Matched with this girl, we had a lot of shit in common and sex was great. It was kool vibes. For a month we hooked up. She would be off and on, on communicating, but I was super busy myself so it was not like I was waiting around for text. Sometime she’d respond quick other times hour. She would hit me with the “I really like you” bs talk all the time. I didn’t like that cause she was like that in person and like I said would disappear at times. As if she was playing the “not going to text back for x amount of time”. After we hung out like 3 times in the same week, the following week she just ghost me.

At first it was shitty to get no explanation, then it’s whatever because I didn’t need her validation and I got over it. (I’m a curious person naturally so I had to really fight that). I gave it a week with the two minimal attempts to reach out cause it was pre finals week and I’m sure she was studying and finishing up classes. The following week nothing and I decided to just next her.

Fast forward like 3-4 weeks and I start getting incoming transmissions from this girl. So I’m thinking thats weird and she’s just acting like we chilling.

How should I proceed, should I attempt to smash or just be like F off?

I found a new plate, albeit insane but she fine and I’m not tryna wife or anything. And I go to the gym and just recently graduated. I just find it hard to let go cause I’m genuinely curious about it even though I know I shouldn’t be. Should I try and get a reason from her? I doubt it will be anything meaningful and she just found a new guy and now it fell apart, coming back for that good D 😂. I’m making a joke, chill. (looks like I just answered)

Advice is welcomed.