I was wondering how you all approached this. Do you flirt/use kino on dates or not?

AMS says that you don't flirt or touch, you just need to hold a masculine frame. You need to keep her guessing about your interest level and if you just flirt all over the place you're simply giving it away.

However, I went on a date recently, had some drinks, and was flirty/touchy throughout, a more PUA approach. Ended up fvcking on the first date.

So which one is more "Red Pilled?" I had to learn the hard way to only text for logistics to avoid getting used for your attention. I was just wondering which method is "better" for getting laid lol.