There is a lot of discussion on this subreddit and related subreddits about being in control of your interactions with women. My confusion however is knowing where to draw the line with them. I have read stories of women being punished for even the slightest offense e.g. speaking out of turn, proposing a different opinion. Then there are stories where women are punished only after severely pissing off the man.

I was recently at a convention with a girl and things did not go exactly according to how I imagined. We met up late due to scheduling conflicts and when we did meet up, she would run off by herself amongst the merchandise booths. I imagined the day to go differently and would have rather had her follow my lead, but I can't punish her for doing what she did right? I am unsatisfied but not especially pissed off by her behavior.

What would you all do in this situation, where the girl is not living up to your precise expectations but is not necessarily pissing you off?