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Field Reportgt35r/r/TheRedPill17/03/14 04:06 PM
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Ask Red Pillgt35r/r/TheRedPill09/04/14 01:53 PM
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Ask Red Pillgt35r/r/TheRedPill23/04/14 02:28 PM
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Rant/Ventinggt35r/r/TheRedPill24/02/14 02:16 PM
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Field Reportgt35r/r/TheRedPill06/03/14 06:36 PM
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Ask Red Pillgt35r/r/TheRedPill11/09/14 02:18 PM
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Blue Pill Examplegt35r/r/TheRedPill19/03/14 03:58 PM
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gt35r/r/askTRP01/08/14 03:10 PM
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gt35r/r/seduction07/10/11 11:10 PM
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Rant/Ventinggt35r/r/TheRedPill07/05/14 08:10 PM
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Move on is what you should do, stop all communication with her. Your response to her wasn't bad but I probably wouldn't have said "I am here for you for whatever you want". I would have said something like "best of luck to you" because then you leave the ball in her court. Definitely do not wait around for her to come back to you, continue living like you did prior to meeting her. If for some reason she ever reaches out and wants to hang out, make sure to clarify where she is at with this situat…
/r/seduction07/02/22 05:07 PM
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It's not creepy to ask someone out for coffee, as long as it's a public place to make her feel comfortable on the first meetup. Don't seem like you're trying too hard or acting differently from how you've been talking to her. Just be forward and genuine, "lets meet up for a cup of coffee, when are you free?"
/r/seduction07/02/22 04:55 PM
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The biggest thing I see in this sub constantly is men who do not make their intentions clear, that's where the friendzone always stems from. If you are only talking to them via text and never setting up a date, they will assume that you only want to be friends and it's really hard to claw your way out of the depths of that, possible, but not probable. You have got to make your intentions clear up front, not always immediately but well within first few times of talking to them. Here's what you ne…
/r/seduction07/02/22 04:44 PM
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I think she was being just generally nice and to not look to much into this. If this is a place you like to go also, you might make it weird if she declines any advances towards you. My stepsister is a bar tender and has been for about 7 years, she does not date or even like the types of people who are in bars. Not saying that's the case here but I feel like this woman is really just trying to be nice to you and wanted you to get home safely.
/r/seduction07/02/22 04:31 PM
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Because you are treating them exactly how you should be treating women you are attracted to. When you don't care about expectations and aren't worried about saying something wrong or being yourself or "screwing it up", you are way more comfortable and act more naturally around them and probably more confident without realizing it. This is something that takes a long time to master, but at the end of the day its because you dont put them on a pedestal and treat them accordingly. Which doesn't mea…
/r/seduction03/02/22 05:23 PM
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No better time to learn than now. How do you think people with no experience learn certain jobs? If anything you can use this as a test run for future hook ups with other women. Do not pass this up or decline, suck it up and let things happen and just go with the flow. If you're comfortable around this girl you can even tell her that you're a little nervous, if she likes you she's not going to care.
/r/seduction31/01/22 08:21 PM
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So I can comment on this because I've been in your shoes exactly. The girl in my situation was Venezuelan, and she would always work out near wherever I was no matter what she actually was there to do. There were times I was like, there's no fucking way she's not doing this on purpose. One day I left my water bottle on the bike and she got on and started using it so I had to go back and get it, that sparked the first convo, short but enough to work with. Caught her outside when we were both leav…
/r/seduction31/01/22 08:13 PM
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"It's pretty simple, say yes."
/r/seduction31/01/22 03:57 PM
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The 3, 2, 1, fuck it method is honestly the best mindset to have. A lot of people have probably used this before without realizing it, that little push over the edge is all it takes and ends up being the scariest part. Hesitation is the enemy in this game.
/r/seduction31/01/22 01:54 PM
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Honestly that's your fault, if you want to be anything other than friends you need to set up a date and let it be known early on what your intentions are. Now you are the male girlfriend to her who will provide her attention when she is bored. I'm not picking on you either but this is the type of interaction that puts guys in the "friendzone". Not stating your intentions, asking them out, or showing interest in being more than friends early on will make them think that's what you want and then y…
/r/seduction28/01/22 09:14 PM
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Ignore and don't ever text her again, if she did that on the first date that shows an insane level of disrespect for your time. It wasn't weak at all, in fact she knows she fucked up and that's why she's trying to deflect the blame to you.
/r/seduction28/01/22 09:11 PM
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That's a tiny part of why I posted what I did, the main thing is there is too much lost between reading letters on the screen of your phone. Too much can be misconstrued, sarcasm lost, misunderstandings, etc. My main point is that a lot of peoples threads here start with "Girl texted me this, dont know what to think." Or "I think I fucked my chances up sending this text."
/r/seduction28/01/22 03:58 PM
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Should have responded playfully, "oh was I supposed to wait, I guess I should pause this episode." Or say "shit I finished the season already but if you bring that sexy little ass over here we can watch it together." Biggest thing is not letting it affect you, love and dating is supposed to be fun.
/r/seduction28/01/22 02:45 PM
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Texting is the best way to drive a woman right out of your life even if they like you. I used to be big on texting but you literally exposition dump your entire life/week on them every day and then when you meet up what are you supposed to talk about? Also the whole not knowing the emotion or facial reactions to things being said. You are 100% more likely to say something stupid and fuck the entire thing up texting than you are in person.
/r/seduction28/01/22 02:05 PM
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That's where you don't answer seriously, all playful answers only from then on if she keeps pushing it. "What do you think I am, just a piece of meat?" "Excuse me? I am not that easy." "Only if you play your cards right." "I want to show you my Pokemon card collection." "My pet goldfish really wants to meet you." Just answer stupid shit like that, make her laugh and don't let it throw you off.
/r/seduction27/01/22 09:50 PM
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You have to remove expectations and just talk to them like they're a human being. It sounds like you put every attractive woman you meet on a pedestal and see your entire life with them before opening your mouth. This sounds stupid but treat them like you would treat someone you aren't attracted to, I only say this to calm your nerves don't not flirt with them. But to get the convos started you need to stop the "oh fuck a pretty girl what do I say", and just try to have a normal conversation wit…
/r/seduction27/01/22 03:54 PM
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Fastest way to get someone else's attention is to remove yours.
/r/seduction27/01/22 03:48 PM
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Start to use texting as a method of setting up a date or hangout and try to not use it for meaningless conversation. Most of the time it's just seen as attention and something for them to do, when they get bored of you like a toy they just pick up another one. Set up a date that isn't too far out and then just be quiet. I think a lot of men (me included) fuck things up with text, hangouts can go great but then you end up ruining it by texting something stupid or too much/too often.
/r/seduction27/01/22 03:34 PM
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Sort of depends on the woman. Some are old fashioned depending on their culture or how they were raised, some are just playing the dating field and have other things going on or seeing other people as well so they don't put any effort in and just agree for convenience. I am currently dealing with the first part, she really likes me and I like her a lot but feels the man should be the one planning/initiating. It's much different than some previous relationships but if you dont think the woman is …
/r/seduction25/01/22 09:39 PM
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It might be time to bring up that you are feeling that way with him. What I can tell you is that never saying anything will certainly not help. You feel a certain way, there's a chance he might feel the exact same. If you think you're starting to catch the feels you need to do it so it's a boundary to also protect yourself.
/r/seduction24/01/22 03:45 PM
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You need to do it different, texting is fine once you're in a relationship. But you will not get to know someone over text, you need to be able to create physical and emotional attraction. Also texting can cause you to overthink and take things wrong, much higher chance of fucking up your chances. Use it to set up a time to hang out, that's how you will get to know them.
/r/seduction21/01/22 05:01 PM
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"I'm not that type of girl" is usually a form of shit test and last minute resistance, you failed. I've been there and my advice would be to not let that affect the mood. You can take a few steps back and go back to kissing and maybe get up and refill your drinks. What happened is, it seemed like she said that and it killed your momentum and dropped her attraction towards you. Just giving you advice for next time, don't let it affect you to where you just sit back quietly and watch tv the rest o…
/r/seduction21/01/22 04:57 PM
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Have you tried not just talking to her via text, and trying to set up hanging out? Texting is a bad way to communicate when you're trying to see if someone is interested in you. Plan a date, you don't have to call it that, but try only texting her to plan to hang out and see what happens. If she doesn't respond or isn't interested you'll at least have your answer.
/r/seduction21/01/22 04:51 PM
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Dont decorate your apartment to impress women, that's weak as hell. Decorate with things that YOU like, and YOU enjoy. I personally collect art so I have a lot of art on my walls and I like the minimalistic look/modern look so that's how I mapped my place out. Just make sure it's clean, have clean sheets/clean bathroom and that's all that matters.
/r/seduction21/01/22 04:35 PM
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You're getting an extreme case of breadcrumbs from her, basically holding her over while she finds something/someone else. I would not text her again and try to just move on and find someone who wants to hang out with you and values your time. If she does end up reaching out again, put your foot down and tell her exactly how you feel and what you want out of this. If she isn't interested in the same, send her packing.
/r/seduction21/01/22 02:40 PM
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Some women wont reach out because they're afraid of rejection just as much as you are. If you wait for her to reach out there's a good chance you're actually just fucking yourself. With new women there's literally no reason to play mind games like this, just text her and set something up within 2-3 days or else she's going to assume you are not interested. If she doesn't agree to go out again, look at all the time and money you just saved.
/r/seduction21/01/22 01:47 PM
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This is currently something I'm going through but what I did was set up a boundary when we met up. My ex broke up with me in November and about a week ago she started inviting me to hang out. When she came over to my place and we were making out this past weekend, I pushed her back and sat back and straight told her. "Just letting you know, I am not down for just this, I want us to start hanging out once or twice a week and just see where it goes. We don't have to put a label on it but that's wh…
/r/seduction21/01/22 01:44 PM
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I mean why did you get her number in the first place? If you dont ever set anything up or push to hang out, they're going to assume you aren't interested.
/r/seduction20/01/22 06:47 PM
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Never answer this truthfully if you are single, if you have a girlfriend or are married obviously that's different. But here you should never answer it seriously, "oh that was just my 5th date, but hey I like you a lot more than her." Or you can say "I don't kiss and tell" and smirk, it's all about delivery and confidence. If you aren't good at being sarcastic, do not do this.
/r/seduction20/01/22 02:38 PM
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I'm dealing with a shy girl right now also, not this extreme but more like 70% or so of the level you're explaining. What i've been doing is sort of letting her set the pace a bit and it works. They take a little more time to be comfortable around you and open up. Once you're more comfortable around each other it'll likely get better.
/r/seduction20/01/22 02:06 PM
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Meeting people in person, through mutual friends/co workers, in school, or through your job will always trump dating apps to me. The way sometimes they just fall in your lap when you least expect it has always lead to great relationships, dates, or even just FWB. I am all about the quality over quantity, and you get that initial interaction and vibe of the person instead of hoping that you guys click in person after putting all the text work in through apps.
/r/seduction19/01/22 09:35 PM
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I've been in the same mindset as you honestly man, like to the T. I gained about 25-30lbs from just drinking after work during 2020 work from home. It was just too easy and the fridge was right there. I decided that for me personally it was just better to not focus on women and focus on myself, and if anything happened in the meantime naturally then that would just be an added bonus. Obviously you will do what ends up feeling right to you, but I would want to be happy and proud of myself so that…
/r/seduction19/01/22 09:30 PM
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Women want to be lead, even if they dont realize it. The whole picking a place to go, asking them out to begin with, what they want to eat when you're actually together or long term relationship status. They want the man to decide and lead. Always phrase things as a "lets do this" or "hey I want to go here, come with me", or "there's a new place I want to try out, meet me there at X o'clock". Do not ask yes/no questions, you are giving them the chance for an easy out. This is still relevant in y…
/r/seduction19/01/22 09:22 PM
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Good reaction, smiling, allowing you to continue escalating, maybe mirroring whatever you're doing but back to you in her own way. Bad reaction, pulling away, closed off body language, etc. Maybe she'll even say "no sorry" to a hand on her back/shoulder or touching her hand. Basically body language is the best way to judge reaction.
/r/seduction19/01/22 08:19 PM
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So, someone mentioned this in here a few days ago but it's actually something I sort of do myself. Inside your head you just need to go "1, 2, 3, fuck it" and go for or say whatever you are worried about. I can tell you right now the odds of it going in your favor are 9999% higher if you actually act on it rather than day dreaming "I wonder what it would be like if I made a move". You literally will never know until you do it. Once I started doing this and just getting ballsy and saying or doing…
/r/seduction19/01/22 08:14 PM
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One thing that has been true with me is that the last few quality women I have dated came to me out of nowhere when I wasn't trying. It wasn't me approaching women at bars or on dating apps, it was through randomly meeting them through mutual friends when I was not expecting anything. For whatever reason it keeps happening that way to me, which sort of falls in line with what you said. I have always sort of focused on myself first, and the universe has a funny way of taking control after.
/r/seduction18/01/22 05:44 PM
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I personally just dont use dating apps, every girl I've ever dated has come from mutual friends introducing or randomly meeting in public/school/etc. I tried the dating app thing and the types of women on there just never seemed to interest me. I'm all about that in person interaction to get the initial feel for the person, and if they know a mutual friend it's even better because you can get details on them to help your game with them. This is just an opinion obviously, some people like dating …
/r/seduction17/01/22 08:04 PM
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It's something that comes naturally to people, you just need to relax and this is so cliché but be yourself and dont put up a front because a lot of times people can see through it. If you want to practice, start with your group of friends and just learn to talk more. Don't hold things in that could be funny just because you're worried how others might react.
/r/seduction14/01/22 02:33 PM
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I haven't double texted or over texted I dont think and she's reciprocated pretty heavily, but like I said she hasn't reached out first yet. You right though I probably need to just put my phone down and meet her first so I dont fuck it up lol.
/r/seduction12/01/22 09:53 PM
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I haven't double texted or over texted I dont think and she's reciprocated pretty heavily, but like I said she hasn't reached out first yet. You right though I probably need to just put my phone down and meet her first so I dont fuck it up lol.
/r/seduction12/01/22 09:53 PM
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Only way to get better is to start doing it I used to struggle with this as well. I sort of turn it into a game, just look at them in the eyes until they look away first. It's not as awkward as you think and they will probably be surprised someone is doing it because so many people are actually terrible at it. Also a good way to practice is with co-workers male and female with no expectations just for strictly practice.
/r/seduction11/01/22 04:40 PM
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Bullet dodged, possibly shit testing you but after enough time pressing it I would have done the same thing. You didn't over react, I would have just told her she knew what she was getting into if yall had hung out a few times before.
/r/seduction11/01/22 04:27 PM
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Say you dont kiss and tell, if she asks again say at least 9000 but you lost count, etc. She will likely say something like "im serious" after the first time and once you jokingly answer her a second time she'll likely not push a third. I dont think I've ever answered this question seriously in the past 10 years of my life and had no negative repercussions because of it. It's all about your delivery and not letting it shake you up.
/r/seduction11/01/22 02:17 PM
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That's why this time I am going to be pushing for more physical contact/inviting her over to my place this time. I think we'll both have a much better idea of what's going on this time around depending how it goes. I'm 100% sure she knows I don't want to just be her buddy or something but I will definitely let it be known my intentions if I feel this way after this meetup and it still isn't clear. I agree with you though, I am going in with no expectations other than to have fun.
/r/seduction06/01/22 08:58 PM
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I mean I agree with you but I have a 10 hour work day and like reading other people's stories and posts on this sub so I thought I'd just put what I was going through on here also.
/r/seduction06/01/22 08:52 PM
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Yes, we talked it out that night and understood the reasoning. She wanted space and time to think about our future and even used words like I don't want to give up on a 6 year relationship, but right now it was too stressful for her to work on it and be applying to find her new career/get her dream job. She and her family are Hispanic and I am Caucasian, so her mom has also been super pressuring her for kids/marriage and she had a bit of a breakdown. So for now she's moved back in with her paren…
/r/seduction06/01/22 08:09 PM
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Meeting with a financial advisor, the best thing I ever did. Generally they will meet you at your place of work or lunch and it doesn't cost a thing to hear what they have to say. They basically take some information from you and let you know what they have to offer and explain how they can help your specific situation. I can tell you that it was priceless what I have taken away from the agent I have.
/r/TheRedPill03/03/15 04:06 PM
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Which is why I said this was the first time I did it. I know I should have done it from the start, I got tired of the whole ordeal and just spoke what I should have stated from the beginning.
/r/TheRedPill23/02/15 05:13 PM
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I can go ahead and confirm as someone who went from doing this to finally breaking out of my shell and dropping a truth bomb on a girl who has been "friends" with me since highschool. Straight up told her I'm just looking to bang, not be anything else. Guess what, we haven't talked in 2 months now. On the bright side I'm no longer a listening ear or a emotional tampon. Would recommend 10/10 times.
/r/TheRedPill23/02/15 04:17 PM
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If anyone here has a bad habit with responding to texts you shouldn't, try this. As soon as you get home at the end of the day, put your phone with your keys and go do whatever you were going to do, unwind, relax, shower. I use an actual alarm clock to wake up, so I can live without my phone being next to me 24/7 unlike women and some dudes I know. The next day you can respond to the texts you have missed. Also helps with not texting a woman back right away. I know there's probably reasons why e…
/r/TheRedPill19/02/15 05:08 PM
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One change I've made is the way I drink. From highschool and on I was always the type that just drank to get destroyed as fast as possible with my friends. What I do now is just not chug them down like it's a contest. Walk around, babysit your beer, sip and talk with people if you are out. If you are spitting game, the less drinking you will be doing since your mouth is going to be moving. I just get enough in me to take the edge off and loosen up then I swap to water for a while.
/r/askTRP18/02/15 05:27 PM
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They keep people around for attention, being her time hoe, etc.
/r/askTRP17/02/15 02:53 AM
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I think the guy went overboard with what he said. Almost like trying to explain TRP to someone, a woman at that. I would have gone with what you said and just kissed her or escalated to more sex. He aimed the gun towards himself and pulled the trigger with how he handled it.
/r/TheRedPill04/02/15 08:42 PM
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As soon as I saw the commercial I thought to myself "this is going to be great to read about on TRP in the morning" lol. And I was right, even my dad and his wife both sitting next to me said, "are you fucking serious?"
/r/TheRedPill02/02/15 02:33 PM
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A woman will protect another woman from getting caught cheating or having an affair. I could spend all day on this topic. Typically men will let the other know under the table because of that bond we have with each other. I've seen and experienced first hand women protecting others when they know damn well they are cheating on their boyfriends or husbands, it's disgusting.
/r/TheRedPill28/01/15 03:35 PM
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I know it's cliche as fuck, but for good reason. Document EVERYTHING.
/r/TheRedPill24/01/15 12:11 AM
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What is the carb content of that roughly? And just curious what % milk do you use?
/r/TheRedPill22/01/15 09:38 PM
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I try to get at least 1g/1lb a day. I'll be honest it's hard to hit the exact numbers even with protein shakes involved or maybe it seems hard. I've integrated greek yogurt with protein powder mixed in with my normal shakes to help that. It's all about pre planning your meals. I like cooking for 2 days in advance rather than the whole week. The chicken tastes better and the food is just more fresh and flavorful to me. If you have trouble setting time out of your day to cook, then yeah you should…
/r/TheRedPill22/01/15 05:53 PM
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A dude I know pretty well was talking about how "ugh my girl wants this $2600 anniversary band". They've been married for 5 years lol. Of course I go, so what are you going to do about it? "Well I'll just get it for her cause it makes her happy." Queue my poker face and calmly just shake my head. I can't drop any bombs on him yet as much as I want to, he's the kind of guy that has to hit rock bottom before he gets his head out of his ass to see clearly.
/r/TheRedPill21/01/15 04:51 PM
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OP take the advice here, it's the same advice I wish I had when my LTR (actual LTR of 5 years) did the same shit. It was different if I ever tried to do this but it was more than ok if she requested I let her go. Guess what I did, and I don't know what happened but I'd rather just not find out. Fuck this shit, set your boundaries and hold that frame.
/r/askTRP19/01/15 08:13 PM
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I am the only inside IT person here, the rest of the techs are gone from 7am till the end of the day and I never see them. 4 out of the 5 women here are overweight, not just a little bit, I mean straight up hambeasts. I get to answer their calling in sick calls, which seem to happen every other day, or because "their back hurts and they've tried all kinds of medicine". I get a salary, I have job security so I just fucking deal with it. Yeah it sucks the most massive cock hearing them gossip/bitc…
/r/TheRedPill14/01/15 08:16 PM
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I wish I could get paid for the amount of times I've seen "So after paying off her loans....etc etc". This includes credit cards, college tuition, being in debt in general. All because they felt this one was special. I feel bad for them because even after getting burned once they'll probably never learn.
/r/TheRedPill14/01/15 03:58 PM
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The only argument I have with that, is that 90% of our conversation is sarcastic and short. That was the first thing she took seriously which is why it threw me off. Will remember this for next time though.
/r/askTRP11/01/15 07:29 PM
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I finally dropped the bomb on the girl I made the post about a few days ago on here. The way she went about texting me was unlike any I've seen before, her train of thought was weird and almost crazy. I had to drop the nuke and tell her I have no interest in being friends, and am only sexually attracted to her. "So I'm just an object" I mean for christs sake she asked me out of nowhere if I watched porn, which I jokingly responded with "every waking minute of my life". She wrote literally a 3 me…
/r/TheRedPill09/01/15 10:15 PM
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To all of that you can just respond with "k" or "lol". I've stopped giving them what they want when they write a huge paragraph through text. They are looking for you to get on your knees and tell them how you'll never do it again, promise! I know it's and obvious answer, but tell her she can jerk you off then as far as not wanting you to do that. Do not agree to stop doing what you like doing just because it bothers her.
/r/askTRP09/01/15 03:15 PM
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I got sucked into an office argument about this which I should have avoided but I was in a debating mood and was against the HR dept and accounts payable. That was the mistake, they (4 women) thought that since she was with him for 26 years she should hold out. And my argument was that he had been the CEO since 1967 while it was still the Shelly Dean Oil Co. and what part of her eventually working for him caused her to earn anything other than her normal salary, she did not help him increase his…
/r/TheRedPill07/01/15 08:13 PM
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Cool to see another sub member from my city. Nice write up.
/r/TheRedPill07/01/15 04:41 PM
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Please make this work again, I would buy it instantly.
/r/TheRedPill07/01/15 03:34 PM
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That's actually all I focused on. You can see my texts were short and I rarely addressed what she was actually talking about. Although last night I dropped a nuke on her and honestly I don't know if she'll show up but I don't care at this point either cause I'll have 25 other people over.
/r/TheRedPill06/01/15 08:14 PM
3

