How to best combat external forces?

asd1100 · 2015-01-08T12:19:43+00:00

None of those make girls loose attraction.

Yes, external factors might make her break up with you but unless she finds something better or finds out you are not actually that good, she won't loose attraction.

Note: being attracted =/=being in a relationship

when I can't see her in person.

remote push pulling, get her all hot and bothered over phone, text, skype and then disingage.

Note 2. Girls do find a way, when they are adults. Teenage girls have the autonomy of a goldfish (and the memory of one as well but thats another topic.)

Apanthropos · 2015-01-08T12:21:52+00:00

The "external" factors. Right. From what I understand, all these external factors are coming out of her mouth. There are no external factors. She is just not in to you. She has deluded you so much, that you come in here posting them as valid reasons. My guess is rhat in your effort to be more attractive, you displayed emotional dependence on her. Your logic about the girl finding a way is correct.

Lumberjack1234 · Thu Jan 8 12:41:04 2015 UTC

What the hell is with all this shitty advice? I wonder no one suggested talking with her about their "feelings".

No OP, you did not have bad luck and no there were no outside forces. You fucked up, own it. Stop pointing finger and found out what you did wrong.

her friends wanted her to be single ("you're young why do you want a bf", also none of them had bf's)

First problem here. She should try to take you to see their friends in her attempt to lock you in. She should have you parading beside her to give that "look what boyfriend I have, bitches" vibe. She simply wasn't attracted enough.

she got called a slut/autistically yelled at by a beta orbiter at a party which I wasnt at for dating me (I was a few years older)

Jealous orbiters? Really? This is a good thing. If she valued his words in any way it was simply because your value is too low. When Chad Thundercock wants to be your boyfriend you do not listen to Fat Smalldick Joe. You show him the finger and go ride Chad's cock. Act like Chad, he is a good guy.

her mother disapproved, wouldn't let her see me

Altough from my experience parents have a very keen eye in terms of their daughter's boyfriend and women should fucking listen when their mom and dad tell her that a guy is not good for them... this is not your concern. You are that cool forbidden guy who fucks her good and her parents don't allow her to see.

we didn't see each other for about 4 weeks, all tingles gone

First of all, if she liked you, she would have found a way to see you. Second, you can be away from her a long time and she would still jump on your dick at first sight. But that is not important. What is important is: did you spin other plates while she was away? Did you get your dick wet while sex with her was unavailable? Or did you kept texting with her, begging for her attention? Something tells me it was the latter. Dread game, own it.

Anyway, I bet you did a lot of mistakes, lack of abundance mentality, lack of improvement, oneits and no dread game. If you don't realize your own mistakes there is no way to avoid them in the future.

Noculum · 2015-01-08T10:35:48+00:00

Fuck it move on man, not worth it.

Title	How to best combat external forces?
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Date	January 8, 2015 8:42 AM UTC (11 years ago)
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