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Would you wife <insert any comment>? - No.
/r/askTRP11/05/18 02:59 PM
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Go for hotter women. The more attractive a woman is, the less she thinks she needs to have a 'strong character'. The more she relies on her femininity.
/r/askTRP11/05/18 02:56 PM
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Girl was into you and you played perfectly with her emotions. Now you know where she works. I hate writing long essays, so I'll give you some hints for improvement. How much do you value yourself? Is your time more valuable than hers? Did she realize this? How long did you wait till you started getting something out of her instead of giving her the emotional rush. Did you make her put any effort for you? Were you leading her or following her? Night game during the day. What other forms of commun…
/r/askTRP07/05/18 08:57 AM
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What is the point of asking for advise when you dismiss it without understanding it? I am suggesting you should look out for yourself, and you are more worried about not changing. I am not suggesting to do it for her. You do it for yourself, to have a backup plan when things go south. She doesn't have to be with you when you better yourself and she doesn't have to know. She is open for better prospects, why shouldn't you.
/r/askTRP17/04/18 02:26 PM
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You are getting comfortable. You should never get comfortable. You want things from your marriage, but you don't want to put the effort for it. Your woman is brushing up her man picking skills. Image her leaving you with one of the guys she has been talking to all this time. What will that leave you with. You are spending the majority of all your social interactions with her. The moment she leaves, she takes the pussy, your social interactions and half of your belongings. If you are prepared, it…
/r/askTRP17/04/18 11:51 AM
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You are confused because she wants you to be. There is nothing to be confused about, once you understand all the variables. Girls don't leave a relationship, unless they have found another branch to swing to. Girls can't leave a relationship by themselves. Your lack of mental strength slowly destroyed her perfect image of you. Then along came alpha dick. Why is she feeling like this with this new alpha dick, and not with you? She feels there is something wrong with her. Her innate hypergamous in…
/r/askTRP17/04/18 09:47 AM
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Thank you. Your Letter has been very helpful. I will print it out, frame it and hang over it my bed, so I can read it every time I go to sleep or fuck.
/r/RedPillWomen05/04/18 10:29 AM
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Lift
/r/askTRP04/04/18 02:32 PM
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Lift and sidebar.
/r/askTRP04/04/18 12:29 PM
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Do you reckon she’s a borderline? I don't believe she is BPD, but she is definitely crazy. How would you treat this one men? Simple. Isolate, A&A, kino escalate... oh wait... not the purpose of this post... Reduce contact to only work related information. Keep strong bonds with other coworkers. Don't let her consume your precious time and more important, find other more important things to worry about.
/r/askTRP04/04/18 12:15 PM
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It is not entirely wrong what you are doing, however, do not forget that a woman's bluff (shit test) purpose is to side track you. By explaining her bluff, you are putting effort to react on what she is doing to you. The more effort you put, the more she has succeeded in sidetracking you. Also, by stating the obvious, you discourage her from shit-testing you. You want her to shit-test you, so she can create opportunities to realize how awesome you are.
/r/askTRP03/04/18 09:06 AM
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Sometimes, I get very baffled at how women flip the script on guys. A guy in his 40s has a pontential of a higher SMV than a woman in her 40s. Yeah, she's got your money. Yeah, she has some guys flirting with her. But the guys she can get are not even close on SMV on what women you can get. All you have got to do is lift, Her SMV will only drop from now on.
/r/askTRP23/03/18 09:37 AM
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Great quality post. People fail to understand how much hard work and preparation you need to invest upon yourself to be able to pull this off. A very small percentage of people will face their fears head on. Even smaller, on life threatening situations. Adrenaline rushes through you and everything slows down, and the moment lingers vividly long after the events occurred. That is why this post is so descriptive. Putting down bitches is easy. Putting down men who are threatening you is another lev…
/r/TheRedPill15/03/18 11:48 AM
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RP has subsequently learned me that: 1) Always place yourself first. 2) Never deny your instincts and nature. You are being vegan for political reasons. It means you are doing it for others. (this is also why all vegans tell others that they are vegans) Also, your body is made to process meat, so you are denying your nature. Now I am not saying what you should do, but look at the general pattern RP takes and you will find answers for everything.
/r/askTRP09/03/18 04:06 PM
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Read Mark Manson Models. Look at chapter 4 - Honest Action. There is a whole section about your kind.
/r/askTRP27/02/18 11:52 AM
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Your instincts are correct. She is not interested. Try to learn and understand what you did wrong (if you did anything wrong). I am concerned in what made her think she needs to commit to you. You obviously showed neediness for her to say that to you.
/r/askTRP22/02/18 09:47 AM
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I am sorry. You sounded like someone who needed advice. Take care.
/r/RedPillWomen21/02/18 06:36 PM
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You are addicted to the social proof your friends are giving you (being popular and all). You hope to find a high value man through their social circle. They are more alpha than your ex will ever be, and any future man will never get the same respect and admiration you have for your friends. Their advice is more important to you than your mans. This will sabotage any future relationships. Not only because you will never value another man, but because any man of value will never put up with this.
/r/RedPillWomen21/02/18 06:10 PM
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What do your guy friends offer that your man cannot? What skills did you use to make so many guy friends? Do you have any girl friends? Why?
/r/RedPillWomen21/02/18 02:06 PM
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You are chasing her! Stop that!. It is annoying. You are trying to make her like you now by bringing up the past. Don't talk too much via text. Don't text "Hahas" to break the tension. Same shit as texting smileys. You appear like an emotional faggot. Be precise on what you want to do. Tell her to join your world instead of you joining hers. Tell her that you will be at the X bar, playing the piano so she should join you. Then go to the bar without her and find the next girl. If she comes, good,…
/r/askTRP21/02/18 10:01 AM
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Ypu have to accept that this is over. You have to flip the script over her. When she goes home, break up with her. Don't justify yourself, she wants you to be the bad guy. You don't have to prove anything. If she asks why you are breaking up with her, tell her that it is because she will keep on bringing up the cheating during the relationship. You can't have that. Accept her only if she promises that she won't use it as a leverage in the current relationship. (Which again is not going to happen…
/r/askTRP20/02/18 06:31 PM
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People tend to project their needs upon others. Ask yourself, what opinion do you have for a man that NEEDs his emotions to be provided by his woman?
/r/RedPillWomen20/02/18 03:46 PM
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It's not a moment of weakness. It's a series of weaknesses that started from a moment, continued way after that moment ended, and resulted this post.
/r/askTRP20/02/18 03:36 PM
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Women, in general, need an outside source to provide them with the proper emotions. This need is not as strong for men. That is why women tend to strife to gain multiple sources of emotions, because when a source fails, they have to switch to the next one. Men, biologicaly, were the food hunters, and are more goal oriented. The tend to ignore their emotions if they don't provide any use for their goals. So next time, be emotional, admire your captain lead, and stop thinking about it too much, wo…
/r/RedPillWomen20/02/18 03:30 PM
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No, they are not supposed to act more emotional. Women ARE biologically more emotional then men. Just compare an average man's room with a woman's. Men just don't value their emotions as much as women do.
/r/RedPillWomen20/02/18 02:16 PM
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It is your right to demand what you want in a relationship. The only way to keep your N count low, is to make a decision to set your boundaries of what you want from a man (ex. Long term commitment) and never break it, no matter what. However, you can't demand others to live by your rules if you yourself do not commit to them. You can't demand others to stop fucking around when you are hanging out with exes.
/r/RedPillWomen21/12/17 09:53 AM
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What I understood in a few words 1 Anger. They irrationally argue with you. "How dare you make her angry" 2 Shaming: They accuse you and caĺl you names. "How dare you be so insensitive/selfish/..." 3 Pity card. They victimize themselves. "How dare you make her cry"
/r/askTRP21/12/17 06:38 AM
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Lift.
/r/askTRP20/11/17 02:05 PM
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You handled the situation perfectly. You set your boundaries and this is going to make her respect you more. She will want you even more now. However, her true self has come out, so you got to realize that a woman like her has not learned to respect other people. She is mental. I hope she is just a plate. She even disrespects you so you have to train her if you don't want her messing with your happiness.
/r/askTRP30/09/17 11:54 AM
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Looks like the guy didn't enjoy the anal sex and needed a reason to cut her off. I see a man with boundaries and options. Every woman sees that. That is why every woman is so passionate in the forum section. They can't help themselves be attracted to this man. RP is not about always getting the girl. If the girl gets in the way of your goal, you drop her off.
/r/askTRP13/04/17 09:36 AM
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Stop fapping. That will get your energy back.
/r/askTRP13/02/17 07:47 AM
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If you were only interested in her, then you should have declined her offer to get together with her friends and rescheduled a proper date with her. Don't let women decide for you.
/r/askTRP01/02/17 03:02 PM
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The fact that she is considering it, means that it crossed her mind what she did was wrong. You can't control her, but you get to decide in what kind of relationship you get yourself into.
/r/askTRP12/01/17 12:52 PM
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Lift. Accept reality and work on yourself to raise your SMV.
/r/askTRP14/11/16 07:04 AM
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I know you might be thinking to counter her argument with logic. Don't focus on it. If you don't make her FEEL attracted to you then you have to move on for your sake.
/r/askTRP02/11/16 06:31 PM
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Notice his voice tonality. Notice how the other guy is raising his voice pitch to make a point. Notice how relaxed he is while he is speaking. What he says is in sync with his behavior. That is why he has that effect.
/r/TheRedPill02/11/16 06:11 PM
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I know she did.
/r/askTRP02/11/16 04:44 PM
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Setting boundaries is not about controlling her. It is about controlling what kind of relationship you get yourself into. You don't want to be in any relationship with a girl who makes you a cuck.
/r/askTRP02/11/16 03:04 PM
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You are comparing yourself with a high SMV woman. You should be comparing yourself with other men. She will be in a worse place than you in 10 years. You on the other hand will have raised your SMV ( if you constantly better yourself). All these women are putting up a false facade, walking through the world like they control it. They don't. They want to be controlled and dominated. It's a man job to control the world. It's the woman's job to expose herself to as many people as possible, in order…
/r/askTRP19/10/16 08:45 AM
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That is good. That means that if he continues to belittle you, you won't have a hard time ditching him and going to the gym alone.
/r/askTRP18/10/16 08:29 AM
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She fucked herself in Vegas. Accept it. Get over it. Next her and no contact. You are seeking commitment from a slut.
/r/askTRP17/10/16 06:50 AM
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People think... people say... people don't believe in me... people don't respect me... Man, you are soft because these people have a lot of power over you. Choose your friends better. It's your fault they are shitting on you. I would prefer you being alone than have friends like that. Keep your goals to yourself. They are not a medium to prove yourself to others. They are a medium to learn to respect yourself more.
/r/askTRP17/10/16 06:21 AM
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Red Pill is about 2 things. 1.Growing your SMV as a man, finding your own path to follow that leads you to fulfillment. Self exploration and realization of the differences between the sexes. Definition of yourself. 2.Counter strategy, an awareness of manipulation tactics used intentionally and unintentionally by women and others. Actions and behaviors that will help you succeed.
/r/askTRP12/10/16 03:15 PM
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Perfect.
/r/askTRP09/09/16 05:16 PM
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If you are really considering this, tell her that you would also like to try a threesome with a FMF dynamic. Find a hot 18 yearold to spice up your sex life. If she agrees and actually goes through with it, then you are obviously not a cuck.
/r/askTRP08/09/16 07:53 AM
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Don't be so pessimistic. When early in interactions, she will always be less invested to somebody she doesn't know, especially someone she found online. This in itself is a shit test which can be passed by making her wonder if you were affected by it ot not.
/r/askTRP01/09/16 02:05 PM
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Best reply is no reply. Make the hamster do the work for you trying to figure out how much she fucked up, or you dont really care.
/r/askTRP01/09/16 06:38 AM
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Both ways are correct. Depends more on the situation.
/r/askTRP28/08/16 11:34 AM
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Instead of not giving what thay want, why don't you ask them to do things for you. "You want me to roll you a cigarette? Turn around and I will spank you once and I will do that for you" If she does not comply, you are not obligated to do shit for her. If she does, proceed to spank her twice, and then don't roll any cigarettes.
/r/askTRP28/08/16 08:59 AM
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Plates eventually drop, there is nothing you can do about it. She is not honest with you. She wants stability, which is a step closer to exclusivity. But seriously, try to do something about your addiction, not for her sake but for yours.
/r/askTRP22/08/16 10:28 PM
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It's is not really a move, it is something you have been cultivating long before things like this started happening. Good relations with supervisors prevent those kinds of interactions from happening in the first place. Even if it is a friendly tease or the guy has a problem with authority, having greater control over the environment evokes confidence and tests like these don't phase you.
/r/askTRP19/08/16 02:07 PM
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Your weakened state may be partially blamed on the fact that you just finished gym. Unless you are on drugs, your physical tiredness was enhanced with the psychological effect you had when you saw her.
/r/askTRP19/08/16 09:00 AM
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There is a difference when you get criticism from a man you can trust vs any woman. You should NEVER listen to what a woman says.
/r/TheRedPill19/08/16 08:54 AM
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Exactly. You should always cultivate gaining the trust of powerful allies and things like this will never pose a problem.
/r/askTRP18/08/16 07:17 AM
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If you really wanted to find out, you should have denied her command. The signals will get clearer after that.
/r/askTRP18/08/16 02:46 AM
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The problem is not Trey. The problem is your overall relationship with this girl. You let yourself slip, and now you are playing defense instead of offense. You are trying to repair the problem instead of preventing it in the first place. Girls who are worring that their man can find a better woman, don't have time to think about what Trey did.
/r/askTRP17/08/16 10:52 PM
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The best tactic to deflect these theatrics is to have good relations with the supervisors/superiors. If you did, you would get more respect. Do work that will make them look good, and they will trust you more. He disrespects you because he doesn't fear you.
/r/askTRP17/08/16 10:21 PM
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It is not one or the other. It is the overall of all the qualities you have. Think of it like a point system. You get points for being fit. You get points for being social, have game, have money, steady job, have good aesthetics . . .etc. Alpha qualities get more points than beta. The number of points you get is determined by each girls past experiences. It is also determined by the environment. A CEO in a firm is the top dog, but put him in the gym next to the jacked guys and he is perceived as…
/r/askTRP17/08/16 05:46 PM
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This is because the average women's entitlement is higher. Keep working on yourself and you will reach the top 20%.
/r/askTRP17/08/16 02:29 PM
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I avoid lying as it is hard to keep track of what you have said to whom. However, I usually don't reveal the whole truth either. If asked a question, you will learn to withhold as much information as possible, or change the subject to avoid answering it. Laughing it off and adding something ridiculous will make others queation what you have said is truth or not.
/r/askTRP11/08/16 08:49 AM
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You look like Aaron Paul and talked about ice cream trucks. It is impossible not to get a reaction after this.
/r/TheRedPill10/08/16 06:57 AM
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Something is off. Read her messages again. You will see that in all the messages she doesn't say that she wants you back. She is only sorry for being a bad person. She is sorry for being lonely. And for all that she wants to be forgiven. You are still her second choice. That is why she does not express any feelings towards you.
/r/askTRP03/08/16 11:22 AM
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What happened to the old 'Agree and amplify'. You are so caught up in not loosing this girl you are overthinking and she smells that on you. That is why she is denying you sex. It is an ego thing for her. She is not attracted towards your behavior, but she has created a fantasy in her mind that she is better than you. You will shatter this fantasy if you are willing to leave her. So she keeps you engaged using the least amount of effort, waiting for the perfect opportunity when something better …
/r/askTRP02/08/16 01:03 PM
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RP is a medicine to a disease . A specific disease - The cuckoldry of man. It is bright red in order to change the color for even the most blue hue. How much you take, depends on how sick you are. You decide for that.
/r/askTRP28/07/16 06:31 AM
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Bring other girls in your tent.
/r/askTRP21/07/16 10:58 AM
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Her first priority is her LTR not finding out about you. You may be a pontential branch swing, but till she decides to do it, you come in second. Learn to be descrete. Dont contact her if you think she is with the other guy. How physical are you with her? Do you escalate? What are her limits of escalation?
/r/askTRP21/07/16 08:48 AM
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Your main role here is to validate her ego. She decides who is attractive, and who is not. She cannot be more attractive, in her mind, if you keep finding and adding girls on facebook. If you are superior to her, she will start becoming attracted to you. This will fuck up her hamster and her self validation. Ignore her and go for other girls. If you do, you will be able to get her too.
/r/askTRP04/07/16 01:50 PM
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So in other words, you are either trying to find a reason to play video games or call yourself a hypocrite for making something that is wrong in your moral code. You know what we say about RP and morality?
/r/askTRP01/07/16 10:43 AM
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As you said, she made her choice. You declared what you wanted and she still decided to go for it. You are not wrong. You have to have your boundaries. Breaking them, will make her believe you are a spineless fool. Every time you forgive her, she looses her respect for you. Find other pussy to fuck, as this one revealed itself broken.
/r/askTRP30/06/16 06:35 AM
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You fell in the trap of qualifying yourself. The root of your problem is the fact that she is not attracted to you as much as you are attracted to her. This is because you have spent enough time with her as a friend and not as a sexual partner. This is because you did not escalate. You did not escalate because you put her on the LTR pedestal.
/r/askTRP24/06/16 06:41 AM
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Women are not meant to understand your jokes. They respond to jokes not because they are funny, but because they want to connect with other people. The content has little to do with their reaction. Now if you have a percieved higher SMV then them, they will laugh to the most dumbest shit you can come up with.
/r/askTRP21/06/16 12:41 PM
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Respond with " Do you think that you should be going?" It is a question to make her more aware of the concequences of her decision. (Not that she is not aware of). If she decides to go, soft next her. You cannot control her.
/r/askTRP16/06/16 04:04 PM
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This is typical BP behavior. They ostracize him because they want to protect their BP beliefs. Like any person still plugged in, they will cling on their idealistic fantasies and will block out any evidence claiming otherwise. A character in a movie is still part of a fiction. A fiction does not pose a threat to their beliefs. Any man who swallowed the RP, knows the pain of realizing the truths of the RP. You have to expirence pain from your real world in order to be ready to wake up.
/r/askTRP15/06/16 08:32 AM
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You have a hard time understanding what went wrong. You are confused because you have a wrong idea of what a woman considers to be attractive. You have a wrong idea on how a woman loves vs on how a man loves. Most RPillers here know exactly what happened and your relationship fell apart. You have to take the time and read the sidebar material to actually understand what is going on. I congratulate the person who directed you to this site, as this person not only showed you the way to save yourse…
/r/askTRP13/06/16 01:40 PM
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Stop making excuses for her. She is inexcusable. Women react to things that happen around them. Right now she is reacting to another man. Go no contact and soft next.
/r/askTRP10/06/16 12:26 PM
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You aquire knowlwdge and skills and what seem to be a hard struggle, eventually becomes effortless. You mind also broadens, accepts and creates new ways of thinking. It gives you new options in life. All of it comes from expirience. You have to train your mind as you train your body. A weak mind is prone to depression. If you dont train your body and mind, you will suffer more at your later stages in life. You will be left behind in mediocrity. As women are made to raise children, men are made t…
/r/askTRP10/06/16 10:34 AM
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Good to know. Remember that masculine communication is all about leading and taking the initiative. Idle talking has no place in social media. Any communication is ultimately an extension that shows how good in bed you are. If you are sure of yourself and you are calling the shots, you will be doing the same when you fuck her.
/r/askTRP07/06/16 04:18 PM
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"Ask me anything if you get lost in the campus". Translation: "I don't really know you but let me show you how much I can get out of my way, waste my meaningless time, in order to get a golden chance to talk to you". You might have not meant to say it, but in written text, every word can be misinterpreted.
/r/askTRP07/06/16 03:47 PM
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Look at all these silly people typing all these long texts, trying to find reasons why RP is not right. None of them focus on the core of RP which is the differences of the genders.
/r/askTRP06/06/16 03:16 PM
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This is a must read to all the guys who take girls out on dates, spend too much time having fun and getting to know one another and eventually the girl flakes on them the next date.
/r/AlreadyRed06/06/16 02:24 PM
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Definately not a shit test. A man is influencing her and she is making a choice. I wouldn't respond to this kind of message
/r/askTRP03/06/16 07:57 AM
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You are hoping that if you spend enough time with a girl and get to know you, then she will 'actually' like you for who you are. Think about how much value a strange woman has for you. Rethink how much value your time has. Decide wether she deserves to get to know you. If you still can't see where you are going wrong, you are either lying or you haven't read the sidebar.
/r/askTRP02/06/16 11:00 AM
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She is hiding you from another man. Decide what you want to do, but remember, the more times you accept her back, the less respect she has for you.
/r/askTRP02/06/16 06:36 AM
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Your response is good enough. Dont loose frame. All your questions have to do with your GF social circle. I really hope you are not depended on it. The stronger influence she has on your social circle, the less likely she will react on a female hitting on you within that social circle. You should have female friends where your GF has little influence. That will make her shift from her offensive to her defensive game.
/r/askTRP31/05/16 09:09 AM
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"I know. I could be more than I think I am."
/r/askTRP30/05/16 07:29 AM
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The only thing you are blind at are the signs that say to next her.
/r/askTRP30/05/16 06:18 AM
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Sounds like horny boy has lost his mental frame with the slut. You don't ask to 'let' you take her out to the beach. I would advice on going through your text conversations and try to realize where you lost the frame and let her believe she is the price.
/r/askTRP29/05/16 12:19 PM
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What happened is the result of : Women attracted to men who are focused on their own path. Women chasing after something they cannot easily get. Women not able to handle rejections. Women not attracted to men who do not take the initiative.
/r/askTRP27/05/16 10:58 AM
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You have trained your brain to always seek the next endorphine boost to keep you happy. Whether it is drugs, masturbation, a relationship or buying new products, you are in desparate need of your next endorphin boost. Learn to lift and accept pain. Stop relying on short term rewards and seek out long term ones.
/r/askTRP27/05/16 06:18 AM
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Female entitlement is always over exaggerated. Even the most unattractive girls, think they deserve a decent man, with the simple capacity to lead.
/r/askTRP23/05/16 03:26 PM
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Happens to me a lot. Women will often steal glances at your chest or biceps while you are having conversations with them. I don't react or say anything to them about it. It is only natural for them to be attracted to me anyway. A girl once commented that other girls are checking me out. I replied to her, unphased: "I know, it happens to me a lot". She was stunned at my honest arrogance.
/r/askTRP18/05/16 03:03 PM
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You know what is right and what is a mistake, but you keep on doing it anyway. You have no control over your emotions. You are overinvested in your ltr. That amount of investment is unhealthy. You are addicted to her so you must cut your addiction. Break it up for your sake because when she does, you will be a broken man.
/r/askTRP16/05/16 09:31 AM
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There is another guy in the picture. He is fucking her and treating her like shit. She wants to gain her value back. Thats where you come in. You are the guy who is going to make her feel special again. A good person who saved someone from suicide. You are the aftereffect of their fucked up relationship. That explains her whole behavior.
/r/askTRP11/05/16 08:38 AM
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You have to start shaping your woman. Obviously, she doesn't know how to behave, and acts on how she was brought up. Maybe she spends too much time with men, and tries to be 'one of the guys'. She doesn't know how to be feminine and submit. She only knows how to compete with guys, probably because that is how guys earn respect with one another. That does not work for women. You have to teach her that. Your LTR is attracted to you, because you are better then her, in everything you do. However, s…
/r/askTRP11/05/16 08:13 AM
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Your problem is very BASIC. The main issue is that you are following her into her world. She likes something, you say you like it too. You offer nothing new. You have to bring her into your world instead. Bring new passions and be your own man, instead of trying to like things other people like to make them like you.
/r/askTRP09/05/16 09:51 AM
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Will you be working hard and be making 6 figures ss well. If not, I can see dark clouds in the horizon.
/r/askTRP05/05/16 08:50 AM
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"ok" is enough. She chose the other guy. You have to choose another girl.
/r/askTRP05/05/16 08:37 AM
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Just analyse the risks and the rewards. Rewards: You feel good about yourself. Risk: Your life. Nuff said.
/r/askTRP05/05/16 08:20 AM
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Think for a minute the following. If a man cheats on his woman, does that make him more attractive or less attractive to his woman? How much of the things you wrote are things she said to you? She is comfortable in lying to you, so she must have been doing this for a significant amount of time. So her past tells you one thing. She likes dudes who cheat on her. That means that dread works best on her. Try to think clearly here. Why does she keep texting her ex?
/r/askTRP05/05/16 08:03 AM
1