I know a lot of my friends who struggle with motivation, I did as well when I first started. What I do that has worked for me 98% of the time is take your gym clothes and shoes with you to work. Change into your gym clothes at 5pm and drive straight to the gym after work. Alternately, you can go home first but the first thing you should do when you walk in your door is change into your clothes and take your pre workout if you're into that kind of thing. As I said it works for me and keeps me in …
/r/TheRedPill06/01/15 04:55 PM
6

He's about 245-250 lbs, I am 195 and in 10x better shape but our face's are definitely similar. And we are both white while she is Hispanic.
/r/TheRedPill05/01/15 10:52 PM
8

One off, it's with an A. Lived in a big city her whole life, moves to po dunk fuckville with 4/10 looking dude who doesn't even have a good job or anything of quality. Makes sense.
/r/TheRedPill05/01/15 10:11 PM
11

Rofl, nice guess. You're correct.
/r/TheRedPill05/01/15 10:04 PM
11

How far? How about driving 3 hours from a small town just to come to the house warming event. She's even dropping baby sunshine off at her parents house for the night.
/r/TheRedPill05/01/15 08:56 PM
42

Trust me, I dodged the question immediately after seeing her say "1 1/2" clearly wanting a space for the baby too. My house is my man cave, the last thing I'm going to have is a baby whining disrupting my sleep and peace of mind. If she wants to bring a bottle of alcohol to my house warming party, I'm not going to stop her, but moving in is on the never happening list.
/r/TheRedPill05/01/15 08:36 PM
2

Lol when I went into that thread I control F'd immediately. I knew I would see the red pill somewhere. It's hilarious how people who have no idea what the sub actually is speak their mind like they know what it is. And nobody can think for themselves anymore, replies to that were "Well no point for me to ever go in there." etc...Think for yourself people, if you want to see what the fuck a sub is about, do some research and READ. But we're all just rapists and sexless virgins so what do I know.
/r/TheRedPill19/12/14 02:53 PM
2

Just curious as others have asked, what kind of retort would you throw in there on the spot like that? How do you counter a guy throwing shit at you and your woman.
/r/TheRedPill18/12/14 04:26 PM
2

You certainly do have authority on who goes some place with you.
/r/TheRedPill16/12/14 05:49 PM
83

False, there are a lot of answers that mean no. Also don't ask anyone on a date, tell them to join you.
/r/TheRedPill16/12/14 04:49 PM
4

They don't even win the argument though. They just blatantly ignore the actual topic and just berate the person until they give up and they feel like they are victorious when in reality 99% of people would probably just be fed up with their shit.
/r/TheRedPill12/12/14 10:32 PM
81

Of course the reporter/host would literally only pick the single words out of her entire sentences in order to form a response. "So you're saying rape is ok." I swear to god they don't even listen to their own kind.
/r/TheRedPill12/12/14 07:36 PM
6

If you actually read or listened to the audiobook it doesn't seem that ridiculous. You kind of pull the info you want out of all the different laws. The examples and stories that are mentioned are great ways of seeing the different ways they are implemented, but again most importantly, take away what you will and apply what you feel is necessary to your life.
/r/TheRedPill11/12/14 04:44 PM
2

Dude, yes, this x1000. I recently moved into a new house and that was the first thing I bought for the kitchen. Even though they say they come "pre seasoned" make sure you do a few seasoning runs with it in the oven. Eventually it will become 100% nonstick and you don't even need oil later on unless it calls for it. I'm seriously jealous of my grandmothers when I see it, you can just see the layers of flavor built up on the bottom.
/r/TheRedPill10/12/14 04:10 PM
2

I don't know if this is asktrp worthy or something I can just put here so fuck it, I'll spill. I 100% know I have a soft case of oneitis for this chick who is currently married. We have always flirted and laughed at sexual innuendos with each other. She plays dumb a lot but I know she's a sexual person and comfortable with that. During a break with her boyfriend (now husband of 3 months) she would tell me how horny she was and she wished she had someone to get with. Well I was a fucking beta idi…
/r/TheRedPill09/12/14 08:22 PM
1

Looks like someone from /r/trees got on stage and starting putting random words together to form sentences.
/r/TheRedPill05/12/14 08:37 PM
15

I don't blame you man, I'm sure you'll catch flack for your mindset (as seen above) but I agree 100% with you. Just recently I've been talking to a few different girls and I have 0 energy or want to try and small talk or respond to their "hey" messages. Are they attractive, yes, so boring that I don't care, yes again. It's a vicious cycle but my hobbies have been keeping me busy.
/r/TheRedPill04/12/14 06:57 PM
1

So somehow she just thinks that her husband will be ok with this. I mean getting pumped by a doctor while she's married doesn't make her a monster right? I'm sure he'll be fine with it. The kid doesn't matter at that point, she cheated, that's auto goodbye, no explanation needed.
/r/TheRedPill03/12/14 04:19 PM
3

I know it's hard, I struggled with it throughout middle school and got rid of it at the end of high school. It was a eureka type of epiphany for me really. There was someone spreading false rumors about me and some really trivial small shit with a particular girl. I had broken up with her and no longer cared what she wanted to tell people or what people fathomed to tell each other. I stripped all of the power away from them when I ignored it and never brought it up. When you entertain their game…
/r/TheRedPill01/12/14 08:03 PM
35

One of the hardest things to internalize and practice is not letting people get to you. That's what your frame is, your rock, you are the decider of what makes you feel this way and that way. Once you start letting things bounce off you, you are the one in power and in control. It doesn't matter if the girl is attractive, a man, your boss, a co worker. Deflect everything, take nothing personally. I swear once you can do this without trying you will be at the utmost peace you've ever experienced.
/r/TheRedPill01/12/14 04:52 PM
2

First of all if you're going to do this, you need to set aside a full month to get into your routine. I've found that if I stick to something at the very least 1 month, it becomes part of my life rather than "just another day at the gym/etc." So look up some routines, look up healthy food recipes. Buy food in bulk and get yourself some tupperware containers to lay out your 2-3 days worth of food in advance. I don't like the way the chicken tastes on the 5th day so I just cook every few days. Get…
/r/askTRP26/11/14 07:01 PM
3

I actually have a question about this section, I listened to the full audio book and it was absolutely worth every second. My question would be how do you diffuse the argument baits? Not just from your wife or girlfriend but from anyone. It's obvious when someone is trying to bait you into an argument. I've had ex girlfriends say "you always want to run away from your problems, you never want to talk about them." This is after saying something like "now is not the time to talk about this." I see…
/r/TheRedPill24/11/14 04:02 PM
1

I sit in a damn office chair all day and I'll be honest, as much as I want to sit with proper posture my whole 8 hours here it becomes uncomfortable. I do the posture exercises every morning I wake up and it helps but I end up sinking back down in my chair and leaning back/forward. I'm reading numbers and problems all day so it's certainly tough.
/r/TheRedPill24/11/14 03:53 PM
1

26, I got my foot in the door at the right place at the right time. I love the house and it's the "baby" that i'll be taking care of.
/r/TheRedPill20/11/14 09:45 PM
2

Monk mode for 4 months here. What I did Cut out actively trying to talk and pick up women. Cut out getting completely sloshed every weekend (its actually been a year for this). Cut out all forms of soda (same with this). I spent my weekends at the gym, and my week nights preparing food and looking at new recipes. While eating healthy I learned to cook a wide range of things, so I got 2 birds stoned at once. How was it As others said, it was hard as shit, it still is because I'm still in it. If i…
/r/TheRedPill20/11/14 09:35 PM
1

I'm not sure about your job situation or previous girlfriends, but you could always play devils advocate here and throw down a few white lies to stir the pot. "Jen from work told me she really liked my shirt today, you were right it does make me look good." And it doesn't have to be that exactly but you can throw the shit right back at her and within seconds she'll be asking who these people are and you can just smirk and watch the wheel spin at light speed.
/r/askTRP20/11/14 04:43 PM
2

For me it wasn't lusting for a relationship, it was more the sense that they seemed more fun in bed. So far each of the ones I've taken home with me have been slightly more open to things rather than the few other races I've been with. I'm a huge fan of asian cuisine and they knew the best places to go to eat and cooked for me as well. So they catered to what I wanted and was looking for. To be fair though, the last one I was with turned out to be psychotic which has put a hold on my "lust" for …
/r/askTRP20/11/14 02:36 PM
1

Thank you for this GLO. I just got back yesterday after a week hiatus (moved into my own house finally). I felt empty inside and like a piece of shit for that week too. I never opened my mouth in the gym before, but the one time I did, it was to ask another guy there to help me lift off on the bench. I told him it was my first time and he spent about 20 min spotting me and showed me 2 other things to do on chest day. I mean honestly look at other people in there who look like what YOU want to lo…
/r/TheRedPill19/11/14 08:17 PM
15

