How to built a group from scratch?

lieutenantdong · 2021-06-10T13:24:17+00:00

Assuming you mean group of males. Men get together to do things. They dont sit around drinking tea and gossiping. Even if they sit and have beers its in front of sports or fishing. Find something you enjoy and other men like doing. Then throw in some competition, rip on each other. Like anything in life, to attract people you gotta be fun or have value.

Alot of good groups are usually forged when younger as you went through life experiences with them.

RedEyeBlackEye1 · 2021-06-10T17:55:53+00:00

1) level up your looks, swagger, masculine body language, posture, amused mastery, abundance mentality, and learn to make eye contact(smile, and small talk). Learn to shoot the shit with dudes, but most importantly FLIRT WITH WOMEN. When dudes recognize that you a HVM who attracts women, they naturally have 2 responses. They either want to hate(and show you up) or they wanna be your homie(sometimes the "homies" ARE the undercover haters, peep game).

2) AFTER you've sufficient done step 1, Dudes will want to "be cool" with you all damn day(everyday, almost everywhere you go). If you're the type who likes hanging with dudes(and dealing with the extra bullshit, sneak dissing, group dynamic power struggles, backstabbing, NONSTOP VETTING, cockblocking, hanging with weak links that take up time, sitting around drinking, time wasting, and hinder progress, etc). Then go for it.

3) NOW, you could either create a ragtag group from random dudes that try to be cool with you or you could go to Meetups or gathering of dudes with similar hobbies(then form your own little clique amongst them).

4) start hosting your own get togethers and inviting the collection of dudes you've befriended, see who shows, gain more male bonding experiences amongst them.

Warning! A homie today could be an enemy(with inside knowledge) tomorrow. NEVER TRUST ANYBODY COMPLETELY, OP.

Good luck, OP.

daniel_orourke_mma · 2021-06-10T13:35:20+00:00

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danaw1992 · 2021-06-10T19:36:35+00:00

1 person at a time. Then leverage the connections. There will be a lot of people who you actually don't like so just keep up at it.
What are your interests? Gym? Meet people there.
THere are some good posts about it in the main sub.

ktheguy · 2021-06-10T14:24:05+00:00

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Title	How to built a group from scratch?
Author	wolfsbane1995
Upvotes	6
Comments	9
Date	June 10, 2021 1:12 PM UTC (5 years ago)
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