How should I handle this?

RedLegendx · 2019-03-16T08:24:15+00:00

This is disrespectful behavior and she is most likely cheating on you, break up with her.

chomponthebit · 2019-03-16T08:42:50+00:00

She’s an attention whore. She loves the attention she’s getting from her orbiters, and loves how upset it makes you;
If the coworker she stayed with is a guy, she most likely fucked him. This is unacceptable behaviour. Lay down the law

Store_Front_Door · 2019-03-16T09:20:38+00:00

You've made a grammatical mistake. She's an ex girlfriend now.

c4toyourdoornobeef · 2019-03-16T10:33:47+00:00

Either cut her off or plate her, you know you need to.

volvostupidshit · 2019-03-16T11:25:47+00:00

What girlfriend? Grow some balls and call her for what she really is, an ex girlfriend. She is trying to triangulate you with her friends so that you will try to do anything to save her from her problems. And I don't think that's what a good gf would do.

cat_magnet · 2019-03-16T08:25:27+00:00

Oneitis...... or you wouldn't be telling us " theres this one girl that is bla bla" You need to hard next her asap and ghost. Proceed with spinning new plates. You are being badly disrespected right now.

Mangasbzo7 · 2019-03-16T12:15:25+00:00

Demote her to plate.

Stop giving your time, attention & resources to her.

Just use her mouth as a fuckhole.

you might as well since she is already letting other guys do so (lmao at sleeping over at another guys house and wanting you think nothing happened)

rizzyfromthe9 · 2019-03-16T13:29:18+00:00

A co-worker wouldn’t put the blue say “i want to fuck you” if she never showed any signs of interest. She’s cheating or going to cheat, it’s too late now.

Dump her (don’t give a reason) then in couple months plate her.

Empodocles · 2019-03-16T15:41:54+00:00

Some of these posts just baffle the shit out of me. It's almost like: Hey my girlfriend, who I totally have oneitis for, is cheating on me and disrespecting me.

Can I save my beta cuck relationship???

Be a goddamn man, break up and work on yourself. If you don't respect yourself so much that you're able to leave, how do you expect her to respect you?

civilizedfrog · 2019-03-16T20:31:23+00:00

So many red flags bro-

ignores you
"tons of guy friends"
stayed in another man's House

Is the coworker who texted that he wanted to give her anal the same guy that she called "like a brother"?

iamhopeless256 · 2019-03-16T22:04:12+00:00

You need some education. Pm me.

Title	How should I handle this?
Author	iamhopeless256
Upvotes	2
Comments	13
Date	March 16, 2019 7:59 AM UTC (7 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/askTRP
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