I should have been more clear, this is for women of interest. Not my friends.
/r/TheRedPill18/11/14 06:14 PM
21

This is probably one of the biggest changes I can see that I'm grasping. Text game, and in the work environment I'm in. Over the phone I'm short and precise to my point and get it across as efficiently as possible without rambling. When texting I let them respond last unless it's an answer they are waiting on, I'll let it stew for a short amount of time before responding. It's absolutely hilarious to see some of the judgmental messages I receive after not responding right away, or with one word …
/r/TheRedPill18/11/14 05:15 PM
3

I've been listening to the book on youtube. It takes me an hour to get home. My drive home used to suck, I was constantly mad at traffic and other drivers. Now that I have a book to listen to, it's relaxing to have something read to me and I pay more attention to the book rather than the shitty drive home every day after work. Once I finish it, I'll have to find more web series books to listen to. Seriously if anyone else wants to change up their drive, give it a shot, highly recommended. Also i…
/r/TheRedPill17/11/14 08:40 PM
3

Also just while we are close to the subject, don't ever turn a girl who cheats on someone else with you into anything other than a plate. If she cheated on someone else with you, don't think for a minute she won't hesitate to cheat on you the same way. I learned this the hard way but it's a lesson you only have to learn once to understand, at least in my case.
/r/TheRedPill11/11/14 03:57 PM
2

That is 100% bullshit, stores have the right to change their price at any time. I worked at a high end retail store and this was our policy because people would say they found certain tags on certain items which clearly were wrong. Unless there is a law that has changed since 7+ years ago when I worked there.
/r/TheRedPill07/11/14 07:37 PM
-1

|"Oh my god it's going to be so great when you're inside me." But we're not having sex tonight, remember? /s
/r/TheRedPill07/11/14 07:27 PM
4

I still don't know how to dress. I have lost about 31lbs and gained some muscle. Jeans fit better same with slacks but I have no god damn clue what I'm doing.
/r/TheRedPill07/11/14 06:30 PM
19

Want to confirm about number 2, and not as a brag but a confirmation that yes it happens all the time. This girl I broke up with legit HATED me, said she never wanted to see me again/hear from me again. Ended up driving her to a beach gathering because there was nobody else to ride with and I was the last resort (didn't care it was on the way AND other girls would be there.) On the way back I mentioned to her that I hooked up with a girl who was at the beach, it ended up being a good friend of h…
/r/TheRedPill05/11/14 08:19 PM
3

In a nutshell monk mode is working 100% on yourself. I've been in monk mode for about 2 months now, I still go out with male friends and travel but I don't put any focus on meeting or hooking up with women. Go to work, eat properly, meal prep, hit the gym, cycle, rinse and repeat. This is just a time where I can get to a point where I can be comfortable and happy with myself, then I will be ready to move onto "on the hunt" mode. I'm perfectly fine with this routine for now and it helps me focus …
/r/TheRedPill05/11/14 04:42 PM
1

I did, and bookmarked. I was just throwing out a question I was generally curious to hear what other people had to say who maybe had the same questions.
/r/TheRedPill05/11/14 02:43 PM
1

I should honestly write down what I do per station or exercise but I have almost memorized where to start with most of the time. I do notice when some weights feel easy and increase accordingly. That's one of the most motivating parts to see actually, when I could only do a certain amount then literally have to add on weeks later because it feels too easy. Great info though, thank you for taking the time to write that out.
/r/TheRedPill05/11/14 12:34 AM
1

I've always wondered something. I never knew what to focus on more, losing weight or gaining muscle. Eat THIS much so you can grow muscle, but eat THIS little to lose weight. What's the trick here? I am right at 205, little bit of flab but for the most part average, semi muscular. I ride my bike on the weekends and lift 5 days a week. I still to this day don't know to eat less/more/deficit/etc it's confusing to me. I don't want to be gigantic but I do want to grow some muscle and get semi cut.
/r/TheRedPill04/11/14 08:30 PM
2

You eventually get to the breaking point, at least I did. Wondering why all my friends who were women would rather talk to me about their problems than date or hook up with me. Granted I had girlfriends and flings and a few fun hookups. There's a wall I hit with getting sick of being someones emotional tampon, tired of wondering why they stopped talking to me or got back with the guy they just complained about for the past month. A lot of empty promises, plan cancelling, etc, it just fired me up…
/r/TheRedPill28/10/14 03:36 PM
2

When she mentioned her boyfriend, you should have dropped the classic "Well I'm not interested in your boyfriend" or "good thing I'm not interested in guys" as sarcastically possible.
/r/TheRedPill24/10/14 05:28 PM
2

I made a similar thread a while ago and got a lot of great ideas. I think the one that has benefited me the most would be cycling. I was big into mountain biking but felt like I wrecked a few times too many and didn't want to further injure myself. So I decided to pick up road biking. Not only is it fun and rewarding, but holy shit have I lost some weight doing so. I was about 224 2 months ago and now I'm at 201. This is while lifting 4 days a week. I try to ride at least 2-3 times a week from 2…
/r/TheRedPill21/10/14 08:11 PM
3

Jealousy, thinks she still has the same control I let her have over me (not anymore). What's hilarious is that I texted her needing to get vet records for my badass kitten I got from her roommate while she lived at college, 3 female roommates. I prefaced it like this though, "Hey what is xxx's number?" Immediately she starts asking 20 questions, why do you need it, is this about the cat, why can't you just tell me?! I ended up having it on my computer, told her "Nevermind, found it." I could hav…
/r/askTRP15/10/14 02:12 PM
3

Also a lot of the time it's the sex. That's why it's important to make no mistake of sulking and laying around feeling sorry for yourself, get right back on your 2 feet and game some girl and start pounding away. Or you can rub one out then really think about how you feel about her, do you truly miss her, or is it the sex?
/r/TheRedPill07/10/14 06:38 PM
0

Be straight forward with everything. Be careful on communication, don't text because you are bored, only text when you want to hang out or have someone come over. Again be very blunt and forward verbally and physically. You save yourself a lot of time by weeding out the ones who are not interested, because if they aren't into you why waste any more time? In your scenario, it sounds like she is using you for weed and a ride, those two go hand in hand. You have oneitis for this girl, want to figur…
/r/TheRedPill06/10/14 03:14 PM
3

Shitting where you eat, it's a no no, especially at work.
/r/TheRedPill03/10/14 07:19 PM
2

Listen man, I've been in the same spot as you except with 2 different girls. Once I left high school I would get the occasional "Hey how's it going" text, just so they could cover all their bases and make sure I didn't forget about them. They are literally just trying to suck the attention out of you when THEY feel bored. I wish I learned this sooner, and I would have not wasted so much time. Worst part is I could have fucked one of them for certain but I was a pussy back then. I'm glad you are …
/r/TheRedPill30/09/14 04:17 PM
1

I suspected my LTR of lying about it (didn't bring it up with her though). What's funny is she claimed she was a virgin but had about 4 boyfriends before me during middle school and halfway through high school. I never got a for sure answer but I can tell you I knew the guys and had a feeling they wouldn't have stuck around unless they were doing some type of horizontal tango. I have 0 solid proof so I didn't call her out on it but it certainly felt unsettling to have that in the back of my head…
/r/TheRedPill29/09/14 07:48 PM
1

I honestly feel like you're taking crazy pills. I have not even talked to her as I said in years, she was LONG forgotten that's why I was surprised to see a text from her. None of this was about her, at all, ever.
/r/TheRedPill27/09/14 04:20 AM
2

I know this might come as a surprise, but some people have different opinions on what great money is compared to what they used to make in only a few years time.
/r/TheRedPill26/09/14 11:37 PM
2

I know he makes 60+ and his family is well off. I wont go into detail on my financial situation but I have quite a bit of extra side revenue coming in from my normal job (legally). I also don't have expensive taste so my income fits what I want and need perfectly.
/r/TheRedPill26/09/14 07:30 PM
3

We have mutual friends, she is not on any of my social media. I was tagged in those pictures as well.
/r/TheRedPill26/09/14 04:32 PM
33

I always thought it was just them being on the rag or something, I actually remember when I finally just got up and left. They were cornering me again and I just got into my car and left without saying a word. 1 hour later she is begging me to come back and apologizing. RP behavior before I knew what it was, should have done it sooner and more often. I got enough college pressure from my own parents, I dont need the mother of my girlfriend to tell me what to do with my life as she puffs her ciga…
/r/TheRedPill26/09/14 03:55 PM
39

I want to do this so bad but too much time has passed since I received the text. Next time...
/r/TheRedPill26/09/14 03:54 PM
1

As someone who rarely uses free weights (crowded times, small local gym) is there any downside to using machines? I've always kind of wondered this. If I get a bench to myself I will do the free weights, they seem to kick my ass a lot more than the machines do. But at the same time I would rather use machines than do absolutely nothing while waiting for a spot to open up. I sound like the 15 rep guy you describe. 15/12/10/8/6 to failure.
/r/TheRedPill17/09/14 04:22 PM
3

You are not far from the truth, I've always typed it as que as well do others around here. That's no excuse though I'll be sure to spell it out completely so nobody thinks that I'm having trouble hearing them.
/r/TheRedPill16/09/14 02:32 PM
0

I'm well aware, I shortened it for the sake of just typing out a quick response. Thank you for the english lesson though.
/r/TheRedPill16/09/14 01:24 PM
84

|Awful, incredibly famous DJs. He's pretending to do shit but really he pressed play and is just making gestures for the crowd. You could have just said Avicii. Great story, that's something I actually deal with in IT (as silly as it sounds). The really pretty clients that we have think I'm supposed to drop everything I'm doing because their non emergency issue is going on. I let them know we go by que order of our tickets and priority. If there's something a woman doesn't like it's being told t…
/r/TheRedPill15/09/14 07:15 PM
1

Yeah I need to be honest with myself. I think part of me wants to keep them around because I feel like I look different (I do and have been complimented on it by people who haven't seen me in a while). But at the same time I have this thought of now I can do better for myself, now I am the one who chooses what I get, not taking what I can. This post makes the most sense to me, thank you.
/r/TheRedPill11/09/14 06:56 PM
3

Next time I get something from them I'm going to use that, really solid idea. I never thought to mention asking about their friends, probably because I was too clouded in my own stupidity. It's genius really.
/r/TheRedPill11/09/14 04:39 PM
9

That's what I have been doing, friendly responses but very short and to the point. One of them actually said "You seem off today, I won't bother you." That's when I knew I was doing something right. I wasn't being a dick either, I just didn't give them the paragraphs I used to. Good advice all around, thank you.
/r/TheRedPill11/09/14 04:37 PM
2

I actually agree with you and is one of the main reasons why I asked. I didn't want to come off as butthurt about the whole situation and now that I think about that, an ultimatum is cowardly in this scenario.
/r/TheRedPill11/09/14 04:36 PM
8

Something as simple as this should be a staple for those beginning to transition into this mindset. It's the text version of not chasing after someone after they act like a child and leave you in public. Less is more, don't ever explain your actions only show them.
/r/TheRedPill08/09/14 08:07 PM
3

Chalk it up as a learning experience, also remember to always go radio silent if they ditch your efforts as early as she did. I like to try and reschedule once, but after that it's a done deal. You will get it down, we all will it just takes time and a lot of different encounters.
/r/TheRedPill04/09/14 09:45 PM
8

When judging text game, I can tell just by the size of the blue or yellow rectangles that too much has been said. Brevity is what you want, I mean you said this was from Tinder. The app known for casual hookups. Your paragraphs you typed out reminded me of what I used to do, which is type way too much information way too early. I see where you were going with the texts but that's shit you can talk to her about after you bang her, don't tell her everything about you before she meets you. Simplify…
/r/TheRedPill04/09/14 09:30 PM
0

You sound exactly like me, no idea where to go or how to start something from nothing. It's quite easy as I have found out over time. There is no reason to force yourself to try things you don't like. I know people from time to time say that you should try new activities and see what happens. How about this, do the things you actually like doing and join clubs, groups, meetings, outings that pertains to these hobbies you have. There is seriously no reason to ever be in a social setting you don't…
/r/TheRedPill04/09/14 03:21 PM
1

My favorite part of all of this is just the fact that a ton of the celebs were one's most would think are like the girl next door, innocent, finally someone who isn't slutty all the time! And now look, it's just further proof that AWALT.
/r/TheRedPill02/09/14 03:12 PM
5

I have never really understood the "allowed, or let" aspect of these scenarios. You cannot control another person's decision making. If I had a girlfriend that wanted to do that, she clearly wants to do it, with an ex fuck buddy I would just say, "have a blast" and break it off with her. There is no letting or allowing because if she wants to she is going to anyways. The outcome of how you react and what you decide is all that matters.
/r/TheRedPill29/08/14 03:51 PM
3

My parents divorced 8 years ago one week after Christmas. My dad told me and broke down in his truck doing so. I knew he was more upset about having to break the news to me, him and my mom met at a party and really never got along throughout their marriage. I am a lot like him, way more than my brother, he has great leadership and decision making skills and owns his own company. I don't want to takeover his company or be in his field of work, he appreciates my wants to do something else and is b…
/r/TheRedPill28/08/14 04:27 PM
1

While on the topic of this thread I actually had a question for OP or anyone really who reads and might have some insight. Since I'm not really interested in Caucasian girls (myself being American) I usually venture to those hispanic/asian women. I've noticed specifically that a lot of things I learned here don't resonate the same with different races. Has anyone else experienced that?
/r/TheRedPill28/08/14 04:02 PM
5

Oneitis is what ate away at me every day after my ex and I's break up. I really just missed the sex but my brain kept saying it was her that I was missing. After about a year I stopped giving a shit and eventually looked at what I really lost, and it was an annoying/controlling witch with a fucked up family that I'm glad to not be a part of.
/r/TheRedPill28/08/14 03:29 PM
1

I removed it, because after looking at it, the article is extremely fucking stupid itself.
/r/TheRedPill27/08/14 07:33 PM
1

If you're having trouble with this, replace sorry with "excuse me".
/r/TheRedPill26/08/14 09:49 PM
3

Somewhat related story. I've posted about it here before. I girl I know who is in the Airforce is engaged to a guy in the Army. Of course they are in opposite ends of the earth right now till their deployment is up. Since she can't talk to him every day, she talks dirty and sends very inappropriate pictures to me telling me how she wants it and how she can't have it right now (but could get it from any guy there if she wanted). She basically threw everything away for a few nights a month of gett…
/r/TheRedPill26/08/14 04:28 PM
1

Chiming in on your comment maaahoney, I'm almost to a full year of "taking a break" from alcohol. I basically stopped cold turkey after a horrible full day long hangover. I don't miss it at all, and at this point I don't plan on going back. Waking up with the money I had from last night as well as memory of what happened is worth its weight in gold. I hope you succeed in doing so because you will appreciate the after effects of it, I guarantee it.
/r/TheRedPill25/08/14 04:17 PM
6

If you are negative in your bank account, having to work a night shift on your day off would be a godsend to me $$$$.
/r/TheRedPill21/08/14 07:30 PM
4

Jesus christ these replies bring back really bad memories. One of the ones is where I fucked up completely is I used to eat lunch with this girl who was pretty into me as I was to her. Dated a little in middle school but had kind of re-hung out a few years (5) later. We get in my car on about our 3rd lunch meet up and she goes "Wow your windows are really dark I couldn't even see you walking up to the car." After we eat later on "So you could fuck in here and nobody could really even tell at all…
/r/TheRedPill21/08/14 01:32 PM
6

Holy shit, great minds think alike. This was my first guess as well. I don't mind OP keeping his anonymity it's an interesting side to see stories from, if they are true.
/r/TheRedPill20/08/14 03:37 PM
1