If you take care of yourself, (lift) you will also get a lot of attention from girls too. Then when she says anything like that, tell her that it happens to you too. Don't say that as a comeback for what she said. It is just a truthful statement of reality and move on with something important.
/r/askTRP04/04/16 11:27 AM
3

The dynamic here is reversed. She is the one teaching you how to dance and you are the student. She is instructing you how to lead in a dance. In other words, she believes she is in control. Any flirting is a reaction resulting to the kino and pressure when you two dance together. My guess is that the teacher must be approaching (or already passed) the wall. If that is the case, you already know what is going on.
/r/askTRP11/03/16 02:16 PM
1

Learn to control your knee jerk reactions. You have no idea how many times I have stole women from other men, because their men had knee jerk reactions.
/r/askTRP11/03/16 01:58 PM
5

People use powertalk to subconciously enforce their frame upon others. Learning to recognize it is the first step. Like any frame enforcing tactics, the best way to deflect them is by ignoring them and enforcing your own frame back. Learn to subtly talk back in powertalk. If people ask you about it in straight talk, tell them that it is their imagination. People who dont recognize powertalk will start to revere you. People who do, will respect you more.
/r/askTRP11/03/16 11:35 AM
3

At nightgame, if she asks this question early in the interaction it is usually a trap. Your honesty will be intepreted as desparation and she will be turned off. Make her work for it to get any kind of information from your personal life. Say something absurd so that she knows you are making fun of her. "I work for the government. .... At night drive a big truck .. and collect plastic bags that people throw out of their homes.
/r/askTRP10/03/16 02:03 PM
2

Its not only how much you give, it is also when to give. By you walking away is not a sign of jelousy. It is a sign that you don't accept bad behavior. You rather get rid of her from your life then continue on with this nonsense. Her job is to reward you for behaviors she thinks you should do. In a way, she is playing the same game on you, to try to lock you down. As long as you are resisting, you make her chase you. You can show back interest when she is doing something you like. Reward good be…
/r/askTRP02/03/16 07:38 AM
22

Your biggest problem will come in your confidence, and not whether you please her or not. Once, you whip your dick out, you must believe 100% that there is nothing wrong with your dick. The little guy is going to be railing her tonight. Also, pleasuring her is not your only goal. Make sure she pleasures you to establish authority and dominance.
/r/askTRP29/02/16 12:40 PM
11

Stop jerking off. You are releasing high levels of oxitocin in your brain which makes it difficult for you to focus on your goals. You will need at least a week for your brain to find its original balance. You are messing up your T levels and induce yourself with a substance which is used by your brain to reward you for bonding. This causes your aggression to plummet, and your self doubt to rise up. This is the last thing you want to do at this point in your life. You need your aggression and an…
/r/askTRP29/02/16 09:30 AM
1

Learn to lie. There is no woman capable of accepting value in your honesty. Moreso, it is yet another string for her to pull when she wants to make you trust her.
/r/askTRP17/02/16 12:20 PM
0

This is not a mainstream sub. This sub is about about men's freedom. Freedom from a society which becomes more and more feminized. Freedom from becoming work machines and get their belongings stolen by society. Freedom from people who dictate what it is acceptible to say/do and what is not. The guy is making fun of a woman that gets hit by doors. If that is not funny, I don't know what is.
/r/askTRP05/02/16 10:45 AM
1

Reality: She is not that into you. If she was, she would have made time to see you. My guess is you spent a lot of time talking to her and 'connecting' your feelings. She created a full picture of who you are, and knows what to expect from you. Did you escalate or created any sort of unpredictability on your part? Soft next her. Contact her only if she contacts you.
/r/askTRP21/01/16 08:50 AM
1

A woman who gives away sex without getting commitment from men is called a slut. A man who gives away commitment without getting sex from girls is an emotional tampon.
/r/askTRP20/01/16 01:54 PM
3

Exactly. That is why the Red Pill inspires you to work on yourself to become that guy.
/r/askTRP25/12/15 02:43 PM
6

You have the order wrong. It is not the average girl that can slay a 10% top tier man. It is the 10% top tier man that can slay the average girl. You are mixing up the cause with the effect.
/r/askTRP25/12/15 02:28 PM
2

Actually you are more useful to women as a professional than a college junior. You have income, connections and can handle yourself against society, instead of a small college community. In other words, you are a more useful tool to them, where all your skills and and accomplishments can be claimed as their own. Stop listening to what they say, because most of the time they talk about themselves and things that benefit them. Their information is of no use to you.
/r/askTRP25/12/15 01:33 PM
2

It has nothing to do with you. Your girlfriend got tempted. She was out cheering for those hockey players and hypergamy kicked in. She was living in the moment having fun, until she gets a text to get back to your house and fuck. As a result you got shit tested. By passing the test, you bought some time. At 19, she is not expirienced enough and wants to explore strange cocks. It is like you are drving the best car, but you don't know it because it is your first car. The only way she will learn t…
/r/askTRP22/12/15 10:05 AM
3

LTR (Long Term Relationship) is a word we mostly use when you are in a relationship with the girl. You should at least fucked her more than once to consider her that. In your case, she is just a friend. Your case is a common case of onetis. Why? Because you are afraid to keep things ambiguous between you. You feel the NEED to break away from this tension. Guess what? The moment you do, you will kill any attraction between you. It doesn't matter if you express your feelings, or do something extre…
/r/askTRP22/12/15 09:07 AM
12

Disrespect a woman, and you can get away with it. They will claim that they hate it, but they will still pursue you. They love not to be treated as an equal. Respect them, and they will start to resent you. It is as if they are genetically made to be abused, mistreated, and have their faces shoved in the toilet while you are ramming them from behind.
/r/AlreadyRed05/12/15 01:07 PM
7

OmLaLa, you may be one of the best contributors at this time. Nobody else provides real examples along with their theories.
/r/TheRedPill01/12/15 09:29 AM
3

As long as you are fucking her, she is a plate. If the lying part gets you, then lie to her back. Tell her that you are not fucking other girls.
/r/askTRP01/12/15 09:24 AM
1

Respect.
/r/askTRP01/12/15 07:37 AM
1

You need a role model to remind you of RP to keep you on track. Get on the internet and find 'The Black Philip show' by Patrice o' Neal. Get all audio recordings and start listening to them every day.
/r/askTRP01/12/15 07:34 AM
31

