So I don't really know how to handle crying.

It starts at the point where I don't know if she is really crying or just beeing overly emotional. But I guess it's overly emotional 99% of time because you know, I'd cry if a family member dies but I woulnd't for 99% of the shit she crys.

I give you an example. Important side notes: * I injured myself and had to stay at home for some days. * We see/meet 3-4 days in a week but she lives in the suburbs one hour from ma city * She goes to school and is just a few weeks away from her graduation. So lots of tests right now. * We are both vegentarians, but she wanted to try out a vegan diet while it is christian fasten times. * She "paused" going to the gym because she has so much to do and want's to focus on school.

The day before the cry. She comes over, we have a great time, she is so kind to do my laundry and cooks some food and then she asks me, if it is ok to stay at my place because she can learn really good at my place. I'm fine with that and so it goes on. Then out of the sudden she says to me she will ditch that vegan diet. (Thank god I tell myself, but I'm also a bit dissapointed that she's ditching a goal, because it's "to hard")

The day of cry. So after waking up I wonder what is she still doing in my bed, as it is nearly 9 o'clock and she should be at school. I go to the shower and listened to my gut. It told me something ain't right. It told me that he is happy that he must not digest vegan stuff anymore, but that she gave up on that is fishy. And that she paused going to the gym is fishy too. So I decided to face her with my thinking.

The facing Next thing is me doing a supergreat not vegan breakfast and sitting down with her. I told her, I'm a bit in worries because, I don't understand what is happening. I say to her: "You "paused" the gym. You gave up vegan diet, but you can play videogames with me and why the hell aren't you in school? You have a test tomorrow, you should be in school studing. I'm worried about all the giving up and you becomming more of a jogging pants nation people." While I tell her that, she is all cool and after I finished, she asked if I'm finished and then responded quietly: "I told you I paused gym because it takes so much time and I need that for studying. Also I'm staying away from school today to study more on a specific subject. And that vegan diet is just going up to my head. Also I have to help my mother so much at home." to this point she allready crying like a fountain. "I like beeing with you at your place OP, I can just forget about all the hard things and just chill out a bit, but when I need to study, I can do this here. I'ts just so calm here, no family running around demanding my time,..."

I then comforted her because it seemed as she is really having a bit to much pressure. But I don't know. I'm kinda dissappointed of all the giving up/pausing...