Don't be surprised if you get nude pictures blasted to you randomly at midnight from her. Hold frame, you did what you could and handled it much better than I handled my past ones. I really wish I knew what you knew when I broke off my highschool LTR.
/r/TheRedPill19/08/14 04:45 PM
1

I can agree with this 100%. I've been with both ends of the spectrum, super slutty ones were Chinese, gold digging ones were Viet. Not that it's a good indication of what's what, but those are the stats from my experiences.
/r/TheRedPill18/08/14 08:09 PM
13

Have been in monk mode for about 2 months now. The most important thing in this time is to not waste your time. A lot of people go to bed wanting this and waking up the next morning saying "maybe tomorrow actually". The answer is consistency and staying focused on your goal. When you wake up, look in the mirror, make yourself realize you aren't going to have this anymore every single day, you are going to change and you are using this time to do so. I have a routine which can get boring so switc…
/r/TheRedPill18/08/14 05:30 PM
1

Unrelated to your post somewhat. But the other day Dan came up in some /funny thread where they posted a gif of a poker tourney and his beard was getting stroked in the crowd. I can't even tell you how many people went ape shit after finding his instagram and who he is, what he does. I can't tell if they are legitimately mad, envious, soaked through their pants. It's very obvious most of them are female. Absolutely hilarious how long the comment rage chain is. Apparently he is a very touchy subj…
/r/TheRedPill18/08/14 05:02 PM
4

This 100000x I'm actually building a home gym in the garage. No I didn't spend thousands of dollars either. I'm picking up a bench for $50 and a lot of the other odds and ends for less than $200. Also, if you're anything like me, some days are harder to leave your house to go to the gym, DONT WORRY there's one in your fucking garage now. ZERO excuses, throw back some PWO and hit your garage with music blaring.
/r/askTRP18/08/14 02:01 PM
6

One of the main reasons I broke up and got out of a 5 year relationship was because of the girls mother. They would corner me (her and her mom) while we were in the living room or eating dinner, and say shit like "So when are you starting school, you ever plan on going to college anytime soon?" and then the girlfriend would go with her on it "Yeah when are you going to do that?" Que shit storm every time. Her mother literally said "How do you plan on supporting my daughter if you aren't going to…
/r/TheRedPill14/08/14 03:55 PM
1

Extremely short version here. Started about 5 months ago, wasn't going 100% like I should have been. Last 2 months I have put 100% effort into demonstrating what I learn and eating clean/gym/cycling as my first priorities. Notice much more positive feedback from the women I talk to, I don't let them waste my time, if the normal ones I used to orbit text me I am short and don't feed into their attention sucking black hole. The biggest thing I've noticed is being apologized to. I was the one who s…
/r/TheRedPill13/08/14 03:32 PM
0

What I've found out is when things are uninteresting to me in social settings I tend to keep more to myself, but when I am extremely interested in whatever we are doing whether its fishing, working on cars, cycling, lifting weights, I won't shut up. I love to talk about things that I enjoy, even to people I hardly know. I have found that if you just surround yourself with things you enjoy doing (why wouldn't you do this anyways?) you will probably be better off and be more social. I consider mys…
/r/TheRedPill13/08/14 03:18 PM
0

This was very pleasant to read, thank you for sharing. I am 25 and Caucasian. I have a weakness for asian women, I despise my own race when it comes to dating and even hooking up with them. This type of story kind of reaffirms what I am into, and hopefully I can find someone similar when I am ready to possibly slow it down to 1 person. I get a lot of flak about most Asian women being materialistic and gold diggers which I can't deny for the most part (have seen and experienced it first hand), bu…
/r/TheRedPill12/08/14 04:31 PM
2

Can confirm, last year I moved out of my previous place because of this very reason.
/r/askTRP11/08/14 05:35 PM
6

Who are you? Can we have a hint? Also the harpies you talk exist in every type of social setting, not just to traveling musicians. Always supply your own condoms, don't be scared to deny some 10/10 chick if she says you can hit it raw. If she says you can she either: A. Lets everyone else bang her raw B. Wants that seed all to herself.
/r/TheRedPill11/08/14 04:35 PM
4

Yep, have a nice outfit each day, rented Lambo, it's like having the Game Genie plugged into real life game.
/r/TheRedPill08/08/14 10:54 PM
3

I want to travel there and rent one, white guy here. I'd have a field day.
/r/TheRedPill08/08/14 08:33 PM
7

I just pictured her rolling around in one of those gerbil balls back to her cage.
/r/TheRedPill07/08/14 05:07 PM
102

Something something, Hamster wheel at max RPM.
/r/TheRedPill07/08/14 03:59 PM
1

Yes, over 10 million in one sitting once.
/r/TheRedPill06/08/14 06:00 PM
1

I've actually had no choice but to take cold showers due to my water heater not staying lit. So I just wake up and get in the shower and deal with it for about 10-15 minutes. I've been doing this for about a week now and feel much more awake in the mornings. My dad used to tell me to start really hot and slowly switch to cold the closer you are to getting out. I might as well stick with it since I'm already used to it. That instant shock of stepping in early in the morning is enough to get me go…
/r/TheRedPill06/08/14 04:04 PM
2

This is something I completely forgot to mention in the initial post. All of this, yes. I don't tell women no if they want to have sex, I don't not go out and have fun with friends, or hang out with women. It's just part of how I live and to make ME my first priority. That would be a better way of stating my point, thanks for this post it hits the nail on the head.
/r/TheRedPill05/08/14 09:36 PM
3

One of the hardest things to do keep going, or keep "breaking her rules". She got in your bed, she made out with you, I can almost guarantee she was thinking about banging you. Trust me it's not easy to do it at first, that wall comes up and goes right back down depending on what you say. Its more of I dont want to give it up to just any guy and then get screwed over because it has happened before and im trying to learn my lesson This sounds like she knows she will fuck on the first date and is …
/r/TheRedPill01/08/14 07:11 PM
1

The cheap beer thing is just a filler. It's usually been my place during high school and what not, but the older women who can drive and have their own cars might do weird shit if they know where I live. That's my only complaint.
/r/askTRP01/08/14 06:47 PM
1

I am going to strongly disagree, when I lifted I felt like I was starving. And before anyone says it, yes I have proper macros and even prepped meals. I eat enough during the day to stay full most of the time, when I am finished lifting heavy weights I want nothing more than to eat my meal. To the OP. I started off doing mostly weight lifting when I began my regiment. I'm not going to lie and say it's really fun to go to the gym because to me it's not but it's an important part of my routine. I …
/r/TheRedPill01/08/14 05:00 PM
0

I'm sensing a strong case of oneitis and possible troll.
/r/TheRedPill31/07/14 09:02 PM
2

It's not his job to show a complete stranger how he can be a better man. That's why you don't talk about things you learn here to others, they aren't going to see it as clear as you do without starting from the very beginning.
/r/TheRedPill31/07/14 07:48 PM
17

Expect married women and those in relationships to be on the prowl even more-so. It's a good weekend for anyone here looking to get a fresh start to score.
/r/TheRedPill24/07/14 06:13 PM
3

Well according to social media they made a movie about it that's coming out soon, and every girl is posting/sharing/talking about it. All of them taking their other girlfriends saying they have to go see it, would not be surprised if they get the fantasy to act out what they see in the movie. It's just amazing to see how many women talk about how it's the best book ever written lol.
/r/TheRedPill24/07/14 04:27 PM
2

You know what's amuzing about the whole "Im not looking for a hook up" part. When I come across these profiles on tinder I have a little fun with them. It's hilarious to see them completely defend their profiles with "If you are looking for a hook up I'm not your girl, swipe right" Or just whatever bullshit they can come up with. I have multiple ones saved where they sent me a message and I would say "I thought you weren't looking for a hookup?" And here's the best part, they rationalize with "W…
/r/TheRedPill23/07/14 08:27 PM
2

I enjoy the asktrp section a lot. I wish there was more traffic as far as comments go though. There are times I don't feel like asking a simple question is enough to create a thread on here so I make it over there. I'm not sitting around sweating for an answer, but I do wish more people would comment and help out. I'm trying my best to read through and help people out where I feel I can. It's a good place.
/r/TheRedPill23/07/14 02:14 PM
1

I never really said I wanted to make her like me. I was just stating she certainly comes across as higher value then most women I've been with and it was kind of a new experience for me. I already lift, cycle, eat well. I kind of just wanted to reaffirm what I thought was the right call which is ignoring all of that and going through with it. Thanks though.
/r/askTRP21/07/14 08:53 PM
1

Yeah good call man. I don't really have issues talking to women, she just comes off as different (not unicorn different) just in terms of me never dealing with someone much older than me. And it's a 09' Vantage in pearl white.
/r/askTRP21/07/14 03:22 PM
1

We have met before yes, but it was a group setting. There was a planned trip to the beach with our car group and we went down and ate lunch there and drove back. Yes she's hot and about 6 months ago she broke off like a 9 year long relationship or something according to her friend. That's what made me think to myself it would be DTF. And as I said in my initial post, yes I am a little intimidated by her. We started talking after the initial meeting and its typically through text or social media.
/r/askTRP21/07/14 02:28 PM
5

I just read this on a car forum I belong to, absolutely hilarious/amazing that it happened at the same time. Hooray gender equality, now that he or she is a female I can guarantee they are going to lose money over doing something like this. But equality was worth it!
/r/TheRedPill15/07/14 05:32 PM
2

So I enjoyed reading this a lot, and I think I've done this accidentally before a few times which makes sense. But here's my question. What if she started pulling the "why are you not talking to me or acting like this?" Or if you went home and she started pulling that bullshit, what do you do then? I guess what I'm saying is what if she doesn't respond to your dread and try to fight about it instead, I feel like I can see that happening in certain situations.
/r/TheRedPill14/07/14 04:07 PM
1

Oh ok, so IT, I know that feel.
/r/TheRedPill09/07/14 07:40 PM
2

Understood once you put it like that. As long as you realize you are doing it strictly for "classroom" type discussion here. There are clearly a lot of better things to be doing with your time like looking for other plates and not becoming someone else's form of entertainment. Did you close? How was the after report, do we get that at least?
/r/TheRedPill09/07/14 07:23 PM
5

Honestly I feel like you could have texted a whole lot less. Just scroll down and look at the colored boxes, you wrote paragraphs compared to her one words and short sentences. There's no reason to explain exactly what you are doing, the things you were talking about with her sounded like stuff I talked to my 6 year long relationship ex girlfriend about. You had the right frame of mind and your points you were making to her made sense but I feel like there's a more efficient way to do it. She fl…
/r/TheRedPill09/07/14 07:02 PM
1

My 07' STI, has been sold for quite a while though.
/r/TheRedPill03/07/14 09:51 PM
2

You and I would get along quite well. I am a big automobile enthusiast myself. Honestly if you feel like those things don't excite you, then you shouldn't be doing them. I haven't even tasted alcohol in 9 months or so now and I don't miss it at all, so I'm content in my decision to keeping it that way. If you ever go to the gym and lift and try to build yourself from the ground up, alcohol is a fast way to ruin all of that.
/r/TheRedPill03/07/14 09:47 PM
2

I actually made a thread a bit ago kind of picking at the same question. It's been great for me, I don't have any urge or craving for any type. I used to think, man tonight's a good night to get plastered! Now I ride my road bike so much I don't want to counter all the hard work I put in on it with a night of binge drinking.
/r/TheRedPill03/07/14 09:40 PM
1

"Good thing I'm not interested in him."
/r/askTRP03/07/14 06:54 PM
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God I could not agree more with this statement. I'm white myself, and my blue pill story is what brought me here. I was dating a Chinese girl who was getting her masters in psychology. I've never seen someone so deceiving in my life. Granted she's only 25 but the way she talks and carries herself in social and professional settings you would NEVER think she would just bang all of your friends brains out, not that I didn't get my share either. But jesus christ I don't mean to generalize but all t…
/r/TheRedPill30/06/14 04:27 PM
12

Why would you message her while she's on a vacation. A. She isn't in proximity of you to get laid B. You miss her already or something? C. Again you aren't going to get laid over text conversation so why small talk?
/r/askTRP25/06/14 04:46 PM
30

What's funny is even if they have some legitimate answers for hobbies, chances are they did something once and just say it's one of their hobbies. I know that just because of the girls that I personally know, they say they are rock climbers, like to work on cars/bikes (stood around and held tools for me). They really actually don't know anything that has to do with the "hobbies" they have and just went rock climbing once on a family outing. It's hilarious and sad at the same time.
/r/TheRedPill16/06/14 07:42 PM
1

I couldn't agree more, nothing like busting your ass at the gym all week and then just refill your body with empty calories and eat absolute trash food late at night. I know I didn't respond to this thread at all but I did read all the responses and this one is basically how I feel. I just don't miss doing it and don't even want to take a sip of a beer because it's pointless. I don't go around flaunting that I don't drink though I just kindly decline when someone offers to buy me a drink. I'm in…
/r/TheRedPill05/06/14 06:39 PM
6

Girl who used to hook up with me wanted to go with me and a group of friends to the beach, nobody had room so she road with me. She asked how I had been and what I've been up to, so I told her hanging out with so and so and for whatever reason told her me and this girl hooked up. Que jealous rage "You mean you fucked Axxxx!?" Funny story, I didn't know she was good friends with this girl. Later on she invites me over and we immediately bang, now I realize it was kind of dread gaming her and she …
/r/TheRedPill04/06/14 07:41 PM
1

Have you actually come into that situation before? I have and it seemed more passive aggressive than anything. "Oh hey you, wow haven't heard from you in forever, why did you stop talking to me?" That's about the jist of it and I was already annoyed at that point. This one I'm talking about specifically was really good at not responding to my texts and then a month later would say "Oh hey how are you doing, that's good yeah uh huh glad to hear it!" I was not sending paragraph texts either I was …
/r/TheRedPill30/05/14 02:23 PM
1

What is there to convert? I've already figured out what kind of person they are, I'd rather invest my time in finding other women to add to a plate rotation. There comes a point where there's kind of an expiration for someone, regardless if you want to have sex with them. Typical that attraction is broken by how they act. At least that's been the case for me.
/r/TheRedPill30/05/14 02:02 PM
1

I've recently in the last few months been doing this...but with "friends". At least I thought they were. I'm sure there's a lot of people who can relate but I eventually found out that I have a lot of fake friends. I just combed my entire list of people on social media/contacts in my phone and realized how much of them meant absolutely nothing to me. Will it make for an awkward conversation if we ever run into each other in public? Maybe but I have stopped letting it happen, I'm done with fake f…
/r/TheRedPill28/05/14 02:44 PM
1

I honestly would have just walked away and not even tried to be a part of that whole situation. I'm not saying it's always the best thing to do, but why even waste your time around that type of person. For only them being there you handled it fine since you were somewhat stuck around them. I would have probably gone and sat on a couch or looked for a dog to play with.
/r/askTRP27/05/14 03:58 PM
5

More than likely your brother is going to think you are stupid and a woman hating, rage fueled male. It's a very fine line you walk when trying to explain this to them. I have tried a few times to get my younger brother to listen to me and he is so hard headed he compares the red pill=hitler/nazi Germany/etc you get my point. I gave up but told him he can talk to me about anything, any day of the week.
/r/ThankTRP21/05/14 09:33 PM
3

For me it is, yes. My mother picked up smoking after my parents divorced and it disgusted me, even if she didn't I still find it vile and a disgusting smell/habit. I can't even imagine their teeth or breath.
/r/TheRedPill07/05/14 06:36 PM
2

I cannot even believe I just read what I did. Where in any of that does it make sense to do what he is literally proposing to do? If he was having thoughts of suicide before, just wait till she acts the way she WILL act when he pops the question. Last time I checked, when you split up with somebody, you don't just ask them to meet you somewhere and to marry you. And that little poem or illustration he drew, holy shit I can't even understand the thought process behind that.
/r/TheRedPill07/05/14 03:12 PM
18