I fucked a new girl at work Here is your mistake.
/r/askTRP27/11/15 11:32 AM
-1

She doesn't want you in her social circle. Probably, her age is not the only thing she is lying about. If she is comfortable lying in your face about her age, who knows what other lies she told her peers.
/r/askTRP27/11/15 09:27 AM
5

Always assume the worst. That is what AWALT stands for. Judge her by her actions and not what she says. You don't have to find out what her n count is. You only have to accept that she is capable of fucking around and making stupid decisions. There will be more fingermen and machokes (or worse) in the future when the time comes. You are better than her. You can find other girls better and easier than her. It is your ego speaking and making you question whether you are better than the other guys …
/r/askTRP26/11/15 01:08 PM
6

Think about it for a second. She disrespected you and called you a dump person and you are thinking to apologize? Do you understand what she is trying to pull?
/r/askTRP14/11/15 01:02 PM
1

Because solipsism.
/r/askTRP13/11/15 09:06 AM
1

You let hypergamy run its course. She will be interested in you if you are the superior male.
/r/askTRP13/11/15 09:04 AM
3

You still are having trouble with women identifying you in the Beta category. You are great at spiking emotions, so don't stop doing that. You are right about giving too much info when they are asking you questions. Everything you did, you did it for her. You brought your dog to affect her emotionally. You playfully teased her. You made the date an expirience. In other words, you were pleasing her. How do you demonstrate that you are not her servant? By putting your pleasure and happiness first.…
/r/askTRP13/11/15 08:30 AM
1

Paralyzed. Such a strong word. At first I thought you had a spinal injury or something. After you get better with your knee injury, I suggest starting a hobby and developing a skill where women are involved. People who graduate from engineering and computer studies, don't have much of female contact. I suggest taking up salsa dancing classes to get over your fear. But, for the love of Hercules, don't stop lifting.
/r/askTRP11/11/15 02:41 PM
1

Ask yourself. How valuable is your time? Do you believe she is abusing it? What I should have done to make things happen and stop wasting my time?
/r/askTRP10/11/15 10:10 AM
5

Emotional communication basics: The more importance (and emotional investment) you place in what she says, the more real her statement becomes. Solution: Place no value in what she says. Do not reply, ignore or use amuse mastery.
/r/askTRP09/11/15 01:36 PM
2

She likes you, but she doesn't like you enough. Why she likes you? Probably you showed preselection, other girls like you or some other bullshit. Why she doesn't like you. Because she has picked up on you caring whether she likes you or not.
/r/askTRP09/11/15 01:23 PM
1

Go to the gym and lift. Your body language will mostly auto correct itself.
/r/askTRP02/11/15 12:02 PM
9

Having a feminist in charge of the project is dangerous. You would get the polite invite for interview only to get ridiculed by the mass media. Happened to Roosh V in the past. The filmaker will always have the final say. How can you be sure that the final product will represent us, when even the title of the documentary is wrong. The Red Pill isn't some kind of protest against the society. It is the understanding of the different sexual strategies between the sexes, and the revealance of the tr…
/r/askTRP27/10/15 04:23 PM
1

Think of it as bitch management. You handle your bitches, and the bitches who aren't your bitches, because they are your bitches but they don't know it yet. This but with style and charisma. Now, go and eat your food.
/r/askTRP27/10/15 12:00 PM
2

There are two types of confidence. Situational confidence and core confidence. Situational confidence is gained by being comfortable with a known environment. You have your buddies there to protect you. You have people in your group who know you and respect you. Your confidence is depended on the people around you and on the place. As soon as your peers disappear, your confidence will crumble. That is why a person may be confident at work, but if the same person goes at the street, he doesn't ha…
/r/askTRP27/10/15 09:43 AM
3

Be cautious when a woman makes plans especially deciding the venue. More often than not, she will try to sabotage the meeting by making decisions that will serve only her hamster. If she is inviting you to her world, you might end up meeting with all her friends, along with her boyfriend. Everyone will be more familiar with each other making you stand dependent on her. Unless you have the skill and knowledge to affect the entire venue, you will waste your time.
/r/askTRP24/10/15 01:45 PM
1

I have opened a lot of girls with headphones when I go to the gym. If you believe that what you say is important, then 100% they will voluntarily take of their headphones to listen to you. Once there was a girl who was listening to specially loud music. You could hear it from standing next to her. I tapped her on the shoulder, and when she turned around and saw me, I began talking to her. But I wasn't taking to her, I was mimicking that I was talking to her without making a sound. I had over-exa…
/r/askTRP23/10/15 12:56 PM
2

You should have tried to be more gently assertive. You are afraid of loosing her so you fail to establish dominance. She starts talking after kissing, you say "Shh.. " and continue back to it. She sits away from you, you make fun of her being afraid of you. Step up and start expressing your thoughts without fearing of loosing her. Make her feel like an idiot who doesn't know what is right or wrong, and should listen more to you for guidance.
/r/askTRP23/10/15 12:39 PM
4

"You just have to wait and see". Don't spoil her anticipation.
/r/askTRP23/10/15 12:27 PM
17

The problem is that in your mind, he is still the alpha. You respect him to the point that you allow him to do as he pleases. (Talking to your girl and doing his shit). From what I understand, he doesn't respect you. In fact, he is jealous and tries to prove himself all the time. Stop assossiating with him. Anyone who doesn't respect you is not your friend. Take your own path and decide what is right and wrong for yourself.
/r/askTRP22/10/15 12:43 PM
2

Families where the man sticked around during women's pregnancy had a higher chance of survival. This resulted in men, having evolutionary the capacity for unconditional love. The reason you exist now, is because your ansestors, had been always taking care of the needs of the family along with their own. And that is why men are suited to be more capable leaders in the family than women. Onetis is a perverse version of that love, where you attach the noble traits found in your parents to the perso…
/r/askTRP19/10/15 01:05 PM
1

Your intentions are clear. You either fuck her, or you don't have her as a friend. You don't communicate with her unless it is clear that you will fuck. If she misunderstands, its her problem.
/r/askTRP16/10/15 09:27 AM
3

I agree with the IDGAF attitude. It is outcome indifference that triggers attraction. However, the "treating women like your bros" is kind of misleading. You don't communicate to a woman, the same way you would with a man. They are emotional creatures and respond differently. In the long time you have been with her, you created memories that gave her emotional flunctuations that eventually gave her those feelings of you. Most of us don't have that much time in our hands. Treating her like a bro,…
/r/TheRedPill15/10/15 11:05 AM
1

There are women who will fuck you without showing clear signs they are attracted to you. If 95% of the women around you are attracted to you, would you trust that the rest of them are not?
/r/askTRP15/10/15 08:32 AM
5

You forgot to put a false time constraint after your question.
/r/askTRP15/10/15 06:40 AM
3

Wrong. If she is nice to you, she is attracted to you. If she is mean to you, she is attracted to you. Now, that we got that out of the way, you make your move.
/r/askTRP15/10/15 06:17 AM
3

As I was reading your post, I knew instantly what was going to happen. You invite the girl in your world. Never the other way around.
/r/askTRP13/10/15 09:48 AM
11

If you find your passion and go after it, you will find that most things in the list come naturally. You will enjoy your life without feeling you are sacrficing anything while stayimg motivated in the long run.
/r/TheRedPill13/10/15 08:33 AM
6

The problem is your wife always tells you what to do, and you always listen. (Job, second pair of shoes, laptop) It has nothing to do with shopping. Start making your own decisions.
/r/askTRP12/10/15 11:35 AM
-1

You cannot downgrade an LTR to a plate. The only thing you could do is break up with her. (On good terms) Chances are that you might miss each other and then you can take her back as a regular plate.
/r/askTRP09/10/15 07:47 AM
1

It is not only the car. The kid is relaxed and confident. Its a combination of all these factors that affect the outcome.
/r/TheRedPill09/10/15 07:12 AM
7

This. It doesn't matter if they know it or not. Nature makes them atracted to you for passing them regardless.
/r/askTRP08/10/15 06:19 AM
1

Learn more about lifting. Going everyday to the gym will not give you better results. You should leave your muscles to rest. Eat better. Try 16 hour intermitted fasting. Will reduce number of wrong chemicals in your brain. It will take a little while to get used to, but you will think clearer in the end. Learn to offer value in your conversations. Dont be negative and complain all the time. This drives people away. And people who are worth befriending will never befriend you unless you are posit…
/r/askTRP07/10/15 08:37 AM
7

You did a good job by paying as little attention as possible to what she texted. She sent you this text on purpose. She wants to gain the power by making you jealous and start chasing her more. Its always a power struggle to some women. Its the same thing when she was acting flakey. She gets a lot of attention from beta guys who feed her self-entitlement. If you are afraid to loose her, then you have lost. You should have a legitimate reason why you didn't use agree and amplify, other than the f…
/r/askTRP07/10/15 08:11 AM
2

You talk about things that interest you. If you have passion, it will mitigate on others emotions. Never talk to make people like you. You talk because you like the sound of your voice. Ask feedback with short questions to continue capturing their attention. Purpose is to "wake" them up from being in listening mode all the time. Questions that evoke emotional spikes are the best. When you want others to talk, you ask them open-ended questions and stare at them in silence. Do not feel the void. L…
/r/askTRP06/10/15 09:16 AM
1

There is a little contradiction in your post. If you believe in yourself, you value your opinions and values over others, how can someone make you jealous, or insecure? If he has something that emotionaly affects you, you believe things that others believe.
/r/askTRP06/10/15 08:59 AM
2

She contacted you on fb, to find out more about your personal life and friends. She did this to assess your SMV. Dont contact her again unless she contacts you.
/r/askTRP06/10/15 08:27 AM
0

You don't have to recognize all the advances. Most of them are covertly and, in the end, it is only up to you to make the next step. Your question is common for guys needing a reason to act confident. You don't need a reason. You just act.
/r/askTRP06/10/15 07:45 AM
1

Since when is intellectual/engaging conversation more important than kino and sexual tension?
/r/askTRP05/10/15 07:32 AM
5

Chads are welcomed and respected here. But you are no Chad, at least not now. If you are a Chad, what is keeping you from spinning plates? If you were, then you would be her god right now. However, from reading your comments, I see that you are going back on the right path. You have set your boundaries, but if only you had set them sooner.
/r/askTRP03/10/15 02:28 PM
3

She tries to sabotage your social life because she fears you will find another woman. Do what she fears. Also stop having any kind of contact with her, unless she starts behaving like a human being.
/r/askTRP02/10/15 08:09 AM
2

First impression is always more important. You caved in with the begging, which made you start on the wrong foot. You need more effort to correct things when they start wrong. You set your path to become one of the male friend orbiters she has. Your constant sexual advances, battled her frame. However, you did something few men do. You rejected her friendship. You showed your boundaries, and draged her out of the car, when she stopped being a potential plate. This created huge attraction, which …
/r/askTRP30/09/15 09:39 AM
1

A nice guy
/r/askTRP29/09/15 03:25 PM
1

Onetis makes you travel across the state to see a woman. Onetis makes you sleep with her without fucking even though she told you that you are her new friend. Onetis, makes you want her even though you know she is crazy. The most important lesson here is that you failed to set your boundaries. Make her ,for once, travel interstate to come and see you. Leave the house, when she says there won't be any fucking. Demonstrate that your time is valueable. She is wasting it, and whatever you do, you wo…
/r/askTRP29/09/15 03:20 PM
1

In this occasion, you can feel how she tries to earn her dominant spot back in the relationship. People like Patrice O'Neal would have snuff out this arrogance in an instant. By accepting the complement, you accept the fact that she has the power to criticize you. Just like a shit-test, a compliment is used by women to manipulate your thoughts and behaviors. It is rarely genuine. I am not suggesting to reply angryly at her arrogance, but treat it like the rest of the shit that comes out of her m…
/r/askTRP28/09/15 03:28 PM
10

When I read this I only see the arrogance of her believing that she can compliment her way into controlling the future interactions with you. ("Proud of you", what is she? my mother?). But thats just me. If you want to get back with her, just msg for logistics. Just remember that it is not worth going through the trash.
/r/askTRP28/09/15 12:45 PM
2

No, do not comfront her. It is a gauge to measure how important you are to her. For now, make sure you have other plates because you cannot invest in someone who is not invested to you.
/r/askTRP28/09/15 11:26 AM
12

Yes, it is a red flag. You are not that important for her to consider loosing the trust of all her orbiters. Probably there is an alpha among them who she fears giving the wrong impression.
/r/askTRP28/09/15 09:56 AM
1

I assume your friends are all women. If you hang out with guy friends, it would give people the wrong impression.
/r/RedPillWomen28/09/15 09:03 AM
1

You are playing a game that is rigged for you to loose. Whether you fight for her or watch if she is committed, you are still reacting to her actions. She is controlling you. The best defence is offence. You should be chatting up and dancing with other girls. That way you will turn the table around and make her chase you. Use hypergamy to your advantage. Hypergamy leads to preselection. If you are a man preselected by women, you will have her (and all other women) chasing you. Men and women are …
/r/askTRP25/09/15 10:30 AM
2

It looks to me that you appear too 'nice' in your dates. If you spend a lot of your time being friends with her, you will end up as a friend. You became predictable. To break this, you have to demonstrate indifference of outcome. Challenge her, make her angry by teasing, dont make her any favors, dont sacrifice what you want for what she wants. And certainly, dont let her take your time by stalling when it is time for her to leave, because she says she likes to talk to you. Soft next her, and co…
/r/askTRP24/09/15 09:55 AM
2

I am sorry. I stopped reading your post midway. People, should invest more time in reading and implementing the sidebar material before asking for help. How can anyone help you if you dont believe in RP? I hope this expirience makes you take RP more seriously.
/r/askTRP23/09/15 03:24 PM
1

Stubborn is mostly associated as a form of reaction from influence of others. They are emotionaly invested and anticipate a negative responce to their choices. Because they are upset for being verbally attacked, they retaliate by upseting others to get even. When you are holding frame, you have no desire to change others emotions or opinions. Anything they do or say will not change your view or emotion about it. You dont waste any more time or energy to prove others you are right.
/r/askTRP22/09/15 09:49 AM
6

Probably society will return to a more dominant patriarchy which was before the waves of feminism. If every man knew that every woman was as responsible as a teenager, that most of their decisions are based on emotions, most of their current rights would be revoked. Our ancestors were very much aware of the true nature of women. That is why patriarchy was in effect for so many years. Women will become oppressed, which will validate the Cardinal Rule of Sexual Strategies: For one gender’s sexual …
/r/askTRP21/09/15 03:34 PM
3

Tell her you have a better idea. You will go to the clinic and test yourself. If she wants the results, you can send them to her. She has no reason to oppose to this unless it is a scam.
/r/askTRP21/09/15 03:04 PM
13

She is not your LTR, she isn't your plate even. You have to at least fucked her once to consider her a plate. If you want her as a plate, then I don't see the problem having drunk kissing and drunk fucking other dudes. Reply to her, 'have fun' and go do your own thing.
/r/askTRP21/09/15 11:18 AM
2

She is mad with you because she needs a reason to be mad with you. Now, you appear as the bad guy who lied, or the guy who is chasing after her. The only way to win here is to not to play this game. Let her calm down and come crawling back. In the meantime, soft next her. A girl who plays this shitty mind games does not respect you. In your shoes, I would be worried why you care if you are a liar, instead of beating yourself over this.
/r/askTRP21/09/15 09:41 AM
7

