TL;DR: I tried being aloof and didn't respond much to my girlfriend today. But in achieving this I was not being myself, I am generally a talkative and chill out enjoying dude. I am confused on how to go about implementing the Red Pill and not compromising my core self of being what I am and still get my way with my girlfriend.

 

I am new to red pill network and to its dynamics. I have started reading the top posts and The Rational Male since last few days. Today I tried implementing the basic concept of being unresponsive to my GF and be in my zone and do what I feel like.

 

But, in doing so I soon started being frustrated throughout the day. Generally I talk a lot, make tonnes of jokes, tease others jokingly, and enjoy a lot. But today in order to hold my frame of mind I was being none of what I am used to be, this put me in confusion on how to be Red Pill preacher and still be who I am throughout the day.

 

My objectives are:-

  • To be the guy I am
  • Get my way with my GF
  • Get what I want and enjoy my life on my own terms without compromising for no reason.

 

Some help would be appreciated regarding this matter. Thank.

 

P.S: I searched for something related to this problem of mine but didn't get anything so had to make this post. Thanks.