Perfect time to get up and start talking to an attractive employee or waitstaff. I have used it in the past, or get up and go talk to the bartender. Ask questions that make you seem more interested and intrigued by what they are saying, your gf will realize this and immediately start trying to pull you back in physically.
/r/TheRedPill05/05/14 02:40 PM
1

I peaked at 235 and knew it was not who I really was when I looked in the mirror. I played sports all throughout middle/high school. I just let it go when I had a LTR going on so I didn't think I would need to look good for anyone else, that was bullshit and I'm dumb as shit for thinking that way. I'm now at 208 and noticing that I have to increase weight every few weeks because I'm able to lift more. I do cardio Friday-Sunday and lift weights Monday-Thursday. Muscles repair themselves when they…
/r/askTRP30/04/14 04:55 PM
0

It's all about a numbers game. When you are looking for jobs, don't you like knowing that you have a few different places that are willing to hire you? It's the same thing with spinning plates, it's also very easing on the mind because one girl flaked, who gives a shit you have an ARSENAL of numbers in your phone. This is why if someone flakes on you, you should seriously not give a shit and keep on trucking until you find one who hangs out/puts out.
/r/askTRP28/04/14 07:45 PM
2

The girl I was under the radar dating/fucking for about 4 months used to think it was funny to punch me and other guys in our circle in the balls. Her bf before let her do it to guys when they were in like a 3 year relationship and never corrected her so I assume that's why she continued. On the night of my birthday we were getting in the car and she hit me pretty good right in the boys and it was a really severe pain, worse than ever. I told her multiple times to not do it and to stop with the …
/r/TheRedPill28/04/14 07:17 PM
1

You are making the right decision. Never live your life in a worrisome state, you control that.
/r/askTRP25/04/14 05:37 PM
2

You want to know how I was introduced to the red pill? http://www.reddit.com/r/TheRedPill/comments/1xq5ss/she_was_banging_3_of_his_friends_at_the_same_time/ Guess who that reddit log belongs to? That would be me 2 months ago. Now I'm not saying the case is the same in your situation, but CHANCES are that they are fucking like rabbits. She is very satisfied sexually Because she has his cock at the ready to jump on the second she feels like doing so. Listen man get out of this now, it's just safer…
/r/askTRP24/04/14 09:14 PM
8

Start talking to more women, you are idolizing one because you probably only talk to a few and she has responded the most. Seriously start meeting and talking to new people. Get as many numbers as you can even if you have doubts. It's all about the numbers game, also take a look outside on a daily basis...how many women do you see different every day? You rarely seem the same girl twice and this is in your own city...think of how VAST the world is. That one girl is not worth clinging to, trust m…
/r/TheRedPill24/04/14 06:42 PM
3

That is something a cunt would respond with. You don't owe her anything other than never speaking to her again.
/r/TheRedPill24/04/14 06:20 PM
7

Lol so true it's sad. Also I like to almost interrogate them about their "hobbies" they have listed or that they are really into as they say. It becomes so obvious that they don't do any of the shit they say they do, and that they have no fucking clue about their hobbies. Every single one of them.
/r/TheRedPill23/04/14 07:56 PM
2

Yep I wish I realized this earlier. I was always afraid the girls I wanted to invite to whatever I was doing weren't going to have fun, little did I know I should not have cared what they thought. If it looks like I am into whatever it is I'm doing and say "you can come along or don't" you basically make it seem like you're going to go have a fucking blast with or without them. Confidence trumps everything in every situation.
/r/TheRedPill23/04/14 06:04 PM
4

It's funny you say that I'm actually a huge fly fisherman myself. I didn't even think of it as a hobby but it really is. My mom lives in Oregon and I live near the Texas coast, so you can guess the possibilities. I taught casting classes at Orvis in my city for 5 years out of high school. Glad to see another fellow fly fisherman!
/r/TheRedPill23/04/14 03:52 PM
2

I have a friend that does BJJ and he is far more advanced than I would be if I started. Do they have beginning classes I assume? I'll be honest it's a little intimidating sounding but something I definitely want to do. I want to step out of my comfort zone. I am only about 200lbs 16%bf but my joints are kind of bad, my dad and his dad have the same problems. Could you see that being an issue?
/r/TheRedPill23/04/14 03:23 PM
4

Wow that is awesome. There was a place I went growing up as a kid called "Hicks Apple Orchard". I remember how cool it was to be able to harvest my own apples and how amazingly fresh they were. Does it matter where you live or can you do orcharding anywhere?
/r/TheRedPill23/04/14 02:54 PM
78

What a lot of guys on here will find out eventually is that most women are just fucking boring. Seriously step back and think about this for a minute, take away their tits/ass/hole in the legs and what exactly do they offer? Could you stand listening to a women talk to you about stupid shit knowing she didn't have a vagina? Fuck no you wouldn't even put up with it for a second. Women like to make it seem like they have a million other people texting them or plans to hang out with them. Chances a…
/r/TheRedPill23/04/14 02:18 PM
-1

You know what you could do technically if you have game, is tell them what you were doing is a social experiment or some bullshit and let them know you are really someone else. Because you still spit the same game which kept them interested/tingling, you just aren't the person in the picture. I'm not saying it's guaranteed but all is not lost, you could 100% turn some of those even though you bullshitted the whole way through. You are going to lose them anyways because it's a fake profile, step …
/r/TheRedPill23/04/14 02:11 PM
1

I mean I'm rather new here too, about a month and a half now but sure I don't mind at all man.
/r/ThankTRP23/04/14 01:19 AM
1

No it makes you look like you don't give a shit, which you shouldn't. It's a mindset you train yourself to get to. I'm still working on it myself but have gotten way better at just realizing how many women there are out in the world.
/r/askTRP22/04/14 08:38 PM
9

Learn to open your mouth and say things, it doesn't even have to be the right words put together in a sentence just open your damn mouth. Kind of like people who suck ass at going to the gym, just LEAVE your front door and you will already be ok with it. The hardest part is opening that front door and this transcends into verbal communication with people as well. Just say what's on your mind to them, chances are they have already heard all the same cheesy and stupid pick up lines from a lot of g…
/r/askTRP22/04/14 05:07 PM
2

17 year old me, lost my virginity to 22 year old girl (thought it was cool at the time.) Eventually she felt bad or guilty or some bullshit blah blah wanted to stop hooking up so we stopped. She belonged to the same car group as me and this other girl whom I was friends with. Little did I know they were actually friends. I end up hooking up with 22 year olds friend like 3-4 times, she has no idea. 22 year old rides with me one day on one of our outings to the beach since she had no ride (beta me…
/r/TheRedPill22/04/14 04:14 PM
3

Simple, pretend she doesn't exist. I had to work with my ex girlfriend for around 5 months after we broke up (5 year relationship). I literally pretended she was not a person and not sitting where I knew she was sitting. There was no reason for us to ever interact at work, she did something completely different as me. There were a few times I could tell she was trying extra hard to be a cunt and draw some jealousy out of me, but when I say pretend she doesn't exist I mean it, I laughed it off in…
/r/askTRP21/04/14 07:06 PM
1

Jesus christ lol, I know what I'm responding with next time the opportunity presents itself.
/r/TheRedPill20/04/14 01:04 AM
1

Ah, I was viewing on my phone that's probably why. Thanks.
/r/TheRedPill19/04/14 02:53 PM
1

Can you put a time stamp where this part happens. I'm not watching 42 minutes of reality TV.
/r/TheRedPill19/04/14 02:03 PM
1

With the "Please Help!" at the end of your little story it seems like you already have oneitis for this girl lol. What you need to do is stop talking to her so much, you say that your conversations get longer and longer (bad news for you). She might be seeking emotional validation since she knows she was on the cusp of breaking up with someone, she wants to feel wanted and have someone to talk to (you). Try to meet up with her just you and her and toke it up seeing where it leads. TL:DR Stop tal…
/r/askTRP17/04/14 04:23 PM
76

For people who are new here and new to the methods preached here, this is by far the easiest and one of the first things you should start doing. I say easy, for me it was at least, for some maybe it's a bad habit but when you start ending your sentences firmly without "sorry to bother you, sorry this, sorry that" you will feel more confident and people will typically respect you more for stating things that way.
/r/TheRedPill17/04/14 03:35 PM
1

Just ask her for it again, she already gave it out and showed interest in meeting up. If she doesn't give it again you just saved yourself some time anyways.
/r/askTRP16/04/14 07:16 PM
8

You might want to have another job kept in mind just in case this turns into a shit storm, as most office/workplace hook ups do. Regardless of how well you guys get a long just remember how often stories come up of people getting fired because of workplace romance bullshit. Is it worth risking your job? Sometimes it works out, just use your best judgement.
/r/askTRP16/04/14 07:13 PM
7

Lol I knew this would be on here sometime this week. I unfortunately saw it this morning and wasn't aware of the ending. I almost puked. What's hilarious is all the girls tagging their moms in it, almost like this video is the one thing that reminded them to tell them how much they loved them, other wise it would go completely unsaid. The back patting as stated above is absolutely ridiculous. Also the men that posted it in agreement...don't even get me started.
/r/TheRedPill16/04/14 03:28 PM
6

I have made this post before here and got two different responses. Let him figure it out himself to learn Message him and see what happens. Backstory, this chick who is in the Air Force is engaged to an Air Force beta across the pond. They both get out in like 9 months roughly and have been engaged the past 3 months. Well I prod a bit and end up getting her to tell me she thinks about fucking all the guys that are around her since she's getting to the point where she can't live without it (appar…
/r/TheRedPill14/04/14 05:01 PM
20

My high school gf did this quite often and it always pissed me off. She would always be super nice up to the text message of something like this "Hey....so and so wants to go to this club tonight, just girls." I would always respond with something like, why do you want to go to a club? "You know, just to dance with the girls." And she would always invite me to go with her but I told her I'm not going to a club. She always felt guilt tripped out of it when all I said is I'm not going. I never tol…
/r/TheRedPill14/04/14 04:44 PM
1

You have 2 options here. You can man up and straight up next her for whatever reason you want or feel like telling her, you don't owe her anything. Or number two which is staying with her knowing that she's getting plowed by other guys abroad and becoming a prisoner of your own relationship. Get out, now, you don't want to experience number two.
/r/askTRP11/04/14 07:47 PM
7

It's been brought up before, but jesus christ I hate the fact I have a facebook. I wish there were easier ways to talk to and keep up with all my relatives and grandparents in other states and countries but there just isn't. I have to wade through all the cancer to find their posts and pictures while I'm on it. My biggest pet peeve is the guys who will literally suck girls dicks on their post and white knight so hard you can honestly hear them tipping their fedoras as they end their sentence. I'…
/r/TheRedPill11/04/14 07:39 PM
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You must be either young or not had a lot of different girlfriends. That's just the cold truth.
/r/askTRP11/04/14 07:00 PM
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Why would you think going more beta while trying to escalate something is a good idea? I would have said something like "Yeah, but it's their day off." Just something smart assed and playful.
/r/askTRP11/04/14 05:15 PM
4

I consider myself to be more introverted in a lot of situations, at least I did in the past. In the past few months I landed a really good job doing IT and probably moving into sales. I have to talk to people face to face and over the phone all day. I used to HATE and LOATHE speaking to anyone. Now I kind of prod people and ask about their day and just make bullshit small talk. It doesn't sound like much but when you are forced to talk to people, angry people, happy people, it's way easier to st…
/r/TheRedPill10/04/14 09:32 PM
1

Never mention another time or day immediately after she says no. If she wants to hang out with you, she will bring up rescheduling. I always drop the conversation immediately after there is a "no I'm busy".
/r/askTRP10/04/14 08:50 PM
2

Being stuck in your previous situation which was marriage and diving straight into a boyfriend/girlfriend situation sounds like something you don't really need right now. I was in a 5 year relationship, got out and thought finding another girlfriend as fast as possible was the answer...wrong. I found the time alone and the time to explore and have options is a very free and refreshing feeling after being with the same person for 5 years. I think you should take some time to do you and sharpen yo…
/r/askTRP10/04/14 08:44 PM
3

Oh boy another one of these. I would say 11. You've seen "Along Came Polly" right? It's really not something to break up with someone over, I mean it's only two weeks. Some women can go longer than others before the need to shove someone else's dick inside of them. If it were a few months on the other hand I would more than likely break it off.
/r/askTRP10/04/14 08:37 PM
4

He said she's 19 years old, I can almost guarantee you this girl is not conditioned to understand that in any way, shape, or form.
/r/askTRP10/04/14 08:12 PM
4

I always find it funny when guys tell RP how faithful their girlfriend is when the topic of open relationships comes up. You realize that she is probably just setting up the OK for her to do the same exact thing? Who knows, she might have already done it already and feels guilty so she lets you dabble in the cake as well.
/r/askTRP10/04/14 08:03 PM
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Your guess is as good as mine, something something "I want a beta provider who will buy me nice things, in which I will say I'm sophisticated". I didn't hang around to find out.
/r/TheRedPill10/04/14 05:16 PM
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There was a girl I spoke with very briefly, and I emphasize briefly via text. I asked what she was into as far as her free time and all she said was "being sophisticated". http://i.imgur.com/PxcKhTw.jpg
/r/TheRedPill10/04/14 05:04 PM
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She already found a beta provider it looks like. She posts up pictures of the flowers she gets from work from the dude. And on facebook all her friends say "Kudos to (his name) getting brownie points!" They aren't even dating and he's already buying her stuff. Yeah I'll pass.
/r/TheRedPill10/04/14 04:42 PM
0

What did you say originally to have them respond like that? Or are they just throwing that at you out of nowhere.
/r/askTRP09/04/14 09:09 PM
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If they end up hooking up, the guy is doing you a favor. Like cancer, it's good to catch the early signs of it before things get too serious. You cannot control women it just doesn't happen that way. If she is dead set on going and wont listen to you, fucking let her go and go do something you want to do during that time. She does not need to be your number one priority, YOU are your number one priority. In my experiences women who are pressured and held down emotionally are more likely to go ou…
/r/TheRedPill09/04/14 05:38 PM
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Yeah the only kind of bad publicity is no publicity at all. You could have worn that like a gold star the whole night and used it to your advantage.
/r/TheRedPill09/04/14 04:57 PM
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Yes exactly this, I was already making it clear that I was looking to hook up and nothing else. I didn't necessarily say "I want to fuck you with no strings attached" but I did make my advances which is where I was met with these comments. If it was just them telling me straight up out of nowhere, then I could use these.
/r/TheRedPill09/04/14 04:25 PM
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This is a situation I've been in before and I would limit text conversation and just tell her something like come over and I'll show you or if you have been to her place before tell her you are coming over to show her exactly what you plan on doing. I feel there are too many ways to fuck it up through text before you have even gotten a chance to be intimate yet. That's why text game is typically for scheduling meetups or dates while limiting small talk.
/r/TheRedPill09/04/14 02:58 PM
1

I think that's my biggest issue with a lot of things. I tend to go by the book when applying things I've learned when in reality it's ok to put your own twist on things as long as it pertains to the situation. Definitely on the list of self improvement goals I have.
/r/TheRedPill09/04/14 02:56 PM
2

It's unfortunate because my dad is just like this, he's a control freak and I feel like I have the same syndrome but actively notice it and suppress and don't let it show. I don't know if it's something you can make go away but I feel that I overcome it on a daily basis because I realize that it's just stupid to expend energy to get mad at small things. It's so god damn cliche to say but there's not enough time in the day to let shit like this bother you. Until you move out, do what your parents…
/r/askTRP08/04/14 06:48 PM
2

Pretend he doesn't exist (chances are he doesn't anyways).
/r/askTRP08/04/14 06:45 PM
12