Start reading sidebar material. Learn about the cardinal rule of relationships: In any relationship, the person with the most power is the one who needs the other the least. She has made you think that you need her more than she needs you. If you are giving an effort to make her stay, it only reenforces this in her mind. Also, you should hold your boundaries. Her willingness to leave you is a result of falure to do that. You should only reward good behavior. Her leaving you is not a good behavio…
/r/askTRP21/09/15 07:03 AM
2

What is this? High school teen chick flick? How will you end up cumming on her face if you are worried that she is more "sweet" than you?
/r/askTRP16/09/15 09:15 AM
1

Lift. The bigger you are the more respect you get. People are not out to get you. Most of them don't consider others worth the trouble, especially high valued men. You have to provoke others to get in a fight. If a guy is AMOGing you, it comes from the fact that he feels threatened or envious of you. Do not fall in his frame, just walk away. Emotion creates emotion, so it is best to respond as cold as possible. Walking away from fights is always the best option. Fear of cowardice (much like hono…
/r/askTRP15/09/15 02:17 PM
4

This is the best analogy. Women's hypergamy cannot allow them to bond with a man who is not their "owner".
/r/askTRP15/09/15 10:00 AM
2

You were doing great until the "I could always show up at your place" message. She showed disinterest, and you rewarded her with major interest. You gave her the validation she needed. Soft next. Next time, if the moment a girl shows you disinterest, you "push" her away ex. making fun of her. And finally, is that a smiley face in your message? Are you hoping she will like you with that?
/r/askTRP14/09/15 12:29 PM
3

Being arrogant is not something you should avoid. Remember that women love assholes. Self-respect may lead to arrogance, because you put your needs first.
/r/askTRP14/09/15 11:35 AM
1

This happens to me in the gym a lot. It is a great opportunity for kino. I say "Really?, let me check.". Then I proceed to touch her (arms, legs, ass) in whatever place she is qualifying. If you believe you have the authority to do that, nobody will question you. There is no better way to create attraction than assertive kino.
/r/askTRP12/09/15 01:28 PM
1

You are not lifting hard enough. You should look like a guy who could smack back anyone who makes fun of him. Change your friends. Anyone who makes fun of you is not worthy of your time. These people are the ones who will make everything in their power to stop you from changing. You are trying to hide the fact that your motivations are sexual. Don't try to hide your masculinity. This is a major issue you have to address. Picking up women, is not a smooth process. Not everything goes according to…
/r/askTRP11/09/15 02:41 PM
1

One question for you: Do you lift?
/r/askTRP11/09/15 09:07 AM
6

I log in on facebook evey 1-2 months. Nobody needs to know what I do and what I am thinking. Let them speculate. Most of the time, I use it for social gatherings for work. I prefer cold approaching than meeting online. There is a lot of communication lost in text messaging. There is no sexual tension. No fear of rejection. No way to witness your true self triumph in awkward situations. Only, the illusion of safety behind your keyboard.
/r/askTRP11/09/15 08:48 AM
5

The biggest advantage in having female friends is preselection. You can use them to get other girls. Also, it helps you keep your dread game alive when in a relationship. The disadvantage is that they make lousy friends. Their behaviors constantly change. They talk about themselves, venting off their feelings. Things that only interest them, reaffirming their solipsistic nature. Personally, my time is valuable. If I am not getting the advantages of their friendship, then I don't keep them as fri…
/r/askTRP11/09/15 07:43 AM
4

Dont judge a girl on what she says, judge her on what she does. If she was in love with you, why isnt she behaving like so? If she loved you, you would know it even if she is tired/sick. Wake up, and stop listening to her lies. Forget about dread. Right now you have to next her. You are not on her mind, and she is cheating on you mentally. It makes no difference if she already done so physically. Plan an exit strategy. Your happiness is not about her making you unhappy.
/r/askTRP10/09/15 07:33 AM
7

Because you seem like a fun person to laugh at." (Push & pull)
/r/askTRP09/09/15 02:28 PM
1

I agree with you. The reason for my post is to uncover any male hamstering.
/r/askTRP05/09/15 07:39 PM
1

Simple. You choose another woman who is hot and there is less competition. Why waste your energy on something that is not worth the trouble. This shouldn't be a problem to you if you don't have onetis.
/r/askTRP05/09/15 03:07 PM
2

Your anger means that you have fully grasped the reality. That is good news. People who reject the red pill are not angry. Time heals. Keep working on yourself. In time, you will start getting attention from lots of women that you will forget about your anger.
/r/askTRP05/09/15 02:50 PM
10

Don't play the dumb victim. You are not fooling anyone here. You know exactly what you did and made him act insecure. If you truly want to help your relationship, stop trying to control it. Go to r/RedPillWomen and seek their advice there.
/r/askTRP05/09/15 02:25 PM
11

He is a man with experience, He has been fucked over in the past and he is cautious. You have feelings about your exes, which justifies why he doesnt trust you. You on the other hand, are writing in this sub, to find ways to win him over. You are seeking answers to manipulate a man in a sub that awaken men from manipulation. Your audacity has no limits. You think you know what you are doing, because everybody has made you believe so. Know your place. Go to r/RedPillWomen and seek advise there.
/r/askTRP05/09/15 01:12 PM
1

You made mistake so you should correct this the soonest. The hassle is the price you pay for it.
/r/askTRP03/09/15 11:34 AM
0

You either eat to have a body of a plant picker, or a body of a hunter.
/r/askTRP02/09/15 03:30 PM
2

If you are vegan, then I GUARANTEE you dont have any gains. It is not a debate, it is a fact. Do your research. We cannot gain all the nutrients needed for muscle to grow from plants alone. Humans are not built to be herbivores. Vegan diet is another horseshit devised by todays society for people who cannot handle their diet and are sensitive towards eating animals.
/r/askTRP02/09/15 02:07 PM
1

From the moment we were born, we were destined to die. Should we roll over and fucking die, or die fucking?
/r/askTRP02/09/15 11:14 AM
4

Vegan diet means you barely have any fat or muscle. If you eat and lift properly, you will get more attraction from girls. Your testosterone levels will boost up. Your body, stance and voice will straighten up. You will learn to handle pressure and pain. You will make others feel that their behavior is wierd. Stop thinking what you already have. Every other guy has what you have. Start being more than that.
/r/askTRP02/09/15 08:26 AM
6

I agree with this. Innocent little girls do not exist. Op should read the "The manipulated Man".
/r/askTRP01/09/15 02:27 PM
4

Lift Read the sidebar Lift
/r/askTRP01/09/15 02:14 PM
4

Good post: These rules are the recipe for starting your journey in becoming an Alpha. However, most of those rules are ambiguous and you need experience to truly understand them. Reading them now, will have a different meaning, if you read them a year later. You will need to update them when the time comes. Furthermore, it is still a map and not the actual terrain. When you stop relying on the map to get where you want, you will be a true alpha. Learn to enjoy the process instead of putting rule…
/r/TheRedPill01/09/15 02:11 PM
1

Never doubt your decesions. She is still attached to her ex. She wanted to fuck you to regain her self-esteem. Probably wouldn't last long even if you fucked her. Your only mistake is to get hung up about this after 1 week. Find a better new plate.
/r/askTRP01/09/15 06:57 AM
5

Go to r/RedPillWomen to ask for advice. The RP has different goals for men and women. Men seek sex, while women seek commitment. The women there will have real expiriences with this and can help you. As for my advice, any kind of piercing not on the ear, signifies a red flag. On your rest of your body, is a big red flag. It shows that you follow your adventurous feelings without thinking the consequences. As for the rest of the questions, it depends on the kind of guy you are dealing with. You s…
/r/askTRP31/08/15 08:51 AM
1

Onetis can occur even when people are not sexually involved. It can also occur during the relationship. Alpha widows means "dumped by alpha". The incident happened in the past. And if any man conciders his woman more alpha than him, then, by all means, he can wear the "widow" title proudly. Love is not the same for men and women. This has left many women obsessed over their exes, and men feeling "in love" without any sexual involvement.
/r/askTRP28/08/15 01:31 PM
6

Onetis is generally used for men, to describe their deluded infatuation over a current, ex, or potential girlfriend. Alpha widowes are women who are obsessed with an high value ex. The ex have discarded them. In my mind the terms are completely different as men love differently from women. It is more difficult for an alpha widow to recover because there aren't as many high valued men. For men, any young woman can be a high valued one.
/r/askTRP28/08/15 09:28 AM
7

Post at r/RedPillWomen. There are women there who have shared your expiriences and will know what you will probably face in the future. As far as RP theory, you are the ideal fuck buddy, not the marrage material.
/r/askTRP19/08/15 10:24 AM
4

If you wanted to become important in your job, I would say you did the wrong move. Managers and bosses care about one thing : their companies. They don't care who is at fault, or who started it. These are childish behaviors. If you prioritize the well-being of your company, the managers will trust you more. This may lead to promotions in your favor. (Read the "laws of power" book) If you make the manager need you in his company, then you can start asking for favors. If on the other hand, the job…
/r/askTRP16/08/15 12:05 PM
1

The more you improve yourself, the more options you have in life. (skills, social circle, knowledge). More options = easier life. If you feel that your life is easy, then there is no reason for you to improve. And lastly, learn not to dismiss something because you dont understand it.
/r/askTRP15/08/15 08:59 PM
20

"Well, it is funny to me" and laugh harder.
/r/askTRP11/08/15 06:17 AM
3

You create sexual tension by being comfortable at being uncomfortable. You do not dissolve the tension, even if you feel uncomfortable (feeling awkward as you put it). Avoid things that break the tension, such as laughing for validation. Avoid looking uncomfotable, such as speaking quickly sudden moves and gestures, jerking while speaking, fidgeting, stiff body language. Create tension by, standing close to the girl, looking her into her eyes, speaking calmly (bedroom talk) and light kino when n…
/r/askTRP10/08/15 11:16 AM
4

Sweat looks great on women. It makes their bodies shine. Be it gym or sex, it doesn't matter. Focus on getting fit and bettering yourself. The rest are details.
/r/RedPillWomen29/07/15 11:40 AM
3

Women mostly use logic to get attention. However, it is not their norm, and requires more effort for them. It is easier to get the attention by using drama and emotions. Their ultimate purpose/goal of using logic is different from ours. Women will often assimilate notions and ideas from men they admire. It is not the product of their own rational thinking. They will use that to make commonalities in order to get accepted by the community. If they find something that doesnt fit with the logic, th…
/r/askTRP29/07/15 07:25 AM
3

That is not very original. What you said is exactly what every modern woman believes nowdays. Just count the number of "I"s and "me"s in your text. Masculine women attract feminine men, as what you so obviously stated in your post.
/r/RedPillWomen27/07/15 11:18 AM
1

Lift. Get your mind accustomed to pain and pressure.
/r/askTRP24/07/15 10:41 AM
3

Why do you need to talk? Why do you want to tell her what you are doing? If she cant provide sex through the phone, why do you offer your commitment? I'll tell you why. Because she has made you addicted to the compliments and positive emotions she is giving you. She is enjoying her vacation while you are left behind working. You feel the need to be rewarded for your effort but women do not acknowledge self-sacrifice. How would you feel if you were on vacation and somebody called you to remind yo…
/r/askTRP14/07/15 09:35 AM
3

You are right about breaking up with her. You hold your ground and never give in. This is your life and your choice. A wrong marriage will end your life. Women often have buyer's remorse when they are close to getting married. It is their last chance to get a better man. If she finds him, she will cheat on will. This is the ultimate test. If she goes, she is not worthy of your commitment. Men often forget how valuable this is. The only way to enforse boundaries is to take away commitment. Your b…
/r/askTRP09/07/15 06:37 PM
5

This comment is 100% spot-on. You should go for escalation. If she doesn't see you as a lover, she will alway's see you as the beta emotional tampon. Deep down, she will never respect you.
/r/askTRP09/07/15 04:55 PM
1

Think of the answers to the following questions: How many women have you been with before her? How can you compare her to other women? Have you ever picked up a girl without help from your mother. Have you achieved anything without the help of your parents/grand parents? Oh, and learn to use capital letters at the beginning of sentences.
/r/askTRP09/07/15 03:50 PM
2

Your ballbusting is too predictable and annoying. You are questioning yourself because you used to get a lot of positive feedback for this. Stop seeking validation through their reactions. There are two options. Either you drop the ballbusting and learn to be confortable without it or you continue ballbusting them to oblivion and dont care how they react.
/r/askTRP08/07/15 11:47 AM
1

You know why couples enter dance classes? Because the girl convinces the guy in order to make it easier for her to branch swing. Believe me, when I tell you that couples never make it through dancing. He is a beta who got convinced into dancing. She is a girl, desperately looking to branch swing. You are the first candidate who could probably make it happen. Forget what happened, keep going dance lessons, keep having enough sleep.
/r/askTRP08/07/15 11:31 AM
23

Women are not philosophers. A dude wrote the text in the bubble. A dude who is a beta, and wanted to get laid by making this. Life is not a cartoon. Everybody thinks for themselves. A woman will not waste her time coming up with an elaborate response to a guy who just met. Go out more and approach girls. If you did, you wouldn't question yourself over a cartoon. Negs work. PUA stuff work.Women are emotional and cant help themselves. If a girl points them out, just act dumb. Accuse her of being r…
/r/askTRP07/07/15 11:25 AM
1

"I actually like this girl". Like the other girls you had, you didn't actually like? You have no idea how many men have said this stupid phrase. All of them suffering from onetis. Grow a pair, accept defeat and move on. Hard next.
/r/askTRP05/07/15 06:12 PM
2

Sometimes, it is not the quality of the man, but the quality of the woman at fault. She does it because she knows that you consider your height a weakness. Let her go. You dont need a woman like that in your life. Accept the fact that she has rejected you. Get over with it as soon as possible and continue with your life. Onetis creates meaningless emotions of hope. Dont live in a fantasy. You know she is a girl that will branch-swing while you are watching her. Have that in mind, if she comes cr…
/r/askTRP03/07/15 01:26 PM
1

Find audiobooks and listen to podcasts. No reading, no staring at the computer screen and not pointless.
/r/askTRP30/06/15 11:17 AM
2

Why do you NEED to reply to everything she says with a witty comment? Do you NEED her good reaction? Do you NEED to be perfect? Your default response should be to ignore. Probably should have done the same for this post.
/r/askTRP30/06/15 11:14 AM
3

If a woman grows up without a proper father figure, she will never understand the importance the role of a man in the family. If she does not witness her mother trusting completely her father, she will never let a man make decisions in her life. She will never understand having boundaries and consequences of your actions. Women like her will end up making decisions on spontanious emotions leading their lifes to ruin.
/r/askTRP25/06/15 06:55 PM
8

Needle in haystack? Dont want to fuck it up? Onetis confirmed. What have you done regarding escalation besides talking?
/r/askTRP24/06/15 03:07 PM
7

This a great post and a good example to anyone that believes they can make a woman loyal through good sex.
/r/TheRedPill24/06/15 11:19 AM
13

Have you tried lifting and you failed? Have you got physical disabilities and cant lift? Why do I get the impression that you don't have a real excuse for not lifting? Must be the bad posture and body language that makes me believe so.
/r/askTRP22/06/15 11:58 AM
44

