Hello everyone! The problem that I have is rather minor, but still, I'd like to know the community's advice about it. I am in a relationship with a girl for about 2 months and a few days, we've had a great time the first month but then things started deteriorating. We actually weren't so compatible, I saw that pretty early but she didn't. Shit kept going down, because i had to take exam after exam, study a lot, she had a lot more free time and obviously she kept wanting me to go to her place, spend the night there, do nothing the next day and so on. I realized I wasn't focusing on my exams, I changed my attitude started spending more time studying, I hadn't been texting her so much from the beginning so I didn't change that, but she was sad. I didn't give a fuck at first, gave her some attention and she used to come round afterwards. The main idea is that we don't get along anymore, last time we chatted on facebook was about 48 hours ago or more. We are now in different cities (she lives in the city where I study, which is VERY close to my hometown, about 75kms). Here's the question: do you think texting her some short message in which I inform her that we're breaking up is maybe lacking "respect"? Maybe I should call her? Because I really don't want to go to her just for the breakup notice. Really looking forward to know your perspectives.