Yeah man I cut my dick in half and fucked them both at the same time while eating my chicken fajitas, I even had time to do sour cream shots out of their asshole while waiting for dessert.
/r/TheRedPill07/04/14 08:47 PM
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Great addition, I'm going to give this a few goes and see what kind of reaction I get.
/r/TheRedPill07/04/14 06:59 PM
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What's funny is she's almost using this as an excuse to prod you for treating her to something special like getting you to make it up to her over a gift or dinner. She should know something like this is common and not really a big deal, but she sees an opportunity to try and guilt trip you over it into rewarding her with attention and special treats. Which of course don't do any of that.
/r/askTRP07/04/14 04:34 PM
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A group of friends and a few people new joined me for lunch on Saturday. It was great weather so we sat on the patio outside and enjoyed the last few days of cool weather. Anyways I have eaten a this place religiously and know the menu like the back of my hand. Two of my friends wanted to split this gigantic mexican platter of fajitas but didn't know how to order it. I stopped them mid sentence because they were stumbling over their words to the waitress and I said "They want the so and so with …
/r/TheRedPill07/04/14 04:10 PM
1

No I'm not, even with a tiny bit of weight I still shake. I feel like continuing with machines helps me be more stable. I will eventually move up to them, dumbbells aren't that bad but the bench is where I struggle with form.
/r/TheRedPill07/04/14 02:22 PM
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This was more for laughs than anything but just goes to show you how far confidence and looks can go. Absolutely hilarious read as well, I'm only on page 13 but I plan on going all the way through it.
/r/askTRP04/04/14 06:35 PM
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"What have I done wrong so far?" Well you if you aren't fucking her what exactly are you contacting her for? You didn't make that clear which is why I ask. A body massage? Did you escalate that situation, you could have pounded her brains out in that scenario. Also why are you being overly chivalrous guy when you just said you DONT want any of the gushy lovey dovey shit? You have already soaked in the absorbency limit of the emotional tampon without even sealing the deal yet.
/r/TheRedPill04/04/14 04:12 PM
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I've been a little hesitant to go to free weights/bench because I have a terrible case of shakes when I lift. It's gotten better but anytime I ever tried to do bench presses and what not I always let the bar lean one direction or shake so much it's not even worth doing. I've been using machines and just practicing my form and increasing the weight as I go. I also have bad joints, it's not an excuse I hear popping a lot of times so the machines are a little more friendly to me. Is this a bad thin…
/r/TheRedPill04/04/14 03:43 PM
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This is so fucked, it brings back bad memories. My one of my exes said her ex from like years ago wanted to just grab lunch and talk about whatever bullshit he wanted to talk about. She goes "I want you to be ok with it before I go though." And of course I was not fucking ok with that. She turned it into something about me being jealous and not trusting her. She ended up going anyways and said after they were going to the mall when I called to see when the fuck she was coming home. Yeah she's an…
/r/TheRedPill04/04/14 03:27 PM
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Wow I really liked this a lot. I listened to it in solitude on my drive home from work and it's refreshing to hear the things we see written through text here every day. There are others like us that have gone through worse things. This really opened my eyes a ton.
/r/askTRP03/04/14 10:18 PM
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Hahaha I am going to use this next time. A lot of times you are going to meet someone for the first time I've seen them say her cousin/friend/whatever wants to come too. This is hilarious way to throw it back in her face.
/r/askTRP03/04/14 08:38 PM
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Look man I wouldn't dwell too much on things you did wrong, look at the things you handled properly. If everything you say is 100% true then you were able to think on your feet and use what you have learned to your advantage. If you truly don't give a shit about her, other than getting balls deep in her meat pocket and can enjoy your day without thinking about her. I would pencil this in as a win for you. Isn't it fucking weird how a female can say they are so committed and into their current bo…
/r/TheRedPill03/04/14 08:27 PM
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I wouldn't be able to listen to this shit. I understand your research game, I've done it too before but it got so annoying I just starting ignoring her once I got enough of an idea of her thought process. A lot of the PUA methods and methodology I thought was a joke until I saw it work first hand for me. Dread game is deadly.
/r/TheRedPill03/04/14 06:37 PM
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Believe I made a post similar to this, I got a lot of negative feedback lol. Since then I don't even bring it up, it's just a part of my lifestyle now. Eventually people will notice they aren't the ones getting bigger, or pulling more women, or generally being more happy with themselves. I keep my mouth shut when it comes to anything like this.
/r/TheRedPill03/04/14 04:00 PM
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Next, this was your first girl after a 10 year marriage. There's a lot more of them out there.
/r/askTRP02/04/14 10:31 PM
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The broth was spoiled when I posted this, it brings back quite a few terrible memories.
/r/TheRedPill02/04/14 07:30 PM
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You have no idea how badly I want to punch myself in the face. I did end up hooking up with her for a few months but it ruined the whole roommate thing and I moved out.
/r/TheRedPill02/04/14 07:10 PM
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If she ever tries to hang out with you or contact you, just tell her you are with a puppet as well. I sometimes like throwing stuff back in their face, since my main weakness was always being too available I get a kick out of rejecting hangouts once in a while.
/r/askTRP02/04/14 07:04 PM
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Dude I'm sure she was just trying to rearrange the blanket we were under and accidentally grabbed it. Simple mistake.
/r/TheRedPill02/04/14 06:40 PM
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This sounds like the situation I was in with my high school girlfriend. Was in a relationship for around 5 years. 3 years of high school and 2 of her college. When she moved, it was about an hour away drive for college and I thought ok not bad it's an easy drive to visit whenever. Well I had extreme thoughts run through my mind wondering what she was always doing, who she was with, etc. It was sickening to a point where I couldn't take it anymore. There were always pictures she was tagged in and…
/r/askTRP02/04/14 06:39 PM
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Nobody can really say it's the right way to do it, but meeting new people and interacting outside of your comfort zone is healthy and good for you. As far as people talking about themselves, this is why you should always ask open ended questions. Let them talk, interject here and there and question things. Stepping out of your comfort zone and doing things you normally don't do is energizing at least to me, I try to do something different and or new in a social setting every week. Chances are yo…
/r/askTRP02/04/14 06:21 PM
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Jesus this thread huh, brings back some terrifying things I've done but shouldn't be forgotten. *Renting a fancy car for a night I was supposed to take a high strung/materialistic girl on a date. She didn't show up. *Driving an hour and half to confess all the things that I would be willing to change to my exes apartment in college. We had broken up the day before. (Waste of fucking gas god dammit) *Preaching nice guy personalities, showing everyone how nice I was and expecting pussy to land in …
/r/TheRedPill02/04/14 04:51 PM
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Not to sound stereotypical but the 3 asian girls I've slept with were leaps and bounds more adventurous and outgoing in bed rather than say the white or hispanic girls I've been through. I'm talking like wanting to get spanked as hard as I could thrust my hands onto their ass, non stop talking dirty/etc. One of them surprised the shit out of me, your typical bookworm looking quiet college student. Get her in the bedroom and she's trying to dominate me, had to put the reigns on her real quick and…
/r/TheRedPill31/03/14 02:08 PM
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Na I'm like 214 but a little more excess fat than I'd like.
/r/TheRedPill29/03/14 04:40 AM
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She's in Turkey right now on a deployment, military marriages are lol worthy. In the end I know I maybe saved some wasted time and money in his life. And she was being WAY more than nice. Talking about how badly you want to be fucked every angle is crossing the line. Especially when you are engaged rofl.
/r/askTRP28/03/14 08:15 PM
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I'm in the same situation and have photos and messages. They are engaged by the way. I forwarded the whole conversation to the guy. Have no idea who he is but his family doesn't deserve to dump money and effort into a wedding.
/r/askTRP28/03/14 07:57 PM
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Well for one you are never going to know if your girl is faithful or not over there, regardless of what she says. I mean all it takes is 1 night, they can be good for 99% of their trip but you better believe they want to go out and experience as much as they can. It's a chance to cross off the "crazy European experience" from their secret slut list. This doesn't apply to everyone it's just how I view it going down.
/r/TheRedPill28/03/14 07:39 PM
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I just walk out of my own house and went to stay the night at a friends. Dear god, you are in deep son.
/r/TheRedPill28/03/14 07:16 PM
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Some of my friends have had their girlfriends go travel to Spain/France/Exotic places to "study" and all kinds of other shit. I'm talking for months like the chick in this story. I just cannot fathom it going any other way, I would just have to assume my girlfriend would bang anyone after that period of time being over there. I am single now but I just can't look at it going any other way for a couple. There are an endless amount of times this situation has happened to a shit ton of people. I do…
/r/TheRedPill28/03/14 07:09 PM
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OP I just wanted to write that I understand what you are saying but as others have said there is always a way to fit it in. I love to play league of legends, before I went to the gym I would play every night before I went to sleep. Now I have other important things ahead of gaming, preparing food, doing my laundry for work, going to the gym, coming home and showering. At that point I am dead, drained and ready for bed. I play during the weekends AFTER I have already eaten and gone to the gym. I …
/r/TheRedPill28/03/14 06:22 PM
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This is the kind of thing I like to read because it motivates me even more to continue doing it. I think I would give up on the gym after 2-3 weeks at a time because I had some crazy expectation to see results immediately. Right now I am 2 months in of eating the cleanest I've ever eaten and lift 5 days a week. I still haven't really seen much but I FEEL better and right now that's all that matters to me. I will always read through from beginning to end, motivational posts.
/r/TheRedPill28/03/14 04:59 PM
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I'm going to do it, I went back and read the messages we were exchanging in the beginning. One of them even talked about pushing the wedding date back if she had to...that's so fucked.
/r/TheRedPill28/03/14 12:18 AM
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Yeah that's why I'm on the fence. If I tell him sure he can get out of this one luckily since he found out through me. But will this change who he picks next time and how he handles his relationship, highly doubtful.
/r/TheRedPill27/03/14 10:07 PM
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I know of two women currently who are engaged and have sent me extremely inappropriate pictures and send the implications of casual sex. Since their significant other is shown on their profiles from social media, I've been very tempted to just forward fucking everything to them. They don't deserve that shit BEFORE THEY ARE EVEN MARRIED. But I have not acted on it nor do I know if I even should. I know some guys are so hard headed they need to figure shit like this out themselves, but since I don…
/r/TheRedPill27/03/14 08:03 PM
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You are worried way too much about this. You say you have adopted and read RP tactics and think you have a good grasp on it, so why does this bother you so much? You know what you should do. NEXT! Also you sound clingy as fuck, no girl is going to want a guy asking if anything happened between them and someone else. Are you guys married, are you boyfriend and girlfriend? No, no and no so why do you care what happens between her and other guys. The lesson here is, stop giving a fuck. Ignore her, …
/r/askTRP27/03/14 06:32 PM
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You shouldn't worry about it because if she does ever give into one of them, they basically did you a favor. If a girl ever cheats on you, it's like finding the early stages of cancer, you have plenty of time to fix the situation and recover.
/r/askTRP27/03/14 04:26 PM
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I have got to land this girl You do realize what subreddit you are in right?
/r/askTRP27/03/14 01:49 AM
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Is not reading a new thing on the internet?
/r/TheRedPill26/03/14 08:46 PM
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As stated above, the one time I don't acknowledge her existence is when I'm facing the other way talking to someone in an already loud environment. They were the assholes for pointing it out that she had refilled my drink and I should say something. I have worked my fair share of restaurant and retail jobs in my younger years, I am always respectful of them. But once they found out about my viewpoints they just use it against me any chance they get now.
/r/TheRedPill26/03/14 04:43 PM
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How on earth am I sounding entitled? I do not think my philosophy is best, or the only way, it's just the way I view what they are asking me. Nowhere did I mention that it was the only way. Also the one time I didn't say thank you was when I was having a conversation with someone and she filled my drink up while I wasn't even looking her direction.
/r/TheRedPill26/03/14 04:40 PM
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Can I just butt in and say that currently at my job this is the most annoying aspect of coming in every day? I love what I actually do, remote and phone support for a telecommunications company. About 9 employees here, the field techs are always gone (all men) so I am stuck with the women and owner. Owner is gone 99% of the day. The lady across from me loves to just exhale loudly and leave a tail on all the words she says when she's done talking on the phone. "Oh my goddddddd whyyyyy do I have t…
/r/TheRedPill26/03/14 04:14 PM
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I've started getting way better at this, and I keep my messages very short. Just the other day a girl who I hadn't spoken to in a while started texting me, I was short and sarcastic with her. It was one of the first times it looked like they were writing the paragraphs not me. It's quite amazing how much of a seed it plants when you write a one sentence reply. It keeps them wanting more and it's worked wonders so far. PS-I was just like you, as blue as the ocean itself. Wondering how their day w…
/r/TheRedPill26/03/14 03:33 PM
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There's no use trying to convince the other women and people that she said those things. This is a classic example of why you don't shit where you eat. Once you do it, you can never be sure how that person is going to react if you ever get on their bad side or in general in the future. Ignore it and don't give them any more ammo.
/r/askTRP25/03/14 09:26 PM
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Fair enough, I haven't done anything as bold as leaving yet but I am honestly hoping I can get the chance just to test my own level of balls.
/r/TheRedPill25/03/14 04:52 PM
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At what point is the breaking point for you. Do you count any times in your head for when she pulls it out? I can understand maybe once to check it but after that it's just plain annoying as shit.
/r/TheRedPill25/03/14 04:47 PM
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You lost when you said "long" conversations. Also do not ever ask someone to let you know when they are free, women are forgetful and you are just giving them a reason to make an excuse not to show up. You want to meet her for coffee? Tell her "Hey X meet me here at 7 for coffee." Don't give her an easy way to back out.
/r/askTRP25/03/14 04:28 PM
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You have developed oneitis for a future crazy cat lady. No really though it's pretty clear she is just not interested in you coming over. The cat is just a bullshit excuse. Stop talking to her completely and start investing your time somewhere else. Also the way you talk about the situation you are making it sound like you are dating which it's quite clear you aren't. If you haven't made your intentions clear at this point there's probably no hope. Ignore her and move on.
/r/askTRP25/03/14 04:24 PM
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I wish I could just delete mine because of all the cancerous shit that is posted on it daily. Sob stories, fake pictures, fake stories, hashtags, all of that bullshit. But it's sadly the only way I can talk to some friends I have in the military and family far away, that's the ONLY reason I have it anymore. In your situation it really doesn't matter, if they don't like what they see well that just makes things easier for you. No time wasted. There's no need to wonder what they think about a bull…
/r/askTRP25/03/14 04:19 PM
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One of my favorite things to do is call people out who sit on their phones, whether it's a date or just hanging out. Shit is a disease.
/r/TheRedPill25/03/14 04:14 PM
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cut ties for good In more ways than one. I am wanting very much to get a vasectomy early on in my life. Nothing will ever change to make me want children.
/r/TheRedPill25/03/14 03:52 PM
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I don't really see casual dating and FWB going hand in hand. Either you are dating someone or you are fucking them. Space it out a bit too man, some girls don't want to hang out with or hear from the same guy day after day. I would go for the FWB thing because clearly she is willing to fuck. It kind of sounds like you are trying hard to not fuck this up which is where you are going to fuck it up. Let her be, give it a few days and go for another drink this weekend.
/r/askTRP24/03/14 03:55 PM
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Was it a date? If you just ask a girl to go to some convention with you, what do you expect if you aren't making yourself clear what your intentions are? You could have told her to come with you to a specific booth or something but even then it almost sounds like more of a friendly meet up than anything. You essentially took your dog to the park and took its collar and leash off.
/r/askTRP24/03/14 03:46 PM
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IT, specifically for a very large local Telecommunications company. I am single and have very small amount of bills to pay. I don't have a degree in anything although I have a lot of training courses completed that look good to companies for specific applications and business telephones. I'm only 25 years old and typically I can just sit in my office and work and nobody bugs me, that's my favorite part. Being treated like a fucking adult at a job, people assume I will do my work because I have s…
/r/TheRedPill24/03/14 02:23 PM
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I've had one first had experience of dread game before, when I was younger. I was I think 18 or so and I didn't know what dread game, trp, any of the shit from the sidebar was. I just knew this exact thing that happened to OP happened to me. The girl I lost my virginity to was 22, she belonged to the same local car enthusiast group as me. Well I met one of her friends in the same group down the road. The original girl, let's call her Valerie...told me a few months into the FWB thing that she did…
/r/askTRP21/03/14 04:31 PM
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After sleeping on it last night I've determined that my time is important and I'm not going to let someone I have never met take a slot of my day hostage. Onto the next one!
/r/askTRP21/03/14 01:24 PM
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That's exactly what I did, I had kept that in mind previous to even setting it up. I have a few things I can do on Saturday anyways like detail my car. I just did not understand what she was thinking responding to me those ways.
/r/askTRP20/03/14 11:45 PM
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Even then it's the exact opposite of what this sub is about. You want to show her you don't give a fuck, go to the party and enjoy yourself and stop talking about your ex. Simple as that, there is no need to escalate or think about the situation any further. Parties are for fun, not making ex's jealous. He says he wants to demonstrate not giving a fuck, but what he is implying is justification for kind of giving a fuck.
/r/askTRP20/03/14 04:00 PM
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I'm going to be completely honest with you, I don't see that being the case. A girl is not going to cold shoulder you because you haven't expressed a stronger desire other than sex, in fact it's just the opposite. Women get quiet and disappear when they feel pressured and notice clingy activity. I'm not going to speak for everyone's experiences but I've had this happen deep back in my beta days, I would wonder why they stopped showing interest in me. I can guarantee you it's not because I wasn't…
/r/askTRP20/03/14 03:55 PM
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This goes for any situation with a new girl even one you are REALLY into. Do not cancel plans to hang out with them, sometimes they will know you do because that info was already passed to them after having conversations about "Oh what are you up to this weekend." etc. I have had a girl TELL me I made myself too available, they are pretty good at figuring that out. If you have plans to do something fun that you set up and they message you they are free that night, it is 100% OK to tell them no o…
/r/askTRP20/03/14 03:45 PM
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Do you ever give her any indications that you want something more? I have fucked up that way in the past, and typically it's what ruins the whole FWB thing. The first person that shows signs of more of an emotional attachment causes the "game over" syndrome for the other most of the time. It certainly sounds like that is what's happening from the way you are painting her actions. If she starts becoming distant you have no reason to let it affect you, after all this is a FWB. This is where plates…
/r/askTRP20/03/14 03:33 PM
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Extremely over analyzing the situation. If I thought like this I would drive myself insane. The part that you bolded isn't something that should even be bold, there is no hidden secret written in that question. You have talked to her once before maybe she is just comfortable asking you a few questions. Stop over thinking, you will fuck yourself before you fuck anything else.
/r/askTRP20/03/14 01:55 PM
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No, they just argued about everything. My brother and I were the cliche kids who locked themselves in our rooms wondering why our parents are yelling at each other. I think it was a marriage based around my mom getting pregnant and they thought it was the right thing to do at the time. She's a sweet lady but her priorities are all kinds of fucked up.
/r/TheRedPill19/03/14 10:17 PM
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I have tried once to get involved in the middle of someone else's relationship other than my own, ONCE. You might think it's easy to convince someone to do something, but it's about the same as telling a fat person "You're fat, go to the gym and you won't be fat." You don't think this person knows it? It's a sickness. Some people are so hardheaded they need to experience shit for themselves. Pussy is a powerful drug when you aren't getting it.
/r/askTRP19/03/14 09:38 PM
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I'm with you, it's a sickness...seriously. Thank goodness I discovered this subreddit though or I would have gone bankrupt trying to impress them before I was 30.
/r/TheRedPill19/03/14 09:27 PM
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The girls you used to talk to as friends are just upset that they no longer have someone who will listen to all their bullshit and tell them everything's going to be ok. Trust me I've already been through this with 2 girls who I used to talk to regularly, after they noticed my subtle changes they immediately wondered why I turned into a "non caring" asshole. Here's the thing, one door closes and another opens when you adopt these methods and apply them to your every day lifestyle. Losing a few a…
/r/TheRedPill19/03/14 08:21 PM
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This is a harsh reality, but 100% something that needs to be drilled into the back of everyone's brains.
/r/TheRedPill19/03/14 08:16 PM
3