She was testing the cardinal rule of relationships: In any relationship, the person with the most power is the one who needs the other the least. It is not about the hair cutting. Dont focus on the context of the message. Women are more emotional than that She was testing how much you mattered to her. She was testing how much you can put up with. If you give her freedom, she will abuse it. You response is not what she wanted but it is the one she needed to keep the relationship.
/r/askTRP16/06/15 12:52 PM
1

Ok, so you are still a college student and only have a temporary job. Once you finish college and get a job, everything will change. You will be free to create the lifestyle of your choice.
/r/askTRP15/06/15 03:51 PM
5

Women's emotions are affected more from their environment. That is why you will see them decorate their offices/cars/homes with items which bring out their emotions. Same goes with things they wear. If they need to feel superior or higher status, they feel it by dressing up as high status. As men, we do not have this impulse as it serves no purpose. We are made to be more emotionally independant.
/r/askTRP15/06/15 02:05 PM
2

"So what? 18 year olds dont have a phone number?"
/r/askTRP15/06/15 11:21 AM
1

Do what you want and don't pay attention to anybody.
/r/askTRP15/06/15 11:19 AM
1

You have a job but you still live with your parents? Do they feed you and do your laundry? Do you understand what this does to you as a man?
/r/askTRP15/06/15 07:04 AM
3

I agree with this. Personally tried salsa classes.
/r/askTRP15/06/15 06:59 AM
4

She will be a good mother, until she gets "bored" again.
/r/askTRP11/06/15 11:08 AM
2

Sing to her "You are beautiful" by James Blunt. Kidding. Just say to her that she has a nice ass and you would really like to mess it up.
/r/askTRP10/06/15 08:38 AM
4

You talked for two hours. What about escalation? Did you touch her? Did you attempt to make her feel nervous? Did you sit next to her instead or across the table?
/r/askTRP10/06/15 08:01 AM
4

I would reevaluate why you want to be funny. Do you need for others to laugh with/at you? Are you a naturally funny guy? Do you want other people to perceive you as a funny guy? Do women laugh only when somebody is funny? Do they laugh for other reasons? Do they laugh to break tension? Why do comedians use uncomfortable material on stage to make people laugh? Did you know that you can make a girl laugh by being dead serious? Have you seen a girl laughing at everything a guy says just because he …
/r/askTRP09/06/15 02:02 PM
1

To enforce RP you have to be willing to sacrifice "friends" to live by your standards. You are dependent on her more than she is dependent on you.
/r/askTRP09/06/15 09:41 AM
3

Come on, you don't honestly believe you can beat hypergamy with fucking.
/r/askTRP08/06/15 09:09 AM
4

Women dont want to be responsible for having sex. They want the man to decide for her, or else she fears perceived as a slut. Your response made her conciously aware. Also, you killed the mystery and uncertainty, by stating that she has already won you over. Next time, pick your favorite cartoon quote and say it as your answer.
/r/askTRP08/06/15 08:55 AM
2

I agree with this. If you are speaking ill of your coworkers, it will only come off as you being the troublemaker. Gossiping and reducing peoples opinions is not something that men do. You will defend yourself when accused and try to always better yourself.
/r/askTRP08/06/15 08:26 AM
3

Your post is hilarious. I like how you say that you are going to give her the best sex she has ever had by allowing her to blow you. Seriously though, you seem have a lot of expectations on whats going to happen and that might backfire if things dont go according to your plans. You are horny and you believe you can keep her by giving her the best sex. You cannot make a woman loyal with sex. Sometimes, the sex a woman needs is not the best she has ever had, but the one that feels she is not yet w…
/r/askTRP08/06/15 06:57 AM
14

Oneitis comes when you forget how awesome you are. You should always love yourself more than you love her.
/r/askTRP04/06/15 07:54 AM
29

And that is why you never discuss Red Pill or PUA theories to anyone.
/r/TheRedPill03/06/15 01:27 PM
1

You should have blown some kisses to her every time she looked at you.
/r/askTRP03/06/15 11:39 AM
1

Yoi should have asked for money to buy a new one.
/r/TheRedPill03/06/15 11:36 AM
2

Yes, listen to her hamster. Good idea. Let it decide what is serious and not. Let it decide that you will buy her ice cream, movies and dinner. Let it decide that you will never fuck.
/r/askTRP03/06/15 11:21 AM
1

He is a bragger so he has a weakness. He wants other people to listen to him to feel important. You exploit that by pretending that you find what he says interesting. He will not believe you at first and be suspicious of your behavior. You have to be convincing that you truly find what he says interesting. If you feel butthurt by him, it will show. You have to be trully happy for him. Keep at it until he trusts you and let his guard down. It may take some lectures before he does that. After that…
/r/askTRP03/06/15 06:23 AM
2

There is a way to deal with this professor. However I would advise against it as I know a lot of cases where professors were the reason students dropped out of college. Read the laws of power and learn to accept your hierarchy position instead of getting caught up on being alpha.
/r/askTRP02/06/15 01:11 PM
1

How much of my attention does she need to stay invested until August? Wrong question. Correct is: Who will I keep fucking until August? You are trying to control her into being loyal. You should be looking out for yourself and not for others. If she really misses you, she will follow you.
/r/askTRP29/05/15 01:55 PM
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It is not the fat women who are ruining the dating scene. It is men with low standards who would fuck them. If there was no market for fat women, there wouldnt be any. Social conditioning is to blame
/r/TheRedPill29/05/15 01:50 PM
1

How long have you been lifting? I get the impression you are one of those guys who haven't closed a year in the gym and expect results.
/r/askTRP25/05/15 11:42 AM
19

She already found another guy and was thinking about it during the shower. It doesnt matter how hard you fucked her. It is irrelevant. Move on.
/r/askTRP25/05/15 11:12 AM
-1

Here is whats going on: She is afraid you will resort to porn so she made one herself. She does not want you to see other women, even in porn. That way she enforces her belief that she is in control of your sexual satisfaction.
/r/askTRP25/05/15 07:53 AM
5

I want to take that 'ripped' notion you have and smack you on the head. The only RP truth in this is 'rejection is better than regret'. Only this time, you are doing the rejection because you have put her so high in the pedestal, you cannot see her. You are thinking too much of what she is thinking. (In the past and future). You want her to stalk you in the future. Ugh!! Realize that you will never be 'ripped' enough for her in your mind RP is a short term strategy. It says "I want to fuck you, …
/r/askTRP21/05/15 03:19 PM
10

This is called 'make you the villain' behavior. She wants something she cannot have. It may be more control over the relationship or another man. She pushes you to make a wrong decision so that she will justify her actions by your behavior. If you get angry at her tantrums, you are an abusive asshole. If you say you are sorry, you are weak and she will disrespect you. If you get emotionaly hurt by her, it means that she is better then you. All women want to make the man feel in ruin when they le…
/r/askTRP20/05/15 12:39 PM
6

Simple. Start getting laid, with or without her.
/r/askTRP19/05/15 01:30 PM
4

Best advice I could give you is to avoid getting drunk next time.
/r/askTRP19/05/15 01:28 PM
6

Sometimes she has to fuck around with the penguins in order to realize that she is attracted to sharks.
/r/TheRedPill19/05/15 11:38 AM
4

There is one thing about RP that you have forgotten about: You have to be desirable by other women. Getting ocassional flirts from other women or having other plates solves that. It also erases any neediness (sexual and emotional) while at the same time, makes your girl insecure and jealous. You become the prize. You are in your early 20s, so you should be out there getting expiriences with other women. Dont waste your time on one. You will find better, you just dont know it.
/r/askTRP19/05/15 06:37 AM
1

She is probably swinging branches. Most girls will only end their current relationship when they have secured another man. Act ignorant as it does not consern you. It will concern you, only if you decide to be in a relationship with her
/r/askTRP18/05/15 11:33 AM
3

Your girl was good to you back then in order to feel less guilty on what she was about to do. The best way to enforse boundaries is to take away commitment. You didnt know back then but now you do. The moment she asks to go on a vacation without you, you should accept reality and stop deluding yourself. You should have ended things then. Also, 3 weeks is a long time without sex and you have to consider your own needs first.
/r/askTRP17/05/15 12:43 PM
3

Here is the problem. You think that you have to be faster and better to pass the tests. This creates a subconscious need to prove yourself over others. Don't do this. You are playing a game that it is rigged against you. The best way to pass tests is to not acknowledge their significance or existence. Learn to stop playing their game. Move on and stop following their words for a good response.
/r/askTRP16/05/15 04:12 PM
2

You cut them from your life and go down your own path.
/r/askTRP16/05/15 03:57 PM
1

Difference between an LTR and a plate are the boundaries of commitment. Men often forget how valueable your commitment is because they do not see it. It is this however that most girls are after. Only way to enforce boundaries is to take away your commitment
/r/askTRP14/05/15 10:17 AM
1

One vital behavior is to show appreciation. You reward people for doing things for you. An asshole wouldnt bother with this.
/r/askTRP14/05/15 09:59 AM
3

Being an asshole is disregarding others feelings, opinions and needs. Being Alpha involves getting what you want when you want it. Being an alpha asshole is easier. However, it cannot be applied in most social situations which you depend upon others (like work). There are ways where you can still get what you want without disregarding others.
/r/askTRP14/05/15 07:10 AM
1

You define how important an event is. If you laugh it off and give little meaninig to it, then it is not important. If a guy leaves his contact info and leaves, he is a fool and deserves your ridicule.
/r/askTRP13/05/15 01:24 PM
2

Your reply is perfect. Now, if you do live by those words, I see no problem.
/r/askTRP13/05/15 07:09 AM
6

RP is useless unless you learn how your mind works. Most things that hold us back are in your subconcious mind. Once you are honest with yourself and identify your weaknesses you can take steps to eradicate them. That is why you may be RP, but can still be subconciously emotionaly affected by onetis. That is why meditation and a lot of spiritual awareness works very well. Subconcious thoughts have existed in our minds before our ancestors learned language to express our thoughts.
/r/askTRP09/05/15 01:54 PM
2

If vaginimus keeps her from giving you blowjobs, then your diagnisis is wrong, and you are a fool to believe it.
/r/askTRP09/05/15 12:37 PM
1

When life gives you choices, always think about your regret if you choose wrong. If you go to college, you will regret your time and money you put in order to find a descent job. In case you dont like the job, you will have the option to find another. If you dont go to college, you will find a job with no qualifications, but It will be harder to go back to school while working at the same time.
/r/askTRP09/05/15 12:20 PM
11

Problem with a lot of alpha widows is their self entitlement. This will sabotage a lot of her attempts to find a solid relationship. Feminists have conditioned women that they dont need to change their lifestyle in order to be successful. As a result, they walk around expecting the queen's treatment, when they neglect the fact that they have to work on themselves. When she finds a new guy, she will not be fully into him because he is not the Alpha ex. As a result, the guy will try to fix the rel…
/r/RedPillWomen08/05/15 01:23 PM
2

Get rid of her. She is worthless as an LTR.
/r/askTRP08/05/15 12:15 PM
1

Body language, what you wear or where is your photo taken might be giving out wrong impressions.
/r/askTRP08/05/15 12:09 PM
1

You played their games your entire life. After you get over what a big fool you are, you learn to play by the new rules and you learn how to win.
/r/TheRedPill07/05/15 03:06 PM
2

Looks like it is a shitty boy cockfest ciclejerk group to me. I wouldnt be surprised if all members of the group are below 23. I suggest you leave the group and find yourself through solitude. That way, you will reevaluate your standards on what qualifies for someone to be friends with you.
/r/askTRP07/05/15 11:35 AM
1

The stuff you have been reading should be used from the moment you start talking to her, instead of offering assistance to help move out her stuff. Start first by setting your goal to fuck her. You do not have to be friends with her. You can talk to her as long as you escalate. You have to get something in return of your time. From there on, if she is not interested, you move on.
/r/askTRP07/05/15 11:20 AM
0

No, you need time for your muscles to recover and grow. Also, five months is not a long time to expect results.
/r/askTRP07/05/15 10:09 AM
1

Rejection can happen at any point in the interaction until you have sex. It is not only in the beginning.
/r/askTRP06/05/15 05:02 PM
5

When you are a child, it is different. They encourage you so that you will live fully to your potential. You are not going to criticize a 3-year old's drawing. But for men, this stops after a certain age but continues on to women as part of flirting.
/r/RedPillWomen06/05/15 04:55 PM
3

Complements are part of flirting. It is the equivalent of when a girl is laughing/giggling to a high-status mans remarks. It doesn't mean that he is funny. It means that the girl approves and likes him. Same goes with compliments. Men compliment girls to show that they approve of them. It doesn't mean that the compliments are sincere. It means that they like you. Don't try to confuse things.
/r/RedPillWomen06/05/15 04:48 PM
3

Do not worry about this. This is normal and all men experience this more or less after ejaculating. It is a "moment of clarity" where you loose all the aggression and obsession about the female body. Probably you also have it when you rub the bald monk, but you didn't notice it as you are busy cleaning up. Goes away after a few minutes.
/r/askTRP06/05/15 04:24 PM
2

You are negging before an actual conversation takes place. Guys get nervous around a girl and cant handle the pressure. As a result, to protect their egos, they reject the girl before the girl rejects them. Negs should never be used to avoid pressure. Stick in the interaction, handle the pressure of potential rejection, create a conversation, and then proceed in throwing negs.
/r/askTRP06/05/15 01:55 PM
1

Its a big flag of insecure girl trying to find a man desperately. She is starving for cock, any cock.
/r/askTRP05/05/15 03:24 PM
1

When you first texted about meeting on Wednesday, did you specify noon? Or was there any change of her beleiving it was for tonight. Also, from what I see, you are spending more and more time listening to her problems instead of fucking.
/r/askTRP05/05/15 03:19 PM
1

You are caught up too much on using A&A as a tool. A&A is more like the spice, not the main dish. The main dish is to be stoic and unaffected. Stop rewarding your woman for her bad behavior. Stop trying to do things on her to get her proper reactions. She is controlling you because you are attached emotionally to her reactions.
/r/askTRP05/05/15 03:10 PM
1

If you insist on going after her, I wont stop you. You are entering her world by meeting her friends. This by itself is not good for you. Find other more important reasons than her to return. Dont commit to her. Answer with a "We will see".
/r/askTRP05/05/15 01:16 PM
1

Its not your text game at fault. It is the whole nature of LDRs. She is closer to other males and has already hooked up. She just realized that she is going to be unable to keep it a secret as you are coming to visit her. She asked why you are coming back: she is not keen on you coming back and wants to know if you are going to continually coming back in the future. She wants to meet her friends: one of them is your Chad Thundercock.
/r/askTRP05/05/15 11:37 AM
1

First thing on my mind as well: pussy on a pedestal
/r/askTRP05/05/15 11:26 AM
2

You feel anxious because you are fake. You are trying to find sex through friendship, and it will be as ackward as you believe it will. Stop that. You have to go out and meet new women. Women who are friends with you are not honest and will lie to you in order to not hurt your feelings. Strangers on the other hand are more honest and can reject you on the spot. If you want to practice kino, join a partner dance school. That way you will become familiar with touching women.
/r/askTRP05/05/15 11:23 AM
1

Actively ignoring a person is still concidered butthurt. Just keep the interactions and emotional connections to a minimum. You have to become more assertive. Think about what you want out of the interactions (hint:sex) and stop providing free lessons and emotional shit.
/r/askTRP04/05/15 12:27 PM
3

