This is a question, not a guide.

I'm seeing this girl, who is a high-functioning autist, similar to myself, and am escalating with her, but very slowly.

I see her just about every weekend, as I have to work during the week and she's looking for a new gig.

Last night, we were at her place (as I stay with my parents while I'm here) and escalating, at which point, she said that it was time for me to go.

This is probably the 2nd time we've been together, so perhaps I'm being unrealistic as to how fast one generally proceeds towards the bed? Any thoughts, gentlemen?