I suppose what particularly stuck out to me is claiming how much of a man he is and implying the right thing to do is stick up and defend these helpless female gamers. You saw the amount of attention and uproar this brought out, it's just amazing to see how many people firmly believe this is the way you handle situations like that.
/r/TheRedPill19/03/14 04:36 PM
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Every time I go out in public I am reminded why I don't want kids. I don't find babies cute, I don't find them drooling and shitting themselves adorable. Ever had a new mother ask if you want to hold their baby? I can never say no fast enough, there is not a small enough microscope in the world to find the amount of interest to hold their small breathing, bank account rapist. I think kids are disgusting, I'm lucky my parents didn't leave me at the hospital honestly. Every time I see photos of pe…
/r/TheRedPill19/03/14 03:40 PM
2

My mother left my father, me, and my younger brother 2 days after Christmas in 2006. Every time we talk on the phone she says she misses me and that I should move where she is. There are days I forget I have a mom, those days really suck. I enjoy talking to her over the phone and I love her to death, but she won't accept that she is the one who left us, we didn't leave her behind. Months go by without hearing from her but once she does call it's like everything is ok again for those 10-15 minute…
/r/TheRedPill19/03/14 03:22 PM
1

Just disgusting and infuriating to read this. I posted the original article last week here and was already fuming a bit. Pussy pass is a real thing, what a time to be alive.
/r/TheRedPill19/03/14 02:08 PM
1

Close, she's viet. I'm not even going to sit here trying to defend a picture of the chick. I'm white, I was heavily into asian girls she looked extremely good to me which is why I said 9. Different strokes for different folks. The picture shown is distorted and is not the best representation of her. Anyways yeah she's 25 now so who knows what the fuck she's up to.
/r/TheRedPill19/03/14 12:18 AM
5

"Money does not compensate for sexual favors" I literally had a deep tummy laugh at that while sitting here at work. I can't believe I got tied up with that to begin with.
/r/TheRedPill18/03/14 08:59 PM
9

Absolutely hilarious.I have had a similar situation with a girl that was a prospect of mine. This was back when I had the asian fever, which has gone away for the time being. So this chick that I've had over a few times back before we went our separate ways, someone found that she made a profile on a sugardaddy type dating site. It wasn't right out called "sugardaddy" but it was something obvious along those lines. This girl fucking had a list of this SHE NEEDED, including MINIMUM income. Becaus…
/r/TheRedPill18/03/14 08:28 PM
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I love keeping girls hydrated This is the best answer to me in here, genius.
/r/TheRedPill18/03/14 06:33 PM
1

Agreeing and amplifying like others have said is your best chance at recovering. It makes the girl look like what she said was petty and stupid and they probably won't ever say that again, which is why you respond that way. But with this particular line she said to you, it could come across as an extreme beta/fedora tipping/m'lady response when you agree and amplify it. I like the guy's hydration response, sounds like the safest answer.
/r/TheRedPill18/03/14 06:33 PM
1

I like to cook, I am finally in a place with a kitchen that doesn't feel crammed and I actually enjoy spreading everything out and being organized. It makes meal planning easier and just makes cooking more enjoyable. Secondly would be cars, I have loved them since I was old enough to push one around on the ground with my baby ass hand. I love working on mine, detailing it, maintaining it, every aspect. People spend money on worse hobbies (I have to tell myself that because of the money I spend o…
/r/TheRedPill18/03/14 03:49 PM
1

You fucked up by giving her a reason not to answer you. Cat cake and that's it, ALWAYS wait in between texts and messages on anything. Nothing makes you look more desperate than sending things back to back, including "Are you still interested/gonna answer me/we still going out/etc." You are literally giving her a reason to say no to all that shit. That's the first thing I changed myself because it was the easiest to me. TELL them, don't ask them.
/r/askTRP18/03/14 03:30 PM
3

Here you go, now that most of the discussion is over. http://i.imgur.com/hZXMuKa.jpg
/r/TheRedPill18/03/14 03:06 PM
0

I am ready for the justice, can't wait for the follow up to this.
/r/TheRedPill18/03/14 02:42 PM
2

Regardless of what she was going to do the next day or later that night, my decision was not going to change. I needed to do this once to break the mold I've been stuck in my whole life. There's nothing special about this girl that would have changed my mind.
/r/TheRedPill18/03/14 12:55 PM
3

Yep I'm a huge asshole. I decided something that happens once a year was going to be more fun, and I was right.
/r/TheRedPill18/03/14 12:47 PM
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Yeah, I'm lucky there was something really peaking my hobbies and interests this weekend or I might have fucked up. It's going to be a true test when I have 0 things planned and still am able to deny or change my mind.
/r/TheRedPill17/03/14 08:18 PM
2

Yeah I could have, but I was out till 5am on Friday and Saturday night.
/r/TheRedPill17/03/14 08:05 PM
1

Yes sir, thanks I appreciate it. Was 100x more fun than taking a girl out to dinner and drinks.
/r/TheRedPill17/03/14 06:40 PM
0

I get beat by a lot of cars since mine is stock like it was just driven out of the dealership.
/r/TheRedPill17/03/14 06:00 PM
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I really didn't mean for that to come across as a brag if it did. Was just adding a real picture to include with my story. In the future I'll just use text. I mean if I owned a busted ass car I still would have posted a picture just helping show my excitement of doing something I wanted to do. Removed it just for the sake of keeping the post on topic.
/r/TheRedPill17/03/14 05:32 PM
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I was being heavily sarcastic when I typed that. Please don't take it seriously.
/r/TheRedPill17/03/14 05:29 PM
6

Thanks, it's a lot of fun.
/r/TheRedPill17/03/14 04:21 PM
10

Not sure how that's psychotic behavior in any way. I did include a picture of myself enjoying my weekend yes. That was part of the point I was getting to. This was a step forward for me from my previous self who was putting women first above everything, even myself. Thanks for your insight though.
/r/TheRedPill17/03/14 04:20 PM
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You missed out, if she got up and sat on your lap that was it, game over you get to have sex. But you botched the shit out of it and should have just gone right back for it. She isn't sitting on your lap because you guys are best friends, she wanted dick and you failed to provide that.
/r/askTRP17/03/14 02:27 PM
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Be glad you discovered this about yourself early. Some people live their whole lives without realizing it. I made it to 25 years old and I still feel lucky considering I'm still somewhat young. Wake up every morning and make sure you do things that are going to improve your life for YOU. Don't try to impress anyone and get your ass to the gym and eat well. Eat a few bad things on the weekend to stay sane. You are on the right path my friend.
/r/TheRedPill13/03/14 06:13 PM
5

Thank you for bolding your points to try and scream them across at us, we would not have been able to otherwise decipher what you had written. (psst your emotion is showing).
/r/TheRedPill13/03/14 05:21 PM
8

Can't tell if you're trolling or just stupid.
/r/TheRedPill13/03/14 05:14 PM
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The part that just fills me with rage the most is seeing peoples thought processes on this on the news page and their facebook post. "Oh come on it's just a dad being a dad, I would have done the same thing." Well clearly you aren't being a very good dad if there's a boy in your daughter's room without you knowing. This story has had me seeing red all morning. Absolutely disgusting.
/r/TheRedPill13/03/14 03:43 PM
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Yeah because clearly that's her strong trait.
/r/TheRedPill13/03/14 03:11 PM
1

I have a friend like this, or similar I suppose. He is socially awkward in a way but in the same way he is by no means quiet when we go out. He just doesn't know how to talk to people without coming across as extremely weird or creepy. We try to bring him out if he is over at a friends house so he feels included. The best way I can put it for reddit users is, he is a cringe situation maker. Just something as simple as sitting down and ordering food, he always asks the waitresses what exactly is …
/r/askTRP12/03/14 09:40 PM
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There's really no point to even dread game, just next. All the arguing and fighting is him expending energy on something he shouldn't have to. It's ok to next someone to avoid that.
/r/askTRP12/03/14 07:36 PM
1

Well the first time she was legitimately out of town until Sunday night on vacation (saw the pictures on social media). Anyways I agree with you on going cold instead of prodding at her to meet me because I don't want to waste my precious time and energy on someone who has tried to flake. This is where I have a hard time distinguishing rejection and shit tests. I mean she did immediately agree to hang out with me.
/r/askTRP12/03/14 04:51 PM
1

So if she does mention maybe flaking or the whole "Well I don't quite know yet." Just go radio silent? I have seen some guys guilt trip in a way or say that if you don't know yet you are free, I'll see you there. I haven't used that before though.
/r/askTRP12/03/14 04:40 PM
1

Yeah, if she actually wants to go I assume she will remember but then again some women have horrible memory in my experience. I'm just going to shoot a nonchalant quick text to her.
/r/askTRP12/03/14 04:38 PM
1

My question is a shit test? I'm simply asking if there's some RP method of protocol to meeting up at a certain time or if you just assume it's on unless otherwise discussed.
/r/askTRP12/03/14 04:13 PM
1

Nice answer, I don't know if there is a better one out there. I'm about to meet a girl this weekend who just broke up with her bf of 3 years about a month ago. What advice do you have on closing on the first meet of a newly single chick? I assume a month without getting fucked is to be used to my advantage.
/r/TheRedPill11/03/14 11:26 PM
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I dated a girl for 5 years, she controlled every aspect of it. Was my high school "sweetheart" if that makes sense. She moved about an hour and a half away and that ended up taking its toll on the relationship. I got overly jealous if she was not sitting in her apartment doing absolutely nothing. Looking back and at all the signs and signals I'm almost 99% sure she cheated on me but she was the one always asking me what I was doing and who is THIS or THAT girl. Anyways moving forward to today, I…
/r/TheRedPill11/03/14 09:26 PM
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My younger brother and his roommate have started noticing a difference in me. Every time the topic of a woman comes up I'll give them my 2 cents and they go "Yeah ok woman hater". Or something along those lines. It gets aggravating because I would have to explain everything for them to understand why I'm responding in the manner I am. Hopefully it will click with them in the future. For now I just keep my mouth shut in front of them and do the mhmm and yup as op stated lately though.
/r/TheRedPill11/03/14 04:40 PM
1

Something like that, hilarious right? Oh military love stories always have the best endings. /sarcasm
/r/TheRedPill10/03/14 08:27 PM
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I saw that guy on Diners Drive ins and Dives. Made some insanely unhealthy looking sandwiches but hey this is America we will buy into that shit faster than you can make them. After reading this though, jesus christ man...good luck with that divorce that's coming.
/r/TheRedPill10/03/14 08:23 PM
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If she is anything like a few girls I've dealt with in the past, she's just bored and wanting to make contact with someone. A lot of times women will text people who they haven't spoken with in a while in order to restart the clock on how long it's been since you have talked to them. It's almost like pressing reset on a stop watch. Some are actually interested in talking to you, but there are some out there who just want to press reset on that stopwatch so she can say it hasn't been "so and so" …
/r/askTRP09/03/14 05:38 AM
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You think you can get away with anything, I'm not like that. Basically just means you have gone past the barrier most guys don't have the balls to reach with the specific individual, which ends up letting you get away with basically a lot of things.
/r/TheRedPill07/03/14 10:33 PM
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I completely agree but how exactly do you know they it's gotten to that point if they give you 0 clues. See they are engaged, I'm sure he thinks he is in the clear and has this girl on lock down. What signs do you get when you have a LDR? You don't see that person everyday you only see them on skype or get a message here and there. I suppose getting in a LDR to begin with is a terrible idea.
/r/TheRedPill06/03/14 10:34 PM
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Here's the best part, they have been dating for 6 months, engaged for about 2 of them...and she is already doing this. What is the thought process behind that. Does she just want to feel like she has something while she is far away from her home? That's how she makes it sound at least, like this holds her over till she comes back and realizes she misses getting her meat cavern plundered by different people every weekend.
/r/TheRedPill06/03/14 08:38 PM
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I agree completely, the blunt disrespect she has for her fiance is what got me. It was funny at first but then I just put myself in his shoes and it pissed me off. She has no shame because it's advertised who it is on her page where I could just click on his name and forward him our whole conversation. Either she doesn't realize that or doesn't care. I am staying out of their business.
/r/TheRedPill06/03/14 07:12 PM
1

