who just needs to be left the fuck alone and not care about women sometimes. Let it wear out slowly but steadily.
/r/TheRedPill28/07/14 12:47 PM
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I would not have sex with someone unless I was dating them. Care to elaborate why? I don't date someone until it's proven we are compatible in bed. Why would i invest time and energy into someone who doesn't like what i want to do to her in the bedroom? Why would you?
/r/TheRedPill28/07/14 10:40 AM
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she is only there as the result of my skillful manipulations When you are a gentleman that's skillful manipulation too. You ask her out and bring her flowers. You are acting as cartoons and your mom said you to do. You hope she falls for you. Swallow the pill, man. This is just as much emotional manipulation as ignoring her / dominating her. You just think this because you were taught the first one is acceptable and the second one isn't. The difference is bringing her flowers won't get you laid.…
/r/TheRedPill28/07/14 10:31 AM
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or if the girl has some underlying insecurity (financial or emotional) that makes her cling to you. This is happening to me right now. She became too powerful and secure by my side and i reminded her that her power and security comes from ME. She admitted she was scared (while crying) and forgot she cling to me so hard when we met because i gave her those things. I reminded her she can go and fuck other guys no problem, there is the door. She said she no longer desires to fuck other people. I or…
/r/TheRedPill25/07/14 11:54 AM
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When it comes to women, education doesn't matter that much. This is so fucking hard to accept :/ Thanks for the answer.
/r/TheRedPill25/07/14 08:22 AM
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So if Susie won't change... do i have to dump Susie even if it breaks my heart?
/r/TheRedPill24/07/14 08:32 PM
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What about successful educated women? Am i an idiot thinking they are not the same? What's the different approach here for a 21yo college girl versus a 35 yo professional?
/r/TheRedPill24/07/14 08:13 PM
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Dude. Just. You blew my mind. Wow.
/r/TheRedPill24/07/14 07:55 PM
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and are equal partners in this relationship You sure you read and understood the material? You are going into this with a wrong mindset. How do I change her mind-set on this? You make your rules. She either accepts them or you will let her go. This goes for anything in your relationship. It's just not worth your time jumping into this with the wrong mindset. It's your rules. You are the man. She wants to live in your world; not the other way around. You cannot change her but you can have the rig…
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You force yourself out of your comfort zone. You approach, burn, learn. Repeat until success. No "tips" exist. No short cuts exist. You embrace the difficulty and expand your limits. Or you can masturbate in the corner between two League of Legends games.
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It's a bit unrealistic even if you plan to fetch yourself a 18 year old. I think the ideal would be 1 dick count: she had one LTR with a beta schmuck in HS/college. In this case she has all the first break up getting over done and also the i wonder how other dicks would feel thing experienced (the same you dumb slut). I would consider 2 dick count in some cases. She had 2 LTRs for example, that's okay. Above 2 is just not worth my resources. I'm not too mad about reproduction and will keep my mo…
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Maybe some input on Debian changing it's system management suite from systemd to sysvinit? What side are you on?
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Tell her to do so or she can leave.
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Thanks for your comments. I have decided to nuclear dread on her and see where does that get me instead of just breaking up. It will probably work (have already done it about 7 months ago when i found TRP) but i'm a bit skeptical. If it goes another round and we are back at her loosing tingles for me, what does that mean? Is this a part of every LTR and i have to learn to handle it? Is this an are-you-an-alpha some sort of test from her? Do i handle these topics (she cheking out older men; she m…
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I have been doing these things you suggest. I work out every other day. I read that book and fucked her hours. I did every nasty thing i wanted for a great period of and she always asked for more. (Deepthroat, hitting her which she asked for, rape play, anal. One time after she threw up during deepthroat i forced her face into the vomit while she was crying. Later she said she loved every moment of it.) I don't mean beta bux by the man in suit example. That's her preference. That's the type of m…
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What happened is she started to work and of course a lot of men flirt with her. She is an attractive 21 year old innocent looking girl. Of course she can do better, i'm just 24. Any decent 30's man in a suit is better than me. I cannot compete here. I will tell her to move out as soon as she gets home.