The more a person knows you, the more difficult it is to change your opinion about you. In the early stages of the interaction you should have been more alpha than ever. Now that you have demonstrated the opposite, you will require more effort to convince her otherwise. That is why most people would prefer to next, as it is not worth the effort. (Especially when you have other choices). Dont act butthurt for her flakiness.
/r/askTRP04/05/15 11:46 AM
2

If she is in your social circle, probably you will meet again and have a chance to nail her. If she is attracted to you on hitting on other girls, keep on hitting on other girls. She tried to control you and you broke free. She tried to come of as the price and you threw her away. This is definetely a win. She was used to you being the pursuer which lowered your SMV in her eyes.
/r/askTRP02/05/15 08:54 PM
1

He is a fool for trying to address and convince women with logic. He behaves like he is on the stand, trying to defend the men from their angry wives. Neverthenless, good attempt.
/r/TheRedPill02/05/15 08:30 PM
37

Whether she cheated or you or not the problem. Dont focus on the physical act. Problem is that she seems to have lost respect for you to the point she is suggesting cheating. You see, you have lost her respect, which means that she can cheat on you at will. Dont reward bad behavior. Best way to enforce boundaries is to take away your commitment. Apply dread, and start thinking about your exit strategy.
/r/askTRP02/05/15 12:20 PM
2

No matter how hard they try, they can't change a biological instinct engraved in the majority of men through millions of years of evolution.
/r/TheRedPill30/04/15 02:10 PM
7

This is why fatties have a lot of self confidence. Because they find insecure succers like you that will bang them. If nobody would fuck them, then they would be forced to loose weight.
/r/askTRP30/04/15 02:04 PM
2

"Alright, your loss". Refrain from showing that you are emotionally upset about it. Dont act like a bitch. Problem with your way of thinking is that you wait for her to respond to what you say. Stop doing that. Tell her to come to your place to fuck or dont come at all. Men with options dont care for responses. If she doesnt come, there is always another girl to fuck. If she is not motivated to seeing you, assume there is someone else. Find a girl that is into you. Ps: Veto her veto
/r/askTRP30/04/15 11:43 AM
2

You are giving too much attention to what girls say. 99% of the things they say are useless and meaningless to you. The same goes for shit tests.
/r/askTRP30/04/15 11:11 AM
2

The delusional entitlement she perceives over men is what drove Jake off. He doesnt have time to deal with crazies.
/r/TheRedPill28/04/15 07:57 AM
2

Next time, take care of the logistics. From whar I see is that it is a matter of time before you fuck her.
/r/askTRP27/04/15 11:19 AM
2

You are delusional. Tell her to go to the gym and meet her friends and dont come back. Stop rewarding bad behavior.
/r/askTRP27/04/15 06:20 AM
7

This is tough because it spells out that she has already cheated on you. Don't pay too much attention on how you respond. You should be planning an exit strategy instead. Her biggest satisfaction is seeing you crumble as you try to fix a relationship that is already broken. Instead, just walk away.
/r/askTRP26/04/15 12:12 PM
1

So, you prefer to raise her pedestal and succumb to onetis instead of believing in RP. Do that and tell us how it works out for you.
/r/askTRP26/04/15 12:02 PM
-4

Free spirit my ass. The behavior she is displaying is typical to those who have rode the CC well enough in their lives. She is a pro, and she is broken. She is smart and is using her wits against you. She has manipulated men for a long time to the point that she is planning ahead of you. She is filtering her behavior, to make you confused. Trust your feelings when you come across these shady behaviors. She is not that into you. She knows about RP, and she is behaving oppositely to try to confuse…
/r/askTRP25/04/15 02:14 PM
3

Correct. Make a decision and take action. Dont let her decide for you.
/r/askTRP21/04/15 12:14 PM
3

The only way to fix a relationship is to be willing to end it immediately. Why? Because it shows that you are BETTER OFF WITHOUT HER. Women want to create things in order to justify their beliefs. If she leaves and you are miserable, it justifies in her mind that you were not good enough for her. If you are happy and dont care if she leaves, then she is not good enough for you. Dont be emotional about it. Say want you want, and if she cant provide, look for someone else.
/r/askTRP21/04/15 11:40 AM
2

You are putting her on a pedestal, if you are thinking of being careful on how to respond. Learn to say "No". Stop thinking about how others will think and start thinking for yourself.
/r/askTRP21/04/15 11:22 AM
3

I see no problems so far. You are already aware about their self conciousness as a slut since you suggested a movie. What might have been the issue was your timing. After kissing and feeling her up, you suggest going to your place for a movie. She knows whats up, but she wants to have as little responsibility as possible on deciding her fate. Because it happened after the kissing, she was more self aware of what was going to happen. As she is walking to your place to get laid, she will be consta…
/r/askTRP16/04/15 11:32 AM
1

Not integrity, more like boundaries. It is a sexual strategy that stops people from taking advantage of you, and start taking actions to satisfy your needs. Morality and integrity are labels used by society to control your actions.
/r/askTRP16/04/15 11:17 AM
2

A hot woman is as incapable of shoveling a car as an elderly person. The problem is the interpretation of the help. The elder person will acknowledge kindness as you have nothing to gain from the help. A hot woman will defaultly make the reason why you help her. Both however can take advantage of your help. There is a saying: No good deed goes unpunished. A good way to counter this is to ask payment for the help. Offer to get a blowjob behind the bushes before helping her if you truly want to ge…
/r/TheRedPill15/04/15 11:44 AM
2

Ask yourself, who is more likely to empathise more: The parent or the child. The child is incapable of understanding the responsibilities and sacrfices a parent does for it. If the parent fails, the family fails. An angry teenage child blaming their parent's shortcomings for his acceptance by his peers is by far incapable of understanding the situation. If a child says that it understands what the parent goes through, it is likely that it more sympathises with them instead of empathising.No matt…
/r/askTRP14/04/15 09:48 AM
4

Stop focusing on the stupid excuses she uses to manipulate you. Women don't feel sorry for any man. She is broken. She is still addicted on the abusive behaviour her ex displayed when he was high in drugs.
/r/askTRP14/04/15 07:50 AM
1

It is easier to make a girl your girlfriend if you have already fucked her. She is more emotionally ( and physically) invested in you. Problem is, your need for emotional connection will kill off the attraction she has for you. For the time being, just fuck her and be cool with it. Dont bring up commitment. She will bring it for you. After that, dont judge het by what she says, judge her by what she does. Judge her on how many sacrifices she is willing to do for you. Judge her on how much attent…
/r/askTRP13/04/15 02:21 PM
1

Try to get over the anger phase because it is keeping you back. One thing is to realize, women are using you. Another thing is to anticipate that they are going to use you, and you use them instead. You should take what is offered to you and use it for yourself. That said, if you liked her, you should have fucked and dumped her. Its her decision to cheat on her fiance, its your decision to fuck her.
/r/askTRP13/04/15 12:54 PM
5

Dating is more like playing cards. You cant win all the times but you can become an overall better player. If you dont have the expirience to figure out what you did wrong, you should stick to the basics: Dont put her on a pedestal, kino and lead her to sex, dont do favors for her without anything in return.
/r/askTRP13/04/15 12:32 PM
2

You have to learn that women think backwards. Women first react to their emotions, then try to make up a logical explanation on why they feel that way. This is how the hamster works. You expressed your feelings and killed the attraction. She felt that and proceeded to find logical evidence on why she feels that way. That is why she thinks you behave like an asshole. If you hadn't expressed your feelings and still was attracted to you, the situation would be different. You would behave like an as…
/r/askTRP10/04/15 01:31 AM
2

This is not just a trip you go somewhere and come back. This is a way of life. You have to constantly push yourself to break your confort zone. That is how confidence works. If you stop doing it, you will loose it.
/r/TheRedPill08/04/15 11:09 AM
1

Your friend's hamster is sabotaging itself. Don't give a straight answer. Let it spin and do the work for you. Act like nothings special.
/r/askTRP08/04/15 11:04 AM
40

There is your answer. Duty sex means that she is not into you. You cannot negotiate attraction. Dump her. If she asks why, tell her that she is not into you. That is the truth. Find a woman that will love to fuck you and dont settle for anything less.
/r/askTRP08/04/15 10:55 AM
3

Have you fucked this girl yet? How do you plan on fucking her if you love and respect her? Are you going to "make love"? You should resent the power she has over you. Use it as a fuel to hate her and fuck her properly.
/r/askTRP06/04/15 11:07 AM
7

You don't ask the fish how to fish. You ask the fishermen. The fishermen who have enforsed strategies through trial and error and have found ways to reach their goals. The fishermen who have different methods for different fish. Not the fish who has observed one method and got caught.
/r/askTRP05/04/15 11:57 AM
1

The more serious you are about something in your life, the more it matters to you. If you put women on pedestal, you will want to have serious logical conversations with them. However, women despise men who take them seriously because they want men to have something more important in their life than them. By being amused, you show that you don't take them seriously and their little worth they hold in your life. Another method besides amused mastery is to ignore/change the subject in the communic…
/r/askTRP02/04/15 11:44 AM
12

Like they know what a man is ....
/r/TheRedPill02/04/15 11:05 AM
2

He was baiting her with commitment. Nothing more.
/r/TheRedPill31/03/15 11:40 AM
9

Great job. BTW, a good reply for "you're gonna have to put some work if you want to get to me in bed" is "only if you are worth it". She now has to prove herself to you.
/r/TheRedPill31/03/15 11:31 AM
2

You can't really thank the Red Pill if you clearly say you don't need it. You are just a hypocrite. BTW, Your post is a good example of hamstering.
/r/ThankTRP29/03/15 02:18 PM
1

How would you act if you had already another plate? That is how you should act. Dont give her much attention, dont show that you hate her, dont show any emotion at her at all. If you had another plate, you wouldnt care less what she does with her life. The fact that she tries to get in contact with you through this other girl, shows the outcome of her goofy decisions.
/r/askTRP26/03/15 11:13 AM
4

Its one thing to be ok with polyamory, it is another to have a strange man take advantage of you and your assets. He can let his wife go with other dudes, but he should be going with other girls as well. Biggest mistake was that he is trying to prove his wife that the other guy isnt worth shit. Now, the wife knows that he is insecure about him
/r/askTRP24/03/15 12:21 PM
1

Typical scenario. Girl likes you. You dont believe her and do not take her seriously. She keeps pursuing. "Wait a minute... This girl might actually like me". You change your behavior and take her seriously. Girl understands that she has got you and attraction is lost. Get it through your thick skull that it is you who has first changed your behavior. Not her. Women respond differently when you ignore them or dont take them seriously. They pursue people that dont value them. They base their valu…
/r/askTRP20/03/15 11:59 AM
4

So she is saying she will reveal it at the end of the first date. Don't see a problem with that.
/r/askTRP20/03/15 11:34 AM
4

I believe your answer is already found in one of the iron rules of Tomassi, at the sidebar.
/r/askTRP17/03/15 02:09 PM
2

I keep facebook to have a list of people I know. Ocassionally, I use it to go to planned events as some are organized there. However, I login around once or twice per month. I don't use it to spend time on it. People who message me are aware of that. Facebook is filled with attention seeking girls and beta orbiters posting images of cats and dogs showing of their sensitive emotions. I get sick of it easily.
/r/askTRP17/03/15 12:29 PM
6

Actually I matter, for myself and that is the only thing that matters.
/r/TheRedPill17/03/15 12:09 PM
1

The female mind works differently than the male. There is no value. There is only preselection. Women dont care what you do or who you know. They only care about other women especially if you are wanted by other women. However, do not let her hold you back. If you dont want her around, just behave like a beta bux in front of her.
/r/askTRP16/03/15 03:08 PM
1

Most Rpillers had been through terrible life expiriences that would have been avoided if they knew the RP truth sooner. You need one of those terrible expiriences to get you motivated to the right direction.
/r/askTRP16/03/15 02:58 PM
1

Make her work for it. Ask her to do something for you and if she agrees, reward her by inviting her in the party. That way you test her willingness to submit to you.
/r/askTRP16/03/15 10:37 AM
2

Women only try to bring you down when they think that you are better then them. You have to be better than them if you want hypergamy to work in your favor. Doesnt matter how and if you respond to them or not. What matters is if they affect you emotionally or not. Once you realize that most shit tests are based on their emotions and evaluating their self worth, you will learn to ignore them.
/r/askTRP16/03/15 10:13 AM
1

You handled the situation good. However, text game gives you time to think and reframe what you say. If you had oneitis with her, you might still feel needy towards her, especially you meet her in person. If you believe that you can handle this, by all means proceed.
/r/askTRP12/03/15 12:18 PM
4

Alpha is not only about being flirty. In my case, I am honest in my work environment. I will not go out of my way to chat with them, as most of them are boring. If they try to chat me up, I reward them with a little attention. I don't go out of my way to please them or make them happy. This job is reserved for the rest of the beta orbiters in the company. When I talk to them, I look them in the eyes. I have no problem creating sexual tension. If they smile, i smile a little. I have no problem as…
/r/askTRP12/03/15 08:35 AM
10

Don't get so hanged up on skirts. Go for clothes that cannot be worn by both genders.
/r/RedPillWomen10/03/15 10:25 AM
14

You have to appear more feminine in order to attract the more masculine. Men are attracted initially by looks. Are your habits compromising your femininity? Do you wear boyish clothes? It is a good think you keep your hair long, but do you wear skirts? If you give out a tomboyish first impression, men will asume that there is something wrong with you. (You might be a lesbian). You have to counter this by wearing more feminine clothes. Do you hang out with boys? Their masculine personality is rub…
/r/RedPillWomen10/03/15 09:53 AM
11

Evolution. Men have evolved to manipulate the environment, women have evolved to manipulate men. Men have evolved physically and mentally to navigate through the environment, hunting for food. Women were left at home due to pregnancies and taking care of children. As a result, women have evolved with less "environment" manipulation skills. They are not that good nor they are interested in this. They have evolved on having a man doing it for them. Women have evolved into understanding emotions. T…
/r/askTRP05/03/15 09:14 AM
3

They are underage to understand the dynamics between men and women. When they become teenagers, there will come an opportunity to discuss RP. I know you are eager to explain to them the circumstances that lead you apart. You must focus on having a good time with them and create positive expiriences for now.
/r/askTRP04/03/15 04:45 PM
2

Withholding her attack is the best solution for most common cases. Crazy women will accuse you of anything regardless if you touched them or not.
/r/askTRP04/03/15 04:20 PM
3

Revealing personal information is a form of rapport building. By saying something personal (origins, job, relationship status), you are submiting yourself for the interaction. You are submitting to the girl. Especially when asked in the beginning of the interaction. Do not let them corner you. Say something funny and change the subject. Try to withhold personal information as much as possible. Obviously eventually you will tell them the truth. They just have to fight for it.
/r/askTRP04/03/15 03:27 PM
11

You cant hit her, but you should defend yourself. When she goes for the attack, grab her hands and hold her wrists till you make sure she stops. Men have stronger arms and can easily hold a woman's hands down.
/r/askTRP04/03/15 08:55 AM
9

Woman's role is to be approachable. Men's role is to do the approaching. Be approachable and after that you decide whether the man who has approached you is ok.
/r/RedPillWomen03/03/15 01:46 PM
7

The more feminine you look the better. If you wear a skirt or a dress, it is better than a pair of jeans. It is the same as shirts worn by men. Keep your hair long an go for clothes that cannot be worn by both genders. Keep yourself fit.
/r/RedPillWomen03/03/15 01:37 PM
2

