Ive got this girl, younger very fun I like her I give her tingles she gives me pitty patters in my chest, however I like being alone sometimes and I failed to establish boundaries early on.

She comes over all the time. I mean ALL the time. I am not comfortable with this and usually I say "hey im busy" and she backs off. However last night was uncool.

I was sitting down about to play this video game I had been waiting on, I dont have much time to play due to social obligations, working out, sleep and other real life things. So looking forward to three hours of alone time to play this fairly immersive game was really kind of high on my list of things I wanted to do on Thursday night. So I sit down healthy snacks laid out, water laid out, lights off sound system calibrated, disc in tray when BING BONG doorbell. Great. Shorty had a row with her mom and wants to hang out with me. Great. Except the game I am not in entertain the girlfriend mode I am in recharge my batteries mode. I do not want to fuck I do not want to cuddle. I seriously just want to fuck off in my boxers and be disgusting. I have to put a lot on hold when a girl comes over to my place. I like my place to be clean, I like to have activites that keep them entertained and more importantly I want to fuck, If I am not in the mood to fuck I dont want to hang out.

Either way so I play the nice host but she is shifiting this to bed TO SLEEP and I want to stay up. So I push for a BJ, She is too tired so I play it cool get up and grab a book i was reading. She curls up on my chest and blocks the book. Seriously? I ignore and read until i am tired the second my head hits the pillow her alarm goes off because she "doesnt want to sleep over". She then spends the next thirty minutes hitting snooze every 10 minutes. I say "baby do you have to go?"
she replies "5 more mintues" EVERY FUCKING TIME.

I get up make bowl of ceral it is now 10:30. Get out. please for the love of god.

SHe 'wakes up' screaming 'baby where are you'
Im in the kitchen babe. "what are you doing"
eating why dont you cuddle me because I am hungry. Dont you have to go? "I thought we were going to bang" SERIOUSLY!

I kept my cool fucked her then told her Id see her for our date tomorrow and to have a good night and she finally left. However fuck I am angry. She was like an uninvited guest, and while I normally like her interrupting my day to say hi or have a fuck fest during lunch, I was seriously not in the mood for that shit last night and I am now all fucking pent up because I didnt get my alone time I needed to recharge. How do I handle this? If I say "I like to be left alone" she will overreact however she doesnt pick up on social clues. Next time I am just not going to answer the door.