Girlfriend of three years nexted me and I pulled my head out of my ass and swallowed the pill. It's definitely improved me in some ways but I still see a lot of my old mentality peeking out.

Anyways, I matched this girl on tinder, got her number and she was pretty down over snapchat and everything (very suggestive over snapchat and text). I ignore her for a couple of days and she texted me again and we set up a day to meet up. We went out for coffee and I noticed some IOI's like touching her lips a lot and filling in conversation when I was quiet, lots of laughter on her part. I had to leave but she initiated some light kino and I think I may have failed the shit-test (or a couple, but learn from your failures right) because I didn't escalate and I definitely forgot to ask for lunch again to try some more kino and close well.

A couple hours after I texted her Problem is she's always been dry through text (we've had one short conversation outside of logistics but I tried to be blunt and use it for logistics only, but at 20 and being a university student, chicks love texting), and just responded "Sure!" and that was the last time we spoke. I know I planned it pretty far ahead, busy schedules.

I snapped during the super-bowl and got no response so I just soft nexted. I've been hanging out with some other girls to try and develop a better abundance mentality but I'd still like to try and bag it here.

Problem is, there a tactful way to cancel plans and cut my losses or should I see what happens. Very mixed signals as far as IOI's and stuff goes. She seemed pretty interested before the date but afterwards not so much.

Another question, texting for logistics like I pointed above seems like something guys older than my age do. It's an age old debate and I've searched threads but would enjoy hearing opinions on it

Regardless, TRP works, like 3 years out of the game and one of the first girls I talk to throwing signals like this.