You have already decided what you want out of life at 19 years old. You have a lot of expectations in life and a lot of dreams. Whether you have a career or not, none of that matters to us men. In now days, most women start life with a lot of entitlements. Being a strong willed women is not a bad thing, but it will cause problems in your sex life. Men want feminine women, women who will not argue and be easy to reason with. Don't let your demands keep you from opening up and accepting your submi…
/r/RedPillWomen03/03/15 12:47 PM
1

First thing you must learn is to ignore their disinterest. Their opinion shouldn't mean anything to you. Do not question yourself or show hesitation in your eyes. Second, be willing to sacrifice the interaction. Saying things that will make her mad or embarassed that could jeopardize the interaction. This shows that you dont put her on a pedestal and you dont give a shit about the interaction. Be intimidating. Read more RP material to discover why this works. Lastly, put your needs above hers. D…
/r/askTRP02/03/15 09:42 AM
1

Man's actual looks has little to do with his SMV. If he uses his looks to get fame, fame will increase his SMV. Being preety gets you fucked. In ancient times, preety boys got fucked. They were not icons in billboards for other men to be envy.
/r/askTRP02/03/15 09:19 AM
0

She is having an obsession with her boss, she is attracted to him. He has no problem expressing his sexuality and does what he wants.
/r/askTRP02/03/15 08:17 AM
3

She knows you too well. She knows what your limits are. She is manipulating you and you don't even know it. She is using the 'guilt' manipulation tactic very effectively. You only care about her feelings instead of your principles. You are trying to make her happy while she treats you like shit. Give her the behavior she needs instead of the behavior she wants. Get ready for the next level of manipulation tactics like crying and playing the victim.
/r/askTRP01/03/15 02:16 PM
0

There was a time when I was still trying to deal with rejection, before discovering the Red Pill. I could remember the pain and fear when I got treated bad by women during approaching. It felt like a big bunch in the gut. However it was something that helped me psychologically. One time, I approached a set of two girls in the club. As I was talking to them, the girls acted in a bad attitude and I immediately sensed the interaction going wrong. The memory of getting hurt by rejection made me stop…
/r/askTRP01/03/15 01:26 AM
1

If you are not interested in keeping the girl, then what you did is irrelevant. However, it is better to soft next a girl as she may regret her decisions. Do not let her hamster find reasons why she left you. Let her regret her own actions instead. The facebook message gave her reasons for not seeing you.
/r/askTRP28/02/15 01:47 PM
6

She has no expirience so she hasn't realized that she will eventually get bored. You, on the other hand, should go on with your life and find other girls. Once she sees you getting other girls, she will realize her mistake more.
/r/askTRP28/02/15 12:39 PM
6

This will create a problem to you because: In order to get a woman you need to be better than her. To be better than her, you must always put yourself first. For that, you need to have other priorities than women in your life.
/r/askTRP27/02/15 02:44 PM
3

Women don't think, they 'feel' the situation. In her mind, she can imagine you as a superior man. They guy who never questions the situation and makes the woman feel powerless in his presense. Every time you are feeling good about something she said, you are compromising that fantasy. Every time you are hurt by her shit tests, you are compromising that fantasy. Everytime you think she is more important than what you have going in your life, you are sabotazing yourself. Lower the overall value of…
/r/askTRP27/02/15 12:30 PM
1

The following method has worked for me but I am not sure if it will work for you. The more you think about her the harder it is to stop. That compromises your thoughts because you expand energy for her sake. This is the result of what is the 'pedestalization' or oneitis. When time comes to act, you will be unable to act clearly as you haven't invested in your well being. Best method to counter it is to focus on yourself and your goals. A woman born with good looks and a goofy hamster is no match…
/r/askTRP27/02/15 12:13 PM
1

Both
/r/askTRP26/02/15 04:09 PM
2

You looked emotionally affected by your reply. You showed frame so it might slide. The biggest mistake is you agreeing her with her reschedulings. You gave the impression of eagerness and she sensed that.
/r/askTRP26/02/15 12:42 PM
3

You need more expirience with other women. You cannot evaluate your relationship clearly because you haven't been with other girls. Since you cannot compare her with other girls, you cannot define what is special about her. On the other hand, you are not confident enough to approach new girls. This affects your overall confidence. Saying you can get a girl is different than getting one. Lastly, you know what the future holds for your relationship. You know that you will eventually split up. Work…
/r/askTRP26/02/15 12:35 PM
0

To get a girl you have to be Alpha. Once you fuck her, then she can become an LTR. It is never the other way around.
/r/askTRP25/02/15 05:25 PM
1

Exactly my thoughts.
/r/askTRP25/02/15 05:20 PM
5

No woman is naive. Every one of them is born with better manipulation skills than men. Your job is to decide whether you want to fuck her or not. It doesn't matter if she does her goofy tricks on you. They should not affect you.
/r/askTRP25/02/15 05:17 PM
2

You drove out of your way so it has some kind of effect on you. For me, pussy is not as important as trust and respect. She has disrespected you, so you have to cut her off. Pussy is everywhere so you can find another bitch to fuck.
/r/askTRP25/02/15 02:34 PM
3

You should not care if the girl thinks you are a beta. You should not care if you have fucked up. You should not care if you will eventually fuck up. You should not care if you are unlucky and they whole universe is against you. What you should be thinking is that there is nothing in the world that will prevent you from fucking this girl, not even her. Treat it as a big shit test in your life you have to ignore.
/r/askTRP25/02/15 11:57 AM
4

I am more concerned on why you decided to waste your time with a girl you didn't fuck.
/r/askTRP25/02/15 09:26 AM
1

You are blinded by the positive emotions you are receiving from your plates. This makes you unable to tell if you are unaffected by them or not. You seem to be lacking control. Does your "game" include alcohol? You have to make concious decicions that will break from your betaness. Can you say something mean or offencive to these hot bitches? I suggest trying to find hot bitches outside your social circle and try to be mean to them. Make your mind understand the worst case scenario so you will b…
/r/askTRP24/02/15 03:27 PM
1

Reconsider your nutrition if people cannot tell if you are working out. Also a year of lifting is a little early for major results. Keep lifting, sleep well and eat well for best results.
/r/askTRP24/02/15 01:48 PM
2

Before you start to run, learn to walk. Go to the gym, train your body, interact with the people there. Lift weights, get stronger and more aggressive. Look people in the eye, look yourself in the mirror. Make gorilla noizes when you lift. Handle the pressure of people watching you. Handle your thoughts and stop thinking what they think about you. Eat healthy, stop eating too much at night. You will become more drousy after an intense workout. Sleep on time. When you get stronger physically, you…
/r/askTRP24/02/15 12:46 PM
11

Simple, do something else than sitting by your phone waiting for a text. Find something more interesting to do.
/r/askTRP24/02/15 12:38 PM
1

As a man, the advice I can give you is to eat healthy and keep yourself fit. Make yourself available to public. I have seen many cases where women lack the conviction to change their habits. The sooner you start doing it the better.
/r/RedPillWomen24/02/15 12:12 PM
1

Sleep more, find new hobbies, get out and approach girls to get your ego butthurt. That will wake the dormant emotions in you.
/r/askTRP24/02/15 09:21 AM
2

You let things slide too many times. You should be stronger than this. RP is more about what you want. "Its my way or the highway". You are afraid of loosing her that you didnt fight for fucking her. You setttled for sleepovers. When she was begging you to stay, you should have put the condition of fucking her. Now that she knows what you are capable of, she got bored. Next time dont be afraid of pussy.
/r/askTRP24/02/15 09:14 AM
5

Obviously she is having second thoughts about your relationship. She maybe be comparing you with someone else, it doesn't matter. She is starting to believe that she can get better men than you. When a woman thinks that she is better than you, you should have to bring her down and make her insecure. Hypergamy works this way. Your response about her face was a good one because it gave her the impression that you are still better than her. However the best tactic is dread-game. Make yourself look …
/r/askTRP22/02/15 07:48 PM
-1

Perfect post.
/r/askTRP22/02/15 07:37 PM
8

The reason you failed has nothing to do with what happened at a certain point of time. It is the overall impression you gave to these girls. The more time you spend with them, the more they understand your personality. And if they get the impression that they can push you around, they will. The problem is that you let these women sabotage their dates. The first one was cold because she was probably not confident with herself (in contrary with her profile pic). You not noticing and not saying tha…
/r/TheRedPill22/02/15 07:29 PM
2

As an alpha man with high SMV, you should be wondering why you are still putting up with this girl. There is no morality here. Women will use your morality as a way to manipulate you and this case is no exception. Thinking that it is "bad" to leave a girl because she has depression is just you falling for the victim act. Think about it this way: What would she have done if you were a man with depression? She would have left you on the spot.
/r/askTRP22/02/15 05:59 PM
1

The difference is whether you are afraid of them or not. Example, in the gym, I focus on my workout, but there are times where women follow me around to out of curiosity. Now, I never put women above my workout so I tend to ignore them. But in case they ever cross my path or start a conversation with me, I put them in their place.
/r/askTRP21/02/15 10:21 PM
1

You have to start seeing things from a different perspective. Confidence is always hindered by your own perception of other people. Imagine going for an interview, and the interviewer has a turd on their head. Imagine trying to keep a straight face as the interviewer asks you why you want this position while pretending to make little scribbles on their notes. I am not suggesting that you start laughing at your interviewers. I am saying that you have to realize that you give power to other people…
/r/askTRP21/02/15 02:39 PM
1

Girl: Lets make out. Guy: Ok Girl: Lets dont tell anyone about it. Guy: Ok Girl: Let stop staring at each other and act awkward. Guy: OK Fuck that. It isnt her who decides what happens. It is you. So next time decide to fuck her or get the fuck out.
/r/askTRP21/02/15 01:21 PM
1

"Lol ok". This is very funny response. It shows how she tries to cope with you rejecting her. She will have to come up with something to believe that there was no rejection. If she tries to contact you, it will be probably to repair her ego. You should hold frame and do not let her befriend you unless she is willing to fuck you. Guide her to fuck you.
/r/askTRP21/02/15 01:08 PM
3

This is funny. You gave her the option to decide what works best for her. She smelled insecurity and tries to reastablish frame that she is allowing you to meet her. Most modern women are like that. They will always try to give the impression that it is a priviledge to meet with her. You have to establish strong frame to break their delusional ego. The stupid look on their faces when you do.
/r/askTRP21/02/15 12:54 PM
1

She is feeling very comfortable with your relationship. She knows that you can yell and nothing will happen. You have to invoke fear in her that what she does, will have concequences. Unless you are willing to risk the relationship for this, you wont have the upper hand.
/r/askTRP20/02/15 02:13 PM
2

Women say whatever they are feeling at that particular time. It is not based on logic. Then the guy posts a small post without any other information expecting a logical answer will solve the issue.
/r/askTRP20/02/15 08:38 AM
2

Go for the number, however you have to realize something crusial: She will think that she has some control over you when you do. You have to have a strong frame that will put her in her place. Also, do not get delusional in believing that you are the only one receiving those IOIs. She has done it before and obviously is a master at it.
/r/askTRP19/02/15 12:20 PM
2

There will come a time where pressing the same button over and over again, it will become boring and predictable. Keeping frame and attitude are always superior to techniques.
/r/askTRP19/02/15 12:01 PM
1

Every situation is different. I am more focused on what gave the impression to my peers that they can order me around. How long do these people know me? Do I come off as a guy who is usually pushed around? Have I ever said NO to their requests? What is the worst thing that could happen If I did? Did you know that sometimes you gain respect by saying NO? Is it malicious, to impress a girl or is it something done without thought. Have I ordered them back in the past and complied?
/r/TheRedPill18/02/15 10:30 AM
1

Say that by revealing your past will only create jealousy and there is no point going there
/r/askTRP17/02/15 09:07 AM
4

Iron Rule of Tomassi # 2 NEVER, under pain of death, honestly or dishonestly reveal the number of women you’ve slept with or explain any detail of your sexual experiences with them to a current lover.
/r/askTRP16/02/15 10:35 AM
1

The more you expect from the interaction, the easier it is to get shot down. Now imagine the same situation speaking to the girl and imagining a big turd on her head during the interaction. Suddenly, you can think of many things to say and amuse yourself.
/r/askTRP13/02/15 08:06 AM
1

Oh come on. Start being honest with yourself. You went out of your way to pull out your earphone when she was just "lingering". She is trying to enter your world. The effort is on her and not you accepting her offer. If you dont want her presence, just make her feel unconfortable when she does her wotkout. Worst case scenario: you create sexual tension.
/r/askTRP11/02/15 04:03 PM
4

Sorry dude, but I cannot relate to what you are saying. In my expirience, she should at least have another dude she is comparing you with to make the decision of breaking up with you. This however is irrelevant. You should be focusing on what you are thinking instead of what she is thinking. Be more assertive and try to get things out of life for yourself and stop being concerned about getting in other peoples happiness. Nobody cares about your happiness, so why should you care about theirs.
/r/askTRP11/02/15 10:31 AM
1

State theory is an old consept by RSD. It is not a good consept because it makes you believe you are not worthy unless you are in state. The correct way to think is to believe that you are worthy even when not in state. Change you pickup reading material bro.
/r/askTRP11/02/15 10:14 AM
3

Correct AWALT and AMALT. Love or hate it, it is like a game. Learn the rules to learn to win. There is no reason to hate your opponent because you didn't know the rules.
/r/RedPillWomen11/02/15 10:09 AM
4

Dude, you still have to learn more about women. The best thing in your life is you breaking up with her. You were dependant a lot on the emotions she gave you. But these emotions were all yours to begin with. It is like when you get a blowjob. It is not the woman that is making you feel good. It is the chemicals released in your brain after having your dick touched. Are you going to surrender to these chemicals as you are surrendering your life now? If you are seeking connection get a male frien…
/r/askTRP11/02/15 09:54 AM
1

Lift
/r/askTRP10/02/15 12:58 PM
1

Your biggest fear is your worst enemy. Unless you are willing to risk the relationship, you don't stand a chance of being the Alpha. The more you give in to her cries and stupid remarks the more you loose your freedom in the relationship.
/r/askTRP10/02/15 12:30 PM
3

RP is not some philosophy someone made up and the rest decided to follow. It is an. realization and interpretation of everyones past expiriences. It gives reason and motive on why men behave like men and why women behave like women. A lot of RP people are angry. That is because we were deceived and wasted our lives blaming ourselves, trying to hide our masculinity, and obeying the laws of the female imperative to find some love. In the end, we are quite sad because you realize that women will ne…
/r/askTRP08/02/15 07:39 PM
6

Choosing you career and life because some jobs are considered more attractive to women than others is like bending over and asking the universe to fuck you. You never let others dicide your life for you.
/r/askTRP07/02/15 03:13 PM
3

Again with this. How come you are having sex with her and she is not? How come that you use her for sex and she is not.
/r/askTRP07/02/15 03:04 PM
1

You always work on yourself. If you are intimidated by beautiful women, you work on your fears. Anything that puts you to a tight spot or gives you a disadvantage, you challenge it. You work through pain in gym to be stronger. When you believe that you have a long way to go, you fight your disbelief. Its all in your head. When you see the entitled woman sitting like she is the best woman you have ever seen trying to control you with sex, you crush her world by making fun of her. You put your vie…
/r/askTRP05/02/15 11:58 AM
1