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Thanks for the perspective. Yes she is bored. I'm busy with my career right now and honestly wasn't really worried about her because right now she is not that important; my career is. Last year i spent a lot of resources on her and haven't had time for my career. This year i want it the other way around. Is my attitude's results showing THIS early? I cannot catch a break it seems... I know that i would be better off cutting her but that's the easy way out. She hasn't done anything yet except sig…
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Her phone and facebook are clear and she goes out rarely. Introverted like me. If she is she's doing one great job.
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Yeah that was my conclusion too. Maybe the lack of it is the cause. I hate dread, i did a nuclear one when i discovered TRP but it's freaking exhausting. Guess no other way.
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You prioritize your ego. With the waves of beta males out there today, it's no surprise lot of girls have never been called out on disrespect. It's almost default to them. If you have a zero tolerance policy you miss your chance to discipline them. That's not a problem in itself, but that's the gate to full submission. Also humans make mistakes, if you don't tolerate any you are not a quality male in whom she can seek shelter and protection, because you just toss her if she slips up. If you are …
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You are weak.
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That's epic disrespect. Not the part where she doesn't tell you (well that's too but it's lesser) but the fact she ACTS STUPID. Is she retarded? Nobody forgets their family is coming. She is DISRESPECTING you by thinking you are THAT STUPID TO EAT THAT UP. You call her out on it and she needs to make it up to you. The first disrespect is forgetable IF she apologizes. You have to make clear with her if she does it again you are out.
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Told by who?
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What's to understand? You ate up the 2nd dick story and went full beta. You can find a 23 yo girl who only got one dick, but she won't be an 8. They are in the 4-6 zone. As on why did you act this way, rewiring your brain takes years, you started in February.
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With a virgin the only thing that matters is progression. Is there any? A few months without dicking but with build-up is fine, i did it with my current LTR (was a virgin). However, if after 4 months she is still not putting out, that means she is not interested. Or it can mean whatever the fuck she blabbers, bottom line is you are wasting your time. I suggest to tell her it's ok to wait, but you need sex so you are going to get it elsewhere. And do go get it elsewhere.
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For me it was lifting. Instead of feeling sorry for yourself, practice some disipline. For a year lift 4-5 days a week. You will hear the voice of your instinct and know what to do.
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Without sex she is a room mate, not your girlfriend. It's up to you to find out whether the rape thing is true or not. If it's true, and she is unable to have sex, she needs professional help, not a "boyfriend". if it goes another month No. If it goes another minute, you are done. For the future, just fuck a hooker senseless next time instead of wasting your time for kisses.
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You do nothing. It's possibly not even aimed at you personally. She is just bored with simply shit testing him and just having fun with some more. I say she is just trying to get under your skin to see if it's working (and looking to see where is the limit where the beta boyfriend even notices it) or not. Think of her as your cousin or something and repell it off effortlessly.
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It's fucking lame but that's what happens when you try to get girls while sitting in the front of your computer. Go out and burn, no other way to learn.
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NNNNNNNOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO
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The guy sitting behind me at work stinks like FUCK. It just gets no my nose and want to throw up. On the topic, drugs are not for everyone and you won't convince the non-takers about anything. Just like people who think creatine and protein powder are steroids and you won't die from liver failure next year...
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Welcome to the hardcore league. Maintaining balance between LTR and your own life is hard as fuck. You are just a bit overwhelmed with your success. Don't you dare to step back! The Rational Male and other RP literature that preaches that I should go These are guide lines. Not laws. As a rational man you are to read, understand and decide for yourself. You decided to LTR this chick because she is awesome. Throwing that away because a blog said so is moronic. Own your choices. I want to point out…
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and that I missed my chance. "I was busy with a college girl" is what you respond to that.
