I am really not good with socializing with people online. I'm more of an in-field kind of guy. But with money restraints, I wanna pull online or even in text but I need a lot of work. Any tips and reminders about this?

How it usually starts is that there's initial attraction, and then I fail some shit tests cause I'm so focused on the conversation and then I end up looking like a thirsty beta haggling for pussy. I look back on the conversations where I think I sound Alpha but in reality I sound like a beta trying to act alpha