Who gives a shit about the impression your room gives. It is not her place to judge. Men do not rely on the environment to feel good about themselves. It does not affect our mood. Women, on the other hand, are affected by the weather, the environment and all kinds of things to make them in a good mood. You room is not creepy, it is just a man's room.
/r/askTRP02/02/15 12:17 PM
2

It's not the morality aspect that I am against. There is no morality in sex and love. Women rely on sex and manipulation because most of them have nothing else to offer. The need to manipulate their man in order to make him change the car tyre. They cant do it themselves. Men on the other hand have so many skills and qualities which seldomly need to resolve to manipulation tactics. This is why I see manipulation as a feminine type of game which always revolves around the ' victims' actions.
/r/TheRedPill22/01/15 01:50 PM
0

Depends on whether you see their 2 o'clock meeting more important than yourself. Best types are the ones who put effort. The more effort they put to smile, ignore or look away, the more they are attracted to you.
/r/askTRP22/01/15 10:36 AM
5

Hear are some guidelines when you make eye contact with women as they are walking towards you. Follow them as the Alpha and Omega. If they hold eye contact, that means they want you If they look down, that means that hey are submissive and like you If they turn their face sideways and pretend that they are not looking at you, it means that they expect you to make all the moves because they like you. If they they laugh or smile when you wink at them, they desire you If you blow creepy kisses at t…
/r/askTRP22/01/15 08:25 AM
11

The best way to use this book is to help you realize how you can be manipulated by others, instead of manipulating them. This describes exactly how women behave to manipulate men. Most of the techniques come natural for most women as they are better in manipulation than men. However, this is a very feminine way of dealing with people. The author doesn't realize how obsessed they are with their 'victim', reacting and gauging their actions depending on the victims actions. This dependancy is somet…
/r/TheRedPill22/01/15 08:01 AM
2

TRP encourages self improvement. Anything you do to improve yourself is the best option. Dont focus on women. Focus on improving yourself. Body and mind. The fact that women dont understand your mission is due to their own nature. Their only goal is to assimilate your successes. In a relationship, they treat the successes as the successes of the couple. They dont realize the hard work and the complexity that you personally invested your life with. That is why the only threat to them are only oth…
/r/askTRP20/01/15 10:44 AM
1

Depends on your definition of happiness. Lets assume you mean the shallow form of mentally rewarding yourself through some chemicals released in your mind during fucking. Women are not a destination in life and should never be your ultimate goal. Women depend on the man's happiness to be happy. They will constantly drag you down, testing you to see if you are man enough to stand on your own. It is not malicious, its just their nature of what they do. Women will always try to take away your happi…
/r/askTRP19/01/15 12:34 PM
1

Especially in their sweet mini skirts.
/r/askTRP09/01/15 11:31 AM
1

If you are a white guy, send a picture of a black dick and tell her that its is yours. Have fun with it.
/r/askTRP09/01/15 11:27 AM
1

Honestly, I used to idolize Pickup Artists like Mystery or David D Angelo. The excitement and confidence they used to project motivated me. Antony Robbins also was a great example of people I used to look up to.
/r/askTRP08/01/15 02:39 PM
6

"I know" would be my reply.
/r/askTRP08/01/15 12:40 PM
0

Looking up to someone, and cosidering something as manly are two different things. The first is preety staightforward and I could think about some people I wanted to be like. The latter, is something crafted from our society to control our way of thinking. For me, the word makes no sense. We are all men and anything saying otherwise does not make sense.
/r/askTRP08/01/15 12:33 PM
2

The "external" factors. Right. From what I understand, all these external factors are coming out of her mouth. There are no external factors. She is just not in to you. She has deluded you so much, that you come in here posting them as valid reasons. My guess is rhat in your effort to be more attractive, you displayed emotional dependence on her. Your logic about the girl finding a way is correct.
/r/askTRP08/01/15 12:21 PM
10

Do not defuse it by you backing down. She must back down whatever happens. You do not want her to stop getting upset. Trust me, this is healthy and she should always feel insecure and reminded that other girls can take her place. The moment you comply and she feels secure, is the moment she will start loosing her respect for you.
/r/askTRP03/01/15 02:21 PM
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Girl that goes out with multiple guys knows how to give you the impression that you click so well. You have fallen in love for her deception. To fuck a girl, you dont need to like her. You dont care if she likes you. The main purpose of dating is to escalate her and not to talk about similar interests.
/r/askTRP28/12/14 11:41 AM
2

All people who have gained respect have one thing in common: they are not afraid to make people hate them. In your effort to not get bullied, you forgot that some people will never like you, and that is ok. Dont try to gain their respect. Personally I would have ridiculed the bitch in front of her peers to learn respect. I wouldnt care if she hated me after that. Do not try to be your "good" self in front of others, it is not worth it. Be polarized. Do what you thing is important to you and stop…
/r/askTRP03/12/14 12:02 PM
3

Give her logic to come to her senses. Sex involves two people. She is using you as much as you are using her. In the end, she will blame herself for feeling like that. Her objective of this conversation is to test the waters. She is gauging the situation because she is going to be asking for more out of this in the future.
/r/askTRP01/12/14 10:33 AM
3

His wife suggested the idea....I guess that she wanted to eliminate the competition and destroy his chances on dread game during his work.
/r/TheRedPill28/11/14 09:14 AM
5

Sounds alot like the things I say to the guy who always looks at me behind the mirror.
/r/TheRedPill26/11/14 02:09 PM
0

As a man, I am amazed how women overlook how important it is to be in shape. It is an attraction factor, just as a taller guy is more attractive to women. Desire is something generated from external factors first. Just as you will not eat a meal that does not look fresh, the same way I dont "feel"like having sex with a woman who is out of shape. How much "bit" of weight did you put on?
/r/RedPillWomen25/11/14 07:59 AM
3

The numbers which you are getting, what do you do with them?
/r/askTRP24/11/14 12:22 PM
2

Great post! This is exactly what RP is about.
/r/ThankTRP24/11/14 12:17 PM
1

A boat cannot be claimed unsinkable unless it is tested in the water. What you write in your post is absolutely correct. However, I have seen often that most people avoid confronting their environment and deluding themselves. So when you mean "no effort", and "better than the game" I get the impression that you are avoiding the effort. You must keep confronting people, make them do your bidding, manipulate their will and be ready to make them hate you, before claiming that you do not care about …
/r/askTRP22/11/14 04:06 PM
3

You have to realize that when these things happen, the only way to deal with them is to be ready to split. The only way to save your marriage is to be ready to risk everything. Call a lawyer, secure your assets and then confront her. If she believes that she can still disrespect you and senses you that you fear her, your life will be a living hell. I will assume that your faithfulness has made her feel accustomed to you. Flirt with other women and counter her dread game with your own. Stupid bit…
/r/askTRP21/11/14 02:09 PM
6

You are overanalyzing it. Eye contact creates tension, the animalistic fear that she is going to get fucked. You need that in all interactions. Thing is that often women feel shy or are extremely sensitive to pressure and will break it. That doesnt mean she is not attracted to you, or she has made the concious decision to fuck you. It means that the guy talking to her is capable of fucking her.
/r/trpGAME20/11/14 12:09 PM
12

Your post gives the impression that you are trying to make yourself feel special. However, by posting it here, you are doubting yourself, contradicting how you describe yourself in the post. What do you really want to get after this post?
/r/askTRP18/11/14 12:36 PM
1

Stop paying attention to what this girl says and judge her by her actions. If she is not fucking you, then you are not attractive enough in her mind to fuck you. Wake up.
/r/askTRP17/11/14 04:33 PM
3

You are in denial. You behaved like a little child when you rolled away and things didnt go as you expected. You justified your reasons for sending a text message, although you know that it is the wrong thing to do. You can never control the behaviours of a girl. If she does these things to you, you should hold your ground. She has disrespect you, and now you are showing that you are chasing after her. Even If you believe that you didn't break frame, by your actions, in her mind she has already …
/r/askTRP15/11/14 05:15 PM
2

Well, if your social status is defined by those girls, then the problem is elsewhere.
/r/askTRP15/11/14 04:59 PM
5

Exactly my thought. It is the same when they leave shit at your place after spending the night with you.
/r/askTRP15/11/14 04:55 PM
9

One thing you did great is that you never stopped trying. Never loose that. From my perspective, your greatest problem is alcohol. I never drink too much when I go out as it always clouds my judgement. Learn to be confident by not relying on alcohol, and all the problems and mistakes you do will be clear to you.
/r/trpGAME15/11/14 01:58 PM
2

You should have a decent car. Even If you have a good car, you avoid mentioning it as it will get passed on as you qualifying for her. It always comes down to, if the type of car you drive affects your confidence. Girls who care about the value of your cars are goldiggers. If you like goldiggers, the more expensive the better. If you can't get the girl to like you, at least she will fuck you for your car.
/r/askTRP12/11/14 12:39 PM
1

Simple, you have to be screwed by life for you to get over it. Imagine her treating you nice during the day, making you feel special, you listening to all her problems, asking you to help her, making you smile in anything she says and does, spending a lot of time together. And in the night, she goes out for a drink and gets gangbanged by three unknown dudes with large dicks because it just happened. The next morning, with the same mouth she blowed the last guy, she smiles at you and gives you a …
/r/askTRP11/11/14 04:20 PM
8

This is classic. You are her emotional rebound guy. She is fucking other alpha guys, who are constantly testing her value as a woman. Whenever her self esteem goes down, she goes to you for emotional support because alpha guys dont really care about this shit. She wants to keep you in contact because, in her mind, you will always help her emotionally in the future. And when the time comes when she hits the wall, you are a good option for being a provider
/r/askTRP11/11/14 08:01 AM
1

A good relationship always has the girl feeling insecure. However.. How dare she decides what is deserving for you. It is not her place.
/r/askTRP11/11/14 07:46 AM
1

Somewhere along the relationship, you have demonstrated that you want her more than she needs you. After filling the applications, she realized that her future will not involve you and is trying to break up. Accept that you will break up eventually and there is nothing you can do about it. You do not want to force her in a relationship if she doesnt want you. Problem is, she wants you to make the decision so she can rationalize in her mind that it was your decision and not hers. That way she wil…
/r/askTRP10/11/14 10:23 AM
6

http://m.youtube.com/watch?v=l8OjoUA0b7g
/r/askTRP10/11/14 09:04 AM
1

There is a way to deepen your voice and it does not involve drugs or diet. It is just like any other muscle in your body. You have to train it, properly. What you do, is to get out to places where you have to yell, like night clubs or stadiums. If you go out and yell, the next morning you will have a slightly sore throught. That is the trainings work. If you keep doing that, your voice will naturally default to lower pitch tones. Your body will train itself to use less energy to resonate your vo…
/r/askTRP07/11/14 07:08 PM
1

You are too concerned if you are needy. Chances are you already showed that to her.(sending her a lot of messages or always informing her what you are doing). You are afraid of her leaving you. You are changing into a man that is different than the man she fell in love with. You are "falling in love" (onetis) with her and it is blinding you and paralyzing you. The only solution to your problem is to have a plan B. That means having other girls to fuck in case she leaves you. If you did, you woul…
/r/askTRP06/11/14 07:41 AM
1

Because it is in the nature of a woman to try to take the power. Because of their hypergamy, they want to bring the average men down, in order to get the high valued ones. Inferiority complex. Subconciously, they know we are better than them in everything we think and do. They know it and they hate it. Because women love the attention, and some want to boost their career. There is a minority of women, who because of a past trauma or their sexual preferences, they hate men. Example are all the wo…
/r/askTRP31/10/14 09:17 AM
1

You have the correct mind and the right game. From here on It is all about fine tuning. Your statement above is logical but you forget that women do not function on logic.
/r/askTRP30/10/14 02:18 PM
1

You make the outcome uncertain by teasing the girl. Just as you are about to kiss, you break free. You do not let her enjoy it, and most importantly, you do not let her know that you want it. That will make her crave for it, but at the same time, make her uncertain whether you will fuck her or not. She should feel that you are able to fuck her at any moment, but you choose not to. That way you keep the tension. You release it when she is at your house and about to fuck. When I do this, the girl …
/r/askTRP30/10/14 01:51 PM
1

You acted correctly, most of the time. You had enough game to lay this girl. However, there are external factors that influenced the outcome. It could be something silly such as unshaven legs or she is on her period. It is like a good poker player, who knows how to turn the odds in his favor, but sometimes the cards have been dealt against you. What you can do is focus on becoming a better player.Having more plates will make you less eager and emotionally invested on the outcome of the situation…
/r/askTRP30/10/14 10:04 AM
1

This is a very silly question. You just always escalate when they want you to orbit around them. That way they will either comply or never call you again to orbit.
/r/askTRP29/10/14 03:27 PM
14

Trying to play it 'safe' will not get you anywhere. You have to escalate steadily until she says No. If she does, you say calmly 'ok' and you move on to other girls who are not wasting your time. If she is making you wait for sex then it is not worth it. Do not be her emotional buddy. Seeing you with other girls will make her want you back even after rejecting you. I know that you have abundance in you dorm but try to develop these skills now as you will not have that many oportunities in the fu…
/r/askTRP27/10/14 02:42 PM
9

I get the impression that you spend a significant amount of time trying to chill out with the girl instead of actually going to fuck her. She has feelings for this guy because you haven't fucked her yet. Dont be around to listen to her problems and emotions and try to think what you want out of this. You are however doing the right things by not obeying to her demands and you should keep that up.
/r/askTRP27/10/14 01:50 PM
2

Agree. Right now you are on your way to learn one of the most important and painful lessons life has to offer. Expect it, so be ready when it happens.
/r/askTRP25/10/14 02:50 PM
3

Whenever you try to rise up, there will alway's be people to try to bring you down. If people are insulting you, then it means that what you are doing is working. When aiming above mediocrity, people will either love you or hate you. Live with it and embrace it.
/r/askTRP25/10/14 12:11 PM
1

Exactly!
/r/askTRP25/10/14 12:01 PM
7

"Women's power is in your fear what they gonna do." Patrice o Neal. Accept that she is not special, and behaves like any other girl.
/r/askTRP25/10/14 11:53 AM
2

Yes you are right. I don' t listen to my sister or my mother's problems. I know first hand the results of my actions. That is why I keep doing them. Women use communication for manipulation even when you least expect it.
/r/askTRP25/10/14 10:46 AM
2

It is a good thing that she is saying that. It means that you gain more control in the relationship. This makes her more attracted to you but at the same time she feels she becomes more powerless and might loose you. On the other hand, you are questioning yourself if you did the right thing or not. This means that she has some significant control over you. Do not take her comment seriously. Don't give in. It will take time and effort to restore the balance of your relationship.
/r/askTRP25/10/14 10:20 AM
2

No, you didn't. You asked sarcastically for self pity with a nervous "ha ha" at the end.
/r/askTRP25/10/14 09:30 AM
0

Search within yourself to find your answer. When asked for advice, how easy is it for you to just say "NO, I don't care about your problems". If you have trouble saying that, than it means that you are getting your validation from those women. Most probably you are, because no sane man would undergo the ordeal to listen to their problems without any form of physical reward. Women pick up on this, and that is when you start getting friendzoned. Cut this shit, it is 100% beta.
/r/askTRP25/10/14 08:58 AM
5

She has disrespect you with not showing up, and she is disrespectful by giving you a lame ass excuse. Dont reply and next her.
/r/trpGAME25/10/14 08:20 AM
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