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First i want to advise you not to be too hasty and observe the situation for at least a few days before making a decision. While you have to start dread game right away, find out the why. It might be that you are not being dominant enough or some kind of shortcoming you don't notice is turning her off. There is a thing as a bit too much of the other person. Getting her to stay a whole week was a mistake. You gave her 100% attention which you do not do under any circumstance in an LTR. The thing …
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It's not an ultimatum because in that way you are giving her the power to choose your actions. You simply state where the lines are and ACT upon them without hesitation. No questions asked, you state the lines and if she crosses them you disappear like you don't even exist.
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You went full retard wth that question.
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I did the same at that age. Let him be a teenager. Coding is way more interesting than club sluts anyway. If you want to do something for him, bring him to the gym with you. If he refuses there is nothing you can do.
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If the guy isn't commiting then she haven't won shit. But that's the game you always have to be prepared for someone better coming along. I always tell my LTR she is free to jump ship if she finds someone better. I wouldn't mind going back to spinning college plates. There are no short cuts. You have been defeated; embrace it. You can find newfound strength in that if you don't dwell in self pity. Read Rollo's Unplugging post http://therationalmale.com/2012/07/25/the-5-stages-of-unplugging/ You …
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You got rewarded too. You got rid of a slut and now can focus on yourself and fuck 20 year olds until your dick dies of old age.
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Cut all contact. Not just with her, with her family and common "friends". Lift, improve your career. As soon as you fuck somebody else you really won't care anymore. Don't rush into that though, give yourself time to heal.
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made her look.... broken Every single fucking one of them is broken. The difference is how long can they hold the illusion of not being broken. This one has some serious issues. She wanted to be used as a sex doll to your pleasure and be a good girl for daddy. You feel weird because she opened up to be vulnerable too easly and too fast. She feels weird because you had zero idea how to handle this. The next day without the alcohol her psychological problems were repressed, pulled back from the vu…
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Emigrate to the Netherlands. No. Seriously.
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I'm in the 2nd year of LTR with a girl who was virgin. You should not treat her differently but the pace should be different. If she wants you to take her virginity she will have to work for it. I had a 3rd date blowjob with this girl. The rule still applies she has to put out; but don't dick her too early. The sex from her part is blowjobs and handjobs. From you it's just clit orgasms. After a month if you decided she is worthy of it, start with one finger. Do this for a few weeks until you see…
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Game wise: Do the same. Preferably to somebody who she thinks has lower SMV than her. Random butter commercial with random mom in it? Ohh so hot. TRP wise: On the other hand i hope you are lifting consistently. If you are not at least toned you have to bite and admit to yourself she is right. Look in the mirror and determine where does disrespect begin from her part. Yes, that swimmer is hot but if it's a common behaviour pattern from her it's massive shit testing which you should shoot down.
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You have already read enough. Without matching field experience your theoretical knowledge doesn't worth shit. It's time to get off reddit and get on some girls.
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She said it made her bleed and such, Maybe don't be a fuckwit and don't hurt her? Retard...
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It's up to you. It's sure as fuck a 9+ won't be exclusive to you. If you want exclusive plates you have to choose wisely. You have to be much better than her other options that those options seem dull and boring to her. Personally, i prefer them to be exclusive. How do i do this? Basically, choose young alpha virgins. Do you have an alpha mindset? Do you have a decently muscular body? Can you fuck her brains out? When you have these in place the average 6-7 girls who had their beta LTR in high s…
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You thank her for her honesty, dump her and start self improving to become a man.
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She: I thought this could have worked Your answer: I'm having a movie night. Come over. If she comes she will bang you. If not don't waste your time.
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So it's basically girl you are moving out ASAP? What can a guy do in an LTR when this situation comes if a slap to the face is too much?
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that was a childish petty thing I'm sure you'd do it again :P
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Hey man, how are you doing? Any progression?
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