Hey it's just another learning experience for me. I honestly don't even want to date anyone right now, I am here to self improve and share my situations and experiences with the rest of you. I've got something next week set up that's my first outing after discovering this place and taking in a lot of useful info. I have a lot to look forward to in life as does everyone else here. My next hurdle is creating value within myself.
/r/TheRedPill05/03/14 09:00 PM
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I don't doubt any of that, if I knew it was going to be a temp job I would have at least kept doing some night classes. They made it sound like I was taking over someones position, we all have to learn from experiences right? And yeah people here tend to "act" alpha but as far as jobs go I would never judge someone's personality off of that. My friends go through the same thing with those girls too so it just furthers my experience and points I made.
/r/TheRedPill05/03/14 08:27 PM
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??? I was in college, took a job that ended up being temporary and made good money while doing so. You make it sound like fixing computers is something that poor people do or something and I have no idea why. Stop being so bitter.
/r/TheRedPill05/03/14 08:03 PM
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You realize things can happen before reddit right? Life goes on outside of this website. Your post has a lot of built in anger shining through it. I have dated a few asian girls, you are right about the number to consider them freaks, but with my experiences with them that's my take on it. Believe what you want, I know what goes on in my life lol.
/r/TheRedPill05/03/14 07:56 PM
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But there is a much larger population of Caucasian in the city I am from. Lots of Oil and Gas/Energy and Trading money here.
/r/TheRedPill05/03/14 06:40 PM
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I'm a 25 year old white male. I have had 3 asian girlfriends and will never date one ever again. I am glad I got to experience what I did in order to save my ass in the long run. Don't get me wrong, they are some of the if not THE biggest closet freaks I've ever been with and I will continue to streamroll through them. But as far as dating goes, good luck. None of their parents liked me, not one mom or dad out of all 3 of them. Conversations were always about my future and about why am I not fin…
/r/TheRedPill05/03/14 03:52 PM
1

I appreciate the comment, it definitely does help. Just to note on number 3, she spam messaged me all of that info today so what I got out of that is "perfect time to set something up". I never asked her to tell me any of that. And now that she has accepted that is why I feel like it's a good opportunity to seal the deal.
/r/TheRedPill05/03/14 01:44 AM
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I think a huge misconception is that the friend zone is something you get placed in. I'm sure people have mentioned it before but if you are not straight forward and to the point about your actions and why you are hanging out with this specific person, guess what you have already bought your first class tickets to that zone. A lot of dudes put themselves there in the first few days, like small talking and just talking about random bullshit. She is going to realize you are worth keeping around to…
/r/TheRedPill04/03/14 08:57 PM
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I don't want to make a new thread about this, so I'm glad I have yours to piggy back off of. What do you tell the women who try to fit in and say they want a bad boy when they themselves literally are just faking their way to fit into that niche? They say things like they are holding out for one of them...and they are deep down inside a goody good. I have a few friends like this and I want to call them out so bad on it because it's painfully obvious they have nothing to offer to these "bad boys"…
/r/TheRedPill04/03/14 04:15 PM
1

I am only 25 but after seeing what this generation goes through when it comes to marriage, I will pass. That's not the only deciding factor in any way but it certainly helps my decision. I also have hobbies that require decent amounts of money and there is no way in hell I would be able to continue those being tied down. Honestly I get bored of women too, I could never sign my life away to one of them.
/r/TheRedPill03/03/14 09:35 PM
1

From the way she handled speaking with you, even adding you so quickly, I would definitely be careful about how you approach this. There could be two reasons why she is agreeing to this. A. She might just want a friendly type hookup since she knows you and dated you, you would be an easy and comfortable lay for her. B. This is the way that you dont want it to go. She legitimately thinks you are reaching out to her because you miss her and want to rekindle some type of relationship. What you need…
/r/askTRP03/03/14 06:47 PM
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If she re-initiates contact, you can handle it a few different ways it just depends on what she says. You can ignore all the shit that she said and just try to get right back into her coming over, which is what I would do. Don't play into her bullshit small talk, if you want to spin a plate then only text to set up the next time you are hanging out. People fuck friends with benefits up by texting too much. If it seems like she only wants to talk and beats around the bush a lot just next her it's…
/r/askTRP03/03/14 06:35 PM
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You are using "lol" way too much, it does nothing for you. Get to the point with her, if she doesn't play along, maintain radio silence. Also don't ask her what she wants to watch, tell her you rented a movie and to come watch it with you. She shouldn't give a fuck what it is if she is down to hook up again.
/r/askTRP03/03/14 06:22 PM
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Leave it unanswered. You are essentially putting the ball in her court without even doing anything. She's going to wonder why you stopped texting her and eventually come back. And if for some reason she doesn't go about your day and work on the next prospect.
/r/askTRP03/03/14 06:19 PM
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She doesn't miss me after periods apart like she used to, and she finds it a lot harder to get in the mood for sex. Yeah that tends to happen when you start fucking a bunch of new people in a new town.
/r/TheRedPill03/03/14 05:59 PM
1

25 here, have had enough bad shit happen to me in the past to hopefully never make the mistakes I did again.
/r/askTRP28/02/14 10:37 PM
2

It was 404'd on our site as well, her post is the only thing worth mentioning anyways. That article was more than definitely a 1 sided hamster wheel fueled paragraph.
/r/TheRedPill27/02/14 04:50 PM
2

This is hilarious and by far the best advice I could take out of this entire thread. Then again hooking up with a teacher or professor isn't exactly the best idea either. The teacher will more than likely attempt to make you look like a fool in front of the entire class if we are speaking high school, they love doing that shit.
/r/askTRP26/02/14 07:33 PM
1

As long as she's not a co worker I would say plow it into the ground and make her give you the keys to the GTR on days she isn't using it.
/r/askTRP26/02/14 07:29 PM
1

Just a quick bit of advice, don't ask for them to come over. That gives them reasons to fire off excuses left and right, just tell her. "Come over Friday at 8." Short and simple no need to say anything else. As far as your confidence goes, look man I think everyone has been in your shoes, being nervous is normal. Once you get past that wall you are at, you will wish you had climbed it WAY sooner. And don't beat yourself up, looks like she's coming back over so just take a deep breath and fuck he…
/r/askTRP25/02/14 04:24 PM
6

It's quite simple, you start at the top left and read left to right, top to bottom. Let me know if you have any questions.
/r/TheRedPill24/02/14 08:51 PM
1

Similar thing happened to me with a girl I knew from high school. We talked all the time and even reconnected so to speak like a year ago. She broke up with her bf 5 times within that year and always came to me with her issues and being raging beta then I listened and gave her advice, banking on the fact that I might get some side pussy from her. Well here we are and the dude proposed to her so they are married now. She moved about 2 hours away to the country and texts me randomly now which I ig…
/r/askTRP24/02/14 06:40 PM
5

Yeah trust me the next thing I'm getting is an XM radio. I have a 30 min commute in the morning and 45 on the way home, I hate silence. I just want music but they have that awful morning show in between 1 song.
/r/TheRedPill24/02/14 06:06 PM
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The beat material she gave you, take a good look at those pictures. Because that is the last time you will see her, seriously though she sounds like cut your dick off while you sleep crazy.
/r/TheRedPill24/02/14 04:47 PM
5

No no, these were just randomly seeing things they didn't like that you owned. Like shirts, shoes, electronics, fucking cars even. Absolutely insane, and it sounded like a lot of this happened in the guy's apartment or house.
/r/TheRedPill24/02/14 04:31 PM
1

These are the posts I look forward to, I take in every ounce I can of motivation every day. Reading things like this in the morning are just what some people need to make that extra push. I have always given up because stupid shit takes over after those 1 or 2 weeks I go hard. I don't fucking know why I can't just stick with it, but I am sure as shit going to keep trying.
/r/TheRedPill24/02/14 03:29 PM
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Ha nice, I figured someone else on here was from Houston. What's funny is not one person that called in said they broke up or cut ties with the person because of it. That part bothered me the most, they will just continue to get dominated in their relationship by that woman.
/r/TheRedPill24/02/14 03:11 PM
5

Well it's time to find a new wing man.
/r/TheRedPill22/02/14 09:38 PM
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"Did not get a chance to shower." Dude you probably just smelled like shit. There's no need to write a huge paragraph...take a shower after you sweat, it's something you are taught as a child. Who would have thought women want someone who smells good.
/r/TheRedPill22/02/14 08:38 PM
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Even though it has nothing to do with your title, I feel it's important to share. My dad remarried and he works out of the country/out of the city almost 24/7. He lets me live in his house for free if I take care of it and the dog while he's gone. We are talking 9 months out of the year. So the two step sisters I "inherited" live with me since there are enough bedrooms. Just to preface this I have never had a fucking sister in my life. These 2 are (21) and (23) they have some of the DUMBEST fuck…
/r/TheRedPill21/02/14 10:59 PM
1

I think you are over thinking this. I have been in a similar situation before and made a post about it yesterday I think. I made a pathetic fucking thread like a year ago asking reddit, like they would give me some magical step by step guide the get inside this girls pants. When in reality all I had to do was MAKE A FUCKING MOVE. You need to not over think where you will be, when it will happen, and how it happens. What you need to do is just get here somewhere fuckable and poke the inside of he…
/r/askTRP20/02/14 10:29 PM
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Nope she stayed with him for another year I think. I did get her over a few months like after all that blew over and we were about to get to doing the deed again but she stopped it and said "I don't feel right about this." Being a shit for brains I could not think of anything to say to push the fact that she already cheated what's the fucking difference now. Biggest boner kill to this day.
/r/TheRedPill20/02/14 09:38 PM
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When I was about 17 I was on myspace and facebook a lot. I saw one girl comment on one of my friends pictures and I clicked on her profile, to me she was a 10/10 at the time because I was a sex deprived teenager now she's about an 8. Anyways I saw her and was just like "I want to bang this chick so bad." It was to the point where I just messaged her and introduced myself to her in the least awkward way possible skipping the part about how I knew her. Anyways, we talk a little bit like every othe…
/r/TheRedPill20/02/14 05:18 PM
2

Very sound advice, I enjoy reading this because I'm just drilling it all into my brain for my future. Nobody is going to change how I think and how I act besides me. I need this advice in order to proceed to the next stage in my life. I feel like it's cheating, being brought to this sub. The advice and information in here and available is like using the teachers guide when taking a test. I am lucky to have had someone point me in this direction.
/r/TheRedPill19/02/14 10:47 PM
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OP one of the biggest mistakes I made during my learning period of growing up is making yourself "too" available. I had a girl straight tell me over the phone I had that problem and to this day I'm considered friend zone to her so I just cut all contact. I was exactly like you. But then, I started telling girls I already had plans that night and it was like magic, they started messaging me to hang out. It's crazy how this shit works but the last thing I'll ever do is clear my schedule for a flak…
/r/TheRedPill19/02/14 05:55 PM
1

I am still new to TRP, only a week now. But I know these signs all too well. My situation? Exactly like yours, even the part where she was chinese (I'm white). It was my roommate and she was throwing signs with me all over the fucking place. Starting to wear less and less around me, not covering everything up after she got out of the shower. Bending over in front of me. I even made a fucking thread on reddit like a year ago asking what I should do. Sometimes you just need to GO FOR IT. I was a f…
/r/TheRedPill18/02/14 10:49 PM
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This is really sound advice. The problem I get is the ones who fuck around and message me out of the blue like every few weeks or even months at a time. Some of them have moved away (within hours drive) or stationed somewhere in the military but will return. So I get these texts like "Heyyy how's everything going." I can't tell if they are bored or just making sure they keep enough contact with me so I remember them.
/r/TheRedPill18/02/14 08:44 PM
2

I daily drive my Camaro Z28. I bought it because it's fun as fuck and I like sports cars. I would never buy anything to impress anyone, either get in or don't. Around where I live girls seem to follow and pursue guys with trucks. Again I would never buy a truck just for that reason. I have nothing to tow so I don't need a truck.
/r/TheRedPill18/02/14 07:11 PM
1

Perfect, I now have reading material while I take my lunch. Thanks.
/r/TheRedPill18/02/14 07:02 PM
2

Yeah I should have been more clear. Texting, talking on social media, etc, not face to face. I have been pretty successful with speaking in person. But my qualm is with virtual conversations.
/r/TheRedPill18/02/14 06:52 PM
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Ha, I gave a girl 3 strikes as well. On the 3rd one she promised to make it up to me. But it seems she only messages me when she wants to borrow my GoPro or has a question about something wrong with her computer. I tend to just ignore her and she has since stopped messaging me. That one was pretty obvious but you get the point.
/r/TheRedPill18/02/14 03:32 PM
2

The girl I walked out on, we lived together but her mom owned the condo we stayed in so I wasn't under a lease contract. We had a huge argument and I just took all my shit with me and left, it took the better half of the day. I heard an earful every time I came back for more stuff, which I just kind of hysterically laughed at, refusing to acknowledge her existence. As for my friends, they know I'm pissed but they have also done some really good things for me in the past which almost make up for …
/r/TheRedPill14/02/14 06:49 PM
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I tried keto at 2 different times. I do well the first few weeks but it gave me terrible headaches that I was not able to handle. And yes I was eating the correct amount of specific things, I was just unable to deal with the pain of those headaches. I swim every morning before work.
/r/TheRedPill14/02/14 06:41 PM
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I relate to this so much now after my past fuck ups. I'm the guy who's girlfriend was fucking 3 of his friends previously to dating her. Yeah I should have walked away sooner. Same with my previous.
/r/TheRedPill14/02/14 04:44 PM
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I just wanted to make another post here because I guess it's relevant. I completely flipped out on her last night after finding out that yes she did some things I probably wouldn't be happy about a few times during the first few weeks of dating. This was after telling her I am not comfortable or interested in being involved with someone who has a tendency to hop on the nearest and most convenient dick around. I even got a confession out of her roommate that they banged all the time and sometimes…
/r/TheRedPill13/02/14 08:58 PM
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I've noticed, I'm going to read Michael's story when I get home from work.
/r/TheRedPill12/02/14 10:42 PM
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You're right, I'm fucking pissed. But you know what the answers in here make more sense than the others did. I appreciate those sucking on my tit and telling me what I want to hear but in the end I know the things said in here are more accurate. I don't even know if I can trust women anymore, this is such a fucked situation and I've been cheated on before. When is a woman going to come along and show me they aren't all cock babysitters.
/r/TheRedPill12/02/14 09:39 PM
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To Theislander. You seem to have been taught how you could be the largest faggot known to man, congrats it's paid off because you are really good at it. If there was a Fortune 500 company looking for the most highly qualified faggots, you would literally be turned down because of how overqualified you are.
/r/TheRedPill12/02/14 09:13 PM
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This is honestly the best advice I have had this year from anyone including my parents. I went to the gym this evening after reading this comment:kicked my ass on the weights and even had a nice chat with the cute receptionist at the front counter. Funny how easy it is to strike up a conversation with someone who probably wouldn't mind being acknowledged. Seriously, thank you for this.
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