How often do you get turned down when asking a girl on a date vs say yes. I’m wondering if my yes/no ratio is comparable to everyone else.

TheGirlGetter9000 · 2020-07-25T17:18:10+00:00

When I first started: got a date maybe 1 in 50 times (did a lot of cold approach) probably 1-in-10 for non cold approaches

Now: maybe 3 in 4 or 4 in 5. I also stopped cold approaching tho and meet women through natural streams

GoFuclcYourself · 2020-07-25T23:05:26+00:00

In the beginning my success rate was pretty much only 1 ever agreed to go out with me out of god knows how many. But now I’m realizing before you date get your shit together because unfortunately women are the buyers market in dating. They get to choose at their leisure while we have to sell ourselves above all other competitors.

BluzzKill · 2020-07-25T17:19:34+00:00

So fucking vague. In person 100%. Online shit was 90%.

That doesnt mean shit though if you are trying to run a numbers strategy. If it wasnt high interest I would not bother. If you are willing to push through moderate or low interest you'd be more like 10% at best hut overall your probably fuck more girls.

319Skew · 2020-07-25T21:57:59+00:00

Used to be close to 70% get a date on cold approach and 80% fclose. Don't know anymore but covid has made me kinda derpy.

trppppp · 2020-07-25T22:07:12+00:00

I asked about 15 girls out this year and about half of them said yes. Most of my approaches were lukewarm (cold approach in a social environment). Strangely enough, I had the most fun time with the hottest girl out of the 15 who was also the most enthusiastic and eager to go out with me.

MGTOW_BEASTMODE · 2020-07-25T17:49:04+00:00

When I started say.. 1 out of 30 would say yes for cold approach.

1 - 10 would say yes from women I already knew.

Now 0 - 0 because I don't date. I have already established FWBs.

Title	How often do you get turned down when asking a girl on a date vs say yes. I’m wondering if my yes/no ratio is comparable to everyone else.
Author	Aspanu24
Upvotes	9
Comments	15
Date	July 25, 2020 5:10 PM UTC (6 years ago)
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