I’ve been looking through TRP for a while and it has had a lot of very good advice. However, I have high social anxiety due to my lack of confidence and thoughts of things like “they are better than me”.

I grew up in a white suburban town full of rich kids who continued through an amazing life of fucking hot girls, being happy and going on awesome trips. I’d like to say these guys won’t succeed when they are older but they keep killing it in life. Even when they break up with their SO they are with another just as hot chick as well doing fun shit.

My problem is that I don’t have any interests because all my life I’ve been focused on money and saving it but I’m afraid I’ll miss out on all the cool shit those guys experience by being frugal and boring. Every time I try to do something remotely cool my bank account hits 0 and I don’t have rich friends or people that are going to bail me out so I just worry.

What I just wrote earlier is the type of mindset I am experiencing and have been experiencing my whole life. I feel I have hangups like these that keep in the way of me making any solid progress. I’ve always taken care of myself and worked out and all but I feel far from fulfilled. I feel almost bored of myself because I am so normal. I’m kind of torn between changing my life around and taking trips and spending money on fun things instead of saving for my future.

